JustPearlyThings - December 09, 2023


She Got IGNORED By Men And BROKE DOWN In Her Car


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16 minutes

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Word count

3,099

Sentence count

298

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Misogyny

23

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Hate speech

16

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When it comes to dating, who has it harder, guys or girls? Dating or alone time? Today I'm talking about how women jump from man to man and over and over again and how it can make a man feel bad about himself.

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00:00:00.400 No, no, no, no. As soon as someone drops the virtue signaling, I'm done. I'm done. It's over.
00:00:05.360 It was a fun day. You're cool. I mean, what you did was weird. I forgive you. It's fine.
00:00:10.000 Hold on, what's virtue signaling? Gross.
00:00:11.880 What are you talking about virtue signaling?
00:00:13.560 Thank you. That was the only one. I was like, everyone's acting chill. What is this?
00:00:16.700 What is this virtue signaling you're talking about? Have you heard of that before?
00:00:19.520 This is cancel culture 101. It's about power. It's about control. Everything's a trigger. Everything's a response.
00:00:28.580 Has anyone got this guy's number? There's a lot of women that would want to go out with him. 1.00
00:00:33.680 What up, guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to my reaction series.
00:00:38.900 Before I start, don't forget to like the video on your way in and subscribe to the channel. Let's get started.
00:00:45.160 Guys, being single and overlaying. The sun is in my face. Being single and overlaying.
00:00:53.700 Those words are not supposed to even go side by side.
00:00:56.860 My womb would be screaming, baby, baby, baby, baby. I need somebody to tear me apart. 0.56
00:01:04.120 We're suffering. And you know when you're like, you're not the type that like to hop from a man to a man.
00:01:08.480 You want like a meaningful connection. We're suffering. We are suffering. Check on us.
00:01:13.960 Your single friend with an active womb. We're suffering. Check on us. Check on us. We're suffering. 0.99
00:01:21.980 You know, it's interesting. What I noticed is how she's talking about herself. And typically when women have a more self-centered mindset, that's when, you know, they end up single and alone. 0.80
00:01:33.620 Because she's saying, check on me. Check on me. Check on me. Check on us. Not what can I do for them?
00:01:38.560 And it's the same thing with like an employee relationship. Like if they're focused on what they can get from the job rather than what they can give.
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00:02:54.980 Women are so dramatic, man. 1.00
00:02:56.920 There was a dude in the comments that took the words right out of my mouth.
00:03:00.360 They said, now imagine going through this every day, every second of the day.
00:03:05.820 And that's all facts.
00:03:07.340 And unfortunately for modern women, they're going to have to start doing this, 1.00
00:03:11.880 jumping from man to man or continue with alone time.
00:03:16.000 Because as beautiful as they can get, their attitude can get much worse.
00:03:20.220 So it's going to be hard for a man to make a connection with you and take care of your needs.
00:03:24.780 Because most of these men out here now, the good ones anyways, understand that modern women aren't self-aware enough to even think about theirs. 0.95
00:03:34.540 I wish you luck.
00:03:35.380 When it comes to dating, who has it harder, guys or girls?
00:03:39.200 I would honestly say guys, not to be up and pick me.
00:03:43.560 But guys, they usually don't get as many, like, as many, you know, potential candidates than girls.
00:03:53.200 But girls, like, we, I don't know. 0.81
00:03:56.180 Okay, wait.
