JustPearlyThings - June 13, 2023


She Said This To Pearl’s Face


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

224.5223

Word Count

2,585

Sentence Count

184

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the case of Andrew Tate and how he has affected the way we view him in the public eye. We discuss his arrest, his trial and what we think about the outcome of the case. We also discuss his impact on women and the way he presents himself to the public.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So today we're talking about The Notorious, you know, they do call me, you know, I'm not
00:00:05.300 going to say who, Insider, called me the female Andrew Tate, you know, so, so, question, do
00:00:11.960 you guys know who Andrew Tate is, yes or no?
00:00:14.540 Of course, I do.
00:00:16.420 What?
00:00:16.980 Yeah?
00:00:17.280 Yeah.
00:00:17.680 And what are your opinions?
00:00:19.020 Denelva, why don't you start being that Denelva was actually on a panel, we started off as
00:00:23.660 arch nemesis, but then, you know, we've come together and she came on a panel with Andrew
00:00:29.040 Tate.
00:00:29.360 Yes.
00:00:30.760 Okay, do you know what?
00:00:31.700 I've been getting these questions a lot because I saw a video, well, two videos where he was
00:00:36.800 being physically abusive towards women, right?
00:00:40.280 And that kind of made me be, you know, lose a lot of respect.
00:00:44.000 What was the one in bed?
00:00:45.040 Yeah, and there was another one as well.
00:00:46.580 And I'm thinking, okay, even if it's for fun, for joke, this, this, that, for me, I don't
00:00:51.800 condone those sort of things as a woman.
00:00:53.940 So on that level.
00:00:54.760 Even if she's asking him to do it?
00:00:56.160 Even on that level.
00:00:57.100 As a man, you respect yourself.
00:00:58.360 Those are things that you shouldn't be doing.
00:00:59.540 I asked a lot of my guys' friends if they would do it.
00:01:01.600 So she's saying, like, choke me.
00:01:03.020 Like, he's supposed to.
00:01:04.420 That was not choking.
00:01:05.700 That was a different extreme sort of level.
00:01:08.120 I know because I recognize certain things.
00:01:10.540 So for me, as a woman.
00:01:11.600 From experience?
00:01:12.840 From experience.
00:01:13.560 And not in a good way.
00:01:14.740 So the reenactment for me, I think, is something that shouldn't be done, shouldn't be publicized,
00:01:18.120 shouldn't be monetized.
00:01:19.060 There's no fun behind it.
00:01:20.380 I think it's quite toxic.
00:01:21.800 So on that level, my respect for what he stands for, not for what he stands for, but for how
00:01:27.460 he speaks and presents himself.
00:01:29.020 I'm like, you're a bit dodgy.
00:01:30.100 At least own up to your demons before you start talking like you're so righteous.
00:01:33.440 That's it.
00:01:34.060 But he's cool.
00:01:34.840 He's cool.
00:01:35.220 So he's cool outside of the bedroom fun that he did.
00:01:38.220 Well, he's cool on the surface.
00:01:39.940 He's inside.
00:01:40.680 I guess we need to kind of find out a little bit more about who is he.
00:01:43.280 Okay.
00:01:43.840 All right.
00:01:44.100 Do you have a strong opinion on Tate?
00:01:46.520 I don't really know him that much.
00:01:48.120 Just from, like, little clips that I've seen.
00:01:50.300 He just, like, talks down on women from my perspective.
00:01:53.560 I don't really like him like that.
00:01:55.700 But, like, I don't know.
00:01:58.260 But, like, what happened with his whole situation, him going to jail, I felt like it was a little
00:02:02.400 bit unfair because there was not, like, a lot of evidence on it.
00:02:04.700 So, yeah.
00:02:05.620 I don't know.
00:02:06.220 I just feel like he deserves a fair chance.
00:02:08.060 Like, yeah.
00:02:08.720 Do you think he's getting an unfair trial now?
00:02:11.620 Because there's not a lot of evidence.
00:02:13.420 Yeah.
00:02:13.800 I think there's no evidence.
00:02:15.260 Yeah.
00:02:15.620 I feel like it's an unfair trial because if you don't, if you can't say what's, if you
00:02:19.220 can't show any, like, evidence of what someone's done, then you can't charge that person for it.
00:02:23.700 It's not fair.
00:02:24.760 But I think because of his past as well, because of all the things he's said, everyone's like,
00:02:27.720 yeah, that's who he is.
00:02:28.580 He's doing that.
