JustPearlyThings - November 25, 2023


She Gets Destroyed for DEFENDING Women with Everything


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33 minutes

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6,205

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87

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70

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In this episode, we discuss the fact that women spend more money on makeup than men, and why this might be the case. We also talk about the differences between women and men when it comes to what they wear and how they look in the bedroom.

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00:00:00.000 And yet we spend more. I think he's been raising his hand. Yeah, go ahead. Oh, oh, okay. Thank you
00:00:05.460 I have a theory and it went kind of so before
00:00:10.060 Women I believe would wear makeup to attract a male the attention of men 1.00
00:00:14.760 But I think it's times going on. I think girls more wear makeup to 1.00
00:00:18.640 One up each other. That's what that's what it feels like. It feels like girls are now wearing makeup to one of each other 0.99
00:00:23.600 Which makes the statement? I don't dress for men. I dress for myself
00:00:26.880 More relevant, but at the same time the the men come with that. Do you see what I'm saying? I'm sorry
00:00:34.400 So we kind of have that thing where girls will get all dressed up 1.00
00:00:37.700 We're very revealing stuff tight form fitting things makeup done hair nails done
00:00:42.880 But then like we were saying as well going for the top what only when the top
00:00:48.160 Male comes to you will you show a man attention everybody else is kind of out of it because you and your girls are just trying to 1.00
00:00:53.380 Outdo each other and that's kind of what it feels like nowadays
00:00:56.760 You know normal men don't have a shout a shot with you because you know that all the rest of the girls in your group
00:01:01.400 We're like girl now he's you know, he he can't sit with us. Can't afford me. Yeah, you know all of that stuff sort of stuff
00:01:10.400 Men are kind of falling by the wayside because girls want to impress each other more than they want to impress the men 1.00
00:01:14.540 I feel like women do compete with each other and I feel like probably because that's down to the fact that 1.00
00:01:19.380 The standard of men and what they require is not as high as women, but they also have a stand in a view be as well
00:01:25.740 And if there's a friend that you have or other women who you perceive to be looking better than you dressing better than you
00:01:31.500 You're more likely to think okay. They're probably getting more attention than I am or they're getting maybe possibly those that person
00:01:37.940 That's the likes the likes that small percentage of men that are hard to get so in order to 0.98
00:01:44.860 combat that
00:01:46.260 They are gonna spend my money on beauty. They're gonna spend my money on their looks. They're gonna try be 0.99
00:01:50.760 Competitive yeah, absolutely. I agree with that completely. I'm not
00:01:59.220 What's left for men when the competition is over between you guys 0.93
00:02:03.360 Left over for men after you went through all different men 0.93
00:02:08.640 Y'all get in the UK so we're in the UK y'all get everyone through 31 year old
00:02:16.260 I hear the money
00:02:19.380 It's crazy man
00:02:20.760 It's crazy social media is messed up everything and you're not gonna it's literally just highlighted and put in a
00:02:27.660 magnified
00:02:28.620 Humans women's modern women's true nature in terms of their highly competitiveness. They have amongst themselves 1.00
00:02:34.760 And also most times the highly a pergamist society we live in is also if if a friend of a girl
00:02:43.260 Goes out with someone that makes a certain amount of money
00:02:46.580 You must know a bread you're not literally shooting for that
00:02:50.060 She set the standard for the rest of them. Yeah, you know
00:02:53.100 So I'm saying to you say you were cool with like a hundred bags a year
00:02:56.060 Mike say you were cool of a hundred bags a year. Yeah now
00:03:00.060 Like your friends start going out with a footballer. That's making that familiar. Yeah, bro. The hundred bags. They're all at the stadiums now, bro
00:03:06.220 Yeah
00:03:08.220 The training grounds
00:03:10.220 As long as you don't tell me I'm an option. I'm fine
00:03:13.340 You don't tell me there's more. I'm okay. And also I just want to say that
00:03:18.340 Women who say they wear makeup just for themselves. I'm sorry, but you're 100% cap 1.00
00:03:23.180 You feel me like at the end of the day. I as a man I can admit when I get a fresh haircut
00:03:28.620 I'm doing this for women you feel me when I go to the gym 0.75
00:03:31.420 And I work out
00:03:36.140 Listen, my girl was irrelevant. You feel me? Oh, she's watching. I'm sorry
00:03:40.460 But I at the end of the day the things we do us mandem
00:03:45.020 everything it all leads back to women you feel me and
00:03:48.220 Women do the same thing at the end of the day. You are all on a podcast today and you made sure 1.00
00:03:53.180 You looked a certain way
00:03:55.180 Why because there's certain amount of people watching you right now?
