She Tried Dodging Accountability With This Question
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss abortion, contraception and sex education in general. We also discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to dating and getting married. We also talk about whether or not abortion should be legalised in the UK and if women should have the right to have children.
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men just have a lower attraction floor than us so it's kind of like for i've had guys explain this
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where they're like if you're just above their like minimum dating floor it's kind of all
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the same to them i mean obviously there's some girl like the hotter you are the more you get
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away with in a way that's what they say they're kind of like the richer they are for a lot of
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women the more they get away with in a way but no men are not nearly as picky they're kind of like
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good enough girls are more when more judgmental to ourselves than how men are judgmental to us
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yeah it's interesting too i'll have guys like rate girls one to ten just to like see and they're
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always like very generous in in my opinion guys they just they're looking for a reason to to qualify
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a girl not to disqualify like we are yeah okay interesting um are abortion rights needed to
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create a truly equal society no can you explain it a bit further like what do you mean by abortion
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rights the right to an abortion you guys have it here up to six months but in the u.s we don't it's
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an american channel so yeah so are abortion rights needed to create a truly equal society
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i don't even understand the question yeah of course yeah i get the question oh like should abortion be
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allowed oh yeah you should have a choice what of course i am i think abortion should be illegal
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um however i do obviously we have common law in this country i do think that there should be some
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kind of uh you know common law um where under specific circumstances you might qualify for one
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but i think the general standard um legislation should be that it's illegal and then under certain
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circumstances or situations which like i won't i think they're pretty obvious we all know um then
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it should be allowed and also like if it's um you know if if the child is is going to be born like
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disabled or something i i do agree that maybe you should be able to decide if if you want to i don't
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know that's a really difficult one i'm not gonna get into that because i don't actually know how i feel
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about that but generally i don't really believe in abortion at all really
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what about you no i i would like to have that option i would definitely like to have that option
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um things happen in life and you know i might fall pregnant and i'm how do you fall pregnant
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well i don't know things happen by not being careful like like fall pregnant that takes all
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the accountability off of you if you yeah but if i become pregnant yeah but if i become pregnant
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and god forbid my husband lost his job and you know we're not really great financially whatever
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the circumstances are and we are not fit to raise children of course i want an abortion and i should
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be allowed to do that are you typically with men that don't have jobs and can't raise children
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um i hope not i hope not but we never know what will happen in life you know so you you gotta have
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i would like to know that i have that option but you have the option of contraception so why not pick
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that option first and think preventatively instead of um reactionally yeah precaution not always 100%
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so i agree with her it's 99.5 effective if you get an iud i had the contraception pill and i got a
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child it didn't work for me like did you get the iud and wear a condom too i don't i don't wear i
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wouldn't ever consider that with my partner but i had the contraceptive pill and it didn't work and
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it's 99.9 effective which one did you take um what's it called the morning after pill yeah was it the
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first day or three day one um so long ago i don't really know but it didn't work you took the morning
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after pill yeah i did that's like the last case resort i don't take contraception so like i did
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take the morning after pill and it didn't work yeah but that's a choice to not be on birth control
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yeah i don't i'm not on birth control which is why i said i agree with you i believe that you should
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have the option but i think the options that you choose in terms of not keeping a child i think you
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have to i believe that you should be able to justify them like if she's not meant if a woman feels
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she's not mentally stable to have the child or for all the right reasons i think if you've got
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options to do everything else then i do believe you should have that option that's my opinion up to
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up to how many months oh no no i don't like it has to happen immediately if you do if it's like
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you've got a bump and i don't agree with that i think that's wrong so here it's up to six months
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do you agree no no no that's too far when do you agree with it immediately like three months
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no that's too far i think that's very long immediately like as soon as you know if you
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believe that you don't want a child you've got to act really quick and i believe that a woman's
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body's a bit messy because so you might still be bleeding do you know anything past like seven
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eight weeks and i don't i don't know just don't think that's right yeah a lot of people don't even
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find out until like after two months i know a couple people that they're like three months and
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this is your last day to choose i had somebody ask me to take them to a clinic in london when
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because i'm from birmingham when she was like six months and i wouldn't wouldn't do that couldn't do
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that that's a full-grown baby yeah i understand it's got a heartbeat as soon as you're pregnant but
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that's a full-grown child you've had long enough to decide i understand like people are completely
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against it i respect that but i just don't i think the woman should have a choice how do you not know for
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two months some people don't some people don't know until nine months some people don't know
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have you heard that story they're on the plane and then like they had no life it just goes back to
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to me it's just being bailed out for a bad decision it's just weird like at the end of the day take
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birth control or don't have sex but it's a personal or don't or don't sleep with or don't sleep with
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people that wouldn't be good fathers or if you're not financially safe stable yeah but the reason
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that's not as simple people that's not always the reason for not having a baby but that's not
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an excuse i don't think it's an excuse that people have one night stands and i don't even think that
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we should be saying like oh people have one night stands to shit like it doesn't have to be a one
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night stand as to why you get pregnant though like it just happens and you could actually happen you
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could actually be in a committed relationship and then it could you want an abortion it absolutely
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could happen that way but you can make choices so it doesn't happen i agree but it doesn't change the fact
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that it does happen but my whole thing is it's a bailout for poor decisions because at the end
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of the day if you got pregnant you made a poor decision and if you agreed if you didn't want
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to be pregnant yeah i just there'll be a lot more illegal abortions though like people will be going
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to like back corners and i think it's better to do it the proper way well obviously there's no proper
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way to think but like the proper way surgically everything then to go to back corners down
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do you know how abortions are performed oh they're not nice they're really not they they pull off the
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limbs one by one so they pull off the leg then they pull off the next leg then they pull off the
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arm then the other arm then they they crush the skull and vacuum it out is that is that true yeah
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that's true how many months are like five six months you can have that done like as soon as it's got
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limbs the other way the other way it starves the kid and it like falls out and i had a girl on the show
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explaining her abortion at like two three months and she said she was shocked by how formed it was
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because it had like a full head a whole i think she said it i can't remember the exact stuff she said
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but she said she was shocked because a lot of the pictures like they don't really inform you of that
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oh my god i feel like i'm on the fence to be honest because i feel like everyone should have the right
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to have a choice of what they would like to do with their body however like what you just explained
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to me i don't agree with that because life um um but what about the baby's trust what about the
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women what about the women what about the women right in cultural traditions who get pregnant and
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if they don't get rid of that child their life's on the line like how would you justify that they
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are responsible but they're also in a lot of danger if they're gonna die yeah this is what like this is
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what people always do with the abortion argument is they always use the extremes 99 of abortions are
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elective 99 so it's like you're using the the one percent argument to justify the whole thing if i
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said okay give you give you those abortions in the life of the mother would you be okay with banning the
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rest that are from poor decisions true i understand i do agree with what you're saying in terms of it
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being a poor decision but i still think i still stand with what i believe i agree people make silly
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mistakes all the all the time but it's not like something that's sticking with them for life
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yeah and you know i know a lot of girls that don't make the same likes and don't get pregnant
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like it's not like people make silly mistakes all the time if you're irresponsible