JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023


She Gets ROASTED For Defending Only Fans on Everything


Episode Stats

Length

33 minutes

Words per Minute

203.97894

Word Count

6,743

Sentence Count

4

Misogynist Sentences

73

Hate Speech Sentences

34


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 and the man they made buying the OnlyFans no more
00:00:03.180 they're not doing that no more
00:00:04.320 do you get me they've got things to do
00:00:05.440 they've actually got to go work x y and z
00:00:07.000 and now you see a bunch of reverse that were like
00:00:08.760 oh no let me throw that ass in a circle
00:00:11.520 and online blah blah blah going
00:00:13.800 oh I am
00:00:15.520 I found Jesus and I've come back to the light
00:00:17.320 I found Jesus and the Holy Spirit came to see you
00:00:20.300 I wish I didn't do it
00:00:21.380 I wish I didn't do this
00:00:22.420 and they're trying to warn people against it
00:00:23.900 and it's like okay cool that's beautiful
00:00:25.120 you've gotten to the point
00:00:25.840 yeah cause they realize they're fucked
00:00:26.740 and then they're trying to play a whole other game
00:00:28.620 and it's like it's like but when you can't go back
00:00:30.460 when the price of the fans is going down
00:00:32.960 yeah yeah it's not
00:00:34.820 remember the fans is not 30 40 bucks you know
00:00:38.320 it's not none of them teams in there
00:00:39.800 it's a big mac
00:00:41.360 $6.99
00:00:43.360 it's a big mac
00:00:44.480 $5.99
00:00:45.200 so when the price starts going from a big mac
00:00:48.700 to a little happy meal
00:00:50.040 $1.99
00:00:51.360 the confidence that you had that was up here
00:00:55.620 when you had a bunch of different things
00:00:56.860 doing XY and Z is now completely down here
00:00:58.700 who is to blame in that situation
00:01:00.200 can you imagine how they feel right now
00:01:01.200 didn't you say earlier that you're
00:01:03.480 you're not gonna judge
00:01:04.920 you can do what you want
00:01:05.700 I don't judge
00:01:06.360 my only thing is
00:01:07.860 don't complain
00:01:09.080 have you ever subscribed
00:01:09.820 no
00:01:10.700 the hub is free you know
00:01:13.200 the hub is free you know
00:01:16.320 do you know what only fans does so well
00:01:19.700 it's because
00:01:20.700 it's a bit murked as well
00:01:22.560 it's like
00:01:22.840 it's the um
00:01:25.000 how can I explain it
00:01:26.020 it's the fact that you can't get someone that you want
00:01:28.040 that makes people subscribe to only fans
00:01:30.080 because they can go to the hub
00:01:31.540 and get all the content that they want
00:01:32.680 but
00:01:33.400 some man them are out here
00:01:35.220 and they're just simps for this specific person
00:01:36.960 and that's the reason why only fans does so well
00:01:38.940 I think only fans is a trap
00:01:40.680 that was a trap for vulnerable people to then to be capitalized on
00:01:45.100 that's how I see it
00:01:46.240 who's the vulnerable person in this scenario
00:01:48.180 people that
00:01:48.940 women
00:01:49.500 young women
00:01:50.180 or no matter what age they are
00:01:51.980 women that
00:01:52.640 what about the men who are losing their money
00:01:54.000 hold on
00:01:54.300 do you mean the people that put their email address in
00:01:56.040 their first name and their last name and their bank details
00:01:57.780 to get the money
00:01:58.280 no no
00:01:58.380 listen
00:01:58.600 vulnerable people aren't gonna process and see the bait
00:02:01.720 we might
00:02:02.920 from this perspective
00:02:03.820 so hold on
00:02:04.380 hold on
00:02:04.560 they literally fell into a very obvious trap
00:02:07.640 to get into it
00:02:08.340 to making quick money
00:02:09.420 that's how they perceived it
00:02:10.840 to survive
00:02:11.960 or to make money
00:02:12.840 or whatever
00:02:13.640 I see that as a trap
00:02:15.200 I feel like the platform only fans
00:02:17.140 was a trap for a lot of vulnerable women
00:02:19.280 if
00:02:19.940 if
00:02:20.540 if the trap has five different steps
00:02:23.360 I'm sorry
00:02:24.200 you might have deserved it
00:02:25.520 in the beginning
00:02:26.020 if you've got to put in your first name
00:02:27.840 your last name
00:02:28.940 your email address
00:02:30.320 your bank details
00:02:31.460 you then got to create the page
00:02:33.380 you got to post content
00:02:34.760 and then you got to take the content
00:02:36.260 and you got to post it on other social medias
00:02:37.920 if you mean to tell me
00:02:39.500 you got trapped after seven steps
00:02:41.760 I'm saying the platform itself
00:02:44.420 the existence of whatever only fans represents
00:02:47.220 was set up for a trap
00:02:49.320 to capitalize on women
00:02:50.740 from women
00:02:51.280 so people could willingly sign up
00:02:52.420 why are we calling it a trap?
00:02:53.340 I'm not saying that they didn't know what they're doing
00:02:55.220 I'm talking about the actual business concept
00:02:57.380 but it's not a trap if you know
00:02:58.360 it's not a trap if you're willingly
00:02:59.840 a trap for a vulnerable woman
00:03:01.080 a woman that thinks
00:03:01.860 okay hold on
00:03:02.600 let me
00:03:02.960 when a woman's delusional
00:03:04.800 she's not gonna think properly
00:03:06.040 she's gonna be like
00:03:06.880 okay cool
00:03:07.380 I see an opportunity to make money
00:03:08.660 let me go and sign up
00:03:09.820 let me do what I have to do
00:03:10.800 you're not understanding what I mean by trap
00:03:12.880 why can't they go and get a normal job?
00:03:14.620 well they should
00:03:15.360 that's my point
00:03:16.340 but I'm saying
00:03:16.760 I'm looking at the whole business setup
00:03:19.340 of what only fans represent
00:03:20.840 if you think about it
00:03:21.780 it was initially created
00:03:24.620 knowing, targeting certain women
00:03:27.460 but again
00:03:28.940 aren't you taken away from the accountability
00:03:31.000 of the women to realise that they're the ones
00:03:32.860 they are realising
00:03:34.320 but they're not realising it to the full extent
00:03:36.040 until it's too late
00:03:37.080 so isn't that a them problem?
00:03:37.880 now that you're saying
00:03:38.600 there's a lot of women
00:03:39.300 that have come out of it
00:03:40.100 saying
00:03:40.660 but that's what I'm saying
00:03:41.640 that's a them problem
00:03:42.300 so again I ask the question
00:03:43.580 where does the accountability come in?
00:03:46.300 I think most of them
00:03:48.180 take accountability
00:03:49.020 with what they're doing
00:03:50.440 I think they are very conscious
00:03:52.140 of what they're doing
00:03:53.040 so the problem with accountability
00:03:54.620 I still didn't get it
00:03:56.120 because I never saw a woman
00:03:58.080 that do certain kind of jobs
00:04:00.480 coming on the internet
00:04:02.100 and start acting like a victim
00:04:04.120 I believe that she's conscious
00:04:06.240 about what she's doing
00:04:07.380 and she's probably proud of it
