JustPearlyThings - She Got ROASTED

00:00:00.140 Name, age, relationship status.

00:00:02.240 My relationship status, it depends on who's asking.

00:00:05.300 Okay, wait, I need to break that down.

00:00:07.940 Why do we like that?

00:00:09.000 So are you, are you like, are you, okay,

00:00:12.120 so are you with someone, like someone you like?

00:00:15.840 No, it literally just depends on who's asking.

00:00:18.220 Speak to them.

00:00:18.800 Well, oh, sorry.

00:00:19.720 Well, I'm just wondering if you have a boyfriend or not.

00:00:22.260 It literally depends on who's asking.

00:00:24.020 Okay, so if an ugly guy asks, you have a boyfriend.

00:00:27.100 If a handsome guy asks, you don't.

00:00:28.980 Exactly.

00:00:30.000 And either one is kind of just like, whatever it is, it is.

00:00:33.660 Okay, do you think that'd be a little confusing for a guy?

00:00:37.440 Yeah, but that doesn't matter.

00:00:38.920 That's up to me.

00:00:39.840 Okay, well, I know it's up to you, but I'm just wondering, like.

00:00:43.380 Yeah.

00:00:43.680 You know, because if a guy, if a guy said, if I said,

00:00:45.700 do you have a girlfriend?

00:00:46.500 And he's like, depends who's asking.

00:00:47.860 I'm like, do you have a girlfriend?

00:00:50.280 No, of course.

00:00:51.280 You're going to get, like, irritated with it,

00:00:53.020 but at the same time, that's my business.

00:00:55.180 And if you're not doing anything to court me

00:00:57.180 to get in that situation, then I don't owe you any explanation.

00:00:59.940 I just wonder why, as women, we have these confusing answers

00:01:03.040 instead of just, like, answering questions directly.

00:01:05.940 Because guys do.

00:01:07.260 All the time.

00:01:07.960 I really don't think that's true.

00:01:09.600 They do.

00:01:10.000 Because I've done hundreds of these shows,

00:01:12.460 and I've never had a guy give me an answer like that.

00:01:16.360 It's either single, taken.

00:01:18.040 Sometimes they might say I'm seeing someone,

00:01:20.360 but, like, it's very, a lot more clear than the women in general.

00:01:23.820 I haven't done hundreds of these shows,

00:01:25.540 but I've done thousands of people approaching me.

00:01:28.000 Okay.

00:01:28.420 And that's the thing.

00:01:29.380 And the men.

00:01:29.980 So what are the answers the men usually give?

00:01:32.200 Like, a man, when they're, like, coming for me,

00:01:34.560 I'm just like, do you have anybody at home?

00:01:36.880 Well, baby, we ain't even talking about that right now.

00:01:39.540 That's actually true.

00:01:40.380 I've heard that before.

00:01:41.260 I actually have.

00:01:43.360 So, yes, they do.

00:01:46.200 Yeah.

00:01:46.840 But it's like, I can't do it, too.

00:01:48.580 So, like, I'm one of those people,

00:01:50.020 if you can do it, I can do it, too.

00:01:51.700 Well, yeah, but then you're trying to be a guy.

00:01:54.240 No, I'm not trying to be a guy.

00:01:55.780 I'm just trying to have an even platform.

00:01:57.580 That's the problem, is a lot of people try to think

00:01:59.620 that, like, I'm trying to be a guy.

00:02:00.860 I'm not.

00:02:01.460 It's just like, if you could do it,

00:02:02.680 why do you think that you can do it

00:02:04.760 just because you're a man,

00:02:06.060 and I can't do it because I'm a female?

00:02:07.740 So my question is, you said that the men need to court you,

00:02:11.380 but they can't court you if you don't give them an answer

00:02:13.360 if you're in a relationship or not.

00:02:15.020 Most of them don't even ask, to be honest.

00:02:16.920 Most of them don't even care.

00:02:17.460 They don't care.

00:02:18.800 They don't.

00:02:19.340 Do you feel like you deal with traditional men?

00:02:22.800 Hell no.

00:02:23.620 Well, okay.

00:02:24.200 There you go.

00:02:24.580 There you go.

00:02:25.300 Yeah, but I'm saying, like,

00:02:26.280 because traditional men will ask.

00:02:28.180 Like, men that are trying to court you,

00:02:29.540 they'll ask.

00:02:29.980 No, and I agree with that,

00:02:31.260 but, like, the traditional people are starting to...

00:02:33.520 Oh, sorry.

00:02:34.200 The traditional men are starting to, like, extinct,

00:02:37.260 if, like, anybody knows.

00:02:39.180 They literally, they don't care about nothing.

00:02:41.100 They're like, okay, you know,

00:02:42.800 like, I'm just trying to date you.

00:02:44.140 Do you want to fuck?

00:02:44.980 And then the next one, once they talk to you...

00:02:46.660 That's not a traditional guy, though.

00:02:47.680 No, no, not traditional.

00:02:48.980 Sorry.

00:02:49.460 I meant the non-traditional guys that, like, approach you

00:02:51.500 or, like, who are you?

00:02:54.220 Would you like to fuck?

00:02:55.600 And after that, can you take care of me?

00:02:57.700 Why do all these guys nowadays want to be taken care of?

00:02:59.900 But it's like, why do you deal with the guys

00:03:01.700 that want to be taken care of?

00:03:02.800 I don't.

00:03:03.240 But then how would you know this?

00:03:04.700 You wouldn't know this information

00:03:06.200 if you didn't deal with them.

00:03:06.380 Because they approach me.

00:03:07.820 Well, but then why are broke guys approaching you?

00:03:10.460 You know what I'm saying?

00:03:11.120 Like, it's like...

00:03:11.680 Broke guys always approach you.

00:03:12.840 They're everywhere, guys.

00:03:14.020 Because I'm fucking...

00:03:15.000 Because I'm hot.

00:03:16.660 I can't stop anybody from, like...

00:03:18.280 But I'm saying, like, traditional guys

00:03:20.380 are going to be turned off by that answer.

00:03:22.480 Because, like, traditional guys

00:03:23.900 don't want to deal with the bullshit.

00:03:25.520 So it's like you're almost, like,

00:03:27.100 adapting for the non-traditional guys.

00:03:29.820 You know what I'm saying?

00:03:30.480 Like, and it's going to turn off

00:03:31.920 someone that's traditional.

00:03:33.260 Because they're like,

00:03:33.900 are you taken?

00:03:34.520 Are you not?

00:03:35.000 This is too confusing.

00:03:36.040 On to the next.

00:03:36.780 I 100% agree with you.

00:03:38.240 But what I do is I read the room.

00:03:39.920 Just the same way as I'm a VIP host out here.

00:03:42.220 I know the kind of people

00:03:43.400 that I can proposition

00:03:44.480 of buying bottle service at the club

00:03:46.300 because they can afford it.

00:03:47.480 I can tell by your shoes,

00:03:48.720 by your watch, by your shoes,

00:03:50.500 who I can approach

00:03:51.480 about buying bottle service at a club.

00:03:53.540 The same way that I can, like,

00:03:54.900 show who I'm going to do that answer to.

00:03:56.820 Somebody who is, like,

00:03:57.860 not worth my time

00:03:58.860 is who gets that answer.

00:04:00.180 But somebody who's traditional

00:04:01.600 probably worth my time

00:04:02.940 but will never get that kind of answer.

00:04:03.880 Well, you know,

00:04:04.420 but you realize, like, traditional...

00:04:06.340 Like, I have 1.7 million subscribers

00:04:08.400 and a lot of the guys that watch

00:04:09.740 are in a more traditional mindset.

00:04:11.760 So it's like, by giving this answer,

00:04:13.640 you're basically telling them

00:04:14.660 you're not a traditional woman

00:04:15.820 because traditional women

00:04:16.760 don't answer like that.

00:04:17.920 Which is fine.

00:04:18.600 It doesn't mean, like, bad person.

00:04:19.920 But I'm saying, like,

00:04:20.780 if you want to attract traditional men,

00:04:22.980 I just think they're going to be confused.

00:04:24.980 That's also kind of your opinion

00:04:26.200 of the traditional guys.

00:04:27.360 Like, the guys that, like,

00:04:28.200 are, like, into you,

00:04:29.700 you don't really know.

00:04:30.960 No, actually, the objective truth is

00:04:32.780 most of the guys that are traditional

00:04:33.940 and high-value men,

00:04:35.220 we look for a certain thing

00:04:37.020 or a status in a woman.

00:04:38.660 So if we're talking to a gal

00:04:40.180 and it's like they give us

00:04:41.140 this vague answer,

00:04:42.040 it's like, okay,

00:04:42.500 is she seeing somebody or not?

00:04:43.880 She won't give me an answer.

00:04:44.880 And then it's like,

00:04:45.500 do I want to deal with it, right?

00:04:46.500 Well, yeah, and then I think

00:04:47.540 they just think you're fucking.

00:04:49.280 Yeah, I would.

00:04:50.380 No pun intended,

00:04:51.380 but if a girl says that,

00:04:52.460 it's like, wait,

00:04:53.640 it depends on who's asking.

00:04:54.680 It's like, okay,

00:04:55.520 are you a man or a woman?

00:04:57.340 Well, it depends on who's asking.

00:04:58.460 It's like, okay,

00:04:59.440 I'm just trying to talk to you.

00:05:00.960 It's difficult.

00:05:01.840 Never mind, right?

00:05:02.560 But I hear what you're saying,

00:05:03.800 but I think that

00:05:04.440 when you have that many subscribers,

00:05:06.400 you deal with guys like that

00:05:07.420 that deal with women.

00:05:09.160 I mean,

00:05:09.400 some guys don't have to deal with it,

00:05:11.100 some don't, you know?

00:05:12.200 And I know you're bottle service.

00:05:13.480 I get that.

00:05:14.140 No, no, no,

00:05:14.640 but I'm VIP.

00:05:16.080 I don't do bottle service.

00:05:17.580 I'm not the girl.

00:05:18.260 Where are you VIP at?

00:05:21.500 I was.

00:05:22.440 Independent host.

00:05:23.060 Yeah, I'm independent now,

00:05:24.300 but I used to be at One Oak exclusively.

00:05:27.280 Okay.

00:05:27.660 But then I decided that it's like a lot easier

00:05:29.540 to ask my clients,

00:05:30.920 where would you like to go?

00:05:31.760 Right.

00:05:31.980 As opposed to being like,

00:05:33.060 can you please come here?

00:05:33.920 I know you don't want to come here,

00:05:35.580 but can you come here for just me?

00:05:37.440 No, that makes sense.

00:05:38.340 And like, honestly,

00:05:39.320 if you know anybody who's like a VIP host,

00:05:41.940 we're trained to like really read people.

00:05:44.340 Sure.

00:05:45.020 And that's how I am.

00:05:46.200 So like when I'm saying those kind of responses,

00:05:48.640 I'm saying that to the people I know are jokes.

00:05:51.140 I don't say that to people of what?

00:05:52.760 Like, of my value.

00:05:53.040 Well, I asked.

00:05:54.880 No.

00:05:55.720 You're a joke, girl.

00:05:57.240 But I mean, girl, I'm not gay.

00:05:59.500 I'm not going to fuck you.

00:06:00.300 No shade.

00:06:00.940 Right.

00:06:01.360 But what I'm saying,

00:06:02.960 it's just,

00:06:03.460 I think it's confusing to guys.

00:06:05.480 It's my only point.

00:06:06.580 I used to actually think Myron was a dick.

00:06:08.660 I really did.

00:06:09.380 And I feel bad

00:06:10.640 because then I actually got into his shoes

00:06:12.840 and I interviewed women

00:06:13.900 and I did all these shows

00:06:15.120 and it's so crazy

00:06:16.900 because you don't see usually

00:06:18.400 the level of disrespect they'll do first

00:06:20.660 and over-talking someone on their own show

00:06:23.380 and feeling like they own the room.

00:06:25.060 And then it's like,

00:06:25.560 by the time you kick them out,

00:06:27.180 it's like they've over-talked you 10 times.

00:06:29.320 Have you,

00:06:29.680 you've kicked women off your show?

00:06:31.420 Yeah.

00:06:32.020 Not,

00:06:32.300 I'm not as quick as Myron.

00:06:34.260 No, you're like,

00:06:34.860 yeah, I've seen it.

00:06:35.920 Yeah, but it's like usually,

00:06:37.300 like a lot of times they'll play the victim

00:06:38.840 and be like,

00:06:39.420 I saw the one that you did

00:06:40.900 with Andrew Tate and Auntie

00:06:42.020 and you know what I'm talking about?

00:06:45.200 Unpatience.

00:06:45.800 Brittany.

00:06:46.260 Oh my God.

00:06:47.020 That was,

00:06:47.420 that was a hard one to watch

00:06:49.160 with the African girl,

00:06:51.020 like the younger one,

00:06:51.880 not Auntie.

00:06:52.380 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:06:53.180 Yeah, she was.

00:06:54.580 Crazy.

00:06:55.560 Yeah, she was giving it a lot.

00:06:56.520 It was crazy.

00:06:56.980 After that,

00:06:57.620 she was like,

00:06:58.220 Pearl's so racist.

