JustPearlyThings - October 27, 2023


She FINALLY Came To Terms With This Reality


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Length

7 minutes

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168.09644

Word count

1,241

Sentence count

148

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Hate speech

12

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In this episode, we discuss the benefits and disadvantages of government-mandated marriages and why men should or should not get married. Also, we talk about why we should or shouldn t get married at all and why we shouldn t.

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00:00:00.000 I just think when women get power, we're bad people. 1.00
00:00:02.840 Yeah, I don't know what it is.
00:00:05.240 Why?
00:00:05.760 Emotions.
00:00:06.840 Emotions.
00:00:08.120 Yeah, it's the scorn of a woman. 1.00
00:00:10.280 I think, I mean, I'm Catholic.
00:00:12.240 I think there's a natural order in the world.
00:00:14.220 So I think it's supposed to go God, men, women, children. 0.70
00:00:18.980 Arguably government in there too.
00:00:20.620 But let's just stick to the family unit.
00:00:22.560 God, men, women, children.
00:00:23.760 I think evil happens when you tell women that they're equal to men. 1.00
00:00:26.940 And that's typically, like, the last hundred years, what policies have women passed since they've gotten the most political power? 1.00
00:00:33.620 They've passed policies that oppress men.
00:00:36.380 But, Paul, what King said earlier, that there was an equilibrium going on before where the women would have to go out, go get a dinner, and then build the home.
00:00:49.140 Is that what he said?
00:00:50.220 Yeah, I said that, but she was still under the authority of her man, even when she was working alongside him.
00:00:55.680 So she's going to do everything.
00:00:58.380 I'm not saying she has to do everything.
00:01:00.220 The man was still providing for the family, but the woman was working alongside him.
00:01:06.040 Yeah.
00:01:06.380 Now, this idea that women, now, oh, it was way harder before. 1.00
00:01:10.980 Oh, my gosh.
00:01:11.660 Have you Googled, like, have you heard of Amish people anymore?
00:01:14.180 Yeah.
00:01:15.160 Google, like, a day in the life of the Amish and tell me if most women could do that over a desk job. 1.00
00:01:20.600 Most women couldn't. 1.00
00:01:21.520 No, I couldn't.
00:01:21.920 No, but that's, like, this idea that women were just at home, like, sitting, doing nothing. 0.98
00:01:27.740 I'm like, life was hard for most of history.
00:01:31.040 Like, I promise you, your desk job is not harder than what the women of times past did. 1.00
00:01:38.600 Physically.
00:01:39.420 Yeah.
00:01:40.120 Mentally.
00:01:40.840 Well, I would say it's harder on women to be away from the family, right? 1.00
00:01:44.100 That's what we got, like, work husbands. 1.00
00:01:45.400 You know, it's tough when you're around people all the time, you know, to not mix that stuff.
00:01:50.360 That's why they typically do.
00:01:54.980 Okay.
00:01:55.720 So, what about you?
00:01:57.180 Men, marriage? 0.79
00:01:59.680 The traditional Western marriage? 0.77
00:02:01.620 Yeah.
00:02:02.560 They don't gain nothing, as you said previously.
00:02:06.300 They can get everything without being married. 0.89
00:02:08.080 On a contract.
00:02:09.780 Okay.
00:02:10.280 Don't need to sign a contract.
00:02:11.620 You can get it all.
00:02:12.880 Okay.
00:02:13.160 What about you, Sterling?
00:02:15.040 What should a guy get out of marriage? 0.63
00:02:16.580 Well, I mean.
00:02:17.280 Cow milking?
00:02:20.560 Chicken coop building and maintenance.
00:02:23.280 Yeah.
00:02:24.120 What a guy can get, is there's only one thing that a guy can actually get out of, like,
00:02:30.600 a traditional, like, legal government marriage?
00:02:33.240 And that's immigration papers.
00:02:35.140 Yeah.
00:02:35.620 Yeah, documents.
00:02:36.600 That's it.
00:02:37.380 That's it.
00:02:39.380 Passport and another passport.
00:02:41.500 Documents, basically.
00:02:42.560 That's the only circumstance.
00:02:44.600 That is the best answer.
00:02:47.020 Also, I think potential alibi.
00:02:49.940 Yes.
00:02:50.920 Yeah.
00:02:51.580 You look like getting personal now, boy.
00:02:53.580 You look like getting real personal now.
00:02:56.420 Actually, I lied to that.
00:02:57.760 Now you've mentioned it.
00:02:58.340 I lied to that.
00:02:58.760 There is, like, nuance, depending on how complex your business is.
00:03:03.300 You can put things in your wife's name that you couldn't put in a girlfriend's name.
00:03:07.360 Documents.
00:03:07.760 So there are some paper.
00:03:09.320 So basically, paper for more paper.
00:03:10.940 Paper.
00:03:11.200 Yeah.
00:03:11.740 Paper for paper.
00:03:12.660 Paper.
