JustPearlyThings - She Tried Dodging Accountability With This Question

00:00:00.000 men just have a lower attraction floor than us so it's kind of like for i've had guys explain this

00:00:05.120 where they're like if you're just above their like minimum dating floor it's kind of all

00:00:09.040 the same to them i mean obviously there's some girl like the hotter you are the more you get 1.00

00:00:13.320 away with in a way that's what they say they're kind of like the richer they are for a lot of

00:00:17.420 women the more they get away with in a way but no men are not nearly as picky they're kind of like 0.98

00:00:22.380 good enough girls are more when more judgmental to ourselves than how men are judgmental to us

00:00:27.540 yeah it's interesting too i'll have guys like rate girls one to ten just to like see and they're

00:00:35.900 always like very generous in in my opinion guys they just they're looking for a reason to to qualify

00:00:43.240 a girl not to disqualify like we are yeah okay interesting um are abortion rights needed to 1.00

00:00:52.740 create a truly equal society no can you explain it a bit further like what do you mean by abortion

00:00:59.680 rights the right to an abortion you guys have it here up to six months but in the u.s we don't it's

00:01:05.160 an american channel so yeah so are abortion rights needed to create a truly equal society 1.00

00:01:10.660 i don't even understand the question yeah of course yeah i get the question oh like should abortion be

00:01:17.700 allowed oh yeah you should have a choice what of course i am i think abortion should be illegal 0.94

00:01:27.020 um however i do obviously we have common law in this country i do think that there should be some

00:01:32.380 kind of uh you know common law um where under specific circumstances you might qualify for one

00:01:39.560 but i think the general standard um legislation should be that it's illegal and then under certain

00:01:46.360 circumstances or situations which like i won't i think they're pretty obvious we all know um then

00:01:53.020 it should be allowed and also like if it's um you know if if the child is is going to be born like

00:01:58.920 disabled or something i i do agree that maybe you should be able to decide if if you want to i don't

00:02:04.940 know that's a really difficult one i'm not gonna get into that because i don't actually know how i feel

00:02:07.620 about that but generally i don't really believe in abortion at all really

00:02:10.920 what about you no i i would like to have that option i would definitely like to have that option

00:02:18.380 um things happen in life and you know i might fall pregnant and i'm how do you fall pregnant

00:02:25.760 well i don't know things happen by not being careful like like fall pregnant that takes all

00:02:32.180 the accountability off of you if you yeah but if i become pregnant yeah but if i become pregnant

00:02:37.300 and god forbid my husband lost his job and you know we're not really great financially whatever

00:02:43.140 the circumstances are and we are not fit to raise children of course i want an abortion and i should 0.99

00:02:50.100 be allowed to do that are you typically with men that don't have jobs and can't raise children

00:02:54.300 um i hope not i hope not but we never know what will happen in life you know so you you gotta have

00:03:02.020 i would like to know that i have that option but you have the option of contraception so why not pick

00:03:07.580 that option first and think preventatively instead of um reactionally yeah precaution not always 100%

00:03:15.040 so i agree with her it's 99.5 effective if you get an iud i had the contraception pill and i got a

00:03:22.460 child it didn't work for me like did you get the iud and wear a condom too i don't i don't wear i

00:03:28.300 wouldn't ever consider that with my partner but i had the contraceptive pill and it didn't work and

00:03:34.020 it's 99.9 effective which one did you take um what's it called the morning after pill yeah was it the

00:03:40.820 first day or three day one um so long ago i don't really know but it didn't work you took the morning

00:03:46.620 after pill yeah i did that's like the last case resort i don't take contraception so like i did

00:03:53.320 take the morning after pill and it didn't work yeah but that's a choice to not be on birth control

00:03:58.240 yeah i don't i'm not on birth control which is why i said i agree with you i believe that you should

00:04:03.920 have the option but i think the options that you choose in terms of not keeping a child i think you

00:04:09.660 have to i believe that you should be able to justify them like if she's not meant if a woman feels

00:04:13.880 she's not mentally stable to have the child or for all the right reasons i think if you've got

00:04:18.280 options to do everything else then i do believe you should have that option that's my opinion up to

00:04:22.780 up to how many months oh no no i don't like it has to happen immediately if you do if it's like

00:04:29.200 you've got a bump and i don't agree with that i think that's wrong so here it's up to six months

00:04:34.600 do you agree no no no that's too far when do you agree with it immediately like three months

00:04:39.240 no that's too far i think that's very long immediately like as soon as you know if you

