JustPearlyThings - November 22, 2023


She Gets MOCKED for Being DISHONEST About Beauty Standard


Episode Stats

Length

27 minutes

Words per Minute

215.42822

Word Count

5,953

Sentence Count

703


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Okay, what would you do to your number?
00:00:02.000 It depends what day it is. Are you a lover?
00:00:04.000 Today.
00:00:05.000 I'm like, okay.
00:00:06.000 Ten.
00:00:10.000 I'd probably go down and say, I need some volume, but seven.
00:00:15.000 I'll go down lower a second. Personality makes it better.
00:00:18.000 Okay, seven? You said seven?
00:00:20.000 Okay, go ahead.
00:00:21.000 I'm sticking with my answer.
00:00:23.000 Okay, okay.
00:00:24.000 Yeah, give my answer.
00:00:25.000 Ten.
00:00:26.000 Okay, did anyone switch it?
00:00:27.000 Why don't we go through this again?
00:00:29.000 No, I'm gonna switch it.
00:00:31.000 I'm gonna bring it down to a six, I think.
00:00:33.000 A six? Okay.
00:00:34.000 Okay.
00:00:35.000 You're pretty.
00:00:36.000 Very.
00:00:37.000 You got me blushing.
00:00:38.000 She's not gonna have no baggage either.
00:00:40.000 My point is, outside of me, no one rated themselves as average from the women.
00:00:45.000 And most people are average.
00:00:46.000 I'm not an average girl.
00:00:47.000 So what's average then?
00:00:48.000 I'm not an average babe.
00:00:50.000 I think most people are average.
00:00:52.000 No one thinks they're average.
00:00:54.000 If you think that's average, that's absolutely fine.
00:00:57.000 No, but the point is like women tend to overrate themselves.
00:01:00.000 Yeah.
00:01:01.000 Confidence is a lot though.
00:01:02.000 I feel like if girls ain't got confidence, it makes a lot of issues within the Senate and
00:01:04.000 the relationship.
00:01:05.000 So if you ain't got confidence.
00:01:06.000 That's a fair point actually.
00:01:07.000 How do you suffer?
00:01:08.000 How do you suffer?
00:01:09.000 How do you suffer?
00:01:10.000 How do you suffer?
00:01:11.000 How do you suffer?
00:01:12.000 How do you suffer?
00:01:13.000 The sickest thing a woman can wear is that confidence.
00:01:14.000 Let's bring up from school.
00:01:15.000 No, but how do you suffer?
00:01:16.000 Let's bring up the patriarchy.
00:01:17.000 Let's bring up the patriarchy.
00:01:18.000 It's from succeeding in school as a child, to like jobs, to like doing anything.
00:01:22.000 To be successful, you know what?
00:01:23.000 Bro, bro, bro.
00:01:24.000 You need to come on this platform and hold a mic in front of yourself.
00:01:26.000 You have to have a level of confidence.
00:01:27.000 You've got to look in your mirror and believe in your soul.
00:01:28.000 How can you not?
00:01:29.000 I'm being realistic.
00:01:30.000 Okay.
00:01:31.000 Okay.
00:01:32.000 Okay.
00:01:33.000 Okay.
00:01:34.000 I agree with you.
00:01:35.000 I think confidence is important if you have like the stuff to back it up.
00:01:40.000 So if you're going to come on a podcast and you can't talk, it doesn't matter how confident
00:01:45.000 you are.
00:01:46.000 You still can't talk.
00:01:47.000 If you're going to rate yourself a 10 and you're not a 10, like it doesn't make you a
00:01:52.000 10.
00:01:53.000 And that's fine.
00:01:54.000 That's fine if you think you're average because there are some people that are average.
00:01:57.000 But you see me.
00:01:58.000 Let me tell you a lot.
00:02:01.000 No, no, no, wait, wait, wait, wait, because obviously you know me personally.
00:02:06.000 But I'm just saying that in a room full of people that don't know me, I'm not going
00:02:11.000 to water down how I feel when I'm by myself.
00:02:13.000 Let me ask you a question.
00:02:14.000 Let me ask you a question.
00:02:15.000 I do agree that there's some people are average.
00:02:16.000 Let me, let me, okay.
00:02:17.000 Let me ask you a question.
00:02:18.000 What celebrity do you think is a 10?
00:02:20.000 I'll be honest with you.
00:02:21.000 Give me, give me one slip, please.
00:02:23.000 Please don't make this complicated.
00:02:24.000 I'm not going to make it complicated, but I'm not going to lie to you.
00:02:27.000 I know you answer the questions and I'm here to answer, but I can't.
00:02:30.000 I'm not a celebrity.
00:02:31.000 I'm not a fan of celebrities.
00:02:32.000 Okay.
00:02:33.000 Okay.
00:02:34.000 You know what?
00:02:35.000 Let me ask someone else.
00:02:36.000 Can someone raise your hand if you can give me, give me a, okay.
00:02:40.000 Rihanna.
00:02:41.000 Rihanna.
00:02:42.000 Do you, do you feel like you're as pretty as Rihanna?
00:02:43.000 Do I think as pretty as Rihanna?
00:02:44.000 Yeah.
00:02:45.000 I wouldn't compare myself to Rihanna.
00:02:46.000 Why?
00:02:47.000 Do you know?
00:02:48.000 Wait, why?
00:02:49.000 Why wouldn't you compare yourself to Rihanna?
00:02:54.000 Because I just wouldn't.
00:02:56.000 I don't look at other girls and compare myself.
00:02:58.000 Okay.
00:02:59.000 That's just, that's just something I don't do.