00:06:59.560 I'm like,

00:06:59.820 bitch,

00:07:00.000 you've been on my show three times.

00:07:01.200 It was like,

00:07:01.840 everybody on my show was of color.

00:07:05.720 I know.

00:07:07.560 But it was like,

00:07:08.900 but it's like,

00:07:09.900 a lot of times when women get kicked off,

00:07:11.820 they just like play the victim

00:07:12.940 when it's like,

00:07:13.820 they usually have like 10 different warnings

00:07:16.140 and then they get kicked off.

00:07:17.440 She was really disrespectful.

00:07:18.540 I watched that thing.

00:07:19.580 I was actually surprised.

00:07:20.560 To be fair with Myron's shit,

00:07:22.240 he was talking over like the whole goddamn time

00:07:25.280 and then he just wanted like to be able

00:07:26.680 to pick on other people

00:07:27.840 and he didn't like that shit.

00:07:29.460 I agree.

00:07:29.760 So like,

00:07:30.800 honestly,

00:07:31.780 like with you guys,

00:07:32.940 y'all completely disagree with my opinion,

00:07:35.480 but I never felt offended one bit.

00:07:37.720 I felt like you're entitled to your opinions

00:07:39.600 and I respected the hell out of it.

00:07:41.340 But the way that he comes at people.

00:07:43.740 Well,

00:07:44.260 and I'll tell you,

00:07:45.000 I'll tell you what's happened though.

00:07:46.260 I think women,

00:07:46.880 we've never really had people talk to us

00:07:49.160 in a more masculine way

00:07:50.380 because women just police men's speech.

00:07:53.640 And like when we say,

00:07:54.680 it's how you say it,

00:07:55.720 that's saying,

00:07:56.380 say it in a more feminine way.

00:07:58.060 Have you ever been in a locker room with guys

00:08:00.080 or like in an all male space?

00:08:01.400 Wait,

00:08:01.420 wait,

00:08:01.580 wait.

00:08:01.880 Have you ever been in a locker room with guys?

00:08:03.280 I'm not a locker room.

00:08:03.860 Whoa.

00:08:05.100 She's like,

00:08:05.640 she's over here.

00:08:06.300 I've been in a tens of a lot.

00:08:08.820 But like,

00:08:09.500 I mean,

00:08:10.780 there's a reason we have phrases

00:08:14.120 like locker room talk,

00:08:15.380 right?

00:08:16.200 Because men roast the hell out of each other.

00:08:19.380 Like they are,

00:08:19.860 they are so rude to each other.

00:08:20.820 Well,

00:08:20.920 if you're black,

00:08:21.700 you understand that.

00:08:22.440 Cause you know,

00:08:22.960 yeah.

00:08:23.360 Cause it's,

00:08:24.000 it's every day.

00:08:24.760 That's how you say it.

00:08:27.700 People are always correcting my tone.

00:08:29.560 Right.

00:08:29.840 All the time.

00:08:30.520 Right.

00:08:30.620 Is that women correcting your tone or men?

00:08:33.480 Both.

00:08:34.940 It's,

00:08:35.300 it's much more.

00:08:36.180 When a man does that,

00:08:37.280 how does that make you feel?

00:08:38.580 It makes me feel like he's a pussy.

00:08:39.800 Yeah.

00:08:42.780 Right.

00:08:43.180 Because it's a more feminine way of talking.

00:08:45.080 Right.

00:08:45.360 So I think with Myron and I had this gut reaction to him at first too,

00:08:49.600 but the thing is with him,

00:08:50.640 it's like,

00:08:51.040 he's just speaking in a very masculine direct way.

00:08:54.140 And most women have never had guys talk to us.

00:08:56.800 I don't think it's a direct.

00:08:57.620 I don't think he's ever had the shit smacked out of him.

00:09:00.000 I don't think it's a direct.

00:09:01.120 He was a federal agent.

00:09:02.980 Yeah.

00:09:03.800 A federal agent.

00:09:05.280 You think he's scared of some bitches?

00:09:07.140 No,

00:09:07.700 no,

00:09:08.080 I'm saying like,

00:09:09.020 you're like,

00:09:09.900 he never really got like somebody who really fucking stood there.

00:09:12.580 You got damn ground.

00:09:13.420 As a federal agent.

00:09:14.460 It doesn't matter if you're,

00:09:15.500 you could be a fucking president or you can be like a government official.

00:09:19.600 And when you get somebody that you really respect,

00:09:21.940 that fucking tells you some shit,

00:09:23.880 then it like,

00:09:24.840 I saw him have someone like come to his door and like threaten.

00:09:28.740 Oh yeah.

00:09:29.160 Yeah.

00:09:29.440 I saw that.

00:09:30.340 I saw that.

00:09:30.980 Yeah.

00:09:31.160 I don't,

00:09:31.760 I don't.

00:09:31.960 He stood his ground.

00:09:33.140 He stood his ground.

00:09:34.080 Yeah.

00:09:34.620 I don't think it's like the directness of him.

00:09:36.860 What was that?

00:09:37.320 I don't think it's like the directness of like how he is.

00:09:39.540 Cause I think being direct is how he has to be.

00:09:42.300 Cause unfortunately,

00:09:43.320 especially with a room of women,

00:09:44.460 they start to over talk everybody.

00:09:46.020 You have to command the room and like calm it down.

00:09:48.200 I think sometimes what it is,

00:09:50.320 is the,

00:09:51.240 the,

00:09:51.620 what words you choose to use.

00:09:52.940 So like,

00:09:53.580 I've heard him called girls bitches and it came out of nowhere and it's like,

00:09:57.220 whoa,

00:09:57.500 like,

00:09:57.680 usually they're being a bitch.

00:09:59.700 So I think that's,

00:10:00.740 I think that's what it is.

00:10:01.700 So it's just like,

00:10:02.780 like,

00:10:02.980 let's say you're talking to somebody because we're not used to turn the mic up because we're

00:10:09.360 not used to like the,

00:10:10.580 like you said,

00:10:11.000 like people telling us what to do and holding ourselves accountable.

00:10:13.180 We always want you to be like,

00:10:16.240 well,

00:10:16.380 what you did wasn't okay.

00:10:18.740 And,

00:10:18.940 and,

00:10:19.220 and it's,

00:10:19.840 that's usually what it is.

00:10:21.020 And so when we hear somebody go say this,

00:10:22.940 they're like,

00:10:23.440 what do we want to,

00:10:24.240 we want to man up?

00:10:25.040 Like,

00:10:25.260 what the fuck did you say to me?

00:10:26.460 Yeah.

00:10:26.800 Like you're not going to talk to me like that.

00:10:28.720 Right.

00:10:29.200 So,

00:10:29.860 yeah.

00:10:30.240 But,

00:10:30.580 and like,

00:10:30.840 that's kind of what I've conditioned myself to.

00:10:32.760 Like when I hear guys speak in a very direct way,

00:10:35.320 I have to ask myself first,

00:10:36.740 is it true?

00:10:37.500 Yeah.

00:10:37.780 So it's like,

00:10:38.140 was she being a bitch?

00:10:39.340 Probably.

00:10:39.940 Like all the girls I've seen him kick off,

00:10:41.940 over talked him at least like four or five.

00:10:44.080 And there's an element of alcohol involved.

00:10:46.260 A lot of them were drinking before.

00:10:47.500 I'm like,

00:10:47.660 this girl is.

00:10:49.880 Yes.

00:10:50.680 So I have a question guys.

00:10:52.720 Do you think,

00:10:53.940 who do you think smarter men or women?

00:10:56.260 Women.

00:10:56.800 Women.

00:10:58.060 Then why are so many of us on OnlyFans?

00:11:01.400 Why are so many men on OnlyFans?

00:11:03.180 I know more dicks.

00:11:04.200 I know more guys slinging dick on OnlyFans than women.

00:11:08.300 I swear to God.

00:11:08.660 Who's the female Elon Musk,

00:11:10.520 Bill Gates?

00:11:11.180 Where are they?

00:11:12.340 If we're so smart.

00:11:17.280 Hold on,

00:11:17.920 hold on,

00:11:18.760 hold on,

00:11:19.080 hold on.

00:11:19.640 Hold on.

00:11:20.300 I have an answer to that.

00:11:21.940 Okay.

00:11:23.160 We don't give,

00:11:24.120 we don't,

00:11:24.580 we're not given the chance,

00:11:25.800 the same opportunities.

00:11:26.960 Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:11:28.020 I mean,

00:11:28.480 you could say that all you want,

00:11:29.820 but that's just the fact,

00:11:30.900 and this is all women right here.

00:11:32.520 Mine,

00:11:33.080 I don't consider you the same.

00:11:34.160 I've been given plenty of opportunities.

00:11:35.280 Okay, so I've been in the,

00:11:37.660 I've been in the employment recruiting space for 28 years.

00:11:40.940 Women have a higher advantage getting a job over a man.

00:11:44.680 More black women have degrees than black men.

00:11:47.780 The first millionaire woman in America was black,

00:11:51.360 right?

00:11:52.440 Self-made.

00:11:53.000 Women have more of advantages than men to be successful.

00:11:56.220 Right.

00:11:56.560 So I don't know where,

00:11:58.040 and going back to OnlyFans,

00:11:59.520 92% of the people on OnlyFans are women,

00:12:01.700 not men.

00:12:02.380 Yeah.

00:12:03.080 That's because we know who's paying.

00:12:04.720 Exactly.

00:12:05.780 But OnlyFans doesn't have to be just nudity.

00:12:08.460 You can take advantage of this perspective.

00:12:10.280 I agree.

00:12:10.880 I agree.

00:12:11.380 Because initially,

00:12:12.040 that's what it was before.

00:12:12.680 I mean,

00:12:12.940 you could,

00:12:13.400 but we don't.

00:12:14.340 Like,

00:12:14.500 come on.

00:12:15.680 I mean,

00:12:16.140 initially when it came out.

00:12:17.100 I didn't have to get nude.

00:12:17.920 I didn't have to sleep with it.

00:12:18.800 What'd you do on OnlyFans?

00:12:20.740 I took cute pictures.

00:12:21.860 Of her feet.

00:12:23.440 I did that as well.

00:12:24.960 Okay,

00:12:25.180 so you were,

00:12:26.560 but you're still selling sex.

00:12:28.460 You might,

00:12:28.720 you might not have taken off your clothes,

00:12:30.040 but they're not,

00:12:30.540 they're not looking at the OnlyFans to be your friend.

00:12:33.200 Well,

00:12:33.560 they're looking for something exclusive.

00:12:35.600 That's what OnlyFans is for,

00:12:36.740 is for exclusive content.

00:12:37.920 So if I don't post on my Instagram

00:12:39.380 or my Facebook pictures and swimsuits,

00:12:41.740 cute short dresses or whatever,

00:12:43.000 that is still selling sex,

00:12:44.300 but it's from a different perspective.

00:12:45.840 Well,

00:12:46.020 yeah,

00:12:46.180 but I'm saying you're still selling beauty.

00:12:47.780 And I'm saying if we're so smart,

00:12:49.200 why don't we sell brains?

00:12:50.800 You can do that.

00:12:52.540 We can,

00:12:53.300 but we don't.

00:12:54.960 A guy can't sell beauty

00:12:56.600 because they're usually not beautiful.

00:12:58.780 Why don't they sell them more beauty?

00:12:59.920 I just think that like women are not going to pay for it.

00:13:03.460 Like,

00:13:03.720 and like on OnlyFans,

00:13:05.400 when a man actually has an OnlyFans account,

00:13:07.620 more gay men are actually purchasing their content

00:13:10.580 than it is women

00:13:12.040 because we're,

00:13:12.920 we're not going to pay for it.

00:13:13.840 Yeah.

00:13:14.000 No.

00:13:14.420 Yeah.

00:13:14.580 But I'm saying like,

00:13:15.240 if we're just these smart people,

00:13:16.880 it's like,

00:13:17.280 we could go into physics,

00:13:19.020 we could go into engineering.

00:13:20.860 Smarter,

00:13:21.080 not harder.

00:13:21.880 If you know,

00:13:22.380 you can just take cute pictures,

00:13:23.660 then make thousands of dollars a day.

00:13:25.340 I think you're right.

00:13:26.700 Women love the easy,

00:13:27.760 women love the easy way,

00:13:29.320 not the hard way.

00:13:30.380 And we just get naked

00:13:31.760 instead of doing the hard thing.

00:13:33.440 And men don't have the opportunity to do that.

00:13:36.060 That's why they have to work hard

00:13:37.720 because nobody's going to pay them

00:13:39.260 to just be beautiful.

00:13:39.920 Which,

00:13:39.940 correct,

00:13:40.600 correct.

00:13:40.800 And that's why I think men are smarter than us

00:13:42.860 because they have to do,

00:13:44.040 I think when you have to do harder things,

00:13:45.880 you become smarter.

00:13:47.900 You know,

00:13:48.480 like if,

00:13:48.900 if you,

00:13:49.380 if you have to study for a test

00:13:51.240 and then you have to take the test,

00:13:52.420 you become smarter after the test.

00:13:54.200 isn't it really true that the person

00:13:55.460 who didn't have to study

00:13:56.720 and still got an A

00:13:57.740 is smarter than the one

00:13:59.220 who had to bust their balls to get in?

