JustPearlyThings - August 02, 2023


She Said THIS About Attractive Men


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Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

199.95386

Word Count

2,600

Sentence Count

361

Misogynist Sentences

33

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Like, men will remarry more likely than women.
00:00:04.880 I have a question.
00:00:06.340 I guess I am.
00:00:07.540 Do women go for looks more than personality?
00:00:11.460 No.
00:00:12.720 Huh?
00:00:13.040 Say again?
00:00:13.680 Well, actually, most women, but I think that's what I was saying about using eyes.
00:00:17.320 Let's be honest now.
00:00:17.960 No.
00:00:18.700 I'm be pressing no.
00:00:20.160 But know what?
00:00:20.760 What?
00:00:21.160 I would go for personality overlook.
00:00:23.360 I'll come.
00:00:23.960 Obviously, you have to be attracted to them in some way.
00:00:26.880 Yeah.
00:00:27.140 But, like, can we put a face to it?
00:00:29.600 Thank you.
00:00:29.860 Thank you.
00:00:30.840 Do you know what I mean?
00:00:31.880 I give a whole bunch.
00:00:33.000 I'm ready for this.
00:00:34.520 Can you give me two men, a side-by-side?
00:00:38.340 Thank you.
00:00:39.100 But we don't know them.
00:00:40.280 Two pictures.
00:00:41.160 Come on.
00:00:41.580 No, I know.
00:00:41.880 But we can just say one is funny and one is a square, right?
00:00:46.540 I think it is like looks bring you in and then personality keeps you.
00:00:50.580 I think both sides.
00:00:51.620 So then looks.
00:00:53.500 So then it's the looks that's first.
00:00:55.680 Because you can't.
00:00:56.380 You know what I mean?
00:00:57.240 You know what I mean?
00:00:57.880 You can't be attracted to the personality.
00:00:59.940 Say, for instance, you have a friend, right?
00:01:00.660 And you've got to know them over a certain amount of time.
00:01:03.960 Yeah.
00:01:04.400 You didn't necessarily find them attractive at first.
00:01:06.140 But because you spent so much time with them.
00:01:08.280 Come on.
00:01:09.460 No, man.
00:01:10.460 And then they're like, you're batted to the bench and all this kind of stuff.
00:01:13.500 And then that's what you're doing.
00:01:14.280 The worst thing you see when you say a guy is he's cute.
00:01:16.220 Right.
00:01:17.260 Yeah, but.
00:01:17.980 And then you start looking for the thing that's cute on him.
00:01:19.880 You guys are boring.
00:01:21.880 They don't have personality.
00:01:22.360 I don't know who you're talking to.
00:01:27.720 Quite basic.
00:01:31.820 I'd rather.
00:01:33.180 Yeah.
00:01:33.920 But you're right.
00:01:34.740 Like if there's someone that you work with, like someone that you're in their proximity,
00:01:38.540 it can grow.
00:01:40.380 It can.
00:01:41.160 But then at the same time, it's looks.
00:01:43.040 You're going to look at somebody first hand and be like, oh, this guy or this girl looks good.
00:01:46.780 Let me know a bit more about that person.
00:01:49.200 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:01:50.320 Yeah.
00:01:50.860 I got to.
00:01:51.720 I got to be honest.
00:01:53.840 Looks first.
00:01:54.820 It has to be.
00:01:55.800 Come on.
00:01:56.420 I feel like if you make it like personality first, you're just not as attractive.
00:02:01.140 You know, it's like.
00:02:01.660 Come on.
00:02:02.200 You're just going to friend zone that person.
00:02:03.820 Right.
00:02:04.360 In what context are we actually talking about?
00:02:07.500 Like if a good looking guy comes up to me.
00:02:10.360 You got him.
00:02:10.880 You got him.
00:02:11.740 Okay.
00:02:13.340 All right.
00:02:13.900 Yeah.
00:02:14.040 Let's go.
00:02:14.560 Let's go.
00:02:15.320 Let's go.
00:02:15.900 All right.
00:02:16.380 He's got brilliant personality though.
00:02:18.860 Yeah.
00:02:19.200 Yeah.
00:02:19.520 Yeah.
00:02:19.800 One hundred percent.
00:02:20.620 And he is a dog.
