She COULD NOT Answer This Question
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Summary
In this episode we discuss promiscuity in the male perspective and the female perspective. We discuss the difference between being a virgin and being in a relationship with a "promiscuous" man. We also discuss the benefits and negatives of being a "virgin" when it comes to sexual development.
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Do you agree or do you disagree that it's different for men and women?
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I disagree because I think that there is obviously a difference between men and women.
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But as a man, I mean, it can look as well negative that you are sleeping around and some of us don't want you to.
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So what's the problem with a guy being promiscuous from the female perspective?
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As well, it shows, first of all, lack of confidence, lack of control, lack of leadership and just a general man's body.
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A man is supposed to lead in general, biologically, naturally or whatever.
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I don't even know how to really pull it out in English.
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But you not being able to make one woman happy and you need the validation of all those women by not committing to something.
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It's already a sign of lack of confidence because one woman already is a lot of work, it's a lot of commitment, it's a lot of thing on a daily basis.
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But are you referring to in the context of a relationship or do you just mean a guy who sleeps around with a lot of women?
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with a lot of women so where i would say a guy who is in a relationship or is not
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um it can it can as if you dig them dig down to it it can just mean that the person lack of
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confidence so sorry do you mean do you mean lack of control or lack of confidence both control and
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confidence leadership and self-esteem but if a man if a man is clapping multiple cheeks
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he's clearly got enough confidence to approach a lot of these women to even get in that situation
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in general i will say the same thing for women as well if she has the capacity to bend down all those
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men she has a lot of confidence too it's a bit left isn't it but what i think you mean is that the
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man has just a lack of self-control no i don't think you mean he has a lack of confidence because a lack
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of confidence would not allow a man to approach a multitude of women what i mean is lack of
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confidence and control but both of them how can it be a lack of confidence if a man is able to
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approach the women and bed them i mean is it possible actually to make fully happy a woman
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one woman it's very difficult so you're talking about men and women are wired very differently
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unfortunately you know i mean our our hormones are very different i understand what you're saying
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biologically it is what it is you mean testosterone in men functions differently right and then
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women can turn around and and say well actually i don't like guys are inexperienced i don't know what
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they're doing but then at the same time they can argue the other side of well you know so it's a
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difficult place it's a difficult question to really answer to be honest yeah but at the end of the
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day um that we even consider it that it plays as well in the minds uh in the cycle of a man to
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continue to do this kind of but men boys don't become men until later stages and women you have
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to understand that as well physically and mentally ladies let me ask you this question ladies would you
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date a virgin no would you date a virgin no well yeah that's my point would you date a virgin yes or no
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it's the pen for flip sake man why in the middle you you are straight no why not you want a man of
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confidence no at the same time i think you know i feel like in a relationship obviously the sexual
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part of it is quite important may not be in all relationships but i think your majority is so i
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think especially say i think in that sense you want to be somewhat satisfied and obviously like some
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people like i feel like a guy would like to say a virgin because like obviously it's like oh she's
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got no body count like she doesn't have her body count i can teach her what to do whereas women like
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again we like to kind of be led as well so in that sense is like you know if you're acting masculine all
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day you don't want to be acting masculine in the bedroom with your man like that's just that's just
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that's just not on sorry but no that makes sense and you also said definitely not is it the same kind
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of reason um i just don't have patience to be teaching other people i want to be taught not in
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a sexual aspect i mean in a general aspect if and if i'm interested in a man it's because i want to be
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led let's say knowledge energy whatever it is a virgin because he is a virgin is then attached with
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let's say experience socially uh whatever do you mean there is there at a certain point not because
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of the sexual aspect of it because of their point in their life that it ties she wants a man of
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confidence yeah but nothing says as well that mr virgin that we're talking about um doesn't have the
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capacity to become a man no he can become a man but i'm sure he'll meet another virgin and they'll get on
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do you mean everybody vibrates in different energies and there are different points in their lives
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you know there is an exception in every single society you want someone with a clean slate what
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does that mean so so as as these lot said they don't want to date a virgin but you were a little
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bit melancholy in regards to it you technically wouldn't i said it's depend so it can be yes
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so in some situations depending on the person yeah exactly that's why i said that's why i said
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you're melancholy also all the factor that's uh you know that that makes the person depending on it
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i'm gonna say yes or no okay so you don't mind having to teach someone that's inexperienced you
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don't mind that that's okay i mean it's the pen like saying it's the pen there's a lot of factor
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that comes with it so what are the some factors that come into it what does it depend on first of all
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um i will respect the the the man uh regardless of him being a virgin
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um having leadership skills being a person who is confident and when that is on point i believe that
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when it comes to the sexual part even though he is um on this i don't know how to say that even though
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he doesn't have experience he will have a lot of confidence to uh get to understand and maybe have
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more patience and also better understanding than a person who already fucked up um his um mind with
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uh sorry porn and um all those uh major experiences yeah i mean the porn subjects aside uh i think you
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are i think you're making a bit of a mistake with the differences between men and women so a guy could
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sleep i am very clear with what i'm saying maybe it's the way i'm putting out but i'm not changing my mind
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that's fair enough but the point that i'm trying to make is that men and women are very different
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when it comes to sex a guy could sleep with a lot of girls and have no emotional connection to
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any of those girls yeah i understand that point but i'm still saying that it is still detrimental
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you know it's a fact that what you just said is uh proved by science but it's a fact as well that uh
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on the long term if you continue on that road it will still have the same effect that it can have on
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a woman not the same thing but you know is i will never say that um a woman should not sleep around
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and a man can because uh it's false but that they have less effect on a man it's just proven by science
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did you say that's proven by science yeah biologically no she she's agreeing that uh
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men i think you're talking about what i'm talking about which is pair bonding so men's ability to
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pair bond does start to decline but it's at a very different rate to women so you know a woman it's about
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five bodies so after a woman has gone above five bodies her ability to pair bond to a partner is
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decreased for a man it's like a way higher number i don't have the specific number but it it might be
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something like 50 or something um but obviously that's because men biologically are built to spread
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their seed whereas for women it's a bit different although i did see a study recently that suggested
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women are more polyamorous but that's i haven't looked into it so we can go