JustPearlyThings - She EXPOSED Why Women Can't Find A Man

00:00:00.000 traditional traditional women get scooped up by 25 the best women are gone by 25 out of the dating 0.86

00:00:05.260 market because the best women want a family and want kids and they find the men that want a family 1.00

00:00:09.840 and want kids and they're gone if i could get married tomorrow i'm absolutely weird honestly

00:00:14.520 i definitely feel like society has lost that importance of like measuring someone by

00:00:21.660 their relationships and how but that's because with that being said i 100 agree of what you

00:00:27.240 were saying but on the lower scale a man can come along and be absolute trash let me just use 1.00

00:00:34.840 like all right cool so the way that my dad has worked yeah um he's got with someone and he's

00:00:42.360 married them and it's like okay she's not worthy he's just settled down with her because it's

00:00:48.680 convenient do you get what i'm saying so if she was to measure that by oh yeah i'm great you're not

00:00:53.820 great babe you don't have a lot going on but he's married you because he's getting old and because

00:00:58.200 all of these different factors on the larger scale what you're saying 100 i agree with you and it

00:01:03.120 makes sense but there are the uh the lower percentage of men that are low quality i just want to make it

00:01:10.120 clear i think what i was trying to say is if you're in a healthy marriage i'm not going to sit here and

00:01:13.700 say if a guy just chose you because he wanted to settle right right no there's definitely some

00:01:18.000 circumstances where there's people that are married and they are below average because again

00:01:22.200 they're abusive or the guy has settled or whatever yeah but for the healthy marriages and there's

00:01:26.360 it is a lot of healthy marriages um it definitely goes to show your ability to be an above average

00:01:31.880 person and another thing i realized i feel like a lot of people focus too much on the negative

00:01:35.920 i feel like the negative situations of abusive partners and whatever they're like a small percentage

00:01:40.440 i think women are more abusive than men in 2023 i think there's more yeah i think there's more women 0.97

00:01:45.880 that hit men than men that hit women i just don't think it's reported yeah i agree with that

00:01:50.000 because women hit men like in this when they're angry and when they're having arguments and they 1.00

00:01:53.620 do like pushing and shoving but the men just don't retaliate so the thing is as well for a man do you

00:01:57.920 know how degrading it is to bring up that your woman has hit you exactly you're not going to bring

00:02:02.500 that up you're just going to keep it quiet yeah so a lot of women they brag oh you know my man hit me 1.00

00:02:06.820 a man ain't going to do that so it's very very different and usually it's like the last straw because

00:02:10.880 you've actually got him to that peak at that point so he's had to do something they also don't talk

00:02:15.140 about the women that get a man to a certain point by verbally abusing him and then he snaps one day

00:02:20.320 and then they label him as abusive or crazy when it's like you what's worse being hit like the scars

00:02:26.360 heal the things that people say to you you you can't take that back um and can i also say that

00:02:31.400 like sorry and even if you are like an average woman i think what we need to understand like it's

00:02:35.960 actually okay to be average that basically just means you're a working person so for everyone here

00:02:40.420 he's probably like single this is not me trying to say that there's like something wrong with you

00:02:44.280 you're probably still a work in progress just like me and i think that's something like us as people

00:02:48.740 need to learn to admit a little bit rather than just having this mindset of okay i'm a cat today

00:02:53.980 so now i'm gonna be a cat or i'm a dog like let's you can be realistic in the present so yeah to answer

00:02:59.140 that question because i was kind of waffling i'm definitely average yeah but i think you know when

00:03:03.820 you said about like we focus on the negative like for me personally like someone might say oh you

00:03:09.180 focus on the negative because i'm not like definitely keen to have a get married and have kids right

00:03:13.600 now and i've always been that girl that's like live your life travel do what you want like to

00:03:18.020 my friends to women young girls that i meet i'm like i'm very much an advocate for that and then

00:03:22.660 people may think oh it's because you've never had a healthy relationship in your life or you've not

00:03:26.560 got that example actually no my parents have been together since they were 16 and they're married

00:03:30.520 and i live with them so i have had the best example actually but i have the most realistic example as

00:03:35.860 well but that's a modern mindset that's a below average mindset which which what to travel and explore

00:03:41.060 the world and stuff men don't want that yeah but why is it about what men want because like men are

00:03:45.200 the buyers you have to learn the buyers in order to be bought yeah but i i just so i so strongly

00:03:50.180 disagree with that because i'm not going to live my life depending on what a man wants like absolutely

00:03:54.240 not and that's a below average mindset that's the problem with modern women is that who said it's 1.00

00:03:58.140 below average the men oh no man wants a girl that won't live okay let's ask him anyway let's ask him 0.82

00:04:04.440 you're a man is that a below average mindset because as a woman i feel like it's important to

00:04:09.280 you know take care of yourself first when you're young at least not i'm not talking when you're

00:04:12.640 older i'm saying you're like early 20s teens like travel learn about yourself and don't focus so

00:04:17.840 much on trying to get into relationship and get married by 25. no i disagree you know i think i'd

00:04:22.380 want to be the one that takes her on that experience so she experiences with me for the first time

00:04:26.380 so you think that's a below average mindset i'm still going to stand on my point because i still

00:04:31.300 know i'm just telling you how men see it and like men see if you traveling around men see that as

00:04:38.920 you're sleeping around like men it's like then i'll just wait so so men men see it if you're in a

00:04:43.660 different in all these different cities that you're riding something in all these different cities that's

