JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023


She DISMANTLED for Being a Single Mother and An Only Fans Model


Episode Stats

Length

34 minutes

Words per Minute

231.71065

Word Count

7,933

Sentence Count

324

Misogynist Sentences

80

Hate Speech Sentences

57


Summary

Will modern women ever lose? Is there ever a consequence for women doing anything they do wrong? In this episode of the podcast, I sit down with social media influencer, entrepreneur, and reality TV star, Lana Rhodes, to discuss this question.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 We're going to talk about, will modern women lose?
00:00:02.640 So, guys, I'm going to introduce you to some of my ideas.
00:00:06.760 Don't know how familiar you are with my content, so we'll see.
00:00:09.840 You know, women, you know, we're a net loss on the tax base,
00:00:13.720 meaning we spend more money than we make, right?
00:00:17.200 So men pay over $100,000 more in tax in their lifetime.
00:00:21.800 Yes, so the majority of people on benefits are women also.
00:00:24.800 And, you know, now I would say we offer, like, less to society than ever before.
00:00:30.220 We used to offer, like, seven kids.
00:00:32.100 Now the average woman is given, like, 1.5, 1.2.
00:00:36.340 You know, the guys used to marry us.
00:00:38.660 They used to get, like, a nice young virgin.
00:00:41.040 Now they don't.
00:00:42.700 They're like, I'll pray for that, but it's not happening, you know.
00:00:46.160 So, you know, I had this thought, will modern women ever lose?
00:00:51.220 Is there ever a consequence for women doing anything?
00:00:55.800 And what made me think of this was Lana Rhodes recently had a clip
00:01:00.180 that went viral, if you want to pull it up.
00:01:02.580 Actually, I think it might be a year or two old,
00:01:04.240 but it made me think of this because, you know,
00:01:08.140 I know she just got pregnant by an NBA guy, but we don't know who.
00:01:13.440 Like, I know the baby daddy.
00:01:14.520 And I was thinking, like, she essentially could put a guy on child support
00:01:17.860 for a lifetime, and boom, she's done for a bad decision.
00:01:21.200 Now, like, now she's taken care of.
00:01:23.080 So let's pull up this clip.
00:01:34.220 Such a fool in most of my decisions.
00:01:36.760 Even with all the success that you've had,
00:01:38.860 you're an incredible mother now, businesswoman,
00:01:41.140 you're working with Playboy,
00:01:42.180 you still look back on that and you still feel ashamed?
00:01:44.540 Yeah, I don't like the fact that people can see me naked on the internet
00:01:50.300 or can see those things happening to me.
00:01:53.260 I think that it's gross.
00:01:54.540 That is crazy that you can build this whole life
00:02:00.260 and you still feel ashamed.
00:02:02.280 I mean, I'm proud of myself and what I've done,
00:02:05.880 and I wouldn't take anything back.
00:02:07.840 However, it's not like I like the idea that people can view that of me.
00:02:11.980 I personally, those videos make me want to throw up.
00:02:15.740 It's very much a...
00:02:18.920 Is there two?
00:02:20.280 Is there a second one?
00:02:21.020 Let's go with people.
00:02:26.540 My experiences are really humiliating for me,
00:02:29.540 and I wish that they never happened.
00:02:33.180 Sorry.
00:02:33.980 Oh, don't cry.
00:02:35.040 And it just gets really extreme,
00:02:41.220 like you were saying, abusive.
00:02:43.140 Did you ever feel like...
00:02:44.340 Did you ever go through those experiences where you...
00:02:46.340 Honestly, I feel like I'm in denial sometimes
00:02:48.800 and I can't accept some of the things that I've done.
00:02:51.960 Some of my experiences are really humiliating for me.
00:02:56.820 Okay.
00:02:57.660 So my question is, you know,
00:02:59.320 she talks about this, the regret, whatever,
00:03:01.740 but she still works for Playboy
00:03:03.760 and she's worth $14 million.
00:03:06.960 So do modern women ever lose?
00:03:10.340 I mean, for $14 million,
00:03:12.240 it's not really losing, is it?
00:03:14.040 Period.
00:03:16.300 Okay, so you would say she doesn't lose.
00:03:18.260 She wins.
00:03:19.020 It's different, though,
00:03:19.840 because she's obviously regretting what she's done, right?
00:03:22.340 So I can relate to her because I do only fans
00:03:25.020 and I hate what I do,
00:03:26.660 but I'm stuck in a trap where I'm trying to get out,
00:03:29.020 but I have a certain lifestyle,
00:03:30.540 I have things to pay for.
00:03:31.500 So it's just difficult to just click your fingers and change it.
00:03:34.700 How long have you done it for?
00:03:36.200 I've done it for five years.
00:03:37.600 Okay.
00:03:38.000 I've built up businesses whilst I've been doing it.
00:03:41.460 The reasons why I've done it is probably trauma-related
00:03:44.300 and my upbringing and things,
00:03:45.700 and I've ended up in situations where I've been naive
00:03:48.800 and I've been taken advantage of not blaming anyone,
00:03:51.500 but I know what I've been through.
00:03:52.580 I know why I'm here,
00:03:53.440 and I'm trying to get out of it.
00:03:54.820 So it's difficult to just,
00:03:56.960 yeah, she can say she's humiliated and she doesn't like it,
00:03:59.340 but maybe she can't change it like that.
00:04:01.700 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:03.160 Well, she's worth $14 million.
00:04:05.340 Can't she just, like, go home?
00:04:07.740 Well, yeah, to be honest with you, I agree,
00:04:10.200 but when you make money,
00:04:12.140 if you've got that kind of brain
00:04:13.360 where you just want more and more and more,
00:04:14.920 that doesn't stop whether you've got $14 million, $14 billion.
00:04:17.640 So this is my thing.
00:04:18.780 I have a lot of OnlyFans models on the show.
00:04:21.160 Yeah.
00:04:21.620 And I find that they kind of get into a similar situation like you
00:04:25.060 where they don't know how to get out
00:04:26.360 because there's zero plan.
00:04:28.160 You know, do you find that to be true
00:04:30.920 with the OnlyFans models that you know?
00:04:32.780 Yeah, I like to separate myself
00:04:34.740 from a lot of the OnlyFans models
00:04:36.140 because some of them say stupid shit
00:04:37.960 like my kids will cry in a Ferrari
00:04:39.440 and I think that's just dumb when they get asked.
00:04:42.060 I don't know if you saw that girl.
00:04:43.140 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:43.780 Yeah.
00:04:44.980 Like, I have a daughter
00:04:46.060 and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't...
00:04:48.460 You have a daughter and you do OnlyFans?
00:04:50.400 Yeah.
00:04:51.060 Wow, that's crazy.
00:04:53.280 How is your daughter?
00:04:53.840 Why is that crazy she's four?
00:04:56.540 Would you want your daughter to do OnlyFans?
00:04:58.220 No, I wouldn't,
00:04:58.840 but that's why I'm trying to stop doing it,
00:05:00.160 but I didn't have a daughter when I started it.
00:05:01.720 Sorry, I just...
00:05:02.780 This is just...
00:05:03.420 Wow, I just...
00:05:04.060 All right, so do you want to pay my bills?
00:05:05.920 So...
00:05:06.360 No, exactly.
00:05:07.220 Okay, can I answer the question?
00:05:09.240 Why should I pay your bills if you have a daughter?
00:05:11.200 Why should I pay?
00:05:11.480 Because you're cussing me.
00:05:12.380 I haven't cussed you, I'll ask you a question.
