She Got OFFENDED When A Millionaire Told Her She's Not Good Enough As A Wife.
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Summary
Why are women turning back on their men? Why is it that women are turning away from their husbands? Why are they not supporting their husbands on their journey? Is it because they don t have the right people in their lives to support them?
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She looked at herself and said, how did I contribute to this and how can we solve it?
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Like women that really believe the families before me.
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But you've got to ask yourself these questions.
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Apart from being selfish, I need more than selfishness.
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Because, I mean, some of the top indicators of divorce are financial cheating.
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It's like financial cheating and irreconcilable differences.
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Because that means that they have a strong woman behind them.
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Behind every successful woman, successful man is a strong woman.
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I'm not saying that the women have no part to play.
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But the successful men are going to be successful regardless.
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When Melinda, or let's take the Bezos, Jeff Bezos and whatever.
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When it comes to his success, was he not going to be successful when raising the kids, having
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Like, behind every successful man is not always a successful woman.
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If the statistics are 85% of millionaires, you know, of a millionaires, they're married,
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No, but you're saying, here's what a man, blah, blah, blah, successful, blah, woman, this
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Like she says, women are always breaking up the home.
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Do you think that you have no room for improvement?
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So because it's like, if someone says to me, millionaires aren't trying to marry you,
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I don't know why you had to break it down like that.
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It's the question is, how can I improve to get there?
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If you're not where you want to be, how can you improve to get there?
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But you have to admit there's a problem in order to get there.
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And if you're being distracted by men that, you know, they're not going to be supportive
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Can I just say, if you had a partner and you turn around to him and say, babe, I'm going
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He ain't going to even see your vision or your goal.
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Would you want your man to stick by you on your journey?
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I didn't, I didn't have a boyfriend then, but honestly, when I told my dad, he supported
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No, but this is, this is what, but this is, if just because, but just because this is,
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Listen, listen, my gosh, listen, listen, just because the men, that's the men you pick.
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Most men that I've dated have been extremely supportive.
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And to be fair, I must admit the man who has been truly supportive.
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It's not, it's not wrong, but it's like anytime anyone says anything to you, it's like you're
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No, but I have, you know, I'm, I'm probably coming from a place where I'm talking from a
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lot of women who's probably coming from another different background and it hasn't been so
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I've talked to, I've talked to hundreds of women.
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I've talked to hundreds and, and I'm telling you, you sound, it, you said, it sounds delusional.
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Like the way you talk just sounds so, but like, it's not.
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I mean, it's, you've got to be deluded in order to quit your job and be a TikToker.
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And, and when, and when, and when I figured out I wasn't getting the outcome, listen, listen.
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And when you figure out you're not getting the outcome you want, you have to change something.
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And there were times where I was not getting the outcome I wanted and I had to change something.
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But when you, it's like, there's no, you act like there's no room for improvement ever.
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Based on the way you've, you've conducted yourself in this conversation and you can take it or leave it.
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Can I, um, I have a really funny, this is a Jerry Seinfeld joke and it's like, it's been called, I think it's Jerry Seinfeld and I want to give the right credit.
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He said, the funniest thing ever is that when you see two homeless people talking to each other, one is giving the other advice.
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When you see two homeless, when you see two homeless people talking to each other, one is giving the other advice.
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One of the things I teach the young fellows and gals in our company, I say this really with no irony.
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I say, never take advice from somebody with whom you wouldn't trade lives with.
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So guys, if you're watching this right now, Pearl, you have an awesome audience.
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They're trying to decipher what's true, what's not true, because they're getting different messages, right?
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Look at the person that you would love their life and follow their advice.
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And then look at the person that you would not want their life and do the opposite.
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And that's, that's probably the core of what people want to get at.
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Okay, guys, I'm going to read Super Chats, and then I think we're going to close out the show.
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And all Super Chats are going towards Blessing.
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Pearl, can I just compliment what you're doing?
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Like, I don't know what your dad told you or if you just picked it up.