00:03:58.860 You feel me like even
00:04:00.860 Sorry, there's biological like reasons like behind makeup 0.99
00:04:04.860 So like for example blush and makes your your cheeks red and that's because that happens during sex
00:04:10.940 And so it's like a lot of the stuff you might not know you might not you might not know
00:04:14.780 Yeah
00:04:15.180 You might not know but it's actually like it's the same thing with your lips red
00:04:18.540 And it like that have like your lips get red or during sex and that's like an attraction signal to men
00:04:23.020 This is a fun. Yeah, and like like our eye makeup makes our eyes bigger and it's because like youthful
00:04:29.580 Yeah, so it's I think I think I forget the eyelashes like what that signals
00:04:33.980 But there there's a lot of like like the behind the scenes like why we have the like the beauty products
00:04:39.420 You might not know but it's kind of interesting if you look at the science
00:04:41.820 It's supposed to enhance the biological attractiveness of a woman to use makeup 1.00
00:04:47.100 But we're at the point where we overdo it in some respects and what happens is men 0.95
00:04:52.940 I'm not going to say they're not smart
00:04:54.220 But a lot of guys they look at women that are heavily made up and believe that the women are not making 0.54
00:04:59.500 Wearing makeup because they say natural natural
00:05:04.700 Listen, I'm not generalizing that's it
00:05:06.380 I'll say that there's some men they can't differentiate between the natural face and the made-up face
00:05:12.220 And then and then they wake up in the morning when the makeups melted off
00:05:16.940 Is that reality
00:05:18.940 That's why they say take your girl do a pool on the first day 1.00
00:05:22.940 That's why they're making water proof makeup
00:05:26.460 She's up, she's in the water
00:05:27.500 She's in the water 0.91
00:05:28.060 She's in the water 0.91
00:05:29.100 So some next
00:05:30.460 Guys, guys, one at a time
00:05:31.900 My point was because I haven't really said much after our conversation here
00:05:35.020 But my main my point is before makeup was used to enhance the beauty of a woman's face
00:05:40.780 And it was you know before this generation before social media and all these filters etc
00:05:46.220 It was about making yourself look as natural as possible enhancing what you already have
00:05:52.140 Yeah, and now we have a generation of people that are all trying to look the same
00:05:57.740 Fulfill the state the same phenotype the same prototype
00:06:01.900 And it's you know, it's highly competitive because now you have as a man you have access to thousands of women that you would have never
00:06:09.900 Top 20
00:06:11.900 20 percent of men have access
00:06:13.900 Okay, I mean I mean okay
00:06:15.900 No, no, that's what I'm saying so for example if you're on an app or dating app
00:06:20.780 You know, you would not even seen these women on the street, but you're seeing women maybe in America or corn 1.00
00:06:27.180 Exactly of course and the same for women a lot of these women 0.99
00:06:31.100 They wouldn't have had access to these men's and this this unrealistic expectation
00:06:35.900 It's been amplified and magnified by social media is unrealistic
00:06:40.540 Let's be honest as a woman. It's a lot of pressure. No
00:06:43.260 Is it not a lot of pressure to look a certain way to fulfill a certain you know, it's because of the women demand that 1.00
00:06:50.300 Yeah, no, no, but I was about hey, hey, hey
00:06:52.140 I was about to say for men imagine they don't even have the makeup 0.99
00:06:55.820 They don't even have the finances to wear the clothes and you know
00:06:59.340 They might put themselves in debt to just look good for you. You know, I mean
00:07:02.540 So but is it really that hard if there's like 20 women who look like kim k right now 1.00
00:07:08.380 You feel like you can take a six and if she knows what she's doing with her makeup
00:07:15.020 Do you think do you think that women can get a boob job and say they did it for themselves? Yes 1.00
00:07:20.460 You're telling me that women right let's spend x amounts of money, right? 1.00
00:07:35.580 Let's keep in mind money ain't cheap. You're working very hard for that money
00:07:39.260 So you're telling me women are spending all that money to look out for themselves 1.00
00:07:41.980 Stop it
00:07:43.980 To feel sexy
00:07:48.300 What you're trying to look sexy for other women no big cat you know 0.98
00:07:53.340 Guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys stop stop one at a time
00:07:59.500 Okay, you go ahead. No, sorry. I mean, I'm just saying
00:08:02.540 I'm just saying I personally think that's 100% possible
00:08:05.580 Like without a doubt or even there are women who unfortunately like sometimes like
00:08:09.820 Don't like our just don't have any like don't have like proportionate breasts to like to like their body 1.00
00:08:15.900 They want to feel like their body flake they might want to feel
00:08:19.500 I don't know
00:08:23.100 Right now is about whether women enhance themselves for themselves 0.99
00:08:29.340 I can guarantee you right now every single man on this put them on this panel right now can tell you that if when they've been in a relationship
00:08:35.820 You get that maybe two three maybe four months of your girl wearing makeup 0.95
00:08:40.140 But after that yo, she's getting bare face 1.00
00:08:43.100 You're from and she's looking sometimes she might even look like a man you feel me like
00:08:47.660 Girls once they get comfortable. They are not wearing makeup. You know, that's like that's like if men 0.96
00:08:53.900 Got dick enhancements and said it was for themselves
00:08:56.380 It's like
00:09:01.100 Girls will get BBL and they're just acting different 1.00
00:09:03.820 You know what?
