She Gets SCHOOLED for Being A Masculine Lady
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In this episode, we discuss why women from foreign countries are better wives than those from the West, why women in Western countries are more likely to be virgins and why it s time for men in the West to find love overseas.
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the topic today is men finding love overseas and yeah we just watched a
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video which got taken down but we're gonna talk about it it was a video from
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Good Morning Britain with Piers Morgan and they were talking about finding love
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overseas there was a guy speaking about him finding Russian ladies specifically
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and how we found them more attractive and the question I'm going to ask is are
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women from foreign countries better wives than the ones we currently have
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let's not let's not limit it to Great Britain in the West in general are women
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better wives let's go for a guy Banksy what do you say well I've been
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recommending this for a long time that men in the West due to myriad of reasons
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should start looking elsewhere I spoke to a gentleman in Australia about four years
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ago in regards to him he was a pilot he had all his house everything paid fully
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like stacked the man was rich handsome and generally you know in that top what what
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you guys call the ten ten twenty percent and he categorically told me that when
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he is ready to get married he is going to get married to a lady or a wife where
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he's going to find them either in Vietnam Cambodia Philippines and a country like
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that he's in Australia himself very wealthy in Australia but he will not bring
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his wife to Australia he will marry her and he will stay with her and build a life
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in that country because he knows that if he brings her to Australia ultimately the
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feminist in Australia will corrupt her and thus she'll be looking for for for the
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exit door within a few years possibly a visa situation so in order to
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counteract any of that he will marry in his 50s but he will keep her in that
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country where the laws are much more favorable in divorce courts to the men
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Wow ladies so do you feel that like he's marrying her do you think she's gonna
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actually be marrying him because she loves him and desires him or that she just
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truly wants to get out of the country or the poverty that she may be living in to
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get to Australia to wherever you were saying that she what like he's from he's
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really wealthy so he's then gonna but keep her in a little box in the country
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that she's trying to maybe get away from just so that in order so he can control
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that situation no to me do British women marry more for love you think I mean I
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feel that women automatically marry from a place of feeling rather than logic most
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obviously there's the difference between logic and emotion and around women that are more
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pragmatic but I think generally women do go I think I think women marry out of opportunity
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although so my question is if so they why is the average marriage seven to eight years and
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why is the number one reason they leave financial if women in the West marry because
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well because men are meant to be the provider if we're going back to what
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it's true it's true but at the same time if we're talking about the polarities of the
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masculine and the feminine energy if you want your wife or your partner to be in her feminine
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energy I want to say provider she could still be working she could still be doing her thing
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but in his energy being the provider so looking after what's the female energy supposed to be
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in her feminine obviously that doesn't mean virginity but I mean it does it means purity
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that's what mess if you look at the polarities of feminine and masculine energy even within every
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single person in this room there is feminine and masculine energy that doesn't say purity
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you're not any less feminine because you're not a virgin are you a virgin people wouldn't say
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no I would say I would say I am less feminine than I was like I was more feminine when I was a virgin
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yeah I definitely wasn't because every every heartbreak makes you a little bit more bitter
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oh I don't know and then I think just I think honest every every heartbreak comes with some
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trauma the more penises you have inside you the more masculine you come yes I would say I would
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say when I when I was a virgin like I was like 100% but it doesn't negate from the fact that you
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are still able if you do the work to step into your feminine energy if you're with the counterpart that
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is in his masculine energy I just think women are either feminine or they're not to me and to me
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like you can learn to fake it but like you'd be like but you can always smell it like no if you do
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though if you do the true work on allowing yourself when I had my son that forced me into my feminine
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energy what what is like the because no offense I I just hear this like do the work but then like
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there's no work there is when you go to when you do you work out why you're in your masculine
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energy because there is always a why to your so so say I'm too masculine and then so like I find
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out it's x reason then what what do I do what's the work well therapy okay deep trauma work shadow
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work there's so many different things sound bath healing reiki healing there's so many different
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types of work that you can do therapy to maybe get over your father wound which are your mother wound
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which is usually where this I need to be in my masculine energy in order to prove something or even
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society okay so those phrases yeah but those are like real things I think sometimes women can be
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quite masculine because they have not met a man that has allowed them to to be in their feminine