00:05:13.520 You're looking at me in a certain way.
00:05:14.860 I haven't looked at you in any of that.
00:05:15.860 I just ask...
00:05:16.400 To be honest with you,
00:05:17.080 you have a daughter,
00:05:17.720 you just told me that you...
00:05:18.840 What do you do apart from this?
00:05:20.660 Apart from this,
00:05:21.180 I do multiple things.
00:05:22.200 I don't do OnlyFans.
00:05:23.220 I don't sell my body online.
00:05:24.560 Okay, but what do you do?
00:05:25.420 I'm not asking what you do.
00:05:25.740 No, I do multiple things.
00:05:32.780 And you do OnlyFans.
00:05:33.940 See, the problem is when you...
00:05:35.560 You're still not answering me.
00:05:36.980 What do you do?
00:05:37.680 No, no, because you're missing...
00:05:39.120 You're missing that.
00:05:40.120 You're missing that.
00:05:40.620 You're not missing nothing.
00:05:41.540 You're not answering my question.
00:05:42.260 No, because I'm about to get onto something.
00:05:44.200 You're about to tell me you do...
00:05:45.300 You're about to tell me I'm a landlord.
00:05:46.640 You're about to tell me I'm a businesswoman.
00:05:47.920 You're about to tell me all of this.
00:05:49.120 And you're also about to tell me you bust open for $9.99.
00:05:51.440 How much money is online?
00:05:52.900 Not $9.99 at all.
00:05:53.400 How much is it?
00:05:53.920 Sorry, how much is it amount?
00:05:54.780 It's a lot of money.
00:05:55.420 How much?
00:05:55.780 Why don't you tell me what you do for that?
00:06:02.780 Okay, so let's work on that.
00:06:04.820 Let's work on that.
00:06:05.800 If you want to come out,
00:06:06.640 when a man is asking you a question
00:06:07.820 and about to give you some information,
00:06:09.080 possibly on how you can take roots to come out,
00:06:11.220 you don't start by questioning about what do you do.
00:06:12.980 That's a very masculine thing.
00:06:14.120 So what you want to do is...
00:06:15.340 Wait, hold on a second.
00:06:16.540 You want to battle me with what you do,
00:06:18.220 but the basis of all the things that you've...
00:06:20.340 I don't want to battle you.
00:06:21.200 You said to me,
00:06:22.300 whoa, you've got a daughter and you do OnlyFans.
00:06:24.040 Of course, because how can you have a daughter
00:06:26.240 and you be selling your body online?
00:06:27.640 Yeah, I agree with you,
00:06:28.920 which is why I want to get out of it.
00:06:30.820 It's the way that you spoke to her and said,
00:06:32.380 oh, whoa, you have a daughter.
00:06:34.220 Thank you.
00:06:35.040 Like, so she has a daughter.
00:06:36.260 Okay, so what?
00:06:36.740 She's trying to put money on the food for her table.
00:06:38.720 She can't work in Tesco's?
00:06:40.300 That's Tesco.
00:06:41.400 Nine pound an hour.
00:06:42.360 Wait, hold on a second.
00:06:43.060 So how about all the other people
00:06:44.420 that are nine pound an hour
00:06:45.280 putting their kids through school?
00:06:46.480 Okay, cool.
00:06:47.200 Can we just give the man a chance?
00:06:50.100 So everyone in Tesco,
00:06:51.740 everyone in Tesco,
00:06:52.940 because they want,
00:06:53.420 because they know what I'm up to do.
00:06:54.320 Okay, but how much time do they spend with their kids?
00:06:56.080 I spend 24 hours a day with my daughter.
00:06:58.200 You lot who work in Tesco,
00:06:59.340 you put your kids in schools and nurseries
00:07:00.940 and ask us after school clubs.
00:07:03.460 I'm just curious.
00:07:04.900 Do you seriously think it's better for a kid
00:07:06.980 to have a mom on OnlyFans
00:07:08.420 than a mom working at Tesco?
00:07:10.020 I'm not saying it's better,
00:07:11.280 but I'm saying both things
00:07:12.580 have their good and bad points,
00:07:14.140 because at least I raised my daughter.
00:07:16.220 Can we let the man make his point?
00:07:18.120 I'd like to hear his point.
00:07:19.400 I'd like to hear the man's point.
00:07:21.540 The problem is we can't do this
00:07:22.760 if you're going to continue,
00:07:23.440 because you're getting triggered.
00:07:24.180 The reason you're getting triggered,
00:07:25.060 because you know what I'm going to say,
00:07:26.160 because you've heard it before.
00:07:26.900 I don't give a fuck what you're going to say.
00:07:27.620 See, why are you swearing for?
00:07:28.840 There's no need.
00:07:29.400 That's very rude.
00:07:29.980 You're swearing to a man
00:07:30.680 you've never met before.
00:07:31.480 I haven't swore at you.
00:07:32.220 That's very disrespectful.
00:07:33.400 I haven't disrespected you.
00:07:34.760 Yes, you have.
00:07:35.420 You said you've got a daughter
00:07:36.280 and you do OnlyFans.
00:07:37.140 I think most men would say
00:07:38.760 that you've got a daughter
00:07:39.520 and you sell your body online.
00:07:40.560 Well, my man don't say that,
00:07:41.640 so what?
00:07:42.580 Right, but I'm just confused,
00:07:44.560 because you just said
00:07:45.280 that you have a daughter
00:07:46.140 and you do OnlyFans,
00:07:47.220 and when he said it back to you,
00:07:48.320 you got mad.
00:07:48.960 I know.
00:07:49.300 It's the way he said it to me.
00:07:50.460 It's the way he said it.
00:07:51.660 I know I have a daughter,
00:07:52.920 and I know I do OnlyFans,
00:07:53.680 but I'm trying to get out of it.
00:07:55.220 Right.
00:07:55.640 So let me speak then.
00:07:56.960 What do you do?
00:07:59.100 I'm just saying,
00:07:59.660 what did he do that was so offensive?
00:08:01.220 He said back to you what you said.
00:08:04.000 No, the way he said it.
00:08:05.440 How did I say it?
00:08:06.160 You're dissing me like,
00:08:07.380 wow, you've got a daughter
00:08:08.980 and you do OnlyFans.
00:08:10.300 What did I say that dissed you?
00:08:11.120 What did I say that dissed you?
00:08:13.520 Please, no,
00:08:14.020 because this is live.
00:08:14.820 This is live.
00:08:15.360 I know this is live.
00:08:16.680 I'm telling you what you did.
00:08:17.760 Okay, so let me speak.
00:08:18.660 You didn't turn around and say,
00:08:19.960 oh, you're a landlord
00:08:21.080 and you do OnlyFans.
00:08:22.280 You picked out the fact
00:08:23.160 that she said,
00:08:23.820 I've got a daughter
00:08:24.360 and I do OnlyFans.
00:08:25.140 So obviously it's going to trigger.
00:08:26.880 That's her daughter,
00:08:27.700 but you didn't burp her.
00:08:29.520 Hold on a second.
00:08:30.380 I just feel like as women,
00:08:31.740 the first question we have to answer
00:08:33.140 is, is it true?
00:08:34.220 What?
00:08:34.480 Is what the guy is saying is true?
00:08:36.160 Yeah, but it could be triggering.
00:08:37.380 It's just triggering.
00:08:38.600 Okay, right, right, right.
00:08:40.500 But it's like,
00:08:41.000 but it's like,
00:08:41.620 is it true?
00:08:42.700 And he's just repeating back
00:08:43.880 what you said.
00:08:45.120 He's not Pearl.
00:08:46.200 You're trying to twist it.
00:08:47.260 You know exactly what he said
00:08:48.540 and how he said it.
00:08:49.060 The modest thing is,
00:08:50.040 the modest thing is.
00:08:50.700 I didn't have a daughter
00:08:51.380 and wake up and go,
00:08:52.040 I'm going to do OnlyFans now.
00:08:53.340 Okay, do you want to stop OnlyFans?
00:08:55.960 Do you want to stop OnlyFans?
00:08:57.100 Then let me speak then.
00:08:58.000 I started OnlyFans, yeah.
00:08:59.500 I was led down a path
00:09:00.880 where I was naive.
00:09:01.820 I've ended up on OnlyFans
00:09:02.860 and my plan is to get off it
00:09:04.020 and try and get rid of