00:09:06.060 Queens or princesses for anybody to enhance their 0.62
00:09:10.220 Sexual organs and say that it's not for anybody else for themselves has to be the biggest tease going like it's like no genuinely
00:09:17.820 I know you'll find me attractive, but I'm not interested in any single one of you
00:09:20.860 So just look at them don't find them or just look at them
00:09:25.180 Wanna wanna be you know want it, but
00:09:28.940 Can I just say this to close all of this back and forth down all you have to do is look at this
00:09:33.900 How many people access plastic surgery because they have a burn or a mutation versus how many people access?
00:09:41.900 cosmetic
00:09:42.860 Plastic surgery and that's it that closes that whole
00:09:46.060 Look how cheap it is
00:09:48.060 You can go to Colombia, yeah
00:09:50.060 You can get on payment plans like in the UK. We're more likely to go to Turkey etc
00:09:55.100 But my point is I'm not trying to dismiss anyone's position
00:09:59.420 But as a woman and I look at other women and I see the plastic surgery like on a day-to-day basis 0.99
00:10:06.700 They used to laugh at Michael Jackson some of these women we see today. They out they outdo Michael 1.00
00:10:11.580 I mean in the in relation to if you look at when you sit on the train in the underground the amount of women 1.00
00:10:26.860 I've got lip fillers enhancements of course you can do what you want
00:10:31.580 But the reality is how many women are paying paying for this stuff on payment plans that means you could never afford it 1.00
00:10:38.380 You couldn't afford it. Yeah, you're right
00:10:40.140 Even if it was in Dominican Republic
00:10:42.540 Turkey or whatever
00:10:43.500 So what that shows me is that you are folding to societal social conditioning and
00:10:50.700 Exactly and social media you're you're you're
00:10:54.780 Being acquiesced into
00:10:57.180 That kind of behavior
00:10:58.620 Don't forget that they're dying as well
00:11:00.620 I think it's vanity honestly
00:11:03.100 I think it's vanity and entitlement and not just like like I'm sorry if you're born a five or six you're average that's okay
00:11:08.620 That's normal, but the thing is like women are so entitled they feel like they're entitled to the top 20 percent of men top 10 percent of men 0.98
00:11:15.900 To be honest, I wouldn't say I'm a 10
00:11:18.620 But what I was always to is aim high right and a lot of women they aim high when it comes to men 1.00
00:11:23.740 They aim high and they want okay. I agree. They want the same types of men. They want the same category of men 0.74
00:11:29.580 um
00:11:30.140 But with makeup plastic surgery this gives them
00:11:34.300 The opportunity in general women opportunity to feel like
00:11:38.700 They're a 10 or whatever and the problem with that is in five years time
00:11:43.340 You're going to have to go back to doctor and get
00:11:46.860 A retouch you know the Kardashian mess everything up cost money
00:11:50.620 And if you date a woman who has plastic surgery and you're the sole provider that costs you money
00:11:56.460 That's that's the problem. I have with it
00:11:58.220 So if a man falls in love with you because of your image and you have plastic surgery
00:12:03.260 And he don't really know because a lot of women don't tell and remember there's a there's a man that sued a woman because he had babies with her
00:12:09.660 And the babies came out that her original thing. Do you remember that?
00:12:13.500 What? No, I
00:12:14.700 So you look it up. This is real
00:12:17.820 He won. He won. He actually won the case. I think it was in like it was like
00:12:21.820 What should I google?
