JustPearlyThings - She Got Kicked Out of the SHOW

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00:00:30.000 What's the definition of prejudice?

00:00:33.000 What's the definition of prejudice?

00:00:35.000 Oh, wow.

00:00:37.000 The baby mother, divorcee, is lecturing me about marriage.

00:00:42.000 What's the definition?

00:00:43.000 If you're going to do it to me, I'll do that.

00:00:45.000 She's overweight.

00:00:46.000 It's like, the fat baby mom is going to talk to me about being married.

00:00:50.000 Get out of here.

00:00:51.000 Get out of here.

00:00:52.000 You started.

00:00:53.000 Ma'am.

00:00:54.000 You started, ma'am.

00:00:55.000 Yup. Yup.

00:00:56.000 Goodbye.

00:00:57.000 I'll see ya.

00:00:58.000 Do you know what I hate?

00:00:59.000 I hate this to my core.

00:01:00.000 Women that think they're better than men because they make more money.

00:01:03.000 Because, just because it's like, I make a lot for a girl, right?

00:01:07.000 But, well, I mean, I do well and I make more than a lot of men,

00:01:10.000 but I'm not better than the guy that built the building.

00:01:12.000 Because I wouldn't be able to do any of this without men.

00:01:16.000 But it's like, we have made women's lives so comfortable that we don't realize we need men.

00:01:21.000 I need a man to protect me if anyone breaks in.

00:01:24.000 I need a man to build the building.

00:01:26.000 I need a man to do the plumbing.

00:01:27.000 I need a man to do the electricity.

00:01:28.000 I need a man to invent stuff.

00:01:30.000 It's like, successful women cannot do what they do without men.

00:01:35.000 And so, it irritates me to my core when we get to a certain point and then shit on them

00:01:40.000 as a thank you because we couldn't get there in the first place.

00:01:43.000 One example I see of this is like Chelsea Handler.

00:01:46.000 You know, she's turned into like a man hater when she couldn't even do comedy without the microphone.

00:01:51.000 She couldn't do comedy without the building.

00:01:53.000 She couldn't do comedy without Ticketmaster, which was invented by a man.

00:01:57.000 Well, not anymore at one point.

00:01:59.000 I have another interesting question.

00:02:01.000 What's the meaning of prejudice?

00:02:03.000 Ask yourself that.

00:02:04.000 No, because...

00:02:05.000 No, don't come here because that's very condescending.

00:02:07.000 No, it's not condescending.

00:02:08.000 That's extremely condescending.

00:02:09.000 It is.

00:02:10.000 It's actually not.

00:02:11.000 It is.

00:02:12.000 It is.

00:02:13.000 You know what?

00:02:14.000 Come on.

00:02:15.000 Come on.

00:02:16.000 You're being very condescending.

00:02:17.000 I'm actually not being condescending.

00:02:18.000 I'm trying to be very polite.

00:02:19.000 No, you aren't.

00:02:20.000 No, you aren't.

00:02:21.000 Everything you've defined has nothing to do with this.

00:02:22.000 How do you?

00:02:23.000 How do you?

00:02:24.000 How do you?

00:02:25.000 How do you?

00:02:26.000 And I told you, I gave you examples.

00:02:27.000 You haven't given us the right definition every single time.

00:02:29.000 I told you.

00:02:30.000 Wait, I don't have so many different examples of definition.

00:02:32.000 You couldn't Google.

00:02:33.000 It is literally prejudice against women.

00:02:35.000 You couldn't.

00:02:36.000 You could have Googled in the bathroom.

00:02:37.000 You had so much confidence.

00:02:38.000 I literally told...

00:02:39.000 It doesn't matter, Pearl.

00:02:40.000 At least I'm saying with people, when it's all about peace, you don't try.

00:02:43.000 I feel like you guys don't try and have a conversation.

00:02:46.000 You guys try to draw out people.

00:02:48.000 Well, you do realize that.

00:02:49.000 You draw out people.

00:02:50.000 And that's the reason why people get involved.

00:02:51.000 Okay, all right, all right.

00:02:52.000 So, so, so, so.

00:02:53.000 So, so, so.

00:02:54.000 Do you know what's interesting?

00:02:55.000 You're yelling at you.

00:02:56.000 What's interesting?

00:02:57.000 You don't let me say anything.

00:02:58.000 You can't.

00:02:59.000 I think you're being public.

00:03:00.000 I know exactly what you're doing.

00:03:01.000 She yells over everybody.

00:03:02.000 You can manipulate someone else.

00:03:03.000 Okay, okay, okay.

00:03:04.000 She yells over everybody and cries about disrep...

00:03:07.000 Okay, that is...

00:03:08.000 Go, go.

00:03:09.000 You're back.

00:03:10.000 No, no.

00:03:11.000 We're back.

00:03:12.000 Go, go, go.

00:03:13.000 You're back.

00:03:14.000 Go, go, go, go.

00:03:15.000 Jesus Christ.

00:03:16.000 You asked me to come to the show of this.

00:03:17.000 You asked me to come to the show of this.

00:03:18.000 You asked me to come to the show of this.

00:03:19.000 I, I, I didn't.

00:03:20.000 I actually, I'm going to be honest.

00:03:22.000 I don't invite anybody.

00:03:23.000 My recruiters.

00:03:24.000 What's the definition of prejudice?

00:03:26.000 What's the definition of prejudice?

00:03:28.000 You get married first.

00:03:30.000 Oh, wow.

00:03:31.000 The baby, the baby mother divorcee is lecturing me about marriage.

00:03:35.000 What's the definition of prejudice?

00:03:36.000 If you're going to do it to me, I'll do bad.

00:03:38.000 She's overweight.

00:03:39.000 It's like, the fat baby mom is going to talk to me about being married.

00:03:43.000 Get out of here.

00:03:44.000 Get out of here.

00:03:45.000 You started.

00:03:46.000 Ma'am.

00:03:47.000 You started, ma'am.

00:03:48.000 Yup.

00:03:49.000 Yup.

00:03:50.000 Goodbye.

00:03:51.000 I'll see ya.

00:03:52.000 Okay, then please leave.

00:03:53.000 What up?

00:03:54.000 Wow.

00:03:55.000 Wow.

00:03:56.000 Wow.

00:03:57.000 Wow.

00:03:58.000 Yeah.

00:03:59.000 Yeah.

00:04:00.000 Yeah.

00:04:01.000 Yeah.

00:04:02.000 I'm very, I'm very unhappy.

00:04:05.000 Wow.

00:04:06.000 Wow.

00:04:07.000 This is so funny.

00:04:10.000 Ma'am, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am, please.

00:04:13.000 Can I say something?

00:04:14.000 If you want women to look good, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am.

00:04:17.000 If you want women to look good, please, please just stop talking.

00:04:22.000 Oh, yeah.

00:04:27.000 Yeah.

00:04:28.000 Yeah.

00:04:29.000 The fat, the fat baby mama is coming at me.

00:04:32.000 Okay.

00:04:33.000 Or divorcee.

00:04:34.000 I don't remember.

00:04:35.000 Okay.

00:04:36.000 Oh, you really got it.

00:04:37.000 I don't really, you know, I'm just trying to be, okay.

00:04:41.000 All right.

00:04:42.000 She, she came at me first.

00:04:43.000 Otherwise I wouldn't have said anything.

00:04:45.000 Um, can we get the Nigerian lady to come back?

00:04:49.000 I feel bad.

00:04:50.000 I'm sorry.

00:04:51.000 Come back, please.

00:04:52.000 Come back.

00:04:53.000 Don't be like this.

00:04:54.000 Don't be like this.

00:04:55.000 Come back.

00:04:56.000 This wasn't what I was talking about.

00:04:57.000 No, but don't leave.

00:04:58.000 No, but don't leave.

00:04:59.000 Huh?

00:05:08.000 No, I respect you.

00:05:09.000 Okay.

00:05:10.000 I respect you.

00:05:11.000 Just please come sit down and be polite and have an adult conversation.

00:05:13.000 Yeah.

00:05:14.000 Don't act like a baby.

00:05:15.000 Come sit down.

00:05:16.000 Come sit down right now.

00:05:17.000 Come sit down right here right now when I'm talking to you.

00:05:19.000 I'm talking to you.

00:05:20.000 Come sit down right now.

00:05:22.000 Please.

00:05:23.000 Hey, I'm talking.

00:05:24.000 Hold on.

00:05:25.000 Sit down.

00:05:26.000 I can't, I can't.

00:05:27.000 Sit down.

00:05:30.000 Are we going?

00:05:31.000 I'm going.

00:05:32.000 Unbelievable.

00:05:33.000 The disrespect.

00:05:34.000 The disrespect of how you talk to me now after I tell you to sit down.

00:05:39.000 After I tell you to sit, I said, I'm sorry.

00:05:41.000 Now come sit down.

00:05:42.000 Oh dear.

00:05:43.000 Okay.

00:05:44.000 That was so disrespectful, bro.

00:05:48.000 Yo, honestly, did you guys put up with this shit?

00:05:51.000 This was bad.

00:05:52.000 This is a particularly bad thing.

00:05:54.000 That was, that was highly disrespectful.

00:05:56.000 And honestly, it was just immature, Pearl.

00:05:58.000 Yeah.

00:05:59.000 I mean, it's so funny.

00:06:00.000 She's like screaming.

00:06:01.000 Are we still even filming?

00:06:02.000 Yeah.

00:06:03.000 It's live.

00:06:04.000 It's live.

00:06:05.000 It's live.

00:06:06.000 What the fuck was that shit?

00:06:07.000 I don't know.

00:06:08.000 You can come to the front if you want.

00:06:09.000 She talked to me like that?

00:06:10.000 She ever talked to me like that?

00:06:11.000 Yeah, you can.

00:06:12.000 What did you say?

00:06:13.000 No, no.

00:06:14.000 I was, oh, I was talking to her, but I mean, you can, if you want to.

00:06:16.000 It will all be on one screen.

00:06:17.000 Yeah.

00:06:18.000 No, I was just like, we can come forward.

00:06:19.000 Yeah.

00:06:20.000 I have a feeling the last woman will be standing today.

00:06:23.000 Three of us left.

00:06:25.000 But exactly.

00:06:26.000 After, you know.

00:06:27.000 I was like, I knew.

00:06:28.000 I was like, she's basic.

00:06:29.000 She's Russian.