00:02:29.160 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:30.200 Yeah.
00:02:30.580 It's not just, that's what I have to say anyway.
00:02:32.700 Okay.
00:02:33.180 Cool.
00:02:33.440 What about you?
00:02:33.960 For me, I have mixed opinions when it comes to Andrew Tate.
00:02:37.340 On the one hand, I agree with his whole movement to kind of build strong men.
00:02:42.860 But on the other hand, I just feel like he got too addicted to the clout and he got too
00:02:47.240 addicted to the outrage marketing and started to say a lot of outrageous things, which is
00:02:51.680 now catching up with him.
00:02:52.860 And he's finding it hard to, you know, back himself now that he's being cornered.
00:02:57.060 There's a reason why it says in the Bible in James 1.19, you should be slow to speak.
00:03:01.280 Because when you think about what you're saying in the future, no one can pin you against,
00:03:06.180 no one can hold something against you by saying, remember when you said this about women?
00:03:09.400 Remember when you said that?
00:03:10.560 So I think he just got too excited or got too loose and got too addicted to the outrage
00:03:16.140 marketing and the algorithm, you know, constantly promoting him because he said something outrageous,
00:03:20.580 this, that and that.
00:03:21.160 And I was kind of falling against him.
00:03:22.500 So I just feel like he had the right ideas, but if he handled it in a more mature way and
00:03:27.000 thought about things that he was saying, he wouldn't be in this position right now.
00:03:30.800 Do you think he could have gotten as big if he didn't do the outrage?
00:03:35.020 He would have definitely not, wouldn't have gotten this big.
00:03:37.680 But it's the same thing with you.
00:03:39.140 You're quite a big person.
00:03:40.200 You're basically the female Andrew Tate.
00:03:41.800 But the reason why you've been able to sustain it and you haven't found yourself where you've
00:03:44.840 been cornered like Andrew Tate is because I feel like you're very clever when it comes to
00:03:48.320 saying things in a way that won't get you, you know, people to crucify you.
00:03:53.620 Him, on the other hand, I feel like he got too addicted to that.
00:03:56.420 And I just feel like you don't have to fall into that trap of having to say outrageous things.
00:04:01.820 So what was like super outrageous?
00:04:03.820 So the video that you mentioned, I'm just finding out about this.
00:04:07.360 What else that he mentioned?
00:04:08.460 He mentioned how he likes to S traffic women, I'm believing.
00:04:13.460 I don't think he ever, you know, he never said that.
00:04:15.420 He's not stupid.
00:04:16.300 He would never go on public record and be like, yeah, I like the traffic people.
00:04:19.940 Well, there's evidence of it.
00:04:20.900 I remember watching an interview with Candice Owens and she mentioned how there was a woman
00:04:25.420 who basically admitted to joining his little S trafficking room.
00:04:30.280 I mean, obviously, they agreed to it.
00:04:32.860 I will put that.
00:04:34.620 Yeah, but it's only like, it's not sex trafficking if you can leave.
00:04:38.860 Yeah.
00:04:39.780 He ran a cam studio business out of London for a while.
00:04:44.740 But he wasn't like, hey, you want to come get sex trafficked?
00:04:48.060 So what exactly, what is it that he was doing?
00:04:50.200 Like, if you could explain in like detail, what was he doing with women?
00:04:52.840 Well, he basically, he had a cam business and he would date some of them.
00:04:58.400 And so the issue was like, they're, they're trying to say like, they couldn't leave because
00:05:02.600 they were in love with him.
00:05:03.580 He was a pimp.
00:05:04.620 And that's another problem.
00:05:06.400 And this is, maybe an e-pimp.
00:05:08.640 But it's like, it's like, okay, you're telling me you were trafficked.
00:05:11.820 If you're, you're living in a mansion, he takes some luxury shop.
00:05:16.480 Like, I'm just thinking if I went home to my dad and I was like, dad, I have this new
00:05:19.320 boyfriend.
00:05:20.000 He had me do cam work.
00:05:21.400 I lived in a mansion.
00:05:22.400 He took me luxury shopping, but I am the victim.
00:05:25.280 I'm like, how are you a victim?
00:05:27.060 But then that's where you are.
00:05:28.440 If you were living in a mansion.
00:05:30.340 But then that's why I feel like what else was Andrew Tate expecting?
