She Was Put On The Spot For Stating This...
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about cheating in relationships and how women cheat more than men. How does this happen and why does it happen? We also talk about the impact of social media and how it affects men and women.
Transcript
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I feel like women do it more, they just hide it better than men.
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Well, I wouldn't know because I've never cheated.
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No, but I'm saying from what you've heard, from your theory, what you're hearing,
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And I feel like, well, I can't give an example because then I'm going to be putting up...
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I mean, because you've got this opinion from somewhere.
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But I'm sure in six years, right, you know someone that's cheated, right?
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I feel like people in my generation think that they can go find better quick because they're
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I know men like good looking, young, healthy, whatever it is.
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Women are in their prime when they're young, right?
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You seemed like you said that women, you said women cheat more than men.
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So I'm asking like, do you know someone who cheated?
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I'm asking, is it like, are they sleeping with random men every night?
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So say like a girl could go out, say like she's going out with her friends or whatever.
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One, she's actually been in a relationship with on and off.
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On an off weekend, she could go out with her friend and go do something with the second
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But in the first person's head, they think that they're maybe like still together or whatever.
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So the first person, is she in a relationship with them or two?
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So, so really like they both think they're the only one, but there's two.
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You know, I think, I think social media is a big, big, big difference, you know, because
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I think that everyone's like so glued on social media trying to like watch what people
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So I was like, um, people have like unrealistic expectations.
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They'll compare their life to someone else's life on social media.
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And then when, you know, arguments are happening, like, oh, you didn't take me out to cinema.
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And it's just like too much, too much watch over people.
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And plus on social media as well, like all the girls and that are just, like, you're from
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young, just showing body, image, image, everything.
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So it's all, not just girls, but in general, everything's all image.
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So it's like, everyone's always showing image, image.
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That's why people are just on the cheating thing quickly as well.
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I think, I think social media really affects women more than it does men.
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I don't know about equal, but I feel it does affect a lot of men still.
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I feel a lot of men, you know, get affected by, you know, on social media, what they see
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Like a lot of my friends and that, they'll be like, you know, before they link girls and
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they'll be doing that background research, you know what I mean?
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Seeing what they've done, body count, all this crazy stuff.
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Because, yeah, because it's like, they think raw, like, I want to know if this girl's
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that, how many guys she's selective and all that.
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Well, I don't, listen, I'll be honest with you.
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This burner account, this burner account, things rule, this burner account, creating
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burner accounts and just, you know, messaging people and doing loads of things.
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Wait, so, okay, you know a guy that makes burner accounts.
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Like, just create burner accounts and just, like, message girls and see, okay, potential girl
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to see what, you know, they're saying to test them out and just do testing it to see.
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They make, like, a really attractive burner account.
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But it's like, just to test the girl to see if she's serious and that all.
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Okay, so they'll test, like, if they want to chat to a girl, they'll test the girl with
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Yeah, to pretend to be someone else, you get it.
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And then they'll, they'll maybe link in the girl, pretend to be someone else and then message
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So, okay, like, ask them a couple of questions and see, dig in and see what they're saying.
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So if I'm linking a ting, I'll make a new account, certain what she's attracted in to,
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like, obviously, and then just try and pattern her like that and see if she's serious.
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But then you'll mash up your own link in a way, because that's, that's hurtful.
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I was like, that sounds like, that must be a feminine dude, because that sounds like
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I just think there's loads of insecurities though, do you know what I'm saying to you?
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And to be fair, like, I would say like rightfully, rightfully so, but that's just a lot.
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Yeah, I agree with what you said earlier, when you mentioned the social media has taken
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It has, in my time, obviously I'm 35 in it, so there weren't no YouTube, there wasn't
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no Instagram, there wasn't no all that, so man ain't distracted, you see it, but the
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new generation now, I always keep looking at you because you're too young, sorry.
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But yeah, the new generation, obviously, it just, they've got all the patterns, you get
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And I like Bush though, like back in the day, was there these things for men to even
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I think that social media affects women more than men because women find 80% of men unattractive,
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Like if you ask women both on dating apps and in person, and like you say, do you find this
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guy attractive, this guy attractive, they find 80% unattractive.
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Because a lot of people will say, oh, that's just social media, no, no, no, no, no, in person.
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So it's only a small percentage of guys that are even getting messages from women like that.
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I feel a lot of guys that are on social media to try to like pattern a girl, try and move
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And I feel like a lot of guys, like, I feel like when I was younger, like, when you're
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trying to, if you're like a girl, you approach her, do you know what I mean?
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You'll move to her, you know, put in game, do you know what I'm saying to you?
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I feel now, guys are being lazy because it's like, everything's social media, so they just
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try sliding in DMs and that's why they get blanked, do you know what I'm saying to you?
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Well, yeah, because like an average, oh my gosh, an overweight woman on Tinder gets more
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matches than the top, like a model level guy on Tinder.
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Men swipe right on dating apps 50% of the time, where women only swipe right 5%.
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I think dating apps is also a problem as well with the whole dating scene nowadays because it's
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just so easy to swipe and just, and you don't really think of the people as like real people
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when they are, but you get, it takes the human side out of it.
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Well, I mean, it's also like girls in their 20s usually get, you know, like ran through
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a bit by the top 20% of men and then they start to settle like in their 30s.
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Don't look at me because you said the age and I'm just, yeah.
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No, I mean, because when you think about it, like what are people doing in their 20s?
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So what are you, what are you doing in a situationship?
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You're like, it's funny because girls will say that they're not like they need to be in
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a monogamous relationship, but it's like how many situationships have you been in?
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So, so, what is the worst date you guys have ever been on?
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God, I've got quite a few, you know, I'll be honest.
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I mean, I went to date with one girl one time, yeah.
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Like, she just, her whole attitude was just like moving along.
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Like, wasn't wanting to play no games, nothing like that.
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And then, um, after this event restaurant and that, and it's just like, this is, you know,
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when the chemistry is just so dead that there's nothing there, like literally nothing.
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So, I literally, I thought, let me just end the date here.
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So, um, when we ended the date, I was like, okay, cool.
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I don't even know why I went on a date in the first place.
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Yeah, I went, I went on one date with one girl in a restaurant and she was just rude to the waiter,
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just proper rude, because they were taking quite long with the food.
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And the way she was just disrespecting the waiter, I was like, no, this ain't it.
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I get, I get it, like, the service is bad, but she just was bad-mouthing the waiter.
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And it's just like, I was just, I got mad as well.
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I was like, you can't be talking to people like that.
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Do you know, from there one, it just went down the hall.
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So, she started yelling at the, what'd she say to the waiter?
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Oh, she started, like, all out swearing at the waiter.
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And then, like, I see, I was like, no, this is out of hand.
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And it's bad on me, because then what I'm like, like, I've come with her,
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I'll be honest with you, when I go on dates, I always pay in it.
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So, I don't, even things like that, I just don't even have to think about it.
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It just creates too much anxiety for me in terms of, like, oh, let's split the bill,
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I know, okay, if I'm gonna go somewhere, I know what for you, what's gonna cost,
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