JustPearlyThings - She DISMANTLED for Being a Single Mother and An Only Fans Model

00:00:00.000 We're going to talk about, will modern women lose? 0.90

00:00:02.640 So, guys, I'm going to introduce you to some of my ideas.

00:00:06.760 Don't know how familiar you are with my content, so we'll see.

00:00:09.840 You know, women, you know, we're a net loss on the tax base, 1.00

00:00:13.720 meaning we spend more money than we make, right?

00:00:17.200 So men pay over $100,000 more in tax in their lifetime. 0.99

00:00:21.800 Yes, so the majority of people on benefits are women also. 1.00

00:00:24.800 And, you know, now I would say we offer, like, less to society than ever before.

00:00:30.220 We used to offer, like, seven kids.

00:00:32.100 Now the average woman is given, like, 1.5, 1.2. 0.57

00:00:36.340 You know, the guys used to marry us.

00:00:38.660 They used to get, like, a nice young virgin.

00:00:41.040 Now they don't.

00:00:42.700 They're like, I'll pray for that, but it's not happening, you know.

00:00:46.160 So, you know, I had this thought, will modern women ever lose?

00:00:51.220 Is there ever a consequence for women doing anything? 1.00

00:00:55.800 And what made me think of this was Lana Rhodes recently had a clip 1.00

00:01:00.180 that went viral, if you want to pull it up.

00:01:02.580 Actually, I think it might be a year or two old,

00:01:04.240 but it made me think of this because, you know,

00:01:08.140 I know she just got pregnant by an NBA guy, but we don't know who.

00:01:13.440 Like, I know the baby daddy.

00:01:14.520 And I was thinking, like, she essentially could put a guy on child support

00:01:17.860 for a lifetime, and boom, she's done for a bad decision.

00:01:21.200 Now, like, now she's taken care of.

00:01:23.080 So let's pull up this clip. 0.99

00:01:34.220 Such a fool in most of my decisions. 0.99

00:01:36.760 Even with all the success that you've had, 0.99

00:01:38.860 you're an incredible mother now, businesswoman,

00:01:41.140 you're working with Playboy,

00:01:42.180 you still look back on that and you still feel ashamed?

00:01:44.540 Yeah, I don't like the fact that people can see me naked on the internet

00:01:50.300 or can see those things happening to me.

00:01:53.260 I think that it's gross.

00:01:54.540 That is crazy that you can build this whole life

00:02:00.260 and you still feel ashamed.

00:02:02.280 I mean, I'm proud of myself and what I've done,

00:02:05.880 and I wouldn't take anything back.

00:02:07.840 However, it's not like I like the idea that people can view that of me.

00:02:11.980 I personally, those videos make me want to throw up.

00:02:15.740 It's very much a...

00:02:18.920 Is there two?

00:02:20.280 Is there a second one?

00:02:21.020 Let's go with people.

00:02:26.540 My experiences are really humiliating for me,

00:02:29.540 and I wish that they never happened.

00:02:33.180 Sorry.

00:02:33.980 Oh, don't cry.

00:02:35.040 And it just gets really extreme,

00:02:41.220 like you were saying, abusive.

00:02:43.140 Did you ever feel like...

00:02:44.340 Did you ever go through those experiences where you...

00:02:46.340 Honestly, I feel like I'm in denial sometimes

00:02:48.800 and I can't accept some of the things that I've done.

00:02:51.960 Some of my experiences are really humiliating for me.

00:02:56.820 Okay.

00:02:57.660 So my question is, you know,

00:02:59.320 she talks about this, the regret, whatever,

00:03:01.740 but she still works for Playboy 1.00

00:03:03.760 and she's worth $14 million. 0.94

00:03:06.960 So do modern women ever lose? 1.00

00:03:10.340 I mean, for $14 million,

00:03:12.240 it's not really losing, is it?

00:03:14.040 Period.

00:03:16.300 Okay, so you would say she doesn't lose.

00:03:18.260 She wins.

00:03:19.020 It's different, though,

00:03:19.840 because she's obviously regretting what she's done, right?

00:03:22.340 So I can relate to her because I do only fans

00:03:25.020 and I hate what I do,

00:03:26.660 but I'm stuck in a trap where I'm trying to get out,

00:03:29.020 but I have a certain lifestyle,

00:03:30.540 I have things to pay for.

00:03:31.500 So it's just difficult to just click your fingers and change it.

00:03:34.700 How long have you done it for?

00:03:36.200 I've done it for five years.

00:03:37.600 Okay.

00:03:38.000 I've built up businesses whilst I've been doing it.

00:03:41.460 The reasons why I've done it is probably trauma-related

00:03:44.300 and my upbringing and things,

00:03:45.700 and I've ended up in situations where I've been naive

00:03:48.800 and I've been taken advantage of not blaming anyone,

00:03:51.500 but I know what I've been through.

00:03:52.580 I know why I'm here,

00:03:53.440 and I'm trying to get out of it.

00:03:54.820 So it's difficult to just,

00:03:56.960 yeah, she can say she's humiliated and she doesn't like it,

00:03:59.340 but maybe she can't change it like that.

00:04:01.700 Do you know what I mean?

00:04:03.160 Well, she's worth $14 million. 1.00

00:04:05.340 Can't she just, like, go home?

00:04:07.740 Well, yeah, to be honest with you, I agree,

00:04:10.200 but when you make money,

00:04:12.140 if you've got that kind of brain

00:04:13.360 where you just want more and more and more,

00:04:14.920 that doesn't stop whether you've got $14 million, $14 billion.

00:04:17.640 So this is my thing.

00:04:18.780 I have a lot of OnlyFans models on the show. 1.00

00:04:21.160 Yeah.

00:04:21.620 And I find that they kind of get into a similar situation like you

00:04:25.060 where they don't know how to get out

00:04:26.360 because there's zero plan.

00:04:28.160 You know, do you find that to be true

00:04:30.920 with the OnlyFans models that you know?

00:04:32.780 Yeah, I like to separate myself

00:04:34.740 from a lot of the OnlyFans models 1.00

00:04:36.140 because some of them say stupid shit 1.00

00:04:37.960 like my kids will cry in a Ferrari 1.00

00:04:39.440 and I think that's just dumb when they get asked.

00:04:42.060 I don't know if you saw that girl.

00:04:43.140 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:04:43.780 Yeah.

00:04:44.980 Like, I have a daughter

00:04:46.060 and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't...

00:04:48.460 You have a daughter and you do OnlyFans?

00:04:50.400 Yeah.

00:04:51.060 Wow, that's crazy.

00:04:53.280 How is your daughter?

00:04:53.840 Why is that crazy she's four? 1.00

00:04:56.540 Would you want your daughter to do OnlyFans?

00:04:58.220 No, I wouldn't,

00:04:58.840 but that's why I'm trying to stop doing it,

00:05:00.160 but I didn't have a daughter when I started it.

00:05:01.720 Sorry, I just...

00:05:02.780 This is just...

00:05:03.420 Wow, I just...

00:05:04.060 All right, so do you want to pay my bills?

00:05:05.920 So...

00:05:06.360 No, exactly.

00:05:07.220 Okay, can I answer the question?

00:05:09.240 Why should I pay your bills if you have a daughter? 1.00

00:05:11.200 Why should I pay?

00:05:11.480 Because you're cussing me.

00:05:12.380 I haven't cussed you, I'll ask you a question.

00:05:13.520 You're looking at me in a certain way.

00:05:14.860 I haven't looked at you in any of that.

00:05:15.860 I just ask...

00:05:16.400 To be honest with you,

00:05:17.080 you have a daughter,

00:05:17.720 you just told me that you...

00:05:18.840 What do you do apart from this?

00:05:20.660 Apart from this,

00:05:21.180 I do multiple things.

00:05:22.200 I don't do OnlyFans.

00:05:23.220 I don't sell my body online.

00:05:24.560 Okay, but what do you do?

00:05:25.420 I'm not asking what you do.

00:05:25.740 No, I do multiple things.

00:05:32.780 And you do OnlyFans.

00:05:33.940 See, the problem is when you...

00:05:35.560 You're still not answering me.

00:05:36.980 What do you do?

