She Got EDUCATED On This Fallacy
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Summary
In this episode we discuss the differences between men and women in society and in society in general. Is there a difference between the two? Are they equal? Is society better or worse than before? What is the best way to run a society?
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And I think I honestly think like women have subtle misandry that we just don't see every day.
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And, you know, I'm not even going to say I've never said anything like anything like that.
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But if a guy goes on social media and says women are whores, they're they're looked down upon.
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Even if that's more true when you think about it, because women 100 years ago, only 15 percent admitted to having premarital sex.
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Yeah. To now where what percent of women are virgins on their wedding night.
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So if you look at the difference in women, like women are that's kind of just a fact in general.
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But women can say men are trash. Men are the problem. Men are this. Men are that.
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And then men can't really you're getting bashed left, right and center.
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Women do run a lot of, you know, the society and the set up.
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We never know, isn't it? Is men meant to have power over women?
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I don't think it's the best way. I think men meant to have power over women.
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I don't think it's the best way. I think men meant to have power over women.
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I just feel like, I don't know, like, I think that's in my head, that's how it's been planted.
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Again, what's happened from my viewpoint in society, things are veered away from just naturalness.
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You know what I'm saying? And just in general, people veered away from nature.
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Nature teaches a lot of people, like, how things are.
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And just natural. Naturally, men are leaders. Naturally, men are stronger than women.
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I really disagree. I do think men and women are completely equal.
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But what do you mean by equal? Equal in what? In running society?
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Equal just in, like, respect for each other and, like, what we bring, what we all bring to the table.
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So I would disagree when it comes to running society.
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So in a society, we need men more, like, I'm not talking about, like,
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So we've seen what happens when fathers aren't in the home.
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So men and women are equally, I think, needed in the family.
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But when it comes to running a society, most of the jobs that run the infrastructure of society,
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so, like, the policemen, the power lines, like, all the things,
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women's jobs could go away tomorrow, society would still run.
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Because, you know, what women are construction workers?
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If women are in construction, they're, like, in management or some bullshit job that we don't really need.
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Like, where men are the ones doing the hard, like, the hard jobs, the street sweepers, the sewage,
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like, all the stuff that, like, if went out tomorrow, society would not run.
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I think about, even in the army, think about when shit is a fan, like,
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you're not going to send a woman on the front line to go fight for your country.
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A man's going to be on the front line fighting, defending for his country.
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That's the thing, like, there's nothing wrong with accepting that men and women are not equal.
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I would say more not the same, but they're equal.
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I mean, equal as in, like, they're both, like, equally as worthy and, like, have equally important parts,
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Because what Perly just said, that example is a good example.
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I never thought of that before, but it's a very good example.
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So, they're not really equal in that respect there.
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I mean, and I don't know where you could say that they are equal.
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Like, in having a kid, like, women give birth, yes, but men have to impregnate her.
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And when you think about it, like, women can only give birth to, like, one kid at a time.
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Or men can impregnate, like, multiple women at a time.
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So, when you think about it, like, in society...
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But, you see, when it comes to, like, the way society runs, like, women need men more
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You know, no one's there, but, like, we don't hear that enough.
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And the thing is, like, I genuinely think society's been brainwashed to, like, think that
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Like, why are women going to, like, to volunteer to be a single mother?
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They're paying to be a single mother if they don't find a guy in time.
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That's the other thing is, like, again, we don't really talk about the real numbers when
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So if you don't have a kid by 30, like, you have a leftist than...
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If you're not in a relationship, you have a less than 50% chance of having a kid.
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So you're more likely to not have a kid than have one.
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But we tell women, oh, wait, wait, wait, you're fine.
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When it's, like, really, I mean, you're on crunch time.
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The IVF and stuff, and it goes back to this thing I was saying, it's not actually natural.
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I think, naturally, if, let's just say, a woman couldn't have a child, that's natural.
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That's actually how it happened and what it was.
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That's actually natural, and you just have to live with it.
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Again, it's not going to be the nicest scenario, but then again, maybe you've got your nephews
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So you can still be, like they say, it takes a village to grow a child.
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So you still put your input in, but it just so happens that naturally it wasn't for you.
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Again, these things seem harsh, but they're not really.
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But again, when you understand that and accept it, then you-
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If anything, we live in a more free society than ever as women.
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If you're a woman and you want to have children.
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But that's what I said, like I said, it's perception.
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It's because you've got your nieces, you've got your nephews.
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I grew up a lot with my aunts, you know what I'm saying?
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I'm not reading for it, but three aunts I've grown up with, they haven't got children.
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It's like I've almost got four moms, you know what I'm saying?
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But we're going to have an unprecedented amount of men and women that wanted children that
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They're predicting 50%, like 50% of women that hit 30 are single and childless.
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Because of that adoption and or like bringing in from other countries as well will go up.
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But again, you know, I've been on both sides of adoption where like my mom gave up a kid
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for adoption with my dad because my mom and dad got pregnant when my mom was a teenager.
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And so they gave that kid up and then we also adopted three teenagers.
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Like there's a lot of problems that come with it.
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Like even if you get them young, remember like most kids develop by the age of three.
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So it's, and, and the thing is if you don't, cause the issue with adoption, it's actually
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Like they always talk about these kids in the foster care system.
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The issue is the mother's weight or the mothers are on drugs or something.
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So they take the kids away later and the kids are too messed up.
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So, and like, who wants like a four year old that's been with a crackhead for four years?
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When you chase things back, that's how I always go through life.
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What would be the natural way to go around this?
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And then if you kind of stick to that kind of line, you don't go too far along.
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Cause like, again, this unprecedented like level, this unprecedented number of people
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that want children that will not have them is happening because women are in control of
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I didn't know about the age, um, like when you're 30, you got eggs.
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And I actually wanted to wait until I was 30 to have kids.
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But now that I know this, like you're saying people can't have kids because they find out
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I literally wouldn't have known if you didn't tell me.
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And the, and the thing is the, um, the women that do IVF, like it mostly fails.
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The good thing is when now you're thinking about this, you have to tell your partner,
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Including, cause again, this is where a lot of the, it goes wrong because women are in
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Now you think, oh, well, I want to have a baby.
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And this is where a lot of mixups happen in relationships.
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He's got no choice in saying whether he, even if, again, it goes both ways.
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He can't, there's nothing he can do, basically.
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And let's just say he does want the child and the woman doesn't want the child.
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So this is where communication is going to play a really big part.
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So that's why you have to be in control of your emotions.
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Because if a woman now has a baby and it's life not fair, you said, now what you're going
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And control your emotions and do what the right thing's going to be.