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00:00:00.000 Do you agree or do you disagree that it's different for men and women?

00:00:05.180 I disagree because I think that there is obviously a difference between men and women.

00:00:12.660 But as a man, I mean, it can look as well negative that you are sleeping around and some of us don't want you to.

00:00:23.180 So what's the problem with a guy being promiscuous from the female perspective? 0.94

00:00:26.640 As well, it shows, first of all, lack of confidence, lack of control, lack of leadership and just a general man's body.

00:00:39.080 You said community dick is lack of confidence.

00:00:41.860 Yeah.

00:00:44.520 Expand that one for me, please.

00:00:47.780 Just just just let's get into it.

00:00:49.540 Expand that one for me.

00:00:51.300 As well, my point of view is that.

00:00:55.460 Yeah.

00:00:56.640 A man is supposed to lead in general, biologically, naturally or whatever. 0.88

00:01:06.300 And.

00:01:09.220 I don't even know how to really pull it out in English.

00:01:12.880 It's a little bit difficult for me.

00:01:14.260 But you not being able to make one woman happy and you need the validation of all those women by not committing to something.

00:01:25.180 It's already a sign of lack of confidence because one woman already is a lot of work, it's a lot of commitment, it's a lot of thing on a daily basis. 1.00

00:01:36.340 You have to test the rules.

00:01:37.140 Yeah.

00:01:37.760 Because if you are a kid it's a lot of things.

00:01:38.140 You have to test the rules.

00:01:39.140 It's a lot of things.

00:01:40.140 For kids.

00:01:41.140 It's again another.

00:01:42.140 But are you referring to in the context of a relationship or do you just mean a guy who sleeps around with a lot of women?

00:01:48.140 with a lot of women so where i would say a guy who is in a relationship or is not

00:01:53.580 um it can it can as if you dig them dig down to it it can just mean that the person lack of

00:02:03.660 confidence so sorry do you mean do you mean lack of control or lack of confidence both control and

00:02:09.980 confidence leadership and self-esteem but if a man if a man is clapping multiple cheeks

00:02:16.460 he's clearly got enough confidence to approach a lot of these women to even get in that situation

00:02:20.460 in general i will say the same thing for women as well if she has the capacity to bend down all those 1.00

00:02:26.780 men she has a lot of confidence too it's a bit left isn't it but what i think you mean is that the

00:02:40.780 man has just a lack of self-control no i don't think you mean he has a lack of confidence because a lack

00:02:45.260 of confidence would not allow a man to approach a multitude of women what i mean is lack of

00:02:50.620 confidence and control but both of them how can it be a lack of confidence if a man is able to

00:02:57.740 approach the women and bed them i mean is it possible actually to make fully happy a woman 1.00

00:03:04.300 one woman it's very difficult so you're talking about men and women are wired very differently

00:03:08.860 unfortunately you know i mean our our hormones are very different i understand what you're saying

00:03:13.420 biologically it is what it is you mean testosterone in men functions differently right and then

00:03:21.260 women can turn around and and say well actually i don't like guys are inexperienced i don't know what

00:03:25.660 they're doing but then at the same time they can argue the other side of well you know so it's a

00:03:31.500 difficult place it's a difficult question to really answer to be honest yeah but at the end of the

00:03:35.820 day um that we even consider it that it plays as well in the minds uh in the cycle of a man to

00:03:44.700 continue to do this kind of but men boys don't become men until later stages and women you have

00:03:49.260 to understand that as well physically and mentally ladies let me ask you this question ladies would you 1.00

00:03:54.860 date a virgin no would you date a virgin no well yeah that's my point would you date a virgin yes or no

00:04:03.020 it's the pen for flip sake man why in the middle you you are straight no why not you want a man of

00:04:09.980 confidence no at the same time i think you know i feel like in a relationship obviously the sexual

00:04:15.740 part of it is quite important may not be in all relationships but i think your majority is so i

00:04:22.140 think especially say i think in that sense you want to be somewhat satisfied and obviously like some

00:04:29.340 people like i feel like a guy would like to say a virgin because like obviously it's like oh she's