00:06:30.000 Go ahead.

00:06:31.000 Sit down.

00:06:32.000 Sit down.

00:06:33.000 Sit down.

00:06:34.000 You know, after say that the men wear violence, when women start to scream.

00:06:36.000 Wait.

00:06:37.000 For again, about physiology.

00:06:40.000 When women scream.

00:06:41.000 You can sit down if you want.

00:06:43.000 Men cannot listen.

00:06:44.000 Yeah.

00:06:45.000 Oh, okay.

00:06:46.000 I was just saying, if you want to sit in any of the front.

00:06:48.000 It's okay.

00:06:49.000 Yeah.

00:06:50.000 Okay.

00:06:51.000 I feel safer at the back.

00:06:52.000 Oh, okay.

00:06:53.000 I'm pretty.

00:06:54.000 Okay.

00:06:55.000 Sorry.

00:06:56.000 Go ahead.

00:06:57.000 Sorry.

00:06:58.000 I'm sorry.

00:06:59.000 So when women scream, men, he feel very bad because his ears, he cannot listen very high

00:07:03.000 voice.

00:07:04.000 He wants immediately to stop it, to shut up it.

00:07:07.000 It's very irritating him.

00:07:09.000 If women want men to listen to her, you need to speak very calm and slowly.

00:07:14.000 And then you have biggest chance to be hurt.

00:07:17.000 I'm going to go home and speak to my man really calm and gentle.

00:07:22.000 It's not okay.

00:07:23.000 I'm going to make him carry all the bags.

00:07:24.000 I'm learning so much before I get divorced for the fourth time.

00:07:28.000 Four times?

00:07:29.000 You've been divorced four times?

00:07:31.000 Pretty much.

00:07:32.000 Girl, how?

00:07:33.000 Can I ask you about it?

00:07:36.000 I'm not trying to come at you.

00:07:37.000 I'm just curious.

00:07:38.000 No, no.

00:07:39.000 Sure.

00:07:40.000 So the first time, I always exaggerate my numbers, but the first time it was an arranged

00:07:44.000 marriage in my home country.

00:07:47.000 Okay.

00:07:48.000 There was no marriage.

00:07:49.000 It was just like my mom said, get married.

00:07:51.000 We did the Islamic marriage.

00:07:54.000 Okay.

00:07:55.000 We never spoke.

00:07:56.000 He went home after the function.

00:07:58.000 I stayed in my home and literally 24 hours.

00:08:01.000 I was like, mom, I can't believe you did this.

00:08:03.000 Not going to do it.

00:08:05.000 So it ended up in a divorce, but it was a marriage.

00:08:08.000 Okay.

00:08:09.000 The second one was my husband of nearly 20 years.

00:08:13.000 I've got two children.

00:08:15.000 I got married at 19.

00:08:17.000 Had my first son.

00:08:18.000 Wow.

00:08:19.000 You look young.

00:08:20.000 I wasn't expecting you.

00:08:21.000 20 years.

00:08:22.000 Wow.

00:08:23.000 Okay.

00:08:24.000 So yeah, my son is 18.

00:08:25.000 Okay.

00:08:26.000 My eldest is 18 and that lasted about 20 years and that just recently ended in divorce.

00:08:33.000 Okay.

00:08:34.000 And now I'm on number three.

00:08:35.000 Oh, you're married again.

00:08:36.000 I've trapped someone else now.

00:08:38.000 Okay.

00:08:39.000 Why?

00:08:40.000 I'm just curious.

00:08:41.000 Why did the 20 year one end?

00:08:42.000 Um, I think we took each other for granted.

00:08:45.000 Okay.

00:08:46.000 Yeah.

00:08:47.000 We, I have to take responsibility.

00:08:48.000 It wasn't just him.

00:08:49.000 We took each other for granted.

00:08:51.000 Okay.

00:08:52.000 He was always working.

00:08:53.000 He was the breadwinner.

00:08:55.000 Um, he was running the home and I was, I was, we took each other for granted.

00:09:04.000 Okay.

00:09:05.000 So what is it?

00:09:06.000 I hear this sometimes.

00:09:07.000 I just don't really understand what it means.

00:09:09.000 It's a, like, were you nagging on him?

00:09:11.000 Didn't appreciate that?

00:09:12.000 What you mean on your side?

00:09:13.000 That's the problem.

00:09:14.000 I never nagged.

00:09:15.000 Um, I mean, I felt like there were three of us.

00:09:18.000 It's like princess Diana.

00:09:19.000 There were three of us in this marriage.

00:09:21.000 Me, him and his iPhone.

00:09:24.000 And when I had the kids, I put on a lot of weight.

00:09:27.000 Uh, I mean, double of what I am now, but I put on a lot of weight.

00:09:31.000 I became a new, I was a full-time mom.

00:09:33.000 Um, I let myself go, but he was a gentleman and you know, all he did was work, pay the

00:09:40.000 bills, function the home.

00:09:43.000 I bought up the kids and, uh, one day I just got really insecure because he was speaking

00:09:50.000 to somebody and she said, she's going to get liposuction in Turkey.

00:09:54.000 And I think he was speaking with this woman too frequently.

00:09:58.000 I didn't like it, but I was a fat mom at home.

00:10:01.000 And I thought, Oh my goodness, I need to start losing some weight.

00:10:04.000 I lost weight.

00:10:05.000 I lost too much weight.

00:10:07.000 So I attracted too much attention from outside and sorry, excuse me.

00:10:14.000 Sadly, I think, um, our marriage deteriorated because of the weight loss issue.

00:10:22.000 I don't understand.

00:10:23.000 So you got too much attention from other men.

00:10:25.000 And so then you divorced him.

00:10:27.000 It wasn't that.

00:10:28.000 I think it would, I let other people into my home, into my life.

00:10:32.000 And I, that respect wasn't there in a way.

00:10:35.000 So you didn't respect him anymore.

00:10:37.000 I, I didn't because I was speaking with other people when I know I shouldn't have been.

00:10:43.000 And I mean, it's, I actually appreciate you being honest about it.

00:10:46.000 Yeah.

00:10:47.000 So, so, so you were speaking to other people and that kind of deteriorated the marriage.

00:10:51.000 It did.

00:10:52.000 Yeah.

00:10:53.000 I did.

00:10:54.000 I think it did.

00:10:55.000 Yes.

00:10:56.000 Yeah.

00:10:57.000 Well, I mean, now you're married again.

00:11:00.000 Yeah.

00:11:01.000 Only Islamically.

00:11:02.000 Okay.

00:11:03.000 Yeah.

00:11:04.000 No, not civil.

00:11:05.000 I would never go down the civil route again.

00:11:06.000 I just think it's a manmade world out there.

00:11:08.000 They want to suck your money out when they, when you do the civil ceremony, you pay for it.

00:11:13.000 When you get divorced, you pay for it.

00:11:14.000 When you have a function, you pay for it.

00:11:16.000 It's just, um, for me, it's a money making thing.

00:11:19.000 I've seen it all.

00:11:20.000 And do you, do you, in hindsight, when men, men, a lot of times will say, if your girl starts losing weight, you should be worried.

00:11:25.000 Do you think that's true?

00:11:26.000 A hundred percent.

00:11:27.000 I think you should lose weight together.

00:11:29.000 Yeah.

00:11:30.000 And, uh, just never forget, don't disrespect each other.

00:11:33.000 Who are you doing this for?

00:11:34.000 You're doing it for yourself.

00:11:35.000 You're doing it for each other.

00:11:36.000 You, I mean, I did it to, to try and keep my husband, to keep him entertained with me.

00:11:42.000 So he wouldn't go anywhere else.

00:11:44.000 But, um, we should have done it together.

00:11:47.000 If I could go back another 10 years, we should have done it together.

00:11:50.000 It should have been something we did for ourselves.

00:11:54.000 It's so interesting to me.

00:11:55.000 It just seems like when I hear the story and I've just done so many of these, it's like, I hear the stories of divorce.

00:12:00.000 I never hear like real reasons, you know?

00:12:03.000 And I'm not, I don't mean this to like disrespect you, but I just, it just seems like this stuff can be worked out.

00:12:09.000 It can be.

00:12:10.000 It can be.

00:12:11.000 We lie.

00:12:12.000 You're very honest.

00:12:13.000 Yeah.

00:12:14.000 We lie.

00:12:15.000 We make the other person look bad and we don't take responsibility.

00:12:17.000 So this is why I'm not out there to look, make any man feel or look bad.

00:12:22.000 But women, they do, they hide things.

00:12:25.000 They, they lie.

00:12:26.000 They manipulate.

00:12:27.000 I've seen it.

00:12:28.000 I've, I've, I've seen it all.

00:12:30.000 I've literally seen it all.

00:12:31.000 Yeah.

00:12:32.000 How crazy was that?

00:12:34.000 The screaming?

00:12:35.000 I don't know how you do it, Pearl.

00:12:36.000 Honestly.

00:12:37.000 It's usually, it's usually not this bad.

00:12:38.000 This was a worse show.

00:12:39.000 I was like Jerry Springer.

00:12:40.000 You know what I mean?

00:12:41.000 In London.

00:12:42.000 I know.

00:12:43.000 I know.

00:12:44.000 I was like, Jesus.

00:12:45.000 That was crazy.

00:12:46.000 I know.

00:12:47.000 So she was like screaming at me about how unhappy I was.

00:12:49.000 I'm like, I'm having a good day.

00:12:51.000 Yeah.

00:12:52.000 But Pearl, you called her fat.

00:12:56.000 Yeah.

00:12:57.000 Yeah.

00:12:58.000 After she was, she was insulting me first.

00:12:59.000 Yeah.

00:13:00.000 So almost you lost, you brought emotion into it too.

00:13:02.000 And it's a very feminine thing to do to bring emotion into.

00:13:05.000 Oh yeah.

00:13:06.000 I just think if women, you know, you're, if you want to insult me, I will insult you back.

00:13:10.000 Yes, I will.

00:13:11.000 No, you don't lower yourself.

00:13:12.000 No, no, I will.

00:13:13.000 I will.

00:13:14.000 I'm sorry.

00:13:15.000 Sorry.

00:13:16.000 I will.

00:13:17.000 Yeah.

00:13:18.000 I'm not a perfect person.

00:13:19.000 Technically that's not an insult.

00:13:20.000 That's just a description.