00:14:00.300 And that would be great

00:14:01.200 if we were getting,

00:14:01.840 if we were getting A's,

00:14:03.020 I would agree with you.

00:14:03.460 I breeze through school.

00:14:04.480 But it's so,

00:14:05.140 but it's so funny.

00:14:06.300 It's so funny

00:14:07.020 because we actually aren't doing,

00:14:09.280 even though we have an advantage

00:14:10.500 because we can sell beauty,

00:14:12.260 it's so funny.

00:14:13.180 We make like 500 a month

00:14:14.600 on OnlyFans on average.

00:14:15.760 We can't even sell sex.

00:14:17.260 The women that make the most money

00:14:18.860 on OnlyFans

00:14:19.600 are managed by men.

00:14:21.440 If we were so smart,

00:14:23.080 why can't even,

00:14:23.800 why can't we sell

00:14:25.160 our own bodies better than men?

00:14:27.760 They're making AI bots.

00:14:30.020 AI bots.

00:14:31.440 They have AI bots.

00:14:32.480 And so it's like,

00:14:33.600 if we were really so smart,

00:14:35.500 why can't we figure out

00:14:36.440 how to do it?

00:14:37.000 Go ahead.

00:14:37.260 I happen to know

00:14:39.320 a lot of the people

00:14:40.140 that work for managing

00:14:41.300 OF people,

00:14:42.340 they're gay guys.

00:14:43.600 Gay guys are nasty.

00:14:45.180 They know how to fucking talk.

00:14:46.400 They know exactly

00:14:47.120 what people want to hear.

00:14:47.860 But they're men.

00:14:48.500 And I promise you,

00:14:50.560 the people that you're talking to

00:14:52.680 are gay men.

00:14:54.400 They're still men.

00:14:55.120 Right,

00:14:55.360 but they're still men.

00:14:56.240 But gay men

00:14:59.800 have the feminine side.

00:15:01.000 They're tapped into

00:15:01.640 their feminine energy.

00:15:02.620 It doesn't matter.

00:15:03.620 They're still men.

00:15:05.100 No,

00:15:05.420 they're still,

00:15:05.800 they're tapped into

00:15:06.960 their feminine energy.

00:15:07.800 They're not full on men.

00:15:08.840 It's not like

00:15:09.560 straight ass men

00:15:10.320 that are managing

00:15:10.880 and they're responding.

00:15:12.040 Most of them aren't.

00:15:12.880 But they're still men.

00:15:14.820 Like,

00:15:14.940 why can't the women

00:15:15.980 figure it out?

00:15:17.200 No,

00:15:17.560 they just don't want to.

00:15:18.300 They don't want to talk like that.

00:15:19.860 I feel like men are filthy

00:15:21.060 and they're kind of disgusting.

00:15:23.120 So they know what the disgusting

00:15:24.100 shit that makes money.

00:15:25.260 Being able to relate

00:15:26.100 to your audience.

00:15:26.820 Of course,

00:15:27.220 if men are the ones

00:15:28.220 in the market

00:15:28.800 buying and stuff,

00:15:30.240 then of course,

00:15:30.660 a guy's going to know

00:15:31.260 what to say

00:15:31.880 and how to market it

00:15:33.280 and what kind of pictures

00:15:34.200 they want.

00:15:34.920 Shouldn't we know,

00:15:35.800 since we've been like

00:15:36.660 dating men our whole lives,

00:15:38.100 shouldn't we know,

00:15:39.060 shouldn't we know

00:15:39.780 what to say to men?

00:15:41.740 Like,

00:15:42.100 we're the ones dating us.

00:15:43.200 I think our emotions

00:15:44.000 kind of get in the way of that.

00:15:45.420 Sometimes it's our hormone levels,

00:15:47.080 everything.

00:15:47.920 I mean,

00:15:48.480 they even said women

00:15:49.320 that are on birth control,

00:15:50.700 their hormone levels

00:15:52.020 are just crazy.

00:15:53.800 You're more neurotic.

00:15:55.120 You are almost like

00:15:57.500 not yourself.

00:15:58.340 And also that goes

00:15:59.300 to the workforce.

00:16:00.640 When they say,

00:16:01.260 oh,

00:16:01.440 women and men

00:16:02.060 are not paid equally.

00:16:03.520 Well,

00:16:03.840 we have less time

00:16:04.780 in the workforce

00:16:05.240 because we have more time off.

00:16:06.900 We have to get pregnant.

00:16:08.320 We have periods.

00:16:09.500 Sometimes people have to

00:16:10.480 go home and stay home

00:16:12.040 because their periods

00:16:12.660 are so intense.

00:16:14.240 So it almost,

00:16:15.860 and men are smarter,

00:16:16.900 I think.

00:16:17.360 Hold on,

00:16:17.600 don't forget bathroom.

00:16:19.320 They love to like,

00:16:21.000 they actually mentioned

00:16:22.140 that on that,

00:16:22.800 that one movie

00:16:24.100 about like the women

00:16:24.980 who are like,

00:16:25.560 you know,

00:16:25.920 doing the stuff in space,

00:16:27.120 how like she had to take time

00:16:28.540 to go to a certain bathroom

00:16:30.100 and how long it takes us

00:16:31.360 to go to the bathroom

00:16:32.080 as opposed to men.

00:16:33.180 All that stuff

00:16:34.040 is factored as well.

00:16:36.220 That we have to go

00:16:37.420 to the bathroom

00:16:38.060 for a long time,

00:16:39.140 that's holding us back.

00:16:40.480 Yeah,

00:16:40.660 longer than men.

00:16:41.680 They factor all that.

00:16:42.940 In 2023,

00:16:44.680 okay,

00:16:45.500 if I got a job

00:16:46.260 at this podcast studio,

00:16:47.500 I think they'd hire me.

00:16:48.660 I really do.

00:16:49.380 I think they would.

00:16:50.140 Yeah,

00:16:50.540 and I'd have to walk

00:16:51.880 to the bathroom there.

00:16:53.060 That's going to hold me back.

00:16:54.460 Like as women,

00:16:55.200 we just come up

00:16:55.740 with excuses.

00:16:57.200 It's like excuse,

00:16:58.400 excuse,

00:16:58.980 excuse.

00:17:00.120 Where men,

00:17:00.960 it's like you'll have a guy

00:17:02.060 in horrible working conditions,

00:17:04.360 like on oil rigs,

00:17:06.200 paving the pavements.

00:17:07.240 They don't complain.

00:17:08.340 They give hands or pay.

00:17:09.340 Yeah,

00:17:09.700 yeah,

00:17:09.940 and we're in the office

00:17:12.020 like in these nice,

00:17:12.980 cushy jobs

00:17:13.640 and we still find something

00:17:14.740 to whine about.

00:17:15.640 Hey,

00:17:15.880 I had a question.

00:17:16.640 How many men do you,

00:17:17.560 what you do,

00:17:18.720 you go down 1,000 feet underground

00:17:20.040 and you see aliens

00:17:21.380 and stuff like that?

00:17:23.420 They do experiments,

00:17:24.500 but it's no aliens.

00:17:26.260 Nuclear stuff too?

00:17:27.360 Yeah,

00:17:27.620 like that.

00:17:27.980 How many,

00:17:28.580 what's the,

00:17:29.100 what's the women to men ratio there?

00:17:30.900 Are you like the only woman down there?

00:17:32.220 I am probably one of like four

00:17:36.020 and there's more scientist women there,

00:17:38.000 but there's,

00:17:38.980 but with the laborers,

00:17:39.580 I'm talking about the laborers.

00:17:40.500 The laborers,

00:17:41.060 it's like,

00:17:41.420 it's probably like 99% men.

00:17:43.980 There you go.

00:17:44.900 Yeah.

00:17:45.540 Yeah.

00:17:45.820 No,

00:17:45.980 but it's true.

00:17:46.420 They,

00:17:46.600 so they did this like,

00:17:47.560 they did this like study,

00:17:48.580 like a walking on the street study

00:17:49.920 where they asked men and women,

00:17:51.860 would you rather,

00:17:53.560 okay,

00:17:53.740 so it was like,

00:17:54.280 would you rather work a high profile job

00:17:56.200 that pays nothing

00:17:57.040 or would you rather work in the sewer

00:17:59.040 that pays a hundred thousand dollars a year?

00:18:01.300 Most women chose a high profile job

00:18:03.080 that pays nothing.

00:18:04.040 And the men,

00:18:04.860 most of the men were like,

00:18:05.600 well,

00:18:05.680 no,

00:18:05.920 I want the money.

00:18:06.620 So I'm going to work in the sewers.

00:18:08.020 So it's like,

00:18:08.680 it goes to show you that like most women

00:18:10.060 just kind of want like to say

00:18:12.300 that we have this great job,

00:18:15.480 this kind of crazy thing,

00:18:16.740 but we don't want to do like the dirty,

00:18:18.900 gritty thing to actually make the money.

00:18:20.340 I did a dirty job.

00:18:21.180 That's how I got my position.

00:18:22.580 Yeah.

00:18:22.940 I mean,

00:18:23.320 I do too.

00:18:23.840 I do.

00:18:24.400 I get it.

00:18:25.100 But as a group.

00:18:26.560 You're an outlier.

00:18:27.480 So I have a question,

00:18:28.680 guys.

00:18:29.060 All right.

00:18:29.300 If you had to go,

00:18:31.300 like,

00:18:31.720 go down a standard deviation IQ,

00:18:35.220 but you get a perfect body

00:18:37.300 for the rest of your life.

00:18:39.460 Would you do it?

00:18:41.660 Ooh,

00:18:42.140 that's like whatever your dream,

00:18:44.120 like whatever your dream body is,

00:18:46.100 you get it like frozen in time

00:18:47.940 the rest of your life.

00:18:49.100 If I did an IQ thing,

00:18:50.760 I 100% would do it.

00:18:52.080 I'm a smart ass bitch.

00:18:53.140 No,

00:18:53.300 you would have to go down.

00:18:54.200 You're dumber now.

00:18:54.960 Oh,

00:18:55.200 fuck.

00:18:55.620 No,

00:18:55.860 fuck that body.

00:18:56.780 Oh,

00:18:56.980 okay.

00:18:57.260 So you'd keep the IQ.

00:18:58.580 What would you do?

00:18:59.780 Um,

00:19:01.200 I want somebody else to go next.

00:19:03.020 No,

00:19:03.420 no,

00:19:03.520 no,

00:19:03.640 come on.

00:19:03.900 It's all right.

00:19:04.440 Be honest.

00:19:05.260 You know what?

00:19:05.740 To be honest,

00:19:07.040 I know what it's like to have brains

00:19:08.480 because I have it now.

00:19:10.280 So I'm going to already have,

00:19:12.220 I'm going to go with the brains.

00:19:13.560 Okay.

00:19:13.820 You'll keep the brains.

00:19:14.920 What about you?

00:19:15.500 You know,

00:19:15.840 I think I'd keep the brains too

00:19:17.460 because hopefully I'm smart enough

00:19:19.020 to make enough money

00:19:20.300 to buy my body.

00:19:21.760 That part.

00:19:22.960 That part.

00:19:23.500 Good point.

00:19:24.100 Okay.

00:19:24.640 What about you?

00:19:26.040 Um,

00:19:28.240 so if,

00:19:28.940 so even after,

00:19:29.700 I was like,

00:19:30.280 I like my body.

00:19:31.120 Even,

00:19:31.360 even when you have a kid,

00:19:33.100 you just,

00:19:33.600 you,

00:19:33.780 the kid comes out

00:19:34.660 and it's right back.

00:19:35.860 It just goes right back.

00:19:36.560 Right back.

00:19:37.200 You don't have to work out

00:19:37.920 or anything.

00:19:38.860 Okay.

00:19:39.740 Okay.

00:19:40.080 So because you gave me that,

00:19:41.900 I have a kid.

00:19:42.320 I must be married.

00:19:43.260 So I don't care to have my brain.

00:19:44.880 So I guess I'll go down

00:19:45.660 and keep my body looking good.

00:19:47.780 Right.

00:19:48.100 Then you get a smarter guy.

00:19:49.760 You know what I mean?

00:19:50.420 I'm like,

00:19:50.840 I'm okay.

00:19:51.200 A smart guy doesn't need

00:19:52.200 a smart lady.

00:19:53.120 He's smart.

00:19:53.980 You know,

00:19:54.560 I'll do the body.

00:19:56.020 That's fine.

00:19:56.560 I am so annoyed

00:19:57.880 by stupid people.

00:19:59.020 I would never want

00:19:59.620 to be one of them.

00:20:00.560 I need to be able

00:20:01.260 to carry a conversation.

00:20:02.520 But it doesn't mean

00:20:02.920 you're stupid.

00:20:03.560 Just go down a little bit.

00:20:05.180 Right?

00:20:06.000 Yeah.

00:20:06.380 Yeah.

00:20:06.500 I mean,

00:20:06.700 you go down like,

00:20:07.740 like a couple IQ points,

00:20:09.260 but you get this perfect body.

00:20:10.940 Oh,

00:20:11.140 so you didn't say that

00:20:11.860 at the beginning.

00:20:12.400 You didn't say it specifically.

00:20:21.220 So I need the right angle

00:20:22.180 of the altitude

00:20:23.000 of the percentage.

