JustPearlyThings - She TWISTED The Definition of Promiscuity

00:00:00.000 one is saying things like most men are toxic that that's that is toxic because

00:00:05.760 because very because for you to say most men are toxic in relationship that means

00:00:10.140 you've mostly been with toxic men but that doesn't really prove that men are

00:00:14.400 toxic that just proves that the men you date are toxic and for you to date mostly

00:00:18.840 toxic men that means you yourself are toxic

00:00:23.760 well I also want to know the the same question so was the answer for me or was

00:00:29.500 it a general because I need to clarify I was asking for you for you Mr. King was

00:00:35.560 the answer for me or was it a general yeah I was speaking about you because you

00:00:39.280 said most men are toxic so I'm saying for you to say that that just that doesn't

00:00:43.420 mean that that's true it just means that you date mostly toxic men and if you date

00:00:47.740 mostly toxic men that means that that's what you attract and if that's what you

00:00:50.680 attract that means you're most likely toxic as well so it's just the thing is

00:00:54.980 it's very easy for women to point fingers forgetting that there are many four 1.00

00:00:58.940 fingers that they're pointing are facing themselves so if you if you date mostly

00:01:03.680 toxic people like it's okay for a woman to date to have to make a mistake you 1.00

00:01:08.840 meet one toxic guy you meet two toxic guys but if you have this view that most

00:01:12.560 men are toxic that just means that most of the guys you've dated are toxic and

00:01:16.160 that only points to the fact that you're toxic as well I'm never trying to go at

00:01:20.000 you I'm just analyzing what you said yeah but you're analyzing it doesn't

00:01:24.740 stand for me because first of all you don't even know if I'm dating or if I had

00:01:28.820 dated so it doesn't know but you made it you made a statement that most men are

00:01:32.900 toxic in dating so you cannot make that statement if you don't date because I'm

00:01:38.120 just talking about what you know about I can't see okay so you know more than 51% of

00:01:44.360 men no so let me get this straight you're saying you're saying aside from your

00:01:49.820 personal experience from general observation of the population you've

00:01:54.180 come to the conclusion that men when dating are toxic so let's go with that

00:01:59.420 for a second let's take the word toxic out of it what are some problems with men

00:02:04.640 today that would lead you to believe that the majority of men are toxic give

00:02:07.940 us a toxic trait man let's take the word toxic out of it because we've already

00:02:11.780 established that we can't seem to get a definition for that so what are some

00:02:16.580 problems with men today that you have seen that has led you to that statement

00:02:20.600 yeah most of young people in general people don't want to commit but that's one 0.94

00:02:25.580 toxic trait commit or commit to you I'm not talking about me I'm talking about

00:02:32.000 general how can you my commitment it's not towards yourself what you're looking

00:02:38.300 at your brethren's and saying yo how many men don't want to commit because

00:02:41.900 there's nothing to commit to that's the problem are we not agreeing that this

00:02:48.140 generation have commitment issues to you you're gonna deny it no no no no no

00:02:54.200 again I feel like you're talking about a personal situation they may have it I'm

00:02:57.500 not talking about personal situation you are the one forcing thinking that I'm

00:03:02.600 talking you just said this generation has a commitment yeah and I'm saying I'm

00:03:05.900 making general statement I'm not talking about me I didn't see okay you see the

00:03:10.760 problem with making general and far sweeping statements you're saying that

00:03:15.140 more than 51 percent of X do X Y and Z you don't have that data let's stop

00:03:20.900 making absolute statement it is it is factors in this generation it's a fact

00:03:26.480 that's what people don't want to commit it's a fact it is a fact in where the

00:03:31.400 Western world or the world in the whole world especially in the Western world prove

00:03:36.380 that right now for me

00:03:37.580 again again you guys are messing up she just said the world you don't have the

00:03:49.400 step for that because there's no step specifically the Western world because

00:03:53.660 we are in the West in the world is specifically the Western world I asked you

00:03:57.380 about the world and then ask you about a certain demographic of the world everything

00:04:02.060 even with the specific demographic of the Western world you have no stats or