00:05:37.680 No, no, because you're missing...

00:05:39.120 You're missing that.

00:05:40.120 You're missing that.

00:05:40.620 You're not missing nothing.

00:05:41.540 You're not answering my question.

00:05:42.260 No, because I'm about to get onto something.

00:05:44.200 You're about to tell me you do...

00:05:45.300 You're about to tell me I'm a landlord.

00:05:46.640 You're about to tell me I'm a businesswoman.

00:05:47.920 You're about to tell me all of this.

00:05:49.120 And you're also about to tell me you bust open for $9.99.

00:05:51.440 How much money is online?

00:05:52.900 Not $9.99 at all.

00:05:53.400 How much is it?

00:05:53.920 Sorry, how much is it amount?

00:05:54.780 It's a lot of money.

00:05:55.420 How much?

00:05:55.780 Why don't you tell me what you do for that?

00:06:02.780 Okay, so let's work on that.

00:06:04.820 Let's work on that.

00:06:05.800 If you want to come out,

00:06:06.640 when a man is asking you a question

00:06:07.820 and about to give you some information,

00:06:09.080 possibly on how you can take roots to come out,

00:06:11.220 you don't start by questioning about what do you do.

00:06:12.980 That's a very masculine thing.

00:06:14.120 So what you want to do is...

00:06:15.340 Wait, hold on a second.

00:06:16.540 You want to battle me with what you do,

00:06:18.220 but the basis of all the things that you've...

00:06:20.340 I don't want to battle you.

00:06:21.200 You said to me,

00:06:22.300 whoa, you've got a daughter and you do OnlyFans.

00:06:24.040 Of course, because how can you have a daughter

00:06:26.240 and you be selling your body online?

00:06:27.640 Yeah, I agree with you,

00:06:28.920 which is why I want to get out of it.

00:06:30.820 It's the way that you spoke to her and said,

00:06:32.380 oh, whoa, you have a daughter.

00:06:34.220 Thank you.

00:06:35.040 Like, so she has a daughter.

00:06:36.260 Okay, so what?

00:06:36.740 She's trying to put money on the food for her table. 1.00

00:06:38.720 She can't work in Tesco's? 0.99

00:06:40.300 That's Tesco.

00:06:41.400 Nine pound an hour.

00:06:42.360 Wait, hold on a second.

00:06:43.060 So how about all the other people

00:06:44.420 that are nine pound an hour

00:06:45.280 putting their kids through school?

00:06:46.480 Okay, cool.

00:06:47.200 Can we just give the man a chance?

00:06:50.100 So everyone in Tesco,

00:06:51.740 everyone in Tesco,

00:06:52.940 because they want,

00:06:53.420 because they know what I'm up to do.

00:06:54.320 Okay, but how much time do they spend with their kids?

00:06:56.080 I spend 24 hours a day with my daughter.

00:06:58.200 You lot who work in Tesco,

00:06:59.340 you put your kids in schools and nurseries

00:07:00.940 and ask us after school clubs.

00:07:03.460 I'm just curious.

00:07:04.900 Do you seriously think it's better for a kid

00:07:06.980 to have a mom on OnlyFans

00:07:08.420 than a mom working at Tesco?

00:07:10.020 I'm not saying it's better,

00:07:11.280 but I'm saying both things

00:07:12.580 have their good and bad points,

00:07:14.140 because at least I raised my daughter.

00:07:16.220 Can we let the man make his point?

00:07:18.120 I'd like to hear his point.

00:07:19.400 I'd like to hear the man's point.

00:07:21.540 The problem is we can't do this

00:07:22.760 if you're going to continue,

00:07:23.440 because you're getting triggered.

00:07:24.180 The reason you're getting triggered,

00:07:25.060 because you know what I'm going to say,

00:07:26.160 because you've heard it before. 0.99

00:07:26.900 I don't give a fuck what you're going to say. 0.99

00:07:27.620 See, why are you swearing for? 0.99

00:07:28.840 There's no need.

00:07:29.400 That's very rude.

00:07:29.980 You're swearing to a man

00:07:30.680 you've never met before.

00:07:31.480 I haven't swore at you.

00:07:32.220 That's very disrespectful.

00:07:33.400 I haven't disrespected you.

00:07:34.760 Yes, you have.

00:07:35.420 You said you've got a daughter

00:07:36.280 and you do OnlyFans.

00:07:37.140 I think most men would say

00:07:38.760 that you've got a daughter

00:07:39.520 and you sell your body online.

00:07:40.560 Well, my man don't say that,

00:07:41.640 so what?

00:07:42.580 Right, but I'm just confused,

00:07:44.560 because you just said

00:07:45.280 that you have a daughter

00:07:46.140 and you do OnlyFans,

00:07:47.220 and when he said it back to you,

00:07:48.320 you got mad.

00:07:48.960 I know.

00:07:49.300 It's the way he said it to me.

00:07:50.460 It's the way he said it.

00:07:51.660 I know I have a daughter,

00:07:52.920 and I know I do OnlyFans,

00:07:53.680 but I'm trying to get out of it.

00:07:55.220 Right.

00:07:55.640 So let me speak then.

00:07:56.960 What do you do?

00:07:59.100 I'm just saying,

00:07:59.660 what did he do that was so offensive?

00:08:01.220 He said back to you what you said.

00:08:04.000 No, the way he said it.

00:08:05.440 How did I say it?

00:08:06.160 You're dissing me like,

00:08:07.380 wow, you've got a daughter

00:08:08.980 and you do OnlyFans.

00:08:10.300 What did I say that dissed you?

00:08:11.120 What did I say that dissed you?

00:08:13.520 Please, no,

00:08:14.020 because this is live.

00:08:14.820 This is live.

00:08:15.360 I know this is live.

00:08:16.680 I'm telling you what you did.

00:08:17.760 Okay, so let me speak.

00:08:18.660 You didn't turn around and say,

00:08:19.960 oh, you're a landlord

00:08:21.080 and you do OnlyFans.

00:08:22.280 You picked out the fact

00:08:23.160 that she said,

00:08:23.820 I've got a daughter

00:08:24.360 and I do OnlyFans.

00:08:25.140 So obviously it's going to trigger.

00:08:26.880 That's her daughter,

00:08:27.700 but you didn't burp her.

00:08:29.520 Hold on a second.

00:08:30.380 I just feel like as women,

00:08:31.740 the first question we have to answer

00:08:33.140 is, is it true?

00:08:34.220 What?

00:08:34.480 Is what the guy is saying is true?

00:08:36.160 Yeah, but it could be triggering.

00:08:37.380 It's just triggering.

00:08:38.600 Okay, right, right, right.

00:08:40.500 But it's like,

00:08:41.000 but it's like,

00:08:41.620 is it true?

00:08:42.700 And he's just repeating back

00:08:43.880 what you said.

00:08:45.120 He's not Pearl. 0.70

00:08:46.200 You're trying to twist it.

00:08:47.260 You know exactly what he said

00:08:48.540 and how he said it.

00:08:49.060 The modest thing is,

00:08:50.040 the modest thing is.

00:08:50.700 I didn't have a daughter

00:08:51.380 and wake up and go,

00:08:52.040 I'm going to do OnlyFans now.

00:08:53.340 Okay, do you want to stop OnlyFans?

00:08:55.960 Do you want to stop OnlyFans?

00:08:57.100 Then let me speak then.

00:08:58.000 I started OnlyFans, yeah.

00:08:59.500 I was led down a path

00:09:00.880 where I was naive.

00:09:01.820 I've ended up on OnlyFans

00:09:02.860 and my plan is to get off it

00:09:04.020 and try and get rid of

00:09:04.840 as much as possible.

00:09:05.760 I'm going to have to deal

00:09:06.680 with that as a mom,

00:09:07.320 but I tell you what,

00:09:07.920 I wouldn't swap any job

00:09:08.940 for spending 24 hours a day

00:09:10.180 with my child.

00:09:11.180 How are you naive

00:09:11.900 if you were 29?

00:09:13.320 No, but I was naive

00:09:14.280 to end up in other things

00:09:15.280 that I did.

00:09:15.720 You've only just met me

00:09:16.720 and you don't even know

00:09:17.380 what I did.