00:05:33.160 Like if you get a woman in the house and you're not committing to any of them and you're taking
00:05:36.540 them luxury shopping, but you're not really, you already know how women are.
00:05:40.220 Women are the type of person.
00:05:41.260 If you even whistle at them, they will scream rape.
00:05:43.580 But now, sorry, great.
00:05:44.500 But now you have this whole household.
00:05:46.060 It's just like, it wasn't a smart move.
00:05:47.800 Maybe at the time it was entertaining to him.
00:05:49.540 Women do this shit all the time.
00:05:51.240 They'll go on dates with multiple men and accept resources from them and they get in no
00:05:55.020 trouble.
00:05:55.800 Yeah.
00:05:55.960 But Andrew Tate is the same person that says men don't do this and don't fall into that
00:05:59.840 trap.
00:06:00.120 But yeah, he's done it.
00:06:00.960 And I was falling back against it.
00:06:02.220 What did he do?
00:06:02.940 He's the type of person.
00:06:03.800 I'm sure he's the type of person that will tell men like, don't go for this woman who
00:06:07.180 knows how to open a Lamborghini door, gets excited by luxury things.
00:06:10.740 And now you're the same man that's accepting these things.
00:06:13.620 These are dumb.
00:06:14.340 He knows that he's dealing with dumb girls and probably girls that are with him because
00:06:17.300 they just want clout and attention.
00:06:18.900 And now you're confused to why they've all gone against you in the media.
00:06:21.680 I don't think they're against him.
00:06:23.520 I don't think he was trying to marry them.
00:06:26.000 I think he was trying to make money.
00:06:27.860 Yeah.
00:06:28.180 Yeah.
00:06:28.500 I mean, you can do that at the end of the day if he wanted to make money.
00:06:31.180 But now it's kind of going against him because this is what always happens in these little
00:06:34.440 playboy mansions where you have so many women.
00:06:36.800 Women end up lying.
00:06:37.900 Women end up using it against you.
00:06:39.720 And this is another problem I have with Andrew Tate, not to stretch it, is his encouragement
00:06:44.760 for men to not get married and to fall into this lifestyle of just having different women.
00:06:49.660 If people don't get married, the family structure will fall apart.
00:06:53.900 So the same man that is in defense of the family structure is the same person that's
00:06:57.300 encouraging things that's going to make it fall apart.
00:06:59.060 Yeah, but why don't we put it on the women to be more worth marrying?
00:07:02.140 Like a hundred years ago, you know, you're considered a whore, like an absolute whore
00:07:05.440 if you didn't wait till you were married.
00:07:06.900 You know what percent of women wait till they're married today?
00:07:09.100 Five percent.
00:07:10.200 Yeah.
00:07:10.660 Five percent are like traditional wife material.
00:07:13.580 And out of the five percent, like what percent are like actually believe in submitting to a man?
00:07:17.660 What percent?
00:07:18.220 So it's like, so how are we going to blame Tate when it's like the women today aren't worth marrying?
00:07:23.480 Yeah.
00:07:23.780 But I feel like you can say that.
00:07:25.280 But someone like Tate can't say something like that if you're dealing with these women
00:07:28.600 behind the scenes and entertaining their games.
00:07:30.460 But he's not marrying them.
00:07:31.920 But he's entertaining.
00:07:32.940 They look all, I don't want to call it prostitution, but whatever it is to do.
00:07:35.860 And it kind of is.
00:07:36.500 And then what about if you accept a date from a guy you don't like, which 50 percent of
00:07:39.840 women have done at some point in their life?
00:07:41.740 They've accepted a date for a free meal.
00:07:43.540 Are they now indebted to that man?
00:07:45.480 They're not indebted to that man.
00:07:46.620 But it's like.
00:07:47.440 So what about like, do they deserve it?
00:07:48.960 Can he do anything now?
00:07:50.360 I just feel like Tate seems like he's someone who's able to recognize a trick or a little
00:07:55.780 gold digger.
00:07:56.460 And yet he continued to deal with them.
00:07:58.220 And it's just like, what else was you expecting?
00:08:00.120 So that's my only point.
00:08:01.300 It's like, what else was you expecting?
00:08:02.860 So I feel like with Tate, he has the great, he has good values, but even with having good
