JustPearlyThings - She Got DESTROYED After This CAP

00:00:00.000 So when you were 22, you got with him for four years?

00:00:03.120 No, 18, I got with him.

00:00:04.580 No, the last ex.

00:00:05.820 How long were you with him?

00:00:06.560 Portugal ex.

00:00:08.000 This was the main serious relationship I would consider in my life.

00:00:12.680 The rest was like getting to know you.

00:00:14.680 Old?

00:00:14.900 Maybe we're going to get married.

00:00:17.120 I'm just going to direct like, okay, how old were you when you met him?

00:00:20.640 How old were you when you met him?

00:00:21.640 When did you break up?

00:00:23.040 18.

00:00:23.960 We had an on and off relationship up until 22, 23, I would say.

00:00:28.400 Okay, so 22.

00:00:29.140 Okay, so 18 to 22.

00:00:31.480 Does that answer your question?

00:00:33.180 No.

00:00:35.180 Wait, so 18 to 22, so you dated him for four years?

00:00:39.320 On and off. 1.00

00:00:40.140 So on and off, that means the relationship was shit, but the sex was good? 1.00

00:00:43.500 No. 1.00

00:00:44.300 No, the one on and off. 0.77

00:00:45.080 The sex was bad as well.

00:00:46.300 Why is on and off?

00:00:47.580 No, we've never had sex.

00:00:51.840 Okay, someone else ask the question.

00:00:54.040 Someone ask the question.

00:00:54.740 Actually, I'm a blank right now.

00:00:55.960 Four years of this?

00:00:57.100 Wow, that's, I don't, are you a virgin?

00:01:00.460 Yes.

00:01:02.580 Do we have a stop cat button?

00:01:03.660 You're lying.

00:01:04.840 What do we cat button? 0.68

00:01:06.040 There's no cat button here.

00:01:07.200 Hold on, you're, you're, you're, what?

00:01:09.900 What?

00:01:10.440 I don't know, okay.

00:01:11.140 No disrespect.

00:01:12.480 We shouldn't even have this discussion.

00:01:14.060 Why is this even about me right now?

00:01:15.860 No, no, no, no.

00:01:16.660 Now, to be fair, for me, yeah, I'm just learning it because this is a completely different insight

00:01:19.960 because you're coming with a Muslim background, yeah, and you've got these types of insights

00:01:24.520 behind you, yeah.

00:01:25.420 This sounds pretty different to me.

00:01:26.560 Like, for example, you've been saying, like, you're 26.

00:01:28.300 Right now, you're a virgin.

00:01:29.480 We're in a Western air society.

00:01:30.600 I haven't heard that since I was, like, 15 that someone's, like, a virgin.

00:01:34.660 So that's the reason why, like, we're asking.

00:01:36.240 And it's, like, this is the thing as well.

00:01:38.440 Well, it's, it's, they're surprised because you don't portray yourself like a virgin,

00:01:42.720 which is, which is, which is a, which is a great, you know, based on that you're Instagram.

00:01:45.940 Are you a born, are you a, I'm not, I'm not saying it's, like, a, well, I don't see.

00:01:49.140 Is she a born again virgin? 1.00

00:01:50.120 They don't, they don't believe you, but I'm saying there's a reason they think you're capping. 1.00

00:01:52.940 Don't be stupid. 1.00

00:01:53.880 Yeah, there's a reason, there's a reason I think you're capping. 1.00

00:01:56.440 No, okay, no, you could think I'm capping for my Instagram, but no one has virgin on their

00:02:00.960 phone.

00:02:01.100 No, but I'm saying, no, yeah, but usually, like, I've had virgin girls come on the show where nobody 0.96

00:02:05.540 really, nobody really, like, wait, wait, wait, nobody really, like, pushes back, right?

00:02:09.760 But it's not, like, it's just, it's a good thing, right?

00:02:13.440 That's, like, a great thing.

00:02:14.400 Like, I think that's awesome.

00:02:15.320 It is good.

00:02:15.760 But it's, like, it's, like, unfortunate because I'm, like, no one believes you because of the

00:02:18.940 Instagram.

00:02:20.040 I was, like, so you might, it's, like, it's, like, it loses, like, that's a great thing.

00:02:24.380 Nobody has that.

00:02:25.240 That's why I want to change my Instagram, too.

00:02:27.780 I should probably archive, I'm going to go home and archive that picture.

00:02:30.840 Okay, well, you know what, I have to, I have to, I have to, okay, I'm just going to give

00:02:34.160 you the chance right now, Henny.

00:02:35.880 Do you remember the conversation we had before the cameras were on?

00:02:39.280 What do you mean, what conversation did we have?

00:02:40.640 About the situation you told me about.

00:02:42.280 I don't remember.

00:02:43.580 We were just talking in general.

00:02:45.300 No, but do you remember about the situation you told me about that I was giving you advice

00:02:48.300 on?

00:02:49.440 It was a general situation.

00:02:51.360 I can't remember exactly, word for word, but what does that have to do with this podcast?

00:02:55.260 Because you just told everyone here something that, from that situation.

00:02:59.340 I was, that, what are you talking about?

00:03:01.620 Because I wasn't talking about me and myself in that situation.

00:03:04.700 You, you were.

00:03:05.840 I don't want to out you, because I know the camera, maybe you don't want to, you don't

00:03:08.400 want people to know.

00:03:09.020 I don't know what you're talking about, honestly.

00:03:11.140 I was talking about a situation with my friend just in general, but I don't know where to,

00:03:14.820 I just, I just met you.

00:03:15.780 Do I know you?

00:03:17.420 Look, don't be rude to me, yeah, because I'm, I'm not trying to be rude, but you're,

00:03:20.820 I'm just, you're like trying to say some sort of say that I'm a liar.

00:03:24.260 No, I haven't, I haven't, hold on.

00:03:25.660 I've not said anything about anything, yeah.

00:03:27.800 I'm just saying, do you remember the conversation that we had?

00:03:29.760 I remember some of the conversations we had, yeah.

00:03:32.260 Most of them, yeah.

00:03:32.920 This is like a politician, isn't it?

00:03:34.260 Yeah, I don't know, I don't know.

00:03:35.900 I'm just, I don't know.

00:03:37.420 I did not have sexual relations with that woman. 0.99

00:03:40.840 How long ago was this conversation?

00:03:42.640 This was about an hour ago.

00:03:43.600 So, you, you remember all of it then, don't you?

00:03:45.680 Yeah, yeah, I remember.

00:03:46.280 Okay, you, you know you're saying I remember some of it.

00:03:48.400 No, I remember the conversation, but we were talking about a lot of things, yeah.

00:03:51.700 Okay, but no, but we specifically were talking about a situation that I was giving you advice

00:03:56.440 on.

00:03:56.660 We were talking about for about 45 minutes, right?

00:03:59.500 We were talking about.

00:04:00.300 About a certain situation.

00:04:01.340 That wasn't my situation.

00:04:02.380 That was your situation.

00:04:03.160 No, it wasn't.

00:04:04.460 Stop the cap. 0.94

00:04:06.640 You don't.

00:04:08.160 Stop the cap. 0.94

00:04:09.980 I don't know why you're getting involved with the name.

00:04:13.320 You're literally saying cap this, cap that you don't know me.

00:04:16.100 I'm, I'm, you know, can I say this though? 0.91

00:04:19.140 Don't come here with your fake suit and your fake teeth.

00:04:21.380 Wait, okay, wait, before, not necessary, but listen.

