JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023


She Made A Confession That DISPROVED ALL Feminist Ideologies


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In this episode, we talk about feminism and how it affects us and our mental health. We talk about what it means to be a feminist and why we should all be fighting for women to have the same rights as men.

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00:00:00.000 I think it's really mean that feminists push women into these fields and say, you can do anything a man can do. 1.00
00:00:06.000 Do you know what? I think that's something that always confused me about me being a feminist, because I feel like I've always like my mom was a housewife and my dad like has his business and work so that she could look after it.
00:00:14.840 She had a career before, but then she gave that up to look after me and my brother, which I am so grateful for that.
00:00:19.900 I had, you know, my mom around all the time. That was amazing. And I've always wanted to do that.
00:00:23.740 You know, when I have children, I would want to be a housewife. I love to cook and clean.
00:00:27.380 Like, I feel like I don't think I'm a traditional woman at all, but I feel like in some kind of sense, I can hear it in your voice on the show.
00:00:36.180 Yeah, I can hear traditional views about marriage and things like that.
00:00:39.720 Is it just me, Kiga? Like, I can almost hear when women have fathers in their voices.
00:00:45.260 Not as much as just by the way you guys like talk.
00:00:49.300 But but I think what feminists will do is say, hey, young girls that are impressionable. 1.00
00:00:55.100 Right. Because, you know, you can be convinced of anything.
00:00:57.680 Yeah. Oh, definitely. So so you tell them, hey, you can do anything a guy can do.
00:01:02.280 Go be an engineer. Here's a grant. We're really pushing women. 1.00
00:01:05.780 And then the women go do it and they hate it. Yeah. 1.00
00:01:08.560 I just feel like I wasn't made for that, like nine to five, like hardworking life, which I'll happily admit, like maybe I'm lazy.
00:01:14.140 I don't know. I was just made to, you know, have my own business and do my own thing.
00:01:17.400 I'm a lot happier, more comfortable, you know, being at home with my dog and doing that.
00:01:21.120 Then I am going out to work. It gives me such bad anxiety. It makes my mental health terrible.
00:01:25.420 Thank you. Thank you for admitting. Yeah.
00:01:28.060 Women do not want to do hard jobs. I don't either. 1.00
00:01:31.760 I do not want to do construction. None of that.
00:01:34.080 No, I could never do that. Correct.
00:01:35.480 And so like if we're talking to the women and none of us want to do it, is it maybe it's not a patriarchy.
00:01:40.840 Yeah. Or an oppression. It's just we don't want to do it.
00:01:44.220 Yeah. But then there are some women that do want to or maybe with different societal conditioning would maybe want to. 1.00
00:01:49.720 I don't think so. You don't think there's a single woman that would actually want to? 1.00
00:01:53.920 I think there's exceptions, but usually those exceptions are like, they're very masculine women. 1.00
00:02:01.900 Yeah. Keyword, you said with societal conditioning.
00:02:05.960 Yeah. That is the problem. Right. Okay.
00:02:08.240 That is the real problem because women are being conditioned to do things that are not, they are not built for. 1.00
00:02:13.720 Right. Yeah.
00:02:14.720 So you shouldn't condition women to do things. If you were to leave men and women and not interfere with them, they would naturally go and do the things that they are successful.
00:02:25.900 Right. Because that's the problem is we're trying to tell women be something you're not. 1.00
00:02:29.440 Yeah.
00:02:29.820 Yeah. And I think it's like kind of mean. I'm like, why are they trying to.
00:02:33.500 Do you think that that's a big reason why so many women struggle with their mental health?
00:02:38.420 Yes.
00:02:39.040 Yeah.
00:02:39.280 I mean, and I don't think we're meant to have all these sexual partners.
00:02:43.440 You know what I mean? Like, I don't think we're meant to have all these sexual partners. I don't think we're meant to like, go not have children. You know, like, that's what I realized. One of the biggest red pills for me was even though I don't believe in feminism, in a way I've lived my life as a feminist because I went to college.
00:03:02.300 And it's even like you being able to share your views now, people could argue that that's because of feminism. 1.00
00:03:07.360 Wrong. No, it's not. No, it's not. We could, we could. The reason, the crazy thing is feminists, if feminism, like, feminists did not fight to share their views because they were openly able to share them. 1.00
00:03:20.940 Right.
00:03:21.360 They were not like prosecuted for being feminists. They were prosecuted because they planned assassinations. 1.00
00:03:26.180 Yeah.
00:03:26.620 And they were, they were actually a very radical group. And the funny thing is they were funded by a man.
00:03:32.840 Right. Yeah.
00:03:33.500 So the, the, that's, that's the funny thing. If you follow the money, it's a man.
00:03:37.580 Yeah. Usually always.
