JustPearlyThings - October 27, 2023


She Kept RUNNING Away From This Question


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Length

8 minutes

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184.22502

Word count

1,561

Sentence count

209

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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8

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In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a traditional woman in the 21st century, how to deal with weed, and what it's like to be in a relationship with a woman who smokes weed.

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00:00:00.000 I'm still not hearing what makes you traditional.
00:00:02.200 Me?
00:00:04.160 I'm peace.
00:00:06.600 What does that mean?
00:00:08.160 I am peace to my partner.
00:00:10.620 Right, but what do you do specifically that brings me?
00:00:13.800 I communicate effectively.
00:00:14.700 I cook, I clean, I run our home effectively.
00:00:18.900 I do my part.
00:00:19.820 Okay, so, and you were, like, raised to do that?
00:00:21.940 Your mom taught you that?
00:00:23.740 My family taught me to do that.
00:00:25.300 My mother, my grandmothers, the men in my family.
00:00:28.300 I, yeah.
00:00:30.520 Okay.
00:00:31.100 But I do my part.
00:00:32.440 But they did their part, too.
00:00:34.480 What was their part?
00:00:35.540 The men in my family did their part, too.
00:00:37.040 They provided.
00:00:38.300 Yeah, my grandfather.
00:00:39.020 Okay, so you're saying you're actually.
00:00:40.540 I saw good examples of what men do and still do and have done.
00:00:46.300 So my grandfathers, my actual father.
00:00:50.680 Morals.
00:00:51.420 Yeah, my moral compass, I think, is we all, again, 78%, not 100%.
00:00:56.400 We all do things.
00:00:58.300 That precise number again.
00:01:01.900 Yes, we live in 2020.
00:01:03.840 What do you have?
00:01:04.140 Three.
00:01:04.420 So wait, how old are you again?
00:01:06.080 31.
00:01:06.940 Okay, so usually traditional women marry young, typically. 1.00
00:01:11.200 So what made you not?
00:01:12.120 Because I'm only asking because if a guy.
00:01:14.040 I don't think I said I was single in the beginning, did I?
00:01:16.100 Okay.
00:01:17.260 I didn't say.
00:01:17.980 I thought you said you weren't married.
00:01:19.820 I didn't say that.
00:01:20.680 But I'm not married.
00:01:21.680 Okay.
00:01:21.960 In the Western world, no, no.
00:01:24.660 Okay, but you got like a ring or something?
00:01:27.440 Yeah, I've got plenty of rings.
00:01:29.880 No, I meant like you did it in the church or something.
00:01:32.600 I don't know.
00:01:33.120 We don't do that.
00:01:34.140 Okay.
00:01:35.020 Are you married?
00:01:35.800 Are you married?
00:01:36.600 Yes.
00:01:36.800 Yes, I have a partner.
00:01:38.420 Are you married?
00:01:39.740 We are, yeah.
00:01:41.280 I mean, we are together, yes.
00:01:44.060 Are you married?
00:01:44.780 So no?
00:01:46.440 No to what the Western sign legal documents that count for something.
00:01:49.580 Well, I don't.
00:01:50.160 Yeah, no.
00:01:50.600 No, I don't have a ring or anything like today.
00:01:52.460 Islamically married.
00:01:54.040 Yeah.
00:01:54.820 Okay.
00:01:55.520 So.
00:01:56.140 Okay, so you are married.
00:01:57.760 Yeah, we go together.
00:02:00.500 A real bad.
00:02:01.100 A real bad.
00:02:02.480 Okay.
00:02:02.960 Okay, cool.
00:02:03.720 So your parents raised you to do that?
00:02:05.220 One of my purposes, yes.
00:02:08.080 Okay.
00:02:08.840 What about you?
00:02:09.460 Last ick?
00:02:10.680 I think I already said it.
00:02:11.800 Weed.
00:02:12.280 Weed.
00:02:13.000 Was that?
00:02:13.600 Did you go on a date?
00:02:14.320 You went on a date with someone and she was a smoker?
00:02:16.500 Yeah, like I rocked up at her house to pick her up and like the door opened and it was
00:02:21.900 just weed.
00:02:23.600 Central.
00:02:24.100 Weed central.
00:02:25.340 Amsterdam.
00:02:26.000 It was Amsterdam.
00:02:26.820 I'm like, dinner, cool.
