JustPearlyThings - April 29, 2023


She Was Put On The Spot For Stating This...


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11 minutes

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225.02036

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2,487

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209

Misogynist Sentences

17

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10


Summary


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00:00:00.000 I feel like women do it more, they just hide it better than men.
00:00:03.440 How?
00:00:04.280 What do you mean by hide it better?
00:00:06.320 Well, I wouldn't know because I've never cheated.
00:00:07.540 No, but I'm saying from what you've heard, from your theory, what you're hearing,
00:00:10.520 how does that happen?
00:00:12.880 Women lie better than men, in my opinion.
00:00:15.100 Women lie better than men.
00:00:16.020 And I feel like, well, I can't give an example because then I'm going to be putting up...
00:00:20.400 No, I just want you to know.
00:00:21.860 I'd love to know as a man, I want to know.
00:00:23.300 Could you tell me?
00:00:24.340 I mean, because you've got this opinion from somewhere.
00:00:26.820 I know it's not you.
00:00:27.740 You're the faithful girlfriend.
00:00:29.240 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:00:29.720 But I'm sure in six years, right, you know someone that's cheated, right?
00:00:35.560 Yeah.
00:00:36.080 Okay.
00:00:36.520 So what's the question?
00:00:37.420 So like what happened?
00:00:38.620 Why did she cheat?
00:00:39.460 How did she cheat?
00:00:40.480 I feel like people in my generation think that they can go find better quick because they're
00:00:47.040 still young.
00:00:47.620 So like you have your variables.
00:00:50.440 It might be they're good looking.
00:00:52.220 I know men like good looking, young, healthy, whatever it is.
00:00:56.500 Women are in their prime when they're young, right?
00:00:57.980 So does that make sense?
00:00:59.920 No, but I was asking about it.
00:01:01.160 You seemed like you said that women, you said women cheat more than men.
00:01:03.620 So I'm asking like, do you know someone who cheated?
00:01:05.560 How do they cheat?
00:01:06.680 They just go out and do what they want to do.
00:01:09.120 Like, yeah, it's not like...
00:01:11.440 I'm asking, is it like, are they sleeping with random men every night?
00:01:15.040 Is it the same guy?
00:01:16.100 No.
00:01:16.300 So say like a girl could go out, say like she's going out with her friends or whatever.
00:01:19.780 And let's say she's talking to two people.
00:01:21.920 One, she's actually been in a relationship with on and off.
00:01:24.980 On an off weekend, she could go out with her friend and go do something with the second
00:01:28.640 person.
00:01:29.140 Wow.
00:01:29.400 But in the first person's head, they think that they're maybe like still together or whatever.
00:01:35.420 Okay.
00:01:35.920 So the first person, is she in a relationship with them or two?
00:01:38.420 So she's on and off.
00:01:39.640 She's on and off with the first person.
00:01:41.220 Okay.
00:01:41.640 But in that person's head, she's, they're on.
00:01:44.700 Does that make sense?
00:01:45.640 Mm-hmm.
00:01:46.140 Yeah.
00:01:46.720 Oh, okay.
00:01:47.340 So, so really like they both think they're the only one, but there's two.
00:01:51.960 Yeah.
00:01:52.480 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:53.380 Kind of, kind of, yeah.
00:01:55.140 You know, I think, I think social media is a big, big, big difference, you know, because
00:01:58.960 I think that everyone's like so glued on social media trying to like watch what people
00:02:04.180 are doing.
00:02:04.900 So I was like, um, people have like unrealistic expectations.
00:02:08.660 They'll compare their life to someone else's life on social media.
00:02:11.180 Mm-hmm.
00:02:11.500 And then when, you know, arguments are happening, like, oh, you didn't take me out to cinema.
00:02:15.560 Oh, my friend took, look, she's on Instagram.
00:02:17.660 She took me out to whatever, boom, boom, boom.
00:02:19.940 And it's just like too much, too much watch over people.
00:02:22.660 I thought that makes a big difference as well.