00:09:17.740 Naive has nothing to do

00:09:18.320 with age though.

00:09:22.040 I agree with this.

00:09:23.280 I don't know.

00:09:24.360 I think if you're like

00:09:25.240 almost halfway through life,

00:09:26.860 you have a little more wisdom.

00:09:28.340 No, I don't think so.

00:09:29.420 You need to be accountable.

00:09:31.360 See this thing,

00:09:31.900 men, we cannot go through

00:09:33.180 our life not being accountable.

00:09:34.340 You guys can,

00:09:34.840 how can you be 29?

00:09:35.740 You're about to tell me 29

00:09:36.740 I was groomed into OnlyFans.

00:09:38.260 You're a grown woman.

00:09:39.160 Hold on a second.

00:09:39.900 No, no, no, but this is

00:09:41.220 where you're trying to take it.

00:09:42.560 When you're talking about that.

00:09:43.280 What do you do?

00:09:44.060 What's your job?

00:09:44.920 What do you mean?

00:09:45.300 I own I slash you

00:09:46.280 and I do podcasts

00:09:47.320 and I slash you. 0.97

00:09:48.520 Can I make a point? 0.81

00:09:50.240 You've never heard of it.

00:09:51.240 So what does that mean?

00:09:52.020 So hold on a second.

00:09:52.840 What do you do?

00:09:53.460 You said you sing.

00:09:54.260 I'm a student.

00:09:54.800 You're a student.

00:09:55.360 And I sing.

00:09:55.960 And you sing.

00:09:56.820 What have you sung?

00:09:58.040 What do you mean?

00:09:58.800 It's coming.

00:09:59.600 Oh, okay.

00:10:00.320 So wait, hold on a second.

00:10:01.800 So wait, hold on a second.

00:10:02.880 So you spoke to a man

00:10:03.880 that has a drink

00:10:04.400 in over 100 shops

00:10:05.260 in London's Costco

00:10:06.000 and then you said to him,

00:10:07.620 what do you do?

00:10:08.020 Because you haven't heard of it.

00:10:09.080 So then I said to you,

00:10:10.220 what do you do?

00:10:10.680 You sing It's Coming.

00:10:11.400 How dare you?

00:10:12.200 But you're getting triggered.

00:10:12.980 I'm not getting triggered.

00:10:13.960 I'm not.

00:10:14.520 No, I'm not getting triggered.

00:10:15.860 I'm not getting triggered.

00:10:17.720 You asked me a question.

00:10:18.940 What do you do?

00:10:19.700 You didn't know what I did. 0.99

00:10:20.660 So that's your ignorance. 0.97

00:10:21.580 You've never watched this show. 0.83

00:10:22.720 You've never seen who I am.

00:10:23.780 So you're asking me. 0.99

00:10:24.500 That's your ignorance. 0.99

00:10:25.420 I ask you what you do. 0.99

00:10:26.340 You don't do much.

00:10:27.060 So what are you talking about?

00:10:27.780 I'm a student.

00:10:28.780 Yeah, why are you being aggressive?

00:10:29.820 I'm not aggressive.

00:10:30.820 The problem is,

00:10:31.960 the problem is,

00:10:33.680 the problem is,

00:10:34.260 what you're doing is,

00:10:35.000 guys.

00:10:35.180 But you're always on the man's side.

00:10:36.360 You're always on the man's side. 0.91

00:10:37.840 I mean,

00:10:38.200 because the men are usually

00:10:39.260 more logical than women. 1.00

00:10:40.860 Sorry.

00:10:41.860 I think just from this conversation,

00:10:44.580 I'll give you an example.

00:10:49.320 You said one thing.

00:10:50.200 He said the same thing back to you.

00:10:52.160 You don't like how he said it.

00:10:53.700 Because it's disrespectful.

00:10:55.040 It's disrespectful to say exactly.

00:10:57.260 It's disrespectful to say exactly what you said.

00:11:00.900 But see,

00:11:01.180 it's so funny

00:11:01.840 because this is what they do.

00:11:02.720 We're not talking about me right now.

00:11:04.140 We're talking about you.

00:11:05.060 I'm talking to you.

00:11:05.860 You're talking to me.

00:11:06.620 I'm going to talk to you.

00:11:07.620 And it's so interesting

00:11:08.660 because you know what they do?

00:11:09.860 It's like,

00:11:10.740 you say one thing

00:11:12.020 and then he says it back to you

00:11:13.380 and then you get mad.

00:11:14.420 No,

00:11:14.760 it's not that this

00:11:15.700 because the way he said it,

00:11:16.680 I think I agree.

00:11:18.040 I'd love to hear

00:11:19.800 what the man had to say.

00:11:22.420 He had a point.

00:11:23.460 Let me finish.

00:11:24.160 He had a point,

00:11:25.320 right?

00:11:26.060 And the thing is,

00:11:26.880 as women,

00:11:27.480 there is certain things

00:11:28.540 that we don't like to do

00:11:29.660 and that's take responsibility.

00:11:32.160 Consequences of our actions.

00:11:34.380 Now,

00:11:34.580 I don't agree with anybody

00:11:36.100 sort of looking at somebody

00:11:37.740 as though what they do

00:11:38.600 is wrong or bad

00:11:39.540 or anything,

00:11:40.480 but there are consequences

00:11:41.880 to our actions

00:11:42.720 and whether we like it

00:11:44.340 or not,

00:11:45.180 I think the man's reaction

00:11:46.780 to what you did was,

00:11:48.640 yes,

00:11:48.900 he did react,

00:11:50.020 but it was because

00:11:50.720 you have a four-year-old daughter

00:11:52.280 and a man...

00:11:53.800 My three-year-old daughter,

00:11:54.320 not his.

00:11:54.700 No, no, no,

00:11:55.420 let me explain.

00:11:57.620 Can a man not feel

00:11:59.400 some sort of responsibility

00:12:01.140 or sort of think about

00:12:03.280 how that child might feel?

00:12:05.920 That's all it is.

00:12:06.640 He doesn't know my child.

00:12:07.840 It doesn't matter.

00:12:08.740 We are all parents

00:12:10.040 of all children.

00:12:10.760 If I see a child on the street...

00:12:12.240 But I care about

00:12:12.620 how my child feels

00:12:13.900 way more than anybody

00:12:14.960 in this group.

00:12:14.980 If you did,

00:12:15.340 you wouldn't be doing OnlyFans.

00:12:16.340 If I see a child on the street

00:12:18.220 by themselves...

00:12:18.240 If you care about your child,

00:12:19.240 you wouldn't be doing OnlyFans.

00:12:20.500 You wouldn't.

00:12:21.040 Listen,

00:12:21.320 if I see a child

00:12:22.540 on the street

00:12:23.100 by themselves,

00:12:23.940 I care about that child.

00:12:25.940 I do.

00:12:26.440 You know what's crazy to me?

00:12:28.040 If I care about my child,

00:12:29.680 I wouldn't be doing OnlyFans.

00:12:30.480 You act like you're

00:12:31.140 reinventing the wheel.

00:12:32.100 You're not doing anything.

00:12:33.120 You're not creating businesses.

00:12:34.100 You're not...

00:12:34.480 What are you doing out there?

00:12:35.300 She just said she created... 1.00

00:12:36.140 Can you stop interrupting me?

00:12:37.260 You're being very rude.

00:12:38.660 You keep interrupting me.

00:12:41.300 Do you know what it is?

00:12:42.200 This is masculinity

00:12:43.000 and the problem is

00:12:44.140 women always try... 1.00

00:12:44.840 Women always try to tone police. 1.00

00:12:47.080 From the moment I've started,

00:12:48.120 I've not been rude.

00:12:49.300 I'm having to now raise my voice.

00:12:50.720 You have been rude.

00:12:51.120 And you've raised your voice

00:12:52.480 from the beginning.

00:12:53.000 Aggressive.

00:12:53.540 Now, guys,

00:12:54.280 let me show you what women do. 1.00

00:12:55.800 He has not been rude.

00:12:57.080 This is live on air.

00:12:58.000 He has not been rude.

00:12:59.100 This is live on air.

00:12:59.880 I'm being called aggressive.