00:03:01.000 I find it really strange what other people do.
00:03:02.000 But you know what?
00:03:03.000 We're talking very, very like vapid, very, very like looks based only.
00:03:08.000 Yeah.
00:03:09.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:10.000 Yeah.
00:03:11.000 Looks based only.
00:03:12.000 If you're going to be fucking like, conceded.
00:03:14.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:15.000 And compare yourself to Rihanna.
00:03:17.000 Look at Rihanna and then look at you.
00:03:18.000 And then be like, you know what?
00:03:20.000 Let's say who's Penga.
00:03:22.000 Yeah.
00:03:23.000 Why wouldn't you compare yourself to Rihanna?
00:03:24.000 I don't do that.
00:03:25.000 Because I'm not Rihanna.
00:03:26.000 But on the basis of this conversation, just give us a comparison please.
00:03:29.000 If I had to compare myself to Rihanna, if you lot force me to look at Rihanna.
00:03:32.000 I'm forcing you.
00:03:33.000 I'm forcing you.
00:03:34.000 And say who's prettier, I wouldn't say she's prettier than me.
00:03:37.000 And I'm being honest.
00:03:38.000 And that's words.
00:03:39.000 Stick to your words.
00:03:40.000 And I'm not even saying that just to be difficult.
00:03:43.000 Like, I don't want to be difficult.
00:03:44.000 That's fair enough.
00:03:45.000 But that's actually how I feel.
00:03:46.000 I mean, it's just like.
00:03:47.000 I'm living my truth.
00:03:48.000 If you ask me to compare myself to her, I'm crawling back in the uterus now.
00:03:53.000 Yeah.
00:03:54.000 I'm crawling back.
00:03:55.000 I take my life back because she's sexy.
00:03:58.000 But then that's why before we were saying that some women are delusional.
00:04:02.000 I'm not saying that you're not pretty, but I'm saying that to say that Rihanna's not
00:04:09.000 pretty than you.
00:04:10.000 I never said that.
00:04:11.000 What did you say?
00:04:12.000 What did you say?
00:04:13.000 What did you say?
00:04:14.000 Sorry, sorry.
00:04:15.000 Sorry.
00:04:16.000 What did you say?
00:04:17.000 I said I wouldn't compare myself.
00:04:18.000 I never said Rihanna is not pretty.
00:04:19.000 She's not pretty than me.
00:04:20.000 I would never say that.
00:04:21.000 I just can't compare myself.
00:04:22.000 And you said if you had to.
00:04:23.000 But if you had to, yeah.
00:04:24.000 No, but if you had to.
00:04:25.000 If I had to.
00:04:26.000 You did.
00:04:27.000 You did.
00:04:28.000 You did.
00:04:29.000 Exactly.
00:04:30.000 So that's what I'm saying.
00:04:31.000 If I had to, I wouldn't say she's pretty.
00:04:32.000 Exactly.
00:04:33.000 So that's why I'm saying that.
00:04:34.000 But that's why I'm saying that.
00:04:35.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:04:36.000 But that's why I'm saying that before we were saying that some of the women are a little
00:04:39.000 bit delusional.
00:04:40.000 Yeah, that's fine.
00:04:41.000 Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.
00:04:43.000 Guys, guys, guys, okay, okay.
00:04:44.000 I'm delusional.
00:04:45.000 But you see, this is like, honestly, I'm not even trying to be rude.
00:04:48.000 You just proved my point.
00:04:49.000 That women are delusional.
00:04:50.000 Yeah.
00:04:51.000 Yeah, my girl.
00:04:52.000 The thing is, you know what it is.
00:04:53.000 And I'm not even saying you're not, like, I'm not even trying to insult your looks.
00:04:56.000 It's just, it's Rihanna.
00:04:57.000 No, it's fine.
00:04:58.000 That's all in your opinion.
00:04:59.000 The thing is, though, we got to this point in the conversation.
00:05:00.000 Have you seen her in real life?
00:05:01.000 Have you seen Rihanna in real life?
00:05:02.000 Okay, wait.
00:05:03.000 That's true, though.
00:05:04.000 That's true, though.
00:05:05.000 How many of you have seen Rihanna in real life?
00:05:06.000 That's true, though.
00:05:07.000 How many of you have seen Rihanna in real life?
00:05:08.000 That's true, though.
00:05:09.000 How many of you know about FaceTune and all them apps like that?
00:05:10.000 That's all true, she's spitting.
00:05:19.000 I just want to say, I don't disagree with you.
00:05:21.000 There are some women that are delusional.
00:05:22.000 There are some women that rate themselves higher, and they have nothing to offer.
00:05:26.000 But I'm just here to tell you, ladies and gentlemen, I'm not one of them.
00:05:30.000 And I don't care if you think that's all.
00:05:32.000 But you can understand.
00:05:33.000 The thing is, every single person in this room can say, you're dead.
00:05:35.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:05:36.000 No, no, no, wait.
00:05:37.000 Zings, zings.
00:05:38.000 But you can understand why some people might think that what you just said.
00:05:41.000 It's delusional.
00:05:42.000 You can understand it, right?
00:05:43.000 That's fine.
00:05:44.000 But that goes back to you.
00:05:45.000 That goes back to you.
00:05:46.000 But that goes back to me.
00:05:47.000 I'm a millionaire.
00:05:48.000 But if you don't have money in the bank account, it doesn't matter.
00:05:50.000 I don't think that's the same thing.
00:05:51.000 Just because you say something.
00:05:52.000 And I'm not trying to, just because, just because, like, like, Tens, I'm sorry.