00:02:24.360 And plus on social media as well, like all the girls and that are just, like, you're from
00:02:29.960 young, just showing body, image, image, everything.
00:02:32.160 So it's all, not just girls, but in general, everything's all image.
00:02:34.960 So it's like, everyone's always showing image, image.
00:02:37.340 So everything just seems like very sexual.
00:02:39.460 That's why people are just on the cheating thing quickly as well.
00:02:42.520 Yeah.
00:02:42.580 I think, I think social media really affects women more than it does men.
00:02:47.740 Are men really on social media like that?
00:02:49.860 Yeah, of course.
00:02:50.820 All the time.
00:02:51.860 Like by and large, you think so?
00:02:54.020 You think it's equal?
00:02:55.300 I don't know about equal, but I feel it does affect a lot of men still.
00:02:58.660 I feel a lot of men, you know, get affected by, you know, on social media, what they see
00:03:02.600 in that as well.
00:03:03.440 And that makes them, like, go crazy.
00:03:06.440 Like a lot of my friends and that, they'll be like, you know, before they link girls and
00:03:10.140 they'll be doing that background research, you know what I mean?
00:03:12.580 Seeing what they've done, body count, all this crazy stuff.
00:03:15.860 Because, yeah, because it's like, they think raw, like, I want to know if this girl's
00:03:19.700 that, how many guys she's selective and all that.
00:03:21.720 They do background research.
00:03:23.040 Background research.
00:03:23.460 How do they do that?
00:03:24.360 What do they do?
00:03:24.540 Well, I don't, listen, I'll be honest with you.
00:03:26.440 Is there like a database?
00:03:27.280 Is there a database?
00:03:27.860 This burner account, this burner account, things rule, this burner account, creating
00:03:30.000 burner accounts and just, you know, messaging people and doing loads of things.
00:03:33.680 It's crazy.
00:03:34.660 Are you saying men do that or women do that?
00:03:35.960 I think men do that.
00:03:36.700 Wait, so, okay, you know a guy that makes burner accounts.
00:03:39.280 I know a couple guys.
00:03:40.680 Okay, what do they do with these?
00:03:41.880 I've just never heard of this.
00:03:42.900 Like, just create burner accounts and just, like, message girls and see, okay, potential girl
00:03:48.080 to see what, you know, they're saying to test them out and just do testing it to see.
00:03:52.260 Oh, so they test the girl.
00:03:53.380 Yeah, to see if they're like, you know.
00:03:54.600 They make, like, a really attractive burner account.
00:03:56.780 I don't know if it's attractive.
00:03:57.960 I don't know.
00:03:58.500 But it's like, just to test the girl to see if she's serious and that all.
00:04:01.860 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:03.120 Okay, so they'll test, like, if they want to chat to a girl, they'll test the girl with
00:04:07.340 another account to see if she responds.
00:04:08.900 Yeah, to pretend to be someone else, you get it.
00:04:10.580 And then they'll, they'll maybe link in the girl, pretend to be someone else and then message
00:04:13.860 them and see, okay, cool.
00:04:14.880 So, okay, like, ask them a couple of questions and see, dig in and see what they're saying.
00:04:19.320 Yeah.
00:04:20.160 You say, the man, am I getting smarter?
00:04:23.700 Bruh.
00:04:24.380 You think that's smart?
00:04:25.320 I don't know.
00:04:25.720 Smart, bruh.
00:04:27.140 Man just made me, my brain tick twice.
00:04:29.400 I said, what?
00:04:30.480 They're doing mad accounts so man can see.
00:04:33.240 So if I'm linking a ting, I'll make a new account, certain what she's attracted in to,
00:04:38.020 like, obviously, and then just try and pattern her like that and see if she's serious.
00:04:41.840 Oh, yeah, I'm not seeing no one at the moment.
00:04:43.440 But then you'll mash up your own link in a way, because that's, that's hurtful.
00:04:47.340 Seems like a lot of effort.
00:04:49.240 Yeah, it's a lot of effort still.
00:04:50.400 A lot of effort still.
00:04:50.460 I wouldn't do that personally, but yeah.
00:04:52.380 I was like, that sounds like, that must be a feminine dude, because that sounds like
00:04:55.480 something that a girl would do.
00:04:56.540 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:56.740 It's like detective work.