00:13:01.040 I'm being called aggressive.

00:13:01.960 Super chat later on.

00:13:02.860 I've been called aggressive.

00:13:03.920 I've not been disrespectful.

00:13:05.300 I've not shouted them.

00:13:06.380 I haven't used any derogatory,

00:13:08.140 any comments to that.

00:13:09.200 All I simply say is,

00:13:10.260 wow,

00:13:10.500 you have a four-year-old daughter

00:13:11.500 and you do OnlyFans.

00:13:12.400 I was going to go on

00:13:13.260 for that and explain

00:13:14.000 because I've done this

00:13:14.940 such scenario before,

00:13:15.900 but the problem is

00:13:16.680 you get triggered

00:13:17.520 because this is not the first time

00:13:18.620 you've heard this.

00:13:19.220 It's not the first time.

00:13:20.060 Oh, okay.

00:13:20.880 Okay.

00:13:21.440 Wait, can I reply?

00:13:22.440 No, because I'm trying

00:13:23.740 to say something

00:13:24.260 and you keep stopping it.

00:13:25.220 I can't get to where I need to get to.

00:13:26.380 And the problem is

00:13:27.780 this is a trauma response.

00:13:28.980 I get it.

00:13:29.580 I understand.

00:13:30.460 I get it.

00:13:30.980 I get it.

00:13:31.460 I understand.

00:13:32.080 It's a trauma response.

00:13:33.240 Trying to come to me

00:13:33.980 and telling me,

00:13:34.480 oh, what do you do?

00:13:35.700 Oh, what you're trying to do,

00:13:36.760 that's a very masculine thing.

00:13:37.840 What you're trying to say is,

00:13:38.780 oh, oh, let me check what you do,

00:13:40.100 but it doesn't matter what I do.

00:13:41.340 I could clean the streets.

00:13:42.640 That's still better

00:13:43.180 than doing OnlyFans

00:13:44.000 because what you people...

00:13:44.940 Wait, hold on a second.

00:13:45.680 Hold on a second.

00:13:46.800 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:13:48.080 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:13:49.660 You guys...

00:13:50.260 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:13:52.720 I'm gonna let you finish this one thing.

00:13:54.660 You guys really think

00:13:56.000 that doing OnlyFans

00:13:57.460 is not a worse job than others.

00:14:00.840 You asked about the Mother and Woman.

00:14:03.440 No, I'm asking you.

00:14:04.840 OnlyFans.

00:14:05.960 We really think that, like,

00:14:07.600 sweeping the street,

00:14:08.920 being a street sweeper...

00:14:10.980 People don't respect those people either.

00:14:12.480 Who doesn't?

00:14:13.220 Who doesn't?

00:14:13.800 Hold on a second, these are the men that built the modern world, you women don't respect them 1.00

00:14:20.200 You women don't respect the people that... 1.00

00:14:22.200 You just said you don't respect them, of course we respect them

00:14:29.000 I never said that, stop taking words out of me, I said that people don't respect them

00:14:33.000 Which people? I respect them

00:14:35.000 Can I ask a question, do you think that someone who does OnlyFans can't raise a child properly?

00:14:40.200 I didn't say that

00:14:42.200 No, I didn't say that

00:14:44.200 As long as she's taking care of her child though

00:14:46.200 Wait, so the question was

00:14:48.200 Do you think that somebody who does OnlyFans can't still raise their child with good morals, respect and properly?

00:14:54.200 No, no

00:14:56.200 But then if I was to sweep the street, then someone else is raising my child

00:15:00.200 I mean, that's why you're supposed to get married before the kid, so then you have a husband and wife 0.94

00:15:06.200 Yeah, but that didn't happen for me

00:15:08.200 Because it's choice, right?

00:15:10.200 That's a choice you made

00:15:12.200 But you're not a virgin

00:15:14.200 And I don't have a kid, I'm not an OnlyFans

00:15:16.200 You wouldn't get any subs 0.73

00:15:18.200 I would get more than you 1.00

00:15:20.200 You fucking wouldn't get any subs 1.00

00:15:22.200 I'm telling you 0.99

00:15:24.200 Guys, guys

00:15:26.200 Too many women 1.00

00:15:28.200 Too many of the women 1.00

00:15:30.200 All right, all right

00:15:32.200 Guys, one second, one second, I'm going to need to calm this thing down

00:15:36.200 We read the rules, please let's

00:15:38.200 I know it's hard when we're all trying to get our points across but if someone is speaking, let's all try to give them a chance to speak

00:15:44.200 Yeah, too many of the women 1.00

00:15:46.200 I think have emotional responses and we become defensive

00:15:52.200 Because of our history

00:15:54.200 Because of what we've been through in the past

00:15:56.200 And we get triggered

00:15:58.200 And rather than allow someone to speak and hear the full length of what they have to say

00:16:04.200 Where maybe we can learn something and take something on board

00:16:08.200 It might hurt

00:16:10.200 Because we're triggered

00:16:12.200 But that doesn't mean what he had to say might not have made some sense

00:16:14.200 I say might not because I didn't hear it

00:16:16.200 Let me just let me just finish darling, please

00:16:18.200 Okay, one just one thing

00:16:20.200 Because I'm not against you

00:16:22.200 Don't don't don't

00:16:24.200 Okay, but I'm not against him either

00:16:26.200 As women we need to get to understand masculine energy 1.00

00:16:30.200 It's not a negative

00:16:32.200 Because it's louder or stronger or more assertive

00:16:36.200 That's what masculine is

00:16:38.200 We are the opposite

00:16:40.200 We are feminine

00:16:42.200 And sometimes we have to learn

00:16:44.200 How to allow that

00:16:46.200 So that maybe we can get

00:16:48.200 I've had plenty of conversations with people

00:16:50.200 I've been on plenty of podcasts where the opposite person doesn't agree with OnlyFans

00:16:54.200 And we've spoke very maturely like adults respectfully

00:16:57.200 And I agree with a lot of points that someone who doesn't agree with OnlyFans

00:17:00.200 I agree with a lot of things they say

00:17:02.200 But it's the way someone addresses it

00:17:04.200 And I'm sorry, but both of you have been rude

00:17:06.200 And the way you address it is rude

00:17:08.200 I know that's the whole point of the podcast

00:17:10.200 But I could have a conversation for hours

00:17:12.200 With somebody who doesn't agree with OnlyFans

00:17:14.200 And it will not get heated

00:17:16.200 And I will agree with things that they say

00:17:18.200 What did we say that was so rude?

00:17:20.200 It's the way you speak

00:17:22.200 I'm asking what specifically did we say

00:17:24.200 I've already said

00:17:26.200 Do we want to go back over it?

00:17:28.200 I don't know

00:17:30.200 You've got a four year old and you do OnlyFans

00:17:32.200 Wow

00:17:34.200 But can I ask you though

00:17:36.200 Is that reaction abnormal?

00:17:38.200 Pardon? Yes

00:17:40.200 So most people say

00:17:42.200 Oh do you actually have a door and do OnlyFans

00:17:44.200 Like do you not think there's something better you could do

00:17:46.200 And I'll be like yeah to be honest with you

00:17:48.200 But the thing is like she said

00:17:50.200 I'm not for him and I'm not for you

00:17:52.200 Like I'm not against the both of you

00:17:54.200 But I think that we should be able to own the consequences of our choices

00:17:58.200 Right? Like

00:18:00.200 Your energy is aggressive I don't like it

00:18:02.200 No and some people would see you a certain way

00:18:04.200 I'm triggered more by his aggression than what he said to me

00:18:06.200 I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry

00:18:08.200 I'm sorry I can't do this

00:18:10.200 I can't do this

00:18:11.200 I can't as a black man have a white woman calling me aggressive online 0.79

00:18:14.200 I'm not doing this I'm not doing this

00:18:16.200 Let me tell you why

00:18:18.200 Because if you call me aggressive off camera

00:18:20.200 A problem happens to me

00:18:22.200 But call me aggressive on camera when I've not shown anything

00:18:24.200 Aggression other masculinity

00:18:26.200 The problem is you guys try to tone police

00:18:28.200 You don't understand masculinity

00:18:30.200 Because in today's society they try to

00:18:32.200 What are you saying as a black man though?

