JustPearlyThings - She Agreed to Being DELUSIONAL

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00:00:00.960 No matter what you've been through, what decisions you made,

00:00:04.900 it doesn't mean that you have to be treated less than anyone else.

00:00:09.640 And to be honest, in my delusional world,

00:00:14.600 there are women who have been...

00:00:19.740 Actually, I don't even know if they've been ran through, to be honest.

00:00:22.080 But there are women who I know have probably dated a lot of men

00:00:26.340 and they're treated a lot better than even me.

00:00:31.780 I'm still trying to learn from them.

00:00:33.260 I think arguably because they are...

00:00:35.000 They're courted well.

00:00:36.260 Well, arguably because they understand men.

00:00:38.520 Yeah.

00:00:39.000 And they understand, they take time and they've taken time

00:00:43.400 to learn the perspective of a man about what he likes, what draws him in.

00:00:47.720 So you saying like, oh, I don't need to understand men, right?

00:00:51.320 That's why you're not seeing a correlation between the value of

00:00:54.780 how a woman might have been promiscuous.

00:00:56.560 Yeah, she's getting men to treat her that way.

00:00:58.140 That's because she understands the perspective of men.

00:01:01.620 So if you want the same results that they do,

00:01:04.200 because I get it, because you're thinking,

00:01:05.500 oh, I've not been that way yet.

00:01:06.700 She's getting the thing that I want.

00:01:08.180 She's getting the marriage.

00:01:09.740 She's getting the guy treating her how I want to be treated.

00:01:13.220 But I think what that is showcasing

00:01:15.420 is that if you want a man to be investing in you

00:01:19.180 in the ways that you value,

00:01:20.720 you need to understand what he wants.

00:01:22.580 You need to incorporate those things into your being

00:01:24.880 when you're with him.

00:01:25.640 Otherwise, you're never going to get that result.

00:01:27.440 I do have a question for you.

00:01:29.120 Do you desire to be married?

00:01:32.400 I'm not really, I'm not bothered.

00:01:34.320 If I find somebody worthy and somebody...

00:01:36.780 Basically, basically in my life, there's only two options.

00:01:41.160 I'm either going to stay happily single or happily married.

00:01:43.920 There's no in between.

00:01:45.220 I'm not doing any unhappy or divorce or anything like that.

00:01:49.960 Okay, so my second question for you.

00:01:53.300 If you had...

00:01:55.340 When did you ever have like an idea

00:01:57.280 of when you wanted to be with that person

00:01:59.900 for the rest of your life when you were younger?

00:02:02.080 Well, in my 20s,

00:02:03.400 I was with somebody for like five, six years.

00:02:06.080 Okay.

00:02:06.520 Yeah.

00:02:06.940 And then...

00:02:07.720 He must do what?

00:02:09.040 He?

00:02:09.800 Oh, she?

00:02:11.200 I don't know.

00:02:12.300 God damn.

00:02:13.120 What?

00:02:13.560 Yeah, so after being in that...

00:02:16.920 Because me, I've been in relationships from 16 to 20.

00:02:20.020 I was with someone.

00:02:20.880 Okay.

00:02:21.200 Then from 21 to...

00:02:24.400 I'll say 28 on and off.

00:02:26.600 Okay.

00:02:27.220 I was with somebody.

00:02:28.400 So...

00:02:28.880 And my plans changed within those situations.

00:02:33.940 Okay, so my final question for you is

00:02:37.040 if you had essentially a blueprint

00:02:40.800 and say, this is your plan.

00:02:43.580 You want to be with this person this time, this age.

00:02:47.500 You can achieve it if you have XYZ

00:02:50.980 and one of them is having a less body count

00:02:55.460 or not having as many sexual partners

00:02:57.800 as Sally down the street.

00:03:00.700 Would you do that to obtain the goal that you want?

00:03:06.060 Yeah, probably.

00:03:07.880 Okay, so that's essentially...

00:03:09.300 That's essentially what it is in men's eyes.

00:03:12.680 If you have...

00:03:13.880 If you want to be as a value

00:03:16.580 to be able to achieve the goal that you want in the end,

00:03:21.380 you can't have...

00:03:22.780 You can't be ran through essentially

00:03:24.180 and that's something that they value.

00:03:26.980 It's weird.

00:03:27.820 I'm telling you.

00:03:28.500 That's fine.

00:03:28.960 I used to think that like,

00:03:30.700 I don't really need to value that, blah, blah, blah.

00:03:32.360 But it's just something that...

00:03:33.660 I can fully understand and appreciate

00:03:35.620 that men want to value that

00:03:37.360 and that's really good for them.

00:03:39.120 And I can understand why they value it as well.

00:03:42.320 I can completely understand why they value it.

00:03:45.480 But I'm saying that

00:03:47.420 no matter what you've been through,

00:03:50.620 what decisions you made,

00:03:51.820 it doesn't mean that you have to be treated

00:03:54.480 less than anyone else.

00:03:56.180 And to be honest,

00:03:57.760 in my delusional world,

00:04:01.480 there are women who have been...

00:04:06.720 Actually, I don't even know

00:04:07.820 if they've been ran through to be honest.

00:04:09.280 But there are women who I know

00:04:10.660 have probably dated a lot of men

00:04:13.280 and they're treated a lot better than even me.

00:04:18.720 I'm still trying to learn from them.

00:04:20.200 I think arguably because they...

00:04:22.040 They're courted, wow.

00:04:23.160 Well, arguably because they understand men.

00:04:25.460 Yeah.

00:04:25.920 And they understand,

00:04:28.640 they take time and they've taken time

00:04:30.360 to learn the perspective of a man

00:04:32.520 about what he likes,

00:04:33.820 what draws him in.

00:04:34.920 So you saying like,

00:04:35.900 oh, I don't need to understand men, right?

00:04:38.240 That's why you're not seeing a correlation

00:04:40.180 between the value of

00:04:41.700 how a woman might have been promiscuous.

00:04:43.500 Yeah, she's getting men to treat her that way.

00:04:45.080 That's because she understands

00:04:46.080 the perspective of men.

00:04:48.560 So if you want the same results that they do,

00:04:51.100 because I get it,

00:04:51.600 because you're thinking,

00:04:52.440 oh, I've not been that way

00:04:53.420 yet she's getting the thing that I want.

00:04:55.080 She's getting the marriage,

00:04:56.640 she's getting the guy treating her

00:04:57.540 how I want to be treated.

00:05:00.080 But I think what that is showcasing

00:05:02.120 is that if you want a man

00:05:04.560 to be investing in you

00:05:06.120 in the ways that you value,

00:05:07.760 you need to understand what he wants.

00:05:09.600 You need to incorporate those things

00:05:11.260 into your being when you're with him.

00:05:12.480 Otherwise, you're never going to get that result.

00:05:14.600 I would also add to that,

00:05:16.080 that it seems like you've developed

00:05:17.540 like a coping mechanism

00:05:18.560 where you pretend you have

00:05:20.200 all these high standards

00:05:21.100 and you take a lot of,

00:05:21.920 you seem to take a lot of pride

00:05:22.820 in like, oh, I'll block this guy

00:05:23.980 or I'm good at my own,

00:05:25.480 men need us, we don't need them.

00:05:26.640 And it seems to be

00:05:27.460 that you're compensated for something

00:05:29.200 that maybe you've had

00:05:30.580 unsuccessful courting periods

00:05:32.220 in the past

00:05:32.840 or maybe you feel

00:05:34.340 some kind of way about yourself.

00:05:35.440 But generally, guys,

00:05:37.000 women who are healthy

00:05:38.180 and who kind of, you know,

00:05:39.720 are just generally emotionally

00:05:40.800 and physically healthy

00:05:41.760 aren't that long.

00:05:43.140 Like a normal woman enjoys sex,

00:05:44.780 she enjoys your company,

00:05:45.940 it's not going to take her

00:05:46.780 three months to be like,

00:05:47.600 maybe, damaged women are

00:05:49.280 because they want you to compensate

00:05:50.580 for the damage they've taken on.

00:05:52.640 I would say that's a bad trade.

00:05:53.660 Yeah, they want you to essentially

00:05:55.040 take, not take responsibility,

00:05:56.860 but they're punishing you

00:05:58.020 for their past mistakes.

00:05:59.020 It's essentially what's happening in a way.

00:05:59.820 Or they're looking for you to fix

00:06:00.960 what's been broken,

00:06:01.780 but that's...

00:06:02.500 Yeah.

00:06:02.900 Because relationships are just,

00:06:04.560 the fact by fact,

00:06:05.300 it's just compromising it.

00:06:06.440 That whole kind of infrastructure

00:06:07.700 I gave you

00:06:08.360 is compromising between my time

00:06:10.340 and the amount of energy

00:06:11.100 and effort I'm willing to put in

00:06:12.780 for what I'm going to get out.

00:06:14.500 But that kind of structure

00:06:16.800 doesn't kind of take into account

00:06:18.260 all the things that I bring to the table,

00:06:19.700 being a good dancer,

00:06:20.540 knowing great spots,

00:06:21.640 knowing how to entertain someone,

00:06:22.800 being patient, honest, kind,

00:06:24.140 especially honest.

00:06:25.800 I never lie to people.

00:06:27.120 That doesn't take into account

00:06:28.300 all those things

00:06:28.860 because you have to compromise.

00:06:30.080 Anyone who pretends

00:06:30.740 that they're out here taking wins

00:06:31.980 and everyone wants them

00:06:33.060 and they've got six rosters,

00:06:34.060 no, they're not.

00:06:34.560 The women I mess with,

00:06:35.900 I respect them.

00:06:37.500 They're up there for me.

00:06:38.840 If she asked me to come

00:06:40.260 and help out now,

00:06:41.180 I would literally jump out of this chair

00:06:42.600 and go help her

00:06:43.360 because she adds value

00:06:44.200 and I add value to her, innit?

00:06:45.340 Yes.

00:06:45.700 It has to be mutual.

00:06:46.900 Have you always...

00:06:48.380 Has it always been like that for you

00:06:50.360 or did it come to a point

00:06:51.680 where you're like,

00:06:53.120 why am I doing XYZ for women

00:06:56.180 if they're just going to

00:06:57.200 essentially treat me like this?

00:06:59.180 Why don't I just play the game

00:07:00.600 along with them

00:07:01.160 or has it always been like,

00:07:02.360 nah, I'm a dude,

00:07:03.800 follow this for women?

00:07:05.300 I've always been treated fairly well.

