JustPearlyThings - March 22, 2023


She Was SHOCKED To Hear THIS


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

186.9695

Word Count

1,608

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

4

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 about you oh she's see you you've had the the privilege of love yeah um i think with me
00:00:11.440 i think one word to summarize i think i'm going to be very transparent as a wife um i would say
00:00:19.580 well if you look up like my day-to-day life as of now like i'm a very busy person like i work a
00:00:24.940 nine-to-five in a very very stressful industry so i'm always out of the house like pretty much
00:00:29.580 five days a week and if it comes to a thing where like let's say my husband likes a freshly cooked
00:00:35.500 meal once i get home i'm gonna keep it real look i'm tired i can't cook for you today
00:00:39.160 i like to kind of maybe plan ahead just due to my hectic life so as it is right are you a crock
00:00:49.220 pot type crock pot type of girl no slow cooker yeah like oh you're just yeah i mean no it's a slow
00:00:56.980 cooker i mean yeah because i like my food to taste good so obviously with that being said
00:01:03.220 yes i would say i'm a slow cooker because it involves a lot of tlc so i need to make sure
00:01:07.360 that how many meals would you say you cook a week now oh god uh so like this week how many meals did
00:01:13.380 you cook i'd say two two okay how many meals did you cook this week pearl at least seven
00:01:19.800 i've been doing better she's banned me from takeout yeah that's why i asked her yeah um so i think
00:01:28.240 and i think with me as well i'm the kind of person like um when it comes to my emotions i'm not afraid
00:01:35.180 to hide it i'm gonna like kind of tell you what's up i'm not really kind of bottle it up because i just
00:01:41.740 don't think it's healthy to bottle things up do you think that's valuable to a guy a girl that's
00:01:46.100 gonna tell him his her feelings all the time how are you doing this i'm just i'm just asking the
00:01:54.740 question i think so so you're at this job interview yeah and he's saying okay what do you what's on the
00:02:01.440 resume and you say i'm gonna tell you my feelings and that's how they're gonna hear it i'm just letting
00:02:06.080 you know i mean they don't care yeah i mean i think we i think they care to a degree but i think
00:02:14.060 you need to kind of once you got them i think you need to understand them to the point of how you
00:02:19.380 communicate to them i think that's just the best way i can approach it i think i think with me like
00:02:26.160 i think when it comes to emotions let's be real like when when it's raw sometimes you don't think
00:02:30.640 things straight away you might just say things and just blah just impulsive and then if like you're
00:02:35.120 trying to express these things to a guy let's be real he's probably gonna absorb 50 of what you're
00:02:39.600 saying not even that 20 i think i need to keep up with the times that's just an average figure i had
00:02:48.560 in my head but you know i'll wait i'll get back into reality soon um but yeah i think i think that's
00:02:53.400 just one way for me to just kind of summarize everything just being transparent and i mean if it's
00:02:58.700 a thing where like kids are involved and stuff then i don't know would you quit your you seem
00:03:04.000 like you like your job a lot you seem very career driven yeah i am yeah no and that's fine would
00:03:10.420 you quit that to raise kids uh no yeah i don't think i would i don't think she's gonna be a working
00:03:18.820 wife a working yeah definitely mama what's what so then who's gonna raise the kids
00:03:23.920 that's me that's true grandparents that's what they're there for no so you want your parents to
00:03:29.220 raise your kids i mean i don't want them to raise them but i want i know they're going to be heavily
00:03:40.220 involved in my kids either your parents or a stranger oh that's so true right um i'm just
00:03:45.000 telling you how men hear it yeah it's true oh it's a hard question it is a very hard question
00:03:52.200 okay let me just say i don't know it's really not a hard question it is a hard question when
00:03:55.640 you're a career driven woman it's a very hard question it's not a hard question it's just it's
00:04:00.600 just it's just it's like it's just the answer maybe doesn't reflect like reflect in the way that
00:04:05.000 men would want to hear and and also no one's judging you it just it's how you feel you may even
00:04:10.100 change your mind but for now if you feel like yes i'm going to utilize nannies the school system
00:04:16.580 did i'm going to utilize all of what i can afford because i love my career i liked working i changed
00:04:23.040 my jobs i mean yeah i think i think if i'm being honest now probably strangers so like nannies and
00:04:29.260 then nurseries and all that stuff will probably be strangers getting involved with raising my kids but
00:04:33.000 who knows in future i could probably change my mind in the future you might not be able to afford it
00:04:37.580 oh my god the weather prices are now yeah i had nannies so it's not yeah no in england it was
00:04:45.160 about a thousand pound um a week yeah listen i used to be a nanny yeah it was good i'll be honest
00:04:53.920 like me growing up we had all pairs is that how you pronounce it oh