00:08:08.000 values and the right vision, you have to go about it the right way and in a smart way
00:08:11.720 and think long term rather than speaking so loosely out your mouth.
00:08:14.700 And I just wish he went about things in a more smarter way and he would have been able
00:08:18.280 to sustain this mission that he has to build a strong, stronger man.
00:08:22.980 And I totally believe in that aspect of him, but I just feel like he got too excited and
00:08:26.900 carried away.
00:08:27.520 And now, you know, his beard is overgrown and his hair is kind of.
00:08:30.740 What do you think?
00:08:33.460 Me personally, I haven't heard much of, I've heard things about him, negative things, but
00:08:39.960 I haven't looked into anything about him just because when I see something negative about
00:08:43.960 a person, I'm not really going to want to look into that because I don't want negativity
00:08:47.400 in my life.
00:08:48.100 I don't need to like dig deeper into any of that.
00:08:51.940 So I haven't gone out my way to look at anything about him.
00:08:55.120 I've just heard things.
00:08:56.180 I've seen a couple of clips on like TikTok and things.
00:09:00.720 So I'm pretty excited for this little video right now.
00:09:03.740 Okay.
00:09:04.000 So I can actually.
00:09:05.160 It's a long video.
00:09:05.660 It's how little it is.
00:09:07.620 I'm excited so I can actually like gather my opinion on him and see things about him
00:09:12.160 because I actually generally don't really know anything.
00:09:14.360 Cool.
00:09:14.980 Cool.
00:09:15.360 What about you?
00:09:16.200 What is your opinion?
00:09:16.900 I just, I just think Andrew Tate is a overall net positive for men because for the last
00:09:22.380 decade plus, everywhere a man goes on television, on movies, in music and in video games and
00:09:31.400 social media, they're just shitting on men nonstop.
00:09:35.000 I went back to America recently and I watched television and I watched the commercials and
00:09:38.440 everything is clearly geared to financially extorting women under the guise of like female
00:09:45.200 empowerment.
00:09:45.720 And I just can't believe that they fell for this shit.
00:09:48.500 Like, especially when you have all these American women like saying like, we're better
00:09:51.980 than men.
00:09:52.480 We're better than men yet we're oppressed at the same time.
00:09:54.900 Andrew Tate's only mistake that he made was he trusted an American woman and got locked
00:10:00.260 up for six months in fucking prison.
00:10:02.140 So that's the one big mistake he made.
00:10:04.120 But other than that, you know, I think that this whole situation, to be optimistic about
00:10:09.960 it, it's really an eye opening situation for a lot of men because there are like hundreds
00:10:15.340 of millions of men watching this case and being like, yo, I trusted this fucking hose.
00:10:20.440 And now I'm locked up in a Romanian prison.
00:10:24.820 And, you know, it's not good.
00:10:26.180 And if that happened to him, he's got money, power, status.
00:10:29.260 What happens to the average guy?
00:10:30.580 That's what he was saying today on the Valuetainment interview.
00:10:33.360 He was saying, what happened?
00:10:34.340 What happens to like, you know, Bob the plumber or like, you know, Joe the electrician?
00:10:39.100 Like, it's really awful to see this.
00:10:41.840 But also, like, as much as negativity and garbage that he's gone through, look at how, despite
00:10:49.180 the massive, unfair social media cancellation that he's gone through, look at how he has
00:10:56.560 still been able to overcome this while on house arrest.
00:11:01.120 He was tweeting from prison and still pissing people off and red-pilling people harder.
00:11:06.440 So, I mean, you know, he's, he is, I mean, if they try to kill him too, all they're going
00:11:11.460 to do is make a massive martyr out of him.
00:11:13.640 Right.
00:11:14.060 So, you know, I just, I want nothing but the best for the guy.
00:11:16.520 I think he's going to get out okay.
00:11:18.060 And if they do slap him with something, you know, it's just going to be people seeing like
00:11:22.960 a massive injustice in the world.
00:11:24.500 And that's just going to piss off the masses more and wake more people up to the treachery
00:11:28.120 of government, the elites and all this shit.