00:07:07.760 I've never had a long-term relationship

00:07:09.040 but I think my main thing

00:07:10.340 was the frustration

00:07:11.180 in the early periods,

00:07:12.280 that like courting phase

00:07:14.000 where you're investing all this time,

00:07:15.880 you're talking to her,

00:07:16.560 you're trying to keep her attention

00:07:17.540 and you're trying to show her

00:07:19.520 you're this tough guy

00:07:20.280 and you're showing all these good traits

00:07:21.260 but you also have to kind of convince her

00:07:22.680 that you need her

00:07:23.440 and she's so fascinating

00:07:24.360 and she's aflame

00:07:25.140 and she's gorgeous and whatever

00:07:26.160 and you've got to kind of...

00:07:28.560 Altering between that was my challenge

00:07:30.160 and then getting them out on dates

00:07:31.480 but once I get someone out on a date,

00:07:33.240 it's pretty much done

00:07:34.200 but the women on my roster

00:07:36.000 are women that I don't really have to do that for.

00:07:37.780 I just say,

00:07:38.200 yeah, you're pretty cool.

00:07:38.840 Do you want to go to this

00:07:39.760 like bowling alley thing in Shoreditch?

00:07:42.060 Yeah, cool

00:07:42.560 and I don't mind

00:07:43.580 because for me,

00:07:44.580 I reward women who are straightforward

00:07:45.760 because that shows respect in it.

00:07:47.300 If she's wasting your time play games,

00:07:48.960 she doesn't respect you.

00:07:49.980 What she's doing is

00:07:50.660 she's creating hoops

00:07:51.600 for you to jump through.

00:07:52.780 It's an ego thing.

00:07:53.760 I'm smart.

00:07:54.260 I know exactly what you're doing.

00:07:55.620 So who are you feeling?

00:07:56.900 Who are you feeling?

00:07:57.840 The girls I mess with

00:07:58.720 have to be intelligent

00:07:59.620 because intelligent women

00:08:00.580 don't need to be convinced

00:08:02.100 and manipulated.

00:08:02.960 They don't do hints.

00:08:04.320 Adults don't do hints.

00:08:05.460 No, she knows what she wants.

00:08:06.500 She's educated.

00:08:07.280 She's not dumb.

00:08:08.100 She's not out here.

00:08:08.800 I'm in an RN.

00:08:09.680 She knows who I am.

00:08:10.740 I don't have to be

00:08:11.520 Mr. Alpha with the gold belt.

00:08:13.060 I come in.

00:08:13.860 I'm humble.

00:08:14.340 I talk some shit.

00:08:15.180 I'm a bit goofy

00:08:15.860 but she knows.

00:08:16.880 She understands that

00:08:17.500 anyone here who tried to touch me

00:08:18.480 would probably die in it.

00:08:19.560 Fact.

00:08:20.100 You're just not strong.

00:08:20.840 You're not athletic.

00:08:21.540 You're not more athletic than me.

00:08:22.460 You don't have better contacts.

00:08:23.540 You don't have a better job.

00:08:24.560 You're not slicker than me

00:08:25.260 but I don't have to show that to you.

00:08:26.340 Because showing things

00:08:27.620 attracts people who look

00:08:28.700 and surface things

00:08:29.340 and they are chaotic.

00:08:30.380 The worst women you can fuck with

00:08:31.620 are the chaotic ones

00:08:32.480 because they were shit

00:08:33.240 all over your life.

00:08:35.220 That's the worst thing

00:08:36.160 you could fucking do.

00:08:36.800 That will affect your job.

00:08:37.700 That will affect your friendships.

00:08:39.000 She'll be buzzing up your phone.

00:08:40.040 She'll be talking shit about you

00:08:40.840 to other guys for sex.

00:08:42.580 Why would you?

00:08:43.080 And you have to work

00:08:44.300 for that as well.

00:08:45.560 Can I ask you something?

00:08:47.600 Yeah.

00:08:48.220 So one,

00:08:49.280 I want to ask you two things.

00:08:51.200 One, right?

00:08:51.960 So first you just said

00:08:52.940 that you don't deal

00:08:54.540 with women that play games

00:08:55.980 but wasn't that thing

00:08:57.520 on your board

00:08:58.060 just literally

00:08:59.460 your game plan?

00:09:01.620 It's the structure

00:09:02.220 and how I approach women

00:09:02.920 it's not a game.

00:09:03.720 It's a strategy.

00:09:04.380 I would consider it a game.

00:09:05.960 That's why I would block him

00:09:06.980 because I hate games.

00:09:08.060 Yeah, but I wouldn't

00:09:08.680 chat to you anyway

00:09:09.180 so you need to stop saying that.

00:09:10.540 Two,

00:09:11.180 the women on your roster

00:09:12.340 I know, right?

00:09:15.160 I'm wondering who's triggered here.

00:09:16.600 The women on your roster

00:09:17.980 Me?

00:09:20.020 I definitely am not true.

00:09:21.580 Tell me about how

00:09:21.900 you're going to block me.

00:09:22.600 I definitely am not triggered.

00:09:24.380 There's been so many things

00:09:25.760 You don't make clips

00:09:26.720 that I'm going to have

00:09:27.320 and say triggered on it.

00:09:29.180 Yo, her DMs are dry.

00:09:30.380 You know her DMs are dry.

00:09:32.080 There's so many things here

00:09:33.480 that could have triggered me but

00:09:34.720 Out there in Windsor

00:09:35.600 it's cold and lonely.

00:09:37.520 You were telling me

00:09:38.080 before you got to the show

00:09:39.100 you were triggered.

00:09:40.660 No, I didn't.

00:09:41.840 Oh my God.

00:09:42.740 Did you feel like

00:09:43.300 I'm here because

00:09:43.820 your TikTok triggered me?

00:09:45.080 No, I didn't.

00:09:45.760 I said that you say

00:09:46.780 some irresponsible things.

00:09:48.060 No, you said

00:09:48.760 You said triggered.

00:09:50.180 Babe, I said you say

00:09:51.480 some irresponsible things.

00:09:52.780 Anyway, the second thing

00:09:53.800 Your mental state is like

00:09:54.040 the Doctor Strange world.

00:09:55.060 You know where the mirrors come up

00:09:56.080 and things start floating?

00:09:59.120 I can sleep with anyone I want

00:10:00.600 I'm so used to insecure people

00:10:03.160 taking shots

00:10:03.840 so it's all good.

00:10:04.660 It's not a shot.

00:10:05.260 Anyway, the second thing

00:10:07.000 I wanted to ask is

00:10:08.040 any of those women

00:10:09.160 on your roster

00:10:09.780 are any of them

00:10:11.080 like women

00:10:11.820 that you would consider

00:10:13.120 like serious

00:10:14.120 or marriage potential?

00:10:16.980 And if not

00:10:17.540 why are they still there?

00:10:19.080 What do you date for?

00:10:22.780 I guess I would consider

00:10:24.000 some of them.

00:10:25.140 I have no intentions

00:10:26.260 of settling down right now

00:10:27.260 so that like

00:10:29.240 that's already built in.

00:10:31.800 But what I date for

00:10:33.920 is just to have

00:10:34.660 great seductive encounters

00:10:36.580 with people.

00:10:37.220 I think you can have

00:10:38.020 a lady or woman

00:10:39.580 who behaves properly

00:10:40.560 and is intelligent

00:10:41.260 and who generally adds value

00:10:42.560 just by being feminine

00:10:43.560 and pleasant

00:10:44.640 and you know

00:10:45.860 we can hang out

00:10:46.560 and spend some nights together

00:10:47.740 watching movies

00:10:48.360 and going out to bowling alleys

00:10:49.380 and doing all the things

00:10:50.100 you do for fun.

00:10:51.240 We can do it

00:10:51.620 in a respectful way.

00:10:52.640 You know

00:10:52.800 she'll pay for some

00:10:54.140 I'll pay for some

00:10:54.760 sometimes I want to treat her

00:10:55.820 for a birthday

00:10:56.940 I took one girl out

00:10:57.780 paid for like

00:10:58.640 you know

00:10:58.860 five stars

00:10:59.680 whatever kind of dinner

00:11:00.860 and that's fine

00:11:02.200 once in a while.

00:11:02.880 That's more than 25 pounds.

00:11:04.260 Five stars.

00:11:04.880 She's been with me

00:11:05.380 for a while

00:11:05.820 and she's young.

00:11:06.980 Doesn't she know that?

00:11:08.260 It's not serious though.

00:11:09.340 Yeah, she knows.

00:11:10.600 She's more like a fuck buddy

00:11:11.860 than anything.

00:11:12.500 That's why he

00:11:13.420 he leaves the girls

00:11:15.200 in their mid-20s alone.

00:11:16.920 Yeah.

00:11:17.260 Yeah.

00:11:17.840 I'm like Leonardo DiCaprio.

00:11:18.720 Oh my gosh

00:11:19.200 that's what Leonardo DiCaprio

00:11:20.460 does too.

00:11:21.140 Except

00:11:21.460 that's why he does it.

00:11:23.960 He just started

00:11:25.560 dating a 27 year old.

00:11:27.020 Oh.

00:11:28.500 Is she 27?

00:11:29.680 Granted it's Bella Hadid

00:11:31.640 so it's like

00:11:32.160 Oh yeah.

00:11:32.880 You know what?

00:11:33.240 Yeah.

00:11:35.800 On your point

00:11:37.900 you said a minute ago

00:11:38.860 that this strategy

00:11:39.600 that you classed as a game

00:11:40.640 that you said

00:11:41.300 is the reason

00:11:41.800 why you don't go near men.

00:11:43.480 You said guys

00:11:45.140 you play this game

00:11:46.520 you don't go near.

00:11:47.680 The truth of the matter is

00:11:48.700 I may not be talking

00:11:49.840 about you specifically

00:11:50.780 but generally

00:11:51.480 you women are

00:11:53.300 more susceptible

00:11:53.940 to that strategy

00:11:54.700 and you don't even know.

00:11:55.980 Probably.

00:11:56.560 Probably.

00:11:57.560 Yeah probably.

00:11:58.140 But I kind of

00:12:00.980 realised that

00:12:02.200 that whole

00:12:03.260 ignore thing

00:12:04.180 for attention

00:12:04.960 and stuff like that

00:12:05.960 and it really puts me off

00:12:07.740 Can I also just say

00:12:09.820 Do you know

00:12:11.360 the amount of women

00:12:12.660 I know

00:12:13.280 who have just said

00:12:13.800 what you said

00:12:14.240 who completely fall victim to it

00:12:15.380 hence why I said earlier

00:12:16.440 what you say you want

00:12:17.640 what you respond to

00:12:18.740 in real life

00:12:19.180 are two completely different things

00:12:20.160 I can say that as a fact

00:12:21.180 I've experienced that.

