She Looks Down On Bus Drivers
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Summary
In this episode, the guys talk about why a 39-year-old single woman shits on a bus driver and why it makes her more marketable to a younger guy. They also discuss why women tend to go for men who make less than them and why they should go for a man who makes more than them.
Transcript
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But, yeah, so my question is, what does a 39-year-old single woman,
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why does she feel comfortable shitting on a bus driver?
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When the men say she's a six, roughly, and she, the kids is out the window.
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So, I mean, because, like, as a guy, I'm assuming, right,
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you're going to go down a point in terms of marketability to you
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I had to end a relationship because the person was a few years older than me
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and I knew that there wasn't going to be a future there.
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By the time I was ready, she wasn't going to be ready.
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Yeah, so why are we in a society where an average chick is shitting on average men?
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I think the reason why she can say that is because, obviously,
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So, hence why, like you said, women always go for men that are doing better than them.
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So, definitely, a bus driver would be her downgrading herself.
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I understand the age factor, but at the end of the day, she's successful.
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So, she should deserve to go for someone that's more successful than her.
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I think it's like, what is your marketability to men?
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So, you can go after the men that make more than you,
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If you can't get the men that make more than you,
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then you have to go down and you have to respect him.
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because she's with someone that's broker than her.
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broke men are so sad and depressed and dangerous
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that she's going to be in an unhappy relationship.
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But you're sitting at an average, like a bus driver, like he's broke.
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But my point, but see, this is the problem with our mentality as women.
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We care more about the lifestyle than the family
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But what percent of women are going to give up their careers for a family?
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What percent of women are going to give up their lifestyles for a family?
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I think him being a bus driver, that will contribute to the family aspect
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because if a man is making less than a girl and can't provide,
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So, therefore, the marriage is eventually going to break down.
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I don't think that, I think it's more that the woman makes the man feel inferior.
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I don't think, like, honestly, like, I've gone for guys that make less than me,
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but it's like if you don't treat them like they do, they, like.
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And it's like if you're not super snotty and asking for, like, all these crazy shit.
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Yeah, but everybody's entitled to their preference of, like, what they want.
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Everyone's entitled for what they want, but it's a recipe to die alone.
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Like, this is what, would you rather have a bunch of money and be by yourself
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And it's funny because her job is completely, like, you don't,
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So, it's like, I don't understand as women why we come off thinking
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we're so much better than the men when our jobs aren't even needed in society to run.
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But I think with hers, maybe hers, like, desire for, like, not even desire, sorry,
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maybe her, like, disregard for a bus driver probably just stems from the fact
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Like, you know how you said your end goal is to, like, marriage and kids?
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Maybe she, her dream was to be a presenter or a news reporter or something like that.
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Like, I think she's sacrificed, she's made sacrifices to be in a position.
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Like, if this was her end goal, then she's clearly sacrificed a lot,
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like, 40 years of work, maybe, like, to get into this position.
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So, I wouldn't blame her, like, if that was really the end goal,
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I wouldn't blame her for disregarding a bus driver because it's, like,
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But I think, I think if you're a woman and, like, that's the position you choose
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to put yourself in, you have to date down and be happy with it.
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Like, because otherwise, don't put yourself in that position.
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Because what, what percent of men, like, make six figures?
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Maybe, I'm so sorry, maybe she's not, like, shitting on the salary.
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I think just, in the word itself, bus driver sounds like manual labor.
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No, but that's the thing is, like, bus drivers, like, this is what I'm saying,
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Like, 15 pounds, like, if I went on Indeed and saw 15 pounds an hour job,
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But it's something about driving a big red bus.
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For me, personally, I just find it, I wouldn't even say embarrassing,
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But if I'm a news reporter, and you'll hop, like, there's people, like,
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tapping the Oyster card, there's school kids at 3 p.m. on your bus,
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and I'm here reporting globally, like, oh, my gosh, your king's been coronated,
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So, but, like, what, it's, like, get off your high horse.
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Because if you said it's 15 an hour, like, a musician, maybe, it might change.
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I know, and I think that's the problem, is average women, like,
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And we act like we're better than them when we're not.
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No, I think I've actually been, like, subject to doing that,
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like, to actually thinking that I deserve more than what I can give to you.
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Or exactly that, what I bring to the table, which is different for both.
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Because the thing is, like, because you're a really successful musician,
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because you've been on, like, X Factor or whatever, right?
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So it's, like, if you put yourself in the top 10% of talent, right?
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And that's great, but you have to know what comes with it.
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And it doesn't make you more attractive to men.
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And so it's, like, women will treat their career and act like it's an asset to men
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It comes with, like, I could tell you because I'm in that situation.
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You can't look like you're better than these men.
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Yeah, I just think the preference thing and, like, everyone's entitled to what
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they think they desire and deserve, yeah, and the standard that they want for their life.
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Like, I don't, I wouldn't say she really shat on the bus driver.
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If she dissed it, oh, did she, I haven't watched the whole thing.
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If she does, then, oh, yeah, okay, because what I said isn't, ignore what I said.
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But it's more like she doesn't ask him about his character.
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It's just bus driver, he's out the door without asking any other questions.
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Also, I think if she was younger, maybe, but you're so old.
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Like, respectfully, you can't, what are you going to, if I was a man, I'd be like, what
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And what, if he doesn't want babies, she can find somebody on the same level as her.
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But why would a man, why would a man marry a 39-year-old that can't offer him children?
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Like, surely if she's 39, she can probably go for someone that's about 50, 55.
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Right, but then why, but then why would he get married at all?
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I think, I think as a woman, yeah, I think, I think you're a loser if you don't get married
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I think the equivalent of not getting married and having kids, I think the equivalent of
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But that's another thing as well that I think you have to consider, because you said that
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she might want to date someone that's like maybe 55.
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55, 55-year-old bus driver, but a 39-year-old TV presenter, I feel like is not the same.
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I feel like realistically, the bus driver's not going to be like 20 years old.
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So it's slightly more embarrassing that within your life, you didn't build a better career.
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Right, but why does it matter if you have money?
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Because naturally women, like naturally, like natural selection or whatever, like naturally
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women feel more secure with a guy who has more money.
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You're telling me 20 years in the dating market.
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But even if she does, even if she does, like I don't think that now.
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So the whole point is she wants a traditional outcome, but she's not a traditional woman.
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Actually, also, another thing a lot of people don't, and I noticed it, everyone just ignored
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the fact that she's this quote unquote high value woman that earns this amount of money
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And I only say that because I grew up with my brother and I can think like a man.
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So with my brother, what I understood how men think is the older you get, how men think,
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the more experience you have, whether you do or don't, only you and God knows.
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But the older you get, the way a man can view you is like you have a lot of experience.
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It's harder to change you, the older that you get.
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So a man will go for a younger woman because they're able to perhaps manipulate.
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Yeah, we can view it in a bad way or we can view it as they're able to, because I know
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that if I was a man, I'd get someone younger so that I can mold them to what I want them
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You lot can sit there and be like, oh, you know, he's manipulating, he's grooming.
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But actually, I know that if I go for a 30 year old woman, they're going to be stuck in
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If you both smoke, I've got a 20 year old woman there, 30 year old woman there, both
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I can actually probably change a 20 year old woman, but a 30 year old woman, I don't think
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I think two are supposed to become one flesh anyways.
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So, and that's like, that's how they used to view it, is they were one.
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I think, you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
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