00:03:39.320 But like this, this idea that like women couldn't, like Cleopatra was in BC. 0.96
00:03:45.880 Yeah.
00:03:46.220 Like Joan of Arc. Like there's always been women in history that have been influential. We've always been able to speak. I would argue that most women had more influence and power than most men. 1.00
00:03:56.620 Because we've always had beauty.
00:03:58.100 Yeah. And I mean, Cleopatra, she literally seduced all the Roman emperors. Like, she was like running things. 0.98
00:04:03.680 Yes.
00:04:04.180 She was great. She also made the first ever vibrator as well. 0.99
00:04:08.100 She was.
00:04:08.660 Isn't that incredible? I know she put some bees in a jar and that's how the first vibrator was ever created. 1.00
00:04:13.740 So thank you, Cleopatra.
00:04:15.540 That kind of grosses me.
00:04:18.620 But, but you, you see, even, even that, that's not natural. Why do you have, it's like, we're supposed to have husbands.
00:04:25.580 Yeah.
00:04:26.320 Because like, we've been, you know what I mean? Like.
00:04:28.840 With all her wisdom and power, she decided to invent a vibration.
00:04:31.900 Yeah.
00:04:32.580 I think that was a great decision from her.
00:04:34.960 No, but what I'm saying is, think about it. Because we keep trying to say men and women are the same and women are equal.
00:04:39.900 So this is Cleopatra, who is literally one of the most powerful, maybe you could say one of, one of the smart, smarter women that have lived. 1.00
00:04:47.000 Right. But she chose to do something with her brain that was still sexual.
00:04:52.140 She did a lot of things that were sexual. 1.00
00:04:54.260 That's my point. So why did, why did she use all that intelligence and influence to actually do what the men do? 1.00
00:05:00.740 Well, she did it all. She did that as well. 0.91
00:05:02.660 No. Everything she did in the realm of men was done by men, not by her.
00:05:06.680 No, but I feel like she influenced them, you know, because they were in love with her.
00:05:10.380 And actually, you know, people say that she wasn't actually very beautiful.
00:05:13.160 Like people only fell for her because of her intelligence and she could speak, was it like eight languages or something?
00:05:18.740 And it was said that the men actually only fell for her because of that and not for her beauty.
00:05:23.720 She wasn't actually supposed to be that beautiful.
00:05:25.340 Yeah, the beta man.
00:05:26.240 But even so, it's like women, I would argue most women have had power, more power than men, because we start in the world young and beautiful. 0.98
00:05:39.800 Right. Yeah.
00:05:40.460 So I would argue, because again, most people didn't have power in history.
00:05:44.240 It was such a small percentage.
00:05:45.660 Oh, yeah, of course. I feel like because we learn about that, you assume that that's like a huge amount of people, don't you?
00:05:50.400 Yeah, it was like the average jobs, like in the U.S., like two, three hundred years ago, it was like coal miner, farmhand or factory worker.
00:06:02.220 Right. Yeah.
00:06:02.840 Like what? Your life sucks.
00:06:04.220 Yeah.
00:06:04.480 It's like sucks, sucks, sucks.
00:06:06.880 And then we'll point out and be like men oppressed us.
00:06:09.360 And it's like men built the whole society.
00:06:11.720 Like we couldn't even have a society to oppress if we didn't have men.
00:06:14.920 Right.
00:06:15.440 So it's like if the women could build a society, they go do it. 1.00
00:06:18.540 But we can't.
00:06:19.400 But do you feel like that's maybe because like men were in the army, they had more like strength in that kind of way, in like the physical sense?
00:06:26.060 I think men are built superior to women. 1.00
00:06:29.120 Just like physically?
00:06:30.240 I think there's a couple of things.
00:06:31.840 One, they, so when me and you have a conversation, we go, we, a lot of times you'll say it depends.
00:06:38.000 Yeah.
00:06:38.340 And your default is more subjectivity.
00:06:40.620 Yeah. Whereas they use like logic.
00:06:42.180 No, they do hierarchy. 0.96
00:06:43.760 Right.
00:06:43.940 So men, you're not going to notice it.
00:06:45.580 I don't even notice it.
00:06:46.440 But men like size each other up and like there's an underlying threat of violence.
00:06:51.280 Right.
00:06:51.600 And they organize themselves into hierarchy where women, it's more that we might do social hierarchy. 1.00
00:06:56.900 But when it comes to like, like we, we just, we, we trend more towards subjectivity.
00:07:02.280 It's subjective.
00:07:03.380 Yeah.
00:07:03.520 I don't want to call a hoe a hoe. 1.00
00:07:04.940 Yeah.
00:07:05.340 Where the men went in and they said, this is a hoe. 1.00
00:07:07.780 This is a slut. 1.00
00:07:08.560 This is a, right?