00:12:22.540 Well if this show

00:12:24.400 is popular enough

00:12:25.160 dudes I have blocked

00:12:26.340 and they will confirm

00:12:28.420 that

00:12:28.760 I'm thinking about you

00:12:29.180 it's fine

00:12:29.600 Probably not

00:12:30.720 For the women

00:12:31.680 after we had our

00:12:32.860 wonderful presentation

00:12:34.320 from Alex

00:12:35.300 do you think

00:12:36.800 women

00:12:37.340 have a sort of

00:12:39.100 line up like that

00:12:40.160 to get what

00:12:40.840 they essentially want

00:12:42.220 from men

00:12:43.000 and that's

00:12:44.220 either money

00:12:45.000 time

00:12:46.240 or whatever

00:12:46.960 they value in a man

00:12:48.380 I think women

00:12:52.160 will always

00:12:52.920 know what they're doing

00:12:53.900 like I said earlier

00:12:54.900 people might act

00:12:56.560 like they're vulnerable

00:12:57.680 but people are not dumb

00:12:58.880 and if you're a woman

00:12:59.980 who's realistic

00:13:00.820 with yourself

00:13:01.460 and you're playing a game

00:13:03.120 you want to talk about

00:13:04.420 hoes and strippers

00:13:05.420 and girls in the streets

00:13:06.220 there's girls out there

00:13:07.700 that know how to play men

00:13:08.600 but also the men

00:13:09.520 know what they're doing

00:13:10.300 they actually enjoy it

00:13:11.660 so it's a mutual risk

00:13:12.620 like

00:13:13.040 everyone's getting

00:13:14.820 what they want

00:13:15.180 at the end of the day

00:13:15.620 but I think women

00:13:16.880 do know

00:13:17.520 how to play the game

00:13:19.560 but I think there's women

00:13:21.160 personally in my circle

00:13:22.560 that don't play the game

00:13:23.920 but there's women

00:13:25.680 that can play the same

00:13:26.720 as that game

00:13:27.300 simple as

00:13:29.160 obviously it's a bit

00:13:30.600 different for a man

00:13:31.460 women will use sex

00:13:32.980 to get what they want

00:13:33.700 from a man

00:13:34.240 I think women develop

00:13:36.800 much more sophisticated

00:13:37.960 games very early on

00:13:39.440 quite naturally

00:13:40.100 so I was a maths and physics

00:13:41.680 teacher for a while

00:13:42.360 and I noticed

00:13:42.920 that pretty much

00:13:44.320 15

00:13:44.780 14

00:13:45.440 starts as long as

00:13:46.500 even 12

00:13:47.000 year 7

00:13:48.340 these girls

00:13:49.440 are already lying

00:13:50.280 they're already

00:13:50.720 practicing

00:13:51.220 triangular relationships

00:13:52.580 love triangles

00:13:53.540 because all girls

00:13:54.700 watch

00:13:55.100 is romance

00:13:56.620 right

00:13:56.960 the eternals

00:13:58.700 they idolise

00:14:01.100 that stuff

00:14:01.500 they practice

00:14:02.140 for these complex

00:14:02.920 situations

00:14:03.420 and in fact

00:14:03.900 often times

00:14:05.020 they actually want

00:14:05.880 these situations

00:14:06.460 to happen

00:14:06.860 because they enjoy

00:14:07.620 these scenarios

00:14:08.120 kind of like

00:14:08.520 every man wants

00:14:09.160 to be the man

00:14:09.680 every girl wants

00:14:10.620 to be the guy

00:14:11.100 that guys fight

00:14:12.800 over

00:14:13.100 inherently

00:14:14.000 and so women

00:14:15.080 naturally develop

00:14:15.880 much more sophisticated

00:14:16.860 ways of playing the game

00:14:18.040 also they have

00:14:18.680 something you want

00:14:19.280 right

00:14:19.500 sex

00:14:19.820 so naturally

00:14:21.460 they start learning

00:14:22.220 how to filter

00:14:22.820 and how to try

00:14:23.480 to play the game

00:14:24.120 but because of social media

00:14:25.760 it tinged the game

00:14:26.980 too much in favour

00:14:27.860 of attention

00:14:29.080 before I think

00:14:30.660 I think there was

00:14:31.180 other things

00:14:31.720 in the courting process

00:14:32.660 right

00:14:32.960 she would kind of

00:14:33.900 think more about

00:14:34.840 like his ability

00:14:35.480 to take care of her

00:14:36.380 x y z

00:14:37.000 but now because of

00:14:38.020 social media

00:14:38.480 and the dopamine

00:14:39.240 you get

00:14:39.680 from like having

00:14:40.440 people look at you

00:14:41.220 and like your stuff

00:14:41.960 and people think

00:14:42.540 you're great

00:14:43.060 and having that clout

00:14:44.240 young girls

00:14:45.300 got kind of

00:14:46.720 seduced into this

00:14:47.520 like I want to

00:14:48.160 play this game

00:14:48.720 in a way that maximises

00:14:50.020 my attention

00:14:50.100 women are constantly

00:14:50.740 getting the attention

00:14:51.460 and validation

00:14:52.040 that they want

00:14:52.580 so for them

00:14:53.240 there's no need

00:14:54.460 there's no need

00:14:55.200 past that point

00:14:55.920 to give anything up

00:14:57.240 they're getting the

00:14:57.700 intention and validation

00:14:58.800 that men usually

00:14:59.600 don't just give out

00:15:00.860 for free

00:15:01.280 I want to hear

00:15:02.080 your two's

00:15:03.040 answers to my question

00:15:05.460 I'm just interested

00:15:07.260 yo I feel like

00:15:08.920 I've been talking a lot

00:15:09.880 so

00:15:10.100 I'm just

00:15:10.920 you know

00:15:11.260 I'm just taking

00:15:11.980 everything in

00:15:12.800 but I agree

00:15:14.300 I think women

00:15:15.420 know how to play

00:15:16.040 the game

00:15:16.400 I think we know

00:15:17.600 what we want to do

00:15:18.500 but I think

00:15:19.440 that's a general

00:15:20.080 thing

00:15:20.580 not every woman

00:15:22.500 knows exactly

00:15:23.660 what a game

00:15:25.900 is

00:15:26.540 or what they

00:15:27.720 maybe even want

00:15:29.220 I just

00:15:31.100 no don't worry

00:15:32.020 I just feel like

00:15:32.800 I know we're not

00:15:34.820 talking completely

00:15:35.780 generally

00:15:36.500 but I feel like

00:15:37.540 opinions here

00:15:40.400 are very much

00:15:41.140 black and white

00:15:42.140 I think that's why

00:15:42.800 I've kind of

00:15:43.360 just been

00:15:43.880 very in the

00:15:45.580 fly on the wall

00:15:46.880 type thing

00:15:47.520 and I also

00:15:48.940 don't like to interrupt

00:15:49.820 that's kind of why

00:15:50.740 I've just been

00:15:51.280 sitting here

00:15:51.960 but I think

00:15:52.900 at the end of the day

00:15:53.780 men and women

00:15:55.560 we all know

00:15:56.060 what we want

00:15:56.640 at the end of the day

00:15:58.000 so

00:15:58.500 I think

00:16:00.060 modern women

00:16:00.560 don't know

00:16:00.880 what they want

00:16:01.340 I was going to say

00:16:02.280 in regards to

00:16:03.280 like women

00:16:04.380 actually learning

00:16:05.080 that

00:16:05.400 it actually

00:16:06.160 a lot of it

00:16:06.640 starts at home

00:16:07.560 and it's very

00:16:08.800 very common

00:16:09.440 you see this

00:16:09.920 in studies

00:16:10.340 where the daughter

00:16:11.300 will

00:16:12.040 and the daughter

00:16:12.680 and the mother

00:16:13.280 start competing

00:16:13.980 for the father's

00:16:14.640 attention

00:16:14.980 and it's very

00:16:16.240 common

00:16:16.620 because it's

00:16:17.080 his little girl

00:16:17.780 that she

00:16:18.860 almost takes

00:16:19.760 priority

00:16:20.180 because how many

00:16:20.800 times do we see

00:16:21.700 like a daughter

00:16:23.120 who has her

00:16:24.300 father wrapped

00:16:25.040 around her finger

00:16:26.220 especially if he's

00:16:27.360 very wealthy

00:16:28.020 or whatever

00:16:28.400 and all this

00:16:28.900 so it actually

00:16:29.720 starts

00:16:30.220 a lot of it

00:16:31.400 can start

00:16:31.880 very very young

00:16:33.240 and it's really

00:16:34.220 common that it

00:16:34.840 starts young

00:16:35.260 especially when

00:16:35.740 you've got the

00:16:36.080 father in the home

00:16:36.820 and that's almost

00:16:37.420 how she learns

00:16:38.000 how to get

00:16:38.440 the male attention

00:16:39.540 you don't even

00:16:40.560 realise

00:16:41.180 that it's from

00:16:41.840 the parents

00:16:42.200 but it is

00:16:43.020 so just to play

00:16:44.940 what about the

00:16:45.960 other ones

00:16:46.380 that didn't have

00:16:47.000 a dad

00:16:47.340 or vice versa

00:16:48.680 because sometimes

00:16:49.800 it doesn't always

00:16:50.360 just play on

00:16:50.900 social media

00:16:51.480 yeah of course

00:16:52.080 but I mean

00:16:52.700 it starts

00:16:53.120 it can happen

00:16:53.900 at school as well

00:16:54.740 like it can start

00:16:55.400 at school

00:16:55.960 it can even be

00:16:57.360 social media

00:16:58.140 it can be

00:16:58.720 it can be

00:16:59.080 circumstantial

00:16:59.980 women know

00:17:00.720 which women

00:17:01.220 get the attention

00:17:01.880 the girls

00:17:02.660 go on their

00:17:03.100 Instagram

00:17:03.400 and they see

00:17:03.940 that the girls

00:17:04.540 the women

00:17:05.040 who have the

00:17:05.480 attention

00:17:05.780 who are being

00:17:06.240 shared

00:17:06.460 that's modern

00:17:09.560 that's modern

00:17:10.160 day in terms

00:17:10.700 of online

00:17:11.380 but I'm talking

00:17:12.420 like let's say

00:17:12.940 just classic

00:17:13.400 in the playground

00:17:13.920 or something

00:17:14.380 like or you're

00:17:15.440 just like at

00:17:15.920 school

00:17:16.200 I agree with

00:17:17.360 you because

00:17:17.820 like I would

00:17:18.280 say my family

00:17:19.860 has a lot of

00:17:20.520 like high achievers

00:17:21.500 and because that's

00:17:22.200 kind of how we

00:17:22.700 would compete

00:17:23.140 for our parents

00:17:23.720 attention

00:17:24.160 was like doing

00:17:24.920 good at sports

00:17:25.680 or doing good

00:17:26.220 at like whatever

00:17:26.940 yeah

00:17:27.400 so you get

00:17:27.760 validation

00:17:28.280 yeah

00:17:28.900 yeah

00:17:29.440 I agree

00:17:30.100 that was great

00:17:30.780 sorry is this