00:13:21.000 Yeah.

00:13:22.000 Is it true?

00:13:25.000 I think it comes with age, it comes with wisdom.

00:13:28.000 And I think when somebody is saying something, you don't lower yourself.

00:13:31.000 You don't behave like them because if you do, you're as bad as them.

00:13:35.000 Yeah.

00:13:36.000 Yeah.

00:13:37.000 But I love you, Paul.

00:13:38.000 I think it's worse.

00:13:39.000 Yeah.

00:13:40.000 Yeah.

00:13:41.000 Technically, technically, I was just describing her as what she is based on her own.

00:13:45.000 That's like saying, if a man punched me in the face, I shouldn't punch him back in the face.

00:13:49.000 No, that's self-defense.

00:13:50.000 That's self-defense.

00:13:51.000 Yeah.

00:13:52.000 This was self-defense as well.

00:13:54.000 You can't, you can't come into someone's home, insult them.

00:13:57.000 And then when they insult you back, you start saying, well, you shouldn't lower yourself to my level.

00:14:00.000 Hmm.

00:14:01.000 Maybe just say leave.

00:14:03.000 Yeah.

00:14:04.000 Which we did.

00:14:05.000 And she didn't leave.

00:14:06.000 No, but it's an insult enough.

00:14:07.000 When you've said leave, get out of my property.

00:14:09.000 That's an insult enough.

00:14:11.000 Yeah.

00:14:12.000 But it's like, she's in my home.

00:14:13.000 Yeah.

00:14:14.000 Yeah.

00:14:15.000 It's like, she's in my home.

00:14:16.000 Yeah.

00:14:17.000 What are we going to talk about?

00:14:20.000 I want to hear more about your experience as a psychologist.

00:14:23.000 So what, what do you, you do psychology?

00:14:25.000 I have two education, clinical medical psychologist, sexologist and family therapist.

00:14:29.000 Okay.

00:14:30.000 And I work, it was very funny when it's become to be stressed up, how immediately he changed

00:14:35.000 topic about sex.

00:14:36.000 It's very normally for men.

00:14:38.000 If women will wake up every morning, your men with blue job goes, I promise you, it's

00:14:44.000 your men, less wars, less problems, less conflict in this world.

00:14:49.000 Very often when you start to fight, just make a sex.

00:14:53.000 And after sex, a lot of conflicts will disappear.

00:14:58.000 What do you, what do you see the difference between Russian women and Western women?

00:15:03.000 Um, I work with a lot of American women.

00:15:05.000 I work with every world and, um, a lot of Europe.

00:15:08.000 I never worked in Russia.

00:15:10.000 Okay.

00:15:11.000 I left when I was a student and, uh, I always work on Europe and America.

00:15:15.000 And, um, I noticed, but from my, for example, my mother lived with my father 45 years.

00:15:21.000 And they are very happy.

00:15:22.000 We are three children.

00:15:23.000 They have, uh, six, uh, grandchildren.

00:15:26.000 And, uh, we continue to be always together and support each other.

00:15:30.000 My, uh, two ex-husbands, they love me a lot.

00:15:33.000 They support me a lot.

00:15:34.000 They are my best friends.

00:15:35.000 We are always common together.

00:15:37.000 My stepmother always crazy about me.

00:15:41.000 You know, divorce, it's not end.

00:15:43.000 You can love so much each other.

00:15:46.000 We go to the holidays.

00:15:47.000 We make today.

00:15:48.000 Oh, the birthday.

00:15:49.000 It's very normal from people who develop and mature.

00:15:52.000 For me, not normal when people divorce and fight.

00:15:55.000 I don't understand it.

00:15:57.000 And in my experience, you, my mother always respect my father, but always you oblige to respect.

00:16:03.000 And always she put my father up than children.

00:16:06.000 She always say your father sleeping.

00:16:08.000 Now it's my time with father.

00:16:10.000 And until today, she's so admire him.

00:16:13.000 Say, see how beautiful your father.

00:16:15.000 He's 75 and he still work.

00:16:17.000 My father until now, take care about my mother, take her on holiday, my gifts, flowers.

00:16:22.000 All my husband always take care about me until today.

00:16:25.000 Make me gifts and take care about me because it's normal.

00:16:28.000 But I really admire and respect all of them.

00:16:32.000 I very respect my father and I will always appreciate him.

00:16:35.000 He's not perfect, but it's my father and I always love him.

00:16:39.000 I always love my ex-husband and father of my child always, forever.

00:16:44.000 And always respect him and always only good words.

00:16:46.000 I very appreciate him.

00:16:47.000 And it's normal behavior when you are like this.

00:16:50.000 In my business, I was in Forbes one of the most successful entrepreneurs in Bulgaria.

00:16:55.000 And men helped me to make business.

00:16:57.000 I very respect men.

00:16:59.000 Yes.

00:17:00.000 Thank you.

00:17:01.000 No, no, no.

00:17:02.000 Thank you.

00:17:03.000 Because most women that are actually successful and not-

00:17:06.000 Men help me.

00:17:07.000 Men help me.

00:17:08.000 I know, but that's, that's, we will always acknowledge.

00:17:10.000 Like I can always tell the like boss, babe, do it on my own.

00:17:14.000 That mentality as a woman will get you nowhere in business.

00:17:18.000 I am where I am at because I've listened to men smarter than me.

00:17:22.000 You know, I, my first, I was many years in, until today in media business.

00:17:28.000 And has the first show about sex in Bulgaria.

00:17:31.000 Okay.

00:17:32.000 And has a man like Larry King here in Bulgaria.

00:17:34.000 He invited me and together with him, we make our TV show.

00:17:37.000 It was a revolution because never people speak about sex so openly.

00:17:41.000 And after him, I has many projects about coaching psychology.

00:17:46.000 But always, I remember that men helps me.

00:17:49.000 You cannot make successful business if not have men on your back.

00:17:52.000 My husband helped me.

00:17:54.000 My friends helped me.

00:17:56.000 Men helped me always.

00:17:57.000 Well, and do you know what I realized too?

00:17:59.000 Do you know what I hate?

00:18:00.000 And I hate this to my core.

00:18:01.000 Women that think they're better than men because they make more money.

00:18:04.000 Because, just because it's like, I make a lot for a girl, right?

00:18:08.000 But, well, I mean, I, I do well and I make more than a lot of men, but I'm not better than the guy that built the building.

00:18:14.000 Because I wouldn't be able to do any of this without men.

00:18:17.000 But it's like, we have made women's lives so comfortable that we don't realize we need men.

00:18:22.000 I need a man when they, to protect me if anyone breaks in.

00:18:26.000 I need a man to build the building.

00:18:27.000 I need a man to do the plumbing.

00:18:28.000 I need a man to do the electricity.

00:18:29.000 I need a man to invent stuff.

00:18:31.000 It's like the re successful women cannot do what they do without men.

00:18:36.000 And so it irritates me to my core when we get to a certain point and then shit on them as a thank you because we couldn't get there in the first place.

00:18:44.000 One example I see of this is like Chelsea Handler.

00:18:47.000 You know, she, she's turned into like a man hater when she couldn't even do comedy without the microphone.

00:18:53.000 She couldn't do comedy without the building.

00:18:55.000 She couldn't do comedy without Ticketmaster, which was invented by a man.

00:18:59.000 No, I totally agree with you.

00:19:07.000 Like we cannot work in isolation and say, is it working?

00:19:12.000 Yeah, it is.

00:19:13.000 Yeah, we can hear you now.

00:19:14.000 Okay.

00:19:15.000 So having six brothers and around men all my life, like, you know, even now when I'm single, I've got so many men friends and there are things in my house.

00:19:26.000 Like if the balcony is changing or that fridge thing has broken.

00:19:31.000 I always say, Oh, I will wish there's a man there or somebody or I call a man to come and do the job.

00:19:37.000 And definitely this world can't, you know, work without them.

00:19:43.000 And equally, like, you know, for us women, definitely there is like an element of they bring protection.

00:19:52.000 They bring security.

00:19:53.000 They are more stronger, which I feel like even in my religion, if you look at Muslim as a religion, we pray behind men.

00:20:02.000 And I love that about it because there is, there is a sense of like security.

00:20:07.000 We are emotional.

00:20:08.000 Yeah.

00:20:09.000 We are emotional.

00:20:10.000 We need to be taken care by men.

00:20:12.000 Like, you know, brought up with six brothers.

00:20:14.000 I, I have that, you know, I have that thing of, it gives you strength, actually.

00:20:21.000 It really does.

00:20:22.000 Like, you know, so there is no going back about a woman can, no, we can't.

00:20:29.000 We literally can't.

00:20:30.000 We literally can't.

00:20:31.000 We just literally can't.

00:20:32.000 And the crazy thing in all of history, we have not needed women in the workforce.

00:20:36.000 Yeah.

00:20:37.000 We have not, I'm not saying there are not exceptions.

00:20:38.000 There are, but as a whole, we have not needed them.

00:20:41.000 So why do we think now is different?

00:20:43.000 Like, why is now special?

00:20:48.000 That's a very good question.

00:20:50.000 I think, obviously, because we, it's, it's just the mindset has changed too.

00:20:57.000 Um, we, we like a lot of people say to me, you're very strong woman and you're very powerful

00:21:04.000 woman.

00:21:05.000 And it just sometimes I was like, no, I'm not.

00:21:08.000 I need, I need this kind of help.

00:21:10.000 But it's just the more people say that to me, you're very strong.

00:21:13.000 The more I get labeled as somebody, oh, a man doesn't need to take care of.

00:21:18.000 In fact, in my last relationship, I felt like that's what happened that he perceived me

00:21:23.000 as so strong that he's just like, you don't need me.

00:21:26.000 And I'm like, I do like, but it's just the way positioning off.

00:21:30.000 Okay.

00:21:31.000 I have to be responsible for my kids.

00:21:33.000 I'm living on my own, you know, that kind of thing.

00:21:36.000 And it's, it's, it's like, it's that perception.

00:21:39.000 How do you, my question is how, as a woman, you balance it all that you can still go out,

00:21:46.000 like being a finance director of a company.

00:21:48.000 I didn't choose that career.

00:21:50.000 I, I fell into from, and then I started loving finance and numbers and I'm passionate about it to make a difference at workplace, etc.

00:21:59.000 Um, but I don't necessarily call myself, uh, I'm, I'm a career woman.

