She EXPOSED The Selfish Nature Of Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the declining fertility rates around the world, and the role of the urban monoculture in driving fertility rates down, and why this is a problem. We also discuss the importance of intergenerational fertility rates, and how they can be the key to reversing the decline.
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of it is obviously as well to do with our environments like for example myself um growing
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up in brazil and then moving to the uk like i i you know i live in a predominantly jewish area
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and i noticed that the majority of the jewish like um families have many many kids you know
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probably like on average four or five i don't know i lose count but i think obviously it's a
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hard question to you know because the question is directed at women should they reproduce i think
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definitely because i think we do owe something to society based on what's happened in the past i
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think a lot of things are not our faults but we we can be part of that change i think it's
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obviously hard for me as a man to be the judge of that but i'd like to empower and support women where
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i can i personally think if i don't have a child someone else will so there's always going to be
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somebody that does there's always going to be recreation always personally because i'm i'm
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single i don't have a child i genuinely thought at 28 i would have had a kid by now but my career is
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more important at the moment and i do want children but not right now but while i'm still focusing on
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my career there's a lot of other women have getting pregnant right now literally yeah but i i think it's
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actually we're having less kids than ever in history yeah so i guess the question is if the
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population's collapsing because women aren't having kids does it become women's duty to have children
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do we owe society do we owe civilization children handmaid's tale no i didn't i didn't say handmaid's
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tale but your answer is no i'll let you go next but your answer is no you don't think so no no okay fair
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enough go ahead if it turns out that the only way that a cultural group can motivate women to
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have children is by forcing them then the only cultural groups that exist in the future will be
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the cultural groups that force women to have children and this is something we're increasingly
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seeing in places like china you know if we see society today as alliance of disparate cultural
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groups and we're asking why do so few people have children today the dominant cultural group we call
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that the urban monoculture it's the culture that's in london new york all over the world today it
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controls our media controls our centers of power it tells people do what you want be who you want
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search for your happiness and your purpose in the world but it doesn't tell people to sacrifice
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and children require sacrifice and so what we do with the pronatalist foundation sometimes it makes
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it so clear by you know uh uh i could never be a noah right because i'm like hey we want to
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maintain and and and hopefully increase this beautiful diversity that makes up our culture today
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um and then you know like uh if i was noah like a unicorn comes up to me and it's like hey man
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like this is some pretty hateful stuff you're saying that we need to get fertility rates up
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and i'm like whoa you don't need to get on the boat like i'm just pointing out that in a world of
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collapsing fertility and to give an idea of how quickly fertility is collapsing if um so i started
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caring about this when i was working in south korea at sas korea's current fertility rate if it doesn't
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continue to go down for every hundred koreans there's going to be six great grandchildren
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if the us if we assume that it continues to decline at the rate it did from 2010 to 2020
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for every 100 americans this is assuming we have a generation every 30 years for every 100 americans
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there's going to be 4.3 great grandchildren and so what's so cool about this period in history that
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we're in is anyone who can motivate intergenerational fertility rates and when i say intergenerational
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you can't just like spam sex and have a bunch of kids something you have to love those kids you have to
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make them want to continue your culture um anyone who's doing that gets to play a role in this future of
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humanity and gets to play an outsized role due to collapsing fertility rates what are what are the
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ways that you best see we can motivate people to have more children the number one thing we need to
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do is protect any country you go to you go to the uk you go to the us anywhere anywhere you go there's
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going to be high fertility cultural groups the problem is from the perspective of the urban monoculture
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is these groups are deplorable you know they are conservative catholics they're conservative
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evangelicals they're orthodox jews you know as he was talking about and so it sees its job because
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they're different you know anyone who's different from from an individual's culture it says we got
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to stamp them out and so it takes their kids and it stamps out their culture and it says just do
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whatever you want to be happy in the moment which none of these these older disparate you know high
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high fertility traditions amish etc do you know um and so i think the number one thing we need to do is we
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need to protect the children of high fertility cultures and in any sort of deviant cultural group that says look i
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want to do things differently than what society is telling me the way to do it because i don't think
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society has things figured out right now you know i look at mental health rates i look at suicide rates
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i look at you know i i don't i don't i don't think that society has the right to say this is the only
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way to be um and i really love the the you know the diversity in this room and all of the different
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ways that people see their their ancestry and their obligation to the future yeah i think we should stop
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birth control as well for young girls i think that's one of the biggest reasons you're on the you're on
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the band birth control i i'm with it because like that way they'll abstain from sex more because i
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feel like when you just oh yeah take the pill i'll do this it's my periods for the pain no you're meant
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to learn you need to go through the pain that's the whole point of giving birth because that that
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period is literally like a little well and they and they put them on it's so young now so when you hear
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loads of girls say i have pcos i have this i have that you just turned 30 my mom's like no shan
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there's women that are like 45 having children in jamaica three boys yeah no so what's going on
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there if you stop the birth control and girls get more scared to get pregnant so they are staying
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from more sex it means that they'll have a better future to actually have kids because everything
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down there is blessed well and a lot of like you meet a lot of girls that like end up having fertility
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problems later and they can't directly link it like you don't know i mean they don't know for sure but
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i know at least one girl that um like she was she took one of the shots that they gave her like for
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like a nest like like the preventative ones or whatever and you know she can't have kids and she's
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like 40 and she was actually um she was she watched me when i was younger she was so like loving it's
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like the saddest thing that she couldn't have children because she would have been a great mom
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and it's like you can't find which one to pinpoint it on because they're not they don't make it so clear
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yeah a lot of women feel like that is what it is another lady told me yesterday
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i was having this conversation in my broadcast list she goes that she went to the doctors and
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because she keeps taking the morning after pill he said that it was literally like a bomb waiting
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to explode inside of her yeah after pills how many she takes she took like five within a year
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i think um or i don't know but it was like but she was like it's because it's like a bomb because she
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didn't want to take like the normal type of thing and she was in a long-term relationship so
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there are situations that cause that type of thing but it's like it was like a bomb yeah
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it's not good for you it's even worse than the normal one yeah it's not even oh you should have
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taken that much it's just oh crap like this thing is really there's a girl on my show that was infertile
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because of plan b's yeah she couldn't have kids i still think there should be a choice though with
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guys and females like i feel like it sucks that we've got to go through everything and take contraceptive
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when guys should have that option too i don't think it should be banned i think there should be choice
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always but i guess my question is at what cost if society is collapsing right if if we're not
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replacing the population and they predict we're going to have all these issues in the future it's
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like at what cost do we allow people to choose whatever i'm not saying i have all the answers
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but it's worth a conversation asking do we allow everything and anything yeah well i i sorry i i think
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in terms of going back to your question um do women owe society uh uh babies children yeah i think
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the word oh got uh a lot of people's backs up in there you know um and i get it but my personal
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thing is do we need to push something back into society for giving us what we have in terms of our
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livelihoods our everyday lives our jobs and blah blah blah absolutely because we need to keep this
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generation going so i think the word oh again it was a bit of a you know just one of one of those
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all i don't know you know basically where you're coming from that's why a lot of people was a bit
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upset with it but again um i look i'm a father of two you know beautiful boys absolutely and they teach
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me things every day and i also teach them things you know um and i think having children obviously it does
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fall more on the mom especially when the dad goes to work and everything so i understand the pressure
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of it um but again i only see the beauty in it as again coming from a father's point of view and even
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even the word oh when you think about it like i think you owe society you know to be a decent
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non-crime committing tax-paying citizen yeah but we can say that freely no one would argue but when you
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ask about children there's a a gut you know it's almost too much you know it's almost too much