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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the importance of honesty in a relationship and why men need to be 100% honest with their partners. We also talk about cheaters and why it s important to be honest with your partner.
Transcript
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Can I say, I've clocked that we've all been saying honesty,
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but I feel like personally, if you yearn for honesty in a relationship,
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it kind of sucks because if you're going into a relationship
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and being like, I just want honesty, I need you to be honest with me,
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It's kind of like, do you need to beg for that?
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But also at the end of the day, I don't know about you guys,
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but personally, for someone that's been honest with me,
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And it's kind of like also that honesty doesn't,
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I feel like there's certain things that you don't have to say.
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There's certain things that you don't have to say,
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but if you say it's going to cause some type of, you know.
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And also, can I say, guys that are always honest,
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they're normally always honest about their past relationships.
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And I feel like if you've established that you guys are going to be 100%
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about everything you've done, you're going to feel some type of way,
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regardless of whether that involved you or not.
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So they've been doing stuff before they even knew you,
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but you'd feel the type of way because they're with you right now.
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So it's kind of like certain stuff you don't have to say.
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If there's certain stuff that we can talk about, we can talk about.
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But if it's about, oh, like, yeah, I used to do like this with her.
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Yeah, you'd sit here and be like, yeah, I want you to be 100% honest with me.
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But if you're honest with me, I'm going to start crying.
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I would rather just cry and be mad and then just get over it.
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My first reaction, I always say, tell me the honest truth.
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Let the first reaction go over their head because that's it soaking in.
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But does the honesty progress your relationship?
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Yes, because they know that there's no point in lying to me.
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And why did you say honesty when I asked you what you were looking for?
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Because to me that implies that maybe you haven't always gotten that.
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I just feel like they, as you said, make my funny flop.
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It's like the liars, the lies make you want them.
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So then what incentive do men have to be honest with us if the liars get laid?
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I just prefer that if you just turn around and said, yeah, you're seeing, talking to
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that two, three other girls and I'm just an option at the moment.
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If they told you that, then you wouldn't sleep with them.
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That kind of links back to what I said earlier.
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A lot of time, and this has been mentioned on Fresh and Fit, another podcast, women want
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honesty, honesty, but as the saying goes, they can't really handle the truth because when
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you are honest, they immediately leave, which, you know, I understand, but what incentive
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Because they'll lose the resources they put into you, you know, whether it's taking on
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Men help us with a lot of things when we're with them.
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But then you just leave because they're with other people, which is most likely the thing
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So as you said, what incentive do they have to be honest when they could lose the whole
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You must be crazy to not tell me something that, you know, I'm going to be like, yeah,
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I mean, do you go into relationships telling men your body count?
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Any guy that you talk to these days, they will ask you your body count.
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But I'm just saying if we're going to be 100% honest.
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Like a lot of girls are with guys where they know if they said their body count, it would end
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There's in a way we're not always honest with them.
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Because I was going to say like if you're going into a relationship nowadays, especially
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like my friends, everybody that I'm surrounded by right now as a 19 year old, they will 100%
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Like in this day and age right now that I'm in right now, they will ask you with no shame
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They just feel like you're going to lie anyway.
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But the last time I ever got asked that question, I think I was 16 years old.
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Obviously, you know, you can't look at a woman and be like, oh yeah, her body count is this.
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But you can get an inkling of whether it's higher or lower.
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And sometimes that is enough to suffice them as to whether they get in a relationship or just
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I think how you portray yourself is sometimes enough for them to decide.
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Would it put you off if their body count was like higher than yours?
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If my partner's body count was higher than mine?
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You know, I think men value inexperience whereas women value experience.
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So my partner's body count is of course higher than mine.
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And if it wasn't, I'd be like, well, where the hell am I with you if no one else wants you?
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But did the young lady on the end say she wanted experience?
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But I don't think I'd be saying, oh, your body count is less than mine.
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So I don't like that because other women don't like you.
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Yeah, I don't sit there and think to myself, well, these women didn't.
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It's just, you know, a silent tick in your head where it's, you know, it's like evolution.
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Well, it's like when a guy's very, I mean, one of the guys will tell me getting verified is the first way to get women.
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Yeah, it's like it's like telling the world not to be the world.
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And all in history, like women have gone for men that other women have selected.
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So it's like you could say it's superficial, but that's that's always what's happened.
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Like, look at, you know, Genghis Khan or the world's conquerors.
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If women did not like men that were experienced, why do these men let you have harems of women?
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17 women reproduced for one man, every one man 8,000 years ago.
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My ex has this saying that girls can get who they want and guys get what they want.
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Guys get like if a guy can only get a girl if the girl wants them.
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Girls can get who they want and guys can get who they can.
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Can I say, I feel like just we were talking about a couple of seconds ago, but I feel like
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women always say they want to experience someone who's experienced, but will cry if they find
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out who they've been in those experiences with and how many body count there is.
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Because I could say and be like, I want someone who's so experienced that's going to do this,
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that's going to do that and make me feel this type of way.
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But then as soon as, okay, cool, that happens and they're like, okay, cool.
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And it's kind of like, choose, choose whether you want him to be experienced.
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I just want to hear if you didn't ask her the question about what she wants in a man.
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I feel like even though I'm quite small, I'd say like 5'8".
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Normally I feel short next to Pearl, I feel tall today.
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I like a man that's family, very big on my family, big family.
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I don't really have like a type, like physically.
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So he's got to be 5'8", and he likes his family and chivalry?
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Yeah, he's got a good family and he's chivalrous.
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Are you paying the bills till he figures it out?
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It just, it depends on how much passion he has in what he's doing.
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Usually unemployed people don't have passion, typically.
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So are we all going to say like money is a big thing in a relationship, going into a relationship
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And for me, all I want is a man that's working, that's going to treat me the same way he'd
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And everybody's talking, talking about this fanny fluttering, that fanny fluttering, and
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So your fanny can flutter and the man's going to tell him he ain't going to be good in bed.
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He's got everything else that's in the shopping trolley, except that.
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Because I see you put that, you need to put that in the shopping trolley.
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Would you guys rather have a guy that you weren't physically attracted to that's good
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and bad, or a guy that you were very physically attracted to but he was bad and
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I don't mind because I feel like if you're not good in bed, I can always do that kind
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I think I'd have to be attracted to him to some degree to be able to lay down.
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So I'd have to teach, I think, rather than not have an attractive man.
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I'm going to teach him to build him out being an actor.
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