00:04:10.540 and it's just confident in what she's doing
00:04:13.580 the accountability comes in
00:04:15.180 when you see these women
00:04:17.380 that do only fans
00:04:18.400 and all of that
00:04:19.020 and then they come out
00:04:19.940 and they say they deserve
00:04:21.060 a certain kind of man
00:04:22.080 so you fail to realize
00:04:26.180 that the moment you get into something like that
00:04:28.240 you don't then deserve
00:04:29.420 what you think you do
00:04:30.360 no matter how confident in yourself you feel
00:04:33.940 no matter how well you think you attend
00:04:36.520 or whatever
00:04:36.980 the reality is
00:04:38.420 you deserve what you get in life
00:04:40.940 and you deserve what you get
00:04:43.000 from the actions that you do in life
00:04:44.700 so whenever I see women come out and say
00:04:47.240 oh yeah I did only fans on this and that
00:04:49.640 but I still deserve a man that makes six figures
00:04:52.180 that can provide for me
00:04:53.040 and do a lot of this and that
00:04:53.840 it just shows me that you don't have accountability
00:04:56.160 and you're never self-aware to
00:04:58.960 yeah delusional
00:04:59.720 to realize what you've put yourself into
00:05:02.020 so I have a question
00:05:04.760 do only fans models
00:05:06.880 models
00:05:08.700 models
00:05:09.760 I love how you stop there
00:05:10.980 individuals
00:05:11.560 oh no wait hold on
00:05:12.260 sexy models
00:05:13.280 girls who basically haul themselves out online for money
00:05:17.480 do they deserve the same kind of men that girls who don't do
00:05:20.380 are they entitled to the same type of man
00:05:23.080 I would say it's possible now
00:05:27.480 so you think a girl who has
00:05:30.100 literally gotten
00:05:32.380 completely butt naked online for
00:05:35.100 as much as we said
00:05:36.560 a big mac meal
00:05:37.680 you think that
00:05:39.500 that's the same as a girl
00:05:41.940 who hasn't
00:05:42.800 you think that they can get
00:05:43.760 the same kind of man
00:05:45.100 can you repeat again the question
00:05:47.520 because I feel I didn't follow
00:05:48.560 so
00:05:49.100 a girl who does only fans
00:05:50.620 so gets naked online for
00:05:52.840 the same amount of money as a
00:05:54.380 burger
00:05:55.080 you think she's entitled to the same man
00:05:58.640 as say a girl who hasn't done that
00:06:00.460 like a 9 to 5 woman
00:06:01.440 you think that they're entitled to the same man
00:06:04.640 I mean it's dependent
00:06:07.100 for example
00:06:07.800 for example yourself
00:06:08.740 compared to only fans girl
00:06:10.660 are you both entitled to the same guy
00:06:12.520 it can be possible
00:06:14.400 so you see this is the problem I have with women
00:06:18.560 when they say this
00:06:19.440 because you're looking at it from a woman's point of view
00:06:22.020 so you're looking at it from the point of view that benefits women
00:06:26.020 but now if you want to look at it from a man's point of view
00:06:29.180 if you had a son
00:06:30.220 would you want him to date a woman that has been putting her body online
00:06:35.180 to ease out and everything
00:06:38.100 I was giving in the same reason
00:06:40.060 because it's dependent
00:06:41.960 if the woman is
00:06:43.620 let's leave it depends
00:06:45.620 I'm saying
00:06:46.160 I'm giving my response
00:06:47.520 and my response is that
00:06:49.060 if that girl is doing it
00:06:52.040 said that she is doing it
00:06:54.160 and personally the way I see
00:06:56.500 things is going
00:06:57.620 with the type of content she is putting out
00:07:00.920 I'm not comfortable with it
00:07:02.120 no
00:07:02.420 but if she was doing it
00:07:04.520 and there was a lot of time that passed
00:07:07.700 or maybe she is into something else
00:07:10.280 and I feel like
00:07:10.900 men are so short tempered
00:07:12.160 they don't look at the details
00:07:13.260 they just look at the obvious things
00:07:14.940 they see that you're only fans
00:07:16.220 or you're not
00:07:16.680 you're the normal girl
00:07:17.880 or you're not
00:07:18.300 whatever normal means
00:07:19.140 they're very simple men
00:07:20.680 we're trying to get into
00:07:23.920 I'm just saying
00:07:24.960 if you had a son
00:07:26.540 and you heard that
00:07:28.060 he's dating a girl
00:07:29.220 who has been having sex online
00:07:31.640 selling her body online
00:07:32.680 and he comes home
00:07:33.540 and tells you
00:07:34.000 mom I want to marry this girl
00:07:35.520 would you let that
00:07:37.160 would you be happy
00:07:37.820 with that decision
00:07:38.500 if I have a valuable reason
00:07:40.060 that is worth it
00:07:41.920 no I'm not
00:07:42.400 look you're trying to make
00:07:43.920 it's a simple question
00:07:44.820 you don't have any other information
00:07:46.320 and I'm giving my response
00:07:46.640 no you're adding more things to my
00:07:48.420 I'm the one giving you the situation
00:07:49.800 would you let your son marry
00:07:50.780 that's my response
00:07:51.600 I'm saying if your son
00:07:53.040 you don't have any other information
00:07:54.100 about the girl
00:07:54.580 you just hear
00:07:55.260 this is a girl
00:07:56.380 that has been selling her body online
00:07:57.680 she has had sex online
00:07:58.560 there are videos of her online
00:07:59.960 having sex with other men
00:08:01.340 she's a constant
00:08:01.960 and your son says
00:08:02.760 he wants to marry her
00:08:03.780 would you be happy
00:08:05.360 with that decision
00:08:05.960 it is impossible
00:08:06.980 to have
00:08:08.380 your kids
00:08:09.640 who is dating somebody
00:08:10.860 and have no information
00:08:12.140 at a certain point
00:08:12.940 you will know
00:08:13.500 who that person is
00:08:13.720 I'm just giving you the information
00:08:14.660 I'm giving you this information
00:08:15.820 it's not about
00:08:16.500 who the person
00:08:16.860 I don't think anyone
00:08:17.220 would like that to be honest
00:08:18.200 so this is the thing
00:08:19.220 she's trying to
00:08:20.180 she's trying to justify
00:08:21.260 her reason for
00:08:22.020 for
00:08:23.080 it's become harder
00:08:25.920 for men to find
00:08:26.800 normal women
00:08:27.620 the idea
00:08:28.620 the reality is
00:08:29.620 I'm not agreeing
00:08:30.380 with something
00:08:31.000 I'm giving my point of view
00:08:32.420 but you are not listening
00:08:33.460 no you are not listening
00:08:34.640 she's secretly
00:08:35.280 she's secretly
00:08:36.500 the only man's model
00:08:37.320 you know
00:08:37.600 no because the point is
00:08:38.540 the point I'm trying to make is
00:08:39.320 she's trying to say
00:08:40.040 oh if you had information
00:08:41.340 on the person
00:08:42.120 no no that's not what I said
00:08:43.700 I said if I have a valuable reason
00:08:46.100 for what
00:08:46.560 why my kid
00:08:47.660 want to marry that person
00:08:48.900 because obviously
00:08:49.500 whoever the person is
00:08:51.400 that my kid wants to marry
00:08:52.920 I will ask