00:12:23.020 Man devotes woman because of plastic surgery. It's in Asia, I think 1.00
00:12:28.060 So the children they came out how how she originally looked more like her. Was there a korean woman?
00:12:33.340 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you seen that right and he won the case. He won the case. Oh my god
00:12:39.100 It's crazy. Oh my god. She's crazy. Oh my god. Wait wait
00:12:43.100 She looks like a different. Oh, man. I gotta I got a blessing. I gotta email this to you
00:12:47.580 Hold on and just to close because you know, I think if you want to do plastic surgery and some people do it for
00:12:54.700 You know, if they have deformities, etc
00:12:57.340 But when you you know the bbls putting your life at risk 1.00
00:13:01.980 Yeah, I mean, what is that really sorry?
00:13:05.420 No, no, I'm saying I'm
00:13:06.780 Yeah, yeah, so what is that saying about your mindset? You're willing to risk your one life to look a certain way
00:13:12.940 It's vanity
00:13:14.940 I
00:13:16.940 Think that actually shows it shows how much better the world treats you when you're a young attractive women woman
00:13:24.220 And it shows it shows if anything it shows that women are willing to die for pretty privilege
00:13:30.060 I guess I
00:13:32.060 I'm gonna I'm gonna show
00:13:34.060 I mean, it's sad, but then like, you know, men just have to deal with it like men don't get that
00:13:39.660 But we should put it on screen because this is crazy. I can't even believe okay
00:13:43.980 Can you
00:13:45.980 No, no, no
00:13:47.980 Can you make it so they can see the reactions on the screen?
00:13:50.940 You got bamboozled
00:13:52.940 Okay, okay, it's the ugliest divorce in legal history 0.73
00:13:57.180 When husband Jian saw his newborn baby for the first time he was horrified
00:14:03.180 The girl was so ugly. He refused to believe that him and his stunning wife could have produced such a child
00:14:10.060 I
00:14:12.060 I
00:14:14.060 And he was grounded on his partner
00:14:16.940 Accusing her of having an affair
00:14:18.940 But she told her him the terrible truth her good looks were due to sixty two thousand pounds of plastic surgery and the baby was indeed the hit
00:14:29.100 Indeed theirs furious fang took her to court claiming that she tricked him into marriage and won the lawsuit
00:14:36.060 Yeah, thanks that I married my wife out of love, but as soon as we had the first our first daughter
00:14:42.620 We began having marital issues
00:14:45.340 Our daughter was incredibly ugly to the point 0.99
00:14:47.900 To the point where it horrified me
00:14:53.900 His lawyers
00:14:55.900 Oh, this is gold. Thank you for telling me about this
00:14:57.900 His lawyers told
00:14:59.900 Is he told his lawyers his wife fooled him by having plastic surgery to make her beautiful and it was only the birth of their daughter that gave it away?
00:15:07.900 Incredibly the court agreed and awarded fang seventy five thousand pounds
00:15:14.780 After his wife admitted she had not told him about the surgery a judge in nor a northern Chinese court said she had tricked fang into marrying her and granted a divorce
00:15:24.780 He also ruled that since fang had not been aware of the surgery his fight wife had used false premises
00:15:31.340 And that is why and she and she gave him back seventy five 0.94
00:15:36.380 You know what his own money, you know
00:15:38.060 If she didn't enclose the fact that she had surgery that's kind of fraud still it's not the same way how
00:15:44.060 Once again, I'm a short man, but if I get surgery to be six foot and I told and I don't tell the woman 0.93
00:15:48.860 Yeah, I'm thinking like I'm having NBA children
00:15:50.860 Exactly
00:15:52.860 I
00:15:54.860 Thought I'm gonna have to false advertising. Yeah, that's fraud
00:15:58.860 You know, could you imagine could you imagine looking at your baby and going you are an ugly ass baby 0.99
00:16:02.860 I mean he's also like half the reason
00:16:04.860 He's also like half the reason why that baby looks like that
00:16:06.860 Looking at your own child and going
00:16:08.860 Nah, bro
00:16:10.860 That's one at a time, one at a time
00:16:12.860 I'm just saying like that's a horrible story and I'm like horrified for every party the most horrified for the child
00:16:18.060 Um, but um, he's also half the reason that that child looks like that
00:16:22.060 Wow, do you just do you just think of every single woman?