00:04:47.800 how men see it it's also if you've been single for a long time men see it as oh she's been doing

00:04:52.100 she's been doing something she's been up to something like that's how the guys see it and can i also

00:04:56.460 sorry can i also mention something you also mentioned how your end goal is to be a wife and 1.00

00:05:01.040 a housewife and have kids so if that's your end goal don't you think it is important to consider

00:05:05.060 how men are viewing you um yeah but it's like for example if my end goal was my career then i would

00:05:10.460 have to focus on career oriented things but if your end goal is marriage and kids don't you think you

00:05:15.540 have to focus on how men view you and i think that's why can't i have a career and have marriage

00:05:19.780 and kids no but i'm talking about like your end goal like what do you want as the end is it just the

00:05:23.840 career long term or is it yeah i think marriage and kids will outweigh the career for sure yeah

00:05:30.040 so considering the fact that like by 30 women's eggs start to you know expire whatever and you 1.00

00:05:35.560 know that is your end goal just all these other factors you may lose your youth and beauty wrinkles

00:05:39.860 don't you think is important to consider what men will think about you if that's your end goal

00:05:44.340 i feel like the right man would not be judging me because i've gone to france and spain like what the

00:05:50.960 hell is that about like like that that is just like like the guy i'm with he just doesn't care

00:05:56.320 about this social media stuff he just thinks it's a load of crap like he's met me and he probably had

00:06:02.740 a few people say like out of jealousy or whatever because i'm a popular figure certain things and

00:06:08.640 it's like no i'm gonna he's strong-minded i need a strong-minded man that's the thing i can't be dealing

00:06:12.920 with these men that'll be swayed by what they have by he she or her so if a man was dating a whore 1.00

00:06:17.660 yeah does that make him strong-minded because he's it actually does i don't agree with that but it

00:06:22.360 does i think it does not to call you and that no no no no no no i know i'm just saying i actually

00:06:28.060 think it i'm not saying i'm not agreeing with men being with whores by the way that's what i'm saying 1.00

00:06:32.100 i'm saying but i do i actually do think it is very strong-minded for a man to get with one

00:06:36.380 because he's clearly saying i like you for you and despite what you've done and what everybody says

00:06:42.040 about you i'm gonna stand by you and i can actually respect that just that to a degree

00:06:47.560 and i've said it so many times when i've seen people do it where i've seen these men go for

00:06:50.940 these women and everyone's like why would he go for her but maybe she is actually a good girl like 0.97

00:06:55.080 maybe good-hearted girl like maybe she has made a lot of mistakes i think do you think it's unwise

00:06:59.780 knowing the stats that i told you where there's only a 20 chance that he'll be happy with her in 10 0.95

00:07:04.200 years you don't think that's simping a bit it's a bit unwise no not if not if you want no no if

00:07:11.160 your son came to you with a whore would you be happy with that of course not i just told you i 1.00

00:07:14.600 don't think i don't necessarily agree with it came to you and he said to you mom he's a good

00:07:17.480 woman and whatever and like it depends on um no i would say no personally because i think there's

00:07:22.880 enough women out there for you to find a good woman that isn't a whore yeah i think you know 1.00

00:07:27.500 what's so funny in this like modern world um it's either we have fun or i'm taking it's like can

00:07:33.880 you not be find your man and travel and learn like i think i can enjoy my life and learn and have

00:07:40.440 knowledge and still have fun and still enjoy my youth with a man with my husband i don't think

00:07:47.700 there's anything wrong with it i feel like it's better to make memories than you know have no

00:07:52.940 memories and getting and i've had experience and he had experience memories of your friends

00:07:56.900 yeah absolutely but i think it's nice to have that's not valuable to a guy though like it's not

00:08:04.580 valuable to a guy that you have memories about the guy in order wait in order to have a happy

00:08:11.140 marriage you have to care what the man wants unless if you want to do this like 50 50 partnership type

00:08:16.540 shit where your opinion is like yeah you don't you don't want to do that right you want to be a

00:08:20.040 housewife so if you want to be a housewife only 20 of women get to be housewives so that means that 1.00

00:08:25.940 means it's it's competitive right that means not a lot of girls are going to get it and so like 1.00

00:08:31.080 you have to know the buyer in order to compete and you also mentioned that's a good way of putting it

00:08:36.480 you also mentioned how you can do both i have an example for you say for example i wanted to have

00:08:41.700 a six pack and you know compete for the olympics can i do both things like be at mcdonald's every

00:08:47.140 three times a week or it's not it's kind of the same on the rare occasion yeah i can i feel like

00:08:52.660 because i've got a low metabolism what i'm trying to say is like when you have an end goal and you

00:08:58.120 have an end point when you focus on other things it hinders you getting to that point so what i'm

00:09:03.480 trying to say is for the ladies who's um you know your your goal is to just to be a career woman 1.00

00:09:07.760 i feel like focusing on your career and traveling that will work for you but if your end goal was to

00:09:12.080 like be your wife like i'm saying your end goal that's what you want when you settle down that you 1.00

00:09:17.200 have to make them steps to actually work towards that yeah and i think that's where modern women 1.00

00:09:21.520 get it like you know messed up so going back to that example like if my end goal was to have a six

00:09:26.200 pack doesn't make sense to be um balancing mcdonald's and salad um you know half of the week

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JustPearlyThings - May 07, 2023

She EXPOSED Why Women Can't Find A Man

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