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energy so sometimes they feel like you know they're not with the right man that is allowing them to take
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a step back and be in that feminine energy and to like lead them so do you think that femininity is
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conditional then conditional like do you think that it depends on the condition just like
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masculinity that you know it's not because I've seen many bitches out as a man if I said I'll be
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masculine for the right woman no no no no you're gonna look at me and say what what would you mean
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I'll be masculine for the right woman but you say you'll be feminine for the right man and you think
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that makes sense because he's meant to be the leader is a leader you're meant to lead so if you're if
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you're you're meant to be in your if I'm meant to be my masculine I think we have meant to be in your
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feminine yeah but I think we have masculine and feminine energy and I think if you're a woman and
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you're with a man that doesn't allow you to step into your femininity because he's not masculine enough
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then your masculine side kind of comes out and compensates for that
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I disagree I just think that's an excuse that women want to use as an excuse to be masculine
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I just think that's an excuse like like the most picture-perfect feminine women I know it doesn't
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matter who they're with they're feminine regardless I just think you're either feminine or you're not
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feminine for stars I agree with what she just what Pearl just said but do you think it works both ways
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so basically if you're a slightly masculine female because you're not with the right guy that can bring
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out your femininity do you think a man will get away with saying he's a slightly feminine man
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because he's not with the right woman yeah maybe a man can be with a woman that's maybe a little bit
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too masculine for him and then it doesn't allow him that confidence to step into his masculinity
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do you know what I mean so it's all about balance and finding the right person
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the question is would go ahead go ahead would you give a guy who's very much in his feminine energy a chance
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nope probably not because I just feel like I want a man to lead
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yeah because I'm sure that uh you know females in their masculine energy would like a man to give them a chance
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I mean just imagine this imagine if a guy just started like being like hey girls
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yeah and because he's like I'm with some masculine females hello
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but we can like no fat spew this is like nonsense to me
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I just think you're either a feminine woman or you're not a feminine woman
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the thing is um sorry there's a this is something where most people who've done any kind of training martial arts
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anything else they say you are your habits you are what you train if you train full contact you punch full contact if you train semi-contact you throw semi-contact you are your habits
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it is incredibly difficult to live your life for most of it or for decades as a
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masculine woman and then suddenly turn on the feminine
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but you can train you can train you can train it but the thing is by the time you meet that guy
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do you not can you not have no but who trains you does a man train you or do you train yourself
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well it depends if you some relationships can bring out that side of you to do that deep work because a lot of the time when you get into a relationship the reflections and the trauma that is brought up where then it forces you into that space of like you know what actually maybe I am not doing something in this relationship that's not allowing this man to do what he's meant to be doing and so then it forces you to look to get that mirror and be like you know what I need to do the work on me
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because I just imagine like if you're going to change your whole temperament like there's a lot that's in it
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so I mean I'm sure it takes well no it does take many years therapy is that probably
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but do you think like this is the thing about like women that say this kind of stuff
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but what I'm trying to say what I'm trying to say is like you said oh we've got to train ourselves to be feminine right
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reprogram or reprogram yourself or rejig yourself whatever it is get yourself download a new program
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but men generally don't they ain't got time for it
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like if it's for instance if if if we take you on a date
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for instance right and we see that you're more masculine than you are feminine
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we're already calculating like this is going to be a problem
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it's going to be a problem and I haven't got time because I don't know you
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we haven't got time to be trying to program you
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do you know what I mean and then we'll pursue it
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because if we say the word because you use the word train
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yeah but you said that you asked me a question whether a man can do can help you in that
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and so I I didn't say because a lot of the work the deep work that I've done I've done on my own
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not fro like yes relationships have presented these mirrors for me to have which every relationship presents mirrors
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it could be a relationship with your mum your friends can present these spaces of where you're like
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okay I've got to work on myself in this and understand sometimes you don't need to say this
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or you don't need to say that or you can take a step back and understand that yes this man can lead me
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so I'm not saying that it's a man's role or job to do that
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do you think you need a man to co-sign it though
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so like if you know you did this not just you but anyone that does like the deep work the femininity training
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like would you say that there has to be a man that co-signs it because like women lie to each other
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well I think that when you get into a relationship you'll then when if you take time out maybe after a relationship
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and then I think a relationship will let you know how successful your deep work has been
