She Encourages Women To Be 304’s
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Summary
Tom Brady and Giselle Boonshin officially divorced on October 28th, 2022. What has happened since then and why are they both in the news again? Who wins after breakups, men or women?
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So Tom Brady and Giselle Boonshin officially divorced on October 28, 2022.
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Legal teams from both say that an ironclad prenup agreement was put in place before they were married in 2009,
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making the financial aspects of the divorce relatively smooth.
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What has happened since then, and why are they both in the news since?
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Giselle has been linked with her children's jujitsu instructor, Jomaine Valentine,
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a 42-year-old Brazilian man, with some speculating that they have had something going on before the official divorce.
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He started appearing on Giselle's social media around February, showing Giselle basic techniques on Instagram.
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He has also been seen traveling with Giselle and the children since the beginning of the year.
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Tom Brady, 45, officially confirmed that he is dating Veronika Rajak, a 26-year-old Slovakian model with over 3.2 million Instagram followers.
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She has attended a few of his games and has taken photographs wearing his jersey.
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Gerard Peek and Shakira were in a relationship from 2011 to 2022.
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Having two children during that time, after breaking up in 2022, Gerard Peek, 36-years-old,
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has been confirmed to be in a relationship with 23-year-old Clara Chia Marti.
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Shakira has moved from Spain to her family's home in Miami, Florida,
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and has been linked to her 24-year-old surfing instructor.
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This begs the question, who normally wins after high-profile breakups, men or women?
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Actually, I think I might need to hear what other people got to say first.
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It just depends on how, like, what the situation is.
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So if there's, obviously, kids involved, if, obviously, the prenup.
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But if you had to pick one, who typically wins in high-profile breakups?
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Because it's like, no matter what, the publicity just sort of, like, dies down on them,
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No, they get publicity, but it's not as much as, like, it wouldn't go as long as what
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the woman's publicity would go on for, if that makes sense.
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So, like, there would be more paparazzi watching the woman, her every move, who she's dealt with,
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and then sort of, like, you'd hear once in a blue moon, if the man decides to leave
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and show off that he's got a new woman, then they would catch him.
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But it's, like, a one-off story, and then that's it.
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So you would dictate who wins and loses after the breakup by who has less publicity?
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Yeah, because all publicities can be good, but it comes with bad as well.
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I think after a high-profile breakup, right, the women, the outlook from the society that
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I think they get told that they're not good for moving on and finding someone else.
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So, and also, it's mostly men in high-profile breakups that money is associated with as well.
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So, as soon as the female goes and finds another partner, it's always, like, she didn't bother
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If a woman's moving from relationship to relationship to relationship, then maybe she isn't the best
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I think a woman that moves from relationship to relationship knows what she wants in a relationship
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because I'm going to tell you, not a lot of people out there, like, are going to be
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So, move, I would say personally, move around as much as you want until you find the right
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But couldn't you figure that out before a relationship, like, by asking certain questions?
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Some things you have to live to actually know because certain people, they know stuff, but
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in order how they apply it practically is completely different.
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You can know so much, but once you get into a relationship, it's way more sacrifices, way
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more compromisation that gets involved that I think is important.
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And if you need to move around as much relationship as you need to, to get that security to finally
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understand that these situations won't work for you, then that's what you might need to
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And I think that women do get looked weirdly for that, but it's what you've got to do.
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Do you think a guy is a good candidate for a relationship if he's constantly having failed
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Like if he, if he's maybe in a two year span dated like 20 girls, do you think it's likely
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I mean, if I know a man has dated 20 women and wanted to come date me, I'd kind of be
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And, but then it kind of contradicts what I just said.
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But then at the same time, as a man, if a woman has gone through 30 men and came up to
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me and said, I want to have a relationship with you, I'd kind of be like, what's up?
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And also, as much as I said, compromisation is required.
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There are stuff you have to learn and go through.
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Sometimes you have to stick in a relationship for you to actually make stuff work.
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It doesn't necessarily mean moving on to other ones, but just because you moved on from
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relation, relationship to relationship, it doesn't mean you're crazy.
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So is this question reserved specifically for high profile relationships or just relationships
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Why don't you tell me your opinion on both high profile and regular?
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So high profile, I think is a little bit worse because say with, also can't pronounce the
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name, Giselle Bundchen, I think that's how you say it.
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Tom Brady, he's probably going to be one of the most wealthy, top 10% type of men that
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And because women, we're hypergamous by nature, we typically can't date down and she would struggle
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to find someone, especially at her age now that she has children, unfortunately, that
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would give her what she wants, which would probably be marriage.
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Um, so I think that applies to most high profile relationships because they have some form
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Therefore, their partners will probably be a notch ahead of them.