00:16:26.060 Yes, I will
00:16:28.060 I can see it's like
00:16:30.060 It was like a girl my brother with his two friends. It's not her fault
00:16:34.060 I never said that it was not her fault
00:16:36.060 I never said that it was not her fault
00:16:38.060 It's like it's like I don't know why like women as women we have a gut reaction to every time we we say an uncomfortable or unflattering truth about women
00:16:46.060 It's like but men 0.99
00:16:48.060 Yes, but we can but we can say things about men and they don't do the same thing to us
00:16:52.060 Well, like if if I said on the show if I said you know what?
00:16:56.060 Um, there's a lack of masculinity in men today a lot of guys would probably agree they'd be like yeah, yeah, there is a lack of masculinity
00:17:02.060 Yeah, but you can't say that
00:17:04.060 But the issue with the but the difference is like you don't hear saying well, but women like this da da da da da da 1.00
00:17:10.060 Like it's like but as well
00:17:12.060 Yes, I do like I mean I mean I don't want to push back too much but I would argue I've had these conversations as I consider myself to be on the more traditional side like I like more masculine men
00:17:22.060 I want to have a traditional traditional ish 0.96
00:17:26.060 Like a relationship
00:17:28.060 But the point of matter is
00:17:30.060 The point of the matter is
00:17:32.060 I have a question, I have a question, are you virgin?
00:17:34.060 No
00:17:36.060 It's gone
00:17:38.060 I feel like you can still be traditional
00:17:40.060 Wow, you can act
00:17:42.060 I feel like you can still be
00:17:44.060 So then a man
00:17:46.060 Guys, guys
00:17:48.060 So is a man no longer able to be traditional if he's not a virgin? 0.90
00:17:50.060 No, no, because like you're putting men and women as they're the same but throughout all of history, they're not the same
00:17:56.060 Okay, I mean, okay, well, I don't want to have we can go back and forth that's not the argument
00:18:00.060 Men protect and provide when women are pure they're youthful and like they do things like you got a cookbook 1.00
00:18:06.060 Yes, I have a cookbook
00:18:08.060 You have a cookbook of your own apartment house
00:18:10.060 Are you supposed to remember all of those recipes?
00:18:12.060 No, I'm saying your own recipes in a cookbook
00:18:14.060 My own recipes?
00:18:15.060 Yeah
00:18:16.060 No, I have like family recipes but I have like booklet cookbooks I've gotten as gifts but I don't have my own recipes
00:18:21.060 Yeah, that's something like traditional women got their own cookbook, they're virgins, they're 22 1.00
00:18:25.060 I'm not any of those things, I'm 26
00:18:27.060 But that's like we can have that, that's a side tangent
00:18:30.060 The argument we were talking about is whether or not men are masculine
00:18:32.060 And you were saying like the whole but women conversation
00:18:35.060 So circling back to that
00:18:37.060 I've had conversations with women and men here in the UK specifically and talking about like oh like whether or not men should be masculine
00:18:45.060 Whether or not women should be masculine 1.00
00:18:46.060 What if masculinity and femininity exists anymore for just like people and like there is no there are no gender norms or gender 0.99
00:18:53.060 And I've had a lot of conversations with a lot of modern women who don't who and modern men who are just like oh yeah
00:19:00.060 We don't want masculine men like we don't want like and then or men don't feel like they have these things
00:19:05.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
00:19:06.060 So like I mean so you're saying oh you can't make a comment about women or sorry about about women but without saying the but men thing and I'm saying well that does occur on the other end as well
00:19:16.060 You don't want masculine men too 1.00
00:19:18.060 You're just competing with men 0.99
00:19:20.060 Guys guys guys wait wait wait wait
00:19:22.060 Okay, we're not we're not over talking me
00:19:24.060 Okay, so the the first part
00:19:26.060 I mean women say they don't want masculine men but then then they fuck the masculine ones like I see it happen all the time 1.00
00:19:32.060 They're they're like oh I want a more you know gender fluid neutral whatever and that's not necessarily have sex with usually
00:19:38.060 I mean I can't speak for other people so I don't know what people want
00:19:41.060 I know I am attracted to and that's all I'll speak for but but and then the the second part
00:19:46.060 It's just not this like I just said it in this room a full of men and I said like men lack masculinity today and nobody argued
00:19:54.060 And like that's that's my point is like would you say that women also lack femininity?