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because you're not going to know how successful you're going to be in a relationship
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so you're in a relationship right so the thing is I wouldn't say a man because you could be a lesbian
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it's like the amount of cap here is I or cope I don't know
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are you married um I was engaged for a long time
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but the thing is that's that the what I see here is like the women saying oh when I meet the right guy
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I'll then turn it turn on the femininity whilst actually in the realities they don't actually even turn on the femininity
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They just go you just can't handle a strong woman
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and then you as a man are berated and ridiculed because you can't handle this
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incredibly masculine energy of this woman that's coming at you all day long because you don't want that you want feminine submissive
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beautiful women and so that's I think part of the reason why men in the west are actually going abroad
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whether it be Dominican Republic, Brazil, certain parts of Africa, Eastern Europe, Thailand, Philippines
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that's why they're going there to kind of find wives because what what a lot of them are saying and I've heard it a lot from men
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that Western women are too much work so I'm too much work sorry so I'm interested to know like what do we feel is
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for a female to to kind of be I think from one of the traits the femininity community is so interesting to me
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I was going on a rant on Twitter about this because they're just so they're so broad they just say like a lot of nothing in different ways
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when I when I think of femininity I think of like nurturing I think of like typical like motherly traits
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however, I found that there's no real way to like measure it or show anything or show any work or really
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so I don't know it's so broad that's why it really confuses me as that that community
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I'm interested because I think sometimes I can be seen as being in my masculine energy because
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why why would you say that for a while I was a single mother and I was doing everything by myself and I was very much used to
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Okay, this is down to me. I'm going to do this by myself. Everyone's relying on me. I can get on with it
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You're not a single mother anymore. No. Okay. You're married now
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I'm not married, but I have a partner. Yeah, so I was very kind of used to doing everything on my own
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That's me. I've got this kind of thing and some some people some men would consider that too masculine
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I looked at God is it okay? Yeah, I looked it up
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I was just I saw this chart when I was going on my rant on Twitter that I tweeted
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Feminine I'm not aggressive dependent easily influenced I'm submissive passive home-oriented easily hurt emotionally
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Indecisive talkative gentle sensitive to others feelings very desirous of security cries a lot emotional verbal kind
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nurturing tactful another chart says intuitive generous
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Nurturing creative collaborative caring receptive grateful, which I agree with those. I agree with those statements, but like
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Level of femininity had to come out automatically just because you just said that when you had your children your masculinity came out
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Because I felt like I had to be I was a single mom before that, but I had a girl
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So my first my first child was a girl, but when I had my son
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Mm-hmm art like my son is very very affectionate very very he he just
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Brought out that side of me that needed to nurture him in a way and also I didn't want him to
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Grow up thinking that men women have in their masculine angry
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Like I wanted him to see the calmness and the stillness and for him to be able to communicate with me openly
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Because it's not taught to young men that you can communicate you could like if he's upset
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I don't go in shouting at him. I don't shout. I don't raise my I'd like I very much bring the femininity to my son all the time
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There's a guy you like yeah, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, and then you're in a relationship
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No, you're not you're in a relationship. Would you guys
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Um if you guys were to marry the person you're talking to or talking to in a relationship with
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No questions asked if if I'm married here if I've married him if I
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If I've married if I've married him it means I trust him
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To lead and I would trust his decision in that and I would trust that it's for the best interest of our family
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Okay, yeah, you would yeah, so if he said to me, I'm sorry
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I'm sorry, so if he said to me, you know, I think you should
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I trust him in that and I'm ready for that because I feel like
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He's allowed me to step into that feminine energy and I don't I no longer have to be like right
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I need to be on it. I need to do this. I need to do that
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I'm on my I'm on my own. I'm not on my own anymore
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I can trust him lean into him and yeah, so I would I'd love that actually
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I think I would be like I'm really ready to settle down now
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Like I would think about kids. So I think yeah, like if he is in control and if he's leading this
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What if what if what if the pen is we're not we're not the window
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No, no, no, no, no objections. This is you're trusting him. I have some questions. No, no
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Okay, that's a mission. We already know that he's gonna lead the family. So yeah, I was like 40,000. Yes
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No, you said no, you said but I would yeah say you know like because no, no's your answer
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I wouldn't yeah, yeah, no's your answer. That's fine. Yeah, so
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Yeah, because I feel like he must have worked something out
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And I'm a trust and believe I think the difference between Western women and women from abroad like taking it back to the subject is
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Would probably be more submissive and not question as much and I think I don't know I will ask the guys here, right?
