JustPearlyThings - August 09, 2023


She UTTERED The Most Politically Correct Statement EVER!!!

Topics
body image skinny trend looking at women on Instagram
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Kylie Jenner Barbie Botox
This Is What Feminism Does To Men Single Mother REFUSES To Accept This Fact

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Length

9 minutes

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192.79

Word count

1,898

Sentence count

195

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

5

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Hate speech

12

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the issues facing women in the modern world, from lack of a safe childhood, to not being raised in a two parent household, to the dangers of walking at night time alone in the streets.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 What is the number one issue facing women today? 1.00
00:00:06.000 Not being raised in a two-parent household.
00:00:08.740 That's a bad issue, maybe.
00:00:12.300 Safety.
00:00:13.380 Not being able to walk at night by myself.
00:00:16.480 I'm terrified.
00:00:17.540 Not being trained to be a woman or a lady or a mother.
00:00:20.520 I have a question about that at night.
00:00:22.840 Do you think men can walk home alone at night?
00:00:25.660 No.
00:00:27.180 Nice peak for them as well.
00:00:28.380 I mean, the way that London is right now, yeah, no, definitely not.
00:00:34.820 But I feel like there's just more risk when you're a woman.
00:00:38.840 So if I get attacked and a man gets attacked,
00:00:41.200 who's more likely to get help from other men?
00:00:44.540 The woman.
00:00:45.600 Because someone might come across and not even know who to help if it's two men.
00:00:49.380 But with the woman, I feel like people will automatically go to women and be like... 0.99
00:00:52.620 Have you seen those videos of the woman hitting the man and the man hitting the woman?
00:00:56.460 And it's like they always help the woman.
00:00:58.380 And man, they're like, good luck.
00:00:59.580 See ya.
00:01:00.760 Yeah.
00:01:01.260 Yeah.
00:01:01.680 I don't know.
00:01:02.320 Personally, I just don't feel safe on the streets.
00:01:04.480 I get Ubers literally everywhere or, you know, someone will pick me up or I'm terrified to walk alone by myself.
00:01:14.160 Just even coming here tonight, I was terrified.
00:01:16.980 Is that because you got, like, hollered out on the roads and that?
00:01:21.580 Like, hi, darling.
00:01:22.760 Not even that.
00:01:23.760 I can handle that.
00:01:24.680 But I've actually been followed home.
00:01:26.360 Like, I've been followed home.
00:01:27.720 Like, you know, I've had someone trying to rob me.
00:01:31.540 I've had someone try and touch me inappropriately.
00:01:33.980 You know, and it's a lot to deal with.
00:01:38.120 What area is that?
00:01:39.440 Sorry to say.
00:01:40.900 Well, I'm from East London.
00:01:42.720 So, yeah.
00:01:45.040 Okay.
00:01:45.960 I don't know.
00:01:46.360 Anyone else?
00:01:48.480 Number one issue facing women.
00:01:51.900 I don't know if it's number one, but I do want to bring it up again.
00:01:54.880 I think promiscuity is tainting us, especially, like, now, like, you know, you're a similar age to me.
00:02:04.140 Like, we've been on social media.
00:02:05.540 I don't know about you, but, like, I think I got Snapchat when I was, like, 13.
00:02:08.160 Yeah.
00:02:08.520 So, it's, like, I know, like, before you had, like, page three and things like that.
00:02:13.400 But, like, I just feel like things have changed.
00:02:16.960 And, like, now you'll see, like, 10-year-old kids who are, like, like, they'll just see these, like, OnlyFans models or whatever.
00:02:23.440 Like, and it's just so, like, they don't even blink.
00:02:26.280 Like, it's just so, like, everyone's just used to it.
00:02:29.400 Even TikTok as well.
00:02:30.420 Even, like, TikTok, you'll have, like, 14-year-olds looking like they're 18, like, you know, moving their waist around.
00:02:35.680 It's, like, like.
00:02:36.520 It's really scary.
00:02:37.420 I've seen it.
00:02:37.880 It's really scary.
00:02:38.700 And I just don't think it's going to do anyone any help in the long run, men or women, like.
00:02:43.400 It's tainting everyone's view of everything, in my opinion.
00:02:47.400 I think the number one thing for women right now is body image. 1.00
00:02:52.280 Yeah.
00:02:52.940 Yeah.
00:02:53.300 Definitely body image.