00:05:56.000 I'm not even trying to be rude, but Tens get modeling contracts.
00:05:58.000 They're in Hollywood.
00:05:59.000 Okay.
00:06:00.000 And I thought, why can't I be a model?
00:06:01.000 It doesn't even matter.
00:06:02.000 It doesn't even matter.
00:06:03.000 It doesn't.
00:06:04.000 Wait, wait, wait.
00:06:05.000 They're in, they could be in a small town in the middle of nowhere.
00:06:07.000 Hollywood will find Tens.
00:06:08.000 Hold on, hold on.
00:06:09.000 They find them.
00:06:10.000 Okay, there are people out there that can sing.
00:06:11.000 They're not singers.
00:06:12.000 There are people out there that can cook.
00:06:13.000 They're not chefs.
00:06:14.000 Anyway.
00:06:15.000 Let me back you.
00:06:16.000 Let me back you.
00:06:17.000 Let me back you.
00:06:18.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:19.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:20.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:21.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:22.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:23.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:24.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:25.000 Guys, guys, guys, one at a time.
00:06:26.000 That was a weak example.
00:06:27.000 So just because, like, everybody's saying something, it doesn't mean.
00:06:30.000 Everybody was taking certain tests and stuff recently.
00:06:32.000 And you get me?
00:06:33.000 Like, they was all wrong.
00:06:34.000 So just because everybody's saying something, it doesn't mean it's the truth.
00:06:37.000 Okay?
00:06:38.000 Like, everyone, like, Rihanna, Rihanna, da, da, da, da.
00:06:41.000 Okay.
00:06:42.000 Me personally, I'm not a fan of makeup.
00:06:44.000 Not that.
00:06:45.000 I'm going to be real.
00:06:46.000 No one cares.
00:06:47.000 Whoever said that, I want to talk a lot.
00:06:50.000 That's a bit of insecurity there, but we don't talk about that.
00:06:53.000 But listen, my personal preference, my personal preference, if I see a girl, if I see four
00:06:59.000 girls, the one that's not got makeup on, I'm going to look first.
00:07:03.000 Or who has less.
00:07:04.000 Let's say that.
00:07:05.000 So you can't really be on, oh, yeah, she's prettier than this, she's prettier than that.
00:07:09.000 You're all capping, innit?
00:07:10.000 Because really and truly, like, you know, if she rates herself more than Rihanna, then boom.
00:07:16.000 But I think everyone as well is confusing pretty and sexy.
00:07:20.000 I'm going to get into that.
00:07:21.000 Let me hear what you're going to say.
00:07:22.000 Pretty is your face.
00:07:23.000 Like, that's how somebody looks at your face and say, oh, like, if we, if you're all, everyone's
00:07:37.000 all dressed up in like, you can't see nobody.
00:07:39.000 Then like, who are we picking?
00:07:42.000 Who are you picking?
00:07:43.000 Sexy is the whole picture.
00:07:45.000 Like, who do I want to take home out of all fronts?
00:07:48.000 I didn't know this.
00:07:49.000 I didn't know that.
00:07:50.000 Can I add to you what you just said?
00:07:51.000 Because I think they're, they're, I've lost my train of thought.
00:07:54.000 All right, guys, guys.
00:07:55.000 I'm going to, I'm going to take a second to read super chats.
00:07:58.000 Blessing, if you want to.
00:07:59.000 Okay.
00:08:00.000 Okay.
00:08:01.000 Okay, guys.
00:08:02.000 Thank you for the super chats.
00:08:03.000 These are all going towards a monopod for Blessing.
00:08:06.000 Basically, that is when we go out and do street interviews.
00:08:08.000 We want to.
00:08:14.000 Okay.
00:08:15.000 He, he muted my mic for a second.
00:08:16.000 Okay.
00:08:17.000 We want to up the production quality of street interviews.
00:08:19.000 So, um, I think it like balances the camera.
00:08:22.000 I don't even know.
00:08:23.000 I'm sorry, guys.
00:08:24.000 Okay.
00:08:25.000 So, um, like the video, make sure you guys are liking the video.
00:08:27.000 And we have over 2000 people in here watching live.
00:08:29.000 So it is really important that you guys like that is the number one metric that YouTube uses
00:08:33.000 to push out this content.
00:08:34.000 Okay.
00:08:35.000 Alistair Horton.
00:08:36.000 Everyone thought the earth was flat before.
00:08:37.000 And look how that ended.
00:08:38.000 Steven Roberts.
00:08:39.000 They're all average.
00:08:40.000 They can't compare themselves to celebs or millionaires when they aren't accomplished
00:08:43.000 or good looking.
00:08:44.000 It's very delusional.
00:08:45.000 Attraction is determined by others, not yourself.
00:08:47.000 J Rob GC and team energy.
00:08:49.000 Pearl loved the show, but pleased for the love of God.
00:08:51.000 Stop saying over talking.
00:08:52.000 You should be saying stop over, stop talking over me.
00:08:56.000 This is eighth grade English.
00:08:57.000 Gus.
00:08:58.000 Yes.
00:08:59.000 We want, we want pick me girls.
00:09:00.000 Boss babes are masculine AF.
00:09:02.000 We don't care about your money status and success.
00:09:05.000 We don't care about your money status success.
00:09:08.000 We want no 304s.
00:09:09.000 Femininity complicit, compliant, fit, and friendly.
00:09:14.000 Silly sausage.
00:09:15.000 Maternal age impacts the success of IVF.
00:09:20.000 31% in women younger than 35.
00:09:23.000 24% in women aged 35 to 37.
00:09:26.000 16% in women aged 38 to 40.