00:08:54.020 either if it's a cornstar
00:08:55.560 or not
00:08:56.100 I will always ask
00:08:57.480 why that person
00:08:58.540 but this is the point
00:09:01.880 I'm trying to point out
00:09:02.720 this is the difference
00:09:04.260 this is another difference
00:09:05.420 between men and women
00:09:06.720 a woman would want to look
00:09:08.800 for all the
00:09:09.800 fairy tale
00:09:10.840 fairyland
00:09:11.520 reasons why something can work
00:09:13.600 as a man
00:09:14.740 I don't care
00:09:15.980 what reason my son has
00:09:17.360 I'm going to look at
00:09:18.860 the possible detrimental effects
00:09:21.080 that his decision will have
00:09:22.220 on his future
00:09:23.040 well yeah
00:09:23.460 the son carries the name
00:09:24.520 as well
00:09:24.580 sorry one second
00:09:25.220 one
00:09:26.060 he's going to be marrying
00:09:27.740 someone that has videos
00:09:28.860 of her having sex online
00:09:30.780 first of all
00:09:32.080 that is going to affect
00:09:33.520 whatever
00:09:34.480 what's it called
00:09:36.500 whatever
00:09:36.960 future aspirations he has
00:09:40.360 in terms of the social world
00:09:41.760 because
00:09:42.040 if he wants to go into politics
00:09:43.360 he wants to go into anything
00:09:44.200 like that
00:09:44.700 anything that involves him
00:09:46.260 being a leader
00:09:47.480 anything that involves him
00:09:48.560 interacting with other people
00:09:50.500 things like that
00:09:51.400 will affect him
00:09:52.040 because his enemies
00:09:53.500 will always bring up
00:09:54.220 oh well your wife has videos
00:09:55.840 they'll bring up videos like that
00:09:57.040 these are things
00:09:57.620 if he's going to have children
00:09:59.360 my grandkids
00:10:00.160 there's going to be videos
00:10:01.760 of her mum
00:10:02.880 having sex online
00:10:04.860 so there is no reason
00:10:06.820 for me to think about
00:10:07.740 oh well she might be
00:10:09.000 a good person
00:10:09.660 or there might be
00:10:10.440 a good reason why
00:10:11.020 no
00:10:11.600 imagine having a grandmother
00:10:13.200 who's got porn videos
00:10:14.740 imagine being like
00:10:15.680 yeah my grandma
00:10:16.200 it's crazy
00:10:16.540 I actually find it
00:10:17.600 if my grandmother
00:10:18.700 was doing that
00:10:19.460 I'm not going to
00:10:19.960 throw her away
00:10:20.820 at the end of the day
00:10:21.720 she's saying my grandma
00:10:22.660 yes because you don't
00:10:24.220 have any
00:10:24.420 no but that's the point
00:10:25.520 because you wouldn't
00:10:26.060 have a choice at that point
00:10:27.440 but what I'm telling you
00:10:28.500 is before that point
00:10:30.040 you are talking about
00:10:31.360 okay after the fact
00:10:32.580 as a kid
00:10:33.580 no that's what I'm
00:10:34.380 talking about
00:10:35.240 you are misunderstanding me
00:10:36.920 because what you're saying
00:10:37.800 that I'm saying
00:10:38.600 I'm not agreeing with it
00:10:39.840 meaning this
00:10:40.580 you are not saying
00:10:41.260 what I'm saying
00:10:42.080 you just said
00:10:42.700 you just said
00:10:43.280 if you had a grandma
00:10:44.160 that was doing it
00:10:45.040 you won't throw her away
00:10:45.800 I'm telling you
00:10:46.440 that is because
00:10:47.180 you don't have any choice
00:10:48.200 she's your grandma
00:10:49.640 she came before you
00:10:51.020 what I'm saying is
00:10:52.240 if you have a son
00:10:54.080 that is not yet married
00:10:55.300 that is
00:10:56.660 you
00:10:57.680 you will be
00:10:58.500 solving a problem
00:10:59.560 that hasn't yet happened
00:11:00.660 but if you are
00:11:02.700 talking about your grandma
00:11:03.880 that's something
00:11:04.360 that's going to happen
00:11:04.860 I don't see it
00:11:05.480 at the same point
00:11:06.340 of course you don't
00:11:07.280 because you're a woman
00:11:07.960 I understand
00:11:08.460 I still have my
00:11:10.000 I'm still going to stay
00:11:12.480 on my
00:11:13.080 on my
00:11:13.760 we're not all the same
00:11:14.840 on my decision
00:11:15.460 I think you guys
00:11:16.080 are pretty much the same
00:11:17.000 there are just
00:11:18.040 very few differences
00:11:18.900 yeah I think that
00:11:20.240 I'm going to stay
00:11:21.420 on my decision
00:11:22.100 because I'm not
00:11:23.320 a person who
00:11:24.800 proceed like that
00:11:25.640 do you know how many
00:11:26.140 children have
00:11:26.840 well recently
00:11:27.520 studies have shown
00:11:28.660 well there's more kids
00:11:29.620 basically committing suicide
00:11:31.020 because they're getting
00:11:31.780 bullied at school
00:11:32.860 because their mum's
00:11:34.140 porn stars
00:11:35.100 and only fans
00:11:37.520 don't worry
00:11:37.900 they can cry
00:11:38.420 in the back of a bugatti
00:11:39.260 no but they're killing
00:11:39.980 themselves
00:11:40.400 that's so true
00:11:41.980 there's kids
00:11:43.760 killing themselves
00:11:44.380 because they're getting
00:11:44.840 bullied at school
00:11:45.360 can you imagine
00:11:45.940 how sad it is
00:11:47.100 for that kid to live
00:11:48.040 that life
00:11:49.240 of going to school
00:11:50.180 having their peers
00:11:51.480 or whatever
00:11:52.040 know that their
00:11:52.900 people are watching
00:11:54.120 their mum
00:11:54.600 oh my god
00:11:55.440 like wow
00:11:56.320 what is your name
00:11:58.240 please
00:11:58.640 Donika
00:11:59.080 Donika
00:11:59.760 can we not also
00:12:00.860 talk about
00:12:01.560 why it's happening
00:12:03.640 if people react
00:12:05.140 like this
00:12:05.700 like this sir
00:12:06.460 right now
00:12:06.960 who completely
00:12:07.840 attack the
00:12:08.500 imaginary person
00:12:09.340 that we're talking about
00:12:10.340 you know
00:12:11.800 because I personally
00:12:13.340 like I'm saying
00:12:14.060 I will not take
00:12:14.880 that situation
00:12:15.460 like that
00:12:15.860 and start attacking
00:12:16.520 people
00:12:17.040 because at the end
00:12:18.100 of the day
00:12:18.440 it's a person
00:12:19.260 so if you have
00:12:22.020 people attacking
00:12:22.900 people
00:12:23.300 demonising people
00:12:24.600 and going around
00:12:26.220 I have a question
00:12:28.800 if we live
00:12:29.860 in a society
00:12:30.380 where we
00:12:32.020 can't discern
00:12:33.120 who is good
00:12:33.660 and bad
00:12:34.120 where does that
00:12:35.200 leave us
00:12:35.660 because if we
00:12:36.740 can no longer
00:12:37.400 decide who is
00:12:38.500 a murderer
00:12:39.080 who is a
00:12:40.080 grapist
00:12:40.780 what we're just
00:12:41.940 going to let
00:12:42.240 these people
00:12:42.640 walk around freely
00:12:43.360 there is a limit
00:12:46.820 between deciding
00:12:47.780 what is good
00:12:48.700 or bad
00:12:49.140 and bullying
00:12:49.780 people actually
00:12:50.820 because obviously
00:12:51.540 we have to decide
00:12:52.840 what is good
00:12:53.440 and bad
00:12:53.920 it has been
00:12:54.580 like this
00:12:55.060 since the
00:12:55.600 beginning of the time
00:12:56.300 OnlyFans is it
00:12:56.720 good or bad
