JustPearlyThings - May 07, 2023


She Looks Down On Bus Drivers


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Length

10 minutes

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219.00461

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2,231

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157


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Transcript

00:00:00.000 But, yeah, so my question is, what does a 39-year-old single woman,
00:00:05.560 why does she feel comfortable shitting on a bus driver?
00:00:09.240 I think because she's, oh, sorry.
00:00:11.440 When the men say she's a six, roughly, and she, the kids is out the window.
00:00:17.600 So, I mean, because, like, as a guy, I'm assuming, right,
00:00:20.980 and you guys can tell me if I'm wrong,
00:00:21.960 you're going to go down a point in terms of marketability to you
00:00:24.900 because she can't have kids.
00:00:26.300 Yeah.
00:00:26.560 Yeah.
00:00:26.960 I had to end a relationship because the person was a few years older than me
00:00:30.980 and I knew that there wasn't going to be a future there.
00:00:33.380 By the time I was ready, she wasn't going to be ready.
00:00:35.240 Yeah.
00:00:35.480 I mean, so it's definitely a factor.
00:00:37.740 Yeah, so why are we in a society where an average chick is shitting on average men?
00:00:42.180 Because we're making more.
00:00:43.440 I think the reason why she can say that is because, obviously,
00:00:46.020 she's in an established position.
00:00:47.460 So, hence why, like you said, women always go for men that are doing better than them.
00:00:52.200 So, definitely, a bus driver would be her downgrading herself.
00:00:55.820 I understand the age factor, but at the end of the day, she's successful.
00:00:59.240 So, she should deserve to go for someone that's more successful than her.
00:01:02.260 Completely agree.
00:01:02.780 She's allowed to say that.
00:01:03.860 See, I disagree.
00:01:05.380 I think it's like, what is your marketability to men?
00:01:08.760 So, you can go after the men that make more than you,
00:01:11.440 but I think that's a recipe to die alone.
00:01:13.060 If you can't get the men that make more than you,
00:01:14.680 then you have to go down and you have to respect him.
00:01:17.500 But then the relationship's not going to work
00:01:19.140 because she's with someone that's broker than her.
00:01:20.900 Like, any guy who is broker than you,
00:01:23.280 broke men are so sad and depressed and dangerous
00:01:26.600 that she's going to be in an unhappy relationship.
00:01:29.060 But you're sitting at an average, like a bus driver, like he's broke.
00:01:31.240 He's not broke.
00:01:32.060 But my point, but see, this is the problem with our mentality as women.
00:01:37.720 We care more about the lifestyle than the family
00:01:40.180 because all we're thinking about is the money.
00:01:42.580 Well, he's broker than me.
00:01:43.660 But what percent of women are going to give up their careers for a family?
00:01:48.300 What percent of women are going to give up their lifestyles for a family?
00:01:51.340 But I think him being a bus driver, sorry,
00:01:53.200 I think him being a bus driver, that will contribute to the family aspect
00:01:57.720 because if a man is making less than a girl and can't provide,
00:02:01.640 he's going to feel inferior.
00:02:03.000 So, therefore, the marriage is eventually going to break down.
00:02:05.420 I don't think that, I think it's more that the woman makes the man feel inferior.
00:02:10.700 I don't think, like, honestly, like, I've gone for guys that make less than me,
00:02:16.120 but it's like if you don't treat them like they do, they, like.
00:02:19.040 They don't feel it.
00:02:19.940 Yeah, I was going to say.
00:02:21.160 And it's like if you're not super snotty and asking for, like, all these crazy shit.
00:02:25.520 Yeah, but everybody's entitled to their preference of, like, what they want.
00:02:28.960 Correct.
00:02:29.680 Everyone's entitled for what they want, but it's a recipe to die alone.
00:02:33.020 Like, this is what, would you rather have a bunch of money and be by yourself
00:02:36.720 or have a family?
00:02:38.060 But what does she do?
00:02:39.040 Like, is she just to present our businesses?
00:02:40.580 Yeah, she's like a newscaster.
00:02:42.020 And it's funny because her job is completely, like, you don't,
00:02:44.940 society doesn't need it to run.
00:02:46.820 So, it's like, I don't understand as women why we come off thinking
00:02:49.180 we're so much better than the men when our jobs aren't even needed in society to run.
00:02:53.800 Like, a bus driver, society needs to run.
00:02:56.580 But I think with hers, maybe hers, like, desire for, like, not even desire, sorry,
00:03:01.400 maybe her, like, disregard for a bus driver probably just stems from the fact
00:03:05.820 that maybe this was her ambition.
00:03:07.480 Like, you know how you said your end goal is to, like, marriage and kids?