00:09:29.000 Men's minimum cost is 30 grand up to, 30 grand up to 120 grand.
00:09:35.000 Um, major leaves, um, sperm bank lock, um, Charles, uh, and a man.
00:09:41.000 Um, men can control fertility with an implant structured like a inline shredder inserted into
00:09:47.000 a tube leading to the prostate gland.
00:09:49.000 Invest, save flights.
00:09:50.000 Um, some maintain, um, the blonde girl on the couch is the most wifey, um, domain keeper.
00:09:57.000 The baby is always planned only by the woman, um, Charles, and a man.
00:10:01.000 Men, um, option to be fertile.
00:10:03.000 See the movie children of men having children.
00:10:05.000 If you are past your birthing prime, a fellow woman who is in the same situation to marry
00:10:10.000 and petition and to adopt children, major leagues, then claim legacy versus genetically.
00:10:16.000 You, they, they claim legacy versus genetically.
00:10:21.000 You want work here, here works.
00:10:24.000 When you give birth to one son or daughter, you stay with that same person.
00:10:28.000 Here's why.
00:10:29.000 The um, um, umbilical cord of the second offspring can save the child from diseases.
00:10:33.000 Also avoid AIDS and HIV.
00:10:36.000 The UK economist.
00:10:37.000 Do your guests know that our nation needs a certain percentage of babies to replace future
00:10:42.000 taxpayers, our economy and social care systems and dependent on future are dependent on future
00:10:47.000 taxpayers.
00:10:48.000 Alistair Horton.
00:10:49.000 Most women are emotionally unstable at the best times, um, at the best of times when they
00:10:54.000 are pregnant.
00:10:55.000 It's like they get a different hormonal, hormonal injection every day at least.
00:11:00.000 The savvy ninja.
00:11:01.000 I grew up thinking I would have kids, got to be an adult and started rethinking it.
00:11:04.000 After I passed 35 years old, snip snip, no kids.
00:11:07.000 Legacy can be carried on beyond just last name and children.
00:11:10.000 Gus.
00:11:11.000 We are put on this world to procreate selfish 304s.
00:11:15.000 Um, Josh Nixon.
00:11:16.000 When birth control was invented, studies and tests were conducted.
00:11:20.000 When birth control was invented, the studies and tests conducted were inhumane and only
00:11:26.000 being made for women.
00:11:27.000 So that, so for that happened today that the test for male birth control would be against
00:11:32.000 the law.
00:11:33.000 Doug MPA.
00:11:34.000 It's easier to stop one egg each month than millions of sperm for a man.
00:11:37.000 They haven't perfected a way to stop the little swimmers constantly.
00:11:41.000 Um, domain keeper.
00:11:42.000 They belong to the streets.
00:11:43.000 Uh, Gus.
00:11:44.000 Um, the saddest demo of people, the saddest demo of people in the West are 40 plus year
00:11:49.000 old women making 50K a year.
00:11:51.000 No family and kids.
00:11:52.000 Menopause can begin as early as 40 and you're on a hundred times more emotional.
00:11:57.000 Domain keeper.
00:11:58.000 Girl, your eggs are gone already.
00:11:59.000 Let me refresh the page one second.
00:12:02.000 Um, okay.
00:12:04.000 Um, the one in the black is so insecure.
00:12:09.000 She's afraid to contend with the reality that she's severely mid.
00:12:11.000 The only girl who isn't is, um, the only girl who isn't kid is the one who isn't fully
00:12:17.000 mid with a blonde with the tattoos.
00:12:19.000 Dennis, um, bat matcher.
00:12:21.000 Big fan.
00:12:22.000 How do I get on your show?
00:12:23.000 You DM the pregame show.
00:12:24.000 Um, Dylan chillin.
00:12:26.000 Women in the black is an example of the delusion of the women.
00:12:29.000 She's a four tops and the blondie in the middle is certainly, is most certainly not an eight,
00:12:34.000 a solid four without makeup.
00:12:35.000 Uh, the bikini bottom.
00:12:36.000 Of course, the gray shirt in the back and the memigand on the left of the couch are loud
00:12:41.000 and crass.
00:12:42.000 They're rude and masculine.
00:12:43.000 No commitment.
00:12:44.000 We'll find you.
00:12:45.000 Alistar.
00:12:46.000 Oh, I read that one.
00:12:47.000 We'll watch it one more time and then we'll go back to the show.
00:12:49.000 Also guys like the video.
00:12:50.000 There should be over a thousand likes on this video.
00:12:53.000 Um, we're at 607.
00:12:55.000 The next time I look, we better be at a thousand.
00:12:57.000 There are over 2000 people watching live.
00:13:00.000 Um, I'm sorry guys.
00:13:01.000 I know I'm not good at reading the super chats.
00:13:03.000 Okay.
00:13:04.000 Um, okay.
00:13:05.000 So we have, why don't we introduce the new faces on the panel?
00:13:09.000 Um, we basically got a whole new panel.
00:13:12.000 We had over booking tonight.
00:13:13.000 So, um, China, you want to start?
00:13:17.000 Oh, we have to unmute the mics.
00:13:22.000 Okay.
00:13:23.000 Go ahead.
00:13:24.000 Yeah.
00:13:25.000 Am I a new face?
00:13:26.000 I'm not.
00:13:27.000 I mean, just introduce yourself for the people that don't know you.
00:13:29.000 Okay.
00:13:30.000 Um, what camera am I?
00:13:31.000 Listen, my name is China.
00:13:32.000 The mandem's voice.
00:13:33.000 Uh, yeah.
00:13:35.000 It's nice to be on the show again.
