JustPearlyThings - August 09, 2023


She UTTERED The Most Politically Correct Statement EVER!!!


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

192.79474

Word Count

1,898

Sentence Count

170

Misogynist Sentences

27

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 What is the number one issue facing women today?
00:00:06.000 Not being raised in a two-parent household.
00:00:08.740 That's a bad issue, maybe.
00:00:12.300 Safety.
00:00:13.380 Not being able to walk at night by myself.
00:00:16.480 I'm terrified.
00:00:17.540 Not being trained to be a woman or a lady or a mother.
00:00:20.520 I have a question about that at night.
00:00:22.840 Do you think men can walk home alone at night?
00:00:25.660 No.
00:00:27.180 Nice peak for them as well.
00:00:28.380 I mean, the way that London is right now, yeah, no, definitely not.
00:00:34.820 But I feel like there's just more risk when you're a woman.
00:00:38.840 So if I get attacked and a man gets attacked,
00:00:41.200 who's more likely to get help from other men?
00:00:44.540 The woman.
00:00:45.600 Because someone might come across and not even know who to help if it's two men.
00:00:49.380 But with the woman, I feel like people will automatically go to women and be like...
00:00:52.620 Have you seen those videos of the woman hitting the man and the man hitting the woman?
00:00:56.460 And it's like they always help the woman.
00:00:58.380 And man, they're like, good luck.
00:00:59.580 See ya.
00:01:00.760 Yeah.
00:01:01.260 Yeah.
00:01:01.680 I don't know.
00:01:02.320 Personally, I just don't feel safe on the streets.
00:01:04.480 I get Ubers literally everywhere or, you know, someone will pick me up or I'm terrified to walk alone by myself.
00:01:14.160 Just even coming here tonight, I was terrified.
00:01:16.980 Is that because you got, like, hollered out on the roads and that?
00:01:21.580 Like, hi, darling.
00:01:22.760 Not even that.
00:01:23.760 I can handle that.
00:01:24.680 But I've actually been followed home.
00:01:26.360 Like, I've been followed home.
00:01:27.720 Like, you know, I've had someone trying to rob me.
00:01:31.540 I've had someone try and touch me inappropriately.
00:01:33.980 You know, and it's a lot to deal with.
00:01:38.120 What area is that?
00:01:39.440 Sorry to say.
00:01:40.900 Well, I'm from East London.
00:01:42.720 So, yeah.
00:01:45.040 Okay.
00:01:45.960 I don't know.
00:01:46.360 Anyone else?
00:01:48.480 Number one issue facing women.
00:01:51.900 I don't know if it's number one, but I do want to bring it up again.
00:01:54.880 I think promiscuity is tainting us, especially, like, now, like, you know, you're a similar age to me.
00:02:04.140 Like, we've been on social media.
00:02:05.540 I don't know about you, but, like, I think I got Snapchat when I was, like, 13.
00:02:08.160 Yeah.
00:02:08.520 So, it's, like, I know, like, before you had, like, page three and things like that.
00:02:13.400 But, like, I just feel like things have changed.
00:02:16.960 And, like, now you'll see, like, 10-year-old kids who are, like, like, they'll just see these, like, OnlyFans models or whatever.
00:02:23.440 Like, and it's just so, like, they don't even blink.
00:02:26.280 Like, it's just so, like, everyone's just used to it.
00:02:29.400 Even TikTok as well.
00:02:30.420 Even, like, TikTok, you'll have, like, 14-year-olds looking like they're 18, like, you know, moving their waist around.
00:02:35.680 It's, like, like.
00:02:36.520 It's really scary.
00:02:37.420 I've seen it.
00:02:37.880 It's really scary.
00:02:38.700 And I just don't think it's going to do anyone any help in the long run, men or women, like.
00:02:43.400 It's tainting everyone's view of everything, in my opinion.
00:02:47.400 I think the number one thing for women right now is body image.
00:02:52.280 Yeah.
00:02:52.940 Yeah.
00:02:53.300 Definitely body image.
00:02:54.740 Whether it's having your waist, your bum, your tits, your lips, Botox, it's definitely body image.
00:03:02.860 Weave or whatever.
00:03:04.000 Like, I feel it for you women because, like, if you don't look a certain way, you're not doing it.
00:03:12.040 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:03:12.600 If women were worried about body image, then why are 60% of women overweight in the UK?