00:02:21.840 This does not work through.
00:02:23.060 This does not work through photos.
00:02:24.980 This is literally.
00:02:26.400 You get to know someone.
00:02:27.180 No.
00:02:27.700 Be real.
00:02:28.040 Is this who we would pick?
00:02:29.020 That's two amazing photos.
00:02:29.860 All right.
00:02:30.180 So, you know.
00:02:31.100 I mean.
00:02:31.500 He's got great personality.
00:02:32.860 And he's a dog.
00:02:33.780 Yeah.
00:02:34.600 So, what are you looking at?
00:02:36.500 Are you looking at the personality then?
00:02:38.320 No.
00:02:38.560 It's deeper than that.
00:02:40.020 I'm not talking about.
00:02:41.360 Watch someone on TV.
00:02:42.720 You're like, oh, yeah.
00:02:43.660 Are we delusional here now?
00:02:45.220 No.
00:02:45.440 It's about you connecting with that person.
00:02:47.720 Delusional woman.
00:02:48.700 Delusional.
00:02:49.780 It's about you connecting with that person.
00:02:52.320 It's got nothing to do with whether they're a comedian or not.
00:02:53.740 So, what would you go for?
00:02:55.060 Is there a guy on the left's personality like Amrisa?
00:02:56.720 I don't know.
00:02:57.280 I don't even know.
00:02:57.960 But you know what, yeah?
00:02:59.000 Are we choosing?
00:03:00.040 I'll be honest.
00:03:00.580 One guy's a comedian.
00:03:01.460 The other guy's obviously awesome.
00:03:02.040 Yeah, but forget that, yeah.
00:03:03.360 I'll be very honest, though.
00:03:04.880 There's been a lot of relationships that I've seen that, yeah, they're with that person based
00:03:09.180 on personality.
00:03:09.900 And sometimes I wonder how.
00:03:11.640 It's a beautiful thing because it's like, you know, you two connect energy-wise and whatever.
00:03:15.220 It is a beautiful thing.
00:03:16.440 But then I kind of feel like, well, where does it go?
00:03:21.440 How does a, you know, how did you attract that person?
00:03:24.860 You said it could be a friend.
00:03:26.120 But let's say it wasn't a friend.
00:03:27.020 Let's say that I'm approaching you.
00:03:28.280 Let's say I'm approaching you now.
00:03:29.900 Hi, how are you?
00:03:32.000 You're going to look at me before I speak.
00:03:34.340 That's what I'm saying.
00:03:34.880 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:35.300 There has to be some sort of attraction.
00:03:37.140 There has to be some sort of attraction.
00:03:38.280 So, then looks has to play a big part.
00:03:39.980 But that's only if you're not in their proximity.
00:03:41.800 Yeah, I agree with you.
00:03:42.780 If you don't know the person, looks bring you in.
00:03:44.420 But if you're choosing someone with them or something.
00:03:48.680 I have a theory with that.
00:03:50.540 I'm one of the ladies.
00:03:51.560 You tell me if this is true.
00:03:53.300 So, there's immediate yes.
00:03:54.980 You see him, immediate yes.
00:03:56.540 Yeah.
00:03:56.800 Yeah, that's my type.
00:03:58.340 Immediate no.
00:03:59.360 There's nothing the guy in the no category could ever do to become a yes.
00:04:03.040 Yeah.
00:04:03.360 And then there's the maybes.
00:04:05.000 Okay.
00:04:05.400 So, the maybes are like, depending on what he says, he could be a yes or a no.
00:04:13.080 Some girls see men and they're like, oh, I have to get this.
00:04:16.240 Yeah.
00:04:16.900 I have to get this.
00:04:18.000 Yeah, but I've...
00:04:19.300 He's cute.
00:04:19.880 He's mine tonight.
00:04:20.700 Come on.
00:04:21.340 Girls speak like that.
00:04:22.300 I don't have one night stand.
00:04:24.340 So, not he's mine tonight.
00:04:25.560 I'm just saying, like, there's a lot of females.
00:04:28.060 I wouldn't want someone that's really, really, really attractive.
00:04:31.980 Why not?
00:04:32.420 I just wouldn't.
00:04:33.580 Doesn't that make you tingle?
00:04:34.880 Like, ooh, look at this.
00:04:36.400 I have a theory on this, too.
00:04:39.000 I have a theory.
00:04:40.220 You know what I mean?