00:12:57.480 I mean
00:12:59.320 other people
00:13:00.140 do content
00:13:00.900 that is not
00:13:01.700 sexual
00:13:02.200 so
00:13:02.920 so
00:13:05.160 OnlyFans
00:13:06.560 is it good
00:13:06.960 or bad
00:13:07.260 I would say
00:13:08.940 it depends
00:13:09.300 on how you
00:13:09.900 see it
00:13:10.340 because I know
00:13:11.080 people do
00:13:11.720 something
00:13:12.440 that are not
00:13:13.120 sexual
00:13:13.340 is that good
00:13:13.720 or bad
00:13:14.060 or is it
00:13:15.100 depends on
00:13:15.520 how you see
00:13:15.880 it
00:13:16.100 a what
00:13:16.700 a murderer
00:13:17.240 a criminal
00:13:18.800 obviously
00:13:19.120 it's not good
00:13:20.140 right
00:13:20.800 so how come
00:13:21.540 you can decide
00:13:22.360 what's good
00:13:22.900 or bad
00:13:23.540 for a murderer
00:13:24.860 but you can't
00:13:25.800 decide on
00:13:26.140 something like
00:13:26.540 OnlyFans
00:13:26.940 because OnlyFans
00:13:28.120 is not a platform
00:13:29.320 that is designed
00:13:30.340 to sell
00:13:31.640 what we're all
00:13:32.860 talking about
00:13:33.500 now
00:13:34.000 well that's where
00:13:34.500 they're making
00:13:34.860 the money from
00:13:35.580 it's from
00:13:36.080 vaginas
00:13:36.760 it is
00:13:37.260 it is
00:13:39.300 she's stuck on the world
00:13:40.700 okay let's not say
00:13:41.460 OnlyFans
00:13:42.080 let's say
00:13:42.760 selling your body
00:13:43.980 online
00:13:44.380 because you're
00:13:45.060 trying to
00:13:45.360 you're trying to
00:13:45.920 dodge the question
00:13:46.700 by saying
00:13:47.340 well some people
00:13:48.100 don't do
00:13:48.620 I'm not dodging
00:13:50.040 something
00:13:50.420 there's a difference
00:13:51.140 between us
00:13:51.700 talking about
00:13:52.200 OnlyFans
00:13:52.820 and sexual content
00:13:53.840 no
00:13:54.220 and I'm talking
00:13:55.040 about OnlyFans
00:13:55.640 OnlyFans
00:13:56.160 himself
00:13:56.740 is not a bad
00:13:58.020 platform
00:13:58.800 it is a platform
00:14:00.240 that is most likely
00:14:01.360 exclusive
00:14:01.860 where a lot of people
00:14:02.800 sell different type
00:14:04.340 of exclusive content
00:14:05.440 but if you're talking
00:14:06.420 about something
00:14:07.100 that's something different
00:14:08.840 the difference
00:14:10.360 is only in your head
00:14:11.660 because the reality
00:14:12.280 is we all know
00:14:12.820 what we're speaking about
00:14:13.500 we're speaking about
00:14:14.100 people that sell
00:14:14.620 their body online
00:14:15.100 she used the word
00:14:15.860 OnlyFans
00:14:16.320 because that's the term
00:14:17.520 that's used
00:14:18.120 generally to describe it
00:14:19.640 but we all know
00:14:20.780 we're talking about
00:14:21.460 women that sell
00:14:22.260 their body online
00:14:22.960 so that's what
00:14:23.840 she's saying
00:14:24.240 is selling your body
00:14:26.220 online good or bad
00:14:27.120 you're getting stuck
00:14:28.160 on the word
00:14:28.540 OnlyFans
00:14:29.100 that's not what
00:14:29.500 we're talking about
00:14:30.120 yeah not the corporation
00:14:31.420 the people
00:14:32.380 who participate
00:14:33.280 in selling their body
00:14:34.840 sexually explicitly
00:14:36.240 online
00:14:36.940 is that good or bad
00:14:38.300 I personally
00:14:40.320 I do not agree
00:14:41.100 with the market
00:14:41.740 but like said
00:14:43.100 OnlyFans himself
00:14:44.420 is another thing
00:14:45.820 she's the OnlyFans manager
00:14:47.860 I'm not avoiding
00:14:58.860 I give the answer
00:14:59.720 you just don't want to listen
00:15:01.300 there's a difference
00:15:02.140 between me avoiding a question
00:15:03.600 and you not want to listen
00:15:04.740 so you just have to say
00:15:06.700 I don't listen
00:15:08.080 that's the purpose
00:15:09.340 that's the fact
00:15:10.740 I'm not understanding
00:15:13.180 or you are not listening
00:15:15.020 and the response is
00:15:17.720 you are not listening
00:15:18.700 please this is not your show
00:15:20.060 you need to relax man
00:15:21.020 I'm relaxed
00:15:21.960 I'm just talking
00:15:23.660 alright so look
00:15:24.500 here's what you're doing
00:15:25.240 you're mixing up
00:15:26.320 what OnlyFans was created for
00:15:28.300 as opposed to
00:15:28.880 what it's known for right now
00:15:30.160 I'm not mixing up anything
00:15:31.920 maybe you're not understanding me
00:15:33.580 but I'm not mixing up anything
00:15:34.680 I'm gonna allow you
00:15:35.480 to finish speaking
00:15:36.280 and then I'm going to hope
00:15:37.740 you're gonna give me
00:15:38.260 the same respect afterwards
00:15:39.540 to allow me to finish speaking
00:15:40.700 go on
00:15:41.160 I'm finished to speak
00:15:42.860 you're done
00:15:43.160 so you're not gonna
00:15:43.800 but whenever you're gonna
00:15:44.760 mix up what I said
00:15:46.000 I'm gonna
00:15:46.900 you know
00:15:47.900 let him say what he needs to say
00:15:51.060 and then you can
00:15:52.020 rebut it however you like
00:15:53.160 but let him finish first
00:15:54.120 okay wonderful
00:15:54.700 what you keep doing
00:15:55.900 is you keep trying to
00:15:57.100 conflict the two things
00:15:58.040 we completely understand
00:15:58.860 that OnlyFans
00:15:59.560 wasn't created
00:16:00.340 for porn stars
00:16:02.240 porn stars
00:16:02.960 we get it
00:16:03.480 we understand that
00:16:04.260 we know it
00:16:04.760 what it's known for right now
00:16:07.020 and what the topic is right now
00:16:08.740 is about porn stars
00:16:10.020 using it for that reason
00:16:11.120 we're asking you
00:16:12.380 a very direct question
00:16:13.420 do you think it's good or bad
00:16:15.160 and if you want to still
00:16:16.920 stay melancholy about it
00:16:18.080 and you want to stay
00:16:18.540 right in the middle
00:16:19.180 I'm then going to ask you
00:16:21.020 would you tell your
00:16:22.060 immediate loved ones
00:16:23.500 to do it
00:16:24.040 and if you wouldn't
00:16:25.300 tell them to do it
00:16:26.120 then your answer
00:16:27.340 should be very clear
00:16:28.220 it's bad
00:16:29.160 why are we flip-flopping
00:16:32.400 do you think it's bad
00:16:33.060 yes or no
00:16:33.440 if you
00:16:35.600 you know when you finish
00:16:36.980 and you look the video
00:16:38.100 on youtube
00:16:38.780 you're going to see
00:16:39.560 that I respond to the question
00:16:40.860 like I said
00:16:41.460 you are not listening
00:16:42.260 and I'm not going to repeat myself
00:16:44.020 alright so
00:16:44.840 so all of us here
00:16:46.400 that have
00:16:46.820 tried to ask you the question
00:16:48.600 multiple times
00:16:50.280 and you're going to say
00:16:51.280 we're not listening
00:16:51.760 alright cool
00:16:52.240 yeah she runs OnlyFans
00:16:53.500 still
00:16:53.800 must be my shit
00:16:55.000 we're crazy
00:16:56.680 so from
00:16:58.720 from my perspective
00:17:00.100 what I see is
00:17:01.360 I see a lot of women
00:17:02.340 doing things like OnlyFans
00:17:03.860 perhaps we should
00:17:04.680 use a different platform