00:18:34.200 Why are you pulling that card to me? 0.90

00:18:36.200 Are you alright?

00:18:38.200 I've never said anything about

00:18:40.200 Hold on hold on a second let me speak you're doing it again

00:18:42.200 I'm telling you my

00:18:44.200 I'm telling you my feelings

00:18:46.200 I'm telling you how I'm perceiving you

00:18:48.200 Hold on stop you're doing it

00:18:50.200 Hold on hold on

00:18:52.200 Hold on you won't let me speak 0.98

00:18:54.200 What have I said about black girls tell me 1.00

00:18:56.200 Black girls wear fake hair baby mama 1.00

00:18:58.200 Don't don't 1.00

00:19:00.200 Wait a minute wait a minute

00:19:02.200 What have I said we're gonna do it now

00:19:04.200 So I'm gonna let you say what you think I've said then I'm gonna speak 0.93

00:19:06.200 You said stuff about black girls wearing fake weave 1.00

00:19:08.200 What have I said what have I actually said

00:19:10.200 I just said what I said

00:19:12.200 No but what did I say

00:19:14.200 And why are we single mothers

00:19:16.200 And why are we single mothers?

00:19:18.200 Did I say to black women why black women are women 1.00

00:19:20.200 Did I say black women 0.99

00:19:22.200 Wait wait no no no no no no 0.99

00:19:24.200 No no no no no no

00:19:26.200 If you're gonna pull up something get receipts

00:19:28.200 Hold a second

00:19:30.200 You have just accused me 0.95

00:19:32.200 You have just accused me of calling out black women

00:19:34.200 And dissing black women I've never once done that in my life 0.96

00:19:36.200 How dare you 0.99

00:19:38.200 Pull up receipts 0.99

00:19:40.200 Don't you ever accuse me of dissing black women 0.95

00:19:42.200 Pull up receipts 0.96

00:19:43.200 No because you did

00:19:44.200 No these are my sisters

00:19:45.200 No

00:19:46.200 Is he's aggressive?

00:19:47.200 Yeah yeah cool

00:19:48.200 Pull up receipts

00:19:49.200 That's aggression not masculinity

00:19:50.200 That's your aggression

00:19:51.200 No no no no no

00:19:52.200 Set the record straight then Chyna set the record straight 1.00

00:19:54.200 What did you say then?

00:19:55.200 What did you say then?

00:19:56.200 Hold on um Jaz

00:19:57.200 If a woman says to me 0.99

00:19:58.200 I'm listening hold on everyone shush

00:19:59.200 What did you say?

00:20:00.200 Put it straight then

00:20:01.200 It's not for me to say what I've said

00:20:02.200 It's for the person to say that accusing me

00:20:04.200 And to show me what they're saying now

00:20:05.200 I literally can't sign my word

00:20:06.200 What I'm saying is

00:20:07.200 Find your phone 0.67

00:20:08.200 I've never said nothing about black women 1.00

00:20:10.200 Rather than get mad

00:20:11.200 I mean guys guys

00:20:12.200 To be fair it's like a third of kids nowadays

00:20:14.200 Are born into single mother homes 1.00

00:20:16.200 But I never spoke about black women

00:20:17.200 This is like a cross

00:20:18.200 This is a cross culture

00:20:19.200 I never said nothing about black women 1.00

00:20:20.200 But why do you think that is?

00:20:21.200 Because of the women? 0.99

00:20:22.200 Do you think the men don't pull their weight all the time? 1.00

00:20:23.200 Because women make stupid decisions 1.00

00:20:25.200 But men don't pull their weight 1.00

00:20:26.200 Everyone makes stupid decisions 1.00

00:20:27.200 Men are the ones I believe 1.00

00:20:28.200 Everyone makes stupid decisions 1.00

00:20:29.200 Okay okay okay okay 1.00

00:20:30.200 Who's into

00:20:31.200 You pick who your baby daddy is 1.00

00:20:33.200 So if you got a shitty baby daddy 1.00

00:20:34.200 It's your own fault 1.00

00:20:35.200 But they might not have been shit before though 0.99

00:20:37.200 Actually men just switch up when you are nowhere 0.99

00:20:39.200 Let me get this straight

00:20:40.200 Did your parents like him?

00:20:42.200 Did your friends like him?

00:20:43.200 Really?

00:20:44.200 They all said flying colors

00:20:45.200 He's so amazing

00:20:46.200 And then he just switched 0.83

00:20:47.200 Like shut up 0.98

00:20:48.200 That might be the case 0.88

00:20:49.200 That's never the case

00:20:50.200 You know it's never the case

00:20:51.200 You're telling me there's not a single case like that

00:20:52.200 The whole entire world

00:20:53.200 There's not a single case like that

00:20:54.200 There's not a single case like that

00:20:55.200 Where a guy's gonna fool all of the men in her life

00:20:59.200 That's gonna fool the father, the brothers, cousins, uncles, uncles

00:21:03.200 People lived off their lives though

00:21:05.200 I don't have family like that though

00:21:06.200 I don't have family like that though

00:21:07.200 I don't have family like that

00:21:08.200 And it's not just women anyway 1.00

00:21:09.200 So why would I go off that?

00:21:10.200 Well then it's your mom's fault

00:21:11.200 To be honest

00:21:12.200 Yeah it is my mom's fault

00:21:13.200 Yeah I know

00:21:14.200 Let's see your receipts 0.90

00:21:15.200 Oh I don't rape my mom 1.00

00:21:16.200 Okay show me where I'm dissing black women 1.00

00:21:18.200 Go on 0.99

00:21:19.200 How do I put it?

00:21:20.200 Play it go on

00:21:21.200 I don't wanna speak like this

00:21:22.200 Because when they speak like this

00:21:23.200 They get told about

00:21:24.200 Oh you're a misogyny 0.98

00:21:25.200 This is not speaking on black women's hair 0.98

00:21:26.200 A lot of men aren't even gonna bother saying this

00:21:27.200 But what I am gonna say to you

00:21:28.200 Is you're gonna talk about

00:21:29.200 Oh it's a protective style

00:21:30.200 If it was a protective style

00:21:32.200 You would wear something that is actually your hair

00:21:34.200 You wouldn't be walking around with European women's hair on your hair 1.00

