JustPearlyThings - She EXPOSED The Selfish Nature Of Modern Women

00:00:00.000 of it is obviously as well to do with our environments like for example myself um growing

00:00:05.760 up in brazil and then moving to the uk like i i you know i live in a predominantly jewish area

00:00:11.600 and i noticed that the majority of the jewish like um families have many many kids you know

00:00:16.880 probably like on average four or five i don't know i lose count but i think obviously it's a

00:00:22.400 hard question to you know because the question is directed at women should they reproduce i think 0.94

00:00:26.880 definitely because i think we do owe something to society based on what's happened in the past i

00:00:32.240 think a lot of things are not our faults but we we can be part of that change i think it's

00:00:37.200 obviously hard for me as a man to be the judge of that but i'd like to empower and support women where 0.65

00:00:42.800 i can i personally think if i don't have a child someone else will so there's always going to be

00:00:51.040 somebody that does there's always going to be recreation always personally because i'm i'm

00:00:56.960 single i don't have a child i genuinely thought at 28 i would have had a kid by now but my career is

00:01:03.840 more important at the moment and i do want children but not right now but while i'm still focusing on

00:01:09.280 my career there's a lot of other women have getting pregnant right now literally yeah but i i think it's 1.00

00:01:16.080 actually we're having less kids than ever in history yeah so i guess the question is if the

00:01:21.040 population's collapsing because women aren't having kids does it become women's duty to have children 0.98

00:01:27.760 do we owe society do we owe civilization children handmaid's tale no i didn't i didn't say handmaid's

00:01:34.720 tale but your answer is no i'll let you go next but your answer is no you don't think so no no okay fair

00:01:42.480 enough go ahead if it turns out that the only way that a cultural group can motivate women to 1.00

00:01:48.160 have children is by forcing them then the only cultural groups that exist in the future will be 0.98

00:01:52.960 the cultural groups that force women to have children and this is something we're increasingly

00:01:56.960 seeing in places like china you know if we see society today as alliance of disparate cultural

00:02:02.560 groups and we're asking why do so few people have children today the dominant cultural group we call

00:02:07.200 that the urban monoculture it's the culture that's in london new york all over the world today it

00:02:11.200 controls our media controls our centers of power it tells people do what you want be who you want

00:02:16.880 search for your happiness and your purpose in the world but it doesn't tell people to sacrifice

00:02:21.680 and children require sacrifice and so what we do with the pronatalist foundation sometimes it makes

00:02:27.280 it so clear by you know uh uh i could never be a noah right because i'm like hey we want to

00:02:33.280 maintain and and and hopefully increase this beautiful diversity that makes up our culture today

00:02:38.160 um and then you know like uh if i was noah like a unicorn comes up to me and it's like hey man

00:02:42.800 like this is some pretty hateful stuff you're saying that we need to get fertility rates up

00:02:46.160 and i'm like whoa you don't need to get on the boat like i'm just pointing out that in a world of

00:02:51.360 collapsing fertility and to give an idea of how quickly fertility is collapsing if um so i started

00:02:56.160 caring about this when i was working in south korea at sas korea's current fertility rate if it doesn't

00:03:00.480 continue to go down for every hundred koreans there's going to be six great grandchildren 0.98

00:03:04.160 if the us if we assume that it continues to decline at the rate it did from 2010 to 2020

00:03:09.360 for every 100 americans this is assuming we have a generation every 30 years for every 100 americans

00:03:13.520 there's going to be 4.3 great grandchildren and so what's so cool about this period in history that

00:03:17.600 we're in is anyone who can motivate intergenerational fertility rates and when i say intergenerational

00:03:22.240 you can't just like spam sex and have a bunch of kids something you have to love those kids you have to

00:03:27.600 make them want to continue your culture um anyone who's doing that gets to play a role in this future of

00:03:33.920 humanity and gets to play an outsized role due to collapsing fertility rates what are what are the

00:03:40.560 ways that you best see we can motivate people to have more children the number one thing we need to

00:03:45.280 do is protect any country you go to you go to the uk you go to the us anywhere anywhere you go there's

00:03:49.600 going to be high fertility cultural groups the problem is from the perspective of the urban monoculture

00:03:54.720 is these groups are deplorable you know they are conservative catholics they're conservative 0.97

00:03:59.520 evangelicals they're orthodox jews you know as he was talking about and so it sees its job because 0.99

00:04:04.480 they're different you know anyone who's different from from an individual's culture it says we got

00:04:08.000 to stamp them out and so it takes their kids and it stamps out their culture and it says just do 0.76

00:04:12.960 whatever you want to be happy in the moment which none of these these older disparate you know high 0.99

00:04:16.800 high fertility traditions amish etc do you know um and so i think the number one thing we need to do is we

00:04:21.680 need to protect the children of high fertility cultures and in any sort of deviant cultural group that says look i