00:22:06.000 Yeah.

00:22:07.000 I would love to be at home and be someone's wise and serve him.

00:22:10.000 That's what I did for 18 years with the men I was with.

00:22:13.000 It's just, there was no communication.

00:22:15.000 There was nothing there in the sense of, I don't, I don't know.

00:22:19.000 I just don't get that.

00:22:20.000 I know.

00:22:21.000 I know.

00:22:22.000 I think what happened, he told culture, isn't it?

00:22:24.000 It's the Pakistani.

00:22:25.000 I think, I think what happened and what he shared,

00:22:28.000 and what he shared with me in the end was, um, why he didn't communicate with me from,

00:22:34.000 from literally the wedding night is he thought he's bringing a girl from,

00:22:38.000 I think he wasn't ready to get married and he was pushed into it because they wanted the younger brother to get married.

00:22:44.000 So he married a girl from Pakistan who, uh, couldn't even wear it because he wanted me to wear heels to fly back here.

00:22:52.000 Like, you know, on my plane journey back and my father-in-law had the keys for the, uh, suitcase and bags.

00:23:00.000 And I did go to my father-in-law and I said, can I have, so I can take the heels out?

00:23:03.000 And he said, no, it's all closed.

00:23:04.000 So this man, he decided not to talk to me on the whole plane journey.

00:23:09.000 And at that time I realized I'm married a complete stranger.

00:23:12.000 He's not even talking to me and I'm going to his country.

00:23:15.000 So like in 18, I just thought you didn't have a conversation in 18 years.

00:23:18.000 Well, yeah.

00:23:19.000 Other than, okay, here's the food.

00:23:22.000 Here is this, nothing, nothing about future, nothing.

00:23:25.000 That's what, what made me like, you know, I got myself busy.

00:23:28.000 Yeah.

00:23:29.000 The only reason is the story doesn't make sense.

00:23:32.000 It doesn't.

00:23:33.000 But what he told me in the end was his words were, um, I married a girl from a village and you don't know how to have a conversation is his sentence.

00:23:43.000 I don't know what he was dealing with.

00:23:45.000 I still think he was, he's a great human being because he didn't do anything wrong in the sense of, he didn't go and cheated on me.

00:23:52.000 He didn't, he wasn't a drinker, nothing like that.

00:23:56.000 But I think, um, there was a communication gap between us and I wasn't like how I'm talking today.

00:24:03.000 You have met me 10 years ago.

00:24:05.000 I was a very quiet, I actually enjoy when he comes home, get the dinner ready.

00:24:11.000 House should be super clean.

00:24:12.000 My kids should be in bed.

00:24:13.000 I love nurturing that motherly instinct.

00:24:16.000 Even like hearing this, I just don't hear a real reason for divorce.

00:24:20.000 Yeah.

00:24:21.000 It was, it was more of a, um, when I married him, uh, he was in financial debt and he keep getting himself into financial debt.

00:24:30.000 Okay.

00:24:31.000 It was more finance.

00:24:32.000 I, it more finance for him.

00:24:33.000 He, he, he, he was really into branded stuff and then he loses contract and I always go and support him.

00:24:39.000 Like I went out, worked, paid his debt off.

00:24:42.000 Okay.

00:24:43.000 So it was, it was keep, I keep building him and it was keep going down and I think it has an impact on me.

00:24:50.000 Like there was no stability with the two kids.

00:24:53.000 Um, and I then made a decision and I said, it's not healthy for him.

00:24:57.000 It's not.

00:24:58.000 Do you know what, do you know what confuses me?

00:24:59.000 Cause like, wouldn't it still be more expensive?

00:25:01.000 Cause then it's two rents instead of one.

00:25:03.000 He went back to his mom's house.

00:25:05.000 Uh, and, uh, he didn't financially.

00:25:08.000 Not, I'm just curious.

00:25:10.000 Cause I just hear this stuff a lot.

00:25:11.000 And like a lot of times it just doesn't make sense to me.

00:25:14.000 It is not like I have tried to like five years.

00:25:17.000 I give it back and forth, back and forth.

00:25:19.000 And I even promised his mother once he's never coming back.

00:25:22.000 I'm taking care of him.

00:25:23.000 Yeah.

00:25:24.000 But I think.

00:25:25.000 Okay.

00:25:26.000 So he was like a son husband.

00:25:27.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:25:28.000 But having two kids and him, three of them with financial pressures.

00:25:31.000 I felt like I broke down at that stage and I said, I can't do this anymore.

00:25:36.000 Can I say something?

00:25:37.000 We're going to react.

00:25:39.000 I'm going to read super chats right now.

00:25:41.000 And then we're going to react to a video, which I wanted to do earlier.

00:25:45.000 But you know, this is conversation got a little derailed.

00:25:49.000 I will say that is my weakness as a host.

00:25:51.000 Sometimes it's controlling the craziest.

00:25:54.000 Myron does a really great job.

00:25:56.000 It's harder than you think.

00:25:57.000 I used to think Myron was really harsh on the women.

00:26:01.000 I really did.

00:26:02.000 But he does such a great job of like keeping everyone in line.

00:26:05.000 Much better than me.

00:26:06.000 Let me tell you.

00:26:07.000 Go ahead.

00:26:08.000 I mean, I would say my experience on fresh and fit.

00:26:11.000 And then my experience here with you, you and Myron have a lot in common.

00:26:15.000 I think.

00:26:16.000 I think you guys, the way you are, you both, you know, run a really clean operation.

00:26:21.000 Yeah.

00:26:22.000 He does such a good job of like, like, he does such a good job of not letting people like over

00:26:26.000 to talk each other.

00:26:27.000 Yeah.

00:26:28.000 Like, that whole thing would not have gone on like half as long if he was, you know what

00:26:31.000 I'm saying?

00:26:32.000 No.

00:26:33.000 But you go hard though too.

00:26:34.000 Both of you go hard.

00:26:35.000 Both of you are welcoming too.

00:26:36.000 Can we do the second video I sent you?

00:26:39.000 Which was the single mom.

00:26:43.000 I sent you a second email.

00:26:45.000 Yeah, that one.

00:26:46.000 We can, we can do that one and then the, um, the Joe, the Lolo Jones or whatever second,

00:27:00.000 but we'll do that one first.

00:27:02.000 I want to read this really quick.

00:27:20.000 Cause we do have some people.

00:27:21.000 Can you turn the music off?

00:27:22.000 I'm nervous.

00:27:23.000 This is going to get copyrighted actually.

00:27:24.000 No, no, go back King.

00:27:25.000 No, no, go back.

00:27:26.000 Um, so I want to read this really quick.

00:27:30.000 Make the, make the sound off, please.

00:27:32.000 Sound off.

00:27:33.000 So take, turn the sound off of the video, please.

00:27:35.000 Okay.

00:27:36.000 Okay.

00:27:37.000 Yeah.

00:27:38.000 Play it again.

00:27:39.000 Okay.

00:27:40.000 So doing it all by myself hits hard.

00:27:43.000 Sometimes working, cooking, cleaning and paying the bills, making sure everyone has everything

00:27:48.000 they need, making sure they're happy.

00:27:50.000 What about me?

00:27:51.000 So my question is, do single mothers deserve sympathy?

00:27:58.000 She need five men's.

00:28:01.000 What?

00:28:02.000 When you're single mother question, why you're single?

00:28:07.000 If you have two hands, two legs, go out, meet at the moment has so many single men's,

00:28:15.000 80% of people divorce.

00:28:17.000 It means that every day, some single men go on the street, on the gym.

00:28:21.000 They live on you.

00:28:22.000 They have so many.

00:28:23.000 And when you need to choose, you need to have not one man, minimum five.

00:28:28.000 You don't need to sleep with them, but you need to communicate and to understand what

00:28:31.000 you want, what you're looking for.

00:28:33.000 Because if you are very disappear.

00:28:35.000 Oh my God.

00:28:36.000 Oh my God.

00:28:37.000 I need a man.

00:28:38.000 I need a man.

00:28:39.000 If you take first, you will keep him and you will very afraid to lost him.

00:28:42.000 And if you make a lot of mistakes, you need to have around you five men.

00:28:46.000 To meet, to communicate, to receive flowers and to ask about help.

00:28:51.000 Use your mouth.

00:28:52.000 It's very good.

00:28:53.000 So your answer is go find a man.

00:28:56.000 Yes.

00:28:57.000 Okay, great.

00:28:58.000 Go ahead.

00:28:59.000 For me, it's no.

00:29:00.000 A single mom doesn't require sympathy because she chooses to be in that position.

00:29:05.000 Wow.

00:29:06.000 And I think all she needs is empowerment, but definitely not sympathy because it makes

00:29:12.000 it worse for her.

00:29:14.000 Poor me.

00:29:15.000 Saying us, we are poor.

00:29:17.000 Actually, it's like you are cutting our wings.

00:29:21.000 Like, you know, to be that human being, like we need to take responsibility of what we are

00:29:27.000 doing.

00:29:28.000 You know, we chooses that life.

00:29:30.000 It's like when we signed that marriage certificate.

00:29:32.000 So when I divorced him, I was very clear off.

00:29:35.000 I was the one who signed that marriage certificate.

00:29:38.000 Although it was an arranged marriage, but nobody put gun on my face.

00:29:41.000 Not my parents said, you have to do it.

00:29:43.000 I was the one.

00:29:44.000 I was the one I in fact went to my grandma inside because they are the one who arranged

00:29:48.000 it.

00:29:49.000 And I said, no, make sure you don't feel sorry or feel bad for me because I was the one.

00:29:56.000 It was your choice.

00:29:57.000 It was very clear my choice, because if I have said no in that moment and didn't marry

00:30:02.000 him, I would have been single and gone somewhere else.

00:30:05.000 I choose him and I had the choice regardless of how much I was developed, not developed,

00:30:11.000 no, no, no, full responsibility lie with us.

00:30:14.000 And I think sympathizing makes it worse for us because then we indulge in this emotion

00:30:21.000 and we don't even do the basic things we need to do, you know, to make our life better.

00:30:26.000 You're actually making women weaker by sympathizing with them.

00:30:31.000 I do believe in that.

00:30:32.000 I strongly believe in that.

00:30:33.000 I agree.

00:30:34.000 Because women abuse sympathy, abuse it.

00:30:37.000 Yeah.