00:21:36.200 I have sisters

00:21:37.200 I've grown up in an African household

00:21:39.200 This excuse that women make about 1.00

00:21:41.200 I can't manage my hair

00:21:42.200 It's an excuse that you women wear 1.00

00:21:43.200 And then you talk about human-centric hairstyles

00:21:45.200 You will buy into it

00:21:46.200 No one has asked me to do that

00:21:47.200 So end of the day is 0.97

00:21:49.200 I'm blacking you with actual hair 0.93

00:21:50.200 But most of my know that

00:21:51.200 Most people aren't gonna give you headaches

00:21:52.200 So they're still gonna take the feed anyway

00:21:54.200 But in reality we can see the hair on your head

00:21:56.200 I wanna know what my daughter's hair is gonna come out 1.00

00:21:58.200 If I have a baby with you

00:21:59.200 I do not know why you're wearing it

00:22:00.200 But you know why you're not

00:22:01.200 Now you're talking about 0.99

00:22:02.200 She crap 0.99

00:22:03.200 Okay 0.99

00:22:04.200 Okay

00:22:05.200 Okay 0.92

00:22:06.200 So which part of that is a man dissing black women's hair

00:22:08.200 In actual fact I'm talking about

00:22:09.200 I grew up in a household

00:22:10.200 I've got three sisters and my mother right

00:22:12.200 I know what it is

00:22:13.200 So we grew up in those days

00:22:14.200 They would relax your hair

00:22:15.200 So my sister had the hair relaxed

00:22:16.200 It destroyed her hair 0.97

00:22:17.200 All of my three sisters had the hair destroyed

00:22:18.200 As they grew up older

00:22:19.200 Then they started to

00:22:20.200 They had their natural hair right

00:22:22.200 And I've discussed

00:22:23.200 And I've witnessed what happened

00:22:24.200 So now I've got nieces

00:22:25.200 I've got nieces and nephews

00:22:26.200 All of their hairs are natural

00:22:27.200 Because of what we learned

00:22:28.200 In those days

00:22:29.200 We used to use something called

00:22:30.200 Dark and lovely

00:22:31.200 And it would destroy your hair

00:22:32.200 And it absolutely destroyed it

00:22:33.200 And it comes from that thing where

00:22:35.200 Straighter hair is better right

00:22:36.200 So I'm speaking from this point

00:22:37.200 The thing is right

00:22:38.200 A lot of black women will say 1.00

00:22:39.200 You know what

00:22:40.200 It's a protective style

00:22:41.200 So I'll say if it's a protective style

00:22:42.200 Then wear something more

00:22:43.200 Natural towards your hair right

00:22:44.200 They'll say

00:22:45.200 Oh you know what

00:22:46.200 I can't wear it to work

00:22:47.200 So I'll say you know what

00:22:48.200 If you go to a place

00:22:49.200 And they don't allow you to work in there

00:22:50.200 You know what

00:22:51.200 Maybe you shouldn't be working there

00:22:52.200 Actually in fact

00:22:53.200 Maybe we should build our own

00:22:54.200 Everything I speak about

00:22:55.200 Is empowering a young black girl

00:22:56.200 What do we say to a young black girl 0.99

00:22:57.200 When we say to her 0.92

00:22:58.200 In order for you to go out

00:22:59.200 And be successful

00:23:00.200 You need to put on European 0.92

00:23:01.200 Chinese, Peruvian, Brazilian

00:23:02.200 That's not even true

00:23:03.200 Hold on a second

00:23:04.200 What do we say

00:23:05.200 When every single day

00:23:06.200 You get up

00:23:07.200 And you have to put off something

00:23:08.200 Over your head

00:23:09.200 If it was strictly protective style

00:23:10.200 You could use braids

00:23:11.200 So what you're trying to do

00:23:12.200 Is you're trying to take a man 0.58

00:23:13.200 That is talking about something serious

00:23:14.200 Within the black community

00:23:15.200 Who has nieces

00:23:16.200 Who God willing

00:23:17.200 One day will have daughters 0.79

00:23:18.200 And I'm gonna spend time

00:23:19.200 Like I spend with my nieces

00:23:20.200 Everyone see me on social media

00:23:21.200 All the time I spend with my nieces

00:23:22.200 Doing her hair

00:23:23.200 I've made it into

00:23:24.200 My niece is actually a model 0.99

00:23:25.200 And she's actually doing really well

00:23:27.200 She's done commercials already

00:23:28.200 And this all comes from all the love

00:23:29.200 So you take something

00:23:30.200 A black man that cares about his community 0.82

00:23:31.200 Who loves his black women 1.00

00:23:32.200 And you try to make into evil things 1.00

00:23:34.200 I'm disgusted by you

00:23:35.200 Are you done?

00:23:37.200 No because

00:23:38.200 No because

00:23:39.200 What you try to do is

00:23:40.200 You try to pull out receipts

00:23:41.200 And I explain to you

00:23:42.200 I never want this stuff

00:23:43.200 I'm talking about deeper rooted issues

00:23:44.200 No no

00:23:45.200 You didn't actually say

00:23:46.200 You're saying that

00:23:47.200 It's because we're saying that

00:23:48.200 Their hair is not that

00:23:49.200 No actually

00:23:50.200 Certain workplaces

00:23:51.200 When you do wear your black hair

00:23:52.200 You get questions

00:23:53.200 You get people touching your hair

00:23:54.200 That is

00:23:55.200 That's literally true

00:23:56.200 The Crown Act was created in America

00:23:58.200 Because of discrimination

00:23:59.200 So you know what we do sister?

00:24:00.200 We build our own

00:24:01.200 Thank you

00:24:02.200 No no no no

00:24:03.200 It's not as easy though

00:24:04.200 It's not easy

00:24:05.200 It's not easy

00:24:06.200 It's not easy

00:24:07.200 In the long run

00:24:08.200 Okay so what we're doing now

00:24:09.200 So what we're doing now

00:24:10.200 What we're doing now

00:24:11.200 We're doing that thing where

00:24:12.200 I told you we build our own

00:24:13.200 You said it's

00:24:14.200 I know it's not easy

00:24:15.200 It's never easy

00:24:16.200 That's the problem

00:24:17.200 That's the problem

00:24:18.200 It's not supposed to be easy

00:24:19.200 And because it's hard

00:24:20.200 You don't want to do it

00:24:21.200 And you're not saying you like black girls natural hair 0.99

00:24:22.200 You like it when it's curly

00:24:23.200 When it looks like mixed race girl hair 0.98

00:24:24.200 Who told you that?

00:24:25.200 That's the truth

00:24:26.200 Listen

00:24:27.200 This is a fallacy

00:24:28.200 This is not true

00:24:29.200 I'm a black woman

00:24:30.200 You're speaking to me

00:24:31.200 You don't know me

00:24:32.200 I'm a black woman

00:24:33.200 And what you just said there is not true

00:24:34.200 Okay it's not true

00:24:35.200 I'll tell you why

00:24:36.200 Let me tell you why

00:24:37.200 Let me tell you why

00:24:38.200 Which part is not true

00:24:39.200 Which part is not true

00:24:40.200 Let me tell you why it's not true

00:24:41.200 Hey hey guys guys

00:24:42.200 Let her finish 0.99

00:24:44.200 Let me let her finish 1.00

00:24:45.200 Let me tell you

00:24:46.200 Let me tell you

00:24:47.200 I'm 60 years old

00:24:48.200 Okay

00:24:49.200 And when I was 18

00:24:50.200 We were wearing weaves

00:24:52.200 And wigs

00:24:53.200 And we're still wearing them

00:24:54.200 In fact we're wearing more

00:24:55.200 And I know that

00:24:59.200 I would say most

00:25:00.200 Let me not say all

00:25:01.200 Most black men prefer your own hair 0.78

00:25:03.200 They don't like the smell of the weave 1.00

00:25:05.200 Nope

00:25:06.200 They don't like the way that the weave 0.99

00:25:08.200 Takes away your hairline

00:25:09.200 Nope

00:25:10.200 They don't like the way the weave 0.74

00:25:12.200 Balls off your head

00:25:13.200 Nope 0.83

00:25:14.200 But deeper than that

00:25:16.200 Because I'm a black woman

00:25:17.200 And I used to wear weave

00:25:18.200 Okay

00:25:19.200 And I understand what a society that is endemically racist

00:25:24.200 Can do to you

00:25:25.200 So you feel so bad about your own hair

00:25:28.200 Your natural hair

00:25:29.200 And that point you made about going to work

00:25:31.200 If you want to have your hair in locks

00:25:33.200 Or you want to have your hair in braids

00:25:34.200 Or you want to plait your hair

00:25:36.200 It's like it's not good

00:25:37.200 We used to use a

00:25:38.200 What do you call those things?

00:25:40.200 One of those iron combs

00:25:43.200 Thank you

00:25:44.200 Burn your hair 0.99

00:25:46.200 Burn your scalp 0.99

00:25:47.200 So that your hair wouldn't be so frizzy and whatever 0.98

00:25:49.200 Right, so what are you saying?

00:25:50.200 Can I just...

00:25:51.200 No, I'd like to finish

00:25:52.200 Okay, you can finish

00:25:53.200 So the point that he made

00:25:54.200 Sometimes as women 0.99

00:25:55.200 We prefer to listen to our friends

00:25:56.200 And say

00:25:57.200 Oh, your hair looks nice

00:25:58.200 The wig looks nice

00:26:00.200 And then the man's telling you

00:26:01.200 I don't like it

00:26:02.200 Right, so what you're saying

00:26:03.200 Is what you're doing everything for a man 0.56

00:26:04.200 So as long as man likes it

00:26:05.200 I never said that

00:26:06.200 But you're saying man doesn't like that

00:26:08.200 No, no, no

00:26:09.200 Don't misinterpret my words

00:26:10.200 Right, so literally two minutes ago

00:26:11.200 A man doesn't like when it looks like that

00:26:13.200 You

00:26:14.200 No, she was actually responding to the fact that

00:26:16.200 She said that men actually like, you know, black women's hair being curly 0.99

00:26:21.200 That was what she was responding to

00:26:22.200 That might be her perception of men she knows

00:26:25.200 Of course, she just told

00:26:26.200 It's different

00:26:27.200 Gem, she just told a man she doesn't know that I don't like black women with natural hair 1.00

00:26:31.200 Like she literally...