00:04:24.820 What can I say this though?

00:04:25.820 Can I say this?

00:04:26.620 I don't like that.

00:04:28.400 You're not going to insult him.

00:04:29.720 April.

00:04:30.360 Stop it.

00:04:31.020 Okay, that's fine, but he's saying I'm capping and all this, but he, that's what I'm insulting

00:04:35.640 to myself.

00:04:36.980 Read the label, it's Laura Piana.

00:04:38.780 You don't have to get defensive.

00:04:40.240 You don't have to insult him.

00:04:40.700 It's about me and myself and my body.

00:04:43.260 Okay, if you're just going to argue, like, just look.

00:04:45.040 Can I say this then?

00:04:45.820 I was making a joke about the Fresh and Fit podcast when they pushed the button.

00:04:49.560 It goes, beep, stop the cap.

00:04:51.220 That is actually a thing on the Fresh and Fit.

00:04:52.880 I thought you were trying to trigger me.

00:04:54.760 I apologize if that was the case.

00:04:56.280 But you can come check the label on my suit.

00:04:58.040 It costs more than your outfit.

00:05:00.040 Okay, that's cute.

00:05:00.600 Can I say this though?

00:05:01.640 Hey, guys, guys, guys, guys.

00:05:03.020 Let me just say.

00:05:03.740 You're comparing yourself to a woman. 0.99

00:05:05.340 That's cute.

00:05:05.780 Okay, cool, cool.

00:05:06.280 But let me say this.

00:05:06.820 You know the reason why I thought there could just be a bit of tension right now and a bit of

00:05:10.100 disagreement is only because earlier on when you were speaking about the city girl situation

00:05:15.040 or the holiday thing that happened, I remember at one point you did also say, oh, and then

00:05:20.040 that happened.

00:05:21.180 And it's not me saying that you're a liar or anything like that.

00:05:23.300 It's just that within this limited time of knowing you here, if someone says a story

00:05:27.780 then misses out a story, I can only go off my imagination in it.

00:05:31.180 It doesn't necessarily mean that I'm tying you or saying, yo, straight hole, straight

00:05:34.920 this, da, da.

00:05:35.340 It's not that.

00:05:35.920 But you have to remember, all of us, not all of us, but a lot of us are just meeting

00:05:41.140 each other for the first time.

00:05:42.500 And we're going off of, you see, first impressions are the most important because they're the

00:05:45.640 ones that stick the longest.

00:05:46.900 So obviously, in regards to the Instagram, it's not even like I've looked at the Instagram

00:05:49.820 and said, yo, you're just mad. 0.63

00:05:51.680 It's not even that.

00:05:52.780 It's just that when you say I'm a virgin and then there's quite a few westernized similarities,

00:05:58.800 like it's just in common similarities.

00:06:00.700 Like, do you see how someone that's a stranger could be like, oh, maybe I don't, I don't

00:06:04.580 100% know if she's a virgin or not.

00:06:06.000 Yeah, that's fine.

00:06:07.100 But that's you lot's opinion.

00:06:08.680 You lot's opinion.

00:06:09.020 Yeah, yeah.

00:06:09.380 That's fine.

00:06:09.760 Everyone can have different opinions.

00:06:10.800 Yeah, yeah.

00:06:11.500 You can't insult my guest.

00:06:14.360 I apologize for him because I thought he was coming for me and calling me a liar.

00:06:18.240 That's why.

00:06:18.780 Okay.

00:06:19.040 And that was to do with me personally.

00:06:20.500 Okay.

00:06:20.820 I'm not here to disrespect anyone, but I just felt a bit attacked.

00:06:24.140 So I was defending myself.

00:06:25.580 He wasn't, he wasn't attacking you.

00:06:27.500 I just, because when he kept saying the cab.

00:06:29.320 I know you felt, but it's like you keep having this like visceral react.

00:06:32.180 You can stay because you apologize, okay?

00:06:34.940 Mm-hmm.

00:06:35.480 If you want to, you can say, but, but you can't, you can't, you can't insult my guest.

00:06:40.300 Like, that's, it's not.

00:06:41.600 But you were, you were deflecting as well because it seemed like there was some opposing evidence

00:06:44.860 to what you're saying.

00:06:45.500 No, it wasn't.

00:06:46.180 It was just everyone just putting their little two cents in and it wasn't.

00:06:50.800 It wasn't, you guys don't know.

00:06:52.120 It wasn't facts as well.

00:06:53.280 So it was just a bit like, I'm saying what I'm saying.

00:06:55.480 You lot should just respect what I'm saying, whether you believe it or not.

00:06:58.440 And just call it a day.

00:06:59.720 That's it.

00:07:00.260 But to some degree though, like, it's, it's like, to some degree, I accept that.

00:07:04.260 That's fair.

00:07:05.060 It's just that to some degree though, it is a, it's a public podcast that we're all just

00:07:08.240 putting opinions forward, isn't it?

00:07:09.420 Like, it's normal that someone can put an opinion forward, yeah?

00:07:11.780 And if I think, yo, boom, I don't really agree with that or I don't, I could be wrong,

00:07:16.300 you know?

00:07:16.760 But it's, it's for you to be able to be like, you know what?

00:07:18.900 Yeah.

00:07:19.320 You may not be agreeing with me, but this is a podcast, isn't it?

00:07:22.140 But it's like, but people are just going to have something to say against what you've

00:07:24.760 got to say in it.

00:07:25.240 Of course, of course.

00:07:25.500 That's, that's why I'm on social media.

00:07:26.940 I already know that people are going to say this and that about me.

00:07:29.800 So it's okay.

00:07:30.880 It's cool.

00:07:31.260 No, where's my best actor, RJ?

00:07:32.620 Because I need to hand up over real quick.

00:07:34.320 Don't be doing the back and forth thing with a woman. 1.00

00:07:42.040 Stop fishing for an argument, please.

00:07:43.600 Don't tell him what to do.

00:07:44.960 He's fishing for an argument.

00:07:46.380 You're the one arguing with everybody.

00:07:48.780 Why is he saying, talking about, I'm going to pass my tall wall today?

00:07:52.520 Come on, man.

00:07:53.100 You're just trying to train me.

00:07:53.880 I didn't say you all was passing it, too.

00:07:55.180 I just am confused.

00:07:55.980 You guys had a conversation before the show.

00:07:58.020 We had a conversation before the show.

00:07:59.220 Okay.

00:07:59.560 Okay.

00:07:59.720 I'm going to, I'm going to ask him questions and I'll ask you questions.

00:08:02.440 So, so this conversation, this conversation, so this conversation, you don't have to tell

00:08:13.960 me what she said, but it's basically contradicting what she's saying now.

00:08:17.680 No, no, I'm asking him.

00:08:19.080 No, no, no, I'm asking him.

00:08:20.620 I'm asking him.

00:08:21.120 There are some things that she has said on this podcast, right?

00:08:24.700 That does not align with things she, that we discussed, but it's her life.

00:08:30.180 I will not disclose anything that she said because we were discussing, I was helping

00:08:34.500 through her situation, so I will not disclose anything because if she doesn't want it to

00:08:37.400 be public, that's fine.

00:08:38.820 But that's why I was asking her, do you remember the conversation?

00:08:41.660 Because it doesn't, some things are not aligning.

00:08:44.140 You know, this happens to me.

00:08:44.960 That's not respectful.

00:08:45.860 Because I wasn't even talking about myself in that situation.