00:04:40.940 I feel like when women say this, when women in general, not saying you, but it's because
00:04:47.420 they don't want to compete for that guy.
00:04:49.400 It's like they would have to do too much.
00:04:52.060 The girls are throwing themselves at him.
00:04:55.520 It's just like, we don't need that trouble in our lives.
00:04:58.640 You don't see a guy in the night and be like, oh, I wonder what his personality is like.
00:05:02.480 Never.
00:05:03.780 Yeah, but a lot of girls don't give the good looking guy or any guy a chance to even show
00:05:09.040 personality.
00:05:09.960 So, it's almost like, mate, everybody's at the same level.
00:05:13.120 You feel hard done by.
00:05:14.500 I mean, everybody has been, isn't it?
00:05:16.580 You know what I'm saying?
00:05:17.540 You know, like, I haven't always been successful.
00:05:20.860 Let's be real.
00:05:21.600 Like, everybody's been shut down.
00:05:23.640 Like, I'm sure most women have, too.
00:05:26.340 Like, it's not, you know.
00:05:27.920 But at the same time, it is a good question.
00:05:30.580 Because for me, like I said, I've seen relationships where, you know, how did I get together?
00:05:35.740 Like, she is a 10 and he's a minus 5.
00:05:38.920 It happens way more that way around as well, which is why I think women do grow for personality
00:05:44.380 more than looks than men.
00:05:46.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:47.360 Well, also, women find 80% of men as unattractive.
00:05:51.280 Not okay.
00:05:52.400 Not he's all right.
00:05:53.120 Like, they think 80% of men are ugly.
00:05:55.660 Really?
00:05:56.080 How?
00:05:56.360 Why?
00:05:56.560 If they, you know, if they see 10 men and they say, do you find him attractive?
00:06:00.620 They say, no, I do not at all.
00:06:02.780 He's ugly to eight of them.
00:06:03.980 On what world?
00:06:04.920 I don't, I don't.
00:06:05.880 I can see that.
00:06:06.740 I don't see that.
00:06:07.100 So, you could do, there are some studies where they just ask, they show them pictures and
00:06:11.800 the women, this is what the women say.
00:06:13.100 Or you can also look at dating app data where women only swipe right roughly 5% of the time.
00:06:18.400 Mm-hmm.
00:06:19.320 True.
00:06:19.640 Fair enough.
00:06:19.980 So, where men, on the other hand, they swipe right 50% of the time.
00:06:24.940 We're like, our finger hurts.
00:06:27.080 Yes, yes, yes.
00:06:27.640 Our finger hurts.
00:06:28.900 That's to do with the sex thing where we can choose who we sleep with, who we see.
00:06:35.160 Men can't as much.
00:06:36.680 So, they're probably just like, they're probably not looking for a relationship when they're clicking
00:06:40.160 50%.
00:06:40.980 Can I ask you a question?
00:06:41.780 Well, that's the number one way people are meeting.
00:06:43.700 That's the number one way people are meeting today.
00:06:46.160 And you could argue that nowadays, sex comes before relationships.
00:06:50.000 Thank you.
00:06:50.540 So, in a way, the sex is where it starts.
00:06:55.080 Right.
00:06:55.540 I'm not happy with this world.
00:06:57.960 It's not a relationship.
00:06:58.860 So, the question I want to ask you is, all right, cool.
00:07:02.220 So, if, I don't know, you're going to have a one-night stand or if you had a one-night stand
00:07:07.700 or whatever, you're going to be attracted by his looks rather than his personality.
00:07:12.540 I don't have one-night stand.
00:07:13.440 No, no, but if you were the, if, do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:15.600 I'm not saying you have, or I'm not saying if you would, but I'm saying it would be your
00:07:19.040 looks, right?
00:07:20.000 I need to connect more than their looks.
00:07:22.040 That's why I don't have them because I wouldn't even want to.
00:07:24.540 Even if I thought they were really attractive, I'd be like, I don't feel connected to you.