00:04:27.760 want to do things differently than what society is telling me the way to do it because i don't think

00:04:30.880 society has things figured out right now you know i look at mental health rates i look at suicide rates

00:04:34.880 i look at you know i i don't i don't i don't think that society has the right to say this is the only

00:04:40.400 way to be um and i really love the the you know the diversity in this room and all of the different

00:04:45.520 ways that people see their their ancestry and their obligation to the future yeah i think we should stop

00:04:51.040 birth control as well for young girls i think that's one of the biggest reasons you're on the you're on

00:04:55.040 the band birth control i i'm with it because like that way they'll abstain from sex more because i

00:05:01.040 feel like when you just oh yeah take the pill i'll do this it's my periods for the pain no you're meant

00:05:05.040 to learn you need to go through the pain that's the whole point of giving birth because that that

00:05:09.680 period is literally like a little well and they and they put them on it's so young now so when you hear

00:05:15.440 loads of girls say i have pcos i have this i have that you just turned 30 my mom's like no shan

00:05:20.480 there's women that are like 45 having children in jamaica three boys yeah no so what's going on

00:05:25.200 there if you stop the birth control and girls get more scared to get pregnant so they are staying 1.00

00:05:30.000 from more sex it means that they'll have a better future to actually have kids because everything 0.58

00:05:35.200 down there is blessed well and a lot of like you meet a lot of girls that like end up having fertility

00:05:41.600 problems later and they can't directly link it like you don't know i mean they don't know for sure but

00:05:46.400 i know at least one girl that um like she was she took one of the shots that they gave her like for 1.00

00:05:52.560 like a nest like like the preventative ones or whatever and you know she can't have kids and she's 1.00

00:05:58.240 like 40 and she was actually um she was she watched me when i was younger she was so like loving it's

00:06:03.920 like the saddest thing that she couldn't have children because she would have been a great mom

00:06:07.280 and it's like you can't find which one to pinpoint it on because they're not they don't make it so clear

00:06:11.600 yeah a lot of women feel like that is what it is another lady told me yesterday 1.00

00:06:15.360 i was having this conversation in my broadcast list she goes that she went to the doctors and

00:06:19.600 because she keeps taking the morning after pill he said that it was literally like a bomb waiting

00:06:24.240 to explode inside of her yeah after pills how many she takes she took like five within a year

00:06:31.040 i think um or i don't know but it was like but she was like it's because it's like a bomb because she

00:06:36.720 didn't want to take like the normal type of thing and she was in a long-term relationship so

00:06:40.960 there are situations that cause that type of thing but it's like it was like a bomb yeah

00:06:45.200 it's not good for you it's even worse than the normal one yeah it's not even oh you should have 0.96

00:06:49.280 taken that much it's just oh crap like this thing is really there's a girl on my show that was infertile 0.95

00:06:55.680 because of plan b's yeah she couldn't have kids i still think there should be a choice though with 0.86

00:07:00.960 guys and females like i feel like it sucks that we've got to go through everything and take contraceptive

00:07:06.480 when guys should have that option too i don't think it should be banned i think there should be choice

00:07:11.920 always but i guess my question is at what cost if society is collapsing right if if we're not

00:07:20.240 replacing the population and they predict we're going to have all these issues in the future it's

00:07:24.960 like at what cost do we allow people to choose whatever i'm not saying i have all the answers

00:07:30.080 but it's worth a conversation asking do we allow everything and anything yeah well i i sorry i i think

00:07:36.320 in terms of going back to your question um do women owe society uh uh babies children yeah i think 0.97

00:07:45.200 the word oh got uh a lot of people's backs up in there you know um and i get it but my personal

00:07:51.520 thing is do we need to push something back into society for giving us what we have in terms of our

00:07:57.200 livelihoods our everyday lives our jobs and blah blah blah absolutely because we need to keep this

00:08:01.760 generation going so i think the word oh again it was a bit of a you know just one of one of those

00:08:08.480 all i don't know you know basically where you're coming from that's why a lot of people was a bit

00:08:12.640 upset with it but again um i look i'm a father of two you know beautiful boys absolutely and they teach

00:08:20.880 me things every day and i also teach them things you know um and i think having children obviously it does

00:08:27.200 fall more on the mom especially when the dad goes to work and everything so i understand the pressure

00:08:32.080 of it um but again i only see the beauty in it as again coming from a father's point of view and even

00:08:37.760 even the word oh when you think about it like i think you owe society you know to be a decent

00:08:43.920 non-crime committing tax-paying citizen yeah but we can say that freely no one would argue but when you

00:08:50.480 ask about children there's a a gut you know it's almost too much you know it's almost too much

JustPearlyThings - November 09, 2023

She EXPOSED The Selfish Nature Of Modern Women

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