00:05:00.100 Yeah, that's too much, man.
00:05:01.080 I just think there's loads of insecurities though, do you know what I'm saying to you?
00:05:04.020 Maybe they don't feel that girl's trustworthy.
00:05:06.760 That's kind of sad.
00:05:07.540 And to be fair, like, I would say like rightfully, rightfully so, but that's just a lot.
00:05:12.120 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:16.120 I agree with what you said earlier, though.
00:05:18.020 A lot of time.
00:05:19.020 I was just saying a lot of time on the hand.
00:05:20.860 Yeah, I agree with what you said earlier, when you mentioned the social media has taken
00:05:24.780 over.
00:05:25.780 It has, in my time, obviously I'm 35 in it, so there weren't no YouTube, there wasn't
00:05:30.060 no Instagram, there wasn't no all that, so man ain't distracted, you see it, but the
00:05:34.660 new generation now, I always keep looking at you because you're too young, sorry.
00:05:37.700 But yeah, the new generation, obviously, it just, they've got all the patterns, you get
00:05:44.520 me?
00:05:44.640 The social media's there.
00:05:45.980 And I like Bush though, like back in the day, was there these things for men to even
00:05:49.300 do music like that?
00:05:50.440 You understand?
00:05:51.220 It was the set up.
00:05:52.260 It wasn't available.
00:05:53.280 You understand?
00:05:53.880 I think that social media affects women more than men because women find 80% of men unattractive,
00:05:59.820 so it's not like most men.
00:06:01.180 Like if you ask women both on dating apps and in person, and like you say, do you find this
00:06:04.880 guy attractive, this guy attractive, they find 80% unattractive.
00:06:07.580 And that's in person too.
00:06:08.780 Because a lot of people will say, oh, that's just social media, no, no, no, no, no, in person.
00:06:12.680 So it's only a small percentage of guys that are even getting messages from women like that.
00:06:16.580 Yeah, but you know what it is?
00:06:17.020 I feel a lot of guys that are on social media to try to like pattern a girl, try and move
00:06:20.720 to a girl.
00:06:21.420 And I feel like a lot of guys, like, I feel like when I was younger, like, when you're
00:06:25.180 trying to, if you're like a girl, you approach her, do you know what I mean?
00:06:27.300 You'll move to her, you know, put in game, do you know what I'm saying to you?
00:06:30.560 I feel now, guys are being lazy because it's like, everything's social media, so they just
00:06:34.760 try sliding in DMs and that's why they get blanked, do you know what I'm saying to you?
00:06:37.820 Well, yeah, because like an average, oh my gosh, an overweight woman on Tinder gets more
00:06:44.280 matches than the top, like a model level guy on Tinder.
00:06:47.600 I don't believe that, 100%.
00:06:48.600 Yeah.
00:06:48.860 I don't believe, like, how?
00:06:50.820 100%, 100%.
00:06:52.060 How?
00:06:52.540 Because men aren't as picky as women.
00:06:54.300 That's true, actually.
00:06:55.680 Yeah, men aren't like, oh, good enough.
00:06:57.740 Oh, yeah, God.
00:06:59.220 Men swipe right on dating apps 50% of the time, where women only swipe right 5%.
00:07:03.060 Wow.
00:07:04.140 Yeah.
00:07:05.860 That's a big difference.
00:07:08.080 Yeah.
00:07:08.600 I mean, yeah.
00:07:09.280 I think dating apps is also a problem as well with the whole dating scene nowadays because it's
00:07:14.980 just so easy to swipe and just, and you don't really think of the people as like real people
00:07:20.040 when they are, but you get, it takes the human side out of it.
00:07:25.940 Yeah.
00:07:26.440 Yeah.
00:07:26.800 Well, I mean, it's also like girls in their 20s usually get, you know, like ran through
00:07:32.380 a bit by the top 20% of men and then they start to settle like in their 30s.
00:07:36.980 No, I'm serious.
00:07:38.980 I'm joking.
00:07:39.620 Don't look at me because you said the age and I'm just, yeah.
00:07:43.020 Don't mind me.
00:07:43.740 No, I mean, because when you think about it, like what are people doing in their 20s?
00:07:46.920 It's situationship.
00:07:47.920 So what are you, what are you doing in a situationship?
00:07:49.900 You're like, it's funny because girls will say that they're not like they need to be in
