JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023


She Gets ROASTED For Defending Only Fans on Everything


Episode Stats

Length

33 minutes

Words per Minute

203.97894

Word Count

6,743

Sentence Count

4

Misogynist Sentences

73

Hate Speech Sentences

34


Summary

In this episode we discuss the downfall of Only Fans and who is to blame for it? Is it the men or the women that fell into the trap or is it a trap for the women who fell into it and are now losing their money?


Transcript

00:00:00.000 and the man they made buying the OnlyFans no more
00:00:03.180 they're not doing that no more
00:00:04.320 do you get me they've got things to do
00:00:05.440 they've actually got to go work x y and z
00:00:07.000 and now you see a bunch of reverse that were like
00:00:08.760 oh no let me throw that ass in a circle
00:00:11.520 and online blah blah blah going
00:00:13.800 oh I am
00:00:15.520 I found Jesus and I've come back to the light
00:00:17.320 I found Jesus and the Holy Spirit came to see you
00:00:20.300 I wish I didn't do it
00:00:21.380 I wish I didn't do this
00:00:22.420 and they're trying to warn people against it
00:00:23.900 and it's like okay cool that's beautiful
00:00:25.120 you've gotten to the point
00:00:25.840 yeah cause they realize they're fucked
00:00:26.740 and then they're trying to play a whole other game
00:00:28.620 and it's like it's like but when you can't go back
00:00:30.460 when the price of the fans is going down
00:00:32.960 yeah yeah it's not
00:00:34.820 remember the fans is not 30 40 bucks you know
00:00:38.320 it's not none of them teams in there
00:00:39.800 it's a big mac
00:00:41.360 $6.99
00:00:43.360 it's a big mac
00:00:44.480 $5.99
00:00:45.200 so when the price starts going from a big mac
00:00:48.700 to a little happy meal
00:00:50.040 $1.99
00:00:51.360 the confidence that you had that was up here
00:00:55.620 when you had a bunch of different things
00:00:56.860 doing XY and Z is now completely down here
00:00:58.700 who is to blame in that situation
00:01:00.200 can you imagine how they feel right now
00:01:01.200 didn't you say earlier that you're
00:01:03.480 you're not gonna judge
00:01:04.920 you can do what you want
00:01:05.700 I don't judge
00:01:06.360 my only thing is
00:01:07.860 don't complain
00:01:09.080 have you ever subscribed
00:01:09.820 no
00:01:10.700 the hub is free you know
00:01:13.200 the hub is free you know
00:01:16.320 do you know what only fans does so well
00:01:19.700 it's because
00:01:20.700 it's a bit murked as well
00:01:22.560 it's like
00:01:22.840 it's the um
00:01:25.000 how can I explain it
00:01:26.020 it's the fact that you can't get someone that you want
00:01:28.040 that makes people subscribe to only fans
00:01:30.080 because they can go to the hub
00:01:31.540 and get all the content that they want
00:01:32.680 but
00:01:33.400 some man them are out here
00:01:35.220 and they're just simps for this specific person
00:01:36.960 and that's the reason why only fans does so well
00:01:38.940 I think only fans is a trap
00:01:40.680 that was a trap for vulnerable people to then to be capitalized on
00:01:45.100 that's how I see it
00:01:46.240 who's the vulnerable person in this scenario
00:01:48.180 people that
00:01:48.940 women
00:01:49.500 young women
00:01:50.180 or no matter what age they are
00:01:51.980 women that
00:01:52.640 what about the men who are losing their money
00:01:54.000 hold on
00:01:54.300 do you mean the people that put their email address in
00:01:56.040 their first name and their last name and their bank details
00:01:57.780 to get the money
00:01:58.280 no no
00:01:58.380 listen
00:01:58.600 vulnerable people aren't gonna process and see the bait
00:02:01.720 we might
00:02:02.920 from this perspective
00:02:03.820 so hold on
00:02:04.380 hold on
00:02:04.560 they literally fell into a very obvious trap
00:02:07.640 to get into it
00:02:08.340 to making quick money
00:02:09.420 that's how they perceived it
00:02:10.840 to survive
00:02:11.960 or to make money
00:02:12.840 or whatever
00:02:13.640 I see that as a trap
00:02:15.200 I feel like the platform only fans
00:02:17.140 was a trap for a lot of vulnerable women
00:02:19.280 if
00:02:19.940 if
00:02:20.540 if the trap has five different steps
00:02:23.360 I'm sorry
00:02:24.200 you might have deserved it
00:02:25.520 in the beginning
00:02:26.020 if you've got to put in your first name
00:02:27.840 your last name
00:02:28.940 your email address
00:02:30.320 your bank details
00:02:31.460 you then got to create the page
00:02:33.380 you got to post content
00:02:34.760 and then you got to take the content
00:02:36.260 and you got to post it on other social medias
00:02:37.920 if you mean to tell me
00:02:39.500 you got trapped after seven steps
00:02:41.760 I'm saying the platform itself
00:02:44.420 the existence of whatever only fans represents
00:02:47.220 was set up for a trap
00:02:49.320 to capitalize on women
00:02:50.740 from women
00:02:51.280 so people could willingly sign up
00:02:52.420 why are we calling it a trap?
00:02:53.340 I'm not saying that they didn't know what they're doing
00:02:55.220 I'm talking about the actual business concept
00:02:57.380 but it's not a trap if you know
00:02:58.360 it's not a trap if you're willingly
00:02:59.840 a trap for a vulnerable woman
00:03:01.080 a woman that thinks
00:03:01.860 okay hold on
00:03:02.600 let me
00:03:02.960 when a woman's delusional
00:03:04.800 she's not gonna think properly
00:03:06.040 she's gonna be like
00:03:06.880 okay cool
00:03:07.380 I see an opportunity to make money
00:03:08.660 let me go and sign up
00:03:09.820 let me do what I have to do
00:03:10.800 you're not understanding what I mean by trap
00:03:12.880 why can't they go and get a normal job?
00:03:14.620 well they should
00:03:15.360 that's my point
00:03:16.340 but I'm saying
00:03:16.760 I'm looking at the whole business setup
00:03:19.340 of what only fans represent
00:03:20.840 if you think about it
00:03:21.780 it was initially created
00:03:24.620 knowing, targeting certain women
00:03:27.460 but again
00:03:28.940 aren't you taken away from the accountability
00:03:31.000 of the women to realise that they're the ones
00:03:32.860 they are realising
00:03:34.320 but they're not realising it to the full extent
00:03:36.040 until it's too late
00:03:37.080 so isn't that a them problem?
00:03:37.880 now that you're saying
00:03:38.600 there's a lot of women
00:03:39.300 that have come out of it
00:03:40.100 saying
00:03:40.660 but that's what I'm saying
00:03:41.640 that's a them problem
00:03:42.300 so again I ask the question
00:03:43.580 where does the accountability come in?
00:03:46.300 I think most of them
00:03:48.180 take accountability
00:03:49.020 with what they're doing
00:03:50.440 I think they are very conscious
00:03:52.140 of what they're doing
00:03:53.040 so the problem with accountability
00:03:54.620 I still didn't get it
00:03:56.120 because I never saw a woman
00:03:58.080 that do certain kind of jobs
00:04:00.480 coming on the internet