00:08:48.760 I've warned you.

00:08:49.660 I told you, I told you I'm going to ask you questions in a second.

00:08:52.440 Okay, go on.

00:08:52.940 I need you, this is, I've warned you, you got to go.

00:08:56.620 All right, that's fine, I'll just go because this is just feeling a bit like too much of

00:09:00.800 an attack for no reason.

00:09:02.560 Okay.

00:09:03.300 I didn't come here for all this.

00:09:04.880 Okay, okay, that's fine, just go.

00:09:06.980 That's fine.

00:09:07.740 I'll go.

00:09:13.560 Troy, I'll come sit next to you.

00:09:15.840 Please.

00:09:16.200 I need a hug now.

00:09:20.540 I know, that's what they're saying.

00:09:21.540 They're like, why'd you bring it up?

00:09:22.840 It's like, what did she think?

00:09:24.520 Okay.

00:09:25.340 We're going to get it to the truth here soon.

00:09:26.920 You know what's funny though?

00:09:27.720 I'm not going to just throw to anything.

00:09:29.360 That's what I'm saying.

00:09:29.560 Okay, do you know what's funny though?

00:09:30.680 This happens to me all the time on the show.

00:09:32.420 This happens to me all the time where like someone will say something, but I don't want

00:09:35.660 to say anything.

00:09:36.900 Yeah, I can do it.

00:09:37.560 Yeah.

00:09:37.860 Yeah.

00:09:38.380 I saw it in real time.

00:09:40.960 No, no.

00:09:42.120 And it's like, yeah, so I know what you mean.

00:09:44.540 I think ultimately like.

00:09:45.560 No, go ahead. 1.00

00:09:47.260 Ultimately like, people just like, fuck it. 1.00

00:09:49.260 I think some people can just be new in it. 1.00

00:09:51.700 Oh my.

00:09:52.580 No, no, that one.

00:09:53.780 Like this.

00:09:58.040 But yeah, if you're coming on the podcast, you should know what you're signing up for.

00:10:00.680 Look, listen, like everyone's entitled to their privacy, et cetera, but I'm a bit like.

00:10:05.740 Oh boy.

00:10:06.380 If you've said something.

00:10:07.440 Oh boy.

00:10:08.000 I don't know.

00:10:08.700 Like if you've said something that I'm like, I was just, that's what I said.

00:10:12.440 Look, I'm just saying, do you remember the conversation we had?

00:10:14.280 Does the truth trigger people?

00:10:17.440 Or do lies trigger people?

00:10:19.100 Which one is it?

00:10:19.980 What society are we talking about?

00:10:21.340 This one?

00:10:22.020 The British one? 0.95

00:10:24.000 Depends on the truth.

00:10:24.680 Well, I mean, it's a little bit disingenuous if you're going to come on to a show and say

00:10:31.320 something that's, I mean, that you're directly contradicting something that you've revealed

00:10:36.740 to somebody else just prior to that show.

00:10:38.760 It's a little bit.

00:10:40.340 Particularly if it's something that you're trying to cast yourself in a good light.

00:10:43.940 Do you see what I'm saying?

00:10:46.200 Yeah.

00:10:46.580 I think that's what it is.

00:10:47.500 I don't even understand because I'm like, nobody expected her to be a virgin.

00:10:51.780 You know what I mean?

00:10:52.400 I didn't say that's what it was.

00:10:54.400 Just for the record.

00:10:55.820 I didn't say that's what it was.

00:10:56.980 She was what? 0.90

00:10:57.900 A virgin?

00:10:59.560 Yeah.

00:10:59.900 That's what she was saying.

00:11:01.000 That's what she was saying.

00:11:01.880 Yeah.

00:11:01.980 But you basically did because you said that contradicting.

00:11:05.220 No, I didn't say it was that part. 0.83

00:11:06.860 That's the most aggressive virgin I've ever met in my life. 1.00

00:11:11.080 I didn't say it was that part. 0.78

00:11:12.320 I'm wondering, I didn't say it, but it is what it is.

00:11:15.460 Now, once you lay it out, you just accept what comes with it.

00:11:18.160 And so I was projecting, and maybe Troy, gentlemen, you guys could agree with me or not.

00:11:24.200 I have been in on and off relationships with girls, and the only thing that was keeping 1.00

00:11:29.380 us both there was really good sex.

00:11:31.240 Yeah. 0.93

00:11:33.460 Mr. Kitt, do you agree with me?

00:11:35.200 You're the dating coach, or no?

00:11:36.360 You disagree?

00:11:37.480 If it's on and off, it's like you're having sex, but it's not a commitment.

00:11:41.300 I bet it on and off, but that was not it.

00:11:44.680 Okay.

00:11:45.200 So then, and I'm open to understanding the truth.

00:11:47.920 So, like, we were on and off was-

00:11:49.420 Why did I stay?

00:11:50.400 What was the on and off about?

00:11:51.780 And was the sex mediocre, or?

00:11:55.300 Um, I don't know. 0.92

00:11:59.300 All right, Pearl.

00:11:59.940 Wait, Pearl, you gotta get off the show, dude. 0.99

00:12:02.160 Get the fuck out of here, Pearl. 1.00

00:12:03.900 Get out of here, Pearl. 1.00

00:12:05.280 You're off the show.

00:12:06.860 I just think, I just think sometimes I'm like, oh, my dad, I don't want to see you.

00:12:12.600 Sorry, Mr. Pearl.

00:12:14.940 Sorry, sorry.

00:12:15.940 I just think I'm like, Mr. Davis.

00:12:17.680 Sorry, Mr. Davis.

00:12:18.880 I would say it was all right.

00:12:20.460 It wasn't great.

00:12:21.440 So what is the context of the off and on?

00:12:23.540 Like, what happened?

00:12:24.480 Um, it was just like, maybe I'd like go through his phone and find something I didn't like.

00:12:30.520 You know, I was kind of looking for problems, if I'm being honest.

00:12:33.300 Yeah.

00:12:33.500 And I really would overreact about a lot of stuff.

00:12:36.720 What did you find when you went through his phone?

00:12:38.840 Um, I don't want to, um, you know, like messages, that sort of thing.

00:12:44.740 Up to other girls? 0.98

00:12:46.540 Partially.

00:12:47.080 But I think I kind of overreacted on a lot of them.

00:12:49.720 Like, it wasn't really that deep.

00:12:51.280 Were you overreacting because you wanted to find a reason to overreact?

00:12:55.260 Or was it just because you were triggered emotionally?

00:12:57.560 Um, I just think, I just think I must have liked the drama if I kept doing it.

00:13:01.940 You know what I mean?

00:13:02.220 It's interesting.

00:13:02.660 Yeah.

00:13:02.860 It's interesting.

00:13:03.460 Because I was thinking, why is it so many girls will go through guys' phones? 0.92

00:13:06.520 And it's insecurity, right?

00:13:08.380 Yeah.

00:13:08.900 I've had girls, I had a girlfriend, like every single girl that I've ever dated really used

00:13:13.120 to, would go through my phone.

00:13:14.280 And there was one girl I was dating and she would like, literally every time she came round,

00:13:17.880 she'd go, oh, I've seen something on your phone.

00:13:19.560 It's very, it's very like, it's addicting.

00:13:21.600 You got to get your next fix.

00:13:23.120 No, and that's what I, that's what I realized.

00:13:24.960 I was like, I keep like, like, if I, like, I obviously don't care because I keep, we keep

00:13:29.440 getting back together and I keep looking for problems.