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Whereas for normal people like us, um, I think women generally, unfortunately, still do lose
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Um, in the short term, they're winning because they can find a simp to buy them a bag and take
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Um, they can find men to fit different roles of a partner, but in the long term, they would
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lose because they'll struggle to actually find someone who wants to be with them and vice
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versa. And they'll probably get to say 35, no children because they've been playing the
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field. Whereas if they stayed in the relationship, providing it's not abusive, you know, the exceptions
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to the rule, um, and they tried to make it work, it probably could have been happier in the long
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I don't necessarily think that a breakup means that you're going to start sleeping around,
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start dating around. I think some women do wait. I find men do move on pretty quick and
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they seem to not be as picky. I do think that they move on a bit quicker. Um, I don't know.
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I, I'm unsure of my opinion because there's so many different variables. Like, do they have
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kids? Do they, are they married? Were they together for a long time?
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I'm just saying if there's a hundred high profile breakups, who typically wins men or
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Can it be none of them? Because there's so much drama around it.
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Because as I said, the man moves on very quick and he's not as picky and he can seem to get
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a lot younger partner than, than a woman would. If a woman's had children and there's that too.
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Yeah. It seems like you're saying the man can get like a younger.
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What I'm saying is that they can't move on. Maybe they want a relationship after that breakup
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and it's harder for them because they have children maybe. Um, and then there's more to
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consider. It's not just black and white, even though the man has children as well, when they move on,
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that's, that doesn't seem to hinder their date inexperience. They can still date and move on
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So it's just based on what you said, it sounds like you're saying that the women lose and the
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Okay. Okay. You said the opposite when you started.
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Oh, did I? I thought I said, no, I thought I said that the women lose.
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I think it's, it is a difficult one. It is a broad one. Um, I think in, if you're looking
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at high profile celebrity status and breakups, um, I think generally depending on how they
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break up, I think it depicts on how it would end up, but probably women would lose in terms
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of emotionally. I think, especially if there's children as well, um, pretty much in terms of
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men, I don't think they're emotionally attached as much as women. I think women tend to be
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more emotionally attached than men. So in a breakup, I think when women break up, they
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break up way before they actually physically break up with a man. Whereas a man, I think
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they're quite flippant and they will do it spur of the moment. It's how they're feeling.
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So I think in terms of who generally wins, I would probably say men in that aspect, because
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I feel like they're mentally there way before women are probably there.
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Um, see, I think the opposite to you. I feel like a woman knows in her head that she's going
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to break up with a guy before she's actually going to do it. Yeah. Like the other way around.
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So yeah, I feel like when it comes to actually breaking up, I feel like women are more prepared
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for that actually happening. I don't think men think too, especially if they're comfortable
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in the relationship. They're not really thinking about it too tough. So I would say maybe men
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lose more because I just think they're going to, they don't see it coming as often.
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So you think men are more hurt after breakups and women, like women move on quicker.
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Yeah. Because by the time the woman does it, she's been thinking about it for six months.
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What do you think about dating options after? Do you think, who do you think typically is
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more dating options after a relationship, men or women?
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I think it depends on the man or the woman, like, so in high profile cases, um, again,
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I think it depends on the, if you had to pick one, maybe men in high profile cases, because
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I think for a high profile man, you'll have more women wanting to do whatever for you than
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At first I was going to say, before you brought the sexes into it, I was going to say the person
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with the most money wins initially, because they're out of it, but then the women, but
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then if it's the man and he's got most money and they split up, then the woman might think
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she's winning because she gets like money and the kids and whatever, but then she's less
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So she might thought she's winning, she might think she's won initially, but then I think the
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men in the end win, because they can get any woman out there that they want younger, that looks a
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whole lot better than the old bag that they've left.
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So, you know, all the stretch marks and everything that's gone, because when you look at all of
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those, whoever had the most money, got someone younger.
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And even though their partner's gone, I thought, well, yeah, like, what do you call the guy,
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the perfume, the aftershave guy, what's his name?
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I don't know, they're an aftershave name like that or something.
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Oh, sorry, see, I don't want to say it, I don't want to say it.
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Okay, I know it's something to do with sports, but he split up and she's gone and she's got
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So when they said about women, I find that in the public eye, sometimes the women move
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on faster, because the men are less cautious, because they've lost a lot of money, so they're
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not moving on fast, but afterwards they can get a younger person.
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So the women would go out there and they would say, oh, we're going to get married again,
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or we're going to get hooked up, we're going to settle down.
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And the men would just go out there and get a young lady and play the field, because they
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So the women might lose that, you know, the men lose that more financially, but in the long
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They can go and get any young bird that they want.
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Because when you're a mature man and you've got money, you're attractive, unlike the women
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out there that got money, because they don't, they don't look all that, all the plastic surgery
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and stuff that they need to keep up their looks, but men just work out and they're still looking.
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