00:02:54.740 Whether it's having your waist, your bum, your tits, your lips, Botox, it's definitely body image. 1.00
00:03:02.860 Weave or whatever.
00:03:04.000 Like, I feel it for you women because, like, if you don't look a certain way, you're not doing it. 0.86
00:03:12.040 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:12.600 If women were worried about body image, then why are 60% of women overweight in the UK? 0.78
00:03:17.380 It's worse.
00:03:17.940 It's worse in America.
00:03:18.820 It's, like, 80%.
00:03:19.840 I just Googled that out.
00:03:21.860 But don't you think, I feel like sometimes, like, even when you feel overeating, even if you feel like you want to look a type of way.
00:03:28.200 So even if you feel like you want to look a type of way, like, you might just eat it away.
00:03:33.000 Yeah, and then you gain weight.
00:03:35.120 Then you gain weight.
00:03:35.860 Then you can lose weight by eating less.
00:03:37.260 I guess.
00:03:38.540 But people are emotional eaters.
00:03:40.620 Yeah, but it's still a choice.
00:03:41.840 It's still a choice.
00:03:42.600 Yeah, true.
00:03:43.500 Yeah, but also I feel like a lot of women get into relationships or they get very comfortable and they just start to put on weight, like, just naturally. 0.97
00:03:51.880 I don't know.
00:03:52.680 Yeah, facts.
00:03:53.440 You get comfortable.
00:03:54.240 Yeah, and I don't know if they call it, like, relationship weight, but then you just take it too far and then you really let yourself go.
00:04:02.220 Like, I've got to get in the gym.
00:04:03.980 But my point is, I always hear women say that, like, they care so much about beauty standards, but it's like, if you cared about beauty standards, then why aren't you 120 pounds?
00:04:12.100 I would say another problem would be a lot of females are emotionally unstable. 1.00
00:04:16.340 That would be another issue, literally, to put all of that in a box.
00:04:20.280 Yeah, but some people, when they say they care about their body image, they're not actually talking about their weight.
00:04:24.600 They might just be talking about here, how their lips look, how their eyes look.
00:04:27.720 So they're not focusing on their body.
00:04:29.420 Just think about this bit.
00:04:30.340 Who has worse beauty standards, men or women?
00:04:35.340 What do you mean, like, looking for or?
00:04:38.140 Yeah, who has harder beauty standards to meet, men or women? 1.00
00:04:41.460 Oh, women. 1.00
00:04:42.400 Women, definitely. 1.00
00:04:42.960 How so when women only swipe right 5% of the time on dating apps, and they also find 80% of men as unattractive? 0.60
00:04:51.000 I think men have it harder because the chances of a man, an individual man versus an individual woman, of being found attractive by the majority is a lot lower for a man.
00:05:00.040 So, like, maybe, like, they see the, maybe, like, women, we see, you know, someone on, I don't know, like, a magazine or something, and we think, oh, I don't look like her.
00:05:11.100 Like, sure, that's a body standard that we feel like we have to live up to, but that's just how we feel.
00:05:16.580 That's not the reality.
00:05:17.660 The reality is we don't have to live up to anything, really.
00:05:21.600 The majority of, like, girls can find someone to partner up with them, sleep with them, whatever it may be, whereas guys, sure, there might not be a very obvious in your face, you must look like this, but us girls, as the judge of men, they've got way more to live up to. 0.97
00:05:39.420 Like, the average guy, like, most of us probably wouldn't find attractive.
00:05:42.840 I don't really agree with that.
00:05:44.420 I feel like, imagine if only two women in this room were found attractive by men, by the majority of men.
00:05:50.080 That would be sad.
00:05:52.260 Two.
00:05:52.800 Thanks.
00:05:53.920 So, how can you say we have worse beauty standards? 0.64
00:06:00.600 Like, it's not even girls saying they're okay. 0.67
00:06:03.100 Like, they deem 80% of men as unattractive, not just, oh, he's okay, he's kind of, he's medium ugly.
00:06:09.560 I don't think looks are looked at that much when it comes to men, I'll be honest with you.
00:06:15.800 I think women look at status. 1.00
00:06:19.420 They look at financial status.
00:06:20.780 They look at where is this man at in his life.
00:06:24.720 Yeah.