00:13:37.000 Shout out to you over there.
00:13:39.000 Uh, my name is Bonnie.
00:13:42.000 Thanks for writing the show.
00:13:44.000 Okay.
00:13:45.000 Go ahead.
00:13:46.000 Hi.
00:13:47.000 I'm Ruth.
00:13:48.000 Um, I'm 40 and I'm a mom.
00:13:50.000 Okay.
00:13:51.000 Hey guys.
00:13:52.000 It's Miriam.
00:13:53.000 It's nice to be back.
00:13:55.000 MK.
00:13:56.000 Um, if they're going to share blessing, can one of them go there?
00:14:00.000 If they're going to share is someone is some, oh, is she coming back?
00:14:03.000 Okay.
00:14:04.000 That's fine.
00:14:05.000 Um, okay.
00:14:06.000 So, um, let me go back to the questions.
00:14:12.000 Okay.
00:14:13.000 So going back to Jennifer Aniston, would you guys consider having a child by yourself if
00:14:22.000 you couldn't find a partner?
00:14:24.000 Absolutely not.
00:14:25.000 No?
00:14:26.000 None.
00:14:27.000 Um, no, cause I want my child to have a father figure.
00:14:32.000 Okay.
00:14:33.000 What about you?
00:14:34.000 Certainly a reason.
00:14:35.000 I want to give my child the best opportunity, so.
00:14:37.000 Okay.
00:14:38.000 I think, I think it's quite obvious.
00:14:40.000 I don't want children.
00:14:41.000 Okay.
00:14:42.000 Okay.
00:14:43.000 In the back.
00:14:44.000 No, I wouldn't.
00:14:45.000 No.
00:14:46.000 Well, I have a child, um, by myself, but, um, I wouldn't do it again.
00:14:49.000 I wait until I'm married.
00:14:50.000 Okay.
00:14:51.000 Um, what made you guys say that?
00:14:53.000 Why wouldn't you?
00:14:54.000 Cause a lot of people are considering IVF nowadays and having a child on their own.
00:14:59.000 Yeah.
00:15:00.000 I just think when I look at my own life, I feel like it would have been completely different
00:15:05.000 without a father figure.
00:15:06.000 And I think as much as big up to like single moms and stuff, they want to give that to their
00:15:13.000 child.
00:15:14.000 I think there are certain qualities as a woman that you can't give a child because you're
00:15:18.000 not a man and I feel like with, for example, when you get into puberty and stuff as a child,
00:15:24.000 you have very different convos with your mom than you have with your dad and you take
00:15:28.000 away things from both of them.
00:15:29.000 And I feel like that's irreplaceable.
00:15:31.000 You can't give the same advice as a woman because you simply don't have the same brain
00:15:35.000 as a man.
00:15:36.000 So, yeah.
00:15:37.000 What about you guys?
00:15:38.000 Mine, um, is just from my own experience.
00:15:41.000 Like my parents are still, it's actually their anniversary today, 34 years, big them up.
00:15:46.000 Um, and I just think I've grew up in that environment of having like a loving family and being supported
00:15:53.000 as a loving family.
00:15:54.000 So I can't imagine kind of not giving my children that.
00:15:57.000 It's like, maybe it's the white picket fence fantasy that I have, but that's how I kind
00:16:01.000 of want my future.
00:16:03.000 I just don't want to give, put any child in position where like the other ladies have
00:16:09.000 said, they're going to be like, just basically not have the influence of a father figure.
00:16:16.000 Pretty much that.
00:16:17.000 Yeah.
00:16:18.000 Okay.
00:16:19.000 Me personally, I, I think see it from the perspective of, I would never have a child out of wedlock.
00:16:24.000 Like I would have to be married, just preference, morals, whatever, whatever.
00:16:29.000 So if I was to never get married or never get to that point, I wouldn't bring a child into
00:16:34.000 this world.
00:16:35.000 Yeah.
00:16:36.000 Just every child needs a mother and a father.
00:16:38.000 Obviously situations and things happen that that is not the case, but I think to go into
00:16:43.000 it without, you know, denying that child, a mother or a father or a father, should I say
00:16:49.000 it's selfish.
00:16:50.000 I was about to ask, do you guys think it's selfish women that do that?
00:16:55.000 Depends.
00:16:56.000 And this is for the men too.
00:16:58.000 You guys can weigh in.
00:16:59.000 Yeah.
00:17:00.000 It depends on their situation.
00:17:01.000 Depends on what, I mean, the situation is there's no dad.
00:17:04.000 Okay.
00:17:05.000 Yeah.
00:17:06.000 But it might not have been the choice, you know?
00:17:09.000 So, okay, let's, let's take me.
00:17:11.000 I don't have kids.
00:17:12.000 Let's say I'm 35.
00:17:13.000 Would it be selfish in this situation?
00:17:15.000 I'm 35 and I, no prospects.
00:17:19.000 It's just, you know, my DMs are a desert.
00:17:21.000 It's horrible.
00:17:22.000 And so I say, you know what?
00:17:25.000 I want a child.
00:17:27.000 So I'm going to go to the IVF clinic and I'm going to do it.
00:17:30.000 Or I'm going to, I don't, I don't know.
00:17:32.000 I don't know the science behind it.
00:17:33.000 I don't think it's selfish, but I think you need to think about, you know, what can you
00:17:39.000 offer the child?
00:17:40.000 Can you, cause you want your child to grow up in certain conditions, right?
00:17:44.000 So do you have enough money to provide for the child?
00:17:47.000 Do you have, maybe have a male figure around you?