00:13:32.080 Yeah.

00:13:32.720 Is she still here or is she like?

00:13:34.240 No, I think she left.

00:13:35.840 Is she, King, was she taken out?

00:13:37.480 Yeah.

00:13:38.040 Okay.

00:13:39.240 What did she say, bro?

00:13:40.340 Tell us.

00:13:44.860 Come on, bro.

00:13:45.920 I plead the fifth.

00:13:47.140 That doesn't exist in England. 1.00

00:13:48.700 Oh, fuck! 1.00

00:13:52.320 Andrew, save me. 1.00

00:13:53.160 Listen, I'm sorry.

00:13:55.120 Listen, listen, that, I don't think she's a virgin. 0.86

00:13:58.240 I think she knows people that are going to see her on social media and she's going to 1.00

00:14:01.480 get shamed for being a shitty Muslim. 1.00

00:14:04.280 I, I have never met someone such, with such a visceral reaction. 1.00

00:14:10.700 Like, virgins don't know how to be that toxic. 1.00

00:14:12.880 No, no, I know. 0.86

00:14:13.300 That comes from trauma.

00:14:16.500 I've had virgin, like, girls come on the show. 0.99

00:14:18.980 And, yeah, they're very meek. 0.94

00:14:20.260 They're like, oh, they're very meek.

00:14:24.020 You know?

00:14:24.260 you can you can tell I've been the defensive element was too consistent

00:14:29.780 for me like I'd see too many times that she say something then someone else is

00:14:33.980 like oh I just remember this happened to you crazy but she was like tell me a

00:14:48.440 story about like a guy whatever that she had history with and then she was saying

00:14:53.360 about how like her sister he then I think she called her off so then he went for her sister

00:15:00.000 right and I was like oh wow that's like kind of mad like that's really weird and I was like you

00:15:06.060 know I had that happen I was like oh when this happened she was like you know my sister got

00:15:09.220 his number I was like wait your sister got his number she was like yeah I was like how did she 0.85

00:15:14.980 get his number so oh well I gave her gave it to her I was like wait I'm confused so did he go after

00:15:20.140 your sister or did your sister go after him because she was like he was like oh well you

00:15:25.400 know she was like oh well he said no because her sister said no because you know he had already

00:15:32.500 been with her and I was like wait but you gave your sister her number his number right and then

00:15:39.000 did she reach out to him she was like okay yeah so she reached out to him yeah I was like okay so

00:15:43.040 it wasn't like he you called it off with him then he went after your sister like you ended things

00:15:50.320 right she was interested you gave her the number and green lit the situation and then you didn't

00:15:56.080 like it after and I was a bit like after asking these questions I was like she painted it kind

00:16:01.080 of one way yeah when I actually found out I was like yeah yeah yeah it was completely different

00:16:05.160 did you see how I started to sip my tea at one point I just started to I'm just listening you

00:16:09.140 know I'm just listening I'm just listening it was more believable if she wasn't like the fact that

00:16:13.740 she got so mad because if someone said something about you that's like how did my teeth come to the

00:16:19.220 conversation you might find it annoying right so you might be like okay like whatever but if you're

00:16:26.380 getting like angry and insulting people I'm just like well yeah but you know from what she described

00:16:31.440 earlier I wouldn't be surprised if she said from my childhood of arguing my brothers I'd have to lie

00:16:35.500 every now and again from my childhood of arguing above is that after like you know like I like in

00:16:39.800 general I think once someone has that defense that's so thick so thick there's nothing you can like you

00:16:46.540 can't actually truly trust the story that comes out of their mouth isn't it rude is that it just sort of

00:16:51.160 to illustrate what Pearl's been saying though about like not taking that accountability yeah

00:16:55.180 yeah yeah yeah you called her out on that too but there's not taking accountability then there's

00:16:59.740 lying yeah like there's like in this I'm seeing a mixture of about three toxic things in one no but

00:17:06.360 then it's like it was pretty toxic you don't get that you don't get that toxic without getting

00:17:12.940 trauma in a relationship too I'm sorry like you cannot it takes two to tangle I won't yeah I will not

00:17:20.260 deal with this like narrative that oh it's only him that's toxic you're yeah she just got toxic

00:17:27.520 right here well because when you think when you think about it you're supposed to listen to your

00:17:31.720 man right so eat like you're supposed like you're not supposed to argue with a pearl can I ask a

00:17:36.640 question as well didn't she say that because I don't believe that as well anyone when she was

00:17:40.940 speaking about her boyfriend about oh yeah it was three years ago then we find out it's a whole different

00:17:46.440 ex now yeah she was like 22 yeah oh 18 I was with him for you I was right it could be it could be a

00:17:59.880 thing she was like she could they could have broken up when she was like she said it like in one line

00:18:05.520 she didn't mention she didn't say oh that was that X by the way this other X she literally just said oh 0.85

00:18:10.800 yeah and when I was 23 18 experience what does that mean when women are like miss whatever that 1.00

00:18:17.420 oh what is that what is that well when they miss their ex no no when they're like the details of the

00:18:23.460 timeline they're off like when you're like when you're experienced what does that typically mean

00:18:27.240 well but I'm asking like why okay so okay it's very simple okay first okay for here's a couple red

00:18:38.520 flags I picked up one number one she's a woman all right based red flag number two that I picked up 0.93

00:19:03.240 was when I asked her are you a virgin she was like yes it's that face to do what she's looking

00:19:12.120 like this and the pause and then number three okay you don't have to sit there and think and remember

00:19:19.800 about the truth you know the truth just comes up you know oh yeah it's just that that was that right

00:19:25.240 and so when she had to sit back and like remember the truth I was just like oh I don't know and then

00:19:32.520 the inconsistencies in the stories and then kit with with the ko punch was like wait a minute 0.99

00:19:38.500 because what we were talking about after this and she's like fuck you and your actor award 1.00

00:19:42.920 mother fucker I think what I met her she said my suit was nice on the balcony didn't she like she said 1.00

00:19:58.220 something she said something about my suit on the balcony she's like yeah the seat was nice and then 1.00

00:20:02.420 now in your experience like what are they hiding like oh what is the some sort of some sort of

00:20:12.180 treachery and deception that she because she women are smart enough to know how they're perceived yeah 1.00

00:20:17.660 and they're definitely under they're definitely know when the cameras on them or they're being

00:20:21.620 interrogated by somebody and they there's an authority over them so she's like oh wait oh I'm

00:20:27.260 definitely a virgin yeah and did you notice how as well though she said oh we shouldn't be talking

00:20:31.720 about this because I thought you know your second point I thought that the reason she paused was

00:20:35.620 because she didn't she felt uncomfortable with revealing like talking about her sexuality like

00:20:39.700 that on a public forum but then she then said oh yes I'm a virgin but we should be talking about

00:20:45.400 this yeah yeah yeah that's what they'll do they'll bring up a situation and when you ask the

00:20:51.380 questions they don't like then they don't want to talk about it but they always bring it up

00:20:54.800 they always bring it up first always but then that but then that leads on to like what we're

00:20:58.820 talking about with how a lot of men will leave their actions a lot of females will leave their

00:21:01.820 emotions I really think that what I saw early on was a gigantic emotional response and a defense

00:21:07.040 mechanism along with a lot a lot of emotions mixed in because because I go well and the girl that

00:21:12.460 came on that I actually like believe was a virgin you know like she wasn't like how could you just