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From the West or women abroad would make better wives for you guys
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Do you know what? For starters, I haven't had problems getting submissive women in the UK
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people I've been in long-term relationships with have been
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Even if they live in the UK, they've had their formative years in another country, right and
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Very I'm not gonna say submissive. I'm gonna say very feminine like I've heard people say, you know
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We both have masculine and feminine energy in us, but
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All the women have been with I can't even imagine them being supremely masculine at all
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Like they're so feminine that even when they're trying to do masculine type things it just comes off feminine and that's feminine
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Do you mind me asking like what countries they were from respectively?
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She was based she was brought up in South Africa
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Okay, and another one. I'm thinking of she was like heart. She was written her mom's Filipino. So right, you know
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And a Filipino that wasn't born here. Yeah, right. So she's got that influence
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Yeah, I think I think ultimately women in the West are brought up to be more independent
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Whereas women in different cultures may be brought to be independent, but ultimately are brought up to serve the man
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So mmm based on that they're wired differently and they have different
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Goals into or they have to play different roles in comparison to women in the West when it comes to marriages and relationships
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Yeah, that's just what it is basically. Yeah, and also I just want to piggyback off that and say
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Think a lot women in the West they look at it as it's almost like a job that they're they kind of have to do to look after a man
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Whereas other women raised in other parts of the world
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Yeah, and I find whenever I've been with a woman long term or just even dated them short term
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They all seem to want to do feminine things for me. Like you know, they wouldn't do my hair
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They want to cook for me. I've never had to ask a woman to cook for me. I mean, it might be something about my energy as well
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I don't know, but I think that factors into it as well. Yeah
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Yeah, well that that brings me to another point, you know
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The guy on the clip that we can't show yeah, you know, he said he did well over here
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It's just that he russian went to russia because there's more there's just more of what he wants and I really don't see a problem with that
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By the way, you know, if you think that you're gonna have more options more of what you like in a certain country
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Why why wouldn't you go but from what I've seen is that there's a lot of women?
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Because they called the passport bros shout out to the passport bros
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I know yeah, yeah, and they look like bullies going up
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I don't necessarily think you can have a choice and a preference of whatever you want
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I think it's a delivery of shaming another type of woman just because you like something else
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It's like the oh, I like this because this part that you don't you your preference if that's your preference
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You like women from Russia then say that and say I what I want to go here
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But you don't have to like give the reason is because of just say you like that
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So yeah, I think but I think the stuff he said was true was true
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Yeah, and like we we are more overweight, you know UK they always talk shit about the u.s. But y'all ain't here
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And I wouldn't follow America. We're like little puppies after America
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And that's the thing like when we are less submissive in the west the women of the women
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Like instead of instead of shaming men for like saying what's true
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I think we should say, you know, maybe we should try to learn from them. What exactly
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Shout out to pearls white school. I'm gonna be on it
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The thing is is I was engaged to get married, but it's like do I stay in that relationship where he's gonna
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Continuously cheat on me just so that I can be a why don't you don't get points for almost
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I didn't ask for pine. No, I'm just saying I ask I've been engaged to you, but I never got my point
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Is is that do I like for me to get across that line of like yay? I can be married
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Do I then have to be that submissive that I then put up with being?
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What sort of I was yeah, what are you but you're not a virgin you weren't a virgin for him, right?
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You had children we've got children. Yeah, were you no, I'm saying were you a virgin?
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And that's what I'm saying like in a way we cheat on our husbands by not saving purity for them
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And we're gonna shame them for cheating. No, I would cheat on us too
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Would you stay in a marriage if he cheated on you you got kids
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No, that'd be free. Yeah, I oh, yeah, if you got kids
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It's also then teaching your son that it's okay to be
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Why would your son know about that? Why would he be exposed to that?