00:30:38.000 What do you think?

00:30:39.000 Do single mothers deserve sympathy?

00:30:42.000 Yeah, I think single mothers deserve sympathy.

00:30:45.000 I lived with a single mother for a while and my own mother, she really worked hard.

00:30:50.000 And I have a great wife who wakes up two, three o'clock in the morning to take care of

00:30:55.000 our daughter.

00:30:56.000 And and then she'll wake up at like four.

00:31:00.000 My daughter screams and she'll wake up at like six.

00:31:03.000 And I could only imagine if she had to work.

00:31:06.000 I take care of everything from my wife.

00:31:08.000 Okay.

00:31:09.000 But I couldn't imagine if she didn't have a husband and if I wasn't there and and she was

00:31:17.000 alone having to wake up at night and then also work.

00:31:21.000 I mean, when your baby's crying, doesn't matter how high your IQ is, how much money you got,

00:31:26.000 how much you're good at business or sports.

00:31:28.000 The mother has the warmth of her, of her, of her breast milk.

00:31:33.000 And the baby really only wants that breast milk from the mother.

00:31:37.000 I can't, I, if I hold my daughter at 3am, she's still going to scream.

00:31:41.000 But if my, if my wife holds her, she can calm her down.

00:31:45.000 And that's when you see the superpower of women.

00:31:48.000 Yeah.

00:31:49.000 So I actually have zero sympathy for single mothers.

00:31:52.000 Yes.

00:31:53.000 In general, not your mom, you know, I'm sure she's a nice lady.

00:31:57.000 But, but, but it's like, I, I, because the way I think is you always have a choice as

00:32:02.000 a woman where men don't always have a choice.

00:32:04.000 Some men will be single forever and 40, only 40% of men have reproduced historically.

00:32:10.000 So now it's like me, if you're born with all this beauty and value and you pick poorly,

00:32:15.000 isn't, isn't it your own fault?

00:32:17.000 Well, where is the, and even single mothers, there's always a simp.

00:32:20.000 There's always someone.

00:32:21.000 So to me, it's, it's just always a choice.

00:32:23.000 Yeah.

00:32:24.000 You disagree?

00:32:25.000 No, I, I, I, you're an empathetic.

00:32:27.000 No, actually, no, no, no, no.

00:32:28.000 I am empathetic, but I will, I will say, I think what you said is a good point.

00:32:33.000 I respect the commitment level of a woman who's single or a father who's single.

00:32:39.000 And they raise a child.

00:32:41.000 If you're a father or a mother, it doesn't matter.

00:32:44.000 Just one single parent raising a child.

00:32:46.000 That's really, really hard.

00:32:48.000 I really believe in the traditional marriage and a man, you know, it's just such a shame

00:32:52.000 that in the 36 hours I've been here in London, I see all this, we're talking about this.

00:32:58.000 I see all this advertisement about what represents London.

00:33:02.000 And at the airport, I see four pictures.

00:33:05.000 And out of those four pictures, two of them are pictures of homosexuality.

00:33:10.000 But I didn't see one picture of like a 40 year old man, Muslim, Christian, doesn't matter,

00:33:16.000 or Jewish like me, doesn't matter.

00:33:18.000 Just a traditional man with a wife and like two kids sitting at the park.

00:33:23.000 I found that I find that really offensive, actually, as a married man, as a father who

00:33:30.000 has faith, I find it offensive that we're being ignored from society.

00:33:36.000 Yet we make up such a big majority of men.

00:33:39.000 And most men that are happy with the highest degree of happiness, I think, are the ones,

00:33:45.000 at least in my own life that I know this is anecdotal, but are married men.

00:33:50.000 I love having a wife and a daughter.

00:33:52.000 I couldn't imagine waking up and not having them.

00:33:55.000 I hope it doesn't happen.

00:33:56.000 But wouldn't you want to promote instead of 25 gay flags?

00:34:01.000 And I respect the gays.

00:34:02.000 I really do.

00:34:03.000 Alpha King loves the gays.

00:34:05.000 I don't emphasize that.

00:34:06.000 But wouldn't it be amazing if we had one advertisement in London, one advert here in London or one advertisement

00:34:13.000 in Miami, just showed me a fucking billboard with a man who's at the park with his wife

00:34:18.000 and his two sons playing football.

00:34:20.000 When I was growing up, I would see stuff like that.

00:34:23.000 Now I come to London or you go to New York, you just see, you know, the gay flag, the trans

00:34:27.000 flag everywhere.

00:34:28.000 They push it on.

00:34:29.000 And the crazy thing is most gay people I know don't want this shit pushed unless they're

00:34:33.000 really extreme.

00:34:34.000 There's a lot of, there's a lot of base people that are gay and they're not with all the,

00:34:39.000 like the LGBTQ plus shit.

00:34:41.000 My, my gay, my, my gay therapist was, who I have a lot of love for.

00:34:48.000 He's gay.

00:34:49.000 And he explained it to me the best.

00:34:51.000 He said, when the gay, first it was about being gay and having gay rights.

00:34:56.000 But then they began pushing the trans stuff and the trans stuff gets even darker because

00:35:03.000 what they're doing is they're trying to show that they're changing the definition of what

00:35:09.000 a human is.

00:35:10.000 And when you start doing that 5, 10, 15 years from now, we're going to start having robots.

00:35:15.000 And then you're just talking about what businesses will do with robots, the displacement of jobs.

00:35:22.000 And it really gets far, far darker than just, Oh, that's a trend.

00:35:27.000 We're just changing the definition of a human altogether at this point.

00:35:30.000 Yeah, no, I agree.

00:35:32.000 I think this is all a depopulation agenda.

00:35:35.000 And I just, I think it's actually disgusting.

00:35:37.000 I mean, I've seen, we were just talking about this earlier.

00:35:40.000 Like when I saw the dudes in the woman's locker room at my school, I was like, this is getting too far.

00:35:45.000 This is crazy.

00:35:46.000 And, and the crazy thing is these people know that this isn't right.

00:35:49.000 They know that men are men and women are women, but they still, it's like, they pretend for what?

00:35:54.000 Why, why are you pushing this agenda onto us?

00:35:57.000 I would be really surprised if anyone in the chat is a father and, and the father says, and has a daughter.

00:36:04.000 And says, I would like my 13 year old daughter to go to a woman's public bathroom and men that are Tran can go in there.

00:36:15.000 And they're willing to have their daughter risk getting graped.

00:36:20.000 Because I'll tell you as a father right now, I wouldn't feel comfortable with that degeneracy.

00:36:26.000 And to say, Oh, nothing would ever happen.

00:36:28.000 It does happen.

00:36:29.000 You're being lied to.

00:36:30.000 You're being programmed.

00:36:31.000 You're being indoctrinated.

00:36:32.000 It's wrong.

00:36:34.000 In any other country you go around the world, you go to Africa, you go to Middle East, you go to Asia, you go to Russia.

00:36:40.000 You think they're going to let a man dress as a woman and go on the same bathroom as your 12 year old daughter.

00:36:47.000 You know how disgusting that is and dangerous.

00:36:51.000 How about the safety of my daughter?

00:36:53.000 Well, it's so dangerous.

00:36:54.000 It's like, if they're willing to chop their off, what are they going to do to me?

00:36:58.000 You're like, cause that's pretty far.

00:36:59.000 That's crazy.

00:37:00.000 It's not crazy to think you don't want you.

00:37:03.000 I say this as a father and I can't, and I find it really sad that fathers like me, 42 year old fathers and married men like me are not seen in advertisements in Western society.

00:37:15.000 Like we're not normal.

00:37:17.000 Like we're not, we're, we're, we're unusual because we're not gay and trans.

00:37:22.000 I can understand.

00:37:23.000 Put 10 pictures of gays.

00:37:24.000 Fine.

00:37:25.000 But can we get at least one picture of a traditional man?

00:37:27.000 No, the ratio right now is 100 gay flags.

00:37:31.000 Maybe you see one man married with kids at the park in an advertisement.

00:37:39.000 Well, and the crazy thing is when they do advert, like when they do depict a picture perfect, like family,

00:37:44.000 it's always the dad's an idiot.

00:37:46.000 They always like Homer Simpson, a bumbling idiot.

00:37:49.000 The woman just knows everything.

00:37:50.000 And then they, that's always how even family guy, same thing, overweight, idiot.

00:37:55.000 And the woman knows everything.

00:37:56.000 Lisa is stupid.

00:37:57.000 Bart is smart.

00:37:58.000 They even do it with the kids.

00:37:59.000 Isn't that crazy?

00:38:00.000 Yeah, it is.

00:38:01.000 It's, it's, it's sort of like even the Hollywood movies, man.

00:38:05.000 Like, and like, like you'll see Vikings and the Viking is like an African guy.

00:38:10.000 Like, like the, it's, it's like, or like, you know, James Bond will become a woman.

00:38:16.000 Right.

00:38:17.000 Like we're just changing, like all of these things to match certain.

00:38:22.000 Oh my gosh.

00:38:23.000 What?

00:38:24.000 Scarlett Johansson being in the Avengers or whatever the hell superhero movie she played in is offensive.

00:38:32.000 As a female athlete.

00:38:35.000 Okay.

00:38:36.000 I can, I can deadlift roughly 300 pounds.

00:38:38.000 I had pro contracts offered.

00:38:40.000 I can squat like 250, 275.

00:38:42.000 I am strong.

00:38:43.000 I'm probably top 1% of strength for a female.

00:38:46.000 All right.

00:38:47.000 I can, I can bench a plate.

00:38:48.000 I am a strong woman.

00:38:49.000 And you're going to put this petite five, two, five, three chick as the lead in the action

00:38:55.000 movie.

00:38:56.000 Who is she?

00:38:57.000 Who is she going to beat up?

00:38:58.000 And then she's leading the men.

00:39:00.000 I'm like, this is, I was offended as an athlete.

00:39:03.000 I would have, I would have taken Riley Gaines over Scarlett Johansson.

00:39:08.000 But I'm going to ask you next.

00:39:09.000 Do you think I'm single mothers deserve sympathy?

00:39:12.000 Um, it's interesting because there's four women here.

00:39:16.000 Yeah.

00:39:17.000 Four women here.

00:39:18.000 And we've all said, no, I, I don't think so either.

00:39:21.000 They, well, I think if the other half of the panel was still here, we would have had mixed.