00:21:18.520 because I haven't seen that episode in it so how how was she uh no she was great she was on um

00:21:23.000 yeah yeah you believe it right yeah was it the one who wore glasses wore a mask because she didn't 0.60

00:21:27.660 want to be on show yeah I 100% believe she's a virgin 100% so what was her mannerisms she was just really she was really um I think she was on fresh and fit once too

00:21:37.660 who uh yeah she was on fresh and fit once she went super viral on there no she was just a sweetheart 1.00

00:21:43.980 like she was just so sweet um she wasn't defensive at all and she wouldn't go around like I think she was

00:21:49.840 kind of like she didn't even want to say that she was a virgin do you know what I mean like she wasn't 0.98

00:21:53.280 even trying to put it out there like that and then what like isn't that the ultimate flex so like

00:21:57.760 yeah I am a virgin like why would you be hesitant to release that information but I mean all of us

00:22:02.300 here we're obviously we're all non-virgins right we're all yeah no I decided you're definitely not

00:22:06.880 virgin I decided I'm born again now you're born again she got mad when I said that I was like are 1.00

00:22:16.180 you a born again virgin she's like don't fucking tell that shit to me yeah I'm a proud born again 0.99

00:22:22.400 I just bought it off ebay I love the way MLD suit always comes into this though so like 1.00

00:22:32.480 my suit's coming deep down it's a nice suit I like it it's lauro piano all of my suits are lauro piano

00:22:42.340 you know think about it all bro like when a woman's arguing with you they'll try to get you where it

00:22:46.460 hurts didn't I say that earlier I said that earlier didn't relate and she's like when you when you're

00:22:50.900 logically making the point she's like yeah well that's why you put fake teeth and your suit's sucking 1.00

00:22:54.960 fucking socks you know oh yeah that's a nice suit he loves it oh I hate your suit now he's got nice teeth 0.99

00:22:59.800 everybody hate his teeth that like it's just her being not I want to say it's her being a woman it's just her being 1.00

00:23:05.580 them like I don't want to say feminine boy emotional like liar emotional yeah yeah yeah choose I mean she was

00:23:11.280 clearly triggered clearly triggered but and you don't get triggered by you know like lies and she you get triggered by when

00:23:20.280 somebody hits the truth if she said that her body count was full I wouldn't care no one else would 1.00

00:23:25.180 either I think I think I think it's because and I'm not saying this is what she was lying about

00:23:28.980 but I think it's because as a Muslim or someone who wants to be perceived as a Muslim and this is a

00:23:35.400 public forum right yeah there is a level of appearance and reputation yeah but over a certain age people just

00:23:41.760 assume you know what I mean like if you meet a girl that's 25 you're expecting even if she whatever religion 0.98

00:23:50.060 you're what you're expecting she's a virgin yeah and then another and I wanted to tell her too like for me 0.99

00:23:54.640 personally like if a girl has snapchat that's a fucking red flag that's just a red flag like what are you 0.99

00:24:01.920 doing like for me personally like you're just on a platform that deletes all evidence 0.96

00:24:07.140 like are you kidding me like and then no like come on you're on and then and like you're not even a

00:24:16.440 social media is she an influencer she have a big panel she's doing something she did say that she's I'm

00:24:21.180 YouTubing and trying to get back into it and like you know she said she said she said she's starting

00:24:24.900 up like you know she's got a platform I just I'm to the point I've been doing these shows for so long

00:24:31.680 yeah if I tell you something once and you don't listen I'm just I'm not dealing with it

00:24:37.680 we got we got five likes left open the chat yeah five likes left open the chat I have super chats

00:24:43.440 though I'm trying to pull them up I forgot to pull them up I really want to vote with the chat

00:24:47.680 I want chat to ask us and I want to ask chat if they think she's a virgin or not once we open the chat 0.79

00:24:54.680 okay supers 0.59

00:24:56.680 I think that whole thing is a contradiction to some degree though like in not even her I'm focused

00:25:01.540 on I'm saying being a Muslim okay let's say I'm not saying that she's for fact not a virgin but let's

00:25:07.080 say that she's not a virgin and she also has to maintain a certain image to society don't you see 0.98

00:25:13.260 some type of you're taking the piss

00:25:14.840 but don't you see don't you see how that's like isn't that like some type of like is there nothing 0.98

00:25:23.780 wrong with that like what so I'm in a Muslim society you know and I'm not a virgin I'm I have

00:25:29.400 to appear this way but I want to live this way okay should I tell you what it is yeah and then

00:25:33.940 yeah yeah you know no no not actually what it what it is I'm saying in regards to that if imagine a

00:25:40.060 girl who for example let's say she has a heavily promiscuous past yeah then she meets a guy let's 0.62

00:25:45.080 say who he doesn't because he doesn't move in the streets like that he's a very good guy let's say

00:25:50.000 he's from a Muslim background right he's only ever been with one maybe one or two girls yeah

00:25:54.160 right she doesn't have to tell him about her past and if she can avoid him finding out about that

00:26:00.100 she's as good as a virgin she's as good as a virgin because he will take her as a wife etc etc 1.00

00:26:05.260 right and this is something that definitely you know girls have told me of their friends where

00:26:10.200 they'd been with over 50 to 100 guys then a guy they met who was a really good guy only been with

00:26:15.840 one or two people good guy sound religious background right he he's none the wiser and

00:26:20.540 now they're married happily married etc so obviously her disclosing any kind of information

00:26:25.000 right to the future man if he stumbled upon this channel he stumbled upon this episode he'd be like 0.97

00:26:31.180 what the fuck is this yeah no hymen no diamond yeah which is which is which is all fair enough but I 0.96

00:26:38.920 mean you you've got a sort of thing if you're going on a podcast where you're going to be talking 0.99

00:26:42.000 about dating and you're you're going to get asked about your one yeah like well I'm putting things

00:26:46.060 like like don't say that this is entirely about dating but this is a very common topic on this show

00:26:51.020 it's a bit like when straighter right do you know that girl straighter right got thrown off the 0.95

00:26:54.080 whatever podcast one of destiny's girls uh you know debate girls the one I was on no I think it was a

00:26:59.820 different one where she got thrown off because they are asking her if she was a virgin and she

00:27:02.800 wouldn't answer the question and then in the end they threw her off the podcast and it's people were

00:27:06.340 saying well the thing is like you knew you were coming onto a dating podcast yeah you knew you were probably

00:27:10.200 gonna get an all-star yeah it's like it's not asking your body care that's okay virgin or not

00:27:14.940 how old was she 26 okay come on 26 I'm 23 yeah no 26 like like the the the whole the I mean all of

00:27:28.400 the symptoms she was emitting were not one of a virgin virgin women are like very coy naive like very 0.99

00:27:38.500 you can sense the purity yeah they're pure they're very they're very nice they haven't been jaded yet

00:27:43.680 you know what I mean I was I was sensing the trauma of past relationships yeah watching the express

00:27:48.620 like I I really pay attention to people's body language and so on so forth and within that wasn't

00:27:54.060 just oh how dare you it's wait you're trying to tell everyone that's the energy that I was getting

00:27:59.120 oh wait there yo right now I mean when she was speaking to you that was one but it was more

00:28:03.780 specific with him as well I have this effect on women but it was even it was even when I was like

00:28:08.360 you don't she I was like she's like do you remember our conversation yeah uh parts of it it's like uh it

00:28:13.900 was an hour ago like how did you not why do you remember parts of it but I think this is important

