She EXPOSED Why Women Can't Find A Man
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In this episode, we discuss how society has lost the importance of measuring someone by their relationships and how to deal with it. We also discuss what it means to be a woman in modern society and why it is important to have a healthy relationship.
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traditional traditional women get scooped up by 25 the best women are gone by 25 out of the dating
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market because the best women want a family and want kids and they find the men that want a family
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and want kids and they're gone if i could get married tomorrow i'm absolutely weird honestly
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i definitely feel like society has lost that importance of like measuring someone by
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their relationships and how but that's because with that being said i 100 agree of what you
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were saying but on the lower scale a man can come along and be absolute trash let me just use
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like all right cool so the way that my dad has worked yeah um he's got with someone and he's
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married them and it's like okay she's not worthy he's just settled down with her because it's
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convenient do you get what i'm saying so if she was to measure that by oh yeah i'm great you're not
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great babe you don't have a lot going on but he's married you because he's getting old and because
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all of these different factors on the larger scale what you're saying 100 i agree with you and it
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makes sense but there are the uh the lower percentage of men that are low quality i just want to make it
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clear i think what i was trying to say is if you're in a healthy marriage i'm not going to sit here and
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say if a guy just chose you because he wanted to settle right right no there's definitely some
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circumstances where there's people that are married and they are below average because again
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they're abusive or the guy has settled or whatever yeah but for the healthy marriages and there's
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it is a lot of healthy marriages um it definitely goes to show your ability to be an above average
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person and another thing i realized i feel like a lot of people focus too much on the negative
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i feel like the negative situations of abusive partners and whatever they're like a small percentage
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i think women are more abusive than men in 2023 i think there's more yeah i think there's more women
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that hit men than men that hit women i just don't think it's reported yeah i agree with that
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because women hit men like in this when they're angry and when they're having arguments and they
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do like pushing and shoving but the men just don't retaliate so the thing is as well for a man do you
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know how degrading it is to bring up that your woman has hit you exactly you're not going to bring
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that up you're just going to keep it quiet yeah so a lot of women they brag oh you know my man hit me
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a man ain't going to do that so it's very very different and usually it's like the last straw because
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you've actually got him to that peak at that point so he's had to do something they also don't talk
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about the women that get a man to a certain point by verbally abusing him and then he snaps one day
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and then they label him as abusive or crazy when it's like you what's worse being hit like the scars
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heal the things that people say to you you you can't take that back um and can i also say that
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like sorry and even if you are like an average woman i think what we need to understand like it's
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actually okay to be average that basically just means you're a working person so for everyone here
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he's probably like single this is not me trying to say that there's like something wrong with you
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you're probably still a work in progress just like me and i think that's something like us as people
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need to learn to admit a little bit rather than just having this mindset of okay i'm a cat today
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so now i'm gonna be a cat or i'm a dog like let's you can be realistic in the present so yeah to answer
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that question because i was kind of waffling i'm definitely average yeah but i think you know when
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you said about like we focus on the negative like for me personally like someone might say oh you
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focus on the negative because i'm not like definitely keen to have a get married and have kids right
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now and i've always been that girl that's like live your life travel do what you want like to
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my friends to women young girls that i meet i'm like i'm very much an advocate for that and then
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people may think oh it's because you've never had a healthy relationship in your life or you've not
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got that example actually no my parents have been together since they were 16 and they're married
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and i live with them so i have had the best example actually but i have the most realistic example as
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well but that's a modern mindset that's a below average mindset which which what to travel and explore
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the world and stuff men don't want that yeah but why is it about what men want because like men are
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the buyers you have to learn the buyers in order to be bought yeah but i i just so i so strongly
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disagree with that because i'm not going to live my life depending on what a man wants like absolutely
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not and that's a below average mindset that's the problem with modern women is that who said it's
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below average the men oh no man wants a girl that won't live okay let's ask him anyway let's ask him
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you're a man is that a below average mindset because as a woman i feel like it's important to
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you know take care of yourself first when you're young at least not i'm not talking when you're
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older i'm saying you're like early 20s teens like travel learn about yourself and don't focus so
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much on trying to get into relationship and get married by 25. no i disagree you know i think i'd
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want to be the one that takes her on that experience so she experiences with me for the first time
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so you think that's a below average mindset i'm still going to stand on my point because i still