00:17:50.000 Um, maybe your brother, your dad that can still support your child as a man.
00:17:56.000 So you don't think it's selfish to expect that out of them?
00:17:59.000 No, because again, before you have a child, I would have locked that in.
00:18:04.000 I would have already like thought about these things.
00:18:07.000 Do I have money for this?
00:18:09.000 Do I have men around me that can support my child, that can offer that guidance?
00:18:14.000 If I don't, then I'm, then I may not have a child because again, it's a life.
00:18:20.000 You want to offer someone the best life that you can give, right?
00:18:23.000 If I'm not in that position, I'm not going to have a child.
00:18:26.000 Okay. What do you guys think?
00:18:27.000 Well, you said no prospects.
00:18:29.000 So I'd say that's kind of selfish if you had prospects.
00:18:32.000 Cause what you really bring into the table as like, as a sole person, you're not really bringing like the love and the support.
00:18:39.000 You might be able to, to a certain extent, but by yourself, that's hard.
00:18:42.000 Like, I wouldn't really want to wish that on someone.
00:18:45.000 Okay.
00:18:46.000 I think if it's a choice for you to bring a child into this world by yourself and then look after the child by yourself.
00:18:52.000 I think that is selfish because yeah.
00:18:55.000 And what about you China?
00:18:56.000 Yeah.
00:18:57.000 I was just, I was just waiting to see if anyone's going to say it wasn't selfish, but yeah, it's incredibly selfish to, to bring a child into the world and do it by, by those types of means.
00:19:05.000 Yeah.
00:19:06.000 Okay.
00:19:07.000 I feel like, I feel like having a kid in general is kind of selfish.
00:19:13.000 Even though you mentioned Pearl earlier, you said that having a, not having a kid was selfish.
00:19:17.000 I think like having a kid is inherently quite selfish.
00:19:20.000 Let's take a moment to think about the world that we live in today.
00:19:23.000 Let's think about politics.
00:19:24.000 Let's think about financials.
00:19:25.000 Let's think about everything that comes into being an adult in the world that we live in today.
00:19:30.000 The lowest rates of poverty ever in human history.
00:19:32.000 Yeah.
00:19:33.000 But human history is shit.
00:19:34.000 First of all, like, let's think about it comparatively.
00:19:37.000 I mean, if you genuinely, really genuinely want children, of course you can have children.
00:19:42.000 But if you're having children because you feel like you need to, that's different.
00:19:46.000 What's wrong with the, like the world today is great, especially in the West.
00:19:49.000 Yeah.
00:19:50.000 It is better than it's ever been, but it's still awesome.
00:19:52.000 Great.
00:19:53.000 I mean, isn't it?
00:19:54.000 It's phenomenal.
00:19:55.000 So were your parents selfish for having you?
00:19:56.000 They're rubbing my face all the time.
00:19:57.000 No, but I'm just asking you.
00:19:58.000 No, I think they are.
00:19:59.000 Okay.
00:20:00.000 How many siblings do you have?
00:20:01.000 I have two.
00:20:02.000 So there's three of you.
00:20:03.000 So your parents are incredibly selfish for having you guys.
00:20:05.000 And the thing is, I feel like my parents do have a lot of regret in terms of having children,
00:20:09.000 especially.
00:20:10.000 So, so you wish you wasn't alive.
00:20:12.000 Do you feel like, you feel like you don't want to be alive?
00:20:14.000 That's not what I'm saying because before a fetus is born, they don't even know what
00:20:18.000 life is.
00:20:19.000 That's not what I'm asking.
00:20:20.000 You said it's incredibly selfish and you're saying, but I'm saying you come from a family
00:20:23.000 of three.
00:20:24.000 Um, so do you consider your life to be selfish?
00:20:26.000 I'm not going to say on fucking camera that I wish I was dead.
00:20:29.000 There's no need to swear.
00:20:30.000 We're just having a conversation.
00:20:31.000 You don't need to swear.
00:20:32.000 But no, but you're swearing a conversation.
00:20:33.000 Someone is quite rude.
00:20:34.000 I wasn't trying to be rude.
00:20:35.000 I was just swearing like I normally talk.
00:20:37.000 I know, but it's not quite.
00:20:38.000 Okay.
00:20:39.000 So when you, when you meet somebody, you've never met somebody for the first time to swear
00:20:43.000 when you speak to that person, we consider it to be quite rude.
00:20:46.000 So we're on a platform and we're talking to like a thousand, thousand people.
00:20:49.000 I think the tone that you're using towards her is quite rude.
00:20:51.000 It's fucking rude.
00:20:52.000 I'm not going to lie.
00:20:53.000 Oh.
00:20:54.000 You're being rude to me.
00:20:55.000 Okay.
00:20:56.000 Okay.
00:20:57.000 So.
00:20:58.000 Wait, hold on a second.
00:20:59.000 I was not being rude to you.
00:21:00.000 Hold on a second.
00:21:01.000 Hold on a second.
00:21:02.000 I've just literally just spoke.
00:21:03.000 I haven't done anything.
00:21:04.000 You're baiting her.
00:21:05.000 Did I raise my voice?
00:21:06.000 No, bro.
00:21:07.000 Have I said anything derogatory?
00:21:08.000 Hold on a second.
00:21:09.000 Wait, you're stopping me.
00:21:10.000 It's really rude.
00:21:11.000 You did say, does she wish that she's alive?
00:21:13.000 No, I asked her a question.
00:21:14.000 I asked her a question.
00:21:15.000 I asked her a question.
00:21:16.000 You keep interrupting.
00:21:17.000 So nothing about my tone.