00:28:18.780 for guys to see because it's like like a lot of guys will hear hear this and believe it do you

00:28:24.820 well I'm not talking about I mean I mean like in the church this is where I see it because that's

00:28:34.940 what happens you need to tell me I want to rebrand yeah so they go to the church they rebrand and get

00:28:40.420 them a virgin guy who doesn't know any better yeah that's what I'm saying like not guys with like

00:28:46.260 five minutes of experience can pick this stuff out like guy that dude yeah well listen I I've

00:28:51.160 been with everything as well we've we have all been with a decent amount of women here on this 0.99

00:28:55.600 panel and honestly I'm sorry I don't think I don't think that girl's a virgin or she has just been

00:29:01.720 through a shitload of trauma that made her that insufferable no I'm sorry I'm not even gonna go

00:29:06.060 with that second one I don't think she's a virgin like yeah I just don't think she's a virgin 0.90

00:29:09.360 Troy if I had to bet no I don't think she is but I'll tell you one thing so what you were saying

00:29:14.980 about like if there's gaps in the story like she had what would that mean yeah my view on that is

00:29:19.560 firstly I don't know for sure what it means but it would be a major major red flag if I was dealing

00:29:24.260 with a woman and she was coming with those inconsistencies of like oh yeah well maybe I was

00:29:28.460 dating him oh no it was when I was 23 you know when I was 18 yeah all of that kind of stuff I think

00:29:32.800 guys will accept more than like the public like I think guys will accept a lot if you're honest

00:29:38.480 yes yes yes beyond like craziness you know like extreme but like guys will accept a lot more than

00:29:46.640 you think you will no listen listen the backbone the backbone of all and and get your dating coach

00:29:52.200 as well for women right the backbone of all relationships romantic friendships business 0.98

00:29:58.120 relationships is trust and then the moment you start lying or even if you're dumb and you make a

00:30:06.540 mistake but you start projecting these inconsistencies within your truth that's when you get people

00:30:13.260 start being like wait a minute like what do you mean I think it has a lot to do with your morals as

00:30:19.180 well because you're literally saying oh I'm not going to tell you this part because I think it's bad

00:30:23.720 so if you think it's bad and you think if you tell me this is going to make me be repulsed or make me

00:30:28.880 not want to be with you then you are the embodiment of what I don't want to be exactly yeah but I think

00:30:33.980 I think I think like you said a learning point for guys watching is that if you're dealing with a

00:30:38.240 girl and she's coming in with these like weird inconsistencies or it doesn't quite add up that's

00:30:42.380 definitely yeah yeah yeah yeah and then and then also when the attacks start coming when you start 0.99

00:30:49.000 when you start prying for the truth and like well you know what you have your fucking suits fake 0.95

00:30:53.240 all you said was stop the cat yeah honestly if she did it in a feminine way we probably would have 1.00

00:30:59.660 left her alone if she didn't you know I just really would rather not talk about this like

00:31:03.620 we probably would have just moved on but when you're like da da da da da da da da I'm like get

00:31:07.120 oh I think if Pearl wasn't here she'd say she's being attacked by men yeah like if Pearl wasn't here

00:31:11.800 she'd be like oh I want every man's attacking me right now I'm just like yeah because she mentioned

00:31:15.360 men a few times when she was going back against you guys she goes I'm not gonna be supposed to be like

00:31:18.440 that by a man or did you see when she'd say a few remarks that was to do with oh because you're a

00:31:22.000 man you can't say that listen listen so Pearl we got a thousand likes can we open it open the chat

00:31:26.220 we can't we can I want to ask the chat I want to do the virgin poll to the chat

00:31:31.060 oh no no no okay no no no okay now let's let's let's this forget the virgin poll do you think she was 1.00

00:31:37.940 lying or do you think she was telling the truth so if you think she was lying put a one in the chat

00:31:46.520 and you think she was telling the truth put a two in the chat that that's what I wanted I just

00:31:51.660 want to see what the people have to say every other number if you think she was lying

00:31:55.840 I want to see how many other numbers go against one

00:32:00.740 I want to guess her body count in the chat

00:32:05.220 oh no I even say I even say this to like my female clients you know in the sense of like

00:32:16.280 don't you don't lie about your past because if you're with a guy and chances are he's going to be your

00:32:23.640 level of intelligence or higher because most women that's what they like to choose yeah there's going 1.00

00:32:28.920 to be a point throughout the relationship right if he's with his wherewithal which he likely is in

00:32:33.340 comparison to you where you're going to say something that's inconsistent to what you've

00:32:37.100 told him previously right and when that happens he's going to remember you've already that plants

00:32:42.920 the seed for distrust because then when he starts inquire he'll be like hold on you've told me two

00:32:47.400 different stories yeah bro you can't you and I you and I are going to be best friends let me tell you

00:32:53.720 why let me tell you what the last girl I dated I dated this girl for two years okay and when I first met 0.94

00:33:01.200 her she lied about her past and she lied about her body count she lied about her purity

00:33:08.540 and she tricked me and when I because you know what

00:33:12.480 the only thing that keeps lies going are more lies

00:33:17.440 boom right and eventually the truth came out and the truth came out

00:33:22.340 and bro when I found out the truth I was so disgusted and I wasn't disgusted with the fact that she did what 1.00

00:33:29.320 she did in the past but I was so disgusted that she thought I was dumb enough to believe her 1.00

00:33:34.700 fucking lies and and and and the insult of my intelligence like how dare you bitch how dare you 1.00

00:33:41.600 fucking think I am as dumb as you to think you could just lie you know and trick me and he's right 1.00

00:33:47.400 he's a thousand percent right and that goes for men too anybody don't enter a relationship and start 1.00

00:33:53.880 lying yeah okay it's weak be a thou if you're a scumbag just own it be scumbag just like all right 1.00

00:34:00.620 I'm just you know I'm a scumbag you know but the when you the thing is when you lie and a lot of 1.00

00:34:06.320 girls are ashamed of their past and it is what it is but men will respect you a thousand percent 0.98

00:34:12.420 times when you're like listen I don't want to talk about it but listen I'm just gonna tell you I have 0.60

00:34:16.900 been through some shit it isn't what it is I just want you to love me for me at least from that moment

00:34:22.340 forward I know what I'm dealing with yes and then I know how to move forward appropriately because I 0.89

00:34:27.800 started dating or I'm not really dating I'm seeing this other girl she's beautiful right and our first

00:34:33.080 date she was like well you know shit happened and you know I kind of went through a hoe phase I was 0.99

00:34:38.680 like okay cool I respect the fact that you're telling me that you went through this hoe phase yeah and 1.00

00:34:45.020 now when I deal with her I'm like okay like she may be hoe and she may not be but at least I know 1.00

00:34:50.820 moving forward like that x factor of hoe phase is there for me to calculate into the entire 0.98

00:34:57.780 situation yeah but what if she would have been like no virgin girl and blah blah blah blah blah and 1.00

00:35:03.720 then you march down the path of relations you waste your time and then and then you find out later 0.99

00:35:08.100 that oh wait you've lied to me and you actually have like a fucking 50 plus body count you the guy 0.99

00:35:15.400 really is disgusted because he's disgusted from the from the fact that you manipulated me you lied 0.99

00:35:21.680 to me because I you know just be real you know what I mean I have a question would you have dated

00:35:26.820 her still if if she was honest from the jump if she was honest from the jump um she was she was a

00:35:33.040 great girl in that sense but it was just the the the fact that I found out like a year later right