00:04:05.980 statistics the back of what you just said you're making about the Western I'm

00:04:09.460 sure what I'm saying is when it comes to us actually speaking about things can

00:04:12.880 we just speak in less absolutes stop saying most and this and that because

00:04:19.000 it's not 51% you don't know the 51% of men X Y you don't know any of these

00:04:23.500 things okay so let's take general generalizations out of this let's let's

00:04:29.500 talk about personal experience so actually no I disagree with that um you

00:04:35.420 can't actually like for the first time I'm gonna back you we can actually we can

00:04:44.160 actually we can actually make general statements the only issue is if you make

00:04:49.520 a general statement that is factually incorrect like you we can make general

00:04:55.220 statements about the world what we see but when you see stuff like most men are 1.00

00:05:00.360 toxic that is a factually incorrect statement so there's nothing wrong in

00:05:07.020 making a general statement for instance you can see most men like to sleep

00:05:11.400 around if given the opportunity that is generally factual so there's nothing wrong

00:05:14.880 with that statement but when you say something like most men are toxic then you

00:05:19.680 have to come with your facts and back it up you can't just say something like that and

00:05:22.680 then when you're asked to explain how then you say no I can't get into that no

00:05:27.300 then don't make the statement thank you so one of the issues that you you pointed

00:05:32.400 out was commitment and you said that it applies both to men and women but what I

00:05:37.840 wanted to know was because of your statement about men specifically being

00:05:42.120 more toxic in dating than women what are some big this is not what I said I didn't 0.98

00:05:47.680 say men are more toxic than women I'm saying that I'd said men Adam as a men 1.00

00:05:53.860 are toxic this is why I didn't compare to women but when we do make a 1.00

00:06:01.300 comparison she said the vast majority and now she's just saying us as across the

00:06:05.020 board okay but if we do make the distinction between genders in your

00:06:08.740 opinion what are some big issues with men today that are leading them to be as you

00:06:13.060 put it toxic like said the lack of wanting to commit so this is one of the

00:06:19.280 first thing that came in mind because I feel like if you have to dig into the

00:06:23.060 subject it's a whole subject with a lot of so so what is that commitment that

00:06:28.120 that's something you see is a problem I mean I can definitely agree that

00:06:31.180 commitment at least among my generation is something that is declining but what

00:06:36.340 specifically something that you've seen you use the term earlier you know toxic

00:06:40.560 masculinity what what's some problems that you've seen with that what is it

00:06:44.280 that you don't like about that about what did he not pay on the first date did

00:06:49.440 you not open your door we're trying to protect we just want to know what's toxic

00:06:52.920 behavior to you what do you classify the question again can you I need to hear the

00:06:56.940 question again what's toxic to you

00:07:01.100 um the thing is that I personally don't want to go into that discussion tonight

00:07:11.480 because I don't I just don't have the energy for it

00:07:13.920 no it's fine it's fine it's fine but like can we ask the men what's toxic for you guys

00:07:18.500 one second one second to be honest actually I like I get where you're coming from and when you say men

00:07:24.860 don't want to commit or not just men in general people are having a problem

00:07:29.540 committing it's actually true this generation most men are not going to

00:07:33.500 commit there's nothing to commit to but I want to point out something that that

00:07:39.620 really directly contradicts what you were saying earlier because now you're

00:07:43.520 saying men don't want to commit which is fair and which is kind of true but then 0.99

00:07:47.660 earlier you were saying stuff like well if people want to do only fans it's okay

00:07:53.240 it's this and that how on I never said it well you were saying you were saying

00:07:59.340 you were you weren't like there's you don't have a problem with it or whatever

00:08:02.540 however you put it but we will I never said it this is I'm not saying I'm not

00:08:07.220 saying it exactly how you said you have to say that exactly for it to be a

00:08:11.420 statement that I said I need to see exactly what I said one second my point is my

00:08:16.220 point is one second my point is when we're talking about promiscuity you

00:08:21.740 didn't categorically stand against it that's my point so I did you didn't I