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His dad is constantly cheating. I'm not gonna be happy
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Yeah, but are you gonna tell your son that his dad cheated?
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No, I haven't told him but at the same time, I'm not gonna be happy
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Don't you think you're in control of your happiness?
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Yeah, my choice is to not stay in that relationship that's gonna continuously cheat on me
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So like you're putting your happiness over what's best for the kids
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And that's that's why a lot of times like men are leaving for the west because it's like women here
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Like think it's about us when it's not about us. It's about the family first
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And and I know like and the other thing is one out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the last year under 30
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Like there are men that you could pick that would be faithful to you
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But if you if you go for a guy that's attractive to you, he's gonna be attractive to other women
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That's what I was gonna. I was gonna ask you was he a top 20% man?
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We were both in the military. I was like 18 when I'm yeah, but was he good looking?
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Okay, so I'm saying if you look if you looked at your man, you looked at your man
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Was he the type of man that other women wanted of course right?
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Okay, so what happened is you probably chose a top 20% man because you were attracted to him
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But he was and who is also attractive to other women caveat women find 80% of men as unattractive
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So if you found him attractive, he's probably in the top 20% of right
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So so so what happens is there's a top 20% man who's got 80% of women to choose from right?
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And so I'm saying and I'm not condoning what he's doing
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I'm just saying if a man is in the top 20% and he's got 80% of women throwing in throwing their panties at him
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Right at some point in time. He might take that option and I'm not saying that it's right or wrong
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I'm saying women generally go for men right that other women find attractive of course
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Because you don't go for men who you know work at starbucks and they're stacking shelves generally and you don't go for those men
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So what happens is part and parcel of choosing a guy that other women like
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Is it you've got to put up with being cheap? I'm not saying you've got to put up with it. I'm saying
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Me as a parent now in comparison to me as a parent when I was because obviously I had a daughter
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Now and my ability to give him the calm from my feminine energy
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I wouldn't have been able to do in that relationship
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So for me 100% my son gets the best of me out of that relationship
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Can I can I just simply say for the lady with the son?
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Don't think you'll have to worry about any influences from outside
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Of your husband or anyone else that your son's gonna learn how to cheat your son will know how to cheat
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When he gets older when when women simply offer themselves to
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Yeah, so there's no this again. I see that as a cope. It's it's like I think I got my happiness
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It comes down to you. So it was actually your personal choice for your
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Well-being not your sons not your daughters. It was really your
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So do you I'm just curious do you you think your happiness is more important than the family and your son's happiness
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My ability to feed into my children determines my 100% if I my cup's not full
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And you don't you don't you don't you don't you don't and you don't think you control your emotions in any way
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Not back then. No, I was so young. I was like in my early 20s
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Which I understand maybe it was like in hindsight. Would you say it was a mistake?
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You know what's interesting is because like even last week I was I was talking about um, I actually watched a tick tock video
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And I say it was on tick tock, but it was actually a
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Conversation between a man and a woman who had just divorced her husband. Yeah, and he was asking her
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And this is what she was saying. She was saying he was he liked to save
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You know, he was a little bit. He was always talking about. Oh, we got a safe for a rainy day blah blah blah blah, right?
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Because he didn't do the things that made her happy
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Right and so when when a woman says if i'm not happy
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I would say men have to really watch out for women who care about their happiness
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Over the actual family structure because that means that because you know as a woman your happiness fluctuates from week to week
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Right deep depression. They're two different things
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But i'm trying to but what i'm trying to say is a woman is
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So led by her emotions, right and the man is more so led by logic pragmatic pragmatic, right?
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And so we when a woman says things that oh because I wasn't happy
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That's why I left in in my in my head. I don't know about the other men. I'm like
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Happiness and then there's being cheap like if your concert it's not like i've left at the first cheat
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Like I didn't just be like yo, bye peace out. Thanks. This is fantastic
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It took a lot for me to get to that point to what I do
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I did not want to be a single parent again. How did you find out about the cheating?
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Um, he had a whole relationship with her my son was and she phoned him and I answered and we were
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And she was having a whole affair. Yeah, and she was crying down the phone saying oh he told me that you's two weren't together and
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Um, yeah as many of you know, I was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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