00:35:39.200 no that's what I'm asking like would she would she have gotten a better outcome if she didn't lie

00:35:43.020 well the thing is this I was in love with a fake person and then when I found out the truth I started

00:35:50.060 to like fall out of love with her because I started seeing the real her and the biggest thing that made

00:35:54.480 me upset was that I just felt so gross that she she lied and she tricked me and I just I feel like I

00:36:03.220 fell in love with a fake person so that built up a lot of resentment you know what I mean what would you say is

00:36:09.100 worse a woman that says her body counts 15 and lies about it or a woman that says her body counts 20 0.86

00:36:16.840 and tells you the truth truth every time oh the truth yeah exactly the kid saying truth every time

00:36:20.920 because you know I think you know you know I think it's a factor yeah I think in regards to women 0.99

00:36:24.500 and men yeah we can all women can say oh I want a guy that's you know six six figures uh strong

00:36:30.600 masculine da da da da guys can be like I want a woman that's feminine da da da but I do believe that

00:36:34.680 some areas you can increase the percentage enough yeah that some other areas don't

00:36:38.980 become as important well you know let's say but yeah for example yeah I think if a woman's 1.00

00:36:43.160 femininity yeah and a woman's honesty and a woman's like roles of how to be a good wife or a good 1.00

00:36:48.640 girlfriend or some sort of are just up the charts all the time I really think there's plenty of guys 0.71

00:36:53.960 not most but plenty of guys that will be like you know what yeah she is there about how it's that

00:36:59.220 but you know I do love it all like yeah makes me feel like that's like a man I'll add on to that I

00:37:04.280 recently met a girl in Miami when I was on one of these podcasts and we had just gotten into the

00:37:10.340 conversation talking about exes and past because she knows what I do for a living and so we talked

00:37:15.260 about whatever and she was very open with me and like you know it was like some people would consider

00:37:20.560 a high body count but she was also stunningly gorgeous honest with me successful like successful 1.00

00:37:28.760 I don't care about a woman's money and shit but the fact that she was successful lets me know that she has a 1.00

00:37:32.880 fucking brain yeah and she was physically fit and she was just such I think she's so gorgeous and 1.00

00:37:38.320 like a great communicator I was just like damn I like fucking like this girl you know what I mean 0.99

00:37:44.200 like you can overlook that's it but the thing is the number one thing guys look for in a relationship 0.99

00:37:48.880 I think women look for this too is somebody you can trust yeah somebody you can call if there's

00:37:54.760 trouble out there and then if you if the thing is this because it's not about sex it's not about 0.99

00:38:00.160 luck it's not about money it's all that it's about damn like if the shit goes down yeah your woman is 0.99

00:38:05.680 number two in your life like you like she like your your business your cause your duties number one 0.99

00:38:10.200 and and number two is the woman like can I rely on you can I call you three o'clock in the morning

00:38:15.340 if I've been falsely accused and I need bail money you know what I mean you know what John as well like

00:38:20.380 I think tell me what you think but you know you said about when when the girls lied to you about her 0.98

00:38:26.260 sexual past that left that level of disgust right yeah I think a massive part of that is because a

00:38:31.860 man's worst fear of raising kids that aren't his yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah oh yeah yeah worst fear

00:38:38.120 right raising a child that isn't his so and oh at the time that that would happen is when uh is when

00:38:44.180 a woman lies about her sexual past because she says you're the father and you're actually not the 0.84

00:38:48.020 father no that's the that's disgusting that's the psychological underpinning isn't it yeah yeah I think 0.51

00:38:52.880 that's one of the elements of it though I think there's there's like there's that as well that yo

00:38:57.060 father but I think there's that there's just that I have the element of wait there so let me get it

00:39:03.300 straight yeah you with your chest were willing to say oh wait there he hasn't clocked on yet

00:39:08.740 yeah so how long can I play this game for because you have to remember that there's a difference between

00:39:14.820 if a woman lies to you for two seconds like let's say what happened there that's okay she lied to us 1.00

00:39:18.400 but we're not gonna feel like idiots but then let's say that we go three years it's not just 0.97

00:39:22.800 about if she tells you the truth at the end of the fears you have to think what else did she lie

00:39:26.100 about what else is there and then it becomes a game she sustained that character throughout the

00:39:30.180 three years it becomes a thing of like it becomes a thing of like your own imagination is the

00:39:34.720 measurement because at least okay cool let's say you say to someone this girl's got a body count of 1.00

00:39:38.660 30 a lot quite a lot of people could be like oh wait there that's too high um others could be like

00:39:42.940 you know what yeah that's fine for me I'm calm with that number yeah but when it's a game of

00:39:45.960 imagination yes when you can't that's now a thing of my number is 70 so I'm thinking it could be 70

00:39:52.300 no and then that's that's what happened to me so then in addition to that after I found out the

00:39:57.620 truth through a number of inconsistencies because I'm fucking smart like I made a multi-million dollar 0.97

00:40:04.180 business like I'm not lying from a hoe I could figure that shit out yeah like so you know I 1.00

00:40:10.280 how did it take a year of that dude I'm not gonna lie because I was too busy I was just too busy 0.95

00:40:16.480 that was the time I was dating three girls and then like you can't even monitor no actually the

00:40:22.080 reality I was dating five but I was only taking three seriously but you know that that that and

00:40:27.080 then life is my life is a hoe face 1.00

00:40:31.000 but no I want to add on to that real quick it's just that when when you spot that one lie

00:40:39.740 then the relationship is tainted because she's like she's like oh you know I gotta work like 1.00

00:40:44.000 she's sucking some dick you know even though she does have to work late and it just fucks with your 1.00

00:40:48.840 head but on both sides too for the men do men don't mention lie women should lie because it fucks with 1.00

00:40:54.240 your head and you're just like you can't even focus on the person in front of you you can't focus on 0.93

00:40:58.780 your duty your your business your fitness whatever the case may be you're even in the

00:41:03.000 relationship with her because she's gonna start to say we have to remember that a woman's emotions 1.00

00:41:07.360 play vital factors towards the the overall the reality yes overall the relationship so it's like

00:41:13.640 if she's seeing that you're disgusted in her yeah that's gonna play a role yes she's seeing that oh wait

00:41:18.980 you don't want to touch me no more you don't want to hold me you don't want to be intimate with me in 0.58

00:41:22.840 any type of way that now is gonna affect what she now does and you see some females yeah out of 1.00

00:41:27.520 insecurity could just be like okay I need to feel love right now let me go to my ex yeah then it's

00:41:31.620 like I need to go let me let me do and most women cheat with an axe yeah so that's that's I'd like 1.00

00:41:37.760 is there is that is that could I just make one other thing though is there is there the possibility

00:41:42.660 that like it's more about not lying than it is about how much you reveal yes because it's not like

00:41:49.800 we're giving the impression like on the first or second day you're gonna be sitting down going right

00:41:53.080 well my body count is yeah like we I wouldn't expect her and I wouldn't ask exactly yeah yeah

00:41:59.400 I wouldn't even know what is your what is your number what's your body like I wouldn't get into 0.98

00:42:03.460 that conversation however what you want to avoid is somebody who's actively lying about it you know

00:42:08.340 if you meet a woman and she's like oh yeah you know because the trust is damaged the trust like 1.00

00:42:13.880 the backbone of all relationships friendships business love it is all trust and the number one way to

00:42:21.280 damage trust is with a lie and you know you don't you know when you said revealing yeah