00:21:18.000 So the problem of, so what we seem to find is when men speak and when we speak directly,
00:21:22.000 we always get women that try to speak to us about a tone.
00:21:24.000 There's nothing wrong with my tone.
00:21:25.000 I haven't raised it.
00:21:26.000 She literally just said it.
00:21:27.000 She did.
00:21:28.000 So could you just, could you just check your friend for, oh, check the lady next to you and say
00:21:31.000 there's nothing wrong with his tone?
00:21:32.000 I don't know how to check her.
00:21:33.000 No, but the thing is directly if you want to.
00:21:37.000 No, but the thing is I am and everyone else.
00:21:39.000 Because now you're raising your voice and that's rude.
00:21:40.000 That's a tone.
00:21:41.000 So what you're doing is you're gaslighting the situation.
00:21:43.000 This is what you women do.
00:21:44.000 This is not what gaslighting is.
00:21:45.000 No, no, no, no.
00:21:46.000 This is a classic.
00:21:47.000 He didn't do anything.
00:21:48.000 Let me teach you.
00:21:49.000 I didn't say he wasn't doing anything.
00:21:50.000 No, you weren't gaslighting.
00:21:51.000 I think the question was a bit wild, but that's why we're on a podcast.
00:21:55.000 The question is, so what you guys are doing again, you guys are stopping the man from speaking.
00:21:58.000 I've tried several times on this platform to speak.
00:22:00.000 Oh, now I'm waiting.
00:22:01.000 Not you, but what you've done is first of all, you gaslighted that situation by saying about my tone.
00:22:05.000 I didn't raise my tone.
00:22:06.000 I didn't speak in a different way.
00:22:07.000 You didn't.
00:22:08.000 You didn't.
00:22:09.000 See, what you're doing again is.
00:22:10.000 You didn't continue, please.
00:22:11.000 See guys, guys.
00:22:12.000 So this is a good platform.
00:22:13.000 So I want the Super Chats to look at this.
00:22:15.000 This is an example of gaslighting.
00:22:17.000 I simply asked the question because she said it was selfish for people to have children right now.
00:22:21.000 So I asked her, do you consider it to be selfish for your parents to have you as a child?
00:22:25.000 She was, you know, thinking about it.
00:22:27.000 That's fine of her to think about it, but she swore at me.
00:22:29.000 So I've never met this lady.
00:22:30.000 It's the first time I met her and she swore at me.
00:22:32.000 So I just said, could you please not swear at me on a platform?
00:22:34.000 What you've then said to me is about my tone.
00:22:36.000 If anything, I would actually be quite in my right if someone swore at me.
00:22:40.000 Sorry, bro.
00:22:41.000 What she actually did respond has just said she naturally swears anyway.
00:22:44.000 So as much as you're willing your rights to be offended by what she said,
00:22:48.000 because you don't know her.
00:22:49.000 You don't know me.
00:22:50.000 And you're yourself, your own person.
00:22:52.000 You have your boundaries, okay?
00:22:54.000 So you're allowed to feel the way you feel.
00:22:56.000 So do you think the world owes you any understanding?
00:22:59.000 So if you've never met somebody and you meet them for the first time,
00:23:02.000 do you think the world owes you understanding to be like,
00:23:04.000 I can just effing blind at you.
00:23:05.000 Do you think I owe you understanding?
00:23:07.000 No.
00:23:08.000 You've never been to East London, babe.
00:23:10.000 I'm not saying the world necessarily owes her understanding.
00:23:13.000 She just said that to almost like, to comfort you.
00:23:17.000 Like, it's all right.
00:23:18.000 I didn't mean it.
00:23:19.000 So let's use this example, right, guys.
00:23:20.000 So let's use the example, right?
00:23:21.000 There's nothing wrong.
00:23:22.000 So there's nothing wrong with my tone.
00:23:24.000 I haven't raised my tone.
00:23:25.000 I haven't pointed at you.
00:23:26.000 I haven't shouted at you.
00:23:27.000 You have.
00:23:28.000 Okay.
00:23:29.000 Okay.
00:23:30.000 No, he didn't.
00:23:31.000 It's easy.
00:23:32.000 It's easy.
00:23:33.000 He did point at me.
00:23:34.000 He was doing she, she, she.
00:23:35.000 So he did, yeah.
00:23:36.000 She.
00:23:37.000 I didn't.
00:23:38.000 So you know what it is?
00:23:39.000 You know what it is?
00:23:40.000 I find it.
00:23:41.000 So I don't want to do this, Pearl.
00:23:43.000 I'm going to say this as a black man.
00:23:45.000 And I'm going to do that.
00:23:46.000 I find it.
00:23:47.000 This is a scenario that we find ourselves in.
00:23:49.000 I haven't done anything.
00:23:50.000 I haven't shouted at you.
00:23:52.000 I haven't been aggressive to you.
00:23:53.000 I haven't sworn at you.
00:23:54.000 No, but wait, yet you have continued to talk about my tone.
00:23:57.000 You've tried to create an image of me, a perpetual image of me on screen, which is not that.
00:24:00.000 I was sworn to on live on the air.
00:24:03.000 That's all I said was, can you please not sweat?
00:24:05.000 No, no, no, it's fine.
00:24:06.000 But we're not talking about you now.
00:24:07.000 What we're talking about is her gaslight in a scenario.
00:24:09.000 And she's spoken about the tone.
00:24:11.000 She's trying to act like I've been aggressive to her.
00:24:13.000 Guys, the super chats and everything will let you know.
00:24:15.000 Because I really haven't done it.
00:24:16.000 You guys have jumped on top of me.
00:24:17.000 But it's fine.