00:09:04.840 as much as possible.
00:09:05.760 I'm going to have to deal
00:09:06.680 with that as a mom,
00:09:07.320 but I tell you what,
00:09:07.920 I wouldn't swap any job
00:09:08.940 for spending 24 hours a day
00:09:10.180 with my child.
00:09:11.180 How are you naive
00:09:11.900 if you were 29?
00:09:13.320 No, but I was naive
00:09:14.280 to end up in other things
00:09:15.280 that I did.
00:09:15.720 You've only just met me
00:09:16.720 and you don't even know
00:09:17.380 what I did.
00:09:17.740 Naive has nothing to do
00:09:18.320 with age though.
00:09:22.040 I agree with this.
00:09:23.280 I don't know.
00:09:24.360 I think if you're like
00:09:25.240 almost halfway through life,
00:09:26.860 you have a little more wisdom.
00:09:28.340 No, I don't think so.
00:09:29.420 You need to be accountable.
00:09:31.360 See this thing,
00:09:31.900 men, we cannot go through
00:09:33.180 our life not being accountable.
00:09:34.340 You guys can,
00:09:34.840 how can you be 29?
00:09:35.740 You're about to tell me 29
00:09:36.740 I was groomed into OnlyFans.
00:09:38.260 You're a grown woman.
00:09:39.160 Hold on a second.
00:09:39.900 No, no, no, but this is
00:09:41.220 where you're trying to take it.
00:09:42.560 When you're talking about that.
00:09:43.280 What do you do?
00:09:44.060 What's your job?
00:09:44.920 What do you mean?
00:09:45.300 I own I slash you
00:09:46.280 and I do podcasts
00:09:47.320 and I slash you.
00:09:48.520 Can I make a point?
00:09:50.240 You've never heard of it.
00:09:51.240 So what does that mean?
00:09:52.020 So hold on a second.
00:09:52.840 What do you do?
00:09:53.460 You said you sing.
00:09:54.260 I'm a student.
00:09:54.800 You're a student.
00:09:55.360 And I sing.
00:09:55.960 And you sing.
00:09:56.820 What have you sung?
00:09:58.040 What do you mean?
00:09:58.800 It's coming.
00:09:59.600 Oh, okay.
00:10:00.320 So wait, hold on a second.
00:10:01.800 So wait, hold on a second.
00:10:02.880 So you spoke to a man
00:10:03.880 that has a drink
00:10:04.400 in over 100 shops
00:10:05.260 in London's Costco
00:10:06.000 and then you said to him,
00:10:07.620 what do you do?
00:10:08.020 Because you haven't heard of it.
00:10:09.080 So then I said to you,
00:10:10.220 what do you do?
00:10:10.680 You sing It's Coming.
00:10:11.400 How dare you?
00:10:12.200 But you're getting triggered.
00:10:12.980 I'm not getting triggered.
00:10:13.960 I'm not.
00:10:14.520 No, I'm not getting triggered.
00:10:15.860 I'm not getting triggered.
00:10:17.720 You asked me a question.
00:10:18.940 What do you do?
00:10:19.700 You didn't know what I did.
00:10:20.660 So that's your ignorance.
00:10:21.580 You've never watched this show.
00:10:22.720 You've never seen who I am.
00:10:23.780 So you're asking me.
00:10:24.500 That's your ignorance.
00:10:25.420 I ask you what you do.
00:10:26.340 You don't do much.
00:10:27.060 So what are you talking about?
00:10:27.780 I'm a student.
00:10:28.780 Yeah, why are you being aggressive?
00:10:29.820 I'm not aggressive.
00:10:30.820 The problem is,
00:10:31.960 the problem is,
00:10:33.680 the problem is,
00:10:34.260 what you're doing is,
00:10:35.000 guys.
00:10:35.180 But you're always on the man's side.
00:10:36.360 You're always on the man's side.
00:10:37.840 I mean,
00:10:38.200 because the men are usually
00:10:39.260 more logical than women.
00:10:40.860 Sorry.
00:10:41.860 I think just from this conversation,
00:10:44.580 I'll give you an example.
00:10:49.320 You said one thing.
00:10:50.200 He said the same thing back to you.
00:10:52.160 You don't like how he said it.
00:10:53.700 Because it's disrespectful.
00:10:55.040 It's disrespectful to say exactly.
00:10:57.260 It's disrespectful to say exactly what you said.
00:11:00.900 But see,
00:11:01.180 it's so funny
00:11:01.840 because this is what they do.
00:11:02.720 We're not talking about me right now.
00:11:04.140 We're talking about you.
00:11:05.060 I'm talking to you.
00:11:05.860 You're talking to me.
00:11:06.620 I'm going to talk to you.
00:11:07.620 And it's so interesting
00:11:08.660 because you know what they do?
00:11:09.860 It's like,
00:11:10.740 you say one thing
00:11:12.020 and then he says it back to you
00:11:13.380 and then you get mad.
00:11:14.420 No,
00:11:14.760 it's not that this
00:11:15.700 because the way he said it,
00:11:16.680 I think I agree.
00:11:18.040 I'd love to hear
00:11:19.800 what the man had to say.
00:11:22.420 He had a point.
00:11:23.460 Let me finish.
00:11:24.160 He had a point,
00:11:25.320 right?
00:11:26.060 And the thing is,
00:11:26.880 as women,
00:11:27.480 there is certain things
00:11:28.540 that we don't like to do
00:11:29.660 and that's take responsibility.
00:11:32.160 Consequences of our actions.
00:11:34.380 Now,
00:11:34.580 I don't agree with anybody
00:11:36.100 sort of looking at somebody
00:11:37.740 as though what they do
00:11:38.600 is wrong or bad
00:11:39.540 or anything,
00:11:40.480 but there are consequences
00:11:41.880 to our actions
00:11:42.720 and whether we like it
00:11:44.340 or not,
00:11:45.180 I think the man's reaction
00:11:46.780 to what you did was,
00:11:48.640 yes,
00:11:48.900 he did react,
00:11:50.020 but it was because
00:11:50.720 you have a four-year-old daughter
00:11:52.280 and a man...
00:11:53.800 My three-year-old daughter,
00:11:54.320 not his.
00:11:54.700 No, no, no,
00:11:55.420 let me explain.
00:11:57.620 Can a man not feel
00:11:59.400 some sort of responsibility
00:12:01.140 or sort of think about
00:12:03.280 how that child might feel?
00:12:05.920 That's all it is.
00:12:06.640 He doesn't know my child.
00:12:07.840 It doesn't matter.
00:12:08.740 We are all parents
00:12:10.040 of all children.
00:12:10.760 If I see a child on the street...
00:12:12.240 But I care about
00:12:12.620 how my child feels
00:12:13.900 way more than anybody
00:12:14.960 in this group.
00:12:14.980 If you did,
00:12:15.340 you wouldn't be doing OnlyFans.
00:12:16.340 If I see a child on the street
00:12:18.220 by themselves...
00:12:18.240 If you care about your child,
00:12:19.240 you wouldn't be doing OnlyFans.
00:12:20.500 You wouldn't.
00:12:21.040 Listen,
00:12:21.320 if I see a child
00:12:22.540 on the street
00:12:23.100 by themselves,
00:12:23.940 I care about that child.
00:12:25.940 I do.
00:12:26.440 You know what's crazy to me?
00:12:28.040 If I care about my child,
00:12:29.680 I wouldn't be doing OnlyFans.
00:12:30.480 You act like you're
00:12:31.140 reinventing the wheel.
00:12:32.100 You're not doing anything.
00:12:33.120 You're not creating businesses.
00:12:34.100 You're not...
00:12:34.480 What are you doing out there?
00:12:35.300 She just said she created...
00:12:36.140 Can you stop interrupting me?
00:12:37.260 You're being very rude.
00:12:38.660 You keep interrupting me.
00:12:41.300 Do you know what it is?
00:12:42.200 This is masculinity
00:12:43.000 and the problem is
00:12:44.140 women always try...
00:12:44.840 Women always try to tone police.
00:12:47.080 From the moment I've started,
00:12:48.120 I've not been rude.
00:12:49.300 I'm having to now raise my voice.
00:12:50.720 You have been rude.
00:12:51.120 And you've raised your voice
00:12:52.480 from the beginning.
00:12:53.000 Aggressive.
00:12:53.540 Now, guys,
00:12:54.280 let me show you what women do.
00:12:55.800 He has not been rude.
00:12:57.080 This is live on air.
00:12:58.000 He has not been rude.