00:26:32.200 I didn't say that

00:26:33.200 You're taking it out of context

00:26:34.200 I literally said you spoke on black women's hair 0.98

00:26:36.200 Yeah, no, first of all you said I diss black women 1.00

00:26:38.200 Then you said I like curly hair

00:26:39.200 You don't know what type of hair I like

00:26:40.200 I never said you

00:26:41.200 Why are you making that a personal thing?

00:26:42.200 Okay, okay, okay, okay

00:26:43.200 I never said you 0.96

00:26:44.200 But he's saying that you said that he dissed black women

00:26:47.200 And I didn't

00:26:48.200 And he's saying that he didn't

00:26:49.200 I didn't

00:26:50.200 I put out the receipts and what he said was

00:26:51.200 It wasn't in a positive light

00:26:53.200 Thank you

00:26:54.200 But he was saying that he likes the natural hair

00:26:56.200 Hold on a second

00:26:57.200 Hold on a second

00:26:58.200 No, no, no, no

00:26:59.200 That's not even what I said

00:27:00.200 I said that this actually comes from slavery time 0.99

00:27:03.200 This comes from the field nigger 1.00

00:27:06.200 The house 1.00

00:27:07.200 The house slave

00:27:08.200 It comes from the...

00:27:09.200 No, no, no, no

00:27:10.200 You know why?

00:27:11.200 No, because I'm trying to make you understand something

00:27:12.200 Where this comes from

00:27:13.200 Because you have to understand what we're dealing with here

00:27:14.200 You're battling a man 0.97

00:27:15.200 A black man 0.96

00:27:16.200 That is talking about 0.64

00:27:17.200 Who has sisters

00:27:19.200 Who has nieces

00:27:20.200 That have gone through

00:27:21.200 Who have destroyed their hair

00:27:22.200 Who now are natural

00:27:23.200 Who has gone through that

00:27:24.200 Who now has nieces

00:27:25.200 That his mother and grandmother

00:27:26.200 Would never ever do

00:27:27.200 To their hair

00:27:28.200 Because they realise the damage is done to them

00:27:29.200 I'm speaking from that

00:27:30.200 And when I speak

00:27:31.200 You speak like I'm dissing women

00:27:32.200 You speak like I'm hurting women

00:27:33.200 But why even speak on black women's hair? 0.98

00:27:35.200 Why...

00:27:36.200 Hold on a second

00:27:37.200 Why do you care? 0.57

00:27:38.200 Because I'm a black...

00:27:39.200 Because I'm a black man

00:27:40.200 Hold on a second

00:27:41.200 You are not separate from me

00:27:42.200 This is like saying 0.96

00:27:43.200 When black women... 1.00

00:27:44.200 Okay, so... 1.00

00:27:45.200 The crime that's happening with the black kids 1.00

00:27:46.200 The stabbing and what happened 0.97

00:27:47.200 What have you not?

00:27:48.200 You can speak on that

00:27:49.200 Would you ever hear a man say

00:27:50.200 Oh, why are you speaking on the black youth?

00:27:52.200 You're in a black youth?

00:27:53.200 Of course, we are not separate 0.95

00:27:54.200 This thing where you try to say

00:27:55.200 Why are you...

00:27:56.200 So what if I have a daughter 0.75

00:27:57.200 I can't speak on black women's hair? 1.00

00:27:58.200 You just said you want to know what texture hair your daughter's going to have 1.00

00:28:01.200 Why does that...

00:28:02.200 It's not I want to know is

00:28:03.200 Why are you...

00:28:04.200 Here's the thing right

00:28:05.200 If you're bored

00:28:06.200 If you're bored

00:28:07.200 You're bored

00:28:08.200 I love you because you're bored

00:28:09.200 I don't actually care about hair

00:28:10.200 I'll prefer a woman bored 1.00

00:28:11.200 Than having some other woman's hair 0.98

00:28:12.200 That's the thing

00:28:13.200 And if I want...

00:28:14.200 If you want to wear European hair 0.94

00:28:15.200 And this is the thing

00:28:16.200 It's not even European 1.00

00:28:17.200 It's Asian 0.91

00:28:18.200 Even Asian 0.50

00:28:19.200 Are you Asian?

00:28:20.200 Why are you wearing Asian women's hair? 1.00

00:28:21.200 It's not that I care

00:28:23.200 I can switch it up

00:28:24.200 I've got my natural hair out right now

00:28:26.200 See the thing you keep...

00:28:27.200 No, you keep doing this right

00:28:28.200 But you said that this black woman said I didn't

00:28:30.200 I was speaking and talking about

00:28:31.200 Well that's how it was perceived

00:28:32.200 And other people in this podcast have said that it was said in a negative light

00:28:36.200 And that is how I took it

00:28:37.200 I agree as well

00:28:38.200 100%

00:28:39.200 If you don't think that you was being negative about it

00:28:40.200 That's fine

00:28:41.200 And another thing to say

00:28:42.200 You not say oh I like natural hair

00:28:43.200 Why is it always how you guys feel?

00:28:45.200 Instead of what he said

00:28:47.200 Because it doesn't matter

00:28:48.200 Like because you guys don't take the actual words that I'm saying

00:28:51.200 No it's not what I feel

00:28:52.200 It's what I said

00:28:53.200 You try to say that this black woman 0.94

00:28:54.200 No but this is such as you guys 0.93

00:28:55.200 It's just like women 1.00

00:28:56.200 It's like we don't take the actual information like what he said

00:28:59.200 It's always how it made us feel

00:29:01.200 I just debunked the information that he said

00:29:02.200 You debunked what?

00:29:03.200 You said that this black woman 1.00

00:29:04.200 No you didn't

00:29:05.200 Not really

00:29:06.200 You said that this black woman 1.00

00:29:07.200 But you said that this black woman 1.00

00:29:08.200 And I told you to bring out receipts

00:29:10.200 And you didn't

00:29:11.200 I want to go back to the topic

00:29:14.200 Sorry

00:29:15.200 I don't even know what they're teaching in uni nowadays

00:29:16.200 I don't understand it

00:29:17.200 Like honestly

00:29:18.200 Because you're telling me you debunked something

00:29:19.200 When you pull that dead receipts

00:29:20.200 I can't

00:29:21.200 Oh mate

00:29:22.200 Sorry go on

00:29:23.200 Too good

00:29:24.200 Too good

00:29:25.200 Too good

00:29:28.200 Okay

00:29:29.200 What did you want to say about the only fans and the kid?

00:29:32.200 You had a point

00:29:33.200 You had a point

00:29:34.200 I need you to

00:29:35.200 Did you have anything else?

00:29:37.200 I know you had a point

00:29:38.200 So I was like

00:29:39.200 Look my thing is this

00:29:40.200 Right

00:29:41.200 Right

00:29:42.200 You don't know what it is

00:29:43.200 Especially for

00:29:44.200 For

00:29:45.200 You're raising a daughter

00:29:46.200 If it was a boy

00:29:47.200 It would be just as bad

00:29:48.200 But you're raising a daughter

00:29:49.200 And you're doing only fans

00:29:50.200 And at the end of the day

00:29:51.200 It's just a thing where it is

00:29:53.200 It's basically online prostitution

00:29:55.200 And you might

00:29:56.200 You might wanna

00:29:57.200 Not prostitution 1.00

00:29:58.200 I'm not selling my pussy 1.00

00:29:59.200 No one's going in my pussy for money 1.00

00:30:00.200 I get what you're saying 1.00

00:30:01.200 It is a form of online prostitution 0.70

00:30:02.200 See

00:30:03.200 See prostitution is the oldest 0.76

00:30:04.200 It's the oldest

00:30:05.200 Oldest industry

00:30:06.200 What do you do on only fans?

00:30:07.200 Subscribe

00:30:08.200 Subscribe

00:30:09.200 What kind of stuff

00:30:10.200 What do you sell?