00:08:28.340 did now we can watch it back we can let's do it actually my point is you were

00:08:48.020 trying to make excuses for it you didn't you didn't come out like obviously when I

00:08:51.560 talked about it I was like it is bad she we asked you time and time is it good or

00:08:55.340 bad you kept hopping the fence you didn't want to make a definite answer

00:08:58.160 I do not agree I believe that you're talking about somebody else that's not me

00:09:01.100 she pleaded my point is my point is how on earth are men meant to commit to women

00:09:06.800 that cannot even determine what I'm not sure you're talking about me because if

00:09:11.480 it's about me the statement you're saying that I made is not a I'm not I don't have

00:09:19.520 any problem what you're doing right now you know why you're literally just going

00:09:22.820 to give us millions of views with what you're doing because yes you can be happy

00:09:28.160 about it and this is the this is the problem of society women women are willing to do whatever 1.00

00:09:32.780 for clout but the point is but I'm not doing anything for clout you are misunderstanding me

00:09:37.940 all the time can you can you let me finish and stop interrupting you can but stop also making

00:09:43.160 stop talking to the wrong person because you are making facts that I never said so I cannot talk to

00:09:50.000 you since the facts can you stop interrupting me please if you do it again we'll just ask you to

00:09:59.720 leave the point is yes literally if you interrupt me one more time you would leave um the point I'm

00:10:06.260 trying to make is you've literally contradicted yourself back to back and even now that I'm calling

00:10:11.780 you out on it you are still trying to hold moral high ground as if you are so sure that you haven't

00:10:17.220 done it and the reality is they are going to be cut into clips I trust the people that watch our

00:10:21.420 show they are going to cut you into clips and you're going to go viral I just be ready for it

00:10:25.900 I promise you and if you think I'm like when you get home go back and watch it and I probably you

00:10:30.360 probably wouldn't even still understand it by then but maybe by the time you see yourself

00:10:33.420 on TikTok in one million views and stuff then you understand do anything for clout

00:10:37.640 wow I just want to know if you have a standpoint in anything you know because you've been too

00:10:43.300 melancholy on anything I just want to know like what's your stance on this

00:10:46.280 well the show goes out everyone can see it so we can all watch this back afterwards and see who

00:10:52.780 said what when they said it and yeah so another question that I wanted to ask you guys um we were

00:11:01.620 talking about body count and and body count matters and obviously we're talking about the topic of 1.00

00:11:05.760 promiscuity how many bodies makes a woman whore oh shit god damn oh damn it I'm not gonna answer 1.00

00:11:15.520 because it's just I don't know how do you answer that just by answering it by giving a number 1.00

00:11:22.020 or a number range or makes a whore number wise I mean I mean I saw a study that said so if we're all 1.00

00:11:30.520 agreeing that a whore is an extremely promiscuous woman oh shit whoever's watching this 1.00

00:11:35.400 can we can we can we pull out a number please because I need but we do realize that 1.00

00:11:38.300 so that's the question I need them to answer based on themselves what's the number we just agreed that

00:11:42.300 women lie so we never know apparently on average isn't it about seven partners yeah but we just 0.99

00:11:47.800 four to seven partners for women I don't know I googled it the other day so this is a very personal 0.98

00:11:52.740 question I don't know if there's actually if we google what number makes a whore I don't think we're 1.00

00:11:57.960 gonna get a number in your opinions what number is a number is an indication that a woman is overly 1.00

00:12:08.460 promiscuous overly laid so to constitute being what a lot of people would call a whore 0.97

00:12:16.140 ho yeah ho ho um should we start from you guys because again this comes into the question of you 0.98

00:12:24.760 know do women be are women honest with each other because yeah can we can tell each other okay you're 0.99

00:12:32.800 getting fat yeah but can we tell each other you're being a whore so can you imagine a friend asking her 1.00

00:12:37.840 friend how many people have you fucked I think they're gonna tell the truth but women see things 1.00

00:12:42.280 that happen so women who go out with each other all the time you can see how many times their friend 1.00