00:04:02.100 and start acting like a victim
00:04:04.120 I believe that she's conscious
00:04:06.240 about what she's doing
00:04:07.380 and she's probably proud of it
00:04:10.540 and it's just confident in what she's doing
00:04:13.580 the accountability comes in
00:04:15.180 when you see these women
00:04:17.380 that do only fans
00:04:18.400 and all of that
00:04:19.020 and then they come out
00:04:19.940 and they say they deserve
00:04:21.060 a certain kind of man
00:04:22.080 so you fail to realize
00:04:26.180 that the moment you get into something like that
00:04:28.240 you don't then deserve
00:04:29.420 what you think you do
00:04:30.360 no matter how confident in yourself you feel
00:04:33.940 no matter how well you think you attend
00:04:36.520 or whatever
00:04:36.980 the reality is
00:04:38.420 you deserve what you get in life
00:04:40.940 and you deserve what you get
00:04:43.000 from the actions that you do in life
00:04:44.700 so whenever I see women come out and say
00:04:47.240 oh yeah I did only fans on this and that
00:04:49.640 but I still deserve a man that makes six figures
00:04:52.180 that can provide for me
00:04:53.040 and do a lot of this and that
00:04:53.840 it just shows me that you don't have accountability
00:04:56.160 and you're never self-aware to
00:04:58.960 yeah delusional
00:04:59.720 to realize what you've put yourself into
00:05:02.020 so I have a question
00:05:04.760 do only fans models
00:05:06.880 models
00:05:08.700 models
00:05:09.760 I love how you stop there
00:05:10.980 individuals
00:05:11.560 oh no wait hold on
00:05:12.260 sexy models
00:05:13.280 girls who basically haul themselves out online for money
00:05:17.480 do they deserve the same kind of men that girls who don't do
00:05:20.380 are they entitled to the same type of man
00:05:23.080 I would say it's possible now
00:05:27.480 so you think a girl who has
00:05:30.100 literally gotten
00:05:32.380 completely butt naked online for
00:05:35.100 as much as we said
00:05:36.560 a big mac meal
00:05:37.680 you think that
00:05:39.500 that's the same as a girl
00:05:41.940 who hasn't
00:05:42.800 you think that they can get
00:05:43.760 the same kind of man
00:05:45.100 can you repeat again the question
00:05:47.520 because I feel I didn't follow
00:05:48.560 so
00:05:49.100 a girl who does only fans
00:05:50.620 so gets naked online for
00:05:52.840 the same amount of money as a
00:05:54.380 burger
00:05:55.080 you think she's entitled to the same man
00:05:58.640 as say a girl who hasn't done that
00:06:00.460 like a 9 to 5 woman
00:06:01.440 you think that they're entitled to the same man
00:06:04.640 I mean it's dependent
00:06:07.100 for example
00:06:07.800 for example yourself
00:06:08.740 compared to only fans girl
00:06:10.660 are you both entitled to the same guy
00:06:12.520 it can be possible
00:06:14.400 so you see this is the problem I have with women
00:06:18.560 when they say this
00:06:19.440 because you're looking at it from a woman's point of view
00:06:22.020 so you're looking at it from the point of view that benefits women
00:06:26.020 but now if you want to look at it from a man's point of view
00:06:29.180 if you had a son
00:06:30.220 would you want him to date a woman that has been putting her body online
00:06:35.180 to ease out and everything
00:06:38.100 I was giving in the same reason
00:06:40.060 because it's dependent
00:06:41.960 if the woman is
00:06:43.620 let's leave it depends
00:06:45.620 I'm saying
00:06:46.160 I'm giving my response
00:06:47.520 and my response is that
00:06:49.060 if that girl is doing it
00:06:52.040 said that she is doing it
00:06:54.160 and personally the way I see
00:06:56.500 things is going
00:06:57.620 with the type of content she is putting out
00:07:00.920 I'm not comfortable with it
00:07:02.120 no
00:07:02.420 but if she was doing it
00:07:04.520 and there was a lot of time that passed
00:07:07.700 or maybe she is into something else
00:07:10.280 and I feel like
00:07:10.900 men are so short tempered
00:07:12.160 they don't look at the details
00:07:13.260 they just look at the obvious things
00:07:14.940 they see that you're only fans
00:07:16.220 or you're not
00:07:16.680 you're the normal girl
00:07:17.880 or you're not
00:07:18.300 whatever normal means
00:07:19.140 they're very simple men
00:07:20.680 we're trying to get into
00:07:23.920 I'm just saying
00:07:24.960 if you had a son
00:07:26.540 and you heard that
00:07:28.060 he's dating a girl
00:07:29.220 who has been having sex online
00:07:31.640 selling her body online
00:07:32.680 and he comes home
00:07:33.540 and tells you
00:07:34.000 mom I want to marry this girl
00:07:35.520 would you let that
00:07:37.160 would you be happy
00:07:37.820 with that decision
00:07:38.500 if I have a valuable reason
00:07:40.060 that is worth it
00:07:41.920 no I'm not
00:07:42.400 look you're trying to make
00:07:43.920 it's a simple question
00:07:44.820 you don't have any other information
00:07:46.320 and I'm giving my response
00:07:46.640 no you're adding more things to my
00:07:48.420 I'm the one giving you the situation
00:07:49.800 would you let your son marry
00:07:50.780 that's my response
00:07:51.600 I'm saying if your son
00:07:53.040 you don't have any other information
00:07:54.100 about the girl
00:07:54.580 you just hear
00:07:55.260 this is a girl
00:07:56.380 that has been selling her body online
00:07:57.680 she has had sex online
00:07:58.560 there are videos of her online
00:07:59.960 having sex with other men
00:08:01.340 she's a constant
00:08:01.960 and your son says
00:08:02.760 he wants to marry her
00:08:03.780 would you be happy
00:08:05.360 with that decision
00:08:05.960 it is impossible
00:08:06.980 to have
00:08:08.380 your kids
00:08:09.640 who is dating somebody
00:08:10.860 and have no information
00:08:12.140 at a certain point
00:08:12.940 you will know
00:08:13.500 who that person is
00:08:13.720 I'm just giving you the information
00:08:14.660 I'm giving you this information
00:08:15.820 it's not about
00:08:16.500 who the person
00:08:16.860 I don't think anyone
00:08:17.220 would like that to be honest
00:08:18.200 so this is the thing
00:08:19.220 she's trying to
00:08:20.180 she's trying to justify
00:08:21.260 her reason for
00:08:22.020 for
00:08:23.080 it's become harder
00:08:25.920 for men to find
00:08:26.800 normal women
00:08:27.620 the idea
00:08:28.620 the reality is
00:08:29.620 I'm not agreeing
00:08:30.380 with something
00:08:31.000 I'm giving my point of view
00:08:32.420 but you are not listening
00:08:33.460 no you are not listening
00:08:34.640 she's secretly
00:08:35.280 she's secretly
00:08:36.500 the only man's model
00:08:37.320 you know
00:08:37.600 no because the point is
00:08:38.540 the point I'm trying to make is
00:08:39.320 she's trying to say
00:08:40.040 oh if you had information
00:08:41.340 on the person
00:08:42.120 no no that's not what I said
00:08:43.700 I said if I have a valuable reason
00:08:46.100 for what
00:08:46.560 why my kid
00:08:47.660 want to marry that person
