She Said This About Short Guys
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Summary
In this episode we talk about short men shaming fat women, fat chicks shaming short men and why men don t like fat chicks. We also talk about body positivity and why it's not just for women. We hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to subscribe on your favourite streaming platform so you never miss an episode.
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But that's why, you know, body positivity is not for men.
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If there is short men shaming, they say body shaming.
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Like five, was it five, seven energy or whatever.
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I actually think, is being a short man the equivalent of being an overweight woman?
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Short men are allowed to be angry and overweight women kind of aren't allowed to be angry.
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If a fat woman's angry, it's like, oh, it's weird.
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You could at least like do something to be able to change it.
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But when you're short as a guy, short as generally anyway,
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that's why I call it short people syndrome as well,
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I think that, I think that, I'm not going to say it.
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I've never been attacked by a short man, but the fat chicks come for you.
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With all this body positivity that is going on.
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Like that's something that can be done, but women will like ridicule guys for their height
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No, you can get, you can get, you can get your shins.
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What do you think would have more of a public uproar?
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I feel like the media is controlled by the feminine energy.
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Like I say I don't date short guys and I never really have a reaction.
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But if I say men don't date fat chicks, typically.
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It got picked up by UK gossip and everyone slated me for it.
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Like that's, that's something that needs to be worked on.
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Yeah, I think that it's okay to accept that being overweight,
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even when I put on weight, I accept that I'm not attractive in this moment.
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Like if I put on weight and stuff, I don't think it's anything.
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How much weight you put on, why you don't think you try to?
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How, how do you like, are there any indicators like within like the guys
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that approach you depending on what your weight is?
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I know I've lost weight when I appeal to a certain demographic,
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and I know I've gained weight when I appeal to a different demographic,
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Or do you think that after a divorce, there's a certain amount of time
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I think women tend to move on quicker than men anyway,
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If you're doing something there, just try and keep it under wraps a little bit.
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Like women, this is what I kind of read about women.
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Women will go through this emotional transition straight away and kind of get over it.
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And, you know, they have the girls kind of gassing them up along the way,
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And then maybe like six months down the line and just,
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he just gets a shot in his chest when he just remembers like he lost you.
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And it's like one of those things that kind of hits men a bit later on.
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But I think, um, yeah, just get out there, man.
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Cause if you're going to spend time thinking about that person and,
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I would say a year, especially if you've got kids, I don't think you should bring,
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I think when you start distracting yourself with men, when you've got kids,
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So I think the priority post divorce should be their wellbeing.
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So if you're out there meeting new men, immediately your kids are suffering.
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Cause it's different if you've got kids and if you don't have kids for.
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I mean, uh, you should give yourself a break as well to understand what's going on.
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And you shouldn't just like, like complete the void of the previous man with another one
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So give yourself a break to understand because he said emotional,
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you know, you go through some emotional transitions and all that.
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So you need to give yourself a break to understand what's going on.
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I was like, no, because one, I feel like if it's a divorce,
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then it's probably been like a long time coming.
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You probably are in a mental space where you're already ready to step out of the relationship.
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But then with having kids, it makes it a bit more sticky.
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Cause like, yeah, you can't really be bringing random people around with your kids.
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But you know, you don't have to necessarily even bring them home or anything.
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Think about how it broke down and try and fix that about yourself.
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And then when you kind of feel like you're making headway with it,
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But I feel like all you lot are capping with the moving on in terms of like physically,
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I think emotionally, like maybe give it a bit of time
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after you've actually figured out what happened in your last one.
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Do you guys think that women mentally leave before they break up a relationship?
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I don't want to have guaranteed sex with you anymore, regardless of your headache.
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So have you guys ever mentally broken up with someone before you've broken up with someone?
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Like, when did you know you were going to dump him?
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Cause that one was actually a really of a mess on and off one.
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So this one, we were together about like three months and I knew in two months that I wanted
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So the, the four or five or the four year one, you, you don't know.
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It's like, we were on and off throughout the whole four years.
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I was just, after the first time we broke up, I was over it.
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Um, I would say three months before breaking up.
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Like I had a terrible vetting process at that time.
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And then she was like, yo, I'm gonna do all these things when we get serious.
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It was like a, you know when, yeah, free strikes.
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I'll give you, I'll give you, I'll give you, I'll give you one.
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Um, uh, she just, she just disrespected herself on, online.
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It's like some, some people's behaviors might be triggers for you to act out our character
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or mess up your vibes and then your energy and all that kind of stuff.
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So if someone's showing you that they don't respect you like that, they just listen to them, innit?
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So we don't, like, I'm not going to sit here and have a big folder full of, um, red flags.
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I'll just have three and then I'll just cool it off.
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And then, yeah, cause you know, nah, do you know what happens?
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Did you show her, wait, wait, I have a question.
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Did you show her the album at the end and be like, this is reason B?
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Nah, like, um, what it is, is sometimes you'll get lost in the sauce.
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She had a lot of great quality, but there was just a lot of-
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I feel like anyone who, one to ten, she was, she was above a seven.
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Do you feel like you give girls more wiggle room if they're, if they're hotter?
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Like you gotta, you gotta look yourself in the mirror.
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So if someone's taking a piss, you gotta be like, look, come on, man.
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And I think that's where people will say it's ego, but that's where you gotta kind of really
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That's why if you set yourself like those morals and those ground rules for yourself,
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then no matter who steps in front of you, if they disrespect you, then they've disrespected
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You gotta kind of hold yourself accountable to them.