00:12:47.920 is going home with someone unless you're slow yeah I think in this day and age yeah it's gone up I think 0.75

00:12:54.880 it's probably about I'd say double for women a whore could be minimum 15 okay anything about two hands 1.00

00:13:05.760 yeah so we've actually googled how many sexual partners does a woman have to make her a whore 1.00

00:13:13.920 what is an acceptable number of sexual partners between four and eight partners is considered an

00:13:19.920 average number of sexual partners for adult men and women and this is from the 13th of march 2023

00:13:26.320 so that's what the internet says can we do some can we do some self-reflection what but anyway would

00:13:31.920 you would you classify yourself outside of this realm that doesn't say hold up right now who you asking

00:13:38.240 everyone just the panel in general would you would you classify yourself outside of i don't need to give my

00:13:43.200 personal information out i'm confused we came to a podcast to talk about this stuff yes she's

00:13:48.560 she's a dark cool stuff we came to talk about i mean we can start from the men okay oh that's crazy

00:13:55.600 hey that's crazy i don't know about you but i know what do you mean you don't know about me

00:13:59.520 hold on hold on hold on hold on because i don't know you but i know him i know

00:14:02.960 hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on stay safe

00:14:11.280 can you not laugh so close to the fine speed i've only been with about 25 girls

00:14:16.720 i said only but why do we need to even jesus christ this is such a personal thing in my opinion

00:14:24.000 yeah i'm i'm not asking for anyone's personal number i'm asking what to you

00:14:28.160 but thank you romeo for sharing thank you he set himself up shut himself in the foot i saw

00:14:32.720 you told me about 62. wait yay yay yay yay you told me you're moving

00:14:36.880 you're moving max you're moving on max i've never seen this

00:14:39.600 yeah but i've walked past him i don't know who he is like why are we there then

00:14:43.120 why are we there

00:14:44.000 why are we there

00:14:44.800 can you stop laughing so close to the mic because like he's a

00:14:48.400 okay so you said

00:14:50.880 so you considered a hole in a man

00:14:53.280 which i be no we're talking about women specifically because it is more harmful for a woman to have multiple 1.00

00:14:59.200 yeah but let's talk about the men as well no but right now we're talking about the women so let's

00:15:02.640 stick to the topic of conversation we're talking about women because it is a fact that for women 1.00

00:15:07.520 being promiscuous is more harmful than it is for a man so we're going to stick to women you said 15. 0.99

00:15:14.960 i think anything over two hands is a bit of a problem i don't know what you mean by that

00:15:18.640 well exactly if i if you have to count your bodies over 10 so 15 10

00:15:23.760 yeah huh so you know you know you know you know when we was in school she means now we had 0.70

00:15:28.880 to do the mental maths thing oh i got it now and we were doing the multiplication thing and we're

00:15:32.480 doing uh if if you go in simple terms that's it oh my bad yeah sorry yeah you've got i didn't

00:15:38.480 i didn't know i speak in english on the panel remember that yeah i kind of have to dumb things

00:15:41.120 oh you might oh you might don't understand the i'm making a joke normally that's it oh my bad sorry

00:15:45.360 she's not a real blonde gentrification wait wait aviola how did you pronounce my name aviola 0.98

00:15:59.280 does that know your name no what's your name eb lola eb lola yeah how many bodies constitutes a 0.99

00:16:06.400 woman being a whore well i'm not gonna argue on that oh here we go again nobody's a whore 0.99

00:16:15.360 no let's go 60 people for sake but what the hell are we doing it man no one's a 1.00

00:16:20.320 men are toxic i don't want to argue with that so i'm just going to give a silly a number because 0.98

00:16:26.240 i don't understand the topic so i'm just going to go for hundreds you don't understand what makes a 0.67

00:16:30.320 person a whole hundred she said i don't think we're going to get a hundred bodies my name stay safe in

00:16:37.520 it that's what i'm saying man that's it's a cool world out there man that's triple digits

00:16:45.040 it's a hard question three of them but if you had to give it a metric

00:16:49.600 how much is too much that it would be concerning what i'll probably say like what