00:03:09.680 I think that's maybe most girls' end goal.
00:03:11.780 Maybe she, her dream was to be a presenter or a news reporter or something like that.
00:03:16.180 And she's clearly 39, no kids, no man.
00:03:19.940 Like, I think she's sacrificed, she's made sacrifices to be in a position.
00:03:23.820 Like, if this was her end goal, then she's clearly sacrificed a lot,
00:03:27.200 like, 40 years of work, maybe, like, to get into this position.
00:03:30.360 So, I wouldn't blame her, like, if that was really the end goal,
00:03:32.440 I wouldn't blame her for disregarding a bus driver because it's, like,
00:03:35.740 she's 40 with no kids.
00:03:37.200 Like, why would she go back?
00:03:38.680 But I think, I think if you're a woman and, like, that's the position you choose
00:03:42.200 to put yourself in, you have to date down and be happy with it.
00:03:45.560 I don't think so.
00:03:46.000 Like, because otherwise, don't put yourself in that position.
00:03:48.620 Because what, what percent of men, like, make six figures?
00:03:51.620 So, it doesn't even have to be six figures.
00:03:56.340 Maybe, I'm so sorry, maybe she's not, like, shitting on the salary.
00:04:01.280 I think just, in the word itself, bus driver sounds like manual labor.
00:04:05.380 It sounds like either one or two.
00:04:07.260 But what's wrong with manual labor?
00:04:08.800 No, but that's the thing is, like, bus drivers, like, this is what I'm saying,
00:04:11.440 is, like, I've seen a bus so many times.
00:04:14.420 Like, 15 pounds, like, if I went on Indeed and saw 15 pounds an hour job,
00:04:18.460 I would not mind.
00:04:19.500 But it's something about driving a big red bus.
00:04:22.520 For me, personally, I just find it, I wouldn't even say embarrassing,
00:04:25.360 because there's people who drive buses.
00:04:27.600 But if I'm a news reporter, and you'll hop, like, there's people, like,
00:04:31.560 tapping the Oyster card, there's school kids at 3 p.m. on your bus,
00:04:34.160 and I'm here reporting globally, like, oh, my gosh, your king's been coronated,
00:04:37.860 and my man is driving kids from school.
00:04:40.280 So, but, like, what, it's, like, get off your high horse.
00:04:42.260 You talk, I talk for a living.
00:04:43.700 You're just talking.
00:04:44.700 But this is what I'm saying.
00:04:45.500 I don't think it's actually, like, the way,
00:04:48.520 I personally think it's just the position.
00:04:50.520 Because if you said it's 15 an hour, like, a musician, maybe, it might change.
00:04:54.180 I know, and I think that's the problem, is average women, like,
00:04:57.440 shit on average men.
00:04:59.280 And we act like we're better than them when we're not.
00:05:01.820 No, I think I've actually been, like, subject to doing that,
00:05:08.320 like, to actually thinking that I deserve more than what I can give to you.
00:05:14.040 Or exactly that, what I bring to the table, which is different for both.
00:05:18.260 Because the thing is, like, because you're a really successful musician,
00:05:21.900 because you've been on, like, X Factor or whatever, right?
00:05:24.100 So it's, like, if you put yourself in the top 10% of talent, right?
00:05:28.840 And that's great, but you have to know what comes with it.
00:05:32.960 And it doesn't make you more attractive to men.
00:05:34.760 Men don't care.
00:05:35.820 It's nothing.
00:05:36.920 And so it's, like, women will treat their career and act like it's an asset to men
00:05:40.860 when it's nothing.
00:05:41.900 You're still an average chick.
00:05:44.400 How old are you?
00:05:45.860 I'm 26.
00:05:46.920 26.
00:05:47.500 Do you have babies or?
00:05:49.140 I wish.
00:05:50.040 I'm trying.
00:05:51.100 Do you have a husband?
00:05:52.500 No, no, no ring.
00:05:53.920 But, no, and it's true to me, too.
00:05:56.660 It comes with, like, I could tell you because I'm in that situation.
00:05:58.900 It comes with a lot of problems.
00:06:00.080 You can't look like you're better than these men.
00:06:02.740 You have to speak from experience.
00:06:04.480 That's it.
00:06:05.160 Yeah, I just think the preference thing and, like, everyone's entitled to what
00:06:08.860 they think they desire and deserve, yeah, and the standard that they want for their life.
00:06:13.640 I don't agree with shitting on people.
00:06:15.980 Like, I don't agree with that.
00:06:17.140 I'm so against that, actually.
00:06:18.620 Like, I don't, I wouldn't say she really shat on the bus driver.
00:06:21.720 She just answered the question.
00:06:23.500 If she dissed it, oh, did she, I haven't watched the whole thing.
00:06:27.260 Oh, did she, did she?
00:06:28.740 If she does, then, oh, yeah, okay, because what I said isn't, ignore what I said.
00:06:31.900 But it's more like she doesn't ask him about his character.
00:06:34.240 He doesn't, she doesn't ask about his values.
00:06:36.260 It's just bus driver, he's out the door without asking any other questions.