00:17:31.740 mic on can you

00:17:32.220 hear me

00:17:32.440 yeah it's fine

00:17:33.800 yeah it should be

00:17:34.480 on

00:17:34.680 yeah it was fine

00:17:36.420 yeah

00:17:36.860 yeah so young

00:17:37.920 boys typically

00:17:38.620 they try to gain

00:17:39.780 their parents approval

00:17:41.080 through achievements

00:17:41.920 and accolades

00:17:42.480 yes

00:17:42.980 whereas girls typically

00:17:44.640 use the manipulation

00:17:48.000 tactic of I'm

00:17:50.820 basically upset

00:17:51.740 or I'm hurt

00:17:52.540 which makes it

00:17:54.480 brings out the

00:17:55.120 nurturing so it

00:17:56.700 brings out that

00:17:57.600 side of men that's

00:17:58.420 protective and makes

00:17:59.800 men want to protect

00:18:00.580 the daughters which

00:18:01.240 gives them the

00:18:01.840 attention and it's a

00:18:02.500 manipulation tactic

00:18:03.240 but then with

00:18:04.420 nowadays if we look

00:18:05.680 at society how many

00:18:06.640 men are in their

00:18:08.080 children life in the

00:18:09.400 daughter's life how

00:18:09.960 many women are in

00:18:10.740 their son's life like

00:18:12.000 if we look at both

00:18:12.840 there's a lot of men

00:18:14.440 that are not there

00:18:14.900 women that are not

00:18:15.480 there for the kids

00:18:16.040 vice versa they're

00:18:16.840 growing up without a

00:18:17.980 full family loving

00:18:19.400 them and understanding

00:18:20.440 what to look for in a

00:18:21.800 man or in a woman

00:18:22.620 yeah which I which I

00:18:23.780 which I agree is wrong

00:18:24.840 however so how do we

00:18:26.320 look for it now that's

00:18:27.140 what I'm saying like

00:18:27.840 romance movies

00:18:28.780 instagram social media

00:18:30.400 which I believe an

00:18:31.320 episode needs to be done

00:18:32.260 on by the way yeah I

00:18:33.740 truly believe social

00:18:34.760 media instagram erotic

00:18:36.620 novels everything else oh

00:18:37.980 on that point as well for

00:18:39.100 anyone who's not seen

00:18:39.880 it sex life a

00:18:41.820 documentary on

00:18:42.840 netflix if you

00:18:44.500 haven't watched it you

00:18:45.440 fucking need to it's

00:18:46.660 only 10 episodes but

00:18:47.900 that series projects

00:18:50.640 everything we've gone

00:18:52.000 through today it's an

00:18:53.340 I think a good an

00:18:54.440 episode on that will be

00:18:55.220 fucking amazing give

00:18:56.480 that give that series a

00:18:57.400 go because yeah men

00:18:58.200 you're gonna be pissed

00:18:58.820 so I have I have a

00:19:00.900 question for the men

00:19:01.960 what can a modern woman

00:19:04.320 do for a man to

00:19:06.560 outperform what

00:19:07.840 traditional women have

00:19:08.940 offered in the past

00:19:10.060 what can a modern

00:19:14.960 woman so what can a

00:19:17.100 modern woman do for a

00:19:18.420 man to outperform the

00:19:19.880 traditional women that

00:19:22.200 what traditional women

00:19:23.560 have offered in the past

00:19:24.640 I would say I'd say

00:19:25.300 help with this career

00:19:26.060 because back back in the

00:19:27.840 day tradition like the

00:19:29.320 woman didn't have the

00:19:30.140 opportunities in the

00:19:30.940 career space to open

00:19:32.280 doors or to provide

00:19:33.400 like even even simple

00:19:35.380 things it's just like I

00:19:37.200 remember I was dating a

00:19:37.880 girl once we went and

00:19:38.920 trained to the gym

00:19:39.500 together and a guy

00:19:40.600 she's like attractive a

00:19:41.660 guy gave her like a

00:19:42.960 free foam thing for

00:19:44.560 training and she just

00:19:45.600 gave it to me and I was

00:19:46.260 just like she used her

00:19:48.120 perks to serve my life

00:19:50.700 in some way so I'll

00:19:51.940 probably say the

00:19:52.400 difference is I forgot

00:19:53.460 if a woman can help a

00:19:55.040 man in his career in

00:19:55.920 some way that's

00:19:56.820 something that

00:19:57.120 traditional women

00:19:57.700 traditionally

00:19:58.200 couldn't have done

00:19:59.120 because they didn't

00:19:59.580 have access to that

00:20:00.380 but I would always I

00:20:01.180 would also say instead

00:20:02.280 of instead of trying

00:20:03.400 to outdo the

00:20:04.460 traditional women I

00:20:05.580 would say bring back

00:20:06.980 what traditional women

00:20:08.100 have their values

00:20:08.820 right so be beautiful

00:20:10.120 be youthful be pure

00:20:11.720 don't just be sleeping

00:20:13.160 around with everybody

00:20:14.100 be feminine be

00:20:15.500 submissive and support

00:20:16.600 your man but I think

00:20:17.340 the question is from

00:20:18.320 the point of view is

00:20:19.220 like you can't undo

00:20:20.520 you know being

00:20:21.360 ran through yeah you

00:20:22.340 can't go back and

00:20:23.060 once you're old

00:20:23.700 you're old I think so

00:20:24.740 if you have been ran

00:20:25.780 through yeah I think

00:20:27.300 really in that at that

00:20:28.140 point all you can do

00:20:29.160 is turn another

00:20:31.180 leaf stop sleeping

00:20:32.900 around really all

00:20:34.140 you've got to do is

00:20:34.860 just take on the

00:20:36.520 exact opposite

00:20:37.080 behaviors that got

00:20:38.020 you to that stage

00:20:38.700 start being submissive

00:20:39.560 which outside of the

00:20:40.360 sex submissiveness and

00:20:41.700 femininity is lost

00:20:42.760 right hence the

00:20:43.920 hence the expression

00:20:44.680 toxic masculinity we

00:20:46.020 wouldn't have that

00:20:46.520 expression if women

00:20:47.260 didn't feel like they

00:20:47.940 need to be masculine

00:20:48.640 and they don't like the

00:20:49.620 fact that men are

00:20:50.200 right so be feminine

00:20:51.360 be submissive stop

00:20:52.240 sleeping around at that

00:20:53.000 point and start

00:20:53.960 supporting your man

00:20:54.700 start being start

00:20:56.120 being the basically

00:20:58.020 start exhibiting all

00:20:59.140 of the things the

00:21:00.440 nurturing behavior the

00:21:01.820 gentleness everything

00:21:03.600 that would make a

00:21:04.620 woman a good mother

00:21:06.080 that's what I would

00:21:06.980 say what do you what

00:21:07.940 do you think Alex

00:21:08.700 um for me so I'm a

00:21:10.640 modern man right so I

00:21:12.020 get a lot of a lot of

00:21:13.400 the viewers are people

00:21:14.440 who are very

00:21:14.920 traditional and they

00:21:15.520 really want that you

00:21:16.220 know the old school

00:21:16.760 ways for me stuff like

00:21:19.160 body count isn't too

00:21:20.340 big a deal it's more

00:21:21.020 about how you behave

00:21:21.860 like I like women who

00:21:23.160 are respectful I feel

00:21:23.980 like modern women are

00:21:24.840 very disrespectful they

00:21:26.440 naturally don't respect

00:21:27.840 your time they don't

00:21:28.800 respect your attention

00:21:29.700 um and they just don't

00:21:31.520 respect men you know

00:21:32.340 this toxic masculinity

00:21:33.180 thing um and so for me

00:21:35.280 one key thing is being

00:21:37.000 respectful being feminine

00:21:38.920 because I don't care what

00:21:40.360 anyone says feminine

00:21:41.360 femininity is a currency

00:21:42.680 like there are some days

00:21:43.900 where you want a curvy you

00:21:45.900 know pleasant woman next

00:21:48.020 to you and none of my

00:21:49.540 boys you know there's no

00:21:51.640 amount of friends you can

00:21:52.580 have that would make that

00:21:53.540 like less gonna make up

00:21:54.580 for it yeah and finally um

00:21:56.800 I like women who are

00:21:57.600 dynamic like you gotta it's

00:21:59.580 a modern world so the

00:22:00.680 whole idea of the

00:22:01.320 provider and you know the

00:22:02.260 woman being submissive

00:22:03.120 doesn't really hold up

00:22:04.020 because you know jobs jobs

00:22:05.080 you can't have a lifelong

00:22:05.900 job anymore salaries kind

00:22:07.720 of can fluctuate there's

00:22:08.620 recessions and so I'm

00:22:10.280 extremely dynamic I'm a

00:22:11.540 contractor you know manage

00:22:12.960 people um and I may be

00:22:14.560 doing other things and you

00:22:15.640 know starting business I've

00:22:16.420 got side hustles and I

00:22:17.440 need a woman who

00:22:18.560 understands that and who's

00:22:19.460 also dynamic like you

00:22:20.680 can't be sitting here kind

00:22:21.880 of like waiting for the

00:22:22.620 next day like I want

00:22:23.760 someone who's on their

00:22:24.840 grind who can add to my

00:22:25.840 grind we can talk about

00:22:26.780 things because now women

00:22:27.780 have the same access to as

00:22:29.200 men to education so you

00:22:30.580 can have as good a

00:22:31.300 conversation as I can

00:22:32.200 yeah but you know what I

00:22:32.920 actually agree with that

00:22:33.880 right I agree with

00:22:34.400 everything you just said

00:22:35.000 however I believe they're

00:22:35.840 very surface level I still

00:22:37.520 believe women need to

00:22:38.800 bring back and start to

00:22:40.080 exhibit the the

00:22:42.300 essentially the traits the

00:22:44.220 characteristics the

00:22:45.640 attributes that men

00:22:46.820 biologically are wired to

00:22:48.380 you right so that's not

00:22:49.440 I have a question do you

00:22:50.740 do you think there's going

00:22:51.740 back for modern women

00:22:52.840 because I I just once a

00:22:55.320 girl's been damaged to a

00:22:56.480 certain point like it

00:22:58.060 just seems like she's

00:22:58.880 kind of like that

00:22:59.460 forever yeah I wouldn't

00:23:00.640 say I wouldn't say she

00:23:01.660 can undo the damage but

00:23:02.840 she's essentially got to

00:23:03.600 make the best out of a

00:23:04.240 bad situation she's got to

00:23:05.380 try it to some degree you