00:16:57.680 enough for her last week

00:17:02.000 i kind of agree with him like the minimum 50 i'll push it to like i don't know he said 15 15 15 15

00:17:07.440 sorry 15. jesus christ oh my goodness the way you just turned red right now

00:17:14.960 you just 15 yeah like 15 20. okay pushing up

00:17:20.160 i would say between 15 and 20. okay so if you know for a fact that your friend say you guys have

00:17:30.400 been going out like out on the town or whatever but you do realize can i just say something there's 0.98

00:17:35.760 people that pass the point of going out and giving a shit about friends you have to give a 0.98

00:17:40.720 shit about yourself i'm talking about from my own personal i'm giving you all the benefit of the 0.98

00:17:44.160 doubt here that you're fairly good people and you would like absolutely i can be i can be a good 0.98

00:17:47.600 person i don't need validation to have other people around me to give me that validation right

00:17:52.560 but if you're surrounded by good people you trust their opinion but when you're good enough you trust

00:17:57.120 your own opinion no i completely disagree with that i agree but that's why i'm a bit older than you no

00:18:02.000 offense but when you reach a certain level where you actually understand it you have that confidence

00:18:07.040 not in an arrogant way no because i'm i'm i'm not saying i've gradually jermaine become no i still

00:18:13.120 disagree with you it's fine my point is is that if you are surrounded by good people you're gonna

00:18:18.880 trust their opinions so for example before the others so you just brought up age but you just brought up

00:18:24.000 your point of age yes okay so if your mother says something to you you're gonna trust your opinion

00:18:30.400 before your mother's no i trust my mother's opinion because she's out of age so why would i trust

00:18:34.480 the opinion of myself knowing i'm 20 years old and 30 years old there's a big difference right but you

00:18:39.360 just said that once you get to a certain age you trust your opinion yeah for anyone else exactly

00:18:45.360 but you don't reach that confidence until you are a certain age that you understand that

00:18:49.600 i didn't understand that when i was 23 or 25. right but you understand what i'm saying i understand that

00:18:54.320 you're saying you didn't understand that 23 and now i'm 30 now i know my own opinion and i trust my opinion

00:18:59.680 then i didn't that's the difference so you can never be wrong she said that's my point that's

00:19:04.480 my point that you're essentially saying that once you reach a certain point of experience yes that you

00:19:09.520 you only trust your own feelings and opinions of the world how are you gonna learn and progress in

00:19:15.920 life if you think that when you reach a certain point you know everything as a starter point of

00:19:19.520 course you're gonna have friends and family but you're limited right that's my point that's exactly

00:19:23.920 what i'm saying you're supposed to be surrounded by people who you can trust that they have your best

00:19:28.320 interests at heart when they say something my no only reason my rectum i'm not disagreeing what

00:19:33.280 you're saying i'm just saying you're leading on more towards but it's having validation from external

00:19:37.920 factors no no no you presumed that and you inferred that onto what i said that's not what i'm saying

00:19:42.000 we actually agree validation is different from from trusting other people's opinion yeah validation is

00:19:48.720 not seeking advice from people validation is something different this is why i asked for a metric on the

00:19:54.640 topic of cause because the question that i'm trying to pose to you guys is are you gonna tell

00:19:59.520 your friend if she's being a whore hey i'm not gonna lie i feel like the same thing as i feel like 0.94

00:20:05.520 the numbers that everyone gave out was a way of separating themselves from whoredom i could be 1.00

00:20:12.000 potentially wrong i could be potentially wrong but i feel like what everyone presumed on this stage and

00:20:18.880 again i'm talking to both men and women on this stage so please don't be upset i think everyone

00:20:25.040 gave numbers that made themselves look good i agree because i i personally will have said five even

00:20:32.320 though i know i'm way past that number because i'm i'm i don't i don't have this hubris to not be able

00:20:38.480 to see where i'm wrong as well just because i say five is the number doesn't mean i can't accept the

00:20:44.880 fact that i am well past that number but that's a problem a lot of women have even though once 1.00

00:20:49.920 they are past something they they they seem to almost think like if they agree to the truth then

