She WANTS a GOOD MAN without any Sacrifice
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about what it means to be a wife of a hoe and how to deal with the pressures of being a wife in the modern dating world. We also talk about the perils of going out at night club with your wife and what to look out for when it comes to your wife.
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So your big things are social media and nightlife?
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Okay, what would you expect your girl to give up for you?
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Like, unless I see that it's coming between us in some way, do what you want.
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Just don't be out here making either of us look crazy because you're a reflection of me.
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So if you're going to go to the club with your girls, all right, cool.
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But then if it comes back to me that you was dancing on 50 men and your tongue was down 50 throats,
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And if I'm not there, obviously it's not always that I can be there.
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But I understand what you mean by she's dancing on another one.
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So, but then to be fair with my wife, because the story with my wife is a long time in the
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But then I've, I've said to her before, like, if I just, if I met you in the club and then
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I found that you went to the club and using other things in the club.
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She, now when she's like, oh, she's meeting my friends.
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She looks after me, food, clothes, all that kind of stuff.
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So, and yeah, so that's, that's why I would question it.
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But obviously my situation is very unique as opposed to some other people out there.
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But in general terms, then I would mostly say, yeah.
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My daughter and football is like those two things.
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I mean, why would a man want me to give up football?
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I mean, I don't even keep social media on my main phone.
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Don't they recruit you through Instagram or no?
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She called me, but, um, but yeah, I mean, I'm yeah.
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But then what if your husband was like, nah, yeah.
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You just won't do it because you don't want to do it anymore.
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But yeah, if he really wanted me to give for the right man.
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So this one, I actually don't even, I don't even think I would do this one.
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That doesn't really make sense to me because if the guy wants you to get plastic surgery,
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why don't you just find the woman who looks like.
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I've heard, I've heard guys like paying for it.
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I've heard guys like paying for their girls' boob jobs.
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I wouldn't want to do it either, but I think that's my...
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But then couldn't he just get the girl to eat more?
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If you put on weight, wouldn't your breasts grow?
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I think it's usually because they want the hourglass.
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There are ways that you can, but not for it to look like plastic.
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It's not going to be up here like this, but like...
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But there are things, like I said, it is, you can work on yourself.
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And yeah, that, I would do that for him, like to work on myself, to be in shape, to look good.
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Yeah, absolutely, but not plastic surgery or fillers and all that.
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Okay, what would you expect the right girl to do for you or to give up for you?
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I think, you know, sort of to begin with, just to be looking at my current circumstances.
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Obviously, if she'd work, the start of the other is fine.
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But if it came down to where I was in a position where she wouldn't need to work, and especially,
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I think, I think by nature, like, I want to be with a woman that's more nurturing.
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So, you know, that early stage is before the kids start to go to school.
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Especially if I can provide that life for us, you know?
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If she wants to go back to work, yeah, no problem, man.
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But in that period, you've got to play ball, man, you know?
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Did you answer what you would give up for the right guy?
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Because I was thinking about it, and I was kind of like, I don't know.
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I don't think any relationships require sacrifice.
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No, I have a fiancé, obviously, and I love him.
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But I think the only reason probably is coming from that, that is he's very, he wants me the way
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So he doesn't me going to the, because I do a bit of a TV personality in Persian channels.
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And so, because, because I do whatever I always wanted to do right now.
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And he's very happy with the way I am, even though I'm most of the time just, you know,
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I'm very like outgoing and stuff and spending a lot of time out because of the camera and
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And, and he's always involved and he's loving the fact that I'm very outgoing and social.
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So probably if he tells me don't dance, I wouldn't give up because I'm, I'm so.
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Social media, because I have a big platform on Instagram and I really worked hard for it.
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Like, you know, you're having, when you build up your Instagram.
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You can call your family, FaceTime your family.
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I called Instagram my family as well, because I kind of like.
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Hold on, better than your real family, like your fiance and.
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No, I just don't understand why anybody wants me to delete my Instagram.
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We had, we had a guy come, come in two days ago, Justin Waller.
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And this guy has married women constantly trying to sleep with him on social media all the time.
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Like literally, like he's shown me like videos, pictures of girls like saying, come over.
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And like, he'll show me pictures of their families.
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And he doesn't do it because he's, he's not that type of guy.
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But, but it's like, if a guy just wants to avoid that headache.
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Of you, you know, potentially doing something like you wouldn't understand that.
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If a lot, a lot of divorces like come from social media.
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That's true because my sister had, you know, lots of argue with his, with her husband because
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of social media, but now thinking about it, if obviously he wants me to delete Instagram,
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otherwise he's not going to be with me because I really love him and he's, he's amazing.
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So probably I would, but I think I'm going to be depressed for a few months.
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But now because we're discussing it, it's actually good for me because when you discuss
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it, I get into myself and thinking if one, they don't want me to delete my Instagram.
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Cause we never had that conversation and I never thought about it.
