She Could NOT ACCEPT This
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about body positivity, fat shaming, body dysmorphia and lizzo. We also talk about the women's empowerment movement and why it's so hard for women to be fat in the modern era.
Transcript
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i have another clip for us to react to so pull up click clip number three
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all right blessing what oh move the bottle yeah just to the floor okay
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okay oh this is what i was talking about earlier it started from the beginning if you don't mind
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blessing i think like women are just fat today yeah which is nice which women like which most
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women like to be fat rather than slim now do you think they like i don't think they like oh yeah
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yeah we like the big thick thighs yeah but that's not they like they like okay a big butt with a small
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waist that's not fat yeah you can't have a big small waist without surgery but this one here she's
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got a great shape she's she's got big butt small waist naturally is is it depends on your state
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you wouldn't say she's fat though so not fat but i mean most women like to be bigger now nowadays
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rather than deem skinny maybe they pretend they're happy because there's body positivity
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i'm happy big girl's life you mean as big as lisa or yeah she's happy she's happy okay
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okay let me let me ask you let me let me she's making money what one to ten what do you rank
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lizzo one to ten ten ten ah based on money based on how much okay okay look one at a time
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do you really think she's cries on instagram live oh i don't know that much about her i just
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know i see her do you genuinely okay do you genuinely think she's happy at like 300 pounds how
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could one be happy does she not look happy no i think she looks like i don't know her personally
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so i but from what i can see i feel like she's looks wise what do you what do you rank her
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one just okay social media is very deceptive okay okay so so one to ten you would trade your body with
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let me just let me finish this like why do you lie no no no let me let me let me finish let me finish
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you said she had a good figure yeah she would be offended if you said she looks like lizzo
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would would you be offended if i said you look fat like lizzo
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but do you think that's just what is that's like she has a good figure because she's so
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who's skinny who's really women trying to be nice i would prefer lizzo than a really skinny skinny
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woman yeah but you're kind of extreme again no it's the same thing you said really skinny okay
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right no i would i would take nobody i would take no butt no boobs really and then over lizzo yes
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if she really wanted to she couldn't you know and no i think if she wanted to she'd do it she had
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those she was on tick tock like on the treadmill oh i don't go i don't have to talk i don't you see a
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whole different side of words i don't have a question part though you gave her a 10 what
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what's your metric because she's confident with it so anybody anybody that's confident i think yeah
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women raised with feeling not logic it comes with with how you feel that's what i can see i was big
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and i'd liked it but i was big small what made you like it because i was different and i couldn't i
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don't go gym i i hate gym i hate anything healthy i eat everything not healthy but i liked it then and
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i like it now i and i'm very confident do you not do you not think there's universal standards of beauty
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so when everyone walks into the room where everyone can kind of what okay when when everyone walks into
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the room you don't think everyone has a general wait blessing can you finish the sentence and then and
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then you can pause it perception of who's more beautiful and less beautiful
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so i meant like for her response too sorry i don't know these days no i'm not i'm not talking
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about these days in general well yeah and okay even even even take us in the room you don't think
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most of us like they could say who's more beautiful and less beautiful oh yeah and i'm not i'm not trying
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to put us against each other i'm not saying to be rated but like i'm saying like you don't think in
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general you know who the pretty friend in your friend group is yeah i think what she's doing okay
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why is it so hard for women to admit that lizzo is not a 10 and why don't we see the same body
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positivity for men oh it's all about the women's empowerment like women want to feel so empowered
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through i guess years under under the patriarchy that anything goes there is there's women can do
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no wrong in anyone's eyes you can be fat you can be whole you can do this you can slap up slap up a
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guy it don't matter as long as you're a woman everything you do gets a blind so now you just
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delude yourselves you just lie to each other at your own detriment because to say someone like lizzo is
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attractive and healthy and homegirl said myself like i don't like gym i don't like to do anything
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healthy that's someone to run away from straight away but again to say that you might be misogynistic
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or blah blah blah like anything a woman does nowadays yeah we like even when talking about uh guys and
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relationships it's always i feel like it's filled with excuses oh no he does like you it's just
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he does like you but he's no he just don't like you you just need to be straight up about certain
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things um it's a bit harsh telling your friends i'll uh you're overweight nah that's that's actually
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a lot easier than saying um you're ugly but i think yeah definitely you can change your weight
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you can't change your if your face looks like like looks like you got smashed in with a baseball bat
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what do you think tiana i don't know i feel like like you said like it's easier to judge once like
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to judge yourself than to judge someone else because then you're kind of like you're projecting what you
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view as beauty onto somebody else which isn't really important i don't know i feel like it's a very
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uncomfortable place to sit in but you don't think there's subjective standards of beauty no i do believe
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in them okay i do think that like a lot of models are really tall they're very thin it depends where
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you are but like the certain metrics that we can use or even if we take like modeling out of it like
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there's certain girls that men find more attractive because it's not always necessarily the models you
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know what i mean like there's just some girls that are like more attractive yeah yeah i think we know
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i feel like there's an unspoken rule like i do think like we know who the pretty friend is
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yeah but then why the girls try and take out the the general view and try and make it based on the
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individual because you'll be like for me or just that when generally speaking you know whether someone's
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attractive or not so why do you feel like why do women take out the the more objective view and try
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to make it as subjective as possible i think maybe i'm just gonna go for what i i think very it's a very
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feminine to be um empathetic and maybe compassionate and being a hundred percent direct and honest and
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like straight slain down the facts is a very masculine trait so i'm not going to go to these two girls
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and tell them that they look a certain way i'm not going to rate them objectively from my perspective
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because i just like to what end what does that bring either one of us here you asked someone asked
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you a question though so why would you lie i'm not gonna lie but i just feel like okay after the
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show yeah if you say that it's very masculine to just uh just you know give a very just a fact yeah
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and then say it's feminine to be empathetic you can you can you know kindly say to somebody the truth
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i've done it so many times i think there's a friend's ugly no i'm talking about like there's
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being true if their character is ugly if they are they're not we're not asking about character look
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straight like your face i know but okay if we're talking about weight i did have a friend who's
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having difficulty putting up having a child and i told her it's because you're fat and i'm her closest
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friend and she took it and she but because of i i'm not just some stranger like saying yeah you're
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fine you go girl and stuff i apologize but um i i told her no it's because you're fat and you have
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to take responsibility i as a friend i'm not going to sit here like i have my own life and my time i'm
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giving it to you if you're going to sit there telling me the whole the same circular argument that's
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actually disrespectful to me like if you're if you really genuinely want to get pregnant sort your diet
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out and now guess what she's doing great as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we
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