00:20:55.920 they are almost shooting themselves in the foot so i get what you're saying see that i get what you're

00:21:00.240 saying hey it goes it goes back to what i said at the start which is accountability can you ask what 0.99

00:21:05.760 you just wanted to ask me again would you tell your friend if she's being whore yeah same thing as fat 1.00

00:21:10.720 because i think obviously the conversation went somewhere else absolutely i think it comes from a 0.97

00:21:15.440 concerned place but again us being delusional within ourselves we can then be delusional within other

00:21:22.960 friends right from from like a female perspective now when do you become true is it more easier for us 0.99

00:21:29.600 to be truthful towards ourselves or towards others because we can be in denial more towards ourselves than

00:21:34.880 actually like son or the friends family whatever whoever's around us yeah both both what do you

00:21:42.000 think the would you tell them yeah yeah 100 just has anyone actually been in a situation where they've

00:21:50.000 had to tell before you call cap yeah i have actually been in a situation that how did that go how did that 0.96

00:21:56.640 go like obviously again i wasn't straight out like you're a whore no but i was like look you might be one 1.00

00:22:03.360 you've been moving you've been moving you've been moving a bit mad lately like how do you even say 0.99

00:22:08.400 it by the way wait wait wait wait wait wait you're moving mad a bit like this come from a place

00:22:13.600 concern i'm not judging you in any sense like this is at the end of the day this is what you want

00:22:16.960 to do but i'm just telling you and how did that friend react she was like she took it well like she

00:22:21.200 wasn't upset she knew that i was coming from a good place she knew that i wasn't sat there trying like

00:22:24.960 trying to you know shame her like did she change her behavior no no so you told her she was spreading 1.00

00:22:32.800 community cheeks and she just accepted it like that and just kept spreading community cheeks

00:22:36.640 if they if they choose to do that that's not her fault that's not my fault i'm not i'm not saying

00:22:40.880 it is i just wanted to i just wanted some more clarification you told her she was spreading

00:22:44.240 community cheeks and she just did more and she she's still considered what she wanted to that's 0.76

00:22:48.560 the same telling someone oh you're you're getting weight you're gaining weight and then still

00:22:51.600 treating to ek of c and mcdonald's i need some more power to them man hey big up them boy there

00:22:55.600 do you get me yeah well what's what's the issue with this thing where people say um i'm not judging you

00:23:00.640 oh i don't want them to feel like you are absolutely supposed to judge your friends like

00:23:06.320 what's what's this thing that women are so obsessed with oh i don't want to judge her i don't want to 1.00

00:23:11.440 and it goes back to what i was saying women are not really friends with each other not real because 0.98

00:23:15.520 the reality is among among my guy friends i i don't have a lot of guy friends but the very few friends

00:23:20.640 i have if i'm doing some madness they're absolutely going to call me out on it and judge me for how many

00:23:26.400 years have you had them possible way ever how many years you had them for for like for a very long

00:23:31.520 time so they're absolutely going to judge me and tell me bro what the hell are you doing get your

00:23:37.680 right in fact that there are times where and this is sometimes this among guys if if when when we're

00:23:43.120 coming up as kids and want to go out obviously we're going out to go and meet girls i know if you

00:23:47.040 dress in some weird way you're not going out with us bro go back home and change bro like go back home 0.70

00:23:52.880 and change girls will allow their friends to come yeah girls girls won't girls won't tell their 0.93

00:23:57.120 friends i'm in the mini dress that is not meaning it takes the boys the boys will even take you back

00:24:03.840 to your house and wait outside for you make sure you change but that's how listen i think friendship

00:24:09.040 has changed completely like it depends on your culture no no i don't think women have the same 1.00

00:24:12.800 friendships as men well that's why i get along with like personally like i have more guy friends that

00:24:17.520 i get along with because it's more simple black and white children women are very over complicated why 1.00

00:24:22.560 did you not do this why did you not do that that like the most simplest dumbest little things and 0.60

00:24:26.960 i understand that because we're wired unfortunately like that but even friendships these days regardless