00:17:06.400 because I feel like
00:17:07.320 you know
00:17:07.640 maybe you are part of the PR team
00:17:09.520 for OnlyFans
00:17:10.280 maybe that's what's going on here
00:17:11.760 I'm joking
00:17:12.240 I'm not
00:17:12.600 but I think that
00:17:13.660 you know
00:17:14.840 when we are talking
00:17:16.600 people need to listen
00:17:18.060 instead of being defensive
00:17:19.880 you know
00:17:20.580 I think you're talking about
00:17:21.660 you're talking about yourself
00:17:23.180 right now
00:17:23.400 you're being defensive
00:17:24.080 we are here to
00:17:25.620 discuss something
00:17:26.720 we're not here to
00:17:27.700 start fighting
00:17:29.620 you're the one
00:17:30.820 that hasn't been listening
00:17:31.540 the whole time
00:17:32.060 like
00:17:32.740 this video is live
00:17:34.200 and there are people watching
00:17:35.020 and I can actually
00:17:36.520 read the comments
00:17:37.200 if you want to see
00:17:37.820 what they're saying
00:17:38.260 in the comments
00:17:38.740 I don't think you realise
00:17:40.320 how you're coming across
00:17:41.140 but it's fine
00:17:41.800 when you get back home
00:17:42.880 you can watch it back
00:17:43.820 and see whether you
00:17:44.520 actually answered the question
00:17:45.420 what a super chat saying
00:17:46.380 do you think
00:17:48.140 there's going to be a time
00:17:49.060 where OnlyFans
00:17:49.740 is just like outdated
00:17:50.940 or how do you guys see
00:17:52.380 OnlyFans coming out
00:17:52.820 yeah yeah
00:17:52.880 it's going to be
00:17:53.340 AI fans next
00:17:54.280 yeah yeah
00:17:54.920 AI fans
00:17:55.860 what would you mean
00:17:56.560 like women having their
00:17:57.760 what list
00:17:58.400 and put on like
00:18:00.180 your likeness
00:18:01.260 and they can do
00:18:02.180 whatever you want
00:18:02.740 with that AI
00:18:03.340 it would be fake girls
00:18:04.240 fake girls
00:18:05.020 that started recently
00:18:05.900 as well hasn't it
00:18:06.520 I think it's going to be
00:18:07.520 a woman
00:18:07.840 I think it's going to be
00:18:08.800 men who are probably
00:18:10.220 going to be able
00:18:10.820 because I read
00:18:11.020 oh I hear it
00:18:11.680 motherfucker
00:18:12.120 I think it's going to be
00:18:13.980 men who are probably
00:18:14.560 going to create these
00:18:15.500 AI women
00:18:16.100 yeah
00:18:16.320 women
00:18:16.780 and I mean
00:18:18.480 because
00:18:18.740 where do you think
00:18:19.760 the privacy comes in
00:18:20.880 are there going to be
00:18:21.340 legislations and laws
00:18:22.440 that will protect
00:18:23.240 our photos
00:18:24.200 then being generated
00:18:25.200 into AI
00:18:25.980 characters
00:18:26.900 no I don't think
00:18:27.600 they're going to be
00:18:28.320 women's photos
00:18:29.460 turned into AI
00:18:30.360 characters
00:18:30.740 I think they're just
00:18:31.500 going to make AI
00:18:32.300 characters
00:18:32.840 okay
00:18:33.280 because then they
00:18:33.840 don't have to worry
00:18:34.460 about any laws
00:18:35.100 and regulations
00:18:35.680 they can just
00:18:36.340 shortcut it
00:18:36.980 which makes sense
00:18:38.380 I mean
00:18:39.720 it's crazy
00:18:40.380 I mean
00:18:40.660 the technology
00:18:41.660 is just
00:18:42.360 it's advanced
00:18:44.280 so quickly
00:18:45.040 and I feel like
00:18:45.920 time is getting
00:18:47.620 quicker
00:18:48.040 if that makes sense
00:18:48.900 the amount of
00:18:50.240 technology that's
00:18:50.820 come out
00:18:51.180 and obviously
00:18:52.020 something like
00:18:53.400 OnlyFans
00:18:54.180 what's that going
00:18:55.640 to look like
00:18:56.160 now that AI
00:18:57.200 has been introduced
00:18:57.860 into the world
00:18:58.980 I guess
00:18:59.460 I don't know
00:19:01.420 I think we're just
00:19:02.620 going to have to see
00:19:03.300 when we get there
00:19:03.980 let's go
00:19:04.480 yeah
00:19:04.760 anyway
00:19:05.800 my perspective
00:19:06.800 at the moment
00:19:07.380 is that
00:19:08.160 women who indulge
00:19:09.220 in this kind of
00:19:09.780 promiscuous behavior
00:19:10.640 the majority
00:19:12.060 it seems like
00:19:12.860 everyone here
00:19:13.480 is pretty
00:19:14.240 normal
00:19:16.520 grounded about
00:19:17.320 the whole thing
00:19:18.340 maybe some
00:19:19.460 more than others
00:19:20.120 but the point
00:19:21.460 is that
00:19:22.020 women encourage
00:19:22.960 each other
00:19:23.420 to indulge
00:19:24.600 in this kind
00:19:25.140 of behavior
00:19:25.620 and women
00:19:26.560 we preach
00:19:27.720 this whole
00:19:28.260 body positivity
00:19:29.240 thing
00:19:29.780 to each other
00:19:30.940 do we agree
00:19:33.540 or do we disagree
00:19:34.300 that women
00:19:34.800 lie to each other
00:19:35.680 all the time
00:19:36.360 can I ask a question
00:19:37.240 is height
00:19:38.720 a part of
00:19:39.240 body positivity
00:19:40.280 I mean
00:19:42.500 women
00:19:43.260 don't really get
00:19:44.300 judged on height
00:19:44.960 and body positivity
00:19:45.680 is only a woman's thing
00:19:46.820 oh
00:19:47.500 oh
00:19:47.960 that's
00:19:48.320 that's
00:19:49.260 that's surprising
00:19:50.020 to me
00:19:50.480 so
00:19:51.040 so
00:19:51.940 that's a double
00:19:53.120 standard
00:19:53.460 of course
00:19:54.300 okay
00:19:55.000 fair
00:19:55.260 I just
00:19:55.740 wanted to know
00:19:56.540 at least
00:19:56.800 someone was
00:19:57.080 going to admit
00:19:57.520 you just had a
00:19:57.980 revelation
00:19:59.080 I just wanted to know
00:19:59.860 man
00:20:00.120 shit
00:20:00.380 do women
00:20:02.680 lie to each other
00:20:03.480 I think women
00:20:04.440 just lie in general
00:20:05.360 unfortunately
00:20:06.920 women are worse than
00:20:08.040 guys
00:20:08.380 why unfortunately
00:20:10.140 don't they lie
00:20:10.820 at least like 70
00:20:11.560 times a day
00:20:12.140 about the smallest
00:20:12.720 stuff
00:20:13.020 yeah
00:20:14.180 it's a bit crazy
00:20:15.120 I'm not gonna lie
00:20:15.700 you two look really
00:20:16.720 traumatized
00:20:17.400 I have a very big problem
00:20:24.360 with this body
00:20:24.800 body positivity
00:20:25.880 thing yeah
00:20:26.460 because
00:20:27.360 the men
00:20:28.340 that are height challenged
00:20:29.680 aren't getting no love
00:20:31.120 what do you mean by height challenged
00:20:32.020 explain what are height challenged
00:20:32.860 under six foot
00:20:34.080 under six foot
00:20:34.720 so listen
00:20:35.180 if you
00:20:36.220 if you need to step
00:20:37.140 into the kitchen
00:20:37.680 and tiptoe for anything
00:20:38.600 that's called a height challenge
00:20:39.620 yeah
00:20:39.840 that's mad
00:20:40.320 I'm not gonna lie
00:20:41.060 that's called a height challenge
00:20:42.380 you get me
00:20:42.740 so
00:20:43.480 I just want to know
00:20:44.920 because anytime
00:20:45.400 like I'm on clubhouse regularly
00:20:46.680 anytime that we have these conversations
00:20:47.840 it seems like
00:20:48.320 it's like
00:20:48.520 oh my gosh
00:20:49.260 don't