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know i'm just telling you how men see it and like men see if you traveling around men see that as
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you're sleeping around like men it's like then i'll just wait so so men men see it if you're in a
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different in all these different cities that you're riding something in all these different cities that's
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how men see it it's also if you've been single for a long time men see it as oh she's been doing
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she's been doing something she's been up to something like that's how the guys see it and can i also
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sorry can i also mention something you also mentioned how your end goal is to be a wife and
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a housewife and have kids so if that's your end goal don't you think it is important to consider
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how men are viewing you um yeah but it's like for example if my end goal was my career then i would
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have to focus on career oriented things but if your end goal is marriage and kids don't you think you
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have to focus on how men view you and i think that's why can't i have a career and have marriage
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and kids no but i'm talking about like your end goal like what do you want as the end is it just the
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career long term or is it yeah i think marriage and kids will outweigh the career for sure yeah
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so considering the fact that like by 30 women's eggs start to you know expire whatever and you
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know that is your end goal just all these other factors you may lose your youth and beauty wrinkles
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don't you think is important to consider what men will think about you if that's your end goal
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i feel like the right man would not be judging me because i've gone to france and spain like what the
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hell is that about like like that that is just like like the guy i'm with he just doesn't care
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about this social media stuff he just thinks it's a load of crap like he's met me and he probably had
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a few people say like out of jealousy or whatever because i'm a popular figure certain things and
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it's like no i'm gonna he's strong-minded i need a strong-minded man that's the thing i can't be dealing
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with these men that'll be swayed by what they have by he she or her so if a man was dating a whore
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yeah does that make him strong-minded because he's it actually does i don't agree with that but it
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does i think it does not to call you and that no no no no no no i know i'm just saying i actually
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think it i'm not saying i'm not agreeing with men being with whores by the way that's what i'm saying
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i'm saying but i do i actually do think it is very strong-minded for a man to get with one
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because he's clearly saying i like you for you and despite what you've done and what everybody says
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about you i'm gonna stand by you and i can actually respect that just that to a degree
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and i've said it so many times when i've seen people do it where i've seen these men go for
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these women and everyone's like why would he go for her but maybe she is actually a good girl like
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maybe good-hearted girl like maybe she has made a lot of mistakes i think do you think it's unwise
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knowing the stats that i told you where there's only a 20 chance that he'll be happy with her in 10
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years you don't think that's simping a bit it's a bit unwise no not if not if you want no no if
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your son came to you with a whore would you be happy with that of course not i just told you i
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don't think i don't necessarily agree with it came to you and he said to you mom he's a good
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woman and whatever and like it depends on um no i would say no personally because i think there's
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enough women out there for you to find a good woman that isn't a whore yeah i think you know
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what's so funny in this like modern world um it's either we have fun or i'm taking it's like can
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you not be find your man and travel and learn like i think i can enjoy my life and learn and have
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knowledge and still have fun and still enjoy my youth with a man with my husband i don't think
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there's anything wrong with it i feel like it's better to make memories than you know have no
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memories and getting and i've had experience and he had experience memories of your friends
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yeah absolutely but i think it's nice to have that's not valuable to a guy though like it's not
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valuable to a guy that you have memories about the guy in order wait in order to have a happy
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marriage you have to care what the man wants unless if you want to do this like 50 50 partnership type
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shit where your opinion is like yeah you don't you don't want to do that right you want to be a
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housewife so if you want to be a housewife only 20 of women get to be housewives so that means that
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means it's it's competitive right that means not a lot of girls are going to get it and so like
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you have to know the buyer in order to compete and you also mentioned that's a good way of putting it
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you also mentioned how you can do both i have an example for you say for example i wanted to have
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a six pack and you know compete for the olympics can i do both things like be at mcdonald's every
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three times a week or it's not it's kind of the same on the rare occasion yeah i can i feel like
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because i've got a low metabolism what i'm trying to say is like when you have an end goal and you
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have an end point when you focus on other things it hinders you getting to that point so what i'm
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trying to say is for the ladies who's um you know your your goal is to just to be a career woman
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i feel like focusing on your career and traveling that will work for you but if your end goal was to
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like be your wife like i'm saying your end goal that's what you want when you settle down that you
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have to make them steps to actually work towards that yeah and i think that's where modern women
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get it like you know messed up so going back to that example like if my end goal was to have a six
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pack doesn't make sense to be um balancing mcdonald's and salad um you know half of the week
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