00:03:17.380 It's worse.
00:03:17.940 It's worse in America.
00:03:18.820 It's, like, 80%.
00:03:19.840 I just Googled that out.
00:03:21.860 But don't you think, I feel like sometimes, like, even when you feel overeating, even if you feel like you want to look a type of way.
00:03:28.200 So even if you feel like you want to look a type of way, like, you might just eat it away.
00:03:33.000 Yeah, and then you gain weight.
00:03:35.120 Then you gain weight.
00:03:35.860 Then you can lose weight by eating less.
00:03:37.260 I guess.
00:03:38.540 But people are emotional eaters.
00:03:40.620 Yeah, but it's still a choice.
00:03:41.840 It's still a choice.
00:03:42.600 Yeah, true.
00:03:43.500 Yeah, but also I feel like a lot of women get into relationships or they get very comfortable and they just start to put on weight, like, just naturally.
00:03:51.880 I don't know.
00:03:52.680 Yeah, facts.
00:03:53.440 You get comfortable.
00:03:54.240 Yeah, and I don't know if they call it, like, relationship weight, but then you just take it too far and then you really let yourself go.
00:04:02.220 Like, I've got to get in the gym.
00:04:03.980 But my point is, I always hear women say that, like, they care so much about beauty standards, but it's like, if you cared about beauty standards, then why aren't you 120 pounds?
00:04:12.100 I would say another problem would be a lot of females are emotionally unstable.
00:04:16.340 That would be another issue, literally, to put all of that in a box.
00:04:20.280 Yeah, but some people, when they say they care about their body image, they're not actually talking about their weight.
00:04:24.600 They might just be talking about here, how their lips look, how their eyes look.
00:04:27.720 So they're not focusing on their body.
00:04:29.420 Just think about this bit.
00:04:30.340 Who has worse beauty standards, men or women?
00:04:35.340 What do you mean, like, looking for or?
00:04:38.140 Yeah, who has harder beauty standards to meet, men or women?
00:04:41.460 Oh, women.
00:04:42.400 Women, definitely.
00:04:42.960 How so when women only swipe right 5% of the time on dating apps, and they also find 80% of men as unattractive?
00:04:51.000 I think men have it harder because the chances of a man, an individual man versus an individual woman, of being found attractive by the majority is a lot lower for a man.
00:05:00.040 So, like, maybe, like, they see the, maybe, like, women, we see, you know, someone on, I don't know, like, a magazine or something, and we think, oh, I don't look like her.
00:05:11.100 Like, sure, that's a body standard that we feel like we have to live up to, but that's just how we feel.
00:05:16.580 That's not the reality.
00:05:17.660 The reality is we don't have to live up to anything, really.
00:05:21.600 The majority of, like, girls can find someone to partner up with them, sleep with them, whatever it may be, whereas guys, sure, there might not be a very obvious in your face, you must look like this, but us girls, as the judge of men, they've got way more to live up to.
00:05:39.420 Like, the average guy, like, most of us probably wouldn't find attractive.
00:05:42.840 I don't really agree with that.
00:05:44.420 I feel like, imagine if only two women in this room were found attractive by men, by the majority of men.
00:05:50.080 That would be sad.
00:05:52.260 Two.
00:05:52.800 Thanks.
00:05:53.920 So, how can you say we have worse beauty standards?
00:06:00.600 Like, it's not even girls saying they're okay.
00:06:03.100 Like, they deem 80% of men as unattractive, not just, oh, he's okay, he's kind of, he's medium ugly.
00:06:09.560 I don't think looks are looked at that much when it comes to men, I'll be honest with you.
00:06:15.800 I think women look at status.
00:06:19.420 They look at financial status.
00:06:20.780 They look at where is this man at in his life.
00:06:24.720 Yeah.
00:06:25.180 I mean, obviously, you have to be attracted to the person that you're dating, but most of the time, personally, me and, like, people that I know, the women in my life, they have never really looked at a guy and gone, oh, he's got a really pretty face.
00:06:38.140 They're like, he's a man.