00:20:24.980 Considering the fact

00:20:25.660 that I'm already

00:20:26.480 really fucking smart,

00:20:28.200 I could drop a little point.

00:20:29.360 Yeah.

00:20:30.040 Right.

00:20:31.080 No, get it.

00:20:31.900 Just do it.

00:20:33.140 I'm changing my answer.

00:20:34.420 I'm really smarter

00:20:35.320 than the majority of you.

00:20:36.320 I'm going to get smarter.

00:20:37.040 Think about it.

00:20:37.720 Think about it.

00:20:38.440 What percent of,

00:20:39.240 like,

00:20:39.480 60-year-old ladies

00:20:40.740 really have perfect bodies?

00:20:42.060 Like,

00:20:42.340 you'd be like the hottest

00:20:43.340 60-year-old,

00:20:44.840 70-year-old.

00:20:45.820 I feel like right now

00:20:46.680 I'm like at the top

00:20:47.600 of the cream of the crop.

00:20:48.560 So if I was to drop a few,

00:20:49.960 I'd still be at the bottom

00:20:50.960 layer of cream.

00:20:51.960 Yeah.

00:20:52.460 You're so good.

00:20:53.780 You're not like a dummy.

00:20:54.460 You'll be an average bear.

00:20:56.280 Or I'm just fine as fuck.

00:20:57.120 I wouldn't be a dummy

00:20:58.160 for a body,

00:20:58.860 but like,

00:20:59.240 I can drop a couple.

00:21:00.100 Yeah.

00:21:00.680 Like,

00:21:00.980 we'll give some off.

00:21:01.980 I'd be like a B-plus student

00:21:03.680 as opposed to me.

00:21:04.560 Like,

00:21:04.860 I've seen her do

00:21:05.840 an amazing little thing

00:21:07.220 with like losing weight

00:21:08.520 and like,

00:21:09.100 you could do it on your own,

00:21:10.180 girl.

00:21:10.240 But don't leave me.

00:21:10.920 Keep that brain.

00:21:11.460 You can't.

00:21:11.620 60.

00:21:12.380 Not the boobs.

00:21:13.960 Like,

00:21:14.160 you can't get big boobs

00:21:15.300 out of nothing.

00:21:16.160 No body.

00:21:16.980 What?

00:21:17.480 I said body.

00:21:18.360 No,

00:21:18.640 I know.

00:21:19.280 When I lost all that weight,

00:21:20.460 my tits also work right as fuck.

00:21:21.260 But she's saying

00:21:21.760 you can do it on your own.

00:21:22.860 I'm saying unless you want

00:21:23.680 to put like a foreign object

00:21:24.980 in your body,

00:21:26.060 which,

00:21:26.360 you know.

00:21:27.560 We're talking about magic here.

00:21:28.800 Oh,

00:21:29.100 I got foreign objects

00:21:30.080 in my body.

00:21:30.860 Do you ever wonder,

00:21:31.880 like,

00:21:32.060 how does that work

00:21:32.640 with like kids?

00:21:33.880 You know,

00:21:34.240 like breastfeeding?

00:21:35.260 Like,

00:21:35.420 it doesn't that.

00:21:36.020 It's so fun.

00:21:36.640 You can still breastfeed.

00:21:38.800 Isn't that like the plastic?

00:21:40.380 Because this is just how I think.

00:21:41.580 Like,

00:21:41.820 doesn't the plastic

00:21:42.700 or whatever's in it

00:21:43.840 just go over it

00:21:45.260 and like,

00:21:45.880 then the kids like drinking

00:21:47.180 like whatever the hell

00:21:48.940 is in the implant.

00:21:49.480 It's like coming directly

00:21:50.440 out of the implant.

00:21:51.360 I just can't imagine

00:21:52.420 the implants like

00:21:53.520 are good for you.

00:21:55.320 No,

00:21:55.580 they've actually come a long way.

00:21:57.280 So I have like,

00:21:58.040 I have gummies.

00:21:59.060 So it's like,

00:21:59.900 if it pops,

00:22:00.900 it doesn't leach.

00:22:02.140 But then it's like

00:22:02.760 every 20 years

00:22:03.740 all the women come forward

00:22:04.980 and they're like,

00:22:05.480 oh fuck,

00:22:05.980 I have all these.

00:22:06.280 I think that was the old

00:22:07.240 silicone days, right?

00:22:08.440 Yeah.

00:22:08.840 But they just invent

00:22:11.200 something new

00:22:11.880 and then 20 years later

00:22:13.020 chicks have the same problem.

00:22:14.440 It's going to be cyborgs

00:22:15.520 and AI robots.

00:22:16.840 They're going to be robots.

00:22:18.480 Okay,

00:22:18.920 what about you?

00:22:19.580 Perfect body,

00:22:20.420 but you got to be dumber.

00:22:21.920 I'm definitely taking brains

00:22:23.280 immediately

00:22:23.840 because I'm always at work

00:22:25.080 like,

00:22:25.380 damn,

00:22:25.620 if I was so smart

00:22:26.420 I could just figure out

00:22:27.040 how to AI this shit.

00:22:27.880 But it's like

00:22:30.440 we get the perfect body.

00:22:32.020 You're not going to get smarter.

00:22:33.340 I mean,

00:22:33.620 me being smaller,

00:22:34.500 me being larger,

00:22:35.140 I've lived both lives

00:22:36.280 and I get attention regardless.

00:22:38.340 I have always been able

00:22:39.420 to attract all different

00:22:40.440 types of reasons.

00:22:41.040 Yeah, but.

00:22:41.560 So none of that matters to me.

00:22:43.700 Physicalness is just

00:22:44.400 so surface level.

00:22:45.620 But for me,

00:22:46.640 if I had the brains

00:22:47.420 to make as much money

00:22:48.280 as I want,

00:22:48.880 I mean,

00:22:49.040 because I trade,

00:22:49.680 I do options,

00:22:50.840 I do Forex.

00:22:51.540 So for me,

00:22:52.040 like if I had the brains

00:22:53.200 truly to see things

00:22:54.640 on a different perspective,

00:22:55.780 I would just live my own.

00:22:56.380 But then it's like

00:22:57.240 if we were

00:22:58.120 like the ultimate hotties,

00:23:00.000 then you could just

00:23:00.600 get a super smart guy.

00:23:02.860 You know,

00:23:03.260 and then you wouldn't

00:23:03.780 have to think at all.

00:23:04.760 You could just be at home

00:23:05.520 chilling.

00:23:06.020 I don't want to get bullied.

00:23:07.040 Well, let me say this.

00:23:07.920 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:23:09.040 Wait a minute.

00:23:09.720 Wait a minute.

00:23:10.400 I have that option now.

00:23:12.860 So,

00:23:13.340 so it doesn't

00:23:15.480 really lean me more

00:23:17.020 to it's like,

00:23:17.560 oh, the perfect body.

00:23:18.480 First of all,

00:23:19.080 just having that man

00:23:20.380 who is,

00:23:21.860 that man who takes care of me,

00:23:23.580 I already have that.

00:23:24.500 So it doesn't

00:23:26.120 make me feel like,

00:23:26.960 oh, I got to get

00:23:27.440 this perfect body

00:23:28.280 so I can get the man

00:23:29.220 that's already

00:23:29.620 going to take care of me.

00:23:30.680 But what about like

00:23:31.260 keeping the man you got?

00:23:32.960 What about it?

00:23:33.720 I got him.

00:23:34.320 Well, I'm saying like,

00:23:35.260 wouldn't it,

00:23:35.920 I mean,

00:23:36.140 are you married?

00:23:36.980 You said you're in a relationship.

00:23:37.720 In a relationship.

00:23:38.540 Right.

00:23:38.820 So it's like maybe

00:23:39.580 the perfect body,

00:23:40.560 he's like ring right here.

00:23:42.120 No, I don't think so.

00:23:43.580 I think it has to do with you.

00:23:44.740 I want to go back.

00:23:45.440 What was it?

00:23:45.700 We were just talking about.

00:23:46.580 You said something about,

00:23:47.600 what did she just say?

00:23:49.520 I lost my train of thought.

00:23:50.120 She said she can attract

00:23:51.640 anybody big or small anyway

00:23:53.260 and that she wants to be able

00:23:54.940 to create AI

00:23:55.700 and all types of stuff at work

00:23:56.960 so she doesn't want

00:23:57.480 to lose her brains.

00:23:58.500 Okay.

00:23:58.860 Yeah.

00:23:59.120 I lost the train of thought.

00:24:00.720 We were.

00:24:01.200 My bad.

00:24:01.740 Well, I was going to say,

00:24:02.380 I would want a perfect body

00:24:03.800 just so I can look in the mirror

00:24:05.140 and be like,

00:24:05.560 damn, bitch,

00:24:06.120 it's fucking fine.

00:24:06.940 Satisfied.

00:24:07.220 Not so I can catch a man

00:24:09.180 or keep my girlfriend.

00:24:11.800 I wonder why this is

00:24:13.300 like gut reaction of us women.

00:24:15.580 Whenever it's like we have this,

00:24:17.240 you could have this for a man.

00:24:19.400 It's so interesting

00:24:20.360 because we'll always have to say,

00:24:22.620 no, no, no, it's for myself.

00:24:24.660 But it's really interesting

00:24:25.820 because a family

00:24:26.740 is supposed to be selfless.

00:24:29.060 Families only work

00:24:29.980 if we're selfless

00:24:30.840 and we're thinking

00:24:31.380 about the other person.

00:24:32.520 Because you're giving up

00:24:34.080 and the husband.

00:24:35.180 And it's interesting too

00:24:35.980 because we'll give up stuff

00:24:36.900 for our kids

00:24:37.520 and we'll do stuff

00:24:38.140 for the kids.

00:24:39.120 But it's like,

00:24:39.700 why is it a bad thing

00:24:41.100 to say I want to have

00:24:42.000 a perfect body for the man?

00:24:44.240 I think the whole

00:24:45.340 feminist movement

00:24:46.820 of being an independent woman

00:24:48.380 and even saying

00:24:50.040 that you're codependent

00:24:50.860 on somebody

00:24:51.280 almost is a negative tone

00:24:52.820 these days.

00:24:53.700 But it's not.

00:24:54.400 I mean, technically you are.

00:24:55.480 You're in a relationship.

00:24:56.380 It's okay to be codependent

00:24:57.380 on each other.

00:24:58.560 Yeah.

00:24:58.980 I would love a perfect body

00:25:01.020 to get married

00:25:01.980 and then a husband

00:25:02.740 and then that's his body.

00:25:04.140 I think that'd be great.

00:25:05.160 Like, what's wrong with that?

00:25:06.540 There's nothing wrong with that.

00:25:07.380 That's just how you view it.

00:25:08.960 You know what I mean?

00:25:09.480 I think everybody has to live

00:25:12.240 with what they would

00:25:12.880 feel comfortable with.

00:25:14.000 So if she doesn't feel

00:25:15.260 comfortable with having

00:25:16.180 a perfect body

00:25:16.840 but she feels comfortable

00:25:17.640 with having a perfect brain,

00:25:19.120 that's her mindset now

00:25:20.420 and then what she'll live with.

00:25:21.700 Right.

00:25:22.200 And there's nothing wrong

00:25:23.260 with that.

00:25:23.760 But I'm just more asking,

00:25:25.160 like, why do we have

00:25:25.840 this gut reaction

00:25:26.820 that anything we do

00:25:27.820 like for the men,

00:25:28.880 we have, like,

00:25:29.580 whenever girls say,

00:25:30.440 oh, I don't put on makeup

00:25:31.280 for the men,

00:25:32.000 I do it for myself.

00:25:32.900 I don't do this for the men.

00:25:34.280 Like, why is our gut reaction

00:25:35.860 as women, like,

00:25:37.080 this is for ourselves

00:25:38.240 when if we want to be

00:25:39.500 in a long-term marriage,

00:25:40.420 you're supposed to do

00:25:41.520 a lot at least for him.

00:25:43.580 So if a guy grows a beard

00:25:44.840 because his wife wants him to,

00:25:46.540 is that equivalent

00:25:47.640 to what you're saying?

00:25:48.560 No, because I think

00:25:49.480 men and women are different

00:25:50.480 and I think women

00:25:51.200 are here to serve men.

00:25:51.860 So they have an exception

00:25:52.760 that we don't.

00:25:53.560 Yeah, because I think

00:25:54.780 we're lied to

00:25:55.800 in saying that we're equal

00:25:56.800 and I think the natural order

00:25:58.020 of the world is we're not.

00:25:59.040 I think everybody

00:25:59.720 should be living

00:26:00.340 for themselves

00:26:00.840 and their own happiness

00:26:01.580 and that you should never

00:26:02.460 be codependent

00:26:03.340 on your partner.

00:26:04.460 I think that's the problem.

00:26:07.980 We're going to be happy together.

00:26:08.940 So these people talk

00:26:10.180 about being independent.

00:26:11.160 Independent means you're alone.

00:26:12.540 Yeah.

00:26:12.840 You're not independent

00:26:13.580 in a relationship.

00:26:14.060 Independent means to fail.

00:26:15.580 I'm a provider protector.