00:08:48.900 because obviously
00:08:49.500 whoever the person is
00:08:51.400 that my kid wants to marry
00:08:52.920 I will ask
00:08:54.020 either if it's a cornstar
00:08:55.560 or not
00:08:56.100 I will always ask
00:08:57.480 why that person
00:08:58.540 but this is the point
00:09:01.880 I'm trying to point out
00:09:02.720 this is the difference
00:09:04.260 this is another difference
00:09:05.420 between men and women
00:09:06.720 a woman would want to look
00:09:08.800 for all the
00:09:09.800 fairy tale
00:09:10.840 fairyland
00:09:11.520 reasons why something can work
00:09:13.600 as a man
00:09:14.740 I don't care
00:09:15.980 what reason my son has
00:09:17.360 I'm going to look at
00:09:18.860 the possible detrimental effects
00:09:21.080 that his decision will have
00:09:22.220 on his future
00:09:23.040 well yeah
00:09:23.460 the son carries the name
00:09:24.520 as well
00:09:24.580 sorry one second
00:09:25.220 one
00:09:26.060 he's going to be marrying
00:09:27.740 someone that has videos
00:09:28.860 of her having sex online
00:09:30.780 first of all
00:09:32.080 that is going to affect
00:09:33.520 whatever
00:09:34.480 what's it called
00:09:36.500 whatever
00:09:36.960 future aspirations he has
00:09:40.360 in terms of the social world
00:09:41.760 because
00:09:42.040 if he wants to go into politics
00:09:43.360 he wants to go into anything
00:09:44.200 like that
00:09:44.700 anything that involves him
00:09:46.260 being a leader
00:09:47.480 anything that involves him
00:09:48.560 interacting with other people
00:09:50.500 things like that
00:09:51.400 will affect him
00:09:52.040 because his enemies
00:09:53.500 will always bring up
00:09:54.220 oh well your wife has videos
00:09:55.840 they'll bring up videos like that
00:09:57.040 these are things
00:09:57.620 if he's going to have children
00:09:59.360 my grandkids
00:10:00.160 there's going to be videos
00:10:01.760 of her mum
00:10:02.880 having sex online
00:10:04.860 so there is no reason
00:10:06.820 for me to think about
00:10:07.740 oh well she might be
00:10:09.000 a good person
00:10:09.660 or there might be
00:10:10.440 a good reason why
00:10:11.020 no
00:10:11.600 imagine having a grandmother
00:10:13.200 who's got porn videos
00:10:14.740 imagine being like
00:10:15.680 yeah my grandma
00:10:16.200 it's crazy
00:10:16.540 I actually find it
00:10:17.600 if my grandmother
00:10:18.700 was doing that
00:10:19.460 I'm not going to
00:10:19.960 throw her away
00:10:20.820 at the end of the day
00:10:21.720 she's saying my grandma
00:10:22.660 yes because you don't
00:10:24.220 have any
00:10:24.420 no but that's the point
00:10:25.520 because you wouldn't
00:10:26.060 have a choice at that point
00:10:27.440 but what I'm telling you
00:10:28.500 is before that point
00:10:30.040 you are talking about
00:10:31.360 okay after the fact
00:10:32.580 as a kid
00:10:33.580 no that's what I'm
00:10:34.380 talking about
00:10:35.240 you are misunderstanding me
00:10:36.920 because what you're saying
00:10:37.800 that I'm saying
00:10:38.600 I'm not agreeing with it
00:10:39.840 meaning this
00:10:40.580 you are not saying
00:10:41.260 what I'm saying
00:10:42.080 you just said
00:10:42.700 you just said
00:10:43.280 if you had a grandma
00:10:44.160 that was doing it
00:10:45.040 you won't throw her away
00:10:45.800 I'm telling you
00:10:46.440 that is because
00:10:47.180 you don't have any choice
00:10:48.200 she's your grandma
00:10:49.640 she came before you
00:10:51.020 what I'm saying is
00:10:52.240 if you have a son
00:10:54.080 that is not yet married
00:10:55.300 that is
00:10:56.660 you
00:10:57.680 you will be
00:10:58.500 solving a problem
00:10:59.560 that hasn't yet happened
00:11:00.660 but if you are
00:11:02.700 talking about your grandma
00:11:03.880 that's something
00:11:04.360 that's going to happen
00:11:04.860 I don't see it
00:11:05.480 at the same point
00:11:06.340 of course you don't
00:11:07.280 because you're a woman
00:11:07.960 I understand
00:11:08.460 I still have my
00:11:10.000 I'm still going to stay
00:11:12.480 on my
00:11:13.080 on my
00:11:13.760 we're not all the same
00:11:14.840 on my decision
00:11:15.460 I think you guys
00:11:16.080 are pretty much the same
00:11:17.000 there are just
00:11:18.040 very few differences
00:11:18.900 yeah I think that
00:11:20.240 I'm going to stay
00:11:21.420 on my decision
00:11:22.100 because I'm not
00:11:23.320 a person who
00:11:24.800 proceed like that
00:11:25.640 do you know how many
00:11:26.140 children have
00:11:26.840 well recently
00:11:27.520 studies have shown
00:11:28.660 well there's more kids
00:11:29.620 basically committing suicide
00:11:31.020 because they're getting
00:11:31.780 bullied at school
00:11:32.860 because their mum's
00:11:34.140 porn stars
00:11:35.100 and only fans
00:11:37.520 don't worry
00:11:37.900 they can cry
00:11:38.420 in the back of a bugatti
00:11:39.260 no but they're killing
00:11:39.980 themselves
00:11:40.400 that's so true
00:11:41.980 there's kids
00:11:43.760 killing themselves
00:11:44.380 because they're getting
00:11:44.840 bullied at school
00:11:45.360 can you imagine
00:11:45.940 how sad it is
00:11:47.100 for that kid to live
00:11:48.040 that life
00:11:49.240 of going to school
00:11:50.180 having their peers
00:11:51.480 or whatever
00:11:52.040 know that their
00:11:52.900 people are watching
00:11:54.120 their mum
00:11:54.600 oh my god
00:11:55.440 like wow
00:11:56.320 what is your name
00:11:58.240 please
00:11:58.640 Donika
00:11:59.080 Donika
00:11:59.760 can we not also
00:12:00.860 talk about
00:12:01.560 why it's happening
00:12:03.640 if people react
00:12:05.140 like this
00:12:05.700 like this sir
00:12:06.460 right now
00:12:06.960 who completely
00:12:07.840 attack the
00:12:08.500 imaginary person
00:12:09.340 that we're talking about
00:12:10.340 you know
00:12:11.800 because I personally
00:12:13.340 like I'm saying
00:12:14.060 I will not take
00:12:14.880 that situation
00:12:15.460 like that
00:12:15.860 and start attacking
00:12:16.520 people
00:12:17.040 because at the end
00:12:18.100 of the day
00:12:18.440 it's a person
00:12:19.260 so if you have
00:12:22.020 people attacking
00:12:22.900 people
00:12:23.300 demonising people
00:12:24.600 and going around
00:12:26.220 I have a question
00:12:28.800 if we live
00:12:29.860 in a society
00:12:30.380 where we
00:12:32.020 can't discern
00:12:33.120 who is good
00:12:33.660 and bad
00:12:34.120 where does that
00:12:35.200 leave us
00:12:35.660 because if we
00:12:36.740 can no longer
00:12:37.400 decide who is
00:12:38.500 a murderer
00:12:39.080 who is a
00:12:40.080 grapist
00:12:40.780 what we're just
00:12:41.940 going to let
00:12:42.240 these people
00:12:42.640 walk around freely
00:12:43.360 there is a limit
00:12:46.820 between deciding
00:12:47.780 what is good
00:12:48.700 or bad
00:12:49.140 and bullying
00:12:49.780 people actually
00:12:50.820 because obviously
00:12:51.540 we have to decide
00:12:52.840 what is good
00:12:53.440 and bad
00:12:53.920 it has been