00:39:25.000 Maybe.

00:39:26.000 I think, um, women when they're divorced and they decide to be single mothers and do everything

00:39:34.000 on their own.

00:39:35.000 That's a choice.

00:39:36.000 Um, when the kids are at school, I think they should be going to the gym and making themselves

00:39:40.000 look presentable, like at an appropriate weight, look after yourself inside out and go out with

00:39:47.000 your friends, make some time for yourself, learn to love yourself, work on yourself.

00:39:51.000 But I think it's really important that once they've found that self love and respect, self

00:39:58.000 respect, you can go out, you can meet people.

00:40:01.000 And yeah, it's, it's a choice to stay at home and stay in this vicious circle of work, school run.

00:40:09.000 I want to, I want to hear from, okay, since we have three divorce.

00:40:13.000 Oh, sorry.

00:40:14.000 Sorry.

00:40:15.000 Sorry.

00:40:16.000 The lady in the red, she did say you should have five men around you that I wholly disagree

00:40:20.000 with.

00:40:21.000 How can you ever move on?

00:40:23.000 Which man would ever accept the woman?

00:40:26.000 If she had four other men that were running around, around her.

00:40:30.000 And if he doesn't find out, then where is the commitment already?

00:40:34.000 You're already a cheap bag.

00:40:36.000 You've got four men that the first man doesn't know about.

00:40:39.000 You're about to commit to one.

00:40:40.000 You have a choice.

00:40:41.000 I wholly disagree.

00:40:42.000 I think it's disgusting.

00:40:43.000 Maybe you didn't listen me correct.

00:40:45.000 Yes.

00:40:46.000 I told you don't sleep with them.

00:40:48.000 You communicate.

00:40:49.000 It's still in my eyes.

00:40:50.000 I wouldn't, if I, if I was a man and I had, I was interested in a woman.

00:40:55.000 And then I found out she was even speaking or going on a date with four other men.

00:41:00.000 I would tell her to fuck off.

00:41:01.000 Pardon my French.

00:41:02.000 I would tell her to fuck off.

00:41:03.000 Otherwise, men will do it with women.

00:41:05.000 Men have a lot of women and women stay home.

00:41:08.000 And now every day I work with this.

00:41:10.000 I have a man now and he's with no one but me.

00:41:12.000 And I know that for a fact.

00:41:13.000 It's called respect.

00:41:14.000 You respect yourself.

00:41:15.000 You find someone who respects you.

00:41:16.000 You have a man until you're not exclusivity.

00:41:19.000 Until men not told you, you are my woman.

00:41:22.000 I will take care about you.

00:41:23.000 Until this, you choose.

00:41:25.000 I disagree.

00:41:26.000 I disagree.

00:41:27.000 A woman, I disagree.

00:41:28.000 I think maybe it's a culture thing for me.

00:41:31.000 I don't know.

00:41:32.000 But I completely disagree.

00:41:33.000 If a woman can't respect herself, she would never get respect anywhere else.

00:41:37.000 Yeah.

00:41:38.000 It's interesting.

00:41:39.000 I've heard this before.

00:41:40.000 The roster thing.

00:41:41.000 I mean, I think we usually women mean to sleep with them, but you're saying don't sleep with them.

00:41:44.000 You don't think that's a bit disrespectful to the, like, if one guy, and you could tell me why you don't think this, but like, if one guy is going to take you seriously and then he finds out you're talking to four other men.

00:41:55.000 You know, if I'm not you 22 years psychotherapist and I make so many marriage of my clients, I make amazing marriage and so many children we have in this world.

00:42:05.000 And I do it every day, eight hours.

00:42:07.000 And I know all about relationship again.

00:42:09.000 For example, I have one client.

00:42:11.000 She's single.

00:42:12.000 And she very want to find a man.

00:42:14.000 She go and she met with some man in Tinder.

00:42:16.000 It's first man which she saw from one year.

00:42:19.000 Oh, I like him.

00:42:20.000 I love him.

00:42:21.000 She should not see man one year.

00:42:23.000 And immediately she fall to love.

00:42:26.000 And guy play with her.

00:42:27.000 They go one dinner and she want to saw him attention.

00:42:30.000 He offered her cheeky cheeky.

00:42:32.000 She is so want man.

00:42:34.000 She's ready for all just to keep him.

00:42:36.000 She's 42.

00:42:37.000 She never was in a big relationship many years.

00:42:40.000 And she go immediately.

00:42:41.000 She never had a relationship?

00:42:42.000 She been in a relationship, but one year she was out.

00:42:45.000 And she go with him cheeky cheeky.

00:42:47.000 And the next day he disappear.

00:42:49.000 She call me crying.

00:42:51.000 Natalia, please help me.

00:42:52.000 He disappear.

00:42:53.000 What to do?

00:42:54.000 I'd say why you go with one man.

00:42:57.000 I told you, you need to have five because if you have other four, you will call somebody just to drink a coffee.

00:43:03.000 You not feel so down how you feel now.

00:43:06.000 Even to drink one coffee, give you one rose.

00:43:09.000 You not feel so down.

00:43:10.000 In my opinion, a real man doesn't want a woman like that.

00:43:13.000 That's my opinion.

00:43:14.000 A real man, if he exists, he would not want a woman.

00:43:18.000 His woman, she's probably his from day one.

00:43:21.000 He would not want his woman speaking to another guy.

00:43:25.000 That's not a real man.

00:43:27.000 That's the kind of a man who would allow a woman to do that because he's not serious about her.

00:43:32.000 He will just F her and leave her and drain her and rinse her and waste her time.

00:43:37.000 He will not marry her.

00:43:38.000 He will not give her kids.

00:43:40.000 He will not look after her.

00:43:41.000 End of.

00:43:42.000 And I'm sorry, it's undisputable.

00:43:44.000 That for me is undisputable.

00:43:46.000 I have my result and I know how to marry people and how many marriage humans.

00:43:50.000 Real people will marry, real women will marry themselves.

00:43:54.000 Real women will marry themselves.

00:43:56.000 It's amazing what you do, no disrespect.

00:43:59.000 But a real woman and a real man, they don't really need, I think, anyone's intervention.

00:44:05.000 Except maybe just an intro at a party or something.

00:44:08.000 I wholly disagree with you.

00:44:09.000 I'm so sorry, but I disagree.

00:44:11.000 Yeah, people have different opinion.

00:44:13.000 I know because on my marriage, when I work, I work from result.

00:44:17.000 And when clients to me, they say, I want to marry and my work to help my client married.

00:44:22.000 And I know how many marriage I did in my life.

00:44:24.000 And I had men who is not possible to marry.

00:44:27.000 And from my strategy, we married them.

00:44:30.000 And after they invite me to be the goddess mother from children.

00:44:33.000 I know how to.

00:44:34.000 Do you think the Tinder thing, right?

00:44:37.000 And imagine like dating apps aren't the best place for women.

00:44:40.000 No, no, no.

00:44:41.000 Yes, but you need to know how to do it.

00:44:43.000 So this is, I'm just going to ask you.

00:44:45.000 So based on your practice, I'd imagine like women swipe too high on dating apps because we only swipe right 5% of the time.

00:44:53.000 We find 80% of men ugly.

00:44:54.000 I'm sure you know the numbers.

00:44:55.000 So it's like if you go on a date with a guy from a dating app, he's probably dating like.

00:44:59.000 You must be honest.

00:45:00.000 Yeah.

00:45:01.000 And you only say, I am now in choice.

00:45:04.000 We can drink a coffee.

00:45:05.000 We can speak.

00:45:06.000 We can speak.

00:45:07.000 But you need to do something to show me that you want to be with me.

00:45:11.000 Because today, men go with women in park even don't give one rose.

00:45:16.000 Today, men very often go to meeting because I work every day with dating in UK.

00:45:21.000 And men even go with not clean clothes, not iron clothes.

00:45:25.000 And men come and say, do you want to go to my room?

00:45:29.000 I'm so sorry.

00:45:30.000 But don't you think that's like the quality?

00:45:32.000 This is laughable.

00:45:33.000 A real man, you don't have to say, can you give me a rose?

00:45:36.000 Can you give, show me, show me, show me.

00:45:39.000 I think the issue is.

00:45:40.000 A real man will give you a rose.

00:45:42.000 Well, I don't, I don't know if a real man, like.

00:45:45.000 Real man is fantasy.

00:45:46.000 I don't even want to talk about real versus not.

00:45:50.000 But my thing is, I think it speaks to the quality of the women, though.

00:45:53.000 And so it's like, obviously, if the women are lower quality than ever before, the men are going to treat them traditionally.

00:45:59.000 Because it's like, even if the 42 year old, why would she get a traditional outcome if she's a modern chick?

00:46:04.000 I work very often with very successful women in Korea.

00:46:07.000 Yeah.

00:46:08.000 But they have very low level of self-confidence as women.

00:46:12.000 Because, for example, her mother always told her, you are very ugly.

00:46:15.000 Her father was very toxic, narcissistic.

00:46:18.000 Every day I work with this.

00:46:20.000 She can be financial director in big company, a lawyer.

00:46:23.000 But when men stay to her, she don't know how to be a woman.

00:46:26.000 She doesn't know.

00:46:27.000 But the men, you know men don't care about your career, though.

00:46:30.000 Exactly.

00:46:31.000 Men wants you to be beautiful.

00:46:33.000 Right.

00:46:34.000 And to be sexy and to be attractive.

00:46:35.000 He doesn't care how many education you have and if you have a PhD.

00:46:38.000 Right.

00:46:39.000 But I really think, I don't find that women are, maybe it's in different countries, I don't know.

00:46:44.000 I find that they have too high of standards, not too low.

00:46:48.000 Yes.

00:46:49.000 Because it's like, they find 80% of men is ugly.

00:46:53.000 So that means, that means they're only going for...

00:46:55.000 Men don't need to be beautiful.

00:46:56.000 Men need to be honest.

00:46:57.000 Men need to be strong.

00:46:58.000 Correct.

00:46:59.000 Men need to have a realization of his mission.

00:47:01.000 Right.

00:47:02.000 Social successful.

00:47:03.000 And to be a man.

00:47:04.000 He don't need to be beautiful.

00:47:05.000 Woman wants to be beautiful.

00:47:06.000 Yeah.

00:47:07.000 And I agree with you, but I'm saying in the West, that's how we select typically.