00:23:06.900 can't undo that damage

00:23:07.780 you yeah I mean you can

00:23:10.680 she can she can try

00:23:11.740 also also there's a

00:23:14.240 hundred dollar super

00:23:14.980 chats I'm gonna read it

00:23:15.660 real quick I guess just so

00:23:17.360 you guys know when you do

00:23:18.240 fifty to a hundred dollar

00:23:19.460 super chats I just read

00:23:20.620 them like as quick as I

00:23:21.920 see them no need to

00:23:23.100 quarrel modern women the

00:23:24.380 hard lessons from men are

00:23:25.580 learning will make them

00:23:26.960 adjust accordingly the

00:23:28.100 regression will be back to

00:23:29.360 the conservative mean

00:23:30.580 that's that's happening

00:23:32.160 already yeah the happiest

00:23:33.560 people I knew in

00:23:34.540 university were the guys

00:23:35.520 who couldn't be bothered

00:23:36.040 today yeah I remember

00:23:37.260 because I used to I used

00:23:38.220 to be in our race I used

00:23:39.000 to manage a thousand

00:23:39.680 students and it's why I

00:23:41.340 learned a lot of this

00:23:41.900 stuff because people talk

00:23:42.820 about the stuff they think

00:23:43.540 I'm manipulative no I just

00:23:44.580 know women in it I've

00:23:45.400 actually been out here

00:23:46.080 for like for like years

00:23:47.000 isn't it and one of the

00:23:49.140 guys he's like I think

00:23:50.140 he's like an actuary and

00:23:51.640 his friend to the happiest

00:23:53.500 human beings I ever met I

00:23:54.680 walked in there just

00:23:56.140 children making lunch for

00:23:57.020 each other they used to go

00:23:58.240 gym do all this stuff but

00:23:59.160 I never heard them

00:23:59.820 discuss when they weren't

00:24:00.720 dating anyone they didn't

00:24:01.980 give a flying fuck he

00:24:03.400 still hasn't posted

00:24:04.200 anything happy people the

00:24:05.940 people I know who sleep

00:24:06.700 around men as well because

00:24:08.580 hypergamy does make a lot

00:24:09.660 of men unhappy are you

00:24:11.000 know they're constantly in

00:24:11.800 that drama phase they're

00:24:12.800 constantly like yeah I

00:24:13.700 agree it's not it's not a

00:24:14.840 happy place which is why

00:24:15.760 everyone should have a

00:24:16.420 roster spin places

00:24:19.120 sorry but as in shallow

00:24:25.580 relationships with

00:24:26.280 multiple people so you're

00:24:27.840 just running through them

00:24:28.540 as I said I don't run

00:24:29.380 through people like like

00:24:30.500 they are actually valid

00:24:31.900 people I just don't want

00:24:32.740 to settle down so why

00:24:33.520 would I build a really

00:24:34.380 intense relationship with

00:24:34.960 one person but see

00:24:35.800 that's you I think and

00:24:37.300 there may be obviously a

00:24:38.140 percentage of men that

00:24:38.920 do that and that's that's

00:24:39.980 fine but you also have

00:24:41.600 other percentage of men

00:24:42.620 like if we broke it down

00:24:43.500 to a pie chart you have

00:24:44.760 the men that are out

00:24:45.400 here just having sex for

00:24:46.240 ego and just to be

00:24:47.580 validated you have the

00:24:49.340 men that are doing it

00:24:50.000 because they don't want

00:24:50.620 a relationship but they

00:24:51.620 want some company and

00:24:52.700 that's fine they're not

00:24:53.340 really trying to hurt

00:24:54.020 anyone out here but

00:24:54.760 they're not trying to

00:24:55.380 set it down cool then

00:24:56.700 you have the men that

00:24:57.380 actually want to get

00:24:58.700 married have like an

00:24:59.740 actual life with a

00:25:00.400 woman then you have the

00:25:01.540 men that are actually

00:25:02.200 damaged because they've

00:25:03.440 been they've been with

00:25:04.560 women that are damaged

00:25:05.260 now they have damage and

00:25:06.380 they don't end up getting

00:25:07.480 with anyone because

00:25:08.080 they're no they get the

00:25:08.940 most girls actually the

00:25:10.200 damage but you know

00:25:10.740 what happens with them

00:25:11.500 the 34 year olds the

00:25:13.680 50 year olds the 60

00:25:14.920 year olds that stay

00:25:15.420 single but have to keep

00:25:16.220 dating young girls

00:25:17.000 because older women

00:25:18.460 she don't want you

00:25:20.900 no actually it's easier

00:25:22.080 to get older women

00:25:22.700 I was going to say

00:25:23.300 it's easier at that

00:25:24.000 point to get older

00:25:24.460 women I think no I'm

00:25:25.160 saying he'll date

00:25:25.900 younger women because

00:25:27.060 the older women at

00:25:27.900 certain point an older

00:25:28.720 woman she'll either

00:25:29.800 settle or she'll be

00:25:31.320 like I can't be bothered

00:25:32.200 to put up with this

00:25:32.760 there's two types of

00:25:33.860 women they'll settle

00:25:34.580 or they won't

00:25:35.260 put up with what

00:25:36.480 put up with someone who

00:25:37.920 for example is too

00:25:39.200 stubborn doesn't care about

00:25:40.400 their feelings don't

00:25:41.060 want to give them

00:25:41.440 attention well that

00:25:42.180 just means she's

00:25:42.920 shooting out of her

00:25:43.600 league if like that's

00:25:44.680 the way the guy treats

00:25:45.420 you he doesn't like

00:25:46.140 you I'm saying men

00:25:47.820 that are in that

00:25:48.280 toxic place after

00:25:49.520 they've not transitioned

00:25:50.900 like she'll put up

00:25:52.440 with that if it's

00:25:52.900 high value though

00:25:53.800 that's different

00:25:56.740 types of women I'm

00:25:57.560 just talking about

00:25:58.100 different types of

00:25:58.780 men and I'm saying

00:25:59.800 that's fine because

00:26:00.500 you're in a different

00:26:01.220 place but I'm saying

00:26:02.480 if we're looking at

00:26:03.080 percentage of men

00:26:03.760 in general you have

00:26:04.860 these different types of

00:26:05.500 men just like how you

00:26:06.320 have these different

00:26:06.880 types of women like

00:26:08.180 there's no general for

00:26:09.320 anyone let's be honest

00:26:10.120 do you know why

00:26:10.560 like those damaged

00:26:11.300 men do the best in

00:26:12.220 dating market yeah

00:26:13.220 because they know how

00:26:13.840 to play the game

00:26:14.780 because they're good

00:26:15.640 at flipping between

00:26:16.340 alpha and beta

00:26:17.080 they're good at being

00:26:18.400 like the tough guy but

00:26:19.440 they also have deep

00:26:20.200 emotional needs so

00:26:21.220 they'll try and

00:26:21.720 connect with these

00:26:22.300 women emotionally

00:26:23.080 they'll flip between

00:26:23.780 those really well

00:26:24.460 they're not like you

00:26:25.040 though you're saying

00:26:25.620 that you don't

00:26:26.000 connect with them on

00:26:26.640 that level because

00:26:27.140 you understand your

00:26:28.080 emotional let's say

00:26:29.320 boundaries to keep

00:26:30.140 yourself away from

00:26:30.740 that because you

00:26:31.060 don't want that but

00:26:31.780 some men they might be

00:26:33.320 like oh yeah I want

00:26:34.020 this actually freak out

00:26:35.020 it's the same with

00:26:35.880 women that's what I'm

00:26:37.160 saying like the pie chart

00:26:38.620 is there if a woman's

00:26:40.240 freaking out in the

00:26:40.960 courting stage or you're

00:26:41.940 doing something wrong

00:26:42.500 you're going way

00:26:42.940 because every single

00:26:43.820 woman I date generally

00:26:45.280 if they're good

00:26:46.020 intelligent women most

00:26:47.120 women want a long-term

00:26:47.920 relationship if they're

00:26:49.060 not with you then

00:26:49.720 you're missing something

00:26:50.580 and you know you're

00:26:51.800 probably giving way too

00:26:52.700 much attention

00:26:53.240 validation you're

00:26:54.020 probably needy there's

00:26:55.160 something there because

00:26:56.380 the longer you spend

00:26:57.360 with a woman the more

00:26:58.680 she's gonna like you

00:26:59.440 in it women are like

00:27:00.180 that when she's

00:27:00.980 committed to spending

00:27:01.520 time with you she's

00:27:02.560 not I'm not speaking

00:27:03.860 for America you guys

00:27:04.680 are crazy I don't know

00:27:05.240 what's going on over

00:27:05.780 there I'm saying I've

00:27:07.960 seen some crazy videos

00:27:08.960 London is not better

00:27:11.400 no London is a mini

00:27:13.680 America yeah yeah

00:27:15.020 I forget I'm in London

00:27:16.720 sometimes because it's

00:27:17.900 so Americanized we're

00:27:19.000 way behind we're 10

00:27:19.840 years behind you guys I

00:27:20.920 think we're getting

00:27:21.460 there but I see videos

00:27:23.060 of women being like oh

00:27:23.900 I do this and I leave

00:27:24.780 I sleep with men and I

00:27:26.180 ghost them it's like

00:27:26.780 what you've seen some

00:27:29.060 of the blog the blog

00:27:30.220 pages here you guys got

00:27:31.440 wild shit on those too

00:27:32.820 I haven't seen that but

00:27:36.420 yeah so they're good at

00:27:37.360 flipping with that but

00:27:38.300 that's the transition

00:27:39.560 period there's a

00:27:40.080 transitional period in

00:27:41.000 life sorry in other

00:27:42.260 words they've got game

00:27:42.960 yeah but there's a

00:27:44.140 transitional period

00:27:44.840 because it's kind of

00:27:45.600 pathetic these guys

00:27:46.400 also I'm gonna settle

00:27:48.220 this once and for all

00:27:48.960 right this idea that

00:27:50.280 sleeping with loads of

00:27:51.100 women means you're like

00:27:51.820 a top guy it doesn't

00:27:53.040 it just means you're

00:27:53.740 exactly most of the

00:27:54.560 time it means you're a

00:27:55.320 loser it means you don't

00:27:56.220 you don't have any goals

00:27:56.960 why do you need an ego

00:27:57.720 stroke you're not you're

00:27:58.680 not pushing for anything