00:03:57.020 The more I'm thinking about it, the more it's like, okay, girls, we, like, have it really bad out there.
00:04:02.180 But when it comes to guys, like, they don't have as many candidates.
00:04:06.540 Yeah, because women at least have the choice between a good guy and a bad guy. 1.00
00:04:10.520 We just tend to choose the bad guys, you know, hence all the serial killers that literally have female fan clubs where men typically just don't have a lot of choice in general. 1.00
00:04:21.560 Okay, I'm switching my answer.
00:04:22.600 It's going to be girls. 0.99
00:04:23.980 Dang it, she was so close.
00:04:26.380 So close.
00:04:27.640 We literally get attacked, so.
00:04:30.960 I think.
00:04:31.440 What do you mean?
00:04:32.540 Does this chick look like she's ever been attacked in her life?
00:04:35.580 Really?
00:04:36.540 Really?
00:04:37.320 Or at least it's perceived that way.
00:04:39.980 They can protect themselves or fend off any potential danger.
00:04:44.620 Then the danger that happens becomes a non-issue because there's no report or anything that needs to be made about it because the threat has been neutralized.
00:04:54.700 So unfortunately, men are getting attacked out here.
00:04:57.320 Even if you wanted to say it was by a slight margin because I think males were somewhere around 75, 76% in terms of being victims of simple assault, non-fatal assault, while women were somewhere around 70%.
00:05:12.420 Now, it was the case that women were victims of robbery more and also more likely to be a victim of a partner or a spouse.
00:05:23.640 But on the other hand, you had men that were more likely to be attacked by a stranger and also more likely to be jumped.
00:05:31.640 So as far as using the excuse that women have it harder because they get attacked.
00:05:36.660 And I think men, if you included all the like older women that prey on young men, I would argue that even the grape stats would be closer. 0.99
00:05:46.140 I just think men don't really say anything.
00:05:47.860 They're more embarrassed about it or they just don't view it like that.
00:05:51.060 Statistically speaking, and maybe you have another argument for that, but statistically, that's just not true.
00:05:56.480 What about something we can do called a second date update?
00:05:58.760 Do you remember Amber?
00:06:00.140 Yeah, yeah, I remember.
00:06:01.860 Great.
00:06:02.300 Well, she gave us a call and told us that y'all had a great date, but she hasn't heard from you since and she asked us to call you for her.
00:06:09.620 Okay.
00:06:10.360 Did the date not go well?
00:06:11.740 No, no.
00:06:12.260 I mean, the date was going good.
00:06:14.540 And, you know, as far as the date went, I was totally into her and the date.
00:06:19.040 And then, you know, it was weird.
00:06:20.060 Like, randomly, her friend just showed up on a date.
00:06:22.800 Oh, okay.
00:06:24.040 And then, well, this is weird.
00:06:27.840 So the friend shows up and then Amber dips off to the bathroom. 1.00
00:06:31.240 Her friend pulls out a folded piece of paper with her phone number and name on it and goes, if this doesn't work out, give me a call.
00:06:37.660 What?
00:06:38.460 Yeah, exactly.
00:06:39.340 And then she has, and even if it does work out, give me a call anyways.
00:06:43.340 Whoa.
00:06:45.660 What's up with that?
00:06:46.640 Like, she's just like.
00:06:47.240 Oh, wow.
00:06:51.560 Sensational.
00:06:53.060 Scamming on you?
00:06:54.140 It was, it was like, I don't know, some kind of test.
00:06:56.140 It was just so contrived.
00:06:57.420 It was just like, and on the first date, it was like a total setup.
00:07:00.720 Are you, hold on, are you sure this was a setup and maybe her friend wasn't just, like, coming on to you and maybe going rogue a little bit?
00:07:07.560 No, this, the way they had this orchestrated was like they had practiced it and they had practiced it poorly.
00:07:15.100 Women are so stupid. 1.00
00:07:16.500 Straight out of a middle school place.
00:07:17.940 Oh, my God.
00:07:18.860 Oh, wow.