00:19:59.060 Yeah, yeah
00:20:00.060 Yeah
00:20:02.060 Yeah, yeah
00:20:04.060 The point the point is the gut reaction to anything that like puts woman in a bad light we have to say but men
00:20:10.060 Instead of just like one earlier when I said women spend more than men 0.79
00:20:14.060 They're like women are bad at spending we say well, but men but it's like okay 1.00
00:20:18.060 We spend half a million more in a lifetime even though we make less we get we're bad with money. It's okay. Doesn't mean we're bad people
00:20:24.060 I'm still gonna stick up for women 1.00
00:20:28.060 That's the system
00:20:30.060 That's the system
00:20:32.060 I mean I support women's right when we're wrong 0.90
00:20:34.060 She could be like this and sleep to that but she's like but, but, but 0.97
00:20:36.060 Yeah, you're right
00:20:38.060 But the men
00:20:40.060 I'm gonna like I'm gonna continue just like I'm gonna continue like if I'm I that's just my where my stance is
00:20:46.060 Because you want to be right
00:20:48.060 Wait
00:20:50.060 I'm not always right. I'm wrong a lot of the time maybe even more than half of the time, but I still will defend at women 1.00
00:20:58.060 Even when they're wrong
00:21:00.060 Yeah, yeah, even if someone that would
00:21:02.060 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, so did you just say you'll defend women even if they're wrong?
00:21:06.060 Oh, no, I thought you said if I'm happy to if I'm gonna be wrong
00:21:08.060 Oh, no, no, I'm saying like well women are rough women are wrong you call it out 1.00
00:21:12.060 Yeah, so so I'm saying the same way you would do with the man, right?
00:21:15.060 So I agree with you. I agree with you, but I'm saying what the way you're acting it's not the same so like okay?
00:21:22.060 I'll give you an example. Okay women women spend half a million dollars more in a life their lifetime than men 1.00
00:21:28.060 Even though we make less money. Yeah, but can I just how wait? Yeah, how how by and large are we not bad with money?
00:21:36.060 How by and large? I'm not saying don't like don't please please do not say there is exceptions
00:21:41.060 No, no, I was gonna say what if we throw the spanners in the work and say okay? 0.61
00:21:45.060 Women spend more because they spend men's money and they spend their money because they work 1.00
00:21:49.060 That's what it is. So they have more money because they're spending men's money and they're spending their money 0.97
00:21:55.060 You could argue that because there's more women on benefits and mostly men pay into benefits 0.99
00:22:00.060 So you could argue that and they're also like the more there's more women that have like student loan debt 1.00
00:22:05.060 I'm like women are I think 75% of like people in college are women and with debt are women and then we make 70 to 80% of consumer buying decisions
00:22:13.060 And like men always have to bail out women for their bad decisions 0.56
00:22:16.060 So like for example in the US right now like all the student loans that are like they're trying to write off
00:22:20.060 It's mostly women that took out those loans that they couldn't afford another men have to pay it off 0.98
00:22:24.060 So yeah, you're right. So they're spending more money. They have more money to spend even if it's not theirs
00:22:30.060 This is my point. They are spending more money even if it's not theirs and then you have the aspect
00:22:35.060 But they're single and childless so it's not like they're taking money from an individual men
00:22:39.060 It's like men at large that aren't a part of it have to pay for it as a society
00:22:43.060 Society that is run by men supports that and we as we acknowledge 1.00
00:22:49.060 It's not run by men women make 70 to 80% of consumer buying decisions and we're getting close to 50 50 in government 0.79
00:22:55.060 Yeah, but what I'm saying is we acknowledge yeah that women spend more yeah, and that that has always 0.99
00:23:02.060 Give or take been the case because men used to work and give their money to women right to spend it 0.78
00:23:09.060 Now women have the choice to work. So they have their own disposable income 1.00
00:23:13.060 Which they're spending on themselves and they're spending the men's body single parents were the different anomalies and not anomalies 0.90
00:23:21.060 But different groups, but but okay, but the only point are you disagreeing?