00:27:59.760 you have way too much

00:28:01.120 time to spend you know

00:28:02.580 uh putting like 20

00:28:04.020 women in the talking

00:28:04.720 stage and then dealing

00:28:05.500 with all their games

00:28:06.200 until you fight they

00:28:06.880 finally sleep with you

00:28:07.720 it normally means high

00:28:09.400 value men are selective

00:28:10.280 not just anyone can walk

00:28:11.660 into my life I agree

00:28:12.540 and I think usually

00:28:13.700 usually they are making

00:28:14.960 up pruning security or

00:28:16.080 they're trying to feed

00:28:16.660 the ego normally they

00:28:17.720 spent too much time in a

00:28:18.920 long-term relationship in

00:28:19.900 like their early 20s and

00:28:21.080 then she left and then

00:28:21.860 they're trying to make up

00:28:22.560 now they want to date all

00:28:23.340 the girls they get a lot

00:28:25.100 of attention now that's

00:28:26.200 normally what I see the

00:28:27.500 guys who are sleeping with

00:28:28.420 being promiscuous past like

00:28:29.940 25 to like in their 40s

00:28:32.080 they dated one girl for

00:28:33.440 like seven years when

00:28:34.340 they were like 18 and

00:28:35.160 then she left and then

00:28:36.040 they think fuck I could

00:28:37.000 have slept with all these

00:28:37.620 hotties and now now they

00:28:39.040 just want to sleep with as

00:28:39.820 many women as possible

00:28:40.540 that's why they say that

00:28:42.140 like men with more sexual

00:28:43.520 partners are like happier

00:28:44.880 in their relationship

00:28:45.800 can I just say exactly

00:28:47.040 what you just said so

00:28:48.460 men so when men is okay

00:28:50.820 the happiest relationships

00:28:52.060 are when like they're both

00:28:53.340 virgins like that's number

00:28:54.540 one but it's like if a man

00:28:57.300 slept with around I don't

00:28:58.300 remember exactly what it was

00:28:59.440 but it was roughly like

00:29:00.360 three partners versus

00:29:01.680 eight or nine partners

00:29:03.020 he's happily he's happier

00:29:05.040 in his relationship when

00:29:06.100 he's had eight or nine

00:29:06.960 yeah I I attest to that

00:29:08.560 I think men this has just

00:29:10.520 been my experience the

00:29:11.660 more women I've slept with

00:29:12.700 the more I've worked out

00:29:13.840 what it is I want what I

00:29:14.800 don't want it's

00:29:15.300 essentially it's

00:29:16.200 unintentionally been a

00:29:17.480 screening process so we

00:29:18.620 didn't have the week

00:29:19.120 type of process yeah and

00:29:20.300 now it's and now it's

00:29:21.460 essentially it left me in

00:29:23.300 a position where I knew

00:29:24.700 exactly what I wanted

00:29:25.800 what what was completely

00:29:26.880 non-negotiable and I

00:29:29.440 I would shoot for that I

00:29:30.760 would be very selective you

00:29:31.720 have that's made me very

00:29:32.580 happy now you have to

00:29:33.600 screen guys like there's

00:29:34.620 no a lot of guys are

00:29:36.320 frustrated right now and

00:29:37.660 you know I see it in the

00:29:38.360 comments because a lot of

00:29:39.540 guys you give way too much

00:29:40.440 time and attention to

00:29:41.220 women who have nothing to

00:29:42.560 offer back and they get

00:29:43.720 frustrated and as a guy

00:29:44.860 who's been way past that

00:29:45.980 stage I'll tell you most of

00:29:47.000 these people aren't they

00:29:48.260 don't care about you they

00:29:48.940 don't like you the average

00:29:50.220 woman so you've got a

00:29:51.220 screen too oh yeah a lot of

00:29:52.900 guys looked at that stage and

00:29:54.320 were like you know like I

00:29:55.480 think I just talked to

00:29:56.160 anyone on the road

00:29:56.880 nah I'll be I have to

00:29:58.100 kind of like and respect

00:29:58.860 to you first like that's

00:30:00.280 just the stage and the

00:30:01.140 ignoring bit is when I

00:30:02.700 have conversations I say

00:30:04.220 things and try and

00:30:04.900 inquire but if someone

00:30:06.460 doesn't give me a good

00:30:07.220 enough response if it's

00:30:08.380 not like if I ask her

00:30:09.480 more than three questions

00:30:10.260 and she doesn't ask me

00:30:10.940 anything back I just

00:30:12.180 stop replying like I'll

00:30:13.480 just read you know I have

00:30:15.320 a super chat real quick it

00:30:16.660 says people wanting real

00:30:17.860 solutions this is a

00:30:18.880 conversation about healing

00:30:19.960 seeing acupuncturists or a

00:30:21.920 tantric yoga expert so on

00:30:23.380 the damage is not

00:30:24.100 permanent there's no perfect

00:30:25.100 solution but if you don't

00:30:26.080 mind it don't matter

00:30:27.300 commit to what matters

00:30:28.180 okay go ahead kid I have

00:30:29.280 a question for the

00:30:29.980 fellas do you think that

00:30:31.920 the more sexual partners a

00:30:33.400 guy has been with the

00:30:35.920 harder it is for him to

00:30:37.600 accept one woman for the

00:30:39.260 rest of his life no no

00:30:41.200 no I think well actually I

00:30:43.120 don't want to generalize

00:30:43.920 here I'm going to say

00:30:44.540 specifically for my for my

00:30:46.320 position no I think getting

00:30:48.820 loads out of my system when

00:30:49.940 I was younger has allowed

00:30:51.260 me to be far more selective

00:30:52.400 know what I want and what I

00:30:53.620 don't want as and now has

00:30:55.200 made me very specific in

00:30:57.080 who I want to go for and

00:30:58.120 as I am now in a happy

00:31:01.120 long-term relationship as a

00:31:02.320 result and I attribute a

00:31:03.880 lot of that to essentially

00:31:05.420 the quote-unquote weeding

00:31:06.560 out process that I went

00:31:08.520 through personally

00:31:08.600 I think the host can kind of

00:31:10.800 be like

00:31:11.200 can I ask you a question

00:31:13.100 yeah you you helped pave the

00:31:15.040 way for the fucking woman in

00:31:16.200 the future

00:31:16.540 shout out to the host

00:31:20.100 shout out

00:31:21.040 fuck you Rebecca

00:31:22.560 I think it does make it

00:31:28.240 easier because I as I

00:31:30.420 develop in my ability to

00:31:31.620 connect with people yeah as

00:31:32.580 what you said I start to see

00:31:34.760 how to understand how to

00:31:36.240 have better relationships but

00:31:37.560 I mean it depends on what

00:31:38.880 you mean I think there's a

00:31:40.740 there's a point of

00:31:41.240 diminishing returns like

00:31:42.680 agree like when you reach a

00:31:43.920 certain number and you've

00:31:45.000 slept with enough people I've

00:31:46.160 slept with posh girls rich

00:31:47.260 girls celebrities and it's kind

00:31:48.960 of like I kind of know what

00:31:51.100 kind of qualities I like yeah

00:31:52.660 um and you know I've I've

00:31:55.940 experienced at least some

00:31:57.080 points where like you've

00:31:57.940 really connected with people

00:31:58.900 like a non-sexual way like

00:32:00.460 you're like I actually just

00:32:01.780 like you as a person I think

00:32:02.680 you're just but you wouldn't

00:32:03.300 you wouldn't you wouldn't

00:32:03.960 have anyone on your roster

00:32:05.340 unless you actually like them

00:32:06.160 as a person anyway yeah yeah

00:32:07.620 yeah yeah but when a man's

00:32:09.380 ready to settle down he's

00:32:10.020 ready to settle down if I'm

00:32:10.900 not I'm not do you think do

00:32:12.800 you think part of it is

00:32:13.680 because I don't know maybe

00:32:14.860 it's the the stereotypical

00:32:16.900 of logical thinking do you

00:32:18.020 think if a man's ready to

00:32:19.260 build a legacy then he

00:32:20.320 understands that's the

00:32:21.160 sacrifice he's willing to

00:32:22.020 make it is a sacrifice

00:32:23.240 giving up my freedom is a

00:32:25.160 big sacrifice sacrifice

00:32:26.600 investing that much

00:32:28.160 emotional energy time

00:32:29.200 attention to someone is a

00:32:30.180 massive sacrifice you

00:32:31.100 better be the real deal

00:32:31.920 you better be the real I

00:32:32.860 can't afford to do that

00:32:33.780 and even legally like men

00:32:35.180 are at such a disadvantage

00:32:36.560 in the laws today so

00:32:37.840 that's why earlier when you

00:32:38.680 were talking about how men

00:32:40.420 gain more from marriage

00:32:41.660 they gain they gain the risk

00:32:43.160 to that you can leave take

00:32:44.440 half and the kids

00:32:45.580 leverage your kids

00:32:46.740 against you

00:32:47.220 women get more rights

00:32:47.920 in this country

00:32:48.420 that's a fact

00:32:49.080 yeah

00:32:49.520 you gotta be you gotta be

00:32:53.680 like lit

00:32:54.340 you gotta be seriously

00:32:55.760 I mean thinking of it

00:32:58.880 as a sacrifice as opposed

00:33:00.180 to an investment

00:33:01.140 like

00:33:02.000 so thinking of it as a

00:33:05.440 sacrifice as opposed to

00:33:06.900 an investment like

00:33:08.360 it's both

00:33:09.040 okay cool

00:33:10.400 which one is it more of

00:33:13.040 that's what an investment

00:33:13.920 is though you sacrifice

00:33:14.900 some funds to invest in

00:33:16.560 something that's time

00:33:17.940 energy attention I could

00:33:18.800 be spending elsewhere but

00:33:19.700 I choose this one person

00:33:21.300 that's like

00:33:22.720 and now they have the risk

00:33:25.640 so they have the risk that

00:33:27.720 you could leave and take

00:33:28.560 half you might not do it

00:33:29.880 and you might assume that

00:33:31.100 like you might think that

00:33:32.200 you won't but there's a

00:33:33.320 50% chance that the

00:33:35.940 marriage ends in divorce

00:33:36.860 and it's a 70 to 80%

00:33:38.920 chance that the woman

00:33:39.580 leaves 90% chance if

00:33:40.760 you're college educated

00:33:41.600 so from a dude's point of