00:26:17.160 My responsibility

00:26:17.880 as the king of the house

00:26:18.980 is to provide and protect for her,

00:26:20.560 not control her.

00:26:21.600 Right.

00:26:21.780 You brought something up

00:26:22.540 but, like,

00:26:22.940 treat you bad.

00:26:24.000 There's always these exceptions.

00:26:26.120 I was in a toxic relationship.

00:26:27.800 Everybody's been in bad relationships.

00:26:29.620 Right.

00:26:29.740 But my duty and responsibility

00:26:31.080 and honor

00:26:31.720 is to serve her

00:26:32.900 and provide and protect for her.

00:26:34.900 Her responsibility,

00:26:36.160 she takes care of the home.

00:26:37.620 She cooks the food.

00:26:38.640 This is how we live our life.

00:26:40.740 Now, when you say that,

00:26:42.200 if I say I'm independent,

00:26:43.520 well, then why am I

00:26:44.100 in a relationship?

00:26:44.900 Right.

00:26:45.140 I rely on her

00:26:46.100 to take care of the home.

00:26:47.560 That's what she does.

00:26:48.520 I didn't say independent, did I?

00:26:49.900 No, but I'm saying

00:26:50.620 you said codependency.

00:26:51.500 You said codependency is bad.

00:26:52.200 It's not codependent

00:26:52.980 like you're unable to live

00:26:54.580 without anybody.

00:26:54.600 Like you can't survive.

00:26:55.960 That's not codependency.

00:26:56.680 It's just being a team.

00:26:58.180 Well, no, no, no.

00:26:59.080 So this is the other misconception.

00:27:01.580 A relationship is not a partnership.

00:27:03.400 A partnership is where

00:27:04.280 you go into business with somebody.

00:27:05.820 We're not in a partnership.

00:27:07.080 We're in a relationship.

00:27:08.140 Marriage is a business.

00:27:09.620 It definitely is.

00:27:10.640 But it's not.

00:27:11.220 This is where the problems come in.

00:27:13.360 We come in.

00:27:13.820 It's 50-50.

00:27:14.720 No, it's not 50-50.

00:27:15.700 And I agree with that.

00:27:16.580 I lead the home.

00:27:17.740 But here we are.

00:27:18.540 Right.

00:27:18.820 Here we are.

00:27:19.400 I don't believe it's 50-50 ever.

00:27:20.880 I don't believe it,

00:27:21.460 but this new generation set of men

00:27:23.100 is why a lot of the women

00:27:24.140 are the way they are

00:27:25.180 with the feelings

00:27:26.420 of wanting to be so independent

00:27:27.780 because the men

00:27:28.860 are like so aggressive

00:27:29.960 with they don't want to pay for that.

00:27:30.680 Men are the new bitches.

00:27:31.740 They don't want to pay for that.

00:27:32.160 Well, let me tell you why.

00:27:33.060 Well, because women

00:27:33.920 ask them to be bitches.

00:27:35.100 And 80% of the single-parent homes

00:27:37.920 are women.

00:27:38.880 And they're trying to raise these boys

00:27:40.340 and they're raising them

00:27:41.120 as feminine men.

00:27:42.400 You need to do this.

00:27:43.280 You need to do this.

00:27:43.880 Your grandma,

00:27:44.480 your great-grandmother's like,

00:27:45.840 go out and find yourself

00:27:47.020 a good man that can take care of you.

00:27:48.880 And when I say this,

00:27:50.560 a lot of these women nowadays,

00:27:53.640 their mamas are like,

00:27:54.360 you don't need a man.

00:27:55.560 You can be an independent boss, bitch.

00:27:57.220 And then what happens

00:27:58.220 is you become 50-60 years old

00:28:00.320 drinking boxed wine,

00:28:01.580 watching Netflix

00:28:02.200 with your cats.

00:28:04.360 Right.

00:28:04.580 Talking about angel numbers

00:28:05.900 and horoscopes.

00:28:06.820 I'm fine.

00:28:07.500 I'm fine.

00:28:08.040 But let me tell you something.

00:28:09.000 I'm fine.

00:28:09.600 I'm fine.

00:28:10.100 And then you come 60,

00:28:11.120 you're like,

00:28:11.420 what am I going to do for work?

00:28:13.280 You can't retire.

00:28:14.160 You don't have $2, $3 million.

00:28:15.460 If they picked the perfect body

00:28:17.640 at 60,

00:28:18.440 it would be the retire only man.

00:28:20.720 Okay.

00:28:21.760 Yeah, there you go.

00:28:22.420 There you go.

00:28:22.940 I'm not coming at you.

00:28:24.260 I'm just stating what,

00:28:25.540 as a man of high-value man,

00:28:27.420 when we're looking,

00:28:28.300 we're like,

00:28:28.880 I talked,

00:28:29.600 I had a conversation last night.

00:28:31.300 I talked to hundreds

00:28:32.320 and hundreds of women.

00:28:33.520 I coach men and women.

00:28:34.560 I get these challenges.

00:28:35.780 I've helped marriages.

00:28:36.740 Now, I'm not perfect.

00:28:38.480 I don't know everything,

00:28:39.460 but I'm rarely in doubt

00:28:40.260 because this is what I do.

00:28:41.500 And I see the challenges

00:28:42.720 that some of the ladies and men have.

00:28:44.840 And a lot of these men are simping.

00:28:46.260 I get it.

00:28:46.920 They're simping.

00:28:47.840 And they'll come up,

00:28:48.540 like Pearl.

00:28:49.520 Pearl was in a situation.

00:28:50.760 Watch this.

00:28:51.140 Pearl was in a situation.

00:28:52.340 A guy watched my podcast.

00:28:53.880 Pearl was on there.

00:28:54.780 He reached out to her,

00:28:56.120 somehow,

00:28:56.620 shape,

00:28:57.140 way,

00:28:57.340 or form,

00:28:57.800 and he wanted to date her.

00:28:59.060 And, like,

00:28:59.780 soon as he met her,

00:29:00.520 he goes,

00:29:01.100 I want to marry you.

00:29:01.940 It turned her off.

00:29:03.220 He was simping.

00:29:04.480 Dirty.

00:29:05.320 Am I right?

00:29:06.320 Yeah, yeah, I did.

00:29:07.520 And these guys,

00:29:09.440 I say,

00:29:09.780 men,

00:29:10.200 stop chasing women.

00:29:12.240 Stop chasing women.

00:29:13.760 What value does a woman

00:29:15.180 bring to the table,

00:29:16.280 I say,

00:29:16.680 or to the relationship

00:29:17.440 outside of sex?

00:29:19.160 What do you bring

00:29:19.720 to the relationship

00:29:20.300 outside of sex?

00:29:21.300 I'm fucking hilarious.

00:29:23.700 Dude,

00:29:23.900 men don't want to date comedians.

00:29:25.460 They want to date models.

00:29:26.600 What?

00:29:27.560 If that was true,

00:29:29.000 if men wanted to date funny,

00:29:30.220 if men wanted to date funny women,

00:29:32.080 I'm a funny-ass model,

00:29:33.480 so what's up?

00:29:34.060 Chelsea,

00:29:34.640 you're not that funny.

00:29:35.700 I also have a girlfriend,

00:29:36.840 so y'all need to keep that

00:29:37.620 into it.

00:29:38.320 Chelsea,

00:29:38.400 I understand.

00:29:39.720 You're in a different relationship.

00:29:41.020 You're in a different relationship.

00:29:42.000 Yeah.

00:29:42.640 But, you know,

00:29:43.880 for men,

00:29:44.420 it's like they're not looking

00:29:45.240 for funny chicks.

00:29:46.160 Otherwise,

00:29:46.820 you wouldn't see all these comedians.

00:29:48.100 They're always single.

00:29:49.260 No, that's not true.

00:29:50.160 Have you seen that Asian comedian

00:29:51.280 and she just came out

00:29:52.020 with a movie

00:29:52.420 and she had fucking funny shit?

00:29:53.760 You know what's so funny?

00:29:54.520 She was pregnant.

00:29:55.280 She already had that baby,

00:29:56.060 I think.

00:29:56.320 You know what's so funny?

00:29:57.880 It's like you have to bring up

00:29:59.360 the exception whose name

00:30:00.660 you don't even know.

00:30:01.160 I don't really watch comedians.

00:30:02.400 Well, yeah,

00:30:02.820 but just think of Chelsea.

00:30:04.040 I can't remember her name,

00:30:04.580 but I've seen the movie.

00:30:05.400 Chelsea Handler's by herself.

00:30:06.700 All the big-name comedians

00:30:08.120 are by themselves.

00:30:08.680 That woman is paid.

00:30:10.040 I still do think,

00:30:11.220 as much as you can be

00:30:12.520 as black and white with stuff,

00:30:13.740 I still think that men

00:30:14.920 do choose you

00:30:16.320 or fall in love with you

00:30:17.800 or like you more

00:30:18.480 because of your personality

00:30:20.440 and because of other things

00:30:22.020 that you bring to the table.

00:30:22.560 Yeah, because they miss you

00:30:23.560 when you're not around.

00:30:24.160 Not because you're fine.

00:30:25.220 I know women with perfect bodies,

00:30:26.980 really nice bodies at that,

00:30:28.360 really nice bodies,

00:30:29.380 tatted up, gorgeous.

00:30:30.840 I mean, the woman

00:30:32.060 that all the men

00:30:32.700 walk in the room and want,

00:30:33.900 they still get cheated on.

00:30:34.820 Hold on, we have a man

00:30:35.660 in the room,

00:30:36.220 so I think he should get cheated on.

00:30:37.440 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

00:30:37.700 I miss this.

00:30:38.440 Let me get it.

00:30:38.940 That's just what that is.

00:30:39.840 What were you saying

00:30:41.260 about the woman

00:30:41.780 tatted in the room?

00:30:42.760 Say that again.

00:30:43.520 I mean, she could be tatted,

00:30:44.320 she could be not tatted,

00:30:44.880 but I actually know women

00:30:45.900 that are completely gorgeous bodies,

00:30:47.540 beautiful faces,

00:30:48.680 intelligent,

00:30:49.240 bring a lot to the table,

00:30:50.300 and they still are getting

00:30:51.520 mistreated and cheated on

00:30:53.260 and pushed to the side.

00:30:54.520 Look at Halle Berry.

00:30:55.560 Yeah.

00:30:57.280 Here's the stat.

00:30:57.920 Oh, I got no...

00:30:59.160 Let me tell you.

00:31:00.400 Yeah, I met Halle Berry.

00:31:01.980 You want me to tell you

00:31:02.460 about Halle Berry?

00:31:03.420 I wouldn't touch her

00:31:04.220 with a 10-foot pole.

00:31:05.220 That woman's like a dude.

00:31:06.940 Masculine, bossy as hell.

00:31:08.180 I love it.

00:31:08.480 And anybody who gets to that,

00:31:09.540 just like Kim Kardashian,

00:31:10.620 oh, she's a boss bitch.

00:31:12.160 Dude, she's been through

00:31:13.140 so many dudes,

00:31:14.260 her body count's higher

00:31:15.220 than the tax returns

00:31:16.980 or something like that.

00:31:18.440 I used to hang out

00:31:21.000 with Kim back in the day.

00:31:22.420 But regarding those high-value men,

00:31:24.380 yeah, look at Kevin Hart,

00:31:26.020 Jay-Z.

00:31:26.780 They all cheated, right?

00:31:27.900 But guess what?

00:31:29.640 She still stayed with him.

00:31:31.180 She still stayed with him.

00:31:32.620 Right?

00:31:32.900 So the question is,

00:31:33.800 if you were in a relationship

00:31:34.640 with Drake and married to Drake

00:31:35.820 and he cheated on you,

00:31:36.600 would you still stay married to him?

00:31:38.380 No.

00:31:39.160 Why do guys get to have

00:31:40.800 such a high body count

00:31:42.180 and women don't?

00:31:43.520 That's my big problem.

00:31:44.740 And like, I don't really...

00:31:45.980 Let me ask you a good question.

00:31:46.700 No, no, no.

00:31:47.520 Not even women are different.

00:31:48.680 Hold on.

00:31:49.200 They get away with everything.

00:31:49.980 Hold on.

00:31:50.400 We can get away with shit.

00:31:51.180 Let me just finish real quick.

00:31:51.720 We get away with everything.

00:31:53.260 We're fat.

00:31:53.960 We're smart.

00:31:54.420 We're fat.

00:31:55.400 We're whores nowadays.

00:31:56.520 We're on birth control.

00:31:57.800 We get away with everything.

00:31:58.900 I don't really...

00:31:59.900 I'm like...

00:32:00.900 I'm somebody who's been

00:32:01.760 taking advantage of a lot,

00:32:03.060 so I don't really do

00:32:04.000 the whole, like,

00:32:05.120 sexual thing.

00:32:06.020 Sure, sure, sure.

00:32:06.460 I don't have a lot of bodies

00:32:07.520 up under me.

00:32:08.380 But I still stand with women

00:32:10.260 which don't judge a man...

00:32:12.420 Like, don't not judge a man

00:32:13.920 when he has a high body count.

00:32:15.420 But if a woman fucks

00:32:16.540 who the fuck she wants

00:32:17.300 because she can,

00:32:18.140 because she's a bad bitch,

00:32:19.600 why the fuck you calling her a hug?