00:03:13.680 If there's no benefit in it, if there's no benefit for a man, why are you seeking that?
00:03:18.720 I don't want to get legally married.
00:03:20.960 I would get religiously married.
00:03:22.600 Okay.
00:03:22.820 Because that's, like, for me, that's...
00:03:25.740 In your mind, what's the difference?
00:03:27.560 Well, government has nothing to do with this.
00:03:29.900 I'm not signing any paperwork.
00:03:31.400 Keeping the government out is good.
00:03:32.800 It's done in a church with a priest and maybe a couple of family members, but it's under God.
00:03:36.920 It's not...
00:03:37.420 The state has no goddamn business in it.
00:03:38.820 Like, that's why.
00:03:40.640 Yeah.
00:03:41.960 And...
00:03:42.360 Probably because I would primarily choose to be with a Christian girl.
00:03:45.180 Well, and he's marrying below 25, non-whore, no kids. 1.00
00:03:53.980 Like, there's some benefit, you know, but...
00:03:56.860 Loads of benefit.
00:03:57.640 Yeah, but he's not...
00:03:59.280 Yeah, he's not getting the old ladies, right? 1.00
00:04:03.160 That's not the fact on me.
00:04:04.240 Okay, what do you think?
00:04:10.580 Yeah, I mean, if we're thinking actual, physical, what can you gain?
00:04:16.100 I think that you've said everything, really.
00:04:18.600 I think if it's not a legal marriage and it's, say, a religious marriage, you know, what you should gain,
00:04:26.760 if we say in an ideal world where women aren't incentivized to get divorced and take the kids, 1.00
00:04:30.880 in an ideal world, you should get what the vows are.
00:04:33.440 Someone who is undoubtedly going to follow your lead, doesn't need to have everything ran by them,
00:04:39.040 is just going to let you do whatever you want, not do whatever you want.
00:04:42.460 Like, you know, if you say, oh, I'm going to go out and do something that's going to get you hurt,
00:04:48.280 you know, you would try and say maybe don't do that.
00:04:50.160 But if they do it, at the end of the day, like, it's someone who's going to stay with you in sickness and in health
00:04:54.040 till death do us part, till death do us part.
00:04:56.460 Not when I'm no longer happy and I decide that I deserve something else at 55 or whatever it may be.
00:05:03.860 It should be what the vows are.
00:05:05.460 But we don't live in an ideal world.
00:05:07.180 So, yeah, you don't really get anything out of it.
00:05:09.320 That was a good answer.
00:05:11.220 You guys are creative.
00:05:13.260 What about you?
00:05:14.040 What do you think men should get out of marriage?
00:05:16.660 Well, I mean, what they should get is the vows, like she said.
00:05:18.880 But what I believe that they should get is if I'm going to marry you,
00:05:24.080 you should start building my credit score or something.
00:05:26.460 Because I'm going to...
00:05:27.040 You're cheeky.
00:05:30.840 You should build my credit score, especially if it's only just me spending the money.
00:05:34.040 Oh, that's something else, actually.
00:05:35.280 In rare cases, I think you could gain status.
00:05:40.580 Credit.
00:05:40.700 So, like, you mentioned about credit scores.
00:05:43.340 So, for example, you know, when you get married and you go to get a mortgage,
00:05:49.020 if you're with someone who, say, the woman's got a better credit score,
00:05:53.140 you know, that way you guys might be able to get a house.
00:05:55.020 A guarantor.
00:05:55.260 Not her benefiting you.
00:05:57.000 Or a guarantor.
00:05:58.300 Yeah.
00:05:58.760 I mean, that's the case.
00:06:00.460 That's documents.
00:06:02.020 If you get Bill Gates' daughter.
00:06:04.140 Yeah.
00:06:05.280 King had some strong thoughts on that relationship, huh, King?
00:06:11.260 My man smiled.
00:06:15.200 Okay.
00:06:16.160 What do you think?
00:06:17.580 If we're talking on the basis of the terminology, marriage,
00:06:20.840 I just believe nothing.
00:06:22.620 I do agree with the vows.
00:06:24.340 And I do agree with what Sterling said.
00:06:27.340 And just respect.
00:06:28.760 And it should be the original vows.
00:06:30.240 I want to clarify that because I have spoken...
00:06:35.280 to people I know and ask them about the vow of...
00:06:38.940 to...
00:06:39.940 I think it's to submit and obey.
00:06:42.700 And almost everyone says that they chose to have that taken out.
00:06:45.700 But it's the main part of marriage.
00:06:46.960 And I think that's disgusting.
00:06:48.460 Yeah.
00:06:50.000 So I guess the summary of all of this is that marriage by the state is designed for women.
00:06:55.700 Correct.
00:06:56.400 Yeah.
00:06:57.620 A thousand percent.
00:06:58.740 You want to pull up the video, King?
00:07:01.080 Do the song one first.
00:07:02.500 Do favor it.
00:07:04.780 Do the song one first.
00:07:06.320 Please.
00:07:15.080 Do the song.
00:07:19.980 Do the song ever.
00:07:20.360 Do the song.
00:07:21.280 Oh, pretty.
00:07:22.220 Do the song.