00:23:25.060 No, I'm agreeing that women spend more money and that's because society allows them to do so 1.00
00:23:32.060 Yeah, society bails women out for bad decisions like spending too much 1.00
00:23:37.060 It allows them to do it. Yes. Yes. Okay. Okay, guys, we're gonna do final thoughts
00:23:42.060 So I'm go around any social media you want to plug people can follow you. I'm not responsible if anyone sends you weird messages
00:23:51.060 But anyways any social media final thoughts you're welcome to say it now and go around in the second row
00:23:58.060 Um, I agree with what my cousin just said that this was depressing. I just see here, but I appreciate the conversation
00:24:05.060 Um, I don't have that big of a Instagram following, but you can follow me at Queen Kiela B
00:24:11.060 Queen Kiela my christen k-e-i-l-a-h-b-e-a
00:24:15.060 And yeah, it's so me weird messages. I guess
00:24:19.060 I'm not responsible
00:24:23.060 Um, you can
00:24:27.060 You can follow me on tick-tock at Aurora period underscore Victoria and the same for Instagram
00:24:34.060 Um, yeah, I'm not gonna say anything else
00:24:36.060 So my Instagram is unique dot x and just like my final thoughts on everything
00:24:44.060 I just feel like women in general just I believe they do have high expectations
00:24:48.060 But I still don't believe that women need to necessarily lower the expectations 0.99
00:24:54.060 I feel like you should just set what you believe you want for your life
00:24:57.060 And what you want in a man and if you're gonna get it you're gonna get it and if you won't you won't
00:25:03.060 But it's like at the end of the day
00:25:05.060 People can have their own expectations and some of the expectations that I've heard today
00:25:10.060 I don't think they're unjust in my opinion
00:25:12.060 But yeah
00:25:13.060 Um, my Instagram is the CJ Knight
00:25:19.060 I appreciate your night
00:25:22.060 Oh me
00:25:23.060 Um, shit, sorry
00:25:25.060 Um, you can follow me on Instagram
00:25:26.060 I
00:25:27.060 Well, my name is ink underscore by underscore Steve
00:25:33.060 Um, my final thoughts on
00:25:35.060 Sorry, I hear something on my throat
00:25:37.060 It's probably all those buds
00:25:40.060 Hold on
00:25:41.060 Here, I'll let you
00:25:43.060 You want a second?
00:25:44.060 Yeah, let me just go
00:25:45.060 Okay, so why don't you guys go?
00:25:46.060 Yeah, um
00:25:48.060 So, final thoughts
00:25:49.060 The last thing I wanna say
00:25:50.060 Whilst we're on this big platform and that
00:25:52.060 Mandam, stop being simps innit 0.99
00:25:54.060 Like, it's not gonna get you any girls innit 0.68
00:25:56.060 So, I just wanna put that message out there
00:25:58.060 Um, if you wanna follow me on my social media
00:26:00.060 Man's got three YouTube channels
00:26:02.060 One is a reaction channel
00:26:04.060 Which is called Scoobs and Reacts
00:26:06.060 Scoobs is spelt with a Z at the end
00:26:08.060 And Reacts is spelt with two Zs 0.97
00:26:10.060 All the other ones
00:26:12.060 I've got a Pets channel
00:26:13.060 I've got a snake
00:26:14.060 And a Mori eel
00:26:15.060 And I talk about investing in Pokemon cards
00:26:17.060 If you wanna check that
00:26:18.060 Check my Insta
00:26:19.060 Scooby underscore Valentino
00:26:21.060 Links in the description and that
00:26:23.060 And that's it really
00:26:25.060 Uh, you can find me on Instagram
00:26:28.060 Didus underscore base
00:26:30.060 Where I'm just playing with my base and what not
00:26:33.060 Um, if you're into weird R&B
00:26:35.060 Go to my Spotify
00:26:37.060 Uh, Danny Becker
00:26:39.060 Uh, final thoughts
00:26:41.060 Um, I just wanna say this to virgin men 0.83
00:26:45.060 And virgin women as well as a whole 1.00
00:26:47.060 Like, don't be ashamed of being a virgin
00:26:49.060 Because like, I know society gives you a bad time
00:26:53.060 But, um, just stick to your lines, stick to your goals
00:26:57.060 Like, just, you know, live your life
00:27:00.060 And don't worry what others think
00:27:02.060 Because at the end of the day
00:27:03.060 You're not gonna be, you know, childless
00:27:05.060 And single and miserable
00:27:07.060 You might have a husband or a wife
00:27:10.060 That actually supports you
00:27:12.060 Because you haven't been through that much trauma
00:27:17.060 As I want to put it that way