00:20:50.000 don't mention this person's weight
00:20:51.420 and don't mention this and that
00:20:52.600 and then
00:20:52.960 like
00:20:54.280 there's mandem being height shamed
00:20:55.600 and told that
00:20:56.580 I don't want to date you
00:20:57.260 because you're height
00:20:57.920 but
00:20:58.220 why is that not part of the
00:20:59.860 body positivity
00:21:00.900 like
00:21:01.160 yeah
00:21:01.520 why are you going for the short mandem
00:21:02.600 hmm
00:21:03.120 like
00:21:04.640 can we show some love
00:21:05.980 to the mandem that are heightly challenged
00:21:07.280 listen
00:21:07.720 it's all about the personality
00:21:08.900 yeah
00:21:09.440 money and heights
00:21:10.240 don't mean a thing
00:21:11.040 so you don't care about height
00:21:12.020 that's a lie
00:21:13.100 um
00:21:13.980 look how long it took her to think about that
00:21:16.200 she did a long pause
00:21:17.680 no no no
00:21:18.240 hey my name you got no chance
00:21:19.960 I'm not gonna lie
00:21:20.460 can I reply
00:21:21.060 did you ask me a question
00:21:22.040 shit
00:21:22.320 yeah
00:21:22.540 let me fucking reply then
00:21:23.820 oh shit
00:21:24.260 listen
00:21:24.660 um
00:21:25.420 for me
00:21:26.040 I think everybody reacts differently
00:21:27.820 I'm the kind of person
00:21:28.760 I look at
00:21:29.400 personality
00:21:29.820 energy
00:21:30.660 there's other things
00:21:31.760 that can pull me into
00:21:32.580 be attracted to somebody
00:21:33.780 right
00:21:34.340 okay
00:21:34.700 I've dated someone
00:21:36.180 that's the same height as me
00:21:37.320 do you know what I mean
00:21:37.820 I've not been like
00:21:38.920 oh you're a midget
00:21:39.760 no I don't want to
00:21:40.520 sit down
00:21:40.600 oh you're not with it no more are you
00:21:41.720 you're not together on them more are you
00:21:43.600 but that isn't the reason
00:21:44.640 why I'm not with them though
00:21:45.940 how many relationships
00:21:46.740 I'm not that shallow minded
00:21:47.560 to be like
00:21:48.020 let me put the physicality
00:21:49.280 into a potential
00:21:50.920 so why did you mention
00:21:52.020 that he was the same height
00:21:52.920 instead of
00:21:53.300 I'm using an example
00:21:54.440 why did you bring up his hat for
00:21:55.680 but we were talking about
00:21:56.900 but we were talking about
00:21:56.920 being short
00:21:57.680 why did she bring up his hat
00:21:58.780 why did she bring up his hat
00:21:59.640 what's going on here
00:22:00.500 she's gonna have to bring up his hat
00:22:01.680 because we're talking about height
00:22:02.920 so stop it
00:22:03.540 no but why is he the same height as you
00:22:04.920 why is he not shorter
00:22:05.560 why couldn't you tell us about a shorter guy
00:22:06.920 that you had a relationship with
00:22:07.800 because it just hasn't happened
00:22:09.220 but when it does
00:22:09.840 I'll come back and let you know
00:22:11.020 it makes sense
00:22:13.320 oh
00:22:13.900 body positivity
00:22:15.480 yeah
00:22:16.360 oh
00:22:16.780 is there a reason why you choose
00:22:20.100 not to date short men
00:22:20.900 did you not just listen to my answer
00:22:23.600 you said the guy was
00:22:24.940 you said the guy was the same height
00:22:26.240 not shorter
00:22:26.600 no no no before that
00:22:27.420 did you not listen to what I just said
00:22:28.480 I said I get attracted by someone's
00:22:30.040 energy personality
00:22:30.980 it's not the physicality
00:22:32.320 or the money that attracts me
00:22:33.940 but then I don't tolerate bullshit
00:22:37.320 have you been with a guy
00:22:38.600 that's shorter than you
00:22:39.280 I have been
00:22:41.060 I'm quite tall though
00:22:42.940 I'm about 5'7, 5'8
00:22:44.480 in between
00:22:45.040 but have you been with a guy
00:22:45.880 that's shorter than you
00:22:46.440 yeah
00:22:46.940 you have
00:22:47.440 cap
00:22:49.240 interesting
00:22:51.440 what?
00:22:56.440 because I'm not a midget
00:22:57.440 like just like midget
00:22:58.440 for the short one
00:22:59.440 initially you only mentioned the guy
00:23:00.940 who was the same height
00:23:02.440 my same height, yeah
00:23:04.440 did you have to lift him up?
00:23:06.440 you have to rock him to sleep
00:23:08.440 tuck him in
00:23:09.440 when you said that I slept with him
00:23:10.440 what do you mean by bin?
00:23:11.440 I'm talking about going on a date
00:23:12.440 not sleeping with somebody
00:23:13.440 wait was he
00:23:14.440 oh just a date?
00:23:15.440 yeah
00:23:16.440 I'm not talking about sleeping with somebody
00:23:17.440 I'm not talking about sleeping with somebody
00:23:18.440 she used him for his money
00:23:19.440 oh that's crazy
00:23:20.440 yeah yeah
00:23:21.440 makes sense
00:23:22.440 yeah obviously
00:23:23.440 fair enough
00:23:24.440 fair enough
00:23:25.440 what do people use you for then?
00:23:26.440 oh shit
00:23:28.440 is he a luxe or what?
00:23:30.440 i personally
00:23:31.440 i personally
00:23:32.440 i personally
00:23:35.440 i'm six foot
00:23:36.440 are you?
00:23:37.440 okay
00:23:38.440 i personally
00:23:39.440 wait wait wait wait
00:23:40.440 let me get this straight
00:23:41.440 when you said
00:23:42.440 when you said
00:23:43.440 you've dated someone
00:23:44.440 that is um
00:23:45.440 shorter than you
00:23:46.440 it doesn't count
00:23:47.440 if you didn't sleep with them
00:23:48.440 really
00:23:49.440 actually it really doesn't count
00:23:50.440 it doesn't count
00:23:51.440 if you didn't sleep with them
00:23:52.440 because we're talking about
00:23:53.440 people you're attracted to
00:23:54.440 so if you didn't get to the point
00:23:55.440 of sleeping with him
00:23:56.440 but that's what they were talking about
00:23:57.440 because of their reaction
00:23:59.440 nah
00:24:00.440 i think
00:24:01.440 i think we mean that the guys
00:24:02.440 actually make it to the finish line
00:24:03.440 so if you didn't make it to the finish line
00:24:04.440 then it doesn't count
00:24:05.440 then there's no need for me to talk
00:24:06.440 then okay sorry
00:24:07.440 if he stood up and he was under six foot
00:24:08.440 would you be upset?
00:24:11.440 no
00:24:12.440 oh fair enough
00:24:13.440 why?
00:24:14.440 i thought you would have height changed
00:24:15.440 no i wouldn't
00:24:16.440 i'm just teasing
00:24:17.440 listen i'm not gonna be malice
00:24:18.440 and be a dickhead
00:24:19.440 like i'm a respectful person
00:24:20.440 but i will make you laugh
00:24:21.440 and educate you at the same time
00:24:23.440 i'm not gonna lie
00:24:24.440 that's an unfortunate end
00:24:25.440 i have been in a relationship
00:24:28.440 with a person that is shorter than me
00:24:30.440 well just one
00:24:32.440 pardon
00:24:33.440 just one
00:24:34.440 just one what does that mean?
00:24:35.440 one person
00:24:36.440 just one relationship
00:24:37.440 or multiple
00:24:38.440 i'm talking about the person that is shorter than me
00:24:40.440 i'm talking about the person that was short
00:24:42.440 yeah just one person