00:32:21.020 I don't like that.

00:32:21.960 First of all,

00:32:22.680 you don't have to be a bad bitch

00:32:24.520 to fuck a bunch of guys.

00:32:25.720 Any girls can fuck that.

00:32:26.280 You could be a mid-bitch.

00:32:27.060 Every girl in here

00:32:27.860 could get on the phone.

00:32:29.400 I'm talking about the bad bitches.

00:32:30.860 I'm not saying that.

00:32:31.560 You have to be one to do it.

00:32:32.320 Right, but women...

00:32:33.560 Women...

00:32:34.100 All you women right now

00:32:35.100 can get on the phone

00:32:35.740 and have sex tonight.

00:32:36.720 Yes, right.

00:32:37.460 It's very hard for men

00:32:38.540 to do that.

00:32:38.620 You can just walk out

00:32:39.560 down the strip

00:32:40.380 and be like,

00:32:41.080 sex!

00:32:41.720 And then someone will come.

00:32:42.560 It's very hard.

00:32:43.060 You know what I'm saying?

00:32:46.540 It's very hard for men...

00:32:48.420 A lot of women don't believe this.

00:32:49.640 It's very hard for men

00:32:50.500 to have sex with women.

00:32:51.420 I've heard men say that.

00:32:52.180 It's very challenging.

00:32:52.960 Let me explain something.

00:32:53.820 No, no.

00:32:54.700 10% of men

00:32:55.620 are actually sexually active.

00:32:57.520 A lot of women

00:32:58.020 think all these dudes.

00:32:58.940 And the 10%

00:32:59.900 that are sexually active,

00:33:01.000 they're the ones

00:33:01.440 having sex with y'all.

00:33:03.180 You see what I'm saying?

00:33:04.440 Yeah.

00:33:04.640 So what happens is

00:33:05.780 for a man to go out

00:33:06.640 and have sex,

00:33:07.040 for him to have access

00:33:08.180 to women and have options,

00:33:10.460 he's got to be on point,

00:33:12.060 high valued,

00:33:12.780 have status,

00:33:13.460 have swag.

00:33:14.280 He's worked hard

00:33:15.080 to get to that level.

00:33:15.820 Now, to answer your question

00:33:16.640 on why is it bad,

00:33:17.900 when a woman gets past

00:33:18.860 six men body count,

00:33:20.840 her pair bonding starts...

00:33:22.040 Her ability to pair bond

00:33:24.160 with a man

00:33:24.980 goes down to 25%.

00:33:26.200 Where did you learn this?

00:33:27.220 I read psychology books

00:33:28.660 on relationships.

00:33:29.560 People have interviewed

00:33:30.260 10,000 people.

00:33:31.300 You have a specific number.

00:33:32.860 Yeah.

00:33:33.380 Let me explain something.

00:33:34.560 Your oxytocin levels go down.

00:33:36.400 It's hard for you

00:33:37.020 to pair bond with a man.

00:33:38.300 The more men you've been with...

00:33:39.700 Actually, I can speak on this.

00:33:40.740 I'm sorry.

00:33:40.980 Okay, but I'm going to have

00:33:41.740 Pearl talk to you.

00:33:42.420 But that's a good question.

00:33:43.240 I've been fucking for 21 years.

00:33:44.280 You think it ain't...

00:33:45.260 But you're not with a man.

00:33:48.100 You have a choice, right?

00:33:49.000 But to my point,

00:33:51.160 you'll see women

00:33:52.060 go through guys

00:33:52.940 or go through relationships,

00:33:53.940 have problems.

00:33:54.920 It's hard for them to bond.

00:33:56.660 Well, okay,

00:33:57.500 so I agree that

00:33:59.040 we should be saving ourselves

00:34:01.460 a little bit better

00:34:01.980 than what we do these days.

00:34:03.060 Yes, okay, whatever.

00:34:04.000 Who cares?

00:34:04.860 But I don't believe

00:34:06.880 in this pair bonding thing.

00:34:07.840 And I only say that

00:34:09.000 is because oxytocin

00:34:10.620 is something that gets

00:34:11.620 regenerated in your body.

00:34:12.980 Sure.

00:34:13.200 And it actually gets

00:34:14.060 regenerated super quick.

00:34:15.380 Like after sex...

00:34:16.720 Okay, do you...

00:34:17.360 I have a question.

00:34:17.920 Do you think that

00:34:18.680 a virgin and a hooker

00:34:19.800 have the same

00:34:20.340 pair bonding abilities?

00:34:22.320 So...

00:34:22.720 Yes or no?

00:34:23.120 Okay, my question also...

00:34:24.280 Yes or no?

00:34:25.500 Do you think it's the same?

00:34:26.960 I do not,

00:34:27.620 but I don't believe...

00:34:28.300 So you do believe it

00:34:29.100 to some extent?

00:34:29.980 Yes.

00:34:30.500 But what I'm saying is

00:34:31.680 the science behind

00:34:32.800 actual pair bonding

00:34:34.000 and the six partner thing,

00:34:35.780 I don't think

00:34:36.420 that's actually true science.

00:34:37.560 And I only say this

00:34:38.360 because I tried

00:34:39.500 to read up on it

00:34:40.260 because I was actually

00:34:41.520 curious about it.

00:34:42.660 And they said

00:34:43.500 that they got this

00:34:44.560 information from a mammal

00:34:47.080 called the prairie roll.

00:34:48.360 Have you heard of that?

00:34:49.360 So this whole thing

00:34:50.480 that you're talking about

00:34:51.420 with six partners

00:34:52.420 actually came from

00:34:53.200 a different mammal

00:34:53.960 that was not...

00:34:55.080 Well, and we could

00:34:56.940 argue it's 10.

00:34:58.220 We could argue it's 15.

00:34:59.580 But we know what's true

00:35:01.100 is the more you sleep

00:35:02.080 with, the harder it is to buy.

00:35:03.300 But I also believe

00:35:04.000 that it has...

00:35:04.960 Yes, it's hormones.

00:35:06.260 Yeah.

00:35:06.400 But it's also trauma.

00:35:07.840 It's allowing people in.

00:35:10.160 You can also...

00:35:10.820 But it's like, okay,

00:35:11.720 if I drink

00:35:12.360 every single day

00:35:13.220 of my life

00:35:13.820 then alcohol

00:35:14.300 is not going to

00:35:14.800 affect me every bunch

00:35:15.780 as much.

00:35:16.740 If you fuck

00:35:17.600 every single person

00:35:18.560 you meet,

00:35:19.600 you're not going to

00:35:20.620 bond as much

00:35:21.280 to each one.

00:35:22.140 So I'm not saying

00:35:23.300 six is the number.

00:35:24.340 It could be 10.

00:35:25.080 It could be 15.

00:35:25.280 That's the only thing

00:35:25.680 I'm like,

00:35:26.200 it's the six,

00:35:26.960 it's the oxytocin thing.

00:35:28.500 Even if it's...

00:35:29.240 I mean, women lie anyway.

00:35:30.340 Who knows what

00:35:30.800 those chicks'

00:35:31.140 body counts were.

00:35:32.100 So it's like,

00:35:32.620 all right, let's say...

00:35:33.140 I stopped counting

00:35:33.980 like five, six years ago.

00:35:35.680 So I always used

00:35:36.380 to tell my girlfriends...

00:35:37.100 Don't give a fuck.

00:35:37.420 So I used to be

00:35:38.040 a cocktail waitress

00:35:39.160 at a strip club.

00:35:39.920 Right.

00:35:40.180 And they used to

00:35:40.560 always tell me,

00:35:41.180 why aren't you

00:35:41.640 going to be a dancer?

00:35:42.540 And I said,

00:35:42.860 I don't want to be

00:35:43.540 because I feel like me,

00:35:45.320 this is just a me thing.

00:35:47.140 You have to be an actress.

00:35:48.780 And when a guy comes in,

00:35:50.000 I have to figure out

00:35:50.640 what role am I playing

00:35:51.600 in his life

00:35:52.160 to receive that money.

00:35:53.760 So I was nervous

00:35:54.840 that it was going

00:35:55.260 to mess my mind up

00:35:56.400 when it comes to a man

00:35:57.520 that's coming in my life

00:35:58.380 and I'm like,

00:35:58.780 am I going to switch myself

00:36:00.000 for this person

00:36:01.080 and not be who I am?

00:36:02.460 And then inevitably

00:36:03.240 they're going to see

00:36:03.900 the real person

00:36:04.640 and we're going

00:36:05.220 to have an issue.

00:36:05.920 So it's going to mess,

00:36:07.000 I guess, the pair

00:36:08.080 they're going that way.

00:36:09.360 But the whole point

00:36:10.400 is that less is better.

00:36:12.140 Right?

00:36:12.460 In general.

00:36:12.940 I agree.

00:36:13.520 I just think we should

00:36:14.200 save ourselves

00:36:15.140 a little bit more

00:36:15.620 because I think we're just

00:36:16.520 more valuable

00:36:17.580 than when we throw around.

00:36:18.760 Honestly,

00:36:18.980 but I just want to put this

00:36:20.060 in a historical point of view.

00:36:21.740 You know,

00:36:21.960 a hundred years ago,

00:36:22.980 what percent of women

00:36:23.740 were virgins

00:36:24.300 on their wedding days

00:36:25.080 a hundred years ago?

00:36:26.180 Guess.

00:36:26.380 Probably almost like

00:36:26.940 a hundred percent of them.

00:36:27.960 Guess.

00:36:28.220 Like 90, 90 percent.

00:36:29.960 Eighty-five percent of women

00:36:31.300 were virgins.

00:36:32.340 Now let's just say

00:36:33.000 because we all know

00:36:33.620 women lie,

00:36:34.340 so it's like,

00:36:34.720 all right, let's double it.

00:36:35.440 I would have loved

00:36:35.880 to be a virgin

00:36:36.800 on my wedding day

00:36:37.620 if I would have been,

00:36:39.000 you know,

00:36:39.280 in a sexual assault

00:36:40.260 as a child.

00:36:41.340 You know,

00:36:41.620 and a lot of women

00:36:42.260 go through that as well.

00:36:42.880 And that's unfortunate.

00:36:43.880 That's an exception.

00:36:44.760 A lot of women

00:36:44.900 go through that as well.

00:36:46.040 I was raised

00:36:46.480 in a very, you know,

00:36:47.320 religious household.

00:36:48.040 I would have loved

00:36:48.920 to get married

00:36:49.640 and be a virgin.

00:36:50.160 And you'd agree

00:36:51.280 that would have been

00:36:51.820 the best outcome.

00:36:52.340 I agree.

00:36:53.000 I agree.

00:36:53.860 But unfortunately,

00:36:55.220 there are people

00:36:56.040 who are monsters

00:36:56.900 out here

00:36:57.520 and they criticize

00:36:58.640 those women

00:36:59.340 that are virgins

00:37:00.140 and they take

00:37:01.080 that innocence from them.

00:37:02.100 No, I don't think

00:37:02.720 that's the majority.

00:37:03.520 I think the majority

00:37:06.380 of us women,

00:37:07.480 we meet a guy

00:37:08.360 that's handsome

00:37:09.140 and we just,

00:37:10.080 yeah, we fuck,

00:37:10.900 I think, in general.

00:37:12.020 Yes.

00:37:12.500 Like, it's not...

00:37:14.160 Oh, that's what I do.

00:37:15.160 And so, in a way,

00:37:16.000 in a way,

00:37:16.500 like women,

00:37:17.240 in a way,

00:37:18.040 women,

00:37:18.500 we're the ones

00:37:19.180 picking non-monogamy

00:37:20.360 because when we have

00:37:21.700 the most choice,

00:37:22.680 which is early 20s,

00:37:23.680 we don't pick monogamy.

00:37:25.040 Hey, I'm polyamorous,

00:37:26.160 so you're right.

00:37:26.740 Right, yeah.

00:37:27.460 I'll pick monogamy.

00:37:28.420 No, you didn't.

00:37:29.620 I mean, for...

00:37:30.140 I will pick monogamy.

00:37:31.080 Well, no, you didn't

00:37:32.200 because how old

00:37:33.060 are you again?

00:37:33.540 I'm 28.

00:37:34.180 Okay, you're 28.

00:37:35.080 So you could have...

00:37:35.860 I know you had

00:37:36.540 that happen to you,

00:37:37.720 but after that,

00:37:38.400 you could have,

00:37:38.860 at 18, 20, 22,

00:37:40.500 picked a guy,

00:37:41.080 gotten married,

00:37:41.720 stayed with him.

00:37:42.660 And you did it.

00:37:43.720 None of us did.

00:37:44.980 If I picked someone,

00:37:46.360 it would have happened,

00:37:47.200 but it didn't happen.

00:37:48.060 Right, but that's the point.

00:37:49.260 It wasn't a priority to you.

00:37:51.200 So, and...

00:37:51.880 Not necessarily.

00:37:52.700 It wasn't a priority.

00:37:53.760 It just wasn't...

00:37:55.080 I didn't meet anyone

00:37:56.160 that's made that happen.

00:37:57.440 Right, but it's like,

00:37:59.300 but it's like,

00:38:00.420 if we put that towards,

00:38:02.640 well, I should have been,

00:38:03.560 and I was chasing college sports.