00:47:10.000 It's more based on looks.

00:47:11.000 Because we are women sometimes stupid.

00:47:13.000 And we are women sometimes going to choose his good looking.

00:47:16.000 And I say, wait, wait, wait.

00:47:17.000 He has his house.

00:47:18.000 He can take care about you.

00:47:19.000 He is responsible.

00:47:20.000 He is honest.

00:47:21.000 He lie you.

00:47:22.000 And I spoke also with men.

00:47:24.000 He said to me, if I feel that woman catch up on me, I don't think just think of her.

00:47:29.000 I want other woman.

00:47:31.000 And if I feel that I have competitors, it's activate me.

00:47:34.000 Because I know that she has another four who drink coffee, play tennis.

00:47:38.000 And I say, hmm, I must be better than others.

00:47:41.000 And then I want to run for her.

00:47:43.000 Then I want to do something for her.

00:47:44.000 Competitors activate normal men.

00:47:47.000 If men of not, if female men, of course, he will go far away.

00:47:53.000 But men, he feel that he can lost.

00:47:55.000 And really like, and you are very right, need to be high level of woman.

00:47:59.000 Of course, you're smart.

00:48:00.000 You just drink a coffee.

00:48:01.000 Again, I say, you don't sleep with them.

00:48:04.000 You are in choice.

00:48:05.000 You are go to market.

00:48:06.000 You say, I'm a single woman.

00:48:08.000 I'm just thinking five.

00:48:09.000 That's a lot though.

00:48:10.000 Minimum five can be ten.

00:48:12.000 I think.

00:48:13.000 I think.

00:48:14.000 That's so.

00:48:15.000 Like, I almost think that's like disrespectful to a guy.

00:48:17.000 I think what she's trying to say there, which I think I'm getting her point.

00:48:21.000 And I got your point as well.

00:48:23.000 Yeah.

00:48:24.000 Is I think what she's trying to say is.

00:48:27.000 Have a backup.

00:48:28.000 No, not to have a backup.

00:48:30.000 It's more to do with the development for a woman.

00:48:33.000 You're not attached to that one person that you jump to it and put all like it.

00:48:40.000 Don't you think that's what's like beautiful about being a woman though, is you get attached.

00:48:46.000 If there's no attachment, you're going to leave that guy with a click of a finger.

00:48:50.000 There's no respect.

00:48:51.000 No, no, no, no.

00:48:52.000 But what, what do you mention is the first guy left her after sleeping with her instantly.

00:48:58.000 So what she's trying to say.

00:49:00.000 Why did she sleep with him so quick?

00:49:02.000 Exactly.

00:49:03.000 Because she's not his man.

00:49:04.000 And the first man, he give her attention.

00:49:06.000 When.

00:49:07.000 I want to, I want to hear.

00:49:08.000 I'm sorry.

00:49:09.000 I disagree.

00:49:10.000 When she talks to four, five men, but from a respectful place, she's not being like flirty

00:49:15.000 or giving herself away.

00:49:16.000 That's no such thing.

00:49:17.000 She's developing.

00:49:18.000 Yeah.

00:49:19.000 She's developing this quality to bring boundaries for herself.

00:49:23.000 Right.

00:49:24.000 But I'm just, I'm just thinking if you're talking to five men, you still have a favorite.

00:49:28.000 You have friends.

00:49:29.000 You have brothers.

00:49:30.000 You have, you have friends and brothers and dads and stepdads and whatever to do that

00:49:34.000 kind of stuff.

00:49:35.000 Random men on a dating app past one.

00:49:39.000 And it's serious.

00:49:40.000 You're talking.

00:49:41.000 You're it's wrong.

00:49:42.000 It's disturbing.

00:49:43.000 Is it, is it, is it?

00:49:44.000 What are the guys thinking of this?

00:49:46.000 Yeah.

00:49:47.000 Real quick.

00:49:48.000 I say this to the lady behind me.

00:49:49.000 Is it fair to generalize all men like this?

00:49:53.000 For example, if I were to say all women who are allowed and obnoxious like you usually

00:50:01.000 wind up having a divorce, would that be fair?

00:50:08.000 I think people get divorced for different reasons, different reasons.

00:50:13.000 And generalizing someone, anyone.

00:50:17.000 No, it's not fair.

00:50:18.000 No, it's not fair.

00:50:20.000 But did I generalize?

00:50:21.000 I'm sure you're honest.

00:50:22.000 No, it's not fair.

00:50:23.000 But I also think a woman has the power to develop herself.

00:50:28.000 Look, it's like, how do you know to swim until you go in the water?

00:50:33.000 So you figure out your boundaries, your respect.

00:50:38.000 You're not sleeping with that person.

00:50:40.000 But you're also then getting awareness of, okay, there is different variety of mans.

00:50:46.000 They have different values.

00:50:47.000 They have different standards.

00:50:49.000 And whoever from those five will pick me.

00:50:52.000 I understand where she's coming from.

00:50:56.000 Like, so I'm not even discrediting and I'm just, but I'm just, wait, wait.

00:51:00.000 So I'm just thinking like, that's just sounds like more for traditional women, which don't really exist anymore.

00:51:06.000 Like that sounds like more traditional courting.

00:51:08.000 You know, you know what I mean?

00:51:10.000 Depends, feminist and not feminist.

00:51:12.000 A lot of women prefer to survive alone.

00:51:14.000 And it's very difficult in this world.

00:51:16.000 For example, I am not from this.

00:51:18.000 I believe that men need to be with a woman and I cannot without men.

00:51:21.000 I drive a car, but I prefer my partner always to drive a car.

00:51:25.000 I think women shouldn't drive.

00:51:26.000 Yeah.

00:51:27.000 Let's ban licenses.

00:51:28.000 But you're honest, again I say.

00:51:30.000 You say, man, I am single.

00:51:32.000 I like to meet with people.

00:51:33.000 I like to communicate.

00:51:34.000 You play tennis.

00:51:35.000 You go to drink coffee.

00:51:36.000 You don't social place because you need to understand what you want.

00:51:40.000 When you're divorced, when you're single, you don't know.

00:51:42.000 If you don't communicate with different type of people, different age, different culture, how you can know?

00:51:47.000 And if you take the first thing, you do the same mistake because you already want attention.

00:51:52.000 Communicate, understand what you want.

00:51:54.000 What do you think?

00:51:55.000 About what specifically?

00:51:56.000 The five men speak to at the same time, but don't sleep with them.

00:52:00.000 Do you think that's like, do you think that's disrespectful?

00:52:03.000 If you were like courting a girl and she was talking to five other guys at the same time?

00:52:06.000 You know, it's interesting.

00:52:07.000 I struggled with jealousy almost my entire life.

00:52:12.000 And I finally realized, and this is especially if you're a man who struggles with jealousy the way I did.

00:52:17.000 I'm Mediterranean, Middle Eastern man.

00:52:19.000 So maybe it's a genetic thing.

00:52:21.000 I struggled with jealousy really bad.

00:52:23.000 I was pretty controlling.

00:52:24.000 And it wasn't until I actually met my wife that I realized I couldn't stop a woman from lying and cheating to me.

00:52:31.000 And I've been cheated on.

00:52:33.000 And that's painful as fuck.

00:52:35.000 So I realized if you can't control a woman, just relax and be confident.

00:52:42.000 And if she fucks around on you, that's her loss.

00:52:44.000 Now, one more thing I want to say, I trust my wife.

00:52:47.000 I also think that you can stop that problem by just meeting a woman who has those values.

00:52:53.000 I'd never have to worry about my, I don't even care about going through my wife's phone, but if I wanted to, I could.

00:52:59.000 Exactly.

00:53:00.000 Yeah.

00:53:01.000 If I wanted to go through my wife's phone, I could.

00:53:04.000 In fact, my wife, I have the opposite problem.

00:53:07.000 My wife likes to go through my phone.

00:53:09.000 And I get really hurt by that because I feel like, why don't you trust me?

00:53:13.000 I don't go through your phone.

00:53:14.000 Why would you go through my phone?

00:53:16.000 Now she doesn't do it as much.

00:53:17.000 But, you know, I had to, I had to, you don't want to live a life where you're fucking going crazy.

00:53:25.000 Wondering is your woman getting fucked by, you know, some big guy.

00:53:29.000 No, but I'm just asking, like, if you found out a girl was doing what she, yeah.

00:53:33.000 But to answer your question, I wouldn't deal with it.

00:53:35.000 I'd leave her.

00:53:36.000 There's no fucking way I would be with a woman.

00:53:39.000 And she, and I'm seeing, she's talking to Johnny at 2am, he, he, he on text message.

00:53:44.000 I'd leave her.

00:53:45.000 I don't give a fuck.

00:53:46.000 Cause I know my worth.

00:53:47.000 You know, I think, are there men though, that would go along with what she's saying?

00:53:53.000 Yeah.

00:53:54.000 But what she's saying is advocating on women's behalf.

00:53:57.000 And I get that.

00:53:58.000 I can respect that.

00:53:59.000 But if you're a man, you're making money.

00:54:00.000 You're taking care of your mind, your body.

00:54:02.000 You know, you got a good faith with the Lord.

00:54:05.000 Have some self-respect.

00:54:07.000 Have some fucking self-respect that if a woman behaves like that, you drop the hoe.

00:54:12.000 Straight up.

00:54:14.000 So what my question here is like, when you're at the very start of the relationship where

00:54:21.000 you just started saying hello to four or five different people, and then somebody come forward

00:54:27.000 and then said, they are interested in you.

00:54:29.000 Then you drop all the other men and then you're focusing on that person.

00:54:33.000 When you're in relationship, you stay monogamic.

00:54:35.000 It's not discussed.

00:54:36.000 But before to be in monogamic relationship, partner needs to show you, I want to be with

00:54:41.000 you.

00:54:42.000 I want to be interested in you.

00:54:43.000 Not like cheeky chicken.

00:54:44.000 He disappear and he cry alone in her room.

00:54:46.000 Especially the point you raised about a woman chooses like, you know, it's her decision

00:54:52.000 she made and she attracted somebody.

00:54:54.000 Now, the very first guy that came into your life.

00:54:57.000 And if you don't give yourself that choice of actually for that, you have to go out and

00:55:03.000 look out and see which one it is.

00:55:05.000 But he's absolutely right.