00:30:11.200 What do you put there?

00:30:12.200 Subscribe to find out

00:30:13.200 I like it

00:30:15.200 If I'm gonna ask you questions

00:30:16.200 That's it

00:30:17.200 Subscribe to find out

00:30:18.200 I appreciate the hustle

00:30:19.200 At the end of the day

00:30:20.200 Without all the ag 1.00

00:30:21.200 Without all the arguing

00:30:22.200 Without all the like

00:30:23.200 Getting on top of each other

00:30:24.200 I'm

00:30:25.200 I will sit here and say

00:30:26.200 I'm not proud of what I do

00:30:27.200 And I wanna change it

00:30:28.200 Whether you guys think

00:30:29.200 I should have changed it sooner

00:30:30.200 Should have never done it

00:30:31.200 All of that

00:30:32.200 Cool

00:30:33.200 I haven't got time to sit here

00:30:34.200 And tell you my whole life story

00:30:35.200 And plus other people have got things to say

00:30:36.200 But I want to get out of it

00:30:37.200 And I'm trying

00:30:38.200 And that's it

00:30:39.200 Can I be honest with you?

00:30:40.200 If you said that to me

00:30:41.200 This conversation would have gone so much differently

00:30:42.200 I swear to god

00:30:43.200 You've been through this

00:30:44.200 No but you keep saying

00:30:45.200 And this is the thing

00:30:46.200 You keep saying it's the way

00:30:47.200 Wow you've got a daughter

00:30:49.200 You do OnlyFans

00:30:50.200 And this is the thing

00:30:52.200 But you're a professional podcaster

00:30:53.200 I'll give you that

00:30:54.200 I'm just curious

00:30:55.200 Like what do you think

00:30:56.200 Is like supposed to be the reaction

00:30:57.200 Oh my god

00:30:58.200 I can't apply

00:30:59.200 Yeah exactly

00:31:00.200 Maybe just ask

00:31:01.200 Like politely

00:31:02.200 And I'm just saying

00:31:04.200 Like what do you expect?

00:31:06.200 What do you expect

00:31:07.200 Someone can still be polite

00:31:08.200 I was polite

00:31:09.200 I know people that do way worse things than OnlyFans

00:31:11.200 And I'm still polite to them

00:31:12.200 Just cause

00:31:13.200 Okay it's like

00:31:14.200 I know someone that robbed a bank

00:31:15.200 Who cares?

00:31:16.200 You know what?

00:31:17.200 I put it down to you

00:31:18.200 You know like when you're unemployed

00:31:19.200 Yeah?

00:31:20.200 And someone keeps bugging you

00:31:21.200 Every single day

00:31:22.200 Have you got a job yet?

00:31:23.200 Have you got a job yet?

00:31:24.200 Have you got a job yet?

00:31:25.200 And then on a certain day

00:31:26.200 Knowing that you've been trying to get a job for how long

00:31:28.200 And then they come back again

00:31:29.200 Have you got a job yet?

00:31:30.200 It starts to get on your nerves

00:31:31.200 Cause it's like

00:31:32.200 You don't know what's going on behind you

00:31:33.200 Maybe you should get a job

00:31:34.200 I'm trying

00:31:35.200 But you don't know the person's trying

00:31:37.200 But China

00:31:38.200 The person's trying to get

00:31:39.200 My point is they're actually trying

00:31:40.200 It's just like her story

00:31:41.200 She wants to come out of the industry

00:31:42.200 Absolutely

00:31:43.200 Okay but

00:31:44.200 So obviously it's going to trigger her

00:31:45.200 When somebody comes straight at her

00:31:46.200 Like that

00:31:47.200 Oh you got a door

00:31:48.200 She's probably thinking that

00:31:49.200 You don't know that

00:31:50.200 She's probably thinking

00:31:51.200 Oh my god I've got a door

00:31:52.200 Every minute of every day

00:31:53.200 I think that

00:31:54.200 Thank you

00:31:55.200 So that's the trigger

00:31:56.200 Okay but

00:31:57.200 My question is

00:31:58.200 McDonald's is hiring

00:31:59.200 Then stop

00:32:00.200 Go work at McDonald's

00:32:01.200 Who wants to work at McDonald's?

00:32:02.200 I've already explained to you

00:32:03.200 Who's going to look after my daughter 1.00

00:32:04.200 When I'm in McDonald's?

00:32:05.200 Who?

00:32:06.200 Cause I can't afford someone

00:32:07.200 Everyone has their reasons

00:32:08.200 For what they're doing

00:32:09.200 Sorry

00:32:10.200 Don't you have a boyfriend?

00:32:11.200 Yes I do

00:32:12.200 But it's not her dad

00:32:13.200 Work something out

00:32:14.200 I've been with my boyfriend

00:32:15.200 For like a month

00:32:16.200 Oh it's been a month

00:32:17.200 Okay

00:32:18.200 It raises that soon

00:32:19.200 Have you got a boyfriend?

00:32:20.200 Have I got a boyfriend?

00:32:21.200 No

00:32:22.200 By myself

00:32:23.200 Yeah

00:32:24.200 It's just terrible life

00:32:25.200 It's just so awful

00:32:26.200 Go ahead

00:32:27.200 I wanted to ask you

00:32:28.200 I hear that you want to stop

00:32:30.200 And I hear that you know

00:32:32.200 You talked about how trauma

00:32:33.200 Actually led you there

00:32:34.200 So my thing is

00:32:36.200 What are the practical steps

00:32:37.200 That you are taking right now

00:32:39.200 To stop

00:32:40.200 Or is it just like a resolution

00:32:41.200 In your mind?

00:32:42.200 No I'm building businesses

00:32:43.200 I've got a proper property portfolio

00:32:45.200 I've got five properties under my belt

00:32:47.200 I'm about to have another five next year

00:32:49.200 I want to make my property portfolio so big

00:32:51.200 That in two years time

00:32:52.200 I won't have to do it anymore

00:32:53.200 I can pay someone to get as much of it

00:32:55.200 Off the internet as possible

00:32:56.200 Yes I know

00:32:57.200 It probably won't all come off the internet

00:32:58.200 But I'm just going to try my best for it

00:33:01.200 Big you up for that

00:33:02.200 Thank you man

00:33:03.200 Thank you

00:33:04.200 But you have five businesses though

00:33:06.200 Five businesses

00:33:07.200 I have a few businesses at home

00:33:08.200 Is that not enough to take care of your daughters? 0.99

00:33:10.200 But everyone has a few

00:33:11.200 It's not enough financially no

00:33:12.200 Wait do you know what's so interesting?

00:33:14.200 How you guys said big up to her businesses

00:33:16.200 But we're trying to shame his

00:33:18.200 Who was shaming his businesses?

00:33:20.200 Where?

00:33:21.200 I didn't shame his

00:33:22.200 You know what you were doing

00:33:24.200 Stop it

00:33:25.200 What's up?

00:33:26.200 It's only one person

00:33:27.200 That's all

00:33:28.200 How is everyone shaming his business?

00:33:30.200 No because I've actually got something viable

00:33:32.200 And she doesn't know it

00:33:33.200 And she automatically just said 0.81

00:33:34.200 Cause she didn't know it

00:33:35.200 But you own properties right?

00:33:37.200 That's fine like

00:33:38.200 We don't know what a property

00:33:39.200 She just said I own properties

00:33:40.200 I could have said I own properties

00:33:41.200 I could have told you all the multiple things I did

00:33:43.200 The problem the thing

00:33:44.200 Why are you competing with a woman though? 0.95

00:33:45.200 Do you know why?

00:33:46.200 Because that's not what

00:33:47.200 Why are you competing with a woman though? 0.95

00:33:48.200 I'm not

00:33:49.200 It's giving sassy

00:33:50.200 It's giving sassy

00:33:51.200 What language are you in?

00:33:52.200 It's giving sassy

00:33:53.200 It's giving sassy

00:33:54.200 It's giving

00:33:55.200 It's giving

00:33:56.200 It's giving

00:33:57.200 It's giving sassy

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JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023

She DISMANTLED for Being a Single Mother and An Only Fans Model

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