00:07:30.160 Fair enough.
00:07:30.760 It's just not, it's not the kind of sex that I have.
00:07:32.380 You know, it is deeper women, though, isn't it?
00:07:32.940 It is deeper.
00:07:33.800 I can't understand that.
00:07:35.860 I think it's just the people that's here because we're going to have other women who would see
00:07:40.720 it differently.
00:07:41.500 As a man, would you be a woman based on personality?
00:07:45.960 100%.
00:07:46.400 Everything.
00:07:47.280 She ticks, but she's not like your type.
00:07:50.480 I'm not saying she's ugly.
00:07:51.720 She's just not your type.
00:07:52.220 Shoot, yeah, there's times I've approached a girl, well, before my relationship, of course,
00:07:57.940 and get that in there.
00:08:00.580 Not now, though.
00:08:01.260 Not now.
00:08:02.920 You're looking all pretty and that, but then when I walk up to you and you open your mouth,
00:08:07.460 I'm like, no.
00:08:10.740 As soon as you open a mouth, I'm like, no.
00:08:12.680 Would you agree she has to be over a certain baseline, though?
00:08:15.860 You ain't dating no girl that's like 300 pounds.
00:08:19.560 No.
00:08:20.200 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:20.800 You know you don't agree, or yes, you would date 300 pounds.
00:08:25.240 You dating her?
00:08:25.960 No.
00:08:26.380 Okay.
00:08:26.880 Yeah.
00:08:27.060 Each that I know.
00:08:27.840 So there has to be like a basic level of attracting.
00:08:29.460 Yeah, I was just going to say that.
00:08:29.740 That's just my preference.
00:08:31.380 Yeah.
00:08:31.820 Exactly, and everybody has their own types.
00:08:33.200 Everybody has their own preference.
00:08:34.420 Some guys only like bigger women, so.
00:08:36.600 Now, is that in stone?
00:08:37.900 Yeah, no.
00:08:38.760 There's men that like big women.
00:08:40.020 There are exceptions, though.
00:08:40.480 I think it's a cultural thing as well.
00:08:42.300 Okay, so if...
00:08:42.900 Caribbean, African men.
00:08:44.240 I'm just going to add the way I'm from.
00:08:45.620 There's men not like the other women.
00:08:46.680 I'm going to break this down.
00:08:48.360 All right.
00:08:48.460 Okay.
00:08:48.760 So if men, if men really liked bigger women, right?
00:08:53.360 If that was really their type, why is it when men have all the options to sleep with whoever
00:08:59.440 they want, money, status, looks, who do they pick?
00:09:04.100 A slim one.
00:09:04.960 A slim woman.
00:09:06.300 Slim woman.
00:09:07.060 I'm just going, I'm not going from statistics.
00:09:09.820 I'm going from real life and experience and being around, you know.
00:09:13.160 No, this is real life.
00:09:13.480 Look at, look at this.
00:09:16.740 No, but I'm saying the guys that like bigger women, they usually don't have options.
00:09:20.740 That's true.
00:09:21.600 That's true.
00:09:22.660 Hey, that is facts.
00:09:24.440 Yeah.
00:09:25.160 That is facts.
00:09:26.140 That's the real thing.
00:09:27.660 It's like the men that are like, oh, I'm not picky.
00:09:30.880 Well, you can't be.
00:09:32.840 No, I can't lie.
00:09:35.040 She put a name in that.
00:09:36.400 No, what is 300 pounds in stone?
00:09:38.760 I just want to check because are we talking about, obviously curvy girls are appreciated,
00:09:43.040 but if it's big, big, then yeah.
00:09:47.120 Well, but also there is still guys that like it, but I don't think they're in the minority.
00:09:51.160 21 stone.
00:09:53.320 Yeah, I think they're in the minority.
00:09:54.900 How much pounds is that?
00:09:56.340 That's 300 pounds.
00:09:57.860 300, yeah.
00:09:58.500 Yeah, that's a lot.
00:09:59.760 21 stone.
00:10:01.060 Yeah, yeah.
00:10:02.140 That's like, here, show.
00:10:03.840 Blessing's got a picture.
00:10:04.760 21 inches and stuff.
00:10:06.780 Yeah, I was about to say that.
00:10:08.500 I was about to say that.
00:10:09.280 You've got feeders and all this kind of stuff.