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Like, you have a guy that's, like, employed by you or working with you.
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And you give him a vision and a goal, something that can be achieved.
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You make it public, so you crystallize it, so you're committed to that goal.
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Like, dude, she cares about you, and she actually wants you to win.
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See, I've always felt like my skill has always been getting the most talented people in a room.
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And Blessing, genuinely, is the best producer, and there's no one better than Blessing.
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Well, you posted on LinkedIn today that you were looking for an editor or something,
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and I have a guy that's got, I think, 1.6 million followers there on LinkedIn.
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And I tagged him in, and he's been boosting that post.
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Check it out, because I was like, when I met your team last time, I went back to my video.
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A guy, I'm like, he couldn't come on this trip, and you need to come with me.
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You need to come with me, because we need to learn from these guys, because they're pros.
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Yeah, no, I mean, I've just always felt like you should give, because I'm just not very money motivated.
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And so I just felt like if I have someone that's really talented, like, why would I not give them all the resources that they can?
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And, you know, now I think we have the best set on YouTube, in my opinion.
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But he does run my credit card like it's no tomorrow.
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We're running out of money, you know what I mean?
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Matt Butcher, getting back on the subject, the millionaires don't marry.
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Pearl, where can I find the source of your stats?
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Zuroslaus, a woman's choices are just for sex and not for a relationship.
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Thinking about making paternity tests mandatory during or at childbirth.
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I want to, and too many others feel the same way about tattoos.
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93-tailed by birds of the same feather flock together.
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Chris, your prenup advice is destructive towards most men.
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Okay, then let me refresh it just to make sure.
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To know success is to be familiar with failure.
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And always be willing to listen to those who are more knowledgeable.
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Final thoughts and any social media you want to plug?
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Usually I'm on the other side of the screen, tuning in and obviously just observing what everyone's opinions are and the stats and things.
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And maybe the feelings have to get left in the feeling box and the logic has to come out sooner or later.
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But that's for my journey, my evolving journey.
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But the last, I just wanted to say something earlier on is that I think men like Dimitri, they build societies and there are other men who, you know, coach soccer teams and build communities within that society.
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And I think everyone in this world truthfully has a role to play and we'll just have to wait and see how it plays out.
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But yeah, you can follow me on Instagram, golden gem underscore.
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But people have different roles to leave and they have to be that image or whatever for whatever role they play.
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And you just got to respect everybody's decision.
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So if I, if I decide to do heroin tomorrow, no, there's, that's not a wrong decision.
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If you want to destroy your body, that's on you.
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But so there is, so there is a wrong and a right decision.
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I mean, why would women want to stay in a relationship when a man keeps on cheating on them?
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I mean, if it's a high percentage of women leaving.
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I know because I've just heard about too many ex-boyfriends that she, it's just like,
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I want women to pick and stop whining about their choices.
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I'm with, no, no, they never, they never, they never whine about their choices to leave.
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It's really common for them to accuse men of abuse with no evidence.
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And it's also, I'm just really tired of them picking men that are obviously going to cheat,
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And then they're going to cry and say they're not happy with the cheating.
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The man could cheat two years, three years down the line, though.
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And he could, but in my experience, most of the time,
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there's at least 10 billion warning signs, and I'm sick of everyone whining.
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Remember, she said she's a good judge of character.
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Definitely more listening for me today, as opposed to getting involved.
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Dimitri, I feel like your experiences and the stories that you shared with us have been very insightful.
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Ever the temptress and the, you know, making people question what they've asked and things like this.
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So it's been very entertaining to watch, for sure.
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I would definitely say that there needs to be more listening and not so much responding.
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And what you're not changing, you are choosing.
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And you can hit me up on the socials, just underscore leesh on Instagram.
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And, yeah, maybe a little bit more involvement from me next time, for sure.
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Do you want to, if you want to do your final thoughts, you can come sit down.
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Well, yeah, it's been really fun listening to different opinions and what people think about the topic we discussed.