00:24:32.480 of men or women what is what makes somebody a friend these days because everybody walks with uh

00:24:39.760 intent to gain do you know let me ask you a little question yeah because i can i can almost guarantee if i

00:24:44.560 ask every man in this in this room right here they can say at least on one hand they've probably got maybe

00:24:49.200 two to three friends that they've known for like the longest if you've had the same friend

00:24:52.720 how many 10 years you're not real in my opinion pardon what huh that's what what are you talking about

00:25:01.440 more more than like a group a group sorry not just one individual if you've got the same group of

00:25:06.080 people let's say five to ten people average you've got the same five to ten people and you're still rolling and doing the same shit you've not grown in my opinion yeah one or two people they've known for over 10 years 15 years maybe but if you've got the same people you've got the same people you've got the same

00:25:17.600 but if you've got the same people you've not grown my life it just it just sounds like you lot are bad friends no no no no let her explain why and then i'll let you guys go

00:25:25.840 why why why why do you why do you hold that opinion because every single individual is unique every

00:25:30.640 single person is going to have different interests so you're going to naturally divert to a different

00:25:35.680 grow grow apart in it grow apart but that doesn't mean a bad thing it's not like i'm doing better than you

00:25:41.120 but we all go through life lessons at different points in life right you might have more trauma at a

00:25:46.560 younger age i might have more trauma at a later age we're all designed differently our paths are going to 0.97

00:25:51.040 be different if you've got the same motherfuckers around you for and you've got more than five of them 0.99

00:25:55.680 in your group my love you've not you've not achieved anything in life but what the less people that you 0.98

00:26:01.520 have no there's less no no i'm sorry but reality reality is those five people are not going to be doing and

00:26:07.600 thinking the same way as you there's always going to be one person that's a bit more advanced or

00:26:10.960 walking in a different direction in my opinion if you're all sugarcoating crap to be like yeah yeah

00:26:16.240 you're good you're good to one another you've you've not evolved in my opinion the reality is you don't

00:26:20.880 really like you can't even really have like 10 real friends anyways so that your point is no but when

00:26:27.600 you're 15 years old and when you're 30 years old you go through a shift if you've got the same friends at 20

00:26:33.120 and the same individuals at 30 you can you can have you can have one or two lifelong friends

00:26:38.320 yeah one or two yeah but you've got five she's talking about a group group yeah but no one was

00:26:42.240 talking about who has a group of friends for me life anyway i call i call cap i've got the same

00:26:48.400 group of friends six people for about from since we was in primary school and we've all grown

00:26:55.360 who's jealous of who and who's done more than nobody who's nobody giving of who hold on hold on

00:27:01.040 nobody's jealous i'd love to see one of you do you know what get all your friends let's sit down

00:27:07.040 do you want do you want to know what i'll tell you uh first of all none of us are jealous of each

00:27:10.320 other because we hold each other accountable one minute we all hold each other accountable

00:27:14.480 right if one of my bridges are sitting down either overweight broke or your hairline isn't being done by the

00:27:22.800 correct bar but i'm going to tell you blood we're brethren we're mandem we're far gone from the

00:27:30.480 days where we used to be on the playground and we used to back each other and we used to do this kind

00:27:34.560 of stuff we're big men now but why don't you want to be sitting with somebody that's done more and

00:27:38.640 bigger than you to get influence instead of sitting down with the same people first of all that's a

00:27:44.240 woman's worth this i'm saying first of all what your business first of all what you're talking about 1.00

00:27:51.440 is what the person can do for me i'm not worrying about what my bridges can do for me exactly my

00:27:55.920 bridges are here to be my bridges if i'm doing something that's an absolute madness i expect you

00:28:00.480 as one of my bridges to what the whole conversation was about we were talking about if a real friend 0.97

00:28:05.360 will tell you if you're fat or ugly or whatever the hell it is to say it in your face but then if

00:28:10.880 you're not achieving your full is potential isn't that the same thing oh i'm not gonna lie i don't know 0.90

00:28:16.240 what question you just asked the question that we all we were talking about was would you tell your