00:12:59.100 This is live on air.
00:12:59.880 I'm being called aggressive.
00:13:01.040 I'm being called aggressive.
00:13:01.960 Super chat later on.
00:13:02.860 I've been called aggressive.
00:13:03.920 I've not been disrespectful.
00:13:05.300 I've not shouted them.
00:13:06.380 I haven't used any derogatory,
00:13:08.140 any comments to that.
00:13:09.200 All I simply say is,
00:13:10.260 wow,
00:13:10.500 you have a four-year-old daughter
00:13:11.500 and you do OnlyFans.
00:13:12.400 I was going to go on
00:13:13.260 for that and explain
00:13:14.000 because I've done this
00:13:14.940 such scenario before,
00:13:15.900 but the problem is
00:13:16.680 you get triggered
00:13:17.520 because this is not the first time
00:13:18.620 you've heard this.
00:13:19.220 It's not the first time.
00:13:20.060 Oh, okay.
00:13:20.880 Okay.
00:13:21.440 Wait, can I reply?
00:13:22.440 No, because I'm trying
00:13:23.740 to say something
00:13:24.260 and you keep stopping it.
00:13:25.220 I can't get to where I need to get to.
00:13:26.380 And the problem is
00:13:27.780 this is a trauma response.
00:13:28.980 I get it.
00:13:29.580 I understand.
00:13:30.460 I get it.
00:13:30.980 I get it.
00:13:31.460 I understand.
00:13:32.080 It's a trauma response.
00:13:33.240 Trying to come to me
00:13:33.980 and telling me,
00:13:34.480 oh, what do you do?
00:13:35.700 Oh, what you're trying to do,
00:13:36.760 that's a very masculine thing.
00:13:37.840 What you're trying to say is,
00:13:38.780 oh, oh, let me check what you do,
00:13:40.100 but it doesn't matter what I do.
00:13:41.340 I could clean the streets.
00:13:42.640 That's still better
00:13:43.180 than doing OnlyFans
00:13:44.000 because what you people...
00:13:44.940 Wait, hold on a second.
00:13:45.680 Hold on a second.
00:13:46.800 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:13:48.080 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:13:49.660 You guys...
00:13:50.260 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:13:52.720 I'm gonna let you finish this one thing.
00:13:54.660 You guys really think
00:13:56.000 that doing OnlyFans
00:13:57.460 is not a worse job than others.
00:14:00.840 You asked about the Mother and Woman.
00:14:03.440 No, I'm asking you.
00:14:04.840 OnlyFans.
00:14:05.960 We really think that, like,
00:14:07.600 sweeping the street,
00:14:08.920 being a street sweeper...
00:14:10.980 People don't respect those people either.
00:14:12.480 Who doesn't?
00:14:13.220 Who doesn't?
00:14:13.800 Hold on a second, these are the men that built the modern world, you women don't respect them
00:14:20.200 You women don't respect the people that...
00:14:22.200 You just said you don't respect them, of course we respect them
00:14:29.000 I never said that, stop taking words out of me, I said that people don't respect them
00:14:33.000 Which people? I respect them
00:14:35.000 Can I ask a question, do you think that someone who does OnlyFans can't raise a child properly?
00:14:40.200 I didn't say that
00:14:42.200 No, I didn't say that
00:14:44.200 As long as she's taking care of her child though
00:14:46.200 Wait, so the question was
00:14:48.200 Do you think that somebody who does OnlyFans can't still raise their child with good morals, respect and properly?
00:14:54.200 No, no
00:14:56.200 But then if I was to sweep the street, then someone else is raising my child
00:15:00.200 I mean, that's why you're supposed to get married before the kid, so then you have a husband and wife
00:15:06.200 Yeah, but that didn't happen for me
00:15:08.200 Because it's choice, right?
00:15:10.200 That's a choice you made
00:15:12.200 But you're not a virgin
00:15:14.200 And I don't have a kid, I'm not an OnlyFans
00:15:16.200 You wouldn't get any subs
00:15:18.200 I would get more than you
00:15:20.200 You fucking wouldn't get any subs
00:15:22.200 I'm telling you
00:15:24.200 Guys, guys
00:15:26.200 Too many women
00:15:28.200 Too many of the women
00:15:30.200 All right, all right
00:15:32.200 Guys, one second, one second, I'm going to need to calm this thing down
00:15:36.200 We read the rules, please let's
00:15:38.200 I know it's hard when we're all trying to get our points across but if someone is speaking, let's all try to give them a chance to speak
00:15:44.200 Yeah, too many of the women
00:15:46.200 I think have emotional responses and we become defensive
00:15:52.200 Because of our history
00:15:54.200 Because of what we've been through in the past
00:15:56.200 And we get triggered
00:15:58.200 And rather than allow someone to speak and hear the full length of what they have to say
00:16:04.200 Where maybe we can learn something and take something on board
00:16:08.200 It might hurt
00:16:10.200 Because we're triggered
00:16:12.200 But that doesn't mean what he had to say might not have made some sense
00:16:14.200 I say might not because I didn't hear it
00:16:16.200 Let me just let me just finish darling, please
00:16:18.200 Okay, one just one thing
00:16:20.200 Because I'm not against you
00:16:22.200 Don't don't don't
00:16:24.200 Okay, but I'm not against him either
00:16:26.200 As women we need to get to understand masculine energy
00:16:30.200 It's not a negative
00:16:32.200 Because it's louder or stronger or more assertive
00:16:36.200 That's what masculine is
00:16:38.200 We are the opposite
00:16:40.200 We are feminine
00:16:42.200 And sometimes we have to learn
00:16:44.200 How to allow that
00:16:46.200 So that maybe we can get
00:16:48.200 I've had plenty of conversations with people
00:16:50.200 I've been on plenty of podcasts where the opposite person doesn't agree with OnlyFans
00:16:54.200 And we've spoke very maturely like adults respectfully
00:16:57.200 And I agree with a lot of points that someone who doesn't agree with OnlyFans
00:17:00.200 I agree with a lot of things they say
00:17:02.200 But it's the way someone addresses it
00:17:04.200 And I'm sorry, but both of you have been rude
00:17:06.200 And the way you address it is rude
00:17:08.200 I know that's the whole point of the podcast
00:17:10.200 But I could have a conversation for hours
00:17:12.200 With somebody who doesn't agree with OnlyFans
00:17:14.200 And it will not get heated
00:17:16.200 And I will agree with things that they say
00:17:18.200 What did we say that was so rude?
00:17:20.200 It's the way you speak
00:17:22.200 I'm asking what specifically did we say
00:17:24.200 I've already said
00:17:26.200 Do we want to go back over it?
00:17:28.200 I don't know
00:17:30.200 You've got a four year old and you do OnlyFans
00:17:32.200 Wow
00:17:34.200 But can I ask you though
00:17:36.200 Is that reaction abnormal?
00:17:38.200 Pardon? Yes
00:17:40.200 So most people say
00:17:42.200 Oh do you actually have a door and do OnlyFans
00:17:44.200 Like do you not think there's something better you could do
00:17:46.200 And I'll be like yeah to be honest with you
00:17:48.200 But the thing is like she said
00:17:50.200 I'm not for him and I'm not for you
00:17:52.200 Like I'm not against the both of you
00:17:54.200 But I think that we should be able to own the consequences of our choices
00:17:58.200 Right? Like
00:18:00.200 Your energy is aggressive I don't like it
00:18:02.200 No and some people would see you a certain way
00:18:04.200 I'm triggered more by his aggression than what he said to me
00:18:06.200 I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry