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And the thing I want to shout out is, if you want to be a stud, lgfgfashionhouse.com, we're hiring.
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Thank you very much for giving us the opportunity to share our ideas.
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I like very much the way you speak and the way you share your ideas.
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First of all, Pearl, thank you for, I wasn't expecting to be in London today and I messaged your assistant to Lula and she was like, come on.
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Look, like there's some kind of a tenet here that like good decisions and bad decisions don't exist.
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And usually, and the hard part of like being a young person, I'm sure your audience is pretty young, is like navigating life and trying to figure out what's good and what's bad.
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Like that's really hard because, you know, we don't always have good role models.
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But if you're a young, you know, fella or gal, like if you're in that stage where you're choosing a career, if you're choosing the path of your life, if you are looking potentially for mentors.
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And here's why, because you realize that your friends kind of suck.
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Not that they're bad people, but they're just not getting you to where you want to go.
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I think everybody has that realization at some point in their life.
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If that's you right now and you're like, hey, I'm looking for something to positively move my life in a positive direction.
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Yes, we are hiring. We teach young men and women the art and science of sales, which includes a ton of rejection.
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Pearl, you've gone through that and it builds some character, man.
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You know, there's times you hate it, of course, but you can't grow without doing things that you absolutely despise because otherwise you're just sitting on a chair, you know.
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So if you're looking to build that character, you know, LGFG, that's our company, lgfg.com or lgfgfashionhouse.com.
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You can also find us under lgfgfashionhouse on Instagram.
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You've seen our work on Eddie Hall, on Jordan Peterson, on a ton of celebrities on The Rock even.
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So, guys, lgfgfashionhouse.com, if you're interested, we're hiring.
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And you've been, so you've got three suits in your first year and how much is it, what's an average suit that you're wearing cost?
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Yeah, two and a half K and 21-year-old kid wearing a two and a half thousand pound suit in his first year in the company.
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It's not because I'm paying him to plug it, even though I totally will.
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I can talk your ear off and just shit you can avoid when doing a show.
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I've wasted, you know, a million subscribers in a year was a lot of work.
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And I could show you how to not waste as much time as I did.
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Because, let me tell you, there's a lot of places where I went wrong.
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They took away my Instagram, just PearlyThings.
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Guys, I'm so mad they took away my fifth TikTok.
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Yeah, because they just put my old username up for grabs.
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I had Maggie, the substitute teacher, taught me what to cook your husband in a day.
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So, she went through, like, every meal that we would prepare will be a good meal.
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So, we have a really, um, um, sign up to the Google form.
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That should be in the chat for our next meetup.
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We want to take people that were musicians from the show and do, like, a little, like, I don't know, concert.
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Um, and watch out for our penthouse tour next week.
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So, thank you guys for watching, and we will talk to you next time.
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I think they do do it for the men, but it's, like, sexual tension.
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And you do get more attention from men than if you're flat, right?
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But it goes so deeper, though, because I know who you're talking about.
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So, you've got to think about how far down deep that she is within watching the Instagram models,
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That her great body doesn't look good to a man.
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But you think that men have higher standards for women, not that the men have the higher standards they have to live up to, just to clarify.
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So, like, the women have higher beauty standards to me.
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And that's what's making women feel like they need to comply with these standards.
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I think men are very, like, if they've got a certain standard, they're more rigid than women.
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They will not settle down with somebody with a fake old lips, the eyebrows.
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So, I've done an OnlyFans, but it wasn't, like, the giant ass boobs.
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I've done it, and when I finished it, I felt very degraded.
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Now, I know there's girls out there who do that.
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But me, personally, like, in the future, like, when I have kids and all in the future,
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and if my kids found out about that, they'll probably get bullied in school.
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They'll be like, oh, your man done this, your man done that, and your man as well.
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He's not going to, if you don't respect yourself, and you're selling your body online,
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If you're selling your body online, like, there's not, there's not a high respect.
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