00:02:28.640 See you next time.
00:02:29.640 I'll still be a gentleman and take her out for dinner and get to know her a little bit.
00:02:32.500 But it was just like that.
00:02:33.240 That was just in the back of my head the whole time.
00:02:35.220 It wasn't that much of a big ick if you still took her out.
00:02:37.880 Well, I didn't see her again.
00:02:40.260 You just got it through.
00:02:41.340 I was also hungry and wanted to eat.
00:02:45.160 I'm on my way.
00:02:47.800 I booked the table for two.
00:02:50.100 I don't want to sit like a dickhead.
00:02:52.080 Can I ask you why?
00:02:53.460 Why the weed is an ick?
00:02:54.680 I've just been around enough women when I was living in California and it just irritates 1.00
00:03:00.520 the hell out of me.
00:03:01.300 And me as well.
00:03:01.780 Like women who are high are the most annoying women on the planet. 1.00
00:03:05.220 Really?
00:03:05.620 I cannot stand it.
00:03:07.260 Okay.
00:03:07.900 I cannot stand it.
00:03:08.580 Yeah.
00:03:08.680 And they're always messy.
00:03:12.600 Their apartment is always a complete pigsty.
00:03:16.360 Like everything just stinks of weed all the time.
00:03:20.120 They think they're spiritual.
00:03:21.560 No, they think they're spiritual.
00:03:26.200 I know what you mean.
00:03:27.340 That's funny.
00:03:28.500 That's funny.
00:03:29.520 That's funny.
00:03:30.540 The biggest problem with a chick who smokes weed is like they get so dependent. 1.00
00:03:36.880 Yes.
00:03:37.560 Yes.
00:03:37.880 If you date a girl who's like smokes weed, because I did in the past, I've dated a girl 0.99
00:03:42.480 for like maybe, maybe it lasted like two weeks.
00:03:45.500 She was like a big weed smoker. 1.00
00:03:47.320 She couldn't go anywhere without a joint or a bong.
00:03:51.520 Like if she was without it for like half a day.
00:03:54.940 She'll start bugging out. 0.92
00:03:56.260 Man, they go nuts.
00:03:57.340 It's like they become hyper irritable, like super paranoid and annoying.
00:04:01.560 It's just like, calm down woman. 0.99
00:04:03.860 Like dear God, you have a problem.
00:04:05.860 You're addicted to this thing and you don't even admit it.
00:04:09.000 Yeah.
00:04:09.160 Yeah.
00:04:09.520 They'll never admit that they're hooked on it.
00:04:11.240 They'll never admit it.
00:04:11.840 Indulged.
00:04:12.380 So is it codependency?
00:04:13.760 Yeah.
00:04:14.020 Someone that has a codependency.
00:04:15.780 On marijuana.
00:04:16.780 Yeah.
00:04:16.980 Or anything.
00:04:17.520 So what if it's, yeah, what if it's another form of advice?
00:04:20.700 Yeah.
00:04:21.100 I mean, any other form.
00:04:22.200 I'm not, if she does, just any other like hardcore drugs.
00:04:25.300 It's a no.
00:04:26.160 I mean like.
00:04:26.580 Some people, if they don't have coffee, they might start doing exactly what you should say.
00:04:29.580 Maybe.
00:04:29.940 I mean, I've never, I've never met someone who sits there and chain, chain drinks.
00:04:33.300 Yeah.
00:04:33.620 It's coffee.
00:04:34.300 Like the caffeine.
00:04:35.020 I want more.
00:04:35.440 I want more, I want more, I want more.
00:04:36.760 I want more caffeine, more caffeine.
00:04:41.340 What about you?
00:04:42.220 Biggest ick?
00:04:45.500 Biggest ick, I think, is like political views and like values.
00:04:51.060 Like if they're a liberal, just don't even come near me at all.
00:04:54.420 I missed that one.
00:04:55.220 That's fine.
00:04:55.520 That's a good one.
00:04:56.620 If they're like, oh, I'm sixth boosted and I believe everything the government says.
00:05:01.140 Please don't come near me.
00:05:03.380 Please don't come near me.
00:05:04.720 I have one.
00:05:07.520 I'm a feminist. 1.00
00:05:08.760 Like a guy that says he's a feminist.
00:05:10.240 If he says to me, he's a feminist, I will throw up in my mouth. 0.86
00:05:15.040 I've been on a date like that.
00:05:18.520 He told me that.
00:05:19.060 I'm like, you were talking to the wrong.
00:05:23.980 Wait, was that recently?
00:05:25.400 Was that in the last few years?