00:18:08.200 I'm sorry I can't do this
00:18:10.200 I can't do this
00:18:11.200 I can't as a black man have a white woman calling me aggressive online
00:18:14.200 I'm not doing this I'm not doing this
00:18:16.200 Let me tell you why
00:18:18.200 Because if you call me aggressive off camera
00:18:20.200 A problem happens to me
00:18:22.200 But call me aggressive on camera when I've not shown anything
00:18:24.200 Aggression other masculinity
00:18:26.200 The problem is you guys try to tone police
00:18:28.200 You don't understand masculinity
00:18:30.200 Because in today's society they try to
00:18:32.200 What are you saying as a black man though?
00:18:34.200 Why are you pulling that card to me?
00:18:36.200 Are you alright?
00:18:38.200 I've never said anything about
00:18:40.200 Hold on hold on a second let me speak you're doing it again
00:18:42.200 I'm telling you my
00:18:44.200 I'm telling you my feelings
00:18:46.200 I'm telling you how I'm perceiving you
00:18:48.200 Hold on stop you're doing it
00:18:50.200 Hold on hold on
00:18:52.200 Hold on you won't let me speak
00:18:54.200 What have I said about black girls tell me
00:18:56.200 Black girls wear fake hair baby mama
00:18:58.200 Don't don't
00:19:00.200 Wait a minute wait a minute
00:19:02.200 What have I said we're gonna do it now
00:19:04.200 So I'm gonna let you say what you think I've said then I'm gonna speak
00:19:06.200 You said stuff about black girls wearing fake weave
00:19:08.200 What have I said what have I actually said
00:19:10.200 I just said what I said
00:19:12.200 No but what did I say
00:19:14.200 And why are we single mothers
00:19:16.200 And why are we single mothers?
00:19:18.200 Did I say to black women why black women are women
00:19:20.200 Did I say black women
00:19:22.200 Wait wait no no no no no no
00:19:24.200 No no no no no no
00:19:26.200 If you're gonna pull up something get receipts
00:19:28.200 Hold a second
00:19:30.200 You have just accused me
00:19:32.200 You have just accused me of calling out black women
00:19:34.200 And dissing black women I've never once done that in my life
00:19:36.200 How dare you
00:19:38.200 Pull up receipts
00:19:40.200 Don't you ever accuse me of dissing black women
00:19:42.200 Pull up receipts
00:19:43.200 No because you did
00:19:44.200 No these are my sisters
00:19:45.200 No
00:19:46.200 Is he's aggressive?
00:19:47.200 Yeah yeah cool
00:19:48.200 Pull up receipts
00:19:49.200 That's aggression not masculinity
00:19:50.200 That's your aggression
00:19:51.200 No no no no no
00:19:52.200 Set the record straight then Chyna set the record straight
00:19:54.200 What did you say then?
00:19:55.200 What did you say then?
00:19:56.200 Hold on um Jaz
00:19:57.200 If a woman says to me
00:19:58.200 I'm listening hold on everyone shush
00:19:59.200 What did you say?
00:20:00.200 Put it straight then
00:20:01.200 It's not for me to say what I've said
00:20:02.200 It's for the person to say that accusing me
00:20:04.200 And to show me what they're saying now
00:20:05.200 I literally can't sign my word
00:20:06.200 What I'm saying is
00:20:07.200 Find your phone
00:20:08.200 I've never said nothing about black women
00:20:10.200 Rather than get mad
00:20:11.200 I mean guys guys
00:20:12.200 To be fair it's like a third of kids nowadays
00:20:14.200 Are born into single mother homes
00:20:16.200 But I never spoke about black women
00:20:17.200 This is like a cross
00:20:18.200 This is a cross culture
00:20:19.200 I never said nothing about black women
00:20:20.200 But why do you think that is?
00:20:21.200 Because of the women?
00:20:22.200 Do you think the men don't pull their weight all the time?
00:20:23.200 Because women make stupid decisions
00:20:25.200 But men don't pull their weight
00:20:26.200 Everyone makes stupid decisions
00:20:27.200 Men are the ones I believe
00:20:28.200 Everyone makes stupid decisions
00:20:29.200 Okay okay okay okay
00:20:30.200 Who's into
00:20:31.200 You pick who your baby daddy is
00:20:33.200 So if you got a shitty baby daddy
00:20:34.200 It's your own fault
00:20:35.200 But they might not have been shit before though
00:20:37.200 Actually men just switch up when you are nowhere
00:20:39.200 Let me get this straight
00:20:40.200 Did your parents like him?
00:20:42.200 Did your friends like him?
00:20:43.200 Really?
00:20:44.200 They all said flying colors
00:20:45.200 He's so amazing
00:20:46.200 And then he just switched
00:20:47.200 Like shut up
00:20:48.200 That might be the case
00:20:49.200 That's never the case
00:20:50.200 You know it's never the case
00:20:51.200 You're telling me there's not a single case like that
00:20:52.200 The whole entire world
00:20:53.200 There's not a single case like that
00:20:54.200 There's not a single case like that
00:20:55.200 Where a guy's gonna fool all of the men in her life
00:20:59.200 That's gonna fool the father, the brothers, cousins, uncles, uncles
00:21:03.200 People lived off their lives though
00:21:05.200 I don't have family like that though
00:21:06.200 I don't have family like that though
00:21:07.200 I don't have family like that
00:21:08.200 And it's not just women anyway
00:21:09.200 So why would I go off that?
00:21:10.200 Well then it's your mom's fault
00:21:11.200 To be honest
00:21:12.200 Yeah it is my mom's fault
00:21:13.200 Yeah I know
00:21:14.200 Let's see your receipts
00:21:15.200 Oh I don't rape my mom
00:21:16.200 Okay show me where I'm dissing black women
00:21:18.200 Go on
00:21:19.200 How do I put it?
00:21:20.200 Play it go on
00:21:21.200 I don't wanna speak like this
00:21:22.200 Because when they speak like this
00:21:23.200 They get told about
00:21:24.200 Oh you're a misogyny
00:21:25.200 This is not speaking on black women's hair
00:21:26.200 A lot of men aren't even gonna bother saying this
00:21:27.200 But what I am gonna say to you
00:21:28.200 Is you're gonna talk about
00:21:29.200 Oh it's a protective style
00:21:30.200 If it was a protective style
00:21:32.200 You would wear something that is actually your hair
00:21:34.200 You wouldn't be walking around with European women's hair on your hair
00:21:36.200 I have sisters
00:21:37.200 I've grown up in an African household
00:21:39.200 This excuse that women make about
00:21:41.200 I can't manage my hair
00:21:42.200 It's an excuse that you women wear
00:21:43.200 And then you talk about human-centric hairstyles
00:21:45.200 You will buy into it
00:21:46.200 No one has asked me to do that
00:21:47.200 So end of the day is
00:21:49.200 I'm blacking you with actual hair
00:21:50.200 But most of my know that
00:21:51.200 Most people aren't gonna give you headaches
00:21:52.200 So they're still gonna take the feed anyway
00:21:54.200 But in reality we can see the hair on your head
00:21:56.200 I wanna know what my daughter's hair is gonna come out
00:21:58.200 If I have a baby with you
00:21:59.200 I do not know why you're wearing it
00:22:00.200 But you know why you're not
00:22:01.200 Now you're talking about
00:22:02.200 She crap
00:22:03.200 Okay
00:22:04.200 Okay
00:22:05.200 Okay
00:22:06.200 So which part of that is a man dissing black women's hair
00:22:08.200 In actual fact I'm talking about
00:22:09.200 I grew up in a household
00:22:10.200 I've got three sisters and my mother right
00:22:12.200 I know what it is
00:22:13.200 So we grew up in those days
00:22:14.200 They would relax your hair
00:22:15.200 So my sister had the hair relaxed