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But now you're asking me and I'm thinking about it.
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Well, can I ask you, would you like, would you give up just pearly things for the right
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I mean, to be honest, I don't think the show is conducive.
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Like what am I going to do this when I have kids?
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I mean, if it was genuinely causing a problem in my marriage, like I would, I mean, it's
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Imagine saying that 10 year old controls your life and it isn't your child.
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When you actually really think about what is it that you're doing, unless like you're
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a full time content creator now, or like some former celebrity where you need to have
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to have that level of engagement to my mind now if you just on then go like this
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on with your thing with your phone scrolling in the glass that's wasting
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your time no I wouldn't if I was like that like just scrolling and you know
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wasting my time I wouldn't even care if I want to delete my Instagram to be honest
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if you're meant ask for it you're gonna delete it yeah yeah what about girls
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trips would you give up girls trips yes but I love my girls trip I tell you
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tonight when I go home I'm gonna I'm gonna ask him if if there's one thing he
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wants me to give up on what would it be I don't know I should ask him what if he
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came back and said now that you well no it's actually interesting you make me
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kind of like aware of what about plastic surgery would you get plastic surgery
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for a guy if if like I I did my boob job because after I had nether I just lost
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the fat because I lost weight and I did for myself because I hated it and I
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wanted to do it but if I had to do because of him no not really no I'm
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scared of plastic surgeries I mean I did this ten years ago but now I'm getting
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older I'm scared of that sort of thing okay did you say what you would give up
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for a guy you know what this actually this conversation made me think when I
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was younger we actually we women we do that we do give up things we why do we
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dress a certain way to for men to look at us and I think you know I think there
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was times when I was too conscious of I wanna be certain way so I can get the
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attention from men but now that's not the case anymore that's where I can speak
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freely about this if I would get plastic surgery no giving up things like my
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social media my career mm-hmm yes but when it comes to I don't know this is it's
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just age as well because I know I'm thinking when it was about 2025 and I
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had a boyfriend and I fell in love with him and to be honest I would have done
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anything hmm but not now were you more in love then probably okay so so it sounds
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like for the like the right guy you would give up more yeah I mean I don't know is
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it is it the age or am I wrong is it the age it's got to be the right guy only at
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the guy it should be your age as well yeah but I think for me because the
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opposite was I don't know maybe like I was raised by a feminist mom and he was
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like don't get married don't have kids go and do what you want no but she's very
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happy she's got granddaughter I'm I'm the only one out of her four kids has given
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her a grandchild could it be because when you get older when I get more
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experience experience and you get more confident you kind of feel like why do
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I have to do that maybe because maybe because you don't love you that much if
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I did have that I don't I don't think it's love only no I don't think I should
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do something because I should do my boob job because I love him and he wants me
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to do I don't call it love if he would really truly love me he would love me the
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way I look yeah ideal man like I've got second I just don't like that any of
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that stuff anyway but so I think I call it my I'm I'm more mature in terms of
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making decision right then just because someone who go maybe I would like I have
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maybe I would have tell him wait wait blessing I have to give a statement um okay
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is king is Michael here can you see if he'll take the show for like while I go
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do it I have to give a police statement I guess for the lady
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serious yeah but guys we're gonna get King Richie's to take over the show yes
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kick um it's ridiculous seriously she called the police yeah I guess she couldn't just
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come down when she spoke to me in a certain oh I saw and it was good get a
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bit spicy it was drunk I gotta say she came you're drunk yeah I just said calm
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down and she went no I'm just saying but the environment was just real spicy she
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just yeah she went off man and then she was trying to say that I said that domestic
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abuse was okay I didn't even I don't know where she got these these ideas and going
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off a random tangents as well and just not even just listen I wanted to hear so
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you said you had a feminist mother when did you because you seem actually pretty
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based like you know you don't scream like feminism to me so I rebelled against
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my mom finally I well yeah I was born 1980 so I grew up in the 90s and yeah
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moving from Iran to Sweden it was my mom was like freedom do what you want was
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your mom a single mother yeah that split up when I was 12 okay divorced my dad and
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had two job two three jobs and you know really tried to provide for us really
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good mom amazing I love her but she really I said to her my only complaint was
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like you raised me based on ideologies that you had not you know I never really
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got you it was more what you believed in about you know being a feminist being an
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atheist and so yeah and I yeah I'm definitely not a feminist so I'm curious do
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you feel did your mom ever get remarried no she was with someone for like 20
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years but not she didn't get remarried okay so it's yeah I was just wondering if
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she had a better outcome or not I've always wondered about that when sorry
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goodness no and that's not direct to you personally but cuz I grew up single
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parent home but I've always wonder where they told that they were out there
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working two three jobs yeah I was single mother then telling her daughter go and do
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the same I just I don't understand how okay I just didn't get it man I mean I've
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worked two three jobs before and as many of you know I was just banned on tick tock
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