00:04:44.920 believe that you don't want a child you've got to act really quick and i believe that a woman's 1.00

00:04:49.160 body's a bit messy because so you might still be bleeding do you know anything past like seven

00:04:54.700 eight weeks and i don't i don't know just don't think that's right yeah a lot of people don't even

00:05:01.180 find out until like after two months i know a couple people that they're like three months and

00:05:05.680 this is your last day to choose i had somebody ask me to take them to a clinic in london when

00:05:11.420 because i'm from birmingham when she was like six months and i wouldn't wouldn't do that couldn't do

00:05:16.520 that that's a full-grown baby yeah i understand it's got a heartbeat as soon as you're pregnant but

00:05:22.560 that's a full-grown child you've had long enough to decide i understand like people are completely

00:05:29.020 against it i respect that but i just don't i think the woman should have a choice how do you not know for

00:05:33.980 two months some people don't some people don't know until nine months some people don't know

00:05:38.540 have you heard that story they're on the plane and then like they had no life it just goes back to

00:05:43.320 to me it's just being bailed out for a bad decision it's just weird like at the end of the day take

00:05:48.140 birth control or don't have sex but it's a personal or don't or don't sleep with or don't sleep with

00:05:52.860 people that wouldn't be good fathers or if you're not financially safe stable yeah but the reason

00:05:57.720 that's not as simple people that's not always the reason for not having a baby but that's not

00:06:02.200 an excuse i don't think it's an excuse that people have one night stands and i don't even think that 0.90

00:06:06.540 we should be saying like oh people have one night stands to shit like it doesn't have to be a one 0.96

00:06:11.560 night stand as to why you get pregnant though like it just happens and you could actually happen you 0.99

00:06:15.980 could actually be in a committed relationship and then it could you want an abortion it absolutely

00:06:20.860 could happen that way but you can make choices so it doesn't happen i agree but it doesn't change the fact

00:06:27.000 that it does happen but my whole thing is it's a bailout for poor decisions because at the end

00:06:30.840 of the day if you got pregnant you made a poor decision and if you agreed if you didn't want 0.79

00:06:35.000 to be pregnant yeah i just there'll be a lot more illegal abortions though like people will be going 0.98

00:06:39.140 to like back corners and i think it's better to do it the proper way well obviously there's no proper

00:06:43.400 way to think but like the proper way surgically everything then to go to back corners down

00:06:49.000 do you know how abortions are performed oh they're not nice they're really not they they pull off the 0.98

00:06:56.600 limbs one by one so they pull off the leg then they pull off the next leg then they pull off the

00:07:00.760 arm then the other arm then they they crush the skull and vacuum it out is that is that true yeah

00:07:05.560 that's true how many months are like five six months you can have that done like as soon as it's got

00:07:10.760 limbs the other way the other way it starves the kid and it like falls out and i had a girl on the show 0.63

00:07:15.240 explaining her abortion at like two three months and she said she was shocked by how formed it was

00:07:20.760 because it had like a full head a whole i think she said it i can't remember the exact stuff she said

00:07:26.040 but she said she was shocked because a lot of the pictures like they don't really inform you of that

00:07:30.360 oh my god i feel like i'm on the fence to be honest because i feel like everyone should have the right

00:07:34.440 to have a choice of what they would like to do with their body however like what you just explained

00:07:38.680 to me i don't agree with that because life um um but what about the baby's trust what about the

00:07:45.080 women what about the women what about the women right in cultural traditions who get pregnant and

00:07:52.520 if they don't get rid of that child their life's on the line like how would you justify that they

00:07:57.320 are responsible but they're also in a lot of danger if they're gonna die yeah this is what like this is

00:08:02.520 what people always do with the abortion argument is they always use the extremes 99 of abortions are

00:08:06.920 elective 99 so it's like you're using the the one percent argument to justify the whole thing if i

00:08:12.680 said okay give you give you those abortions in the life of the mother would you be okay with banning the 0.95

00:08:16.840 rest that are from poor decisions true i understand i do agree with what you're saying in terms of it

00:08:22.920 being a poor decision but i still think i still stand with what i believe i agree people make silly

00:08:29.880 mistakes all the all the time but it's not like something that's sticking with them for life

00:08:33.640 yeah and you know i know a lot of girls that don't make the same likes and don't get pregnant 1.00

00:08:37.800 like it's not like people make silly mistakes all the time if you're irresponsible

JustPearlyThings - August 09, 2023

She Tried Dodging Accountability With This Question

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