00:06:25.180 I mean, obviously, you have to be attracted to the person that you're dating, but most of the time, personally, me and, like, people that I know, the women in my life, they have never really looked at a guy and gone, oh, he's got a really pretty face.
00:06:38.140 They're like, he's a man.
00:06:39.580 He's a man.
00:06:40.220 But he's going to be tall.
00:06:41.760 Yeah.
00:06:42.460 He's got to be taller than you, at least.
00:06:45.740 I've dated men who are shorter than me, and I'm a tall woman.
00:06:49.280 Yeah, but you're not, you're not the majority.
00:06:51.560 And we're talking about women in general. 0.93
00:06:52.680 Women filter out men under six foot on dating apps 80% of the time. 0.99
00:06:58.080 And the saddest thing is, they're normally, like, five foot five, and they're taking all the tall men from our six foot two babes.
00:07:03.660 Yeah, but people's motives, people's motives on dating apps are also very questionable.
00:07:08.700 And women, most of women do go on there as well, just to get a bit of an ego boost or have a free meal, whatever. 1.00
00:07:16.560 And I think that would be true if that's not the number one way that people were meeting today.
00:07:22.520 So, you know, if the outcomes weren't relationships, that's the number one way, then I would agree with you.
00:07:29.160 But I don't know.
00:07:31.160 I just don't think that we really, like, look too deep into men's appearance that much.
00:07:37.380 Yes, we like height.
00:07:38.520 I think we do look at the height.
00:07:40.340 But I don't think we look at, oh, is his face perfect?
00:07:43.900 Oh, he's got a double chin.
00:07:45.440 You know, women look at stuff like that. 1.00
00:07:46.980 We look at things, oh, my face looks fat.
00:07:48.920 Like, oh, I need to get a nose job.
00:07:51.300 But we look at it, not men.
00:07:53.460 So it's like, how are we going to, like, men don't care.
00:07:57.120 Yeah, but it's this ideology that men like that typical, like, Barbie, skinny, small waist, petite girl.
00:08:04.740 And I guess society has kind of told us that and we've sort of believed it.
00:08:09.300 And the media also tell us that as well.
00:08:11.500 So over the years, we've just kind of, we've been brainwashed.
00:08:14.060 We think that that's what we look like. 0.98
00:08:15.460 Did you guys not listen to the ass song in high school? 0.98
00:08:24.280 Yeah, but I feel like the skinny trend is coming in now. 0.99
00:08:27.680 Look at the Kardashians.
00:08:28.600 Look at Kylie Jenner.
00:08:29.380 She just got rid of her BBL. 0.96
00:08:30.960 You know, Kim's gone super skinny. 1.00
00:08:32.980 Yeah, but none of them are wives. 1.00
00:08:34.940 Yeah, true.
00:08:36.800 Like, yeah, they make money, but they're not wives. 1.00
00:08:39.200 That's true.
00:08:39.660 It's like women are changing for women. 1.00
00:08:41.580 They're not even doing it for men.
00:08:42.840 If you ask men what they want, they don't want lip filler.
00:08:45.060 They don't want your forehead not to move.
00:08:47.020 They don't want a pound of makeup. 0.99
00:08:49.080 They just want, like, natural light.
00:08:51.600 Okay, can I ask you a question?
00:08:55.180 Okay, I hear what you're saying, but answer me this.
00:08:58.120 If they don't want the girls with the lip fillers and the big bums and the skinny little waist, 1.00
00:09:03.260 why is it when you go down a guy's following on Instagram,
00:09:07.120 every single girl he is following looks like that girl?
00:09:10.940 Do men look at Instagram for wives?
00:09:13.320 Can they?
00:09:13.680 No.
00:09:14.060 Why can they?
00:09:15.540 They know it's no good for them, but they all want a piece of it.
00:09:18.760 It's like, if you look at their cornstar search, is it going to be the wife material? 0.92
00:09:23.780 Okay.
00:09:24.340 They don't want to imagine the wives like that. 1.00
00:09:26.100 But if they're looking at people, if they're looking at women like that, 0.72
00:09:29.240 then they somewhat find those women attractive, no?
00:09:33.020 Yeah, for the night.
00:09:34.380 Yeah.
00:09:34.880 Candy is like sweets.
00:09:36.100 I always say it's like sweets because it is.
00:09:37.940 You know it's no good for you, but you just want some.
00:09:40.100 Really?
00:09:40.880 But isn't that scary for when you get into a relationship and you think,
00:09:43.320 oh, he's going to cheat then.
00:09:44.580 If he just wants a piece of it and it's that cool.
00:09:46.700 It depends what kind of man you're going for.
00:09:48.220 I don't know.
00:09:48.640 If people are so fussy about picking up.
00:09:50.440 I don't know.