00:27:19.060 So yeah, uh, that's my thoughts
00:27:22.060 Final thoughts
00:27:24.060 Um, we live in a very
00:27:26.060 We live in a very, very, uh
00:27:29.060 In a terrible world at the moment in my opinion
00:27:31.060 Um, that's what I feel
00:27:33.060 Uh, women are competing with men 1.00
00:27:36.060 It's not good
00:27:37.060 It's destroying us
00:27:38.060 We need each other
00:27:39.060 We're not separate
00:27:40.060 We're not separate
00:27:41.060 And the continuation of that
00:27:43.060 Is one situation where women are trying to be men 0.99
00:27:46.060 That's terrible
00:27:47.060 I watched The Woman King and The Black Panther
00:27:50.060 And I was literally depressed
00:27:52.060 You know, at how they portray black men
00:27:54.060 And feminizing black men 1.00
00:27:56.060 At the present moment
00:27:57.060 And, um, I just feel like
00:28:00.060 What I do know is just terrible
00:28:02.060 It's terrible, I think
00:28:03.060 Things need to, things need to change
00:28:05.060 Um, we need each other more than we need to be separate
00:28:09.060 And that's the world
00:28:11.060 That's the only way life is going to continue
00:28:13.060 We're making us decide that they're going to be men
00:28:15.060 And men start becoming women 0.94
00:28:17.060 It's not the way it's supposed to be
00:28:18.060 That's my opinion
00:28:19.060 But yeah, my socials
00:28:22.060 My name, uh, Instagram is
00:28:24.060 IamJosephSadeep
00:28:25.060 That's S-A-D-I-P-E 1.00
00:28:27.060 Um, on TikTok
00:28:29.060 Uh, I am L-I-L Joe Sadeep
00:28:32.060 Little Joe Sadeep
00:28:34.060 And the same handle for my Twitch
00:28:36.060 And I have a YouTube
00:28:37.060 I'm trying to get to hundreds of subs
00:28:41.060 So help a brother out, innit?
00:28:44.060 As you know, my final thoughts will always be the same
00:28:49.060 To the ladies
00:28:50.060 The future is not feminist, it's family 0.99
00:28:52.060 To the mandem
00:28:53.060 Facts
00:28:54.060 Please just be resilient
00:28:56.060 Stay strong
00:28:57.060 There's good women out here 1.00
00:28:58.060 Ready to love you
00:28:59.060 Ready to be your partner
00:29:02.060 Your woman
00:29:04.060 So don't give up
00:29:05.060 You know, be a man
00:29:07.060 And when I say be a man
00:29:08.060 Don't say for me
00:29:09.060 But be a man
00:29:10.060 That stands his ground
00:29:12.060 And has direction
00:29:13.060 Has purpose
00:29:14.060 And I'm sure
00:29:16.060 I'm sure the right woman will find you 0.95
00:29:18.060 And you will find her
00:29:20.060 If you're single
00:29:21.060 And no simping, right?
00:29:23.060 No, the simpidemic
00:29:26.060 The simpidemic
00:29:27.060 The simpidemic
00:29:28.060 It will wipe itself out
00:29:29.060 Hopefully
00:29:30.060 If we stick to this
00:29:31.060 And I just want to say
00:29:33.060 You know, to everybody here
00:29:34.060 And everyone who watches the show
00:29:36.060 You know, don't watch everyone around you
00:29:39.060 You know, look at yourself
00:29:40.060 Be reflective
00:29:41.060 Be present in the moment
00:29:43.060 Enjoy your life
00:29:44.060 Don't allow social media
00:29:46.060 To cloud your brain
00:29:48.060 Cloud the way you spend
00:29:49.060 Cloud the way you love
00:29:51.060 Just continue to be
00:29:53.060 The best version of yourself
00:29:55.060 And with all the setbacks in life
00:29:57.060 Just look at it
00:29:58.060 And build yourself up
00:29:59.060 Because life is not easy
00:30:01.060 It never has been
00:30:02.060 You know, and
00:30:04.060 What can I say?
00:30:05.060 But
00:30:06.060 Just to close off
00:30:07.060 I think that
00:30:08.060 Men and women
00:30:09.060 We need to work together more
00:30:10.060 Stick together more
00:30:12.060 And if we do that
00:30:13.060 We will end up in a better place
00:30:15.060 If you, you know
00:30:16.060 If you don't know
00:30:17.060 My handle is Hey Hala
00:30:19.060 I might accept
00:30:21.060 It's on private
00:30:22.060 But yeah, I'm there
00:30:23.060 So yeah
00:30:24.060 You guys are like
00:30:25.060 A private Instagram
00:30:26.060 Oh my god
00:30:27.060 Yeah, I have to
00:30:28.060 I got to read it the last time
00:30:29.060 So that's kind of like
00:30:30.060 Then you want to go?
00:30:31.060 Anything else?
00:30:32.060 What she said
00:30:33.060 Exactly what she said
00:30:34.060 Okay, guys
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