00:22:16.200 It destroyed her hair
00:22:17.200 All of my three sisters had the hair destroyed
00:22:18.200 As they grew up older
00:22:19.200 Then they started to
00:22:20.200 They had their natural hair right
00:22:22.200 And I've discussed
00:22:23.200 And I've witnessed what happened
00:22:24.200 So now I've got nieces
00:22:25.200 I've got nieces and nephews
00:22:26.200 All of their hairs are natural
00:22:27.200 Because of what we learned
00:22:28.200 In those days
00:22:29.200 We used to use something called
00:22:30.200 Dark and lovely
00:22:31.200 And it would destroy your hair
00:22:32.200 And it absolutely destroyed it
00:22:33.200 And it comes from that thing where
00:22:35.200 Straighter hair is better right
00:22:36.200 So I'm speaking from this point
00:22:37.200 The thing is right
00:22:38.200 A lot of black women will say
00:22:39.200 You know what
00:22:40.200 It's a protective style
00:22:41.200 So I'll say if it's a protective style
00:22:42.200 Then wear something more
00:22:43.200 Natural towards your hair right
00:22:44.200 They'll say
00:22:45.200 Oh you know what
00:22:46.200 I can't wear it to work
00:22:47.200 So I'll say you know what
00:22:48.200 If you go to a place
00:22:49.200 And they don't allow you to work in there
00:22:50.200 You know what
00:22:51.200 Maybe you shouldn't be working there
00:22:52.200 Actually in fact
00:22:53.200 Maybe we should build our own
00:22:54.200 Everything I speak about
00:22:55.200 Is empowering a young black girl
00:22:56.200 What do we say to a young black girl
00:22:57.200 When we say to her
00:22:58.200 In order for you to go out
00:22:59.200 And be successful
00:23:00.200 You need to put on European
00:23:01.200 Chinese, Peruvian, Brazilian
00:23:02.200 That's not even true
00:23:03.200 Hold on a second
00:23:04.200 What do we say
00:23:05.200 When every single day
00:23:06.200 You get up
00:23:07.200 And you have to put off something
00:23:08.200 Over your head
00:23:09.200 If it was strictly protective style
00:23:10.200 You could use braids
00:23:11.200 So what you're trying to do
00:23:12.200 Is you're trying to take a man
00:23:13.200 That is talking about something serious
00:23:14.200 Within the black community
00:23:15.200 Who has nieces
00:23:16.200 Who God willing
00:23:17.200 One day will have daughters
00:23:18.200 And I'm gonna spend time
00:23:19.200 Like I spend with my nieces
00:23:20.200 Everyone see me on social media
00:23:21.200 All the time I spend with my nieces
00:23:22.200 Doing her hair
00:23:23.200 I've made it into
00:23:24.200 My niece is actually a model
00:23:25.200 And she's actually doing really well
00:23:27.200 She's done commercials already
00:23:28.200 And this all comes from all the love
00:23:29.200 So you take something
00:23:30.200 A black man that cares about his community
00:23:31.200 Who loves his black women
00:23:32.200 And you try to make into evil things
00:23:34.200 I'm disgusted by you
00:23:35.200 Are you done?
00:23:37.200 No because
00:23:38.200 No because
00:23:39.200 What you try to do is
00:23:40.200 You try to pull out receipts
00:23:41.200 And I explain to you
00:23:42.200 I never want this stuff
00:23:43.200 I'm talking about deeper rooted issues
00:23:44.200 No no
00:23:45.200 You didn't actually say
00:23:46.200 You're saying that
00:23:47.200 It's because we're saying that
00:23:48.200 Their hair is not that
00:23:49.200 No actually
00:23:50.200 Certain workplaces
00:23:51.200 When you do wear your black hair
00:23:52.200 You get questions
00:23:53.200 You get people touching your hair
00:23:54.200 That is
00:23:55.200 That's literally true
00:23:56.200 The Crown Act was created in America
00:23:58.200 Because of discrimination
00:23:59.200 So you know what we do sister?
00:24:00.200 We build our own
00:24:01.200 Thank you
00:24:02.200 No no no no
00:24:03.200 It's not as easy though
00:24:04.200 It's not easy
00:24:05.200 It's not easy
00:24:06.200 It's not easy
00:24:07.200 In the long run
00:24:08.200 Okay so what we're doing now
00:24:09.200 So what we're doing now
00:24:10.200 What we're doing now
00:24:11.200 We're doing that thing where
00:24:12.200 I told you we build our own
00:24:13.200 You said it's
00:24:14.200 I know it's not easy
00:24:15.200 It's never easy
00:24:16.200 That's the problem
00:24:17.200 That's the problem
00:24:18.200 It's not supposed to be easy
00:24:19.200 And because it's hard
00:24:20.200 You don't want to do it
00:24:21.200 And you're not saying you like black girls natural hair
00:24:22.200 You like it when it's curly
00:24:23.200 When it looks like mixed race girl hair
00:24:24.200 Who told you that?
00:24:25.200 That's the truth
00:24:26.200 Listen
00:24:27.200 This is a fallacy
00:24:28.200 This is not true
00:24:29.200 I'm a black woman
00:24:30.200 You're speaking to me
00:24:31.200 You don't know me
00:24:32.200 I'm a black woman
00:24:33.200 And what you just said there is not true
00:24:34.200 Okay it's not true
00:24:35.200 I'll tell you why
00:24:36.200 Let me tell you why
00:24:37.200 Let me tell you why
00:24:38.200 Which part is not true
00:24:39.200 Which part is not true
00:24:40.200 Let me tell you why it's not true
00:24:41.200 Hey hey guys guys
00:24:42.200 Let her finish
00:24:44.200 Let me let her finish
00:24:45.200 Let me tell you
00:24:46.200 Let me tell you
00:24:47.200 I'm 60 years old
00:24:48.200 Okay
00:24:49.200 And when I was 18
00:24:50.200 We were wearing weaves
00:24:52.200 And wigs
00:24:53.200 And we're still wearing them
00:24:54.200 In fact we're wearing more
00:24:55.200 And I know that
00:24:59.200 I would say most
00:25:00.200 Let me not say all
00:25:01.200 Most black men prefer your own hair
00:25:03.200 They don't like the smell of the weave
00:25:05.200 Nope
00:25:06.200 They don't like the way that the weave
00:25:08.200 Takes away your hairline
00:25:09.200 Nope
00:25:10.200 They don't like the way the weave
00:25:12.200 Balls off your head
00:25:13.200 Nope
00:25:14.200 But deeper than that
00:25:16.200 Because I'm a black woman
00:25:17.200 And I used to wear weave
00:25:18.200 Okay
00:25:19.200 And I understand what a society that is endemically racist
00:25:24.200 Can do to you
00:25:25.200 So you feel so bad about your own hair
00:25:28.200 Your natural hair
00:25:29.200 And that point you made about going to work
00:25:31.200 If you want to have your hair in locks
00:25:33.200 Or you want to have your hair in braids
00:25:34.200 Or you want to plait your hair
00:25:36.200 It's like it's not good
00:25:37.200 We used to use a
00:25:38.200 What do you call those things?
00:25:40.200 One of those iron combs
00:25:43.200 Thank you
00:25:44.200 Burn your hair
00:25:46.200 Burn your scalp
00:25:47.200 So that your hair wouldn't be so frizzy and whatever
00:25:49.200 Right, so what are you saying?
00:25:50.200 Can I just...
00:25:51.200 No, I'd like to finish
00:25:52.200 Okay, you can finish
00:25:53.200 So the point that he made
00:25:54.200 Sometimes as women
00:25:55.200 We prefer to listen to our friends
00:25:56.200 And say
00:25:57.200 Oh, your hair looks nice
00:25:58.200 The wig looks nice
00:26:00.200 And then the man's telling you
00:26:01.200 I don't like it
00:26:02.200 Right, so what you're saying
00:26:03.200 Is what you're doing everything for a man
00:26:04.200 So as long as man likes it
00:26:05.200 I never said that
00:26:06.200 But you're saying man doesn't like that
00:26:08.200 No, no, no