00:38:05.020 Like, that's what I was doing.

00:38:06.260 I was chasing a priority.

00:38:07.540 And correct.

00:38:08.540 And that's what I'm saying.

00:38:09.580 Like, when we have the choice,

00:38:11.220 we don't do it.

00:38:12.080 And so, in a way,

00:38:13.500 it's like,

00:38:14.540 we're the ones picking non-monogamy,

00:38:16.420 and we whine

00:38:17.280 when the men don't pick monogamy later.

00:38:20.520 Go ahead.

00:38:20.540 I got to...

00:38:21.220 Asia, I want to hear from you.

00:38:22.300 You haven't said a lot.

00:38:23.100 What are your thoughts on this?

00:38:25.140 My thoughts...

00:38:26.980 I guess what I can say is,

00:38:29.440 I'm divorced.

00:38:30.820 So, I'm 25,

00:38:31.760 and I'm divorced.

00:38:33.080 And I did choose monogamy.

00:38:35.820 Young.

00:38:36.300 I was...

00:38:36.740 We got married when I was 23.

00:38:40.060 And...

00:38:40.620 Why didn't you stay married?

00:38:42.780 Why didn't I?

00:38:43.600 Yeah.

00:38:47.520 I did something...

00:38:48.940 I got divorced

00:38:50.160 because I couldn't compromise

00:38:53.660 because my ex-husband,

00:38:55.480 he was an alcoholic.

00:38:57.080 So, he didn't want to stop drinking.

00:39:00.120 He...

00:39:00.620 I tried everything that I could.

00:39:01.980 I tried therapy.

00:39:03.320 I tried offering services,

00:39:07.100 but you can't change what somebody...

00:39:09.720 Did you know he was an alcoholic

00:39:10.900 when you married him?

00:39:11.820 No, I didn't.

00:39:13.060 There's no warning signs?

00:39:14.560 Was he an alcoholic when you married him,

00:39:15.960 or did that happen after?

00:39:16.460 No, so it gradually got worse

00:39:18.620 as we...

00:39:20.040 After...

00:39:20.480 Actually, after we had gotten married.

00:39:21.420 Was it, like, work-related?

00:39:22.560 Like, that he wasn't able to provide like that?

00:39:24.500 So, it started to get on him?

00:39:25.760 Because I know that about that happened.

00:39:26.980 Well, he...

00:39:27.940 He's prior military.

00:39:29.200 He was deployed.

00:39:30.560 He was in combat.

00:39:32.380 PTSD.

00:39:32.700 And he had...

00:39:33.180 Yeah, he had a lot of that.

00:39:34.260 Yeah, PTSD, yeah.

00:39:34.720 And in the beginning,

00:39:35.700 it was regulated with medication,

00:39:38.660 and it was good, you know?

00:39:40.560 But after a while, like, sometimes...

00:39:43.280 Definitely.

00:39:43.740 Do you know how he's doing now?

00:39:45.240 Yeah, we still have contact,

00:39:46.860 even to this day.

00:39:47.540 He's okay now, or better, or what?

00:39:49.040 He's right where I left him,

00:39:50.980 unfortunately, yeah.

00:39:53.360 Wow.

00:39:53.960 I don't blame you one bit

00:39:54.800 for leaving that type of environment.

00:39:57.260 Yeah, no, and...

00:39:57.320 Yeah, it wasn't something

00:39:58.100 that I could compromise with any longer.

00:39:59.960 And when I tell you

00:40:00.880 I did everything that I could

00:40:01.960 to stay with him, I did.

00:40:03.400 And I would have done anything

00:40:04.420 that he needed to...

00:40:05.320 But you didn't stay with him.

00:40:06.880 So how could you say

00:40:07.560 you did everything you could

00:40:08.700 to stay if you left?

00:40:10.320 I'm not even saying

00:40:11.140 you were wrong for it,

00:40:12.100 but I'm saying, like,

00:40:12.720 it's kind of not true.

00:40:13.840 Because...

00:40:14.320 You know, women used

00:40:14.900 to date alcoholics

00:40:16.340 for, like, a decade

00:40:17.120 and then they'd stop.

00:40:18.640 They would just, like,

00:40:19.220 stick with it.

00:40:19.820 And then they would regret it.

00:40:20.480 Always regret it.

00:40:21.060 I'm not...

00:40:21.540 Wasting can't get it.

00:40:22.360 Always regret it.

00:40:23.060 Always regret that.

00:40:23.240 I'm not...

00:40:23.920 What I'm not pushing back on

00:40:25.320 is saying,

00:40:25.800 oh, you shouldn't have left that

00:40:26.940 or whatever.

00:40:27.720 What I am saying is,

00:40:29.080 like, this idea

00:40:29.820 that we did everything,

00:40:31.000 you're there for, like, what?

00:40:31.800 Two years?

00:40:32.720 You're 25,

00:40:33.520 so it's, like, two years?

00:40:34.380 Yeah, but what is

00:40:35.220 the timeline for that?

00:40:36.660 Exactly.

00:40:37.240 That's what I want to...

00:40:37.920 I just...

00:40:38.500 You know, I'm Catholic,

00:40:39.780 so I don't believe

00:40:40.300 in divorce.

00:40:41.260 So I actually...

00:40:42.400 I think it's, like,

00:40:43.080 for richer, for poorer,

00:40:44.320 for better, for worse,

00:40:45.440 in sickness and in health.

00:40:46.560 So I don't believe

00:40:47.880 in divorce at all.

00:40:48.460 So if somebody was

00:40:49.360 manipulating you

00:40:50.340 every single day...

00:40:51.240 Well, women are usually

00:40:51.960 the more manipulative ones,

00:40:53.220 anyway.

00:40:53.740 I think your dad...

00:40:54.660 I think we would all

00:40:55.820 be in a better place

00:40:56.600 if our dads

00:40:57.220 helped us pick husbands

00:40:58.260 because we don't pick

00:40:58.980 very well.

00:41:00.280 Clearly.

00:41:01.100 My dad's not here.

00:41:02.160 Yeah, my dad's not here.

00:41:03.080 Yeah, my dad is here, too.

00:41:04.200 My dad's not here, either.

00:41:05.580 No, am I not?

00:41:06.120 How are we going to do

00:41:07.000 a say-off?

00:41:07.680 Because then we can

00:41:08.140 ask our dads.

00:41:08.640 Well, if you want to...

00:41:09.600 If you want to talk

00:41:10.280 about the dads,

00:41:11.120 then, like, the moms

00:41:11.900 picked the dad.

00:41:12.800 You're you guys' dads,

00:41:14.100 so it's, like, if they're...

00:41:15.220 How many of you...

00:41:15.640 I think we need

00:41:16.220 the dads involved.

00:41:17.260 How many of you grew up

00:41:18.040 in a nuclear family,

00:41:19.040 like a mom and dad at home?

00:41:20.640 Before they pass away.

00:41:21.600 Before they pass away.

00:41:22.340 Okay.

00:41:23.160 Two of you?

00:41:23.640 Okay.

00:41:24.280 All right.

00:41:24.780 That's a lot.

00:41:25.220 I come from a broken home,

00:41:26.500 so there's one, too.

00:41:28.200 I had to pretty much

00:41:29.120 build what I had

00:41:31.200 in regards to

00:41:33.080 what my preferences

00:41:34.860 could be.

00:41:36.120 Yeah, yeah,

00:41:36.820 and that's really...

00:41:37.440 That's sad.

00:41:38.380 And I think, again,

00:41:39.700 because it'll go

00:41:40.380 to our parents, right?

00:41:41.760 And a lot of our parents

00:41:42.920 didn't pick well, either.

00:41:44.060 Like, a lot of our moms...

00:41:44.840 Well, I wouldn't say

00:41:45.440 that I didn't have

00:41:46.780 that type of guidance.

00:41:47.520 I mean, I definitely

00:41:48.440 have that relationship

00:41:49.380 with my dad

00:41:49.840 where I could bring him.

00:41:51.180 I did bring my dad to...

00:41:53.120 Or bring my husband

00:41:54.180 to my dad

00:41:55.300 at the time, you know?

00:41:56.240 And your dad was like,

00:41:57.060 this is a great choice.

00:41:57.960 He thought he was great.

00:41:59.300 He thought he was...

00:42:00.400 And he probably was,

00:42:01.080 but into the PTSD

00:42:02.140 and everything else.

00:42:03.040 Right.

00:42:03.520 And there's a lot of factors

00:42:04.380 that play into it, you know?

00:42:05.660 Okay, and so he just

00:42:06.420 started drinking

00:42:07.160 and then just became

00:42:08.360 an alcoholic

00:42:09.000 in two years?

00:42:09.680 He started...

00:42:10.380 He was drinking.

00:42:11.360 How long were you married?

00:42:12.780 We were together...

00:42:13.780 We were together for a year.

00:42:15.640 We were married

00:42:16.360 for two years.

00:42:18.060 Okay.

00:42:18.520 So we were together

00:42:19.260 for all in all three years.

00:42:20.820 Okay.

00:42:21.100 And good job

00:42:21.680 for getting the fuck

00:42:22.460 out of there.

00:42:23.280 Thank you.

00:42:23.660 You're welcome.

00:42:24.780 You know,

00:42:25.120 at the end of the day, too,

00:42:25.920 he's a great person.

00:42:29.040 Yes.

00:42:29.160 Like, I'm not

00:42:29.820 knocking him on that at all.

00:42:31.620 Like, that's one thing...

00:42:32.780 That's one of the reasons

00:42:33.880 why I loved him.

00:42:35.720 Everyone on this earth

00:42:36.880 needs to put their own

00:42:37.960 happiness first

00:42:38.700 above everything.

00:42:39.600 Wrong.

00:42:39.840 I think you gotta put

00:42:40.640 your happiness last.

00:42:42.040 If you are...

00:42:42.640 I think...

00:42:43.080 How can you pour

00:42:43.700 from an empty cup?

00:42:44.880 I think that's just

00:42:46.060 nonsense feminist garbage.

00:42:47.980 No, it's not.

00:42:48.500 Basically...

00:42:48.940 It's for people.

00:42:49.440 Men, women,

00:42:50.520 it doesn't matter.

00:42:51.300 Because you're gonna be

00:42:51.980 unhappy in marriage

00:42:53.120 at some point.

00:42:54.120 You think our great-grandmothers

00:42:55.580 stayed together

00:42:56.760 for 50 years,

00:42:58.520 60 years,

00:42:59.680 thinking about themselves?

00:43:01.280 You know how I could tell

00:43:02.240 the generational switch?

00:43:03.620 You can hear it

00:43:04.100 in the music.

00:43:05.180 We got the Taylor Swift

00:43:06.280 generation,

00:43:07.180 which is I'm a victim,

00:43:08.440 blah, blah, blah.

00:43:09.620 Where...

00:43:09.980 Do you remember...

00:43:10.420 Do you remember

00:43:10.720 the song Jolene?

00:43:11.980 You remember the song Jolene?

00:43:12.780 I love that song.

00:43:13.880 No, no, but that's

00:43:14.700 how women used to react.

00:43:15.920 Please don't take my man.

00:43:16.940 Please don't take my man

00:43:18.440 because she was worried

00:43:20.720 that her man was cheating

00:43:21.960 and instead of keying his car,

00:43:23.920 which, you know,

00:43:24.300 Carrie Underwood

00:43:24.960 keying his car,

00:43:26.000 she...

00:43:27.360 No, but she stayed with him.

00:43:28.700 I heard her talk about that

00:43:30.260 and it's like it was just

00:43:31.640 a completely different mindset

00:43:33.000 where she's like,

00:43:33.620 I can't live without this guy.

00:43:35.420 Where now it's like women,

00:43:36.800 we just care about ourselves

00:43:37.980 and our happiness

00:43:38.780 and if the outcomes were good,

00:43:40.840 then why aren't families together?

00:43:42.240 And, you know,

00:43:42.780 I feel like social media

00:43:43.560 has a lot to do with that too

00:43:44.620 because there's always like

00:43:45.620 somebody on the back burner

00:43:46.660 or someone we've been eyeing

00:43:47.760 or somebody else who

00:43:48.680 we know we could get somebody together.

00:43:50.540 Someone that's been liking your pictures

00:43:51.980 for the last two years

00:43:53.240 and they're just waiting for their chance.

00:43:54.460 Yeah, it's so easy to just get on a dating app

00:43:55.540 and find a replacement.

00:43:57.220 That's the outlier.

00:43:58.260 That's the guy friend

00:43:59.220 that none of you want to be with,

00:44:00.660 but he's a nice guy

00:44:01.660 and he's the guy waiting on the outside,

00:44:03.980 the guy that's liking all your pictures.

00:44:05.720 Hey, oh, but he's my guy friend.

00:44:06.760 That's a nice guy.

00:44:07.340 Oh, that's not my guy friend.

00:44:08.640 I don't have to follow him.

00:44:09.600 I don't have to follow him.

00:44:09.620 Raise of hands.

00:44:16.140 Who here has been in a relationship

00:44:18.040 and had a backup plan?

00:44:20.220 Raise your hand.

00:44:21.480 Just ever in general?

00:44:22.500 Ever, ever.