00:12:54.580 like this
00:12:55.060 since the
00:12:55.600 beginning of the time
00:12:56.300 OnlyFans is it
00:12:56.720 good or bad
00:12:57.480 I mean
00:12:59.320 other people
00:13:00.140 do content
00:13:00.900 that is not
00:13:01.700 sexual
00:13:02.200 so
00:13:02.920 so
00:13:05.160 OnlyFans
00:13:06.560 is it good
00:13:06.960 or bad
00:13:07.260 I would say
00:13:08.940 it depends
00:13:09.300 on how you
00:13:09.900 see it
00:13:10.340 because I know
00:13:11.080 people do
00:13:11.720 something
00:13:12.440 that are not
00:13:13.120 sexual
00:13:13.340 is that good
00:13:13.720 or bad
00:13:14.060 or is it
00:13:15.100 depends on
00:13:15.520 how you see
00:13:15.880 it
00:13:16.100 a what
00:13:16.700 a murderer
00:13:17.240 a criminal
00:13:18.800 obviously
00:13:19.120 it's not good
00:13:20.140 right
00:13:20.800 so how come
00:13:21.540 you can decide
00:13:22.360 what's good
00:13:22.900 or bad
00:13:23.540 for a murderer
00:13:24.860 but you can't
00:13:25.800 decide on
00:13:26.140 something like
00:13:26.540 OnlyFans
00:13:26.940 because OnlyFans
00:13:28.120 is not a platform
00:13:29.320 that is designed
00:13:30.340 to sell
00:13:31.640 what we're all
00:13:32.860 talking about
00:13:33.500 now
00:13:34.000 well that's where
00:13:34.500 they're making
00:13:34.860 the money from
00:13:35.580 it's from
00:13:36.080 vaginas
00:13:36.760 it is
00:13:37.260 it is
00:13:39.300 she's stuck on the world
00:13:40.700 okay let's not say
00:13:41.460 OnlyFans
00:13:42.080 let's say
00:13:42.760 selling your body
00:13:43.980 online
00:13:44.380 because you're
00:13:45.060 trying to
00:13:45.360 you're trying to
00:13:45.920 dodge the question
00:13:46.700 by saying
00:13:47.340 well some people
00:13:48.100 don't do
00:13:48.620 I'm not dodging
00:13:50.040 something
00:13:50.420 there's a difference
00:13:51.140 between us
00:13:51.700 talking about
00:13:52.200 OnlyFans
00:13:52.820 and sexual content
00:13:53.840 no
00:13:54.220 and I'm talking
00:13:55.040 about OnlyFans
00:13:55.640 OnlyFans
00:13:56.160 himself
00:13:56.740 is not a bad
00:13:58.020 platform
00:13:58.800 it is a platform
00:14:00.240 that is most likely
00:14:01.360 exclusive
00:14:01.860 where a lot of people
00:14:02.800 sell different type
00:14:04.340 of exclusive content
00:14:05.440 but if you're talking
00:14:06.420 about something
00:14:07.100 that's something different
00:14:08.840 the difference
00:14:10.360 is only in your head
00:14:11.660 because the reality
00:14:12.280 is we all know
00:14:12.820 what we're speaking about
00:14:13.500 we're speaking about
00:14:14.100 people that sell
00:14:14.620 their body online
00:14:15.100 she used the word
00:14:15.860 OnlyFans
00:14:16.320 because that's the term
00:14:17.520 that's used
00:14:18.120 generally to describe it
00:14:19.640 but we all know
00:14:20.780 we're talking about
00:14:21.460 women that sell
00:14:22.260 their body online
00:14:22.960 so that's what
00:14:23.840 she's saying
00:14:24.240 is selling your body
00:14:26.220 online good or bad
00:14:27.120 you're getting stuck
00:14:28.160 on the word
00:14:28.540 OnlyFans
00:14:29.100 that's not what
00:14:29.500 we're talking about
00:14:30.120 yeah not the corporation
00:14:31.420 the people
00:14:32.380 who participate
00:14:33.280 in selling their body
00:14:34.840 sexually explicitly
00:14:36.240 online
00:14:36.940 is that good or bad
00:14:38.300 I personally
00:14:40.320 I do not agree
00:14:41.100 with the market
00:14:41.740 but like said
00:14:43.100 OnlyFans himself
00:14:44.420 is another thing
00:14:45.820 she's the OnlyFans manager
00:14:47.860 I'm not avoiding
00:14:58.860 I give the answer
00:14:59.720 you just don't want to listen
00:15:01.300 there's a difference
00:15:02.140 between me avoiding a question
00:15:03.600 and you not want to listen
00:15:04.740 so you just have to say
00:15:06.700 I don't listen
00:15:08.080 that's the purpose
00:15:09.340 that's the fact
00:15:10.740 I'm not understanding
00:15:13.180 or you are not listening
00:15:15.020 and the response is
00:15:17.720 you are not listening
00:15:18.700 please this is not your show
00:15:20.060 you need to relax man
00:15:21.020 I'm relaxed
00:15:21.960 I'm just talking
00:15:23.660 alright so look
00:15:24.500 here's what you're doing
00:15:25.240 you're mixing up
00:15:26.320 what OnlyFans was created for
00:15:28.300 as opposed to
00:15:28.880 what it's known for right now
00:15:30.160 I'm not mixing up anything
00:15:31.920 maybe you're not understanding me
00:15:33.580 but I'm not mixing up anything
00:15:34.680 I'm gonna allow you
00:15:35.480 to finish speaking
00:15:36.280 and then I'm going to hope
00:15:37.740 you're gonna give me
00:15:38.260 the same respect afterwards
00:15:39.540 to allow me to finish speaking
00:15:40.700 go on
00:15:41.160 I'm finished to speak
00:15:42.860 you're done
00:15:43.160 so you're not gonna
00:15:43.800 but whenever you're gonna
00:15:44.760 mix up what I said
00:15:46.000 I'm gonna
00:15:46.900 you know
00:15:47.900 let him say what he needs to say
00:15:51.060 and then you can
00:15:52.020 rebut it however you like
00:15:53.160 but let him finish first
00:15:54.120 okay wonderful
00:15:54.700 what you keep doing
00:15:55.900 is you keep trying to
00:15:57.100 conflict the two things
00:15:58.040 we completely understand
00:15:58.860 that OnlyFans
00:15:59.560 wasn't created
00:16:00.340 for porn stars
00:16:02.240 porn stars
00:16:02.960 we get it
00:16:03.480 we understand that
00:16:04.260 we know it
00:16:04.760 what it's known for right now
00:16:07.020 and what the topic is right now
00:16:08.740 is about porn stars
00:16:10.020 using it for that reason
00:16:11.120 we're asking you
00:16:12.380 a very direct question
00:16:13.420 do you think it's good or bad
00:16:15.160 and if you want to still
00:16:16.920 stay melancholy about it
00:16:18.080 and you want to stay
00:16:18.540 right in the middle
00:16:19.180 I'm then going to ask you
00:16:21.020 would you tell your
00:16:22.060 immediate loved ones
00:16:23.500 to do it
00:16:24.040 and if you wouldn't
00:16:25.300 tell them to do it
00:16:26.120 then your answer
00:16:27.340 should be very clear
00:16:28.220 it's bad
00:16:29.160 why are we flip-flopping
00:16:32.400 do you think it's bad
00:16:33.060 yes or no
00:16:33.440 if you
00:16:35.600 you know when you finish
00:16:36.980 and you look the video
00:16:38.100 on youtube
00:16:38.780 you're going to see
00:16:39.560 that I respond to the question
00:16:40.860 like I said
00:16:41.460 you are not listening
00:16:42.260 and I'm not going to repeat myself
00:16:44.020 alright so
00:16:44.840 so all of us here
00:16:46.400 that have
00:16:46.820 tried to ask you the question
00:16:48.600 multiple times
00:16:50.280 and you're going to say
00:16:51.280 we're not listening
00:16:51.760 alright cool
00:16:52.240 yeah she runs OnlyFans
00:16:53.500 still
00:16:53.800 must be my shit
00:16:55.000 we're crazy
00:16:56.680 so from
00:16:58.720 from my perspective
00:17:00.100 what I see is
00:17:01.360 I see a lot of women