00:10:11.720 Whoa.
00:10:12.320 Guys, probably a small percentage, but there are like feeders and they love fattening their
00:10:16.620 women up.
00:10:17.380 But see, this is the problem right here.
00:10:20.180 That's not.
00:10:20.680 You're the problem a little bit.
00:10:22.680 Who, me?
00:10:23.140 Respectfully.
00:10:23.540 Yeah, because, okay.
00:10:24.480 Because it's like you keep saying, yeah, yeah.
00:10:26.200 Because this is how we live in this delusion.
00:10:27.700 You're the problem, babe.
00:10:28.440 Yeah, respectfully.
00:10:29.460 Because we keep living in this clown world of delusion because we keep telling women,
00:10:35.640 oh, there's some guys that like that, da, da, da, da, da.
00:10:38.560 You don't look like that.
00:10:40.060 You know if you looked like that.
00:10:41.460 No, guys would be lining up.
00:10:42.880 You're beautiful.
00:10:43.620 So it's like, you're going to have these outcomes.
00:10:47.400 And if I said you look like her, you would be offended.
00:10:50.700 I mean.
00:10:51.680 I mean.
00:10:53.400 You would be so offended.
00:10:54.760 I mean, I wouldn't be offended because I know I don't look like that.
00:10:57.220 Imagine you got cheated on with her.
00:11:01.020 I'd be like, you can have him.
00:11:02.480 The thing is, I do have a couple of beautiful friends that do weigh a lot and their personality
00:11:09.260 is unbelievable.
00:11:10.300 Can I see?
00:11:11.120 Can I see them?
00:11:12.240 I want to see if they are.
00:11:13.120 I won't show the screen.
00:11:14.300 I just want to see like between me and you.
00:11:16.100 You have your phone.
00:11:17.320 No, I just don't think that's fair.
00:11:20.700 I'll show you after.
00:11:21.780 Honestly, like she has the most beautiful face like ever.
00:11:25.680 And she does have curves as well as being overweight.
00:11:28.020 So there's definitely guys that will like it.
00:11:30.000 And her personality is, it's one of the best personalities I've ever met.
00:11:32.800 So I do think she's still attractive and she should be.
00:11:35.760 But I think she's probably an exception.
00:11:38.020 Yeah.
00:11:38.240 And also like my sister is a larger lady.
00:11:41.120 And she's beautiful.
00:11:44.240 She's stunning.
00:11:44.660 Can I see?
00:11:45.240 She's, you can see a picture of her.
00:11:46.960 She's absolutely stunning.
00:11:48.200 Because a lot of times we use these words.
00:11:49.980 And when I see stunning, I see like eights, sevens to tens.
00:11:54.540 That's like stunning for me.
00:11:55.920 Let me find a picture.
00:11:56.700 My sister is amazing.
00:11:57.940 So I feel at that specific weight.
00:12:01.660 I will show it on the camera.
00:12:03.860 I would help my woman to get fit and healthy.
00:12:08.320 My sister is amazing.
00:12:09.140 So if you really likes her personality, you can just get her in the gym.
00:12:12.280 What?
00:12:13.380 She wouldn't get in the door.
00:12:14.920 She couldn't fit.
00:12:16.360 That's what I was going to say.
00:12:17.720 Oh no.
00:12:18.500 It's at a specific weight.
00:12:19.800 Because 300 pounds is like.
00:12:21.400 That's a lot.
00:12:21.940 To get there.
00:12:22.540 This is the most recent picture of it.
00:12:23.940 It's only her face, but.
00:12:25.040 Yeah, she's beautiful.
00:12:26.320 Did I meet her?
00:12:27.060 I met her at the show.
00:12:29.120 She's cute, but like I can see she's fat.
00:12:32.420 Yeah, she's chugging.
00:12:34.320 Okay, so she's gay.
00:12:36.460 When she was younger, she did date guys.
00:12:40.220 When I mean, when we go out, I'm not even seen.
00:12:45.720 Like she's got a big.
00:12:48.080 Bunda.
00:12:49.280 Yeah.
00:12:50.400 And like she gets harassed by guys.
00:12:53.640 Literally.
00:12:54.280 Like it's unreal.
00:12:55.380 And that's why I say.
00:12:56.180 Actually, Blassing, I think this would be really great to go into our next topic.
00:13:00.080 Oh.