00:44:23.840 My relationships last like three months.

00:44:26.160 I've never gotten into a relationship

00:44:29.840 thinking that it was going to end.

00:44:32.080 So I've never had a backup plan,

00:44:33.880 but when I found out that they did something,

00:44:35.960 I could have either chose to leave it

00:44:37.720 or chose to get back,

00:44:39.160 and that's the only kind of backup plan

00:44:40.960 that I've had and never initially.

00:44:42.840 Have you ever dated a guy friend?

00:44:45.720 No.

00:44:45.900 Yeah, I have.

00:44:46.580 Yeah?

00:44:47.040 Yeah?

00:44:47.660 I've never dated a guy friend.

00:44:48.720 If you're a friend in my eyes.

00:44:50.340 I did, yes.

00:44:50.640 If you're a friend for life.

00:44:51.880 And I didn't want to.

00:44:53.180 It got snuck into me

00:44:54.840 because my best friend had just committed suicide.

00:44:57.260 Yeah, it's all right.

00:44:58.520 My best friend had just committed suicide,

00:45:00.720 so I felt very vulnerable,

00:45:02.920 and that's how my best guy friend got to sneak in there.

00:45:05.740 Okay.

00:45:06.160 Well, that's not a guy friend, though.

00:45:08.640 My guy friend?

00:45:09.180 No, no, no.

00:45:10.300 Wait, wait, wait.

00:45:11.120 Hold on.

00:45:11.680 Let me tell you.

00:45:12.300 We'll talk about a guy friend.

00:45:13.120 Hold on.

00:45:13.540 That's not a guy friend.

00:45:13.980 If I knew him four years and we didn't do anything,

00:45:16.020 and then when my friend passed away

00:45:17.900 and he was being there for me,

00:45:19.460 then he kind of...

00:45:20.300 But when that guy...

00:45:21.940 You know what?

00:45:22.320 He was always thinking about that

00:45:23.540 in the back of his mind, though.

00:45:24.300 But he was my friend for four years.

00:45:26.120 He doesn't discredit the friendship.

00:45:27.560 He never got to touch me.

00:45:27.720 Do you know why they're guy friends?

00:45:29.820 I think that if you're going to be a guy friend,

00:45:31.680 you put them in.

00:45:32.040 Hey, no.

00:45:32.720 No, do you know why they're guy friends?

00:45:33.960 We never went on a...

00:45:34.780 Yeah, they were waiting for their chance.

00:45:35.760 Okay, they're probably waiting for the chance,

00:45:37.240 but we never went on a date.

00:45:38.420 They never touched me.

00:45:39.320 I have a story.

00:45:39.640 I never slept with them.

00:45:40.420 Because you told them they're their guy friends.

00:45:42.520 I did.

00:45:43.120 Yeah.

00:45:43.840 That's the only reason.

00:45:44.880 She gets it.

00:45:45.500 She gets it.

00:45:45.520 Yeah.

00:45:46.680 I'm always waiting.

00:45:47.840 And so as a guy,

00:45:48.920 as a guy,

00:45:49.440 if I'm dating a gal,

00:45:50.380 oh, I got five guy friends,

00:45:51.880 I'm like,

00:45:52.180 I put the brakes on.

00:45:53.240 Right.

00:45:53.500 I'm like, wait a minute.

00:45:54.440 You got a bunch of guys on set.

00:45:55.900 So women,

00:45:56.640 pretty women always have a backup plan.

00:45:58.760 Pretty women are never single.

00:46:00.660 Women nowadays,

00:46:01.640 it used to be,

00:46:02.340 nowadays women always,

00:46:03.880 if I looked at your IGs

00:46:05.360 and your inbox,

00:46:07.120 your DMs,

00:46:07.980 you got backup plans.

00:46:09.280 You just don't know it,

00:46:10.140 but you know you have backup plans.

00:46:12.060 You know what I'm saying?

00:46:13.340 You just don't know it.

00:46:14.360 Check this out.

00:46:15.060 Most men,

00:46:15.940 they don't get DMs from chicks.

00:46:18.000 Right.

00:46:19.000 Hold on.

00:46:19.600 Because I've been checking my,

00:46:20.960 like my ex-boyfriend's fucking phone

00:46:22.740 and it'd be all kind of DMs.

00:46:24.380 That's because all my friends

00:46:25.560 is in their DMs too.

00:46:27.240 But you hear what I'm saying?

00:46:28.420 You hear what I'm saying?

00:46:29.220 Like you guys get,

00:46:30.020 you guys get body part pics.

00:46:32.660 You know what I get?

00:46:33.460 It's a joke.

00:46:34.100 It's a joke.

00:46:34.960 I make fun of cats,

00:46:36.000 so I get pussy pics all the time.

00:46:37.800 I get cats,

00:46:39.160 but it's cats.

00:46:40.220 Yeah.

00:46:40.760 So I get people sending me cat jokes

00:46:42.740 because I made a joke

00:46:43.540 about single women,

00:46:44.860 angel numbers,

00:46:45.640 horoscopes,

00:46:46.260 and cats and box wine.

00:46:48.080 I think they're so unattractive women

00:46:49.540 and send dick pics.

00:46:50.900 Yeah.

00:46:51.240 We don't like this.

00:46:52.100 Oh my gosh.

00:46:52.680 We hate it.

00:46:53.560 But that's your final plan.

00:46:54.640 I don't even like when they send me

00:46:55.300 a shirtless pic.

00:46:55.560 Can I just say this for anybody

00:46:57.100 who's listening?

00:46:58.300 Like girls only like dick pics

00:47:00.300 when we ask for that dick.

00:47:01.680 If you ever send an unsolicited dick,

00:47:04.080 there's no woman,

00:47:05.500 like I'm not going to say

00:47:06.320 no woman ever.

00:47:07.440 I'm going to say 10%

00:47:08.320 because I'm 10% of weirdos.

00:47:10.320 They're like,

00:47:10.860 oh my God,

00:47:11.620 thank you for that dick pic.

00:47:13.300 Yay!

00:47:14.020 Yeah,

00:47:14.480 the thing about it,

00:47:15.200 if you send a random dick pic to us,

00:47:17.440 it's very perverted.

00:47:18.880 It doesn't seem attractive.

00:47:20.220 Okay,

00:47:20.420 now you know how men think.

00:47:22.400 Men are fun football,

00:47:24.600 food,

00:47:25.340 and fucking.

00:47:26.120 We're simple.

00:47:27.060 Yeah.

00:47:27.320 We're simple creatures of habit,

00:47:28.700 right?

00:47:29.120 Men are always looking at women

00:47:31.140 as a sexual object.

00:47:32.260 That's why she said the perfect body.

00:47:33.700 Right?

00:47:34.060 That's why she said that.

00:47:35.200 Guys don't care about your degree.

00:47:37.000 Right.

00:47:37.240 Guys don't care about your money.

00:47:38.180 Now,

00:47:38.300 if they're simping

00:47:39.080 and they're like,

00:47:39.560 oh,

00:47:39.680 she's going to be my sugar mama.

00:47:42.320 But guys,

00:47:42.800 first look at the woman.

00:47:44.340 She's hot.

00:47:44.980 Whatever's in the desire of the guy,

00:47:47.240 sexually,

00:47:47.680 what he likes,

00:47:48.720 and he's going to look at her.

00:47:50.000 Now,

00:47:50.280 looks is also objective.

00:47:51.900 There's objective truth to that,

00:47:53.120 what beauty is,

00:47:53.900 but not subjective,

00:47:55.300 but objective.

00:47:55.960 So guys are like,

00:47:56.740 okay,

00:47:57.580 we think with our testosterone,

00:48:00.160 we were put here to breed,

00:48:01.660 procreate.

00:48:02.620 Women look at a guy

00:48:03.780 and they go for the resources,

00:48:05.260 not money.

00:48:05.720 When I say resources,

00:48:06.760 you're going to have children.

00:48:07.760 You want the best outcome

00:48:08.960 and probability for your family

00:48:10.680 to have longevity.

00:48:12.180 Right.

00:48:12.260 So you're not going to date

00:48:13.460 no scrub,

00:48:15.060 scrub,

00:48:16.100 right?

00:48:16.400 That's not your deal.

00:48:17.180 Or you're not going to have

00:48:18.060 a relationship with someone

00:48:19.340 or continue a relationship,

00:48:20.660 especially when you're looking

00:48:21.520 to have those things

00:48:22.340 with that person.

00:48:22.820 And you date at your level

00:48:23.920 and above.

00:48:25.240 You always date

00:48:25.960 at your level and above,

00:48:26.960 right?

00:48:27.340 No.

00:48:27.760 No.

00:48:28.320 So Sione can have a level above.

00:48:30.060 Okay.

00:48:30.180 No,

00:48:30.540 not with her.

00:48:31.580 So here's the challenge.

00:48:33.380 Here's the challenge.

00:48:34.360 Inherently.

00:48:35.760 Inherently.

00:48:36.400 Okay.

00:48:37.000 And again,

00:48:37.460 I'm going to go back to my data.

00:48:38.960 Okay.

00:48:39.400 Dr. David Buss has a book

00:48:40.780 called The Evolution of Desire.

00:48:42.700 Five years of interviewing

00:48:44.080 10,000 people all over the world,

00:48:46.220 different religions,

00:48:47.120 ethnic backgrounds,

00:48:47.900 whatever.

00:48:48.600 And the number one response

00:48:50.400 that women look for

00:48:51.620 in a man was resources.

00:48:53.860 So that's their level and above,

00:48:55.800 right?

00:48:56.480 Because what happens,

00:48:57.340 what happens biologically,

00:48:59.020 you're looking for somebody

00:48:59.820 better than you.

00:49:00.620 You want a man that's a hero,

00:49:01.540 right?

00:49:01.700 You want a guy that's successful

00:49:02.740 doing what he's doing.

00:49:03.840 When you date down,

00:49:04.800 what happens?

00:49:05.440 You lose respect

00:49:06.620 for that individual.

00:49:07.300 50-50.

00:49:08.220 I totally agree.

00:49:09.140 Okay.

00:49:09.740 Look at J-Lo.

00:49:10.820 Remember when she dated her,

00:49:11.840 well, J-Lo's got a bad record

00:49:13.120 as it is.

00:49:13.600 Right.

00:49:13.840 But she dated her dancer.

00:49:14.960 I'm like,

00:49:15.200 that ain't going to work.

00:49:16.640 She's paying for everything.

00:49:17.700 Yes.

00:49:18.020 Yeah.

00:49:18.800 Right?

00:49:19.320 And if I dated,

00:49:20.120 if I worked at,

00:49:21.480 no pun intended,

00:49:22.560 because I can't say UPS,

00:49:23.700 those guys make $170.

00:49:24.740 We're like,

00:49:26.820 we're like,

00:49:27.100 we're going to be,

00:49:28.360 if all the women are going to be

00:49:30.420 like outside with a tray of cookies,

00:49:32.580 like on UPS,

00:49:33.580 come.

00:49:34.580 Hey,

00:49:35.080 hey,

00:49:35.360 hey,

00:49:35.620 hey,

00:49:35.760 hey,

00:49:36.120 when you drive,

00:49:37.120 this is guys,

00:49:38.280 this is guys' mentality

00:49:39.380 to a point.

00:49:40.180 When I was young,

00:49:40.860 you're driving up to the,

00:49:41.980 in Seattle,

00:49:42.540 the latte stands,

00:49:43.720 we call them bikini baristas,

00:49:45.740 and all the stands in Seattle

00:49:47.280 have the girls with the bikinis on,

00:49:49.060 the lingerie.

00:49:49.820 Yeah.

00:49:50.060 I would drive up

00:49:51.120 and I'd see a dude

00:49:52.160 and I would just keep going.

00:49:54.160 Why?

00:49:54.640 I didn't go there for the coffee.

00:49:56.520 Right.

00:49:56.940 I went there for the boobs.

00:49:58.340 Right.

00:49:58.780 The coconuts.

00:49:59.780 The coconuts with the pasties.

00:50:01.440 So,

00:50:01.760 you know,

00:50:02.160 and I,

00:50:02.500 I told her,

00:50:02.980 oh,

00:50:03.280 I want to go to Dutch Brothers

00:50:05.080 and have a swirl latte,

00:50:06.840 double frappuccino latte

00:50:08.120 with a twist,

00:50:08.940 pumpkin spice.

00:50:10.120 I'm like,

00:50:10.840 okay,

00:50:11.440 is she hot?

00:50:13.420 Starbucks girls aren't hot.

00:50:15.200 They're wokies,

00:50:16.020 right?

00:50:16.320 First of all,

00:50:16.980 I've been working at Starbucks

00:50:17.660 for seven years.

00:50:18.760 Okay.

00:50:19.460 We're not giving us a wok.

00:50:20.620 You are the exception.

00:50:22.480 I know.

00:50:22.860 I know.

00:50:23.160 I know.

00:50:23.400 I'm playing with us.

00:50:24.600 I think we're just listening.

00:50:25.100 I don't like this,

00:50:25.240 even though.

00:50:26.020 Bye.

00:50:26.280 Bye.

00:50:26.980 Bye.

00:50:27.520 Bye.

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JustPearlyThings - August 18, 2023

She Got ROASTED

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