00:17:02.340 doing things like OnlyFans
00:17:03.860 perhaps we should
00:17:04.680 use a different platform
00:17:06.400 because I feel like
00:17:07.320 you know
00:17:07.640 maybe you are part of the PR team
00:17:09.520 for OnlyFans
00:17:10.280 maybe that's what's going on here
00:17:11.760 I'm joking
00:17:12.240 I'm not
00:17:12.600 but I think that
00:17:13.660 you know
00:17:14.840 when we are talking
00:17:16.600 people need to listen
00:17:18.060 instead of being defensive
00:17:19.880 you know
00:17:20.580 I think you're talking about
00:17:21.660 you're talking about yourself
00:17:23.180 right now
00:17:23.400 you're being defensive
00:17:24.080 we are here to
00:17:25.620 discuss something
00:17:26.720 we're not here to
00:17:27.700 start fighting
00:17:29.620 you're the one
00:17:30.820 that hasn't been listening
00:17:31.540 the whole time
00:17:32.060 like
00:17:32.740 this video is live
00:17:34.200 and there are people watching
00:17:35.020 and I can actually
00:17:36.520 read the comments
00:17:37.200 if you want to see
00:17:37.820 what they're saying
00:17:38.260 in the comments
00:17:38.740 I don't think you realise
00:17:40.320 how you're coming across
00:17:41.140 but it's fine
00:17:41.800 when you get back home
00:17:42.880 you can watch it back
00:17:43.820 and see whether you
00:17:44.520 actually answered the question
00:17:45.420 what a super chat saying
00:17:46.380 do you think
00:17:48.140 there's going to be a time
00:17:49.060 where OnlyFans
00:17:49.740 is just like outdated
00:17:50.940 or how do you guys see
00:17:52.380 OnlyFans coming out
00:17:52.820 yeah yeah
00:17:52.880 it's going to be
00:17:53.340 AI fans next
00:17:54.280 yeah yeah
00:17:54.920 AI fans
00:17:55.860 what would you mean
00:17:56.560 like women having their
00:17:57.760 what list
00:17:58.400 and put on like
00:18:00.180 your likeness
00:18:01.260 and they can do
00:18:02.180 whatever you want
00:18:02.740 with that AI
00:18:03.340 it would be fake girls
00:18:04.240 fake girls
00:18:05.020 that started recently
00:18:05.900 as well hasn't it
00:18:06.520 I think it's going to be
00:18:07.520 a woman
00:18:07.840 I think it's going to be
00:18:08.800 men who are probably
00:18:10.220 going to be able
00:18:10.820 because I read
00:18:11.020 oh I hear it
00:18:11.680 motherfucker
00:18:12.120 I think it's going to be
00:18:13.980 men who are probably
00:18:14.560 going to create these
00:18:15.500 AI women
00:18:16.100 yeah
00:18:16.320 women
00:18:16.780 and I mean
00:18:18.480 because
00:18:18.740 where do you think
00:18:19.760 the privacy comes in
00:18:20.880 are there going to be
00:18:21.340 legislations and laws
00:18:22.440 that will protect
00:18:23.240 our photos
00:18:24.200 then being generated
00:18:25.200 into AI
00:18:25.980 characters
00:18:26.900 no I don't think
00:18:27.600 they're going to be
00:18:28.320 women's photos
00:18:29.460 turned into AI
00:18:30.360 characters
00:18:30.740 I think they're just
00:18:31.500 going to make AI
00:18:32.300 characters
00:18:32.840 okay
00:18:33.280 because then they
00:18:33.840 don't have to worry
00:18:34.460 about any laws
00:18:35.100 and regulations
00:18:35.680 they can just
00:18:36.340 shortcut it
00:18:36.980 which makes sense
00:18:38.380 I mean
00:18:39.720 it's crazy
00:18:40.380 I mean
00:18:40.660 the technology
00:18:41.660 is just
00:18:42.360 it's advanced
00:18:44.280 so quickly
00:18:45.040 and I feel like
00:18:45.920 time is getting
00:18:47.620 quicker
00:18:48.040 if that makes sense
00:18:48.900 the amount of
00:18:50.240 technology that's
00:18:50.820 come out
00:18:51.180 and obviously
00:18:52.020 something like
00:18:53.400 OnlyFans
00:18:54.180 what's that going
00:18:55.640 to look like
00:18:56.160 now that AI
00:18:57.200 has been introduced
00:18:57.860 into the world
00:18:58.980 I guess
00:18:59.460 I don't know
00:19:01.420 I think we're just
00:19:02.620 going to have to see
00:19:03.300 when we get there
00:19:03.980 let's go
00:19:04.480 yeah
00:19:04.760 anyway
00:19:05.800 my perspective
00:19:06.800 at the moment
00:19:07.380 is that
00:19:08.160 women who indulge
00:19:09.220 in this kind of
00:19:09.780 promiscuous behavior
00:19:10.640 the majority
00:19:12.060 it seems like
00:19:12.860 everyone here
00:19:13.480 is pretty
00:19:14.240 normal
00:19:16.520 grounded about
00:19:17.320 the whole thing
00:19:18.340 maybe some
00:19:19.460 more than others
00:19:20.120 but the point
00:19:21.460 is that
00:19:22.020 women encourage
00:19:22.960 each other
00:19:23.420 to indulge
00:19:24.600 in this kind
00:19:25.140 of behavior
00:19:25.620 and women
00:19:26.560 we preach
00:19:27.720 this whole
00:19:28.260 body positivity
00:19:29.240 thing
00:19:29.780 to each other
00:19:30.940 do we agree
00:19:33.540 or do we disagree
00:19:34.300 that women
00:19:34.800 lie to each other
00:19:35.680 all the time
00:19:36.360 can I ask a question
00:19:37.240 is height
00:19:38.720 a part of
00:19:39.240 body positivity
00:19:40.280 I mean
00:19:42.500 women
00:19:43.260 don't really get
00:19:44.300 judged on height
00:19:44.960 and body positivity
00:19:45.680 is only a woman's thing
00:19:46.820 oh
00:19:47.500 oh
00:19:47.960 that's
00:19:48.320 that's
00:19:49.260 that's surprising
00:19:50.020 to me
00:19:50.480 so
00:19:51.040 so
00:19:51.940 that's a double
00:19:53.120 standard
00:19:53.460 of course
00:19:54.300 okay
00:19:55.000 fair
00:19:55.260 I just
00:19:55.740 wanted to know
00:19:56.540 at least
00:19:56.800 someone was
00:19:57.080 going to admit
00:19:57.520 you just had a
00:19:57.980 revelation
00:19:59.080 I just wanted to know
00:19:59.860 man
00:20:00.120 shit
00:20:00.380 do women
00:20:02.680 lie to each other
00:20:03.480 I think women
00:20:04.440 just lie in general
00:20:05.360 unfortunately
00:20:06.920 women are worse than
00:20:08.040 guys
00:20:08.380 why unfortunately
00:20:10.140 don't they lie
00:20:10.820 at least like 70
00:20:11.560 times a day
00:20:12.140 about the smallest
00:20:12.720 stuff
00:20:13.020 yeah
00:20:14.180 it's a bit crazy
00:20:15.120 I'm not gonna lie
00:20:15.700 you two look really
00:20:16.720 traumatized
00:20:17.400 I have a very big problem
00:20:24.360 with this body
00:20:24.800 body positivity
00:20:25.880 thing yeah
00:20:26.460 because
00:20:27.360 the men
00:20:28.340 that are height challenged
00:20:29.680 aren't getting no love
00:20:31.120 what do you mean by height challenged
00:20:32.020 explain what are height challenged
00:20:32.860 under six foot
00:20:34.080 under six foot
00:20:34.720 so listen
00:20:35.180 if you
00:20:36.220 if you need to step
00:20:37.140 into the kitchen
00:20:37.680 and tiptoe for anything
00:20:38.600 that's called a height challenge
00:20:39.620 yeah
00:20:39.840 that's mad
00:20:40.320 I'm not gonna lie
00:20:41.060 that's called a height challenge
00:20:42.380 you get me
00:20:42.740 so
00:20:43.480 I just want to know
00:20:44.920 because anytime
00:20:45.400 like I'm on clubhouse regularly
00:20:46.680 anytime that we have these conversations
00:20:47.840 it seems like