00:07:19.640 I mean, there's plenty of other ways they could have gone.
00:07:21.460 That's so obvious, because also, like, why would the friend show up, you know, and then Amber's like, oh, can I go to the bathroom right now?
00:07:26.780 Yeah, and why would, uh, why would you invite a friend on a date?
00:07:29.860 Okay, so here's the deal.
00:07:31.380 When Amber called, she didn't mention any of this to us.
00:07:34.920 Can we bring her in on this conversation and see what she has to say and see what really happened between her and this friend and you and make it make sense?
00:07:43.000 Of course.
00:07:43.620 Yeah.
00:07:44.740 Amber, are you there?
00:07:45.720 Yeah.
00:07:46.220 Okay, so did you hear what Zach said?
00:07:48.240 Yeah.
00:07:49.020 So, okay, it was a test, but you passed.
00:07:52.120 Oh, my gosh, on a first date?
00:07:54.720 That is insane.
00:07:55.840 Ladies, ladies, we got to stop being so crazy. 0.99
00:07:58.480 That is insane.
00:07:59.820 Wait, wait, wait.
00:08:00.980 Hold on.
00:08:02.300 You're saying this really happened?
00:08:04.980 You were testing him to see what he would want, like, come on to your friend or go on a date with your friend?
00:08:09.060 Look, we already talked about this, you know, I mean, I mentioned that, you know, I have a baby, I'm on my own.
00:08:14.240 I can't introduce him to my daughter until, you know, I know he's, like, worthy, so I figured I need to be able to trust you.
00:08:22.160 Oh, my gosh, a single, this is, you know, single mothers, so many men are willing to put up with another man's kid, which is ridiculous. 0.87
00:08:30.160 Like, so many men will do it anyway. 0.95
00:08:32.060 I'm not even going to, like, tell you that they won't because there's always a man that will.
00:08:35.700 But then you pull this crazy shit.
00:08:38.180 It's like, you guys try so hard to sell me that not all the single mothers are bad, but then I just keep seeing evidence, to the contrary, that you're all batshit crazy. 1.00
00:08:48.000 Sorry.
00:08:48.620 Like, just for us to be together, and then, like, probably around my kid.
00:08:54.060 It's, you know, it's better to separate the weed from the chaffer, whatever. 1.00
00:08:57.680 All right.
00:08:58.040 I mean, if you felt comfortable doing that, then that's okay.
00:09:03.480 I mean, I respect that.
00:09:05.060 That's your decision to do that.
00:09:07.380 For me, I was raised differently from a friend.
00:09:10.520 He respectfully is saying, you're crazy, bitch. 1.00
00:09:16.320 Acquaintances, relationships, family.
00:09:18.140 Trust is earned.
00:09:19.040 It's not a gimmick.
00:09:19.860 It's not a test.
00:09:20.560 It's not a game.
00:09:21.520 You know?
00:09:21.760 And think about this.
00:09:23.600 I mean, this has helped a whole lot of creativity to figure out where this is going to be down the line.
00:09:28.060 How much more crazier are these tests going to get?
00:09:30.120 The deeper we go, the weirder it's going to be.
00:09:32.040 Am I wrong?
00:09:32.780 Well, if you've been burned as much as I have, you would no doubt do something similar.
00:09:38.340 No doubt.
00:09:38.660 No, I never would.
00:09:39.780 I never would.
00:09:40.400 In a million years, I would never do that.
00:09:42.240 Because if two people have something, like, if it's pure chemistry, if it's actually an organic, you know, coming together of two people, that's one thing.
00:09:49.880 And maybe, look, three years later, down the line, if things get weird, maybe you do a test then to figure out if something's off.
00:09:56.100 Yeah, it's kind of like he's not the one that burns you, so why should he have to put up with it?
00:10:00.140 Exactly.
00:10:01.180 Kevin Samuels would talk about this, making the men of the future pay for the mistakes of your past.
00:10:06.480 I'm a lost cause.
00:10:07.460 Go on without me.
00:10:08.400 Save yourself.
00:10:09.620 So many women, it's like we make that mistake where we make the next guy pay for something he didn't even do. 1.00