00:06:40.420 And I'm saying, that's the problem.
00:06:41.620 No, I think that's wrong.
00:06:42.640 I'd like to speak to that.
00:06:43.460 Also, I think if she was younger, maybe, but you're so old.
00:06:46.920 Like, respectfully, you can't, what are you going to, if I was a man, I'd be like, what
00:06:51.860 can you provide for me?
00:06:52.760 You can't even make babies.
00:06:54.080 She doesn't want babies.
00:06:55.640 And what, if he doesn't want babies, she can find somebody on the same level as her.
00:06:58.980 But why would a man, why would a man marry a 39-year-old that can't offer him children?
00:07:05.860 Like, you officially.
00:07:06.200 Because he might have had his kids.
00:07:07.420 Like, surely if she's 39, she can probably go for someone that's about 50, 55.
00:07:10.560 He's probably had his kids.
00:07:11.320 Right, but then why, but then why would he get married at all?
00:07:15.080 He might, he might not get married.
00:07:16.440 And that's my, and that's my point.
00:07:17.300 But is marriage the epitome of success?
00:07:19.680 I think, I think as a woman, yeah, I think, I think you're a loser if you don't get married
00:07:23.200 and have kids.
00:07:24.180 I don't agree.
00:07:24.940 I think the equivalent of not getting married and having kids, I think the equivalent of
00:07:28.880 that is a guy that doesn't have a job.
00:07:31.840 But that's another thing as well that I think you have to consider, because you said that
00:07:34.740 she might want to date someone that's like maybe 55.
00:07:37.140 55, 55-year-old bus driver, but a 39-year-old TV presenter, I feel like is not the same.
00:07:43.520 I feel like realistically, the bus driver's not going to be like 20 years old.
00:07:46.760 He's probably going to be older.
00:07:47.720 So it's slightly more embarrassing that within your life, you didn't build a better career.
00:07:51.740 Right, but why does it matter if you have money?
00:07:54.480 So she has money.
00:07:55.400 Why does she need him?
00:07:56.320 Because naturally women, like naturally, like natural selection or whatever, like naturally
00:08:01.060 women feel more secure with a guy who has more money.
00:08:03.620 But this is the problem.
00:08:05.540 It's like, she's not a traditional woman.
00:08:07.620 How many bodies she got by 39?
00:08:10.260 Well, this is all assumption.
00:08:12.340 Oh, come on.
00:08:13.140 30.
00:08:13.400 You're telling me 20 years in the dating market.
00:08:15.680 But even if she does, even if she does, like I don't think that now.
00:08:19.620 That lowers your value to men.
00:08:21.140 It makes you less valuable.
00:08:22.620 So the whole point is she wants a traditional outcome, but she's not a traditional woman.
00:08:26.820 We don't know that yet.
00:08:27.660 I don't know that yet.
00:08:28.340 Actually, also, another thing a lot of people don't, and I noticed it, everyone just ignored
00:08:35.400 the fact that she's this quote unquote high value woman that earns this amount of money
00:08:40.500 and this and that.
00:08:41.680 And she's around a lot of high value men.
00:08:43.640 So why haven't any of them picked her?
00:08:45.940 That's very interesting.
00:08:46.880 And I only say that because I grew up with my brother and I can think like a man.
00:08:53.160 So with my brother, what I understood how men think is the older you get, how men think,
00:08:58.940 the more experience you have, whether you do or don't, only you and God knows.
00:09:02.000 It doesn't matter.
00:09:02.720 But the older you get, the way a man can view you is like you have a lot of experience.
00:09:07.620 Why are you single?
00:09:08.480 Why are you so old?
00:09:10.320 The older you get, you have more experience.
00:09:11.980 It's harder to change you, the older that you get.
00:09:14.960 So a man will go for a younger woman because they're able to perhaps manipulate.
00:09:19.260 Yeah, we can view it in a bad way or we can view it as they're able to, because I know
00:09:23.800 that if I was a man, I'd get someone younger so that I can mold them to what I want them
00:09:27.500 to be.
00:09:28.180 You lot can sit there and be like, oh, you know, he's manipulating, he's grooming.
00:09:31.900 All right, cool.
00:09:32.380 But actually, I know that if I go for a 30 year old woman, they're going to be stuck in
00:09:37.600 their ways.
00:09:38.000 If you both smoke, I've got a 20 year old woman there, 30 year old woman there, both
00:09:42.400 of you smoke.
00:09:43.940 I can actually probably change a 20 year old woman, but a 30 year old woman, I don't think
00:09:47.400 there's going to be much trouble.
00:09:48.200 I think two are supposed to become one flesh anyways.
00:09:51.480 Right.
00:09:52.080 So, and that's like, that's how they used to view it, is they were one.
00:09:55.800 I think, you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
00:10:01.580 this platform.
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