00:20:48.320 it's like
00:20:48.520 oh my gosh
00:20:49.260 don't
00:20:50.000 don't mention this person's weight
00:20:51.420 and don't mention this and that
00:20:52.600 and then
00:20:52.960 like
00:20:54.280 there's mandem being height shamed
00:20:55.600 and told that
00:20:56.580 I don't want to date you
00:20:57.260 because you're height
00:20:57.920 but
00:20:58.220 why is that not part of the
00:20:59.860 body positivity
00:21:00.900 like
00:21:01.160 yeah
00:21:01.520 why are you going for the short mandem
00:21:02.600 hmm
00:21:03.120 like
00:21:04.640 can we show some love
00:21:05.980 to the mandem that are heightly challenged
00:21:07.280 listen
00:21:07.720 it's all about the personality
00:21:08.900 yeah
00:21:09.440 money and heights
00:21:10.240 don't mean a thing
00:21:11.040 so you don't care about height
00:21:12.020 that's a lie
00:21:13.100 um
00:21:13.980 look how long it took her to think about that
00:21:16.200 she did a long pause
00:21:17.680 no no no
00:21:18.240 hey my name you got no chance
00:21:19.960 I'm not gonna lie
00:21:20.460 can I reply
00:21:21.060 did you ask me a question
00:21:22.040 shit
00:21:22.320 yeah
00:21:22.540 let me fucking reply then
00:21:23.820 oh shit
00:21:24.260 listen
00:21:24.660 um
00:21:25.420 for me
00:21:26.040 I think everybody reacts differently
00:21:27.820 I'm the kind of person
00:21:28.760 I look at
00:21:29.400 personality
00:21:29.820 energy
00:21:30.660 there's other things
00:21:31.760 that can pull me into
00:21:32.580 be attracted to somebody
00:21:33.780 right
00:21:34.340 okay
00:21:34.700 I've dated someone
00:21:36.180 that's the same height as me
00:21:37.320 do you know what I mean
00:21:37.820 I've not been like
00:21:38.920 oh you're a midget
00:21:39.760 no I don't want to
00:21:40.520 sit down
00:21:40.600 oh you're not with it no more are you
00:21:41.720 you're not together on them more are you
00:21:43.600 but that isn't the reason
00:21:44.640 why I'm not with them though
00:21:45.940 how many relationships
00:21:46.740 I'm not that shallow minded
00:21:47.560 to be like
00:21:48.020 let me put the physicality
00:21:49.280 into a potential
00:21:50.920 so why did you mention
00:21:52.020 that he was the same height
00:21:52.920 instead of
00:21:53.300 I'm using an example
00:21:54.440 why did you bring up his hat for
00:21:55.680 but we were talking about
00:21:56.900 but we were talking about
00:21:56.920 being short
00:21:57.680 why did she bring up his hat
00:21:58.780 why did she bring up his hat
00:21:59.640 what's going on here
00:22:00.500 she's gonna have to bring up his hat
00:22:01.680 because we're talking about height
00:22:02.920 so stop it
00:22:03.540 no but why is he the same height as you
00:22:04.920 why is he not shorter
00:22:05.560 why couldn't you tell us about a shorter guy
00:22:06.920 that you had a relationship with
00:22:07.800 because it just hasn't happened
00:22:09.220 but when it does
00:22:09.840 I'll come back and let you know
00:22:11.020 it makes sense
00:22:13.320 oh
00:22:13.900 body positivity
00:22:15.480 yeah
00:22:16.360 oh
00:22:16.780 is there a reason why you choose
00:22:20.100 not to date short men
00:22:20.900 did you not just listen to my answer
00:22:23.600 you said the guy was
00:22:24.940 you said the guy was the same height
00:22:26.240 not shorter
00:22:26.600 no no no before that
00:22:27.420 did you not listen to what I just said
00:22:28.480 I said I get attracted by someone's
00:22:30.040 energy personality
00:22:30.980 it's not the physicality
00:22:32.320 or the money that attracts me
00:22:33.940 but then I don't tolerate bullshit
00:22:37.320 have you been with a guy
00:22:38.600 that's shorter than you
00:22:39.280 I have been
00:22:41.060 I'm quite tall though
00:22:42.940 I'm about 5'7, 5'8
00:22:44.480 in between
00:22:45.040 but have you been with a guy
00:22:45.880 that's shorter than you
00:22:46.440 yeah
00:22:46.940 you have
00:22:47.440 cap
00:22:49.240 interesting
00:22:51.440 what?
00:22:56.440 because I'm not a midget
00:22:57.440 like just like midget
00:22:58.440 for the short one
00:22:59.440 initially you only mentioned the guy
00:23:00.940 who was the same height
00:23:02.440 my same height, yeah
00:23:04.440 did you have to lift him up?
00:23:06.440 you have to rock him to sleep
00:23:08.440 tuck him in
00:23:09.440 when you said that I slept with him
00:23:10.440 what do you mean by bin?
00:23:11.440 I'm talking about going on a date
00:23:12.440 not sleeping with somebody
00:23:13.440 wait was he
00:23:14.440 oh just a date?
00:23:15.440 yeah
00:23:16.440 I'm not talking about sleeping with somebody
00:23:17.440 I'm not talking about sleeping with somebody
00:23:18.440 she used him for his money
00:23:19.440 oh that's crazy
00:23:20.440 yeah yeah
00:23:21.440 makes sense
00:23:22.440 yeah obviously
00:23:23.440 fair enough
00:23:24.440 fair enough
00:23:25.440 what do people use you for then?
00:23:26.440 oh shit
00:23:28.440 is he a luxe or what?
00:23:30.440 i personally
00:23:31.440 i personally
00:23:32.440 i personally
00:23:35.440 i'm six foot
00:23:36.440 are you?
00:23:37.440 okay
00:23:38.440 i personally
00:23:39.440 wait wait wait wait
00:23:40.440 let me get this straight
00:23:41.440 when you said
00:23:42.440 when you said
00:23:43.440 you've dated someone
00:23:44.440 that is um
00:23:45.440 shorter than you
00:23:46.440 it doesn't count
00:23:47.440 if you didn't sleep with them
00:23:48.440 really
00:23:49.440 actually it really doesn't count
00:23:50.440 it doesn't count
00:23:51.440 if you didn't sleep with them
00:23:52.440 because we're talking about
00:23:53.440 people you're attracted to
00:23:54.440 so if you didn't get to the point
00:23:55.440 of sleeping with him
00:23:56.440 but that's what they were talking about
00:23:57.440 because of their reaction
00:23:59.440 nah
00:24:00.440 i think
00:24:01.440 i think we mean that the guys
00:24:02.440 actually make it to the finish line
00:24:03.440 so if you didn't make it to the finish line
00:24:04.440 then it doesn't count
00:24:05.440 then there's no need for me to talk
00:24:06.440 then okay sorry
00:24:07.440 if he stood up and he was under six foot
00:24:08.440 would you be upset?
00:24:11.440 no
00:24:12.440 oh fair enough
00:24:13.440 why?
00:24:14.440 i thought you would have height changed
00:24:15.440 no i wouldn't
00:24:16.440 i'm just teasing
00:24:17.440 listen i'm not gonna be malice
00:24:18.440 and be a dickhead
00:24:19.440 like i'm a respectful person
00:24:20.440 but i will make you laugh
00:24:21.440 and educate you at the same time
00:24:23.440 i'm not gonna lie
00:24:24.440 that's an unfortunate end
00:24:25.440 i have been in a relationship
00:24:28.440 with a person that is shorter than me
00:24:30.440 well just one
00:24:32.440 pardon
00:24:33.440 just one
00:24:34.440 just one what does that mean?
00:24:35.440 one person
00:24:36.440 just one relationship
00:24:37.440 or multiple
00:24:38.440 i'm talking about the person that is shorter than me
00:24:40.440 i'm talking about the person that was short