00:26:09.200 Don't misinterpret my words
00:26:10.200 Right, so literally two minutes ago
00:26:11.200 A man doesn't like when it looks like that
00:26:13.200 You
00:26:14.200 No, she was actually responding to the fact that
00:26:16.200 She said that men actually like, you know, black women's hair being curly
00:26:21.200 That was what she was responding to
00:26:22.200 That might be her perception of men she knows
00:26:25.200 Of course, she just told
00:26:26.200 It's different
00:26:27.200 Gem, she just told a man she doesn't know that I don't like black women with natural hair
00:26:31.200 Like she literally...
00:26:32.200 I didn't say that
00:26:33.200 You're taking it out of context
00:26:34.200 I literally said you spoke on black women's hair
00:26:36.200 Yeah, no, first of all you said I diss black women
00:26:38.200 Then you said I like curly hair
00:26:39.200 You don't know what type of hair I like
00:26:40.200 I never said you
00:26:41.200 Why are you making that a personal thing?
00:26:42.200 Okay, okay, okay, okay
00:26:43.200 I never said you
00:26:44.200 But he's saying that you said that he dissed black women
00:26:47.200 And I didn't
00:26:48.200 And he's saying that he didn't
00:26:49.200 I didn't
00:26:50.200 I put out the receipts and what he said was
00:26:51.200 It wasn't in a positive light
00:26:53.200 Thank you
00:26:54.200 But he was saying that he likes the natural hair
00:26:56.200 Hold on a second
00:26:57.200 Hold on a second
00:26:58.200 No, no, no, no
00:26:59.200 That's not even what I said
00:27:00.200 I said that this actually comes from slavery time
00:27:03.200 This comes from the field nigger
00:27:06.200 The house
00:27:07.200 The house slave
00:27:08.200 It comes from the...
00:27:09.200 No, no, no, no
00:27:10.200 You know why?
00:27:11.200 No, because I'm trying to make you understand something
00:27:12.200 Where this comes from
00:27:13.200 Because you have to understand what we're dealing with here
00:27:14.200 You're battling a man
00:27:15.200 A black man
00:27:16.200 That is talking about
00:27:17.200 Who has sisters
00:27:19.200 Who has nieces
00:27:20.200 That have gone through
00:27:21.200 Who have destroyed their hair
00:27:22.200 Who now are natural
00:27:23.200 Who has gone through that
00:27:24.200 Who now has nieces
00:27:25.200 That his mother and grandmother
00:27:26.200 Would never ever do
00:27:27.200 To their hair
00:27:28.200 Because they realise the damage is done to them
00:27:29.200 I'm speaking from that
00:27:30.200 And when I speak
00:27:31.200 You speak like I'm dissing women
00:27:32.200 You speak like I'm hurting women
00:27:33.200 But why even speak on black women's hair?
00:27:35.200 Why...
00:27:36.200 Hold on a second
00:27:37.200 Why do you care?
00:27:38.200 Because I'm a black...
00:27:39.200 Because I'm a black man
00:27:40.200 Hold on a second
00:27:41.200 You are not separate from me
00:27:42.200 This is like saying
00:27:43.200 When black women...
00:27:44.200 Okay, so...
00:27:45.200 The crime that's happening with the black kids
00:27:46.200 The stabbing and what happened
00:27:47.200 What have you not?
00:27:48.200 You can speak on that
00:27:49.200 Would you ever hear a man say
00:27:50.200 Oh, why are you speaking on the black youth?
00:27:52.200 You're in a black youth?
00:27:53.200 Of course, we are not separate
00:27:54.200 This thing where you try to say
00:27:55.200 Why are you...
00:27:56.200 So what if I have a daughter
00:27:57.200 I can't speak on black women's hair?
00:27:58.200 You just said you want to know what texture hair your daughter's going to have
00:28:01.200 Why does that...
00:28:02.200 It's not I want to know is
00:28:03.200 Why are you...
00:28:04.200 Here's the thing right
00:28:05.200 If you're bored
00:28:06.200 If you're bored
00:28:07.200 You're bored
00:28:08.200 I love you because you're bored
00:28:09.200 I don't actually care about hair
00:28:10.200 I'll prefer a woman bored
00:28:11.200 Than having some other woman's hair
00:28:12.200 That's the thing
00:28:13.200 And if I want...
00:28:14.200 If you want to wear European hair
00:28:15.200 And this is the thing
00:28:16.200 It's not even European
00:28:17.200 It's Asian
00:28:18.200 Even Asian
00:28:19.200 Are you Asian?
00:28:20.200 Why are you wearing Asian women's hair?
00:28:21.200 It's not that I care
00:28:23.200 I can switch it up
00:28:24.200 I've got my natural hair out right now
00:28:26.200 See the thing you keep...
00:28:27.200 No, you keep doing this right
00:28:28.200 But you said that this black woman said I didn't
00:28:30.200 I was speaking and talking about
00:28:31.200 Well that's how it was perceived
00:28:32.200 And other people in this podcast have said that it was said in a negative light
00:28:36.200 And that is how I took it
00:28:37.200 I agree as well
00:28:38.200 100%
00:28:39.200 If you don't think that you was being negative about it
00:28:40.200 That's fine
00:28:41.200 And another thing to say
00:28:42.200 You not say oh I like natural hair
00:28:43.200 Why is it always how you guys feel?
00:28:45.200 Instead of what he said
00:28:47.200 Because it doesn't matter
00:28:48.200 Like because you guys don't take the actual words that I'm saying
00:28:51.200 No it's not what I feel
00:28:52.200 It's what I said
00:28:53.200 You try to say that this black woman
00:28:54.200 No but this is such as you guys
00:28:55.200 It's just like women
00:28:56.200 It's like we don't take the actual information like what he said
00:28:59.200 It's always how it made us feel
00:29:01.200 I just debunked the information that he said
00:29:02.200 You debunked what?
00:29:03.200 You said that this black woman
00:29:04.200 No you didn't
00:29:05.200 Not really
00:29:06.200 You said that this black woman
00:29:07.200 But you said that this black woman
00:29:08.200 And I told you to bring out receipts
00:29:10.200 And you didn't
00:29:11.200 I want to go back to the topic
00:29:14.200 Sorry
00:29:15.200 I don't even know what they're teaching in uni nowadays
00:29:16.200 I don't understand it
00:29:17.200 Like honestly
00:29:18.200 Because you're telling me you debunked something
00:29:19.200 When you pull that dead receipts
00:29:20.200 I can't
00:29:21.200 Oh mate
00:29:22.200 Sorry go on
00:29:23.200 Too good
00:29:24.200 Too good
00:29:25.200 Too good
00:29:28.200 Okay
00:29:29.200 What did you want to say about the only fans and the kid?
00:29:32.200 You had a point
00:29:33.200 You had a point
00:29:34.200 I need you to
00:29:35.200 Did you have anything else?
00:29:37.200 I know you had a point
00:29:38.200 So I was like
00:29:39.200 Look my thing is this
00:29:40.200 Right
00:29:41.200 Right
00:29:42.200 You don't know what it is
00:29:43.200 Especially for
00:29:44.200 For
00:29:45.200 You're raising a daughter
00:29:46.200 If it was a boy
00:29:47.200 It would be just as bad
00:29:48.200 But you're raising a daughter
00:29:49.200 And you're doing only fans
00:29:50.200 And at the end of the day
00:29:51.200 It's just a thing where it is
00:29:53.200 It's basically online prostitution
00:29:55.200 And you might
00:29:56.200 You might wanna
00:29:57.200 Not prostitution
00:29:58.200 I'm not selling my pussy
00:29:59.200 No one's going in my pussy for money
00:30:00.200 I get what you're saying
00:30:01.200 It is a form of online prostitution
00:30:02.200 See
00:30:03.200 See prostitution is the oldest
00:30:04.200 It's the oldest