00:04:33.180 got no body count like she doesn't have her body count i can teach her what to do whereas women like 1.00

00:04:39.420 again we like to kind of be led as well so in that sense is like you know if you're acting masculine all

00:04:45.740 day you don't want to be acting masculine in the bedroom with your man like that's just that's just

00:04:49.980 that's just not on sorry but no that makes sense and you also said definitely not is it the same kind

00:04:57.740 of reason um i just don't have patience to be teaching other people i want to be taught not in

00:05:03.100 a sexual aspect i mean in a general aspect if and if i'm interested in a man it's because i want to be

00:05:08.380 led let's say knowledge energy whatever it is a virgin because he is a virgin is then attached with

00:05:14.460 let's say experience socially uh whatever do you mean there is there at a certain point not because

00:05:21.580 of the sexual aspect of it because of their point in their life that it ties she wants a man of

00:05:26.620 confidence yeah but nothing says as well that mr virgin that we're talking about um doesn't have the 0.97

00:05:33.180 capacity to become a man no he can become a man but i'm sure he'll meet another virgin and they'll get on

00:05:38.940 do you mean everybody vibrates in different energies and there are different points in their lives

00:05:42.860 you know there is an exception in every single society you want someone with a clean slate what

00:05:49.980 does that mean so so as as these lot said they don't want to date a virgin but you were a little

00:05:54.940 bit melancholy in regards to it you technically wouldn't i said it's depend so it can be yes

00:06:00.540 so in some situations depending on the person yeah exactly that's why i said that's why i said

00:06:04.140 you're melancholy also all the factor that's uh you know that that makes the person depending on it

00:06:10.060 i'm gonna say yes or no okay so you don't mind having to teach someone that's inexperienced you

00:06:15.180 don't mind that that's okay i mean it's the pen like saying it's the pen there's a lot of factor

00:06:19.660 that comes with it so what are the some factors that come into it what does it depend on first of all

00:06:25.740 um i will respect the the the man uh regardless of him being a virgin

00:06:33.340 um having leadership skills being a person who is confident and when that is on point i believe that

00:06:43.180 when it comes to the sexual part even though he is um on this i don't know how to say that even though

00:06:51.180 he doesn't have experience he will have a lot of confidence to uh get to understand and maybe have

00:06:58.380 more patience and also better understanding than a person who already fucked up um his um mind with 0.99

00:07:06.380 uh sorry porn and um all those uh major experiences yeah i mean the porn subjects aside uh i think you

00:07:16.780 are i think you're making a bit of a mistake with the differences between men and women so a guy could

00:07:22.380 sleep i am very clear with what i'm saying maybe it's the way i'm putting out but i'm not changing my mind

00:07:28.060 that's fair enough but the point that i'm trying to make is that men and women are very different

00:07:31.580 when it comes to sex a guy could sleep with a lot of girls and have no emotional connection to

00:07:35.500 any of those girls yeah i understand that point but i'm still saying that it is still detrimental

00:07:42.220 you know it's a fact that what you just said is uh proved by science but it's a fact as well that uh

00:07:49.340 on the long term if you continue on that road it will still have the same effect that it can have on

00:07:54.460 a woman not the same thing but you know is i will never say that um a woman should not sleep around 1.00

00:08:01.180 and a man can because uh it's false but that they have less effect on a man it's just proven by science

00:08:08.140 did you say that's proven by science yeah biologically no she she's agreeing that uh

00:08:16.700 men i think you're talking about what i'm talking about which is pair bonding so men's ability to

00:08:23.180 pair bond does start to decline but it's at a very different rate to women so you know a woman it's about 0.97

00:08:29.580 five bodies so after a woman has gone above five bodies her ability to pair bond to a partner is 0.96

00:08:34.700 decreased for a man it's like a way higher number i don't have the specific number but it it might be

00:08:40.140 something like 50 or something um but obviously that's because men biologically are built to spread

00:08:46.460 their seed whereas for women it's a bit different although i did see a study recently that suggested

00:08:50.540 women are more polyamorous but that's i haven't looked into it so we can go 1.00

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