00:24:42.440 yeah just one person
00:24:43.440 how many short guys have you been out with?
00:24:45.440 one person
00:24:46.440 just one short guy
00:24:47.440 one short guy
00:24:48.440 okay that makes sense
00:24:49.440 how many relationships have you had?
00:24:51.440 he is
00:24:52.440 he is
00:24:53.440 he is
00:24:54.440 he is my first relationship
00:24:55.440 wait what do you mean it's a personal question
00:24:57.440 is it so bad to ask you how many relationships
00:24:59.440 is that a bad thing now?
00:25:00.440 no it ain't
00:25:01.440 okay sorry
00:25:02.440 i got defensive
00:25:03.440 sorry
00:25:04.440 don't worry
00:25:05.440 don't worry
00:25:06.440 we got this
00:25:07.440 was it just one short guy
00:25:08.440 one short relationship
00:25:09.440 he is the first person i dated
00:25:11.440 i was in a relationship with
00:25:13.440 okay
00:25:14.440 fair enough
00:25:15.440 so you dated the height challenge that
00:25:16.440 no we didn't
00:25:17.440 we were in a relationship
00:25:19.440 how did it go?
00:25:20.440 how short was he?
00:25:21.440 i love how you guys just made a height
00:25:23.440 he was uh
00:25:24.440 because no one's gonna call us out for height shame
00:25:26.440 like it doesn't happen
00:25:27.440 this is the new thing
00:25:28.440 he was 5'6 i believe
00:25:30.440 and i'm 5'11
00:25:31.440 oh wow
00:25:32.440 wow
00:25:33.440 yeah
00:25:34.440 my turn
00:25:35.440 did you have to pick him up to hug him?
00:25:36.440 don't be mean
00:25:37.440 don't be mean
00:25:38.440 don't be mean
00:25:39.440 don't do that
00:25:40.440 do you know what it is?
00:25:41.440 do you know what it is yeah?
00:25:42.440 don't be mean
00:25:43.440 i find it absolutely
00:25:44.440 it's a bit awkward though
00:25:45.440 especially if a woman wears heels
00:25:46.440 wild
00:25:47.440 at that height as well
00:25:48.440 that like
00:25:49.440 listen if this clip goes out
00:25:50.440 and i was weight shaming someone
00:25:52.440 i'd be cancelled
00:25:53.440 but you see the short jokes
00:25:55.440 for some reason
00:25:56.440 they keep going under the radar
00:25:57.440 pun intended
00:25:58.440 you get it?
00:25:59.440 i'm just like
00:26:00.440 we'll be there then
00:26:01.440 but the thing is
00:26:02.440 men don't
00:26:03.440 let's flip the coin here
00:26:04.440 do you find it weird
00:26:05.440 if a woman's taller than you?
00:26:06.440 no
00:26:07.440 no
00:26:08.440 oh exactly
00:26:09.440 so why is it
00:26:10.440 why is that though?
00:26:11.440 why is that between men and women
00:26:12.440 we have like
00:26:13.440 but would you date an overweight woman?
00:26:14.440 oh shit
00:26:15.440 there we go
00:26:16.440 there we go
00:26:17.440 so hold on
00:26:18.440 overweight
00:26:19.440 overweight
00:26:20.440 and obese
00:26:21.440 are two different things
00:26:22.440 are you talking
00:26:23.440 overweight
00:26:24.440 or obese?
00:26:25.440 yeah cool
00:26:26.440 there's two different things
00:26:28.440 what's the difference?
00:26:29.440 there's overweight
00:26:30.440 obese is extremely
00:26:31.440 overweight
00:26:32.440 for your height
00:26:33.440 BMI
00:26:34.440 whatever it is
00:26:35.440 even though everyone says
00:26:36.440 just like a few extra pounds
00:26:37.440 like a bit chubs
00:26:38.440 no no no no
00:26:39.440 obese is extremely overweight
00:26:41.440 okay
00:26:42.440 so you're not just
00:26:43.440 a little bit chubby
00:26:44.440 300 pounds
00:26:45.440 that's 300 pounds
00:26:46.440 yeah a little bit of cupping right here
00:26:47.440 none of that
00:26:48.440 it's excessive
00:26:49.440 300 pounds
00:26:50.440 if you're overweight
00:26:51.440 it's just
00:26:52.440 your BMI could be like
00:26:53.440 X
00:26:54.440 and then you're
00:26:55.440 you're literally like
00:26:56.440 two specs above the X
00:26:57.440 okay so answer the question
00:26:58.440 someone as big as Lizzo
00:26:59.440 would you date them?
00:27:00.440 do you have a motive first of all the question?
00:27:02.440 respectfully no
00:27:03.440 respect the confidence
00:27:04.440 why not?
00:27:05.440 what confidence?
00:27:06.440 why?
00:27:07.440 what is it that you respect?
00:27:08.440 the confidence isn't it?
00:27:09.440 like yo
00:27:10.440 if you
00:27:11.440 the confidence to be that unhealthy
00:27:12.440 and encourage other people
00:27:13.440 wait wait
00:27:14.440 do they want to bang or date?
00:27:15.440 that's the difference
00:27:16.440 now listen
00:27:17.440 if this person
00:27:18.440 and you are shaped like this
00:27:19.440 that's the difference
00:27:20.440 do your ting
00:27:21.440 if you're confident in it
00:27:22.440 do your ting
00:27:23.440 I have no problem with that
00:27:24.440 you think they're naturally shaped like that?
00:27:26.440 I think
00:27:27.440 I think there's a bad food to mouth ratio
00:27:28.440 but there's not much that I can really say
00:27:30.440 like in regards to it
00:27:31.440 you get it?
00:27:32.440 like no one
00:27:33.440 like no one
00:27:34.440 like no one
00:27:35.440 like no one is big bones
00:27:36.440 no one is big bones
00:27:37.440 we've seen the skeletons
00:27:38.440 no one is big bones
00:27:39.440 so we do understand
00:27:40.440 but there are
00:27:41.440 that a lot
00:27:42.440 no no no
00:27:43.440 what you're about to do
00:27:44.440 is you're about to say
00:27:45.440 some qualifications
00:27:47.440 and blah blah blah
00:27:48.440 no you're talking about anomalies
00:27:49.440 the vast majority of people
00:27:50.440 that are overweight
00:27:51.440 I love how you know me already
00:27:52.440 I know because you're about to probably
00:27:53.440 you know me already
00:27:54.440 the vast majority of people
00:27:55.440 that are overweight
00:27:56.440 from what I understand
00:27:57.440 it's just a bad food to mouth ratio
00:27:58.440 and we completely understand that
00:27:59.440 yeah
00:28:00.440 if you're happy within yourself
00:28:01.440 do your ting
00:28:02.440 that's got no problem with me
00:28:03.440 but you can't expect me
00:28:04.440 okay I want to stop you right there
00:28:05.440 I want to stop you right there
00:28:06.440 go ahead
00:28:07.440 so your philosophy is that
00:28:08.440 if you're happy in yourself
00:28:09.440 then that's okay
00:28:11.440 so
00:28:12.440 would you then
00:28:13.440 encourage someone who say
00:28:15.440 has an unhealthy drug addiction
00:28:17.440 oh but they're happy in themselves
00:28:18.440 so
00:28:19.440 you do you
00:28:20.440 no
00:28:21.440 it's not my life
00:28:22.440 if you're happy within yourself
00:28:23.440 I'm not going to give you any advice
00:28:24.440 in regards to it
00:28:25.440 what about if it's a friend or someone you love
00:28:26.440 if it's my friend
00:28:27.440 that's someone I care about
00:28:28.440 then of course I'm going to take
00:28:29.440 an actual care
00:28:30.440 okay I have a question for everyone
00:28:31.440 if demanding were overweight
00:28:32.440 I would tell demanding
00:28:33.440 my bro
00:28:34.440 your belly kind of hanging over the belt
00:28:36.440 your thing is moving kind of mad