00:30:05.200 Oldest industry
00:30:06.200 What do you do on only fans?
00:30:07.200 Subscribe
00:30:08.200 Subscribe
00:30:09.200 What kind of stuff
00:30:10.200 What do you sell?
00:30:11.200 What do you put there?
00:30:12.200 Subscribe to find out
00:30:13.200 I like it
00:30:15.200 If I'm gonna ask you questions
00:30:16.200 That's it
00:30:17.200 Subscribe to find out
00:30:18.200 I appreciate the hustle
00:30:19.200 At the end of the day
00:30:20.200 Without all the ag
00:30:21.200 Without all the arguing
00:30:22.200 Without all the like
00:30:23.200 Getting on top of each other
00:30:24.200 I'm
00:30:25.200 I will sit here and say
00:30:26.200 I'm not proud of what I do
00:30:27.200 And I wanna change it
00:30:28.200 Whether you guys think
00:30:29.200 I should have changed it sooner
00:30:30.200 Should have never done it
00:30:31.200 All of that
00:30:32.200 Cool
00:30:33.200 I haven't got time to sit here
00:30:34.200 And tell you my whole life story
00:30:35.200 And plus other people have got things to say
00:30:36.200 But I want to get out of it
00:30:37.200 And I'm trying
00:30:38.200 And that's it
00:30:39.200 Can I be honest with you?
00:30:40.200 If you said that to me
00:30:41.200 This conversation would have gone so much differently
00:30:42.200 I swear to god
00:30:43.200 You've been through this
00:30:44.200 No but you keep saying
00:30:45.200 And this is the thing
00:30:46.200 You keep saying it's the way
00:30:47.200 Wow you've got a daughter
00:30:49.200 You do OnlyFans
00:30:50.200 And this is the thing
00:30:52.200 But you're a professional podcaster
00:30:53.200 I'll give you that
00:30:54.200 I'm just curious
00:30:55.200 Like what do you think
00:30:56.200 Is like supposed to be the reaction
00:30:57.200 Oh my god
00:30:58.200 I can't apply
00:30:59.200 Yeah exactly
00:31:00.200 Maybe just ask
00:31:01.200 Like politely
00:31:02.200 And I'm just saying
00:31:04.200 Like what do you expect?
00:31:06.200 What do you expect
00:31:07.200 Someone can still be polite
00:31:08.200 I was polite
00:31:09.200 I know people that do way worse things than OnlyFans
00:31:11.200 And I'm still polite to them
00:31:12.200 Just cause
00:31:13.200 Okay it's like
00:31:14.200 I know someone that robbed a bank
00:31:15.200 Who cares?
00:31:16.200 You know what?
00:31:17.200 I put it down to you
00:31:18.200 You know like when you're unemployed
00:31:19.200 Yeah?
00:31:20.200 And someone keeps bugging you
00:31:21.200 Every single day
00:31:22.200 Have you got a job yet?
00:31:23.200 Have you got a job yet?
00:31:24.200 Have you got a job yet?
00:31:25.200 And then on a certain day
00:31:26.200 Knowing that you've been trying to get a job for how long
00:31:28.200 And then they come back again
00:31:29.200 Have you got a job yet?
00:31:30.200 It starts to get on your nerves
00:31:31.200 Cause it's like
00:31:32.200 You don't know what's going on behind you
00:31:33.200 Maybe you should get a job
00:31:34.200 I'm trying
00:31:35.200 But you don't know the person's trying
00:31:37.200 But China
00:31:38.200 The person's trying to get
00:31:39.200 My point is they're actually trying
00:31:40.200 It's just like her story
00:31:41.200 She wants to come out of the industry
00:31:42.200 Absolutely
00:31:43.200 Okay but
00:31:44.200 So obviously it's going to trigger her
00:31:45.200 When somebody comes straight at her
00:31:46.200 Like that
00:31:47.200 Oh you got a door
00:31:48.200 She's probably thinking that
00:31:49.200 You don't know that
00:31:50.200 She's probably thinking
00:31:51.200 Oh my god I've got a door
00:31:52.200 Every minute of every day
00:31:53.200 I think that
00:31:54.200 Thank you
00:31:55.200 So that's the trigger
00:31:56.200 Okay but
00:31:57.200 My question is
00:31:58.200 McDonald's is hiring
00:31:59.200 Then stop
00:32:00.200 Go work at McDonald's
00:32:01.200 Who wants to work at McDonald's?
00:32:02.200 I've already explained to you
00:32:03.200 Who's going to look after my daughter
00:32:04.200 When I'm in McDonald's?
00:32:05.200 Who?
00:32:06.200 Cause I can't afford someone
00:32:07.200 Everyone has their reasons
00:32:08.200 For what they're doing
00:32:09.200 Sorry
00:32:10.200 Don't you have a boyfriend?
00:32:11.200 Yes I do
00:32:12.200 But it's not her dad
00:32:13.200 Work something out
00:32:14.200 I've been with my boyfriend
00:32:15.200 For like a month
00:32:16.200 Oh it's been a month
00:32:17.200 Okay
00:32:18.200 It raises that soon
00:32:19.200 Have you got a boyfriend?
00:32:20.200 Have I got a boyfriend?
00:32:21.200 No
00:32:22.200 By myself
00:32:23.200 Yeah
00:32:24.200 It's just terrible life
00:32:25.200 It's just so awful
00:32:26.200 Go ahead
00:32:27.200 I wanted to ask you
00:32:28.200 I hear that you want to stop
00:32:30.200 And I hear that you know
00:32:32.200 You talked about how trauma
00:32:33.200 Actually led you there
00:32:34.200 So my thing is
00:32:36.200 What are the practical steps
00:32:37.200 That you are taking right now
00:32:39.200 To stop
00:32:40.200 Or is it just like a resolution
00:32:41.200 In your mind?
00:32:42.200 No I'm building businesses
00:32:43.200 I've got a proper property portfolio
00:32:45.200 I've got five properties under my belt
00:32:47.200 I'm about to have another five next year
00:32:49.200 I want to make my property portfolio so big
00:32:51.200 That in two years time
00:32:52.200 I won't have to do it anymore
00:32:53.200 I can pay someone to get as much of it
00:32:55.200 Off the internet as possible
00:32:56.200 Yes I know
00:32:57.200 It probably won't all come off the internet
00:32:58.200 But I'm just going to try my best for it
00:33:01.200 Big you up for that
00:33:02.200 Thank you man
00:33:03.200 Thank you
00:33:04.200 But you have five businesses though
00:33:06.200 Five businesses
00:33:07.200 I have a few businesses at home
00:33:08.200 Is that not enough to take care of your daughters?
00:33:10.200 But everyone has a few
00:33:11.200 It's not enough financially no
00:33:12.200 Wait do you know what's so interesting?
00:33:14.200 How you guys said big up to her businesses
00:33:16.200 But we're trying to shame his
00:33:18.200 Who was shaming his businesses?
00:33:20.200 Where?
00:33:21.200 I didn't shame his
00:33:22.200 You know what you were doing
00:33:24.200 Stop it
00:33:25.200 What's up?
00:33:26.200 It's only one person
00:33:27.200 That's all
00:33:28.200 How is everyone shaming his business?
00:33:30.200 No because I've actually got something viable
00:33:32.200 And she doesn't know it
00:33:33.200 And she automatically just said
00:33:34.200 Cause she didn't know it
00:33:35.200 But you own properties right?
00:33:37.200 That's fine like
00:33:38.200 We don't know what a property
00:33:39.200 She just said I own properties
00:33:40.200 I could have said I own properties
00:33:41.200 I could have told you all the multiple things I did
00:33:43.200 The problem the thing
00:33:44.200 Why are you competing with a woman though?
00:33:45.200 Do you know why?
00:33:46.200 Because that's not what
00:33:47.200 Why are you competing with a woman though?
00:33:48.200 I'm not
00:33:49.200 It's giving sassy
00:33:50.200 It's giving sassy
00:33:51.200 What language are you in?
00:33:52.200 It's giving sassy
00:33:53.200 It's giving sassy
00:33:54.200 It's giving
00:33:55.200 It's giving
00:33:56.200 It's giving
00:33:57.200 It's giving sassy
00:33:58.200 As many of you know
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