00:42:26.100 like for example I feel like we're all the same where we're on the face first date we'd never say

00:42:30.820 to a woman first thing watch your body count yeah I don't think that's a thing that would all say

00:42:34.120 however in regards to revealing thing we are we're all intelligent males females we're all intelligent

00:42:39.400 creatures I'm gonna be able to see what you're not saying I'm gonna be able to see what you're not

00:42:45.360 putting forward I'm gonna be able to see when you're kind of skipping around we were able to do with

00:42:48.600 her within the space of two minutes yeah so it's like in a relationship over the space of a year

00:42:52.740 I'm gonna like why didn't you tell me that you you did do a gangbang why did you tell me that oh

00:43:01.680 wait you're still friends with your ex and I had to find out because I saw a notification pop on your

00:43:05.460 phone why did like why did you tell me about the Bukki party a woman not saying something is as bad as 0.92

00:43:13.260 them saying something if it is a lie I'm trying it's good live by admission isn't it I'm trying

00:43:18.360 to find the stat but it's like I think 50% of men will ask your body count well I just don't think

00:43:26.440 you should ask I personally wouldn't yeah I don't know it's just now I'm saying we all want to know that don't

00:43:31.540 it I don't find the stat no don't get to say do we all want to know we're not all one I would

00:43:38.980 want to ask I don't ask well you know you don't want to say well kid wanted to ask a question to the 0.88

00:43:43.460 panel what well it kind of shit is but I wanted to ask what do you think is something men lie about 0.96

00:43:48.560 in the beginning what's the equivalent that men would like I'll tell you a story I'll tell you a 0.99

00:43:56.180 story of a guy that came on the show you know he was talking about his business right and then he's

00:44:04.160 like saying he makes six figures from it and like grabs like oh cool like I just I'm just like I just

00:44:09.860 believe people but I have a producers that maybe since cat more than more than I do yeah we looked up

00:44:16.280 the business it was dissolved I would say I would say I think the majority guys lot well they I think 1.00

00:44:25.760 they insinuate about sexual performance like they don't they're like oh girl I'm gonna fuck the shit 0.99

00:44:35.400 out of you I'm not like that but I think they like guess it optimally they guess it about I don't know 0.99

00:44:40.160 what because I don't like I'm so successful now like I'm so terrified when I go on these new days

00:44:45.740 yeah I lead with all my shitty points yeah I'm like I have anger problems

00:44:49.500 I should do that I'll be like I'll go through your phone 0.93

00:44:55.440 you know I think men lie about like most commonly in society though I think most men lie about their 0.76

00:45:04.160 intention because we're talking about first name yeah yeah yeah we're not talking about relationship

00:45:09.220 that's good that's good first intention the reason why is because all of us as men let us be honest

00:45:15.140 anytime you see a female you're attracted to that you would you want you want to have sex with her 0.99

00:45:20.920 now don't get twisted you can have you can have sexual restraint or you could be in a relationship

00:45:24.700 where you don't even desire anyone else anymore but I'm talking about you first see the woman that 0.96

00:45:28.380 you actually like there's going to be a sexual arousal to some degree like to some degree at least

00:45:33.460 you may also be stimulated by her mental her mentality so and so forth but there's a oh 0.82

00:45:37.960 if she said would you like to have sex right now and she's the girl that I like would I say no to 0.97

00:45:43.220 that not a lot of men would say no but the thing is that if you go to a first date and a woman says

00:45:48.460 what is your intention with me now you three are dating coaches right you've gone you've been on many

00:45:54.140 many many many many dates are you telling me that every constitution because I need this fifth

00:45:59.680 so you guys you guys have been on many many dates yeah so you're telling me that let's say you've

00:46:06.080 dated 50 between all of you guys you're telling me each time you wanted to know about her mentality

00:46:11.120 you wanted to know about can't be I'll be honest and you guys tell me that straight away I'll be honest

00:46:16.020 with you I used to be if a girl was attractive if she was hot yeah like yeah I would but hold on 0.99

00:46:21.440 but I think when you've got when you've had enough experience with women to a certain degree

00:46:27.740 you realize even if it's just a casual thing you are still spending time with them yeah you're still

00:46:32.660 investing time with them yeah so even if I'm even if I was only in a place where I'm looking for

00:46:37.060 something casual it's still important to me to like who she is as a person the point I'm making

00:46:41.960 though is that it's not that I'm coming from a casual perspective I'm coming from a first intrusive

00:46:46.260 thought of when you see them the first thought of because you have to remember yeah from a prime

00:46:50.160 you don't know if you want something serious because you don't know exactly but you're still

00:46:54.480 attracted so because you're still attracted you're going to have the thing that's great that's that's

00:46:59.160 the fuel that's making you gravitate towards what's that what's the question I'm saying yeah that like

00:47:05.040 what's the most common thing that guys will lie about on their first date now the intention could

00:47:09.000 be I think it is intention I think I got a guy saying right she's like oh yeah I'm looking for a

00:47:13.680 relationship okay cool men that go on these these these these pornography sites these these talk to

00:47:22.120 these women so on so forth you really think that they're not going it with that with a sexual not 1.00

00:47:26.220 motive but a sexual fueling beforehand before they even get to that scenario can I respond to that I

00:47:31.740 think that I think there's two points here yeah I think one I think you're right I mean I think they

00:47:35.820 do lie or or rather put passed by a mission yeah about intention quite other but but having having

00:47:42.240 said that I I never get into the conversation on the first day and I would advise any yeah I agree as

00:47:47.400 well not to get into the conversation oh so what are your intention yeah it's too transactional it's

00:47:55.320 it's a very normie way of going about yeah I was offered marriage recently on a first date

00:48:01.080 yeah buddy yeah I wouldn't recommend guys do that was he Muslim no no no she's touching the hair you 1.00

00:48:13.380 know yeah I just I thought it was gonna be like a normal date and then it was yeah he's he was like

00:48:22.980 ready to get married I was like oh wow he's seen your uh he's seen your uh bread dating skills

00:48:27.300 no you know what's weird um it's like weird going on a date with someone that knows everything about

00:48:35.540 you oh yeah it's not it's not even okay it wouldn't even be bad if it could be equal

00:48:40.920 we use youtube fan no yeah no no because imagine imagine okay if you go on a date with me but I can

00:48:46.780 also look up everything about you online then it's equal yeah it's equal we're on equal playing

00:48:51.920 field but when I'm like telling a story and I'm like oh he's heard this on my podcast

00:48:56.240 what you say intention but okay Troy what do you think yeah no I think he's right I think

00:49:07.480 okay what do you think yeah intention for sure yeah I would say sexual performance slash intention

00:49:12.840 but after you said intention I was like no no no because I've lied about intention plenty of times

00:49:17.020 I think it's I think it's yeah you know you're 100% but it's about how it's conveyed because

00:49:22.060 what I tend to like finesse it a bit on these days so I'm not sitting down on the day and I'm not saying

00:49:26.580 so tell me what are your you know where do you see yourself in five years time and all of that because

00:49:31.540 that is a bit normie it's a little bit it's it's not very sexy you know you want to keep your cards

00:49:36.060 close to your chest you want to hold some things back and stuff however can I say hand on heart that I

00:49:40.800 haven't been into date situations and given the impression that maybe I'm looking for a little bit more

00:49:45.340 than perhaps I am you know I can't I can't say that hand on heart

JustPearlyThings - August 23, 2023

She Got DESTROYED After This CAP

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