00:06:39.580 He's a man.
00:06:40.220 But he's going to be tall.
00:06:41.760 Yeah.
00:06:42.460 He's got to be taller than you, at least.
00:06:45.740 I've dated men who are shorter than me, and I'm a tall woman.
00:06:49.280 Yeah, but you're not, you're not the majority.
00:06:51.560 And we're talking about women in general.
00:06:52.680 Women filter out men under six foot on dating apps 80% of the time.
00:06:58.080 And the saddest thing is, they're normally, like, five foot five, and they're taking all the tall men from our six foot two babes.
00:07:03.660 Yeah, but people's motives, people's motives on dating apps are also very questionable.
00:07:08.700 And women, most of women do go on there as well, just to get a bit of an ego boost or have a free meal, whatever.
00:07:16.560 And I think that would be true if that's not the number one way that people were meeting today.
00:07:22.520 So, you know, if the outcomes weren't relationships, that's the number one way, then I would agree with you.
00:07:29.160 But I don't know.
00:07:31.160 I just don't think that we really, like, look too deep into men's appearance that much.
00:07:37.380 Yes, we like height.
00:07:38.520 I think we do look at the height.
00:07:40.340 But I don't think we look at, oh, is his face perfect?
00:07:43.900 Oh, he's got a double chin.
00:07:45.440 You know, women look at stuff like that.
00:07:46.980 We look at things, oh, my face looks fat.
00:07:48.920 Like, oh, I need to get a nose job.
00:07:51.300 But we look at it, not men.
00:07:53.460 So it's like, how are we going to, like, men don't care.
00:07:57.120 Yeah, but it's this ideology that men like that typical, like, Barbie, skinny, small waist, petite girl.
00:08:04.740 And I guess society has kind of told us that and we've sort of believed it.
00:08:09.300 And the media also tell us that as well.
00:08:11.500 So over the years, we've just kind of, we've been brainwashed.
00:08:14.060 We think that that's what we look like.
00:08:15.460 Did you guys not listen to the ass song in high school?
00:08:24.280 Yeah, but I feel like the skinny trend is coming in now.
00:08:27.680 Look at the Kardashians.
00:08:28.600 Look at Kylie Jenner.
00:08:29.380 She just got rid of her BBL.
00:08:30.960 You know, Kim's gone super skinny.
00:08:32.980 Yeah, but none of them are wives.
00:08:34.940 Yeah, true.
00:08:36.800 Like, yeah, they make money, but they're not wives.
00:08:39.200 That's true.
00:08:39.660 It's like women are changing for women.
00:08:41.580 They're not even doing it for men.
00:08:42.840 If you ask men what they want, they don't want lip filler.
00:08:45.060 They don't want your forehead not to move.
00:08:47.020 They don't want a pound of makeup.
00:08:49.080 They just want, like, natural light.
00:08:51.600 Okay, can I ask you a question?
00:08:55.180 Okay, I hear what you're saying, but answer me this.
00:08:58.120 If they don't want the girls with the lip fillers and the big bums and the skinny little waist,
00:09:03.260 why is it when you go down a guy's following on Instagram,
00:09:07.120 every single girl he is following looks like that girl?
00:09:10.940 Do men look at Instagram for wives?
00:09:13.320 Can they?
00:09:13.680 No.
00:09:14.060 Why can they?
00:09:15.540 They know it's no good for them, but they all want a piece of it.
00:09:18.760 It's like, if you look at their cornstar search, is it going to be the wife material?
00:09:23.780 Okay.
00:09:24.340 They don't want to imagine the wives like that.
00:09:26.100 But if they're looking at people, if they're looking at women like that,
00:09:29.240 then they somewhat find those women attractive, no?
00:09:33.020 Yeah, for the night.
00:09:34.380 Yeah.
00:09:34.880 Candy is like sweets.
00:09:36.100 I always say it's like sweets because it is.
00:09:37.940 You know it's no good for you, but you just want some.
00:09:40.100 Really?
00:09:40.880 But isn't that scary for when you get into a relationship and you think,
00:09:43.320 oh, he's going to cheat then.
00:09:44.580 If he just wants a piece of it and it's that cool.
00:09:46.700 It depends what kind of man you're going for.
00:09:48.220 I don't know.
00:09:48.640 If people are so fussy about picking up.
00:09:50.440 I don't know.