00:07:09.280 When we did the show.
00:07:09.980 So, so the, the men are superior when it comes to building and running societies and the fact
00:07:16.820 that they can make a hierarchical organization to make a society run.
00:07:21.580 Yeah.
00:07:22.100 Women just don't do that. 1.00
00:07:24.120 Yeah.
00:07:24.720 I guess I would agree with that.
00:07:25.440 We get our periods one day and we're just crazy naturally.
00:07:28.940 Yeah.
00:07:29.220 We can't, how are, you know, women are. 1.00
00:07:30.900 The wing before our period, we definitely are.
00:07:32.580 Women are more likely to wage war. 1.00
00:07:34.700 Yeah.
00:07:35.400 Because it will get our period and be like, I'm fighting with Brazil. 1.00
00:07:38.420 Well, fuck them.
00:07:39.180 And then also we don't have to fight in the world.
00:07:40.640 Yes.
00:07:41.700 Yes.
00:07:42.320 Yes.
00:07:43.040 So a lot of people think like I hate women, but I actually think what they've done to us 1.00
00:07:47.120 the last hundred years has been mean.
00:07:49.040 Yeah.
00:07:49.420 Because we're all confused.
00:07:50.960 Yeah.
00:07:51.120 None of us know how to have a happy, stable relationship.
00:07:53.640 Like, I just think it's like, we're all just confused.
00:07:56.860 Yeah.
00:07:57.260 And we've been told for a hundred.
00:07:58.860 I was even thinking like, I did sports from the time I was like 10, you know, that raises
00:08:04.480 your testosterone.
00:08:05.680 Oh, I did gymnastics and dancing.
00:08:07.660 Yes.
00:08:08.160 So a lot of times like women in sports will be more masculine. 1.00
00:08:11.760 What kind of sport did you do?
00:08:12.860 I did basketball, volleyball.
00:08:14.320 Oh, I can see that.
00:08:15.240 You know, I loved volleyball.
00:08:16.540 Yeah.
00:08:16.680 I never like did it like at school or anything, but I loved playing at the beach.
00:08:19.700 And you know, all the lesbians are on the basketball team. 1.00
00:08:22.060 Yeah.
00:08:22.400 Because it's a more masculine.
00:08:24.080 Right.
00:08:24.300 Yeah.
00:08:24.480 But so it's like, they're confusing us.
00:08:26.620 Yeah.
00:08:27.380 They're confusing us and they're telling us to do things we're not good at.
00:08:29.840 So what do you think that girls shouldn't do sports? 1.00
00:08:32.880 Well, I don't want to, I love sports so much.
00:08:35.920 That's really hard for me to say.
00:08:37.620 I don't think surely it's not a bad thing for girls to do sports. 1.00
00:08:41.040 I don't know.
00:08:41.800 There's there, it's tough because I look at data and I do see what sports does to women 1.00
00:08:47.600 in the longterm.
00:08:48.400 And I see like a lot of the women that take volleyball to the extreme, basketball to the 1.00
00:08:53.160 extreme, they end up by them damn selves. 0.62
00:08:55.600 Right.
00:08:55.980 So maybe if that, is that what's right for that kind of individual?
00:08:59.340 Well, I do believe in free will and free choice, but what I don't think we should do
00:09:03.500 is push women to do things that they're not naturally, they don't naturally want to do. 1.00
00:09:08.920 Yeah.
00:09:09.360 I think maybe I just naturally wanted to be an athlete.
00:09:11.920 My parent, it was just a family thing, but like, I don't think we should be in society
00:09:16.780 pushing women and having all these programs to push us to be engineers, push us to be 1.00
00:09:23.280 does that make sense?
00:09:24.340 Yeah.
00:09:24.580 And it's, I guess it's kind of like, you know, when parents push their kids to do a certain
00:09:27.780 sport as well.
00:09:28.760 If they want to do it, so be it.
00:09:30.640 Yeah.
00:09:30.800 Cause I mean, I love gymnastics.
00:09:32.080 I was so naturally good at it.
00:09:33.820 Like, but yeah, I guess I would have hated it if my like parents pushed me to do that.
00:09:36.680 But that's what they're doing in the schools and society and with the money.
00:09:40.520 It's so funny.
00:09:41.580 Men pay like seven, I calculated it out the other day, King.
00:09:45.380 Like I took the actual numbers.
00:09:46.960 It's like 72 or 74% of taxes.
00:09:49.440 So they take their money to push women into their fields. 1.00
00:09:52.900 Right.
00:09:53.500 Isn't that crazy?
00:09:54.520 They'll put grants.
00:09:55.280 It's like, they'll take care.
00:09:56.120 We'll take the men's money and, and pay the women to take their job. 1.00