00:10:15.660 Ridiculous antics.
00:10:16.620 You know, that just sounds, you're talking very, like, virtue signaling right now, and you sound really hot.
00:10:23.240 Or maybe he's just, like, better character than, you know.
00:10:27.020 Heidi.
00:10:27.680 Gross.
00:10:28.260 Just don't ghost me.
00:10:29.900 Don't ghost me.
00:10:30.540 That's the thing.
00:10:31.300 And don't put on his show.
00:10:32.860 You know what?
00:10:33.420 What are you, bitch? 1.00
00:10:34.240 Like, you've never ghosted somebody.
00:10:35.920 Can we get, can we stop virtue signaling?
00:10:38.800 That's actually what I would like to say.
00:10:40.320 Let's stop virtue signaling, ladies, and pretend. 1.00
00:10:42.900 Really, Chica, you've never ghosted anybody?
00:10:47.300 Really?
00:10:47.940 Nah, I didn't do it.
00:10:49.540 Or did I?
00:10:51.420 Nah, I didn't.
00:10:53.100 Or maybe I did not do it.
00:10:56.800 Did you?
00:10:57.360 I didn't do it or I did.
00:10:59.300 Who knows?
00:11:00.640 I don't.
00:11:01.840 No, no, no, no.
00:11:02.920 As soon as someone drops the virtue signaling, I'm done.
00:11:05.640 I'm done.
00:11:06.160 It's over.
00:11:06.820 All right?
00:11:07.020 It was a fun day.
00:11:07.840 You're cool.
00:11:08.600 I mean, what you did was weird.
00:11:09.980 I forgive you.
00:11:10.600 It's fine.
00:11:11.480 Hold on, what's that?
00:11:11.920 Virtue signaling?
00:11:12.880 Gross.
00:11:13.380 What are you talking about?
00:11:14.200 Virtue signaling?
00:11:15.080 Thank you.
00:11:15.480 That was the only one.
00:11:16.420 I was like, everyone's acting chill.
00:11:17.540 What is this?
00:11:18.180 What is this?
00:11:18.800 What is this virtue signaling you're talking about?
00:11:20.280 Have you heard of that before?
00:11:21.020 This is, this is cancel culture 101.
00:11:24.980 It's about power.
00:11:26.200 It's about control.
00:11:27.680 Everything's a trigger.
00:11:29.100 Everything's a response.
00:11:30.240 Has anyone got this guy's number?
00:11:31.900 Of course we'll help you out.
00:11:33.320 There's a lot of women that would want to go out with him. 1.00
00:11:37.280 Psychological warfare is all the game.
00:11:38.920 Oh, gross.
00:11:39.380 No, honey, you're just trying to look high and mighty when you're really a coward.
00:11:44.660 No, no, no.
00:11:45.100 And first of all, when you go and you drop a honey, that's a virtue signaling right there.
00:11:49.860 All right?
00:11:50.240 If you're playing by your own rules and then you drop a coward on top of that, now you sound
00:11:54.100 like an elitist.
00:11:54.820 How do you like that?
00:11:55.500 Dang.
00:11:55.820 You want to play a game?
00:11:56.600 This is how the game goes.
00:11:57.440 He's destroying this bag.
00:11:59.100 So we're going to jump in here because if you hadn't wanted to go on a second date, now it
00:12:06.260 doesn't sound like it, right?
00:12:08.600 No, ever.
00:12:09.580 No.
00:12:10.520 All right.
00:12:11.220 Well, Zach, thank you so much for coming on the air with us.
00:12:13.300 We appreciate your time.
00:12:14.540 Yeah.
00:12:14.800 I'm sorry about all that, but this is gross.
00:12:16.500 There you go.
00:12:17.000 Amber, obviously this did not work out how you wanted it to, but probably sounds like
00:12:21.180 it's better this way.
00:12:22.100 It's good.
00:12:23.040 It's good.
00:12:23.480 I would not want to be with someone like that anyways.
00:12:26.040 Yeah.
00:12:26.440 They'll reject him even though, I mean, she called a whole radio show trying to figure
00:12:30.700 out why she didn't get a call back.
00:12:32.560 I learned so much.
00:12:33.420 Well, you know, fellas, they keep on telling me that what women do when they get rejected 0.95
00:12:38.580 is they put it internally.
00:12:40.720 Well, what do I have to do to be accepted?
00:12:43.700 What did I do wrong?
00:12:44.980 What is it about me?
00:12:46.240 But here you have once again, another prime example of a woman, a modern woman, might I 0.98