00:55:07.000 If I am giving somebody this idea of I'm in relationship with you and I'm talking to

00:55:12.000 five other people, that's completely wrong.

00:55:13.000 No, but I think he's talking.

00:55:14.000 That's completely wrong.

00:55:15.000 I think he's talking about even early on.

00:55:16.000 Like, I just think if you're talking, like, this is just my opinion, but I think if you're

00:55:19.000 talking to five guys, like, I don't know how you keep track of that.

00:55:22.000 To be honest, how can you talk to five guys?

00:55:24.000 If I took that advice.

00:55:25.000 It just seems to be like taking attention from men to feel your ego.

00:55:29.000 It's a work.

00:55:30.000 You know, I have a lot of single moms which I married and I help them.

00:55:34.000 And I say, go out.

00:55:35.000 Oh, I cannot.

00:55:36.000 I'm tired.

00:55:37.000 You want to be married or you don't want.

00:55:39.000 I have one single man.

00:55:40.000 She come to me 42.

00:55:41.000 She was very suffering with her son.

00:55:44.000 And I told her, go up and speak with minimum five men.

00:55:48.000 She go drink coffee with five.

00:55:50.000 From this five, she likes four.

00:55:52.000 She go from dinner with four.

00:55:54.000 After from four, she choose two.

00:55:56.000 With them, she go more close.

00:55:58.000 And from this two, she choose one.

00:56:00.000 Now already, she's married 10 years and guy amazing.

00:56:03.000 Very careful about her.

00:56:04.000 They know that she's single.

00:56:06.000 She's looking and a very, very big successful man.

00:56:11.000 Men also respect when women honest.

00:56:13.000 And yes, of course, we have a choice.

00:56:15.000 And you need to do something to be with you.

00:56:17.000 You know what?

00:56:18.000 You know, a clear definition of misandry.

00:56:21.000 I'll give you a great example of misandry in pop culture in America.

00:56:26.000 There is a TikToker.

00:56:28.000 I'm not going to say her name so the video doesn't get pulled down.

00:56:30.000 She made a video talking about how she saved a lot of money going on a date like six nights a week.

00:56:38.000 Basically, she would go with a different guy every night.

00:56:40.000 And she would save the money.

00:56:41.000 And she was giving this as a personal finance hack.

00:56:44.000 Now, this is not even comedy.

00:56:45.000 This is finance on TikTok.

00:56:47.000 The most degenerate app aside from Snapchat.

00:56:50.000 And that gets promoted.

00:56:52.000 She has millions of followers.

00:56:53.000 She's getting corporate sponsorship deals.

00:56:55.000 But if you see a video of like, let's say, Sneeko, Tristan Tate, myself, other guys, that's talking about you should have some self-respect for yourself.

00:57:05.000 That gets pulled down for hate speech.

00:57:07.000 Yeah.

00:57:08.000 Yeah.

00:57:09.000 It's crazy.

00:57:11.000 I just think a lot of times, like men, like, I don't know.

00:57:17.000 I would just be really frustrated if I, like, if I was a dude and I'm paying for this girl's dinner, she's talking to five other dudes or 10, you know?

00:57:24.000 I mean, this, this, this influencer was literally celebrating.

00:57:27.000 You're honest, though.

00:57:28.000 You don't go to a meeting and say, hello, I have five minutes to speak.

00:57:32.000 You say, I'm single and I'm looking.

00:57:34.000 You don't give, discuss.

00:57:36.000 And men do the same.

00:57:37.000 Men, he's looking, he do the same.

00:57:39.000 I make a session with men.

00:57:41.000 Men do the same.

00:57:42.000 When he looking closer, he go out and he meet.

00:57:44.000 He don't take the first woman which you see on Tinder and to marry her.

00:57:48.000 Yeah, but the difference with men is that while men are doing that, they are paying for it through their pockets.

00:57:54.000 Women are doing that free of charge.

00:57:56.000 Depends.

00:57:57.000 No, it doesn't depend.

00:57:58.000 Most of the time, women are not going on dates paying for the dates.

00:58:01.000 Most of the time.

00:58:02.000 Facts.

00:58:03.000 Facts.

00:58:04.000 You can go play tennis.

00:58:05.000 You can go to park.

00:58:06.000 I mean, literally this girl, anyone can fact check me.

00:58:09.000 But no woman.

00:58:10.000 Hold on.

00:58:11.000 Anyone can fact check me.

00:58:12.000 You can go on New York Post and look at the article they wrote about this influencer.

00:58:16.000 Not a comedy influencer, a finance influencer saying how she's encouraging women basically to go on dates with men.

00:58:23.000 No chance of getting some pussy.

00:58:25.000 You're not going to fuck the guy.

00:58:27.000 You're going to go on a date.

00:58:28.000 You're going to mislead the guy.

00:58:30.000 Get a free dinner.

00:58:31.000 Go home and do that six nights a week to save money.

00:58:34.000 And she's being celebrated in the media and on TikTok and she's verified.

00:58:40.000 But then if I say something about men having some self-respect for themselves or other creators like Sneeko, Tristan Tate, they're all banned.

00:58:48.000 All of us got banned.

00:58:49.000 But she's promoted.

00:58:52.000 Make that make sense.

00:58:53.000 Yeah, it's super wrong.

00:58:54.000 No, that that is abuse of, you know, everything.

00:58:58.000 First is different topic and it's not common.

00:59:00.000 No, it's very common.

00:59:02.000 It's very common.

00:59:03.000 Literally the same topic.

00:59:04.000 No, half of women.

00:59:05.000 It's very common.

00:59:06.000 Literally the same topic.

00:59:07.000 I can't remember what percentage.

00:59:08.000 It was over half of women have admitted to going on a date with a guy for dinner.

00:59:14.000 It's super common.

00:59:15.000 I'm not a feminist, but I am a human rights activist.

00:59:18.000 It's not about like women being any, you know, like, but there is, it's a 21st century and there's equality.

00:59:27.000 What made you laugh, sir?

00:59:29.000 And the reality is a lot of women would accept dates from men that they know.

00:59:32.000 Maybe pay 50-50 and then you know it.

00:59:34.000 No, a lot of women would accept dates from men that they already know they are not going to want to, for that, after that date, they're probably not going to want to see them again.

00:59:42.000 So.

00:59:43.000 Yeah, that's wrong.

00:59:44.000 That's wrong.

00:59:45.000 If you know you're clear and you're doing this, that's, I totally agree with you.

00:59:48.000 But the point I have to make is that, that is very common.

00:59:51.000 It is very, very common.

00:59:52.000 Yeah.

00:59:53.000 I know it sounds weird, but it's reality.

00:59:55.000 It is common.

00:59:56.000 Maybe 10 years ago, it wasn't that common.

00:59:58.000 But right now today, it's like you said, it's celebrated on TikTok.

01:00:01.000 You can just open TikTok.

01:00:02.000 You see it everywhere.

01:00:03.000 Do you know what's crazy though?

01:00:04.000 She can come on here or other platforms and say this, nobody's going to bat an eye.

01:00:08.000 But if guys say to spin plates, everybody freaks out.

01:00:12.000 If they say to sleep with multiple women, talk to as many women as possible, everybody freaks out.

01:00:18.000 And they, even if the women agree to it, like, I mean, how often will, I just reacted to a video of like this Christian person, basically like, I forgot her name, but she was like shaming, you know, Justin Waller.

01:00:31.000 Cause Jay Waller was saying, like basically the not, he does the non-monogamy stuff or he talks about it.

01:00:38.000 I don't know.

01:00:39.000 But it's like, it's just interesting how it's like women can talk about spinning plates and it's fine.

01:00:44.000 But if men talk about spinning plates, it's not.

01:00:46.000 Yeah.

01:00:47.000 It has become a touchy subject.

01:00:49.000 I suppose where it started from is to protect women, but it has gone the other side extreme.

01:00:56.000 Yeah.

01:00:57.000 But the question is like, what about all the men giving her attention?

01:00:59.000 Exactly.

01:01:00.000 So like, let's protect the men, you know.

01:01:01.000 So I know like in Indian culture, there is, there is now a thing because in India, women get a lot of power comparing to men.

01:01:10.000 So it's like, woman has right, men has to chase women.

01:01:13.000 Like this is like a done thing, like around their beauty, etc.

01:01:17.000 And I've met men who was really struggle with that concept.

01:01:22.000 And they says, you know, if you divorce them, you have to give them money.

01:01:26.000 They are, they are empowered.

01:01:27.000 They are in high five jobs and they run the shows and they really, they really struggle.

01:01:33.000 Men really struggle and have huge fear around it.

01:01:36.000 So that part in this world exists.

01:01:39.000 And I agree with you.

01:01:41.000 It needs to be spoken about, like, you know, it needs to be given equal importance to what women suffer.

01:01:48.000 Sometimes women abuse, not sometimes, sounds like it a lot of the time they do.

01:01:54.000 I'm on the other side of it though.

01:01:56.000 We're having six brothers.

01:01:57.000 I always like it, it burns my blood when people say, oh, it's the men who is at fault kind of thing.

01:02:04.000 And I'm like, no, my point is the women have all the choice.

01:02:08.000 Like, because we are born with value, we have all the choice.

01:02:11.000 The men do not have choice.

01:02:13.000 I mean, some men do, but most men don't.

01:02:15.000 And so that's why like with women, it's like, I kind of don't have any sympathy for your lot in life.

01:02:20.000 Myself as well.

01:02:21.000 Every, everything, everything you do in life, I just think is your own fault.

01:02:25.000 And I think that a lot of times women aren't aware of how hard dating is for men.

01:02:31.000 Exactly.

01:02:32.000 I think where I give the, see the difference is women are very vocal, emotional.

01:02:39.000 We get to share with everybody.

01:02:40.000 We love to be the victim.

01:02:42.000 We love to bitch and moan about how hard dating is.

01:02:46.000 Men don't really complain like that.

01:02:48.000 They don't.

01:02:49.000 Men really suffer in silence a lot.

01:02:51.000 Like we just love, I mean, even in this whole thing, like she, they're yelling at me for kicking them out.

01:02:56.000 How many times did I warn them?

01:02:58.000 How many times did I warn them?

01:03:00.000 I warn them so many times and now victim.

01:03:03.000 It's like craziness.

JustPearlyThings - August 08, 2023

She Got Kicked Out of the SHOW

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