00:33:43.020 view like that is a huge

00:33:44.080 risk

00:33:44.660 why do you in your eyes

00:33:46.280 why do you see marriage

00:33:47.300 as more of a benefit for

00:33:48.260 the man than the woman

00:33:48.960 mainly because most men

00:33:53.060 when you get married I

00:33:56.340 think it makes life more

00:33:59.020 stable you're able to

00:34:00.100 focus more you're able to

00:34:02.600 yeah basically just focus

00:34:04.680 more

00:34:05.080 can you not do that with

00:34:06.120 a relationship without

00:34:07.120 marriage

00:34:07.520 maybe but then I think

00:34:10.860 the fact that the woman

00:34:11.860 is more likely to leave

00:34:14.540 they don't I mean to be

00:34:17.380 honest

00:34:17.700 essentially

00:34:18.140 you guys are all

00:34:18.980 complaining about how

00:34:20.340 bad marriage or how it's

00:34:22.700 not good and how women

00:34:24.580 are like this and how

00:34:26.360 certain women don't

00:34:27.360 deserve this

00:34:28.200 then just don't get

00:34:29.640 married

00:34:29.860 we're just talking about

00:34:34.200 the reality of what comes

00:34:36.260 with marriage today

00:34:36.940 especially for men right

00:34:38.200 that's what we're saying

00:34:38.960 but do you find it

00:34:39.840 interesting how like she

00:34:40.660 did she doesn't recognize

00:34:41.720 the sacrifice for men

00:34:42.820 I do recognize the

00:34:44.120 sacrifice

00:34:44.200 that's a lot of women

00:34:44.620 who just don't

00:34:45.300 but I think

00:34:45.820 I think

00:34:46.200 I think a big part of

00:34:48.380 that though is

00:34:49.400 because

00:34:50.200 I don't think women have

00:34:52.580 the same appetite for

00:34:54.040 variety that men do

00:34:55.200 so when so when a man

00:34:58.040 if a man grows accustomed

00:34:59.900 to having a variety

00:35:01.260 it is a sacrifice for him

00:35:03.300 I mean because the guy

00:35:04.280 who doesn't have

00:35:04.860 variety is not a

00:35:05.460 sacrifice for him

00:35:06.060 like their relationship

00:35:06.740 is only a bonus

00:35:07.760 is only a bonus

00:35:08.680 I agree with that

00:35:09.480 I have a question

00:35:10.580 if a man is married

00:35:12.060 do you think he's

00:35:12.680 entitled to sex

00:35:13.660 with his wife

00:35:15.500 yeah

00:35:15.760 yeah of course

00:35:16.620 why not

00:35:16.960 do you think if she's

00:35:17.580 not giving him sex

00:35:18.760 that he can cheat

00:35:19.560 no

00:35:21.340 I don't think

00:35:22.220 if she's not giving

00:35:22.980 do you see sex

00:35:23.640 as a duty

00:35:24.180 from the wife

00:35:25.240 it's a duty

00:35:27.020 for both of them

00:35:27.800 yeah

00:35:28.040 it's part of like

00:35:29.440 it's part of married

00:35:30.460 life

00:35:30.880 to have sex

00:35:31.660 with your husband

00:35:32.080 but considering

00:35:32.700 that's predominantly

00:35:34.800 the woman's value

00:35:35.700 if a man isn't

00:35:37.180 say for example

00:35:37.740 a man says

00:35:38.300 I require

00:35:39.280 so I'm providing

00:35:40.180 everything

00:35:40.520 it can't just be

00:35:41.060 any bloke

00:35:41.400 you're married

00:35:41.820 he's providing

00:35:42.600 absolutely everything

00:35:43.420 he says

00:35:44.180 I want sex

00:35:44.920 four times a day

00:35:45.720 you say no

00:35:46.820 do you believe

00:35:47.800 if you can't

00:35:49.100 hack that

00:35:49.580 he should be able

00:35:50.560 to explore

00:35:51.320 that sexual

00:35:52.140 desire elsewhere

00:35:53.640 if you're not

00:35:54.220 satisfying

00:35:54.660 when he's satisfying

00:35:55.340 you with all of

00:35:55.920 his resources

00:35:56.400 time and energy

00:35:57.780 and provision

00:35:58.320 if you as a woman

00:35:59.920 if it doesn't bother

00:36:00.760 you as a woman

00:36:01.500 that your husband

00:36:02.080 is gonna step out

00:36:02.980 and cheat

00:36:03.360 then cool

00:36:03.880 let him cheat

00:36:04.460 okay

00:36:05.740 but the thing is

00:36:07.000 you're now giving him

00:36:07.820 every reason

00:36:08.440 to step out

00:36:08.900 and cheat

00:36:09.200 like I'm not saying

00:36:10.280 a woman should have

00:36:11.440 sex with a man

00:36:12.060 but don't you want

00:36:12.800 to have sex

00:36:13.200 with your man

00:36:13.640 four times a day

00:36:14.880 it's a lot

00:36:15.800 but to be honest

00:36:16.780 like let's be honest

00:36:18.060 he's doing everything

00:36:19.180 for you

00:36:19.940 he's doing everything

00:36:21.100 literally you've asked

00:36:21.960 for you would have wanted

00:36:22.640 well and it's like

00:36:23.180 modern women

00:36:23.840 they show up to their jobs

00:36:26.020 when they don't want to

00:36:26.840 but they won't show up

00:36:27.500 to their husbands

00:36:28.040 when they don't want to

00:36:28.960 this is why

00:36:30.240 this is why I say

00:36:31.200 you want to have

00:36:31.600 your cake and eat you

00:36:32.280 I think the man

00:36:33.080 at that stage

00:36:34.080 if he's

00:36:34.560 again he has to be

00:36:35.920 providing everything

00:36:36.680 can't just be

00:36:37.360 bumming around

00:36:38.020 doing fuck all

00:36:38.620 if he's providing

00:36:39.560 everything

00:36:40.080 that's his value

00:36:41.220 to you right

00:36:41.880 the provision

00:36:42.440 okay

00:36:42.880 naturally

00:36:43.300 if the value

00:36:44.580 for a man

00:36:45.200 from you

00:36:45.740 is sex

00:36:47.420 and you're not

00:36:48.480 fulfilling that desire

00:36:49.640 the way you're being

00:36:50.460 fulfilled

00:36:50.860 from your desire

00:36:52.740 do you believe

00:36:54.080 that he should be able

00:36:55.780 to cheat

00:36:56.000 conversation

00:36:56.480 it's like

00:36:57.320 and I think

00:36:58.140 marriage looks

00:36:58.860 different for

00:36:59.640 everybody

00:37:00.860 to be honest

00:37:02.300 so

00:37:02.760 I think that's a cop out

00:37:04.180 what do you mean

00:37:04.780 I personally think

00:37:05.580 that's a cop out

00:37:06.080 I think

00:37:06.440 when you say

00:37:07.700 marriage looks

00:37:08.280 different for everybody

00:37:08.920 in what sense

00:37:09.640 in the sense that

00:37:10.800 okay I'm thinking

00:37:11.760 about like

00:37:12.420 Will Smith and Jadar

00:37:13.480 they've renegotiated

00:37:15.980 and rearranged

00:37:17.280 their marriage

00:37:17.840 so she can

00:37:18.720 Will Smith

00:37:19.640 when you say

00:37:21.380 they're renegotiating

00:37:22.200 what you're actually

00:37:22.580 saying is Will Smith

00:37:23.140 trying to attempt

00:37:24.080 to grow a pair

00:37:25.000 I feel like

00:37:34.100 you guys

00:37:34.600 it's okay

00:37:36.000 doesn't matter

00:37:36.680 I could imagine

00:37:38.240 because Will Smith

00:37:38.840 gives everything

00:37:39.500 he gives his fame

00:37:40.240 he gives his time

00:37:41.120 he forgives her

00:37:41.920 for whatever she does

00:37:42.960 she doesn't

00:37:43.620 she doesn't respect him

00:37:44.300 but are we going

00:37:45.800 off of what social media

00:37:46.840 and he worships her

00:37:47.720 she says

00:37:48.220 oh I still love

00:37:49.920 Tupac

00:37:50.460 and I settled for you

00:37:51.780 and he goes

00:37:52.300 well marriage for life

00:37:53.640 you know

00:37:53.980 I think

00:37:55.240 I think you would

00:37:56.120 love that

00:37:56.560 I think that's

00:37:57.320 what you

00:37:57.620 I didn't mind

00:37:58.920 because you don't

00:37:59.600 know me

00:37:59.960 that very man

00:38:01.320 that very man

00:38:02.220 who

00:38:02.660 the man you

00:38:04.620 just described

00:38:05.280 Will Smith

00:38:05.940 the man who

00:38:06.720 bends over

00:38:07.440 backwards

00:38:07.860 he gives you

00:38:08.880 everything

00:38:09.300 and you

00:38:09.800 have no respect

00:38:10.600 for him

00:38:10.800 that there

00:38:11.540 is a picture

00:38:12.160 perfect example

00:38:13.080 of the man

00:38:13.600 who would take

00:38:14.200 on a woman

00:38:14.600 at 40 years

00:38:15.180 old with 12

00:38:15.580 wait so

00:38:16.760 were you saying

00:38:18.080 they were a good

00:38:18.660 example

00:38:19.040 I didn't think

00:38:20.140 you were

00:38:20.480 I was trying

00:38:21.820 to say that

00:38:22.460 the way that

00:38:23.120 they have

00:38:23.780 basically

00:38:24.400 defined marriage

00:38:26.340 how they want

00:38:27.100 to define it

00:38:28.120 right

00:38:28.420 they can have

00:38:29.720 an

00:38:29.880 they've agreed

00:38:30.860 to have an

00:38:31.500 open marriage

00:38:33.020 and

00:38:33.700 they're entitled

00:38:35.740 to do that

00:38:36.420 that's agreed

00:38:36.880 prior

00:38:37.340 I'm talking

00:38:37.920 if the relationship

00:38:39.120 the presumption

00:38:39.940 when you start

00:38:40.600 a relationship

00:38:41.060 like any

00:38:41.580 or the marriage

00:38:42.140 sorry

00:38:42.420 was like

00:38:43.340 any other

00:38:43.740 marriage

00:38:44.000 in the western

00:38:44.380 world

00:38:44.720 or relationship

00:38:45.180 in the western

00:38:45.540 world

00:38:45.720 which is

00:38:46.040 we are

00:38:46.940 together

00:38:47.620 there's going

00:38:48.440 to be no

00:38:48.740 cheating

00:38:49.060 he provides

00:38:50.120 everything

00:38:50.400 she doesn't

00:38:51.300 give him the

00:38:51.700 sex

00:38:51.920 or sexually

00:38:52.700 satisfy him

00:38:53.320 does he have

00:38:54.180 the right

00:38:54.500 to go and

00:38:54.900 cheat

00:38:55.080 with the

00:38:56.160 presumption

00:38:56.520 in the beginning

00:38:56.960 that they

00:38:57.340 are monogamous

00:38:58.200 do you know

00:38:58.960 I think

00:38:59.540 okay

00:38:59.920 if I was

00:39:01.440 together

00:39:01.600 because I

00:39:01.980 can't talk

00:39:02.360 about anybody

00:39:02.960 else but myself

00:39:04.000 if I was