00:07:53.060 a monogamous relationship, but it's like how many situationships have you been in?
00:07:56.900 That's not monogamous.
00:07:58.380 It's true.
00:08:01.160 Yeah.
00:08:01.800 How many have you been in?
00:08:03.240 How many have I been?
00:08:04.200 Zero.
00:08:04.600 I'm a virgin.
00:08:05.860 Yeah.
00:08:07.780 I'm just kidding.
00:08:08.520 I did not know what to say.
00:08:12.840 No, no, no.
00:08:14.800 You're not going to answer that one.
00:08:18.400 That's a laugh that one off.
00:08:19.560 You know, yeah.
00:08:20.940 Next question.
00:08:22.240 Moving on to it.
00:08:23.580 She went to it.
00:08:24.480 And just like flicking pages.
00:08:26.260 No, I'm special, you know.
00:08:28.360 Anyways.
00:08:29.900 So, so, what is the worst date you guys have ever been on?
00:08:36.980 Sure.
00:08:37.600 Oh, what?
00:08:38.520 God, I've got quite a few, you know, I'll be honest.
00:08:40.380 Okay, give me, give me a couple.
00:08:42.340 I mean, I went to date with one girl one time, yeah.
00:08:44.980 And then, you know, went to Wonderland, yeah.
00:08:48.380 And then she just wasn't even on it.
00:08:51.240 Like, she just, her whole attitude was just like moving along.
00:08:54.340 Like, wasn't wanting to play no games, nothing like that.
00:08:56.700 And then, um, after this event restaurant and that, and it's just like, this is, you know,
00:09:00.320 when the chemistry is just so dead that there's nothing there, like literally nothing.
00:09:04.860 So, I just thought to myself, this is dead.
00:09:07.260 So, I literally, I thought, let me just end the date here.
00:09:10.340 So, um, when we ended the date, I was like, okay, cool.
00:09:13.100 I'm going to go.
00:09:13.940 Because, like, what's the point?
00:09:15.060 And then she just walked off.
00:09:17.600 Not even no bye, no hug, no nothing.
00:09:19.240 I was just like, this is, this is terrible.
00:09:21.320 I don't even know why I went on a date in the first place.
00:09:23.060 But, yeah.
00:09:24.360 That's just one, that's just one example.
00:09:25.600 Give me, give me another.
00:09:26.720 Oh, my God.
00:09:28.160 You got, you got stories, huh?
00:09:31.460 Another one, um, bad one.
00:09:36.500 Yeah, I went, I went on one date with one girl in a restaurant and she was just rude to the waiter,
00:09:40.920 just proper rude, because they were taking quite long with the food.
00:09:44.180 And the way she was just disrespecting the waiter, I was like, no, this ain't it.
00:09:47.320 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:47.820 Like, at least have some manners.
00:09:48.900 I get, I get it, like, the service is bad, but she just was bad-mouthing the waiter.
00:09:53.860 And it's just like, I was just, I got mad as well.
00:09:55.500 I was like, you can't be talking to people like that.
00:09:57.320 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:09:57.920 Do you know, from there one, it just went down the hall.
00:10:00.340 So, yeah, that was not a good one as well.
00:10:02.220 So, she started yelling at the, what'd she say to the waiter?
00:10:04.620 Just start swearing.
00:10:05.420 So, you're fucking taking too long, yeah.
00:10:06.900 Just start swearing.
00:10:07.880 Oh, she started, like, all out swearing at the waiter.
00:10:10.060 You're swearing at the waiter.
00:10:11.420 Swearing at the waiter.
00:10:12.060 And then, like, I see, I was like, no, this is out of hand.
00:10:15.820 I'm completely out of hand.
00:10:17.280 I can't be in this situation, no way.
00:10:19.720 You can't be talking to people like that.
00:10:21.400 And it's bad on me, because then what I'm like, like, I've come with her,
00:10:24.600 so I've got, I was like, nah, no way.
00:10:27.340 Did you still pay for the dinner?
00:10:29.740 I'll be honest with you, when I go on dates, I always pay in it.
00:10:31.900 I always pay in it.
00:10:32.660 Okay.
00:10:32.920 So, I don't, even things like that, I just don't even have to think about it.
00:10:36.720 It just creates too much anxiety for me in terms of, like, oh, let's split the bill,
00:10:40.320 just, nah, let's pay.
00:10:41.240 I come organized, innit?
00:10:42.660 I know, okay, if I'm gonna go somewhere, I know what for you, what's gonna cost,
00:10:46.080 and I just pay for it.
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