00:12:51.460 add, putting it on the man.
00:12:53.360 You're a coward.
00:12:54.480 Now you're trying to act like you're high and mighty.
00:12:57.080 Oh, don't go there, honey.
00:12:59.120 But literally, when a man does the same thing, oh, I'm not your baby.
00:13:03.300 Don't call me dear.
00:13:04.660 Don't call me sweetie.
00:13:06.380 The man was nice.
00:13:07.540 He did something weird and he was like, no.
00:13:11.080 Now, if I want to be fair and objective, I would say, listen, I really enjoyed our date,
00:13:16.900 but that whole thing that you did with your friend coming in and coming on to me, that
00:13:21.080 was a little bit over the top.
00:13:22.400 And for that reason, I don't think that we're compatible.
00:13:25.820 But this is what I keep on saying.
00:13:27.600 Modern women get comfortable out here dealing with bums. 1.00
00:13:31.320 And then they think when they meet a guy that's actually stable, he's going to go for this
00:13:36.420 type of stuff.
00:13:37.000 And I keep telling you, he's not money or no money.
00:13:40.140 It doesn't matter if he has it.
00:13:42.120 If the guy has good, strong character and integrity, he's going to have been around the block a few
00:13:47.780 times and he's going to see women have taken advantage of me in these ways.
00:13:53.040 I've sat in the dark analyzing these things in my mind before I go to sleep when I wake up after
00:13:59.780 every single date.
00:14:01.140 And now I understand how these women are moving, what they're doing. 1.00
00:14:05.280 Is it frustrating?
00:14:06.760 You bet.
00:14:07.560 But now I know to look for these signs and you got caught with your hand in the cookie
00:14:13.160 jar.
00:14:13.880 You could have just said, I want to be in front with you.
00:14:16.580 I'm really enjoying this date, but I've been burned so many times by what I thought was
00:14:21.540 good guys.
00:14:22.420 So do you mind if we take it slow?
00:14:24.300 I've got a kid at the house and I want to make sure that I'm doing everything right.
00:14:29.900 I think our generation just doesn't know how to communicate.
00:14:33.400 I think I'm at the end of millennials and I just think millennials ruined it for everything. 1.00
00:14:38.380 We got so, well, yeah, this is some guys, men are done with this stuff.
00:14:43.140 They're not putting up with it anymore.
00:14:44.380 This is why men are walking away from marriage and relationships because, I mean, this is
00:14:48.580 pretty crazy for a first date, you imagine.
00:14:50.980 If you don't want to do that, like they said, why don't you just go on more dates and ask
00:14:55.680 more questions to get to know that person and you really use some critical thought to
00:15:00.800 think about where that person is or what that person might be like.
00:15:04.580 If you have a question, figure out, because you're a woman, figure out how to use your language 1.00
00:15:09.480 to ask it and get an answer.
00:15:11.680 But of course, this is modern women at their height, at their peak, being modern women.
00:15:17.520 What else would you expect?
00:15:18.820 And that's just my opinion.
00:15:20.100 Into the next video.
00:15:21.120 I'm out.
00:15:21.480 Wow, that was so funny.
00:15:23.300 That was so funny.
00:15:24.200 Literally, this woman, not only did she invite her friend on the date, she also had the date
00:15:32.260 interrupt and hit on the guy.
00:15:35.660 Wow, that's a lot of drama for a girl you just met.
00:15:38.740 But yeah, guys, you should not put up with stuff like that.
00:15:42.320 This is craziness.
00:15:43.600 And the way he's thinking is correct.
00:15:45.540 If she's coming with these problems now, 10 years down the road, it's going to be even
00:15:49.340 more crazy.
00:15:50.320 But let me know what you guys think in the comments.
00:15:51.960 Make sure you like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel.
00:15:54.800 I'll talk to you next time.
00:15:56.360 Bye.
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