00:28:20.800 friend if they're fat would you tell i said that i said that from yes long time ago so we can we can

00:28:25.360 entire that same thing as somebody knowing your full potential but i might be intimidated but i might

00:28:31.120 not tell you what your full potential is to see you grow so that sounds like that person isn't your

00:28:35.040 brethren and that's not the people that's not the people that i'm talking about no no no no no what

00:28:40.080 you're talking about is you're talking about your friendships from your point of view no no no no

00:28:43.520 what time what time one time okay in general you're talking about everybody else's friendships from

00:28:48.000 everybody else's point of view that has nothing of people everyone's self-centered

00:28:56.560 no one's real with one another this is my point sorry no one's real even friends aren't real with

00:29:00.480 one another they're gonna allow me to finish before you cut me off baby no one quiet you off carry on

00:29:04.560 talking don't don't you don't play that don't play you cut me off you cut me off like three times

00:29:08.320 victim mate you cut me off like three times when i was actually trying to make a point

00:29:11.520 well i think she likes you know probably you know it's a bit crazy i'm i'm not single anyway

00:29:16.080 anyway what i'm trying to break sounds like a problem sounds like a your problem anyway

00:29:22.720 anyway what i'm trying to say is it sounds like you don't have real friends it sounds like you

00:29:26.720 don't have real friends because again no matter the situation that i'm in with the mandem and i'm

00:29:30.800 pretty sure 10 years old babe but okay we're gonna sit down and we're gonna wait for adults

00:29:38.000 to have some decorum because clearly when someone is making a point nobody can just sit back and

00:29:45.520 relax i'm looking at everyone i'm looking i'm not just looking over there didn't i look over you over

00:29:51.360 here so why are you making things up can you just listen to the point as opposed all right all right

00:29:58.400 let me let me let me allow her to finish we can't it's clear her body count is over 15 but that's the 0.89

00:30:03.440 only reason why she gave the out like what we're doing i'm giving you that doesn't that doesn't

00:30:09.920 mean anything to me i'm giving you respect i mean give me the same respect than yours i'm giving you

00:30:14.080 respect give me the same respect it's simple guys guys guys i allowed you to finish allow a man to

00:30:19.600 finish do you have that lack of the quorum we'll be doing hello can we stop can you let him finish

00:30:24.960 thank you i have i didn't know you didn't you cut me off like five times just allow it man

00:30:29.920 he's speaking you just have to say something just let him finish we're not against each other we're

00:30:33.200 just making points like we don't need to go long story short listen if you've if you've got over a

00:30:39.120 certain amount of friends and you can't handle those people it sounds like a you problem i've had the

00:30:43.120 same five to six friends for about 20 years we all went to the same primary school nobody in my

00:30:48.320 friendship group is fat nobody in my friendship group is broke nobody in my friendship group is a

00:30:53.680 deadbeat dad nobody in my friendship group is just a deadbeat in general do you want to know why

00:30:58.720 because i don't allow the mandem around me to be degenerate i don't allow the mandem to sit down 0.65

00:31:03.920 and be dickheads and be doing things that i just genuinely don't accept for myself that's why i'm 0.54

00:31:08.400 saying our friendships are different you see i'm saying you're turning around to me and tell me oh

00:31:13.120 if you have a certain amount of friends over 20 no you're chatting it just has to get a bad friend

00:31:17.440 but i've had the same versions from since i came just just after i came to this country and i went to

00:31:22.560 school at like nine years old i've had the same regions and we all hold each other accountable

00:31:28.880 i think so how the hell are you gonna come come and turn around to me and tell me what are you 0.56

00:31:32.320 talking about i hear what you're saying i think it's really interesting to to highlight that perhaps

00:31:37.040 there is a difference between male friendships and female friendships and this is definitely

00:31:42.320 something i've seen i mean we've all established that we can agree that there is a degree of lying that

00:31:46.320 goes on in female friendships females like as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we 1.00

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JustPearlyThings - October 21, 2023

She TWISTED The Definition of Promiscuity

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