00:24:43.440 how many short guys have you been out with?
00:24:45.440 one person
00:24:46.440 just one short guy
00:24:47.440 one short guy
00:24:48.440 okay that makes sense
00:24:49.440 how many relationships have you had?
00:24:51.440 he is
00:24:52.440 he is
00:24:53.440 he is
00:24:54.440 he is my first relationship
00:24:55.440 wait what do you mean it's a personal question
00:24:57.440 is it so bad to ask you how many relationships
00:24:59.440 is that a bad thing now?
00:25:00.440 no it ain't
00:25:01.440 okay sorry
00:25:02.440 i got defensive
00:25:03.440 sorry
00:25:04.440 don't worry
00:25:05.440 don't worry
00:25:06.440 we got this
00:25:07.440 was it just one short guy
00:25:08.440 one short relationship
00:25:09.440 he is the first person i dated
00:25:11.440 i was in a relationship with
00:25:13.440 okay
00:25:14.440 fair enough
00:25:15.440 so you dated the height challenge that
00:25:16.440 no we didn't
00:25:17.440 we were in a relationship
00:25:19.440 how did it go?
00:25:20.440 how short was he?
00:25:21.440 i love how you guys just made a height
00:25:23.440 he was uh
00:25:24.440 because no one's gonna call us out for height shame
00:25:26.440 like it doesn't happen
00:25:27.440 this is the new thing
00:25:28.440 he was 5'6 i believe
00:25:30.440 and i'm 5'11
00:25:31.440 oh wow
00:25:32.440 wow
00:25:33.440 yeah
00:25:34.440 my turn
00:25:35.440 did you have to pick him up to hug him?
00:25:36.440 don't be mean
00:25:37.440 don't be mean
00:25:38.440 don't be mean
00:25:39.440 don't do that
00:25:40.440 do you know what it is?
00:25:41.440 do you know what it is yeah?
00:25:42.440 don't be mean
00:25:43.440 i find it absolutely
00:25:44.440 it's a bit awkward though
00:25:45.440 especially if a woman wears heels
00:25:46.440 wild
00:25:47.440 at that height as well
00:25:48.440 that like
00:25:49.440 listen if this clip goes out
00:25:50.440 and i was weight shaming someone
00:25:52.440 i'd be cancelled
00:25:53.440 but you see the short jokes
00:25:55.440 for some reason
00:25:56.440 they keep going under the radar
00:25:57.440 pun intended
00:25:58.440 you get it?
00:25:59.440 i'm just like
00:26:00.440 we'll be there then
00:26:01.440 but the thing is
00:26:02.440 men don't
00:26:03.440 let's flip the coin here
00:26:04.440 do you find it weird
00:26:05.440 if a woman's taller than you?
00:26:06.440 no
00:26:07.440 no
00:26:08.440 oh exactly
00:26:09.440 so why is it
00:26:10.440 why is that though?
00:26:11.440 why is that between men and women
00:26:12.440 we have like
00:26:13.440 but would you date an overweight woman?
00:26:14.440 oh shit
00:26:15.440 there we go
00:26:16.440 there we go
00:26:17.440 so hold on
00:26:18.440 overweight
00:26:19.440 overweight
00:26:20.440 and obese
00:26:21.440 are two different things
00:26:22.440 are you talking
00:26:23.440 overweight
00:26:24.440 or obese?
00:26:25.440 yeah cool
00:26:26.440 there's two different things
00:26:28.440 what's the difference?
00:26:29.440 there's overweight
00:26:30.440 obese is extremely
00:26:31.440 overweight
00:26:32.440 for your height
00:26:33.440 BMI
00:26:34.440 whatever it is
00:26:35.440 even though everyone says
00:26:36.440 just like a few extra pounds
00:26:37.440 like a bit chubs
00:26:38.440 no no no no
00:26:39.440 obese is extremely overweight
00:26:41.440 okay
00:26:42.440 so you're not just
00:26:43.440 a little bit chubby
00:26:44.440 300 pounds
00:26:45.440 that's 300 pounds
00:26:46.440 yeah a little bit of cupping right here
00:26:47.440 none of that
00:26:48.440 it's excessive
00:26:49.440 300 pounds
00:26:50.440 if you're overweight
00:26:51.440 it's just
00:26:52.440 your BMI could be like
00:26:53.440 X
00:26:54.440 and then you're
00:26:55.440 you're literally like
00:26:56.440 two specs above the X
00:26:57.440 okay so answer the question
00:26:58.440 someone as big as Lizzo
00:26:59.440 would you date them?
00:27:00.440 do you have a motive first of all the question?
00:27:02.440 respectfully no
00:27:03.440 respect the confidence
00:27:04.440 why not?
00:27:05.440 what confidence?
00:27:06.440 why?
00:27:07.440 what is it that you respect?
00:27:08.440 the confidence isn't it?
00:27:09.440 like yo
00:27:10.440 if you
00:27:11.440 the confidence to be that unhealthy
00:27:12.440 and encourage other people
00:27:13.440 wait wait
00:27:14.440 do they want to bang or date?
00:27:15.440 that's the difference
00:27:16.440 now listen
00:27:17.440 if this person
00:27:18.440 and you are shaped like this
00:27:19.440 that's the difference
00:27:20.440 do your ting
00:27:21.440 if you're confident in it
00:27:22.440 do your ting
00:27:23.440 I have no problem with that
00:27:24.440 you think they're naturally shaped like that?
00:27:26.440 I think
00:27:27.440 I think there's a bad food to mouth ratio
00:27:28.440 but there's not much that I can really say
00:27:30.440 like in regards to it
00:27:31.440 you get it?
00:27:32.440 like no one
00:27:33.440 like no one
00:27:34.440 like no one
00:27:35.440 like no one is big bones
00:27:36.440 no one is big bones
00:27:37.440 we've seen the skeletons
00:27:38.440 no one is big bones
00:27:39.440 so we do understand
00:27:40.440 but there are
00:27:41.440 that a lot
00:27:42.440 no no no
00:27:43.440 what you're about to do
00:27:44.440 is you're about to say
00:27:45.440 some qualifications
00:27:47.440 and blah blah blah
00:27:48.440 no you're talking about anomalies
00:27:49.440 the vast majority of people
00:27:50.440 that are overweight
00:27:51.440 I love how you know me already
00:27:52.440 I know because you're about to probably
00:27:53.440 you know me already
00:27:54.440 the vast majority of people
00:27:55.440 that are overweight
00:27:56.440 from what I understand
00:27:57.440 it's just a bad food to mouth ratio
00:27:58.440 and we completely understand that
00:27:59.440 yeah
00:28:00.440 if you're happy within yourself
00:28:01.440 do your ting
00:28:02.440 that's got no problem with me
00:28:03.440 but you can't expect me
00:28:04.440 okay I want to stop you right there
00:28:05.440 I want to stop you right there
00:28:06.440 go ahead
00:28:07.440 so your philosophy is that
00:28:08.440 if you're happy in yourself
00:28:09.440 then that's okay
00:28:11.440 so
00:28:12.440 would you then
00:28:13.440 encourage someone who say
00:28:15.440 has an unhealthy drug addiction
00:28:17.440 oh but they're happy in themselves
00:28:18.440 so
00:28:19.440 you do you
00:28:20.440 no
00:28:21.440 it's not my life
00:28:22.440 if you're happy within yourself
00:28:23.440 I'm not going to give you any advice
00:28:24.440 in regards to it
00:28:25.440 what about if it's a friend or someone you love
00:28:26.440 if it's my friend
00:28:27.440 that's someone I care about
00:28:28.440 then of course I'm going to take
00:28:29.440 an actual care
00:28:30.440 okay I have a question for everyone
00:28:31.440 if demanding were overweight
00:28:32.440 I would tell demanding
00:28:33.440 my bro
00:28:34.440 your belly kind of hanging over the belt
00:28:36.440 your thing is moving kind of mad
00:28:38.440 like my bro