00:05:26.600 No, this was, this was a couple of years ago.
00:05:28.780 Oh, okay.
00:05:29.340 So he wasn't aware.
00:05:30.340 No, no, no, no.
00:05:31.540 But I was like, this is the wrong.
00:05:32.620 No, that's a big red flag.
00:05:34.740 Because imagine.
00:05:35.260 Not only are you thick as shit, bro, but you're just not even a man at that point.
00:05:43.600 Yeah, they're very feminine. 0.92
00:05:45.020 They're very feminine. 0.98
00:05:46.260 Preach, preach.
00:05:46.920 They have a, just, it's like a hive mind.
00:05:51.220 It's like, they're just sort of robots.
00:05:54.440 Like, they're not even people at that point.
00:05:56.480 NPCs.
00:05:57.360 NPCs.
00:05:57.800 Like, you're just an NPC.
00:05:59.280 Men that wore masks.
00:06:01.140 I don't know.
00:06:01.920 I don't mess around with people like that.
00:06:03.700 That's an ick.
00:06:04.200 I'm liking this panel more and more.
00:06:07.300 That and an inability to see into the future.
00:06:10.840 And that just gives me an ick in people in general.
00:06:12.720 Like, if you can't see what you want and be able to put things into place to execute it,
00:06:18.920 that just tells me that you have an inability to think critically and strategically about
00:06:23.160 things, which I think is a really masculine trait to be able to do that.
00:06:26.520 And I think you were talking about the whole, a woman when she's older having to be in her 1.00
00:06:30.820 masculine energy more.
00:06:32.140 Well, that's because then women have to think about, right, I have no one to depend on who's 1.00
00:06:35.940 going to do this for me.
00:06:36.800 So I have to use my brain myself, which means I need to think about where I'm going to get
00:06:40.160 to and how I'm going to get there.
00:06:41.600 I think it's really attractive when you don't have to think around a man and you just know
00:06:47.680 they're going to get you somewhere.
00:06:49.900 But I do think women do need to have a level of being able to operate. 1.00
00:06:55.860 Because again, you know, if you have someone who can't operate, well, then you end up with
00:06:58.560 a liberal.
00:07:02.080 I can't.
00:07:03.260 King, do not start on the ability to make scrambled eggs.
00:07:08.200 King thinks scrambled eggs are an omelette basically chopped up.
00:07:12.020 No.
00:07:13.100 I get it.
00:07:14.960 Are scrambled eggs supposed to be fluffy?
00:07:16.560 Yeah, thank you.
00:07:17.760 They are.
00:07:18.180 They're the best.
00:07:20.860 Okay.
00:07:21.420 What about you, Ick?
00:07:25.360 Ick?
00:07:25.980 Probably somebody that's loud mouthed, overweight, a dictator.
00:07:32.040 Someone's like, oh, I'm going to sit there.
00:07:33.880 I don't like the way that looks or complains at the waiter or something like that.
00:07:37.060 Someone just doesn't make the whole night peaceful.
00:07:39.940 Have you been on a date recently where a girl did something and made you not want to talk
00:07:44.100 to her again?
00:07:44.600 See, I'm more of a long-term, my relationship has been long-term.
00:07:48.020 But in between those gaps, see, me as well, I'm a bad responder as well.
00:07:55.840 Because what you're saying about responses and that, I'm the kind of guy that will message
00:07:58.560 you and they won't message you back for a good couple hours.
00:08:00.980 It's not that I'm doing it on purpose, so I'm busy.
00:08:03.480 Do you know what I mean?
00:08:03.980 And for someone to keep consistently messaging me, consistently messaging me, that's kind
00:08:08.340 of unique for me as well.
00:08:09.700 Okay.
00:08:10.540 I kind of like to be.
00:08:11.340 Oh, so if they're messaging you too much.
00:08:13.900 Yeah.
00:08:14.380 And just don't look after themselves.
00:08:16.220 They need to look after themselves.
00:08:17.440 I wake up in the morning, I'm in the gym.
00:08:19.840 But she needs you.
00:08:21.200 She's like so excited.
00:08:22.860 Yeah.
00:08:23.360 He's like, no.
00:08:24.780 He's like, no.
00:08:26.840 Again, I'm a busy person.