00:24:18.000 I'm ready for this.
00:24:19.000 Let's go.
00:24:20.000 I'm going to switch the situation.
00:24:21.000 If you're offended.
00:24:22.000 No, no, stop, stop, stop.
00:24:23.000 If you're offended, I apologize.
00:24:24.000 But I'm not trying to offend you.
00:24:26.000 I'm just sticking up something.
00:24:27.000 I'm not offended.
00:24:28.000 Guys, stop.
00:24:29.000 If we switch the, not the racist, the genders here.
00:24:32.000 If a girl says that to a guy, could you please not swear at me?
00:24:34.000 It wouldn't be a thing.
00:24:35.000 And that's the thing.
00:24:37.000 Whenever men have standards, they're shamed for having standards.
00:24:39.000 Constantly.
00:24:40.000 Yeah.
00:24:41.000 It wasn't a thing in the first place.
00:24:43.000 He said, I swore at him, I'm swearing as I talk.
00:24:46.000 The way I talk, occasionally I might throw a fuck or shit.
00:24:50.000 I'm just having a conversation because I feel a little bit more comfortable.
00:24:54.000 If you don't want me to swear at you, that's completely fine.
00:24:56.000 It was quite simple.
00:24:57.000 I simply said, and I just made you aware of it.
00:24:59.000 I didn't actually get at you.
00:25:00.000 I just simply said, could you please not swear at me?
00:25:02.000 You're unaware of it.
00:25:03.000 But what's happened from there?
00:25:04.000 I can't believe what's happening.
00:25:05.000 It's just simply a man saying, please don't swear at me.
00:25:07.000 And you guys have used it as a situation to gaslight instead of out my tone.
00:25:10.000 And even if I did lose my rag a little bit, why are you swearing at a man that you've never
00:25:14.000 met before and the first time on a platform is very disrespectful.
00:25:17.000 I was not swearing at you.
00:25:19.000 No, no, no, no.
00:25:20.000 Right now, this is not even about this.
00:25:21.000 No, no, no, no.
00:25:22.000 Because I'm not actually offended by what you said.
00:25:24.000 I just simply said, could you please not swear at me?
00:25:25.000 You said, okay, that's cool.
00:25:26.000 What she's then gone on to do is create a whole separate scenario now.
00:25:29.000 And I want to know, why have you done that?
00:25:31.000 I was sticking up for her because I felt like the question just was a little insensitive
00:25:37.000 to say that.
00:25:38.000 And targeted as well.
00:25:39.000 Just the way it was worded, I didn't like that.
00:25:41.000 So you don't think I was in my right to ask her considering she said...
00:25:44.000 No, not about the swearing.
00:25:45.000 I understand.
00:25:46.000 No, no, not about the swearing.
00:25:47.000 She said that being selfish, right?
00:25:50.000 So I just said, do you consider your existence and your sibling's existence to be selfish?
00:25:55.000 Based upon the question that she put out there, I simply just gave her counter question.
00:25:59.000 It was the way it was worded.
00:26:00.000 How was it worded?
00:26:01.000 Oh my gosh.
00:26:02.000 No, I want to know.
00:26:03.000 I'm so bored of this conversation.
00:26:04.000 No, no, no, no.
00:26:05.000 Because this is an example.
00:26:06.000 No, we're not going to do this.
00:26:07.000 Because what you women do is, you guys gaslight men.
00:26:11.000 And then when we actually want to prove a point, you're like, let's move it on.
00:26:13.000 We're not going to move it on.
00:26:14.000 I want to know.
00:26:15.000 What point are you proving?
00:26:16.000 No, because I want to know what led to the point where you can start saying about my tone
00:26:20.000 and start a disrespect.
00:26:21.000 What led to it?
00:26:22.000 What did I say to her?
00:26:23.000 Do you wish that you weren't alive?
00:26:25.000 Or something along them lines.
00:26:26.000 It was worded that way.
00:26:27.000 And I just thought, oh, that's a little bit too much.
00:26:29.000 But that came after the fact that she said she considered it to be selfish.
00:26:32.000 Can I say something?
00:26:33.000 Can I let her talk for a second?
00:26:36.000 I do think the question was a bit, whoa.
00:26:39.000 And we're all at that.
00:26:40.000 No, we're all at that.
00:26:41.000 It's on topic.
00:26:42.000 It's on topic.
00:26:43.000 I thought it was a great point.
00:26:45.000 No, if you asked me the question after what she had said,
00:26:48.000 I wouldn't be like, why are you asking me that?
00:26:50.000 It makes sense.
00:26:51.000 Because even me, I was kind of like, yeah, do you not want to be here?
00:26:53.000 I was about to.
00:26:54.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:26:55.000 And low key, I'm sitting here like, I'm not going to lie.
00:26:56.000 Sometimes I have my days.
00:26:57.000 So, I'm out of it, guys.
00:27:00.000 So, I don't think that was, personally.
00:27:02.000 But I can see why someone else might be a bit like, I don't know you.
00:27:05.000 Whoa.
00:27:06.000 Do you understand?
00:27:07.000 So, even if she threw in the little fucking or whatever, I was a bit taken about that
00:27:11.000 you took the-
00:27:12.000 Okay.
00:27:13.000 Okay.
00:27:14.000 Okay.
00:27:15.000 Okay.
00:27:16.000 Okay.
00:27:17.000 Okay.
00:27:18.000 Guys, guys, we're going to move up.
00:27:19.000 We're going to move up.
00:27:20.000 Guys, guys, guys, stop.
00:27:21.000 We're going to-
00:27:22.000 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:27:25.000 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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