00:28:39.440 I'm going to part you
00:28:40.440 don't get it twisted
00:28:41.440 but we're then going to go to the gym together
00:28:43.440 and we're going to bang it out
00:28:44.440 and we're going to make sure you get to
00:28:45.440 where you need to be
00:28:46.440 we're not just going to leave you
00:28:47.440 and be like oh my god
00:28:48.440 body positivity
00:28:49.440 you look so good in that dress
00:28:50.440 that doesn't fit
00:28:51.440 this doesn't surprise me
00:28:52.440 this doesn't surprise me that a male is giving this answer
00:28:53.440 so I want to hear what the girls think
00:28:55.440 simple question
00:28:56.440 would you tell your girlfriend if she's fat
00:28:58.440 I would tell people
00:29:00.440 I'm real
00:29:01.440 so whatever's going on
00:29:02.440 that doesn't benefit them
00:29:03.440 I will say it to them
00:29:04.440 but
00:29:05.440 each person is different
00:29:06.440 it depends on how you deliver things
00:29:07.440 but yeah I'm real
00:29:08.440 if there's something going on
00:29:09.440 if you're drinking too much
00:29:11.440 if you're doing this too much
00:29:12.440 if you're eating too much
00:29:13.440 you're not looking good too much
00:29:14.440 I will say it
00:29:15.440 for their own benefit
00:29:16.440 not for my own
00:29:17.440 but it depends on how you deliver it
00:29:18.440 the problem people have
00:29:19.440 I call cap
00:29:20.440 same same
00:29:21.440 and the reason why I call cap
00:29:22.440 is because you actually didn't answer the question
00:29:24.440 you said a whole lot of different things
00:29:26.440 she asked a straight question
00:29:27.440 yes
00:29:28.440 would you tell your friends
00:29:29.440 if they're fat
00:29:30.440 you didn't have to start saying
00:29:31.440 well there's a way
00:29:32.440 she did a whole story
00:29:33.440 you didn't answer the question
00:29:34.440 I'm giving a relevant story
00:29:35.440 but yes
00:29:36.440 yeah
00:29:37.440 you tell your friend if they're fat
00:29:38.440 they tell me all the time
00:29:39.440 if I look ugly
00:29:40.440 I'll tell them if they look a bit
00:29:41.440 you know
00:29:42.440 your friends tell you
00:29:43.440 when they think you look ugly
00:29:44.440 yeah
00:29:45.440 you sound like you've got good friends
00:29:46.440 yeah they are very good friends
00:29:47.440 shout out
00:29:48.440 to her
00:29:49.440 I will not
00:29:52.440 wait wait wait wait
00:29:54.440 let her speak
00:29:55.440 let her land
00:29:56.440 I was actually initially finished
00:29:58.440 since we need just to give a short answer
00:30:01.440 but if I need to elaborate
00:30:02.440 if a person
00:30:03.440 if my friend is fat
00:30:05.440 I will not tell her that
00:30:06.440 you are fat
00:30:07.440 why would I say that
00:30:08.440 so you're gonna make her
00:30:09.440 wait
00:30:10.440 if she is unhealthy
00:30:12.440 and I know that she have a health condition
00:30:14.440 that is related to her weight
00:30:17.440 I'm gonna make my way to let her know
00:30:20.440 that we need to get her to work on it
00:30:22.440 but just saying you're fat
00:30:24.440 that's not
00:30:25.440 okay well that's what I was
00:30:26.440 I never said it and I will never say it
00:30:28.440 I get this
00:30:29.440 I get this
00:30:30.440 this is the woman's mentality
00:30:32.440 and I'm a woman
00:30:33.440 so I understand
00:30:34.440 that's my mentality
00:30:35.440 that's not about a woman
00:30:36.440 that's how I think
00:30:37.440 I think most women
00:30:38.440 the thought of telling another woman
00:30:39.440 you're fat
00:30:40.440 you're fat
00:30:41.440 yeah hurtful
00:30:42.440 okay
00:30:43.440 I wouldn't put it like that either
00:30:44.440 right
00:30:45.440 but
00:30:46.440 let me rephrase it in a feminine way
00:30:49.440 you have a girlfriend
00:30:50.440 right
00:30:51.440 you've been friends for a long long time
00:30:53.440 five to ten years
00:30:54.440 that means nothing to me
00:30:55.440 I still get rid of people
00:30:57.440 just follow me
00:30:58.440 for a second
00:30:59.440 just follow my story
00:31:00.440 so you're good friends
00:31:01.440 you've got great relationship
00:31:02.440 forget the time
00:31:03.440 she's your girl
00:31:05.440 she's gaining
00:31:07.440 she is gaining
00:31:08.440 tub
00:31:09.440 right
00:31:10.440 she's got a bit of a double chin going
00:31:11.440 perhaps when she wears a crop top
00:31:12.440 half of it's hanging out a bit
00:31:13.440 you know
00:31:14.440 she's starting to get the whole
00:31:15.440 arm wings shit going on
00:31:18.440 are you letting her know
00:31:20.440 hey
00:31:21.440 I've noticed that you're gaining a bit of weight
00:31:23.440 yeah
00:31:24.440 is everything okay
00:31:25.440 why is there something we can do here
00:31:27.440 or
00:31:28.440 let's say
00:31:29.440 let's add another context in here
00:31:31.440 she's all over Instagram and everything
00:31:34.440 say she has a tiktok account
00:31:35.440 right
00:31:36.440 and she's one of these body positivity advocates
00:31:38.440 and she has loads of fans telling her
00:31:40.440 you go girl body positivity
00:31:42.440 right
00:31:43.440 so she's continually gaining weight
00:31:46.440 eating food
00:31:47.440 yes
00:31:48.440 that's how people gain weight
00:31:49.440 she's continuing to gain weight
00:31:51.440 because she's being body positive
00:31:53.440 and she wants to stop the idea of fat shaming
00:31:57.440 what are you doing?
00:31:59.440 I think as a good friend
00:32:01.440 you obviously need to be like
00:32:03.440 look
00:32:04.440 like friend to friend
00:32:06.440 I think
00:32:07.440 you know you've
00:32:08.440 you know
00:32:09.440 like respectfully
00:32:10.440 like not
00:32:11.440 you can't just be like you're fat
00:32:12.440 like respectfully
00:32:13.440 I mean you can
00:32:14.440 if you're good friends
00:32:15.440 yeah of course you can
00:32:16.440 I'm sure if I started getting fat
00:32:17.440 Pearl would say to me
00:32:18.440 girl you're getting fat
00:32:19.440 but I don't think most girls would put it like that
00:32:21.440 yeah you
00:32:22.440 because people get
00:32:23.440 like people sensitive
00:32:24.440 especially women
00:32:25.440 they're quite sensitive
00:32:26.440 so obviously tell them in a way that
00:32:27.440 you know respectfully
00:32:28.440 look I think you know
00:32:30.440 you need to
00:32:31.440 slow down whatever
00:32:32.440 you may say
00:32:33.440 but then at the same time
00:32:34.440 you give them what you give them
00:32:35.440 but if they're deciding to listen to other people
00:32:37.440 and do this whole thing
00:32:38.440 that's up to them
00:32:39.440 I have a question
00:32:41.440 is it actually
00:32:42.440 because I'm kind of torn now
00:32:44.440 I know it's feminine nature to put it
00:32:46.440 nice
00:32:47.440 as many of you know
00:32:48.440 I was just
00:32:49.440 banned on
00:32:50.440 TikTok
00:32:51.440 and we are demonetized
00:32:52.440 on a daily basis
00:32:53.440 on this platform
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