00:39:04.880 married

00:39:05.220 and my husband

00:39:06.180 wanted more

00:39:07.660 of me

00:39:08.300 than I could

00:39:09.080 give

00:39:09.500 I would hope

00:39:10.460 that we had

00:39:11.280 a good enough

00:39:12.060 relationship

00:39:12.560 but me

00:39:13.720 and him

00:39:14.000 to sit

00:39:14.380 down

00:39:14.820 and for us

00:39:15.720 to discuss

00:39:16.440 options

00:39:17.020 if that meant

00:39:17.820 a threesome

00:39:18.600 bringing other

00:39:19.440 women in

00:39:20.140 then I would

00:39:21.940 be down for it

00:39:22.840 do you know

00:39:23.200 what I respect

00:39:23.760 that answer

00:39:24.260 okay

00:39:24.760 I respect

00:39:25.400 that

00:39:25.560 common ground

00:39:26.600 yay

00:39:27.080 okay

00:39:28.220 so I think

00:39:31.020 we're gonna

00:39:31.360 close out the show

00:39:32.420 why don't we

00:39:33.880 go around

00:39:34.280 everyone say

00:39:34.860 your final thoughts

00:39:35.640 and if anyone

00:39:36.320 has a super chat

00:39:37.560 they want me to

00:39:38.120 read

00:39:38.400 send it now

00:39:39.360 while they're

00:39:39.720 giving final thoughts

00:39:40.620 and I'll read

00:39:41.000 them before we

00:39:41.480 finish

00:39:41.780 the bigger

00:39:42.140 number you

00:39:42.680 send

00:39:42.880 the quicker

00:39:43.280 she'll

00:39:43.560 read it

00:39:44.020 yeah

00:39:44.580 so if you

00:39:45.600 want to

00:39:45.820 think

00:39:46.060 then why

00:39:46.460 don't we

00:39:46.720 start with

00:39:47.080 Jordan

00:39:47.340 and go

00:39:47.660 around

00:39:47.900 so I

00:39:49.380 would say

00:39:49.680 ultimately

00:39:50.280 learn to

00:39:52.320 understand what

00:39:53.000 it is men

00:39:53.600 and women

00:39:54.100 want from

00:39:55.160 a surface

00:39:56.340 level and

00:39:57.020 a biological

00:39:57.720 standpoint

00:39:58.980 understand men

00:40:00.940 and women

00:40:01.220 in regards to

00:40:04.100 the original

00:40:04.460 question

00:40:04.960 do more

00:40:05.740 do women

00:40:05.980 deserve to

00:40:07.000 be courted

00:40:07.540 the higher

00:40:09.520 value she

00:40:09.960 is in

00:40:10.160 your eyes

00:40:10.500 then the

00:40:10.840 more you

00:40:11.200 probably do

00:40:11.640 that but

00:40:11.980 if she's

00:40:12.300 not that

00:40:12.620 high value

00:40:13.000 then it's

00:40:13.440 not gonna

00:40:13.680 happen

00:40:14.000 so true

00:40:14.880 final thoughts

00:40:18.220 man there

00:40:21.260 was a lot

00:40:21.580 said tonight

00:40:22.080 I would

00:40:23.080 just say

00:40:23.640 take into

00:40:25.400 consideration

00:40:26.200 obviously what

00:40:27.280 it is you

00:40:27.860 want as a

00:40:28.360 person but

00:40:28.800 what it is

00:40:29.320 that you

00:40:29.880 want from

00:40:30.760 another person

00:40:31.500 because

00:40:31.960 essentially if

00:40:33.060 you want

00:40:33.460 that you

00:40:34.660 can't if

00:40:36.940 you want

00:40:37.260 someone at

00:40:37.800 this level

00:40:38.200 you can't be

00:40:38.760 at this level

00:40:39.440 trying to

00:40:40.340 achieve the

00:40:41.220 greatest thing

00:40:41.900 you can't be

00:40:42.960 I'm an

00:40:44.280 athlete so

00:40:44.680 I'm gonna

00:40:45.000 have an

00:40:45.680 analogy in

00:40:46.160 basketball you

00:40:46.640 can't be the

00:40:47.180 greatest of

00:40:47.600 all time if

00:40:48.300 you only spend

00:40:49.140 two hours in

00:40:49.880 the gym every

00:40:50.540 day so you

00:40:51.700 have to do you

00:40:52.340 have to put in

00:40:52.800 the work you

00:40:53.160 have to be the

00:40:53.840 person that you

00:40:54.720 want to attract

00:40:55.420 yeah and if

00:40:56.080 you want to

00:40:56.380 see us

00:40:57.100 working towards

00:40:57.980 that shout

00:40:58.360 out wife

00:40:58.700 school dropping

00:40:59.340 soon

00:40:59.740 shout out

00:41:00.540 shout out

00:41:01.360 trying to get

00:41:02.140 married out here

00:41:02.960 shout out

00:41:03.520 wife school

00:41:04.020 dropping new

00:41:04.980 channel alert

00:41:05.740 go ahead

00:41:06.680 I just think

00:41:08.180 that at the

00:41:08.700 end of the

00:41:08.900 day if you

00:41:09.320 want people to

00:41:09.960 look at you

00:41:10.420 and respect you

00:41:11.200 and value it

00:41:11.880 a certain way

00:41:12.460 you need to

00:41:13.440 set the bar

00:41:13.880 and you set

00:41:14.200 the standard

00:41:14.580 at the end

00:41:14.980 of the day

00:41:15.280 and that

00:41:16.060 means respecting

00:41:17.600 yourself and

00:41:18.400 not putting

00:41:18.840 yourself like

00:41:20.000 making yourself

00:41:20.480 accessible to

00:41:21.180 every single

00:41:21.740 person around

00:41:22.260 you whether

00:41:22.560 that's any

00:41:24.140 man woman

00:41:25.440 whatever it

00:41:26.060 is you just

00:41:26.560 need to respect

00:41:27.040 yourself

00:41:27.480 my final

00:41:30.480 message would

00:41:31.000 be to

00:41:32.140 respect yourself

00:41:32.940 respect your

00:41:33.560 time respect

00:41:34.120 your energy

00:41:34.540 respect your

00:41:35.080 efforts and

00:41:36.000 as much as

00:41:36.780 you know the

00:41:37.680 internet can

00:41:38.220 oversimplify things

00:41:39.160 and say you

00:41:39.680 know men good

00:41:40.180 women bad and

00:41:40.700 everything everyone's

00:41:41.860 just trying their

00:41:42.540 best out here

00:41:43.140 and I think you

00:41:45.140 know it starts

00:41:45.980 with you respecting

00:41:46.760 yourself and being

00:41:47.560 careful about the

00:41:48.140 energy and time

00:41:48.680 you're investing in

00:41:49.180 other people that

00:41:49.900 will avoid

00:41:50.300 frustration frustration

00:41:51.520 will allow you to

00:41:53.000 be more successful

00:41:53.640 and with success

00:41:54.200 you may learn and

00:41:54.800 grow

00:41:55.340 I'll say with reference

00:42:00.260 to the original

00:42:01.520 question yes all

00:42:05.160 women deserve to

00:42:06.320 be courted and

00:42:07.280 if one man won't

00:42:08.580 another man will

00:42:09.800 hold your head

00:42:10.940 high keep moving

00:42:12.180 forward because it

00:42:13.760 is what it is

00:42:14.680 oh shit single

00:42:16.200 wait so I just

00:42:17.080 quick just last

00:42:18.160 question I was

00:42:18.960 curious how you'd

00:42:19.780 answer this so what

00:42:21.340 do you say like the

00:42:22.360 one super chat said

00:42:23.440 there's more women

00:42:25.300 than men on the

00:42:26.020 world so even if

00:42:27.320 every man was

00:42:27.960 courting every woman

00:42:28.780 every woman wouldn't

00:42:29.700 get courted

00:42:30.220 single women are

00:42:31.260 the happiest

00:42:31.800 demographic in the

00:42:32.940 world right now

00:42:33.760 it's not true

00:42:34.460 no no no

00:42:35.040 that's the statistic

00:42:35.880 no it's not

00:42:36.640 that's fact

00:42:37.520 no it's not

00:42:38.280 I'll link it

00:42:40.640 it's women

00:42:41.940 it's women

00:42:42.740 okay then let me

00:42:43.860 tell you this then

00:42:44.640 what I would say

00:42:45.900 to that is

00:42:46.600 what I would say

00:42:48.340 to that is every

00:42:49.160 woman should delve

00:42:50.400 to go into

00:42:51.780 themselves make

00:42:52.860 sure that they are

00:42:53.540 happy within

00:42:54.120 themselves find

00:42:54.880 things to occupy

00:42:55.760 your time find

00:42:56.940 your skills carry

00:42:58.300 on building upon

00:42:59.280 yourself and you

00:43:00.020 really won't

00:43:01.080 need to do

00:43:01.580 but so just

00:43:03.180 just quick women

00:43:04.300 at the bottom of

00:43:04.940 the totem pole the

00:43:05.740 ones that like that

00:43:06.460 are left they don't

00:43:07.160 deserve to be

00:43:07.680 courted because

00:43:08.400 there's no one

00:43:08.800 there right what

00:43:10.140 do you mean like

00:43:11.060 like so if there's

00:43:12.080 more women than

00:43:13.440 men you can take

00:43:14.120 somebody else's

00:43:14.860 husband seeing as

00:43:15.580 a man is going

00:43:20.300 to cheat isn't

00:43:21.060 it they're going

00:43:22.240 to cheat so just

00:43:23.420 wait for someone

00:43:24.280 away listen now

00:43:24.460 you should marry

00:43:24.980 yourself now

00:43:25.620 marry yourself

00:43:27.860 I'm joking

00:43:28.880 oh my god

00:43:31.120 okay go to a

00:43:33.560 different dimension

00:43:34.200 of logic

00:43:34.560 okay go ahead

00:43:37.760 that's what creative

00:43:38.460 minds do

00:43:39.100 I know you

00:43:41.000 look at

00:43:41.980 360 that was

00:43:43.380 a full three

00:43:44.320 he's fine though

00:43:44.960 you know what

00:43:45.740 you're good

00:43:46.300 TV

00:43:46.740 you're good

00:43:47.260 TV

00:43:47.660 go ahead

00:43:49.040 I just think

00:43:49.900 I just think

00:43:50.540 after all that

00:43:52.220 I've heard today

00:43:52.900 I think we all

00:43:53.700 need to learn

00:43:54.720 how to set

00:43:55.220 boundaries

00:43:55.760 for one

00:43:56.900 and actually

00:43:58.600 just be honest

00:43:59.280 with each other

00:43:59.980 about what

00:44:01.200 the other person

00:44:02.020 wants

00:44:02.540 because at the

00:44:03.940 end of the day

00:44:04.420 all this mind

00:44:05.460 games playing

00:44:06.660 is like

00:44:07.840 to me I think

00:44:08.640 it's a little

00:44:09.040 bit boring

00:44:09.580 but we're all

00:44:10.460 different

00:44:10.900 but at the

00:44:12.100 end of the

00:44:12.380 day if we

00:44:12.800 all just

00:44:13.060 take accountability

00:44:13.740 as well

00:44:14.600 then it's

00:44:16.540 fine

00:44:16.920 nice of you

00:44:18.600 to fucking

00:44:19.000 join us

JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023

She Agreed to Being DELUSIONAL

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