00:28:38.440 like my bro
00:28:39.440 I'm going to part you
00:28:40.440 don't get it twisted
00:28:41.440 but we're then going to go to the gym together
00:28:43.440 and we're going to bang it out
00:28:44.440 and we're going to make sure you get to
00:28:45.440 where you need to be
00:28:46.440 we're not just going to leave you
00:28:47.440 and be like oh my god
00:28:48.440 body positivity
00:28:49.440 you look so good in that dress
00:28:50.440 that doesn't fit
00:28:51.440 this doesn't surprise me
00:28:52.440 this doesn't surprise me that a male is giving this answer
00:28:53.440 so I want to hear what the girls think
00:28:55.440 simple question
00:28:56.440 would you tell your girlfriend if she's fat
00:28:58.440 I would tell people
00:29:00.440 I'm real
00:29:01.440 so whatever's going on
00:29:02.440 that doesn't benefit them
00:29:03.440 I will say it to them
00:29:04.440 but
00:29:05.440 each person is different
00:29:06.440 it depends on how you deliver things
00:29:07.440 but yeah I'm real
00:29:08.440 if there's something going on
00:29:09.440 if you're drinking too much
00:29:11.440 if you're doing this too much
00:29:12.440 if you're eating too much
00:29:13.440 you're not looking good too much
00:29:14.440 I will say it
00:29:15.440 for their own benefit
00:29:16.440 not for my own
00:29:17.440 but it depends on how you deliver it
00:29:18.440 the problem people have
00:29:19.440 I call cap
00:29:20.440 same same
00:29:21.440 and the reason why I call cap
00:29:22.440 is because you actually didn't answer the question
00:29:24.440 you said a whole lot of different things
00:29:26.440 she asked a straight question
00:29:27.440 yes
00:29:28.440 would you tell your friends
00:29:29.440 if they're fat
00:29:30.440 you didn't have to start saying
00:29:31.440 well there's a way
00:29:32.440 she did a whole story
00:29:33.440 you didn't answer the question
00:29:34.440 I'm giving a relevant story
00:29:35.440 but yes
00:29:36.440 yeah
00:29:37.440 you tell your friend if they're fat
00:29:38.440 they tell me all the time
00:29:39.440 if I look ugly
00:29:40.440 I'll tell them if they look a bit
00:29:41.440 you know
00:29:42.440 your friends tell you
00:29:43.440 when they think you look ugly
00:29:44.440 yeah
00:29:45.440 you sound like you've got good friends
00:29:46.440 yeah they are very good friends
00:29:47.440 shout out
00:29:48.440 to her
00:29:49.440 I will not
00:29:52.440 wait wait wait wait
00:29:54.440 let her speak
00:29:55.440 let her land
00:29:56.440 I was actually initially finished
00:29:58.440 since we need just to give a short answer
00:30:01.440 but if I need to elaborate
00:30:02.440 if a person
00:30:03.440 if my friend is fat
00:30:05.440 I will not tell her that
00:30:06.440 you are fat
00:30:07.440 why would I say that
00:30:08.440 so you're gonna make her
00:30:09.440 wait
00:30:10.440 if she is unhealthy
00:30:12.440 and I know that she have a health condition
00:30:14.440 that is related to her weight
00:30:17.440 I'm gonna make my way to let her know
00:30:20.440 that we need to get her to work on it
00:30:22.440 but just saying you're fat
00:30:24.440 that's not
00:30:25.440 okay well that's what I was
00:30:26.440 I never said it and I will never say it
00:30:28.440 I get this
00:30:29.440 I get this
00:30:30.440 this is the woman's mentality
00:30:32.440 and I'm a woman
00:30:33.440 so I understand
00:30:34.440 that's my mentality
00:30:35.440 that's not about a woman
00:30:36.440 that's how I think
00:30:37.440 I think most women
00:30:38.440 the thought of telling another woman
00:30:39.440 you're fat
00:30:40.440 you're fat
00:30:41.440 yeah hurtful
00:30:42.440 okay
00:30:43.440 I wouldn't put it like that either
00:30:44.440 right
00:30:45.440 but
00:30:46.440 let me rephrase it in a feminine way
00:30:49.440 you have a girlfriend
00:30:50.440 right
00:30:51.440 you've been friends for a long long time
00:30:53.440 five to ten years
00:30:54.440 that means nothing to me
00:30:55.440 I still get rid of people
00:30:57.440 just follow me
00:30:58.440 for a second
00:30:59.440 just follow my story
00:31:00.440 so you're good friends
00:31:01.440 you've got great relationship
00:31:02.440 forget the time
00:31:03.440 she's your girl
00:31:05.440 she's gaining
00:31:07.440 she is gaining
00:31:08.440 tub
00:31:09.440 right
00:31:10.440 she's got a bit of a double chin going
00:31:11.440 perhaps when she wears a crop top
00:31:12.440 half of it's hanging out a bit
00:31:13.440 you know
00:31:14.440 she's starting to get the whole
00:31:15.440 arm wings shit going on
00:31:18.440 are you letting her know
00:31:20.440 hey
00:31:21.440 I've noticed that you're gaining a bit of weight
00:31:23.440 yeah
00:31:24.440 is everything okay
00:31:25.440 why is there something we can do here
00:31:27.440 or
00:31:28.440 let's say
00:31:29.440 let's add another context in here
00:31:31.440 she's all over Instagram and everything
00:31:34.440 say she has a tiktok account
00:31:35.440 right
00:31:36.440 and she's one of these body positivity advocates
00:31:38.440 and she has loads of fans telling her
00:31:40.440 you go girl body positivity
00:31:42.440 right
00:31:43.440 so she's continually gaining weight
00:31:46.440 eating food
00:31:47.440 yes
00:31:48.440 that's how people gain weight
00:31:49.440 she's continuing to gain weight
00:31:51.440 because she's being body positive
00:31:53.440 and she wants to stop the idea of fat shaming
00:31:57.440 what are you doing?
00:31:59.440 I think as a good friend
00:32:01.440 you obviously need to be like
00:32:03.440 look
00:32:04.440 like friend to friend
00:32:06.440 I think
00:32:07.440 you know you've
00:32:08.440 you know
00:32:09.440 like respectfully
00:32:10.440 like not
00:32:11.440 you can't just be like you're fat
00:32:12.440 like respectfully
00:32:13.440 I mean you can
00:32:14.440 if you're good friends
00:32:15.440 yeah of course you can
00:32:16.440 I'm sure if I started getting fat
00:32:17.440 Pearl would say to me
00:32:18.440 girl you're getting fat
00:32:19.440 but I don't think most girls would put it like that
00:32:21.440 yeah you
00:32:22.440 because people get
00:32:23.440 like people sensitive
00:32:24.440 especially women
00:32:25.440 they're quite sensitive
00:32:26.440 so obviously tell them in a way that
00:32:27.440 you know respectfully
00:32:28.440 look I think you know
00:32:30.440 you need to
00:32:31.440 slow down whatever
00:32:32.440 you may say
00:32:33.440 but then at the same time
00:32:34.440 you give them what you give them
00:32:35.440 but if they're deciding to listen to other people
00:32:37.440 and do this whole thing
00:32:38.440 that's up to them
00:32:39.440 I have a question
00:32:41.440 is it actually
00:32:42.440 because I'm kind of torn now
00:32:44.440 I know it's feminine nature to put it
00:32:46.440 nice
00:32:47.440 as many of you know
00:32:48.440 I was just
00:32:49.440 banned on
00:32:50.440 TikTok
00:32:51.440 and we are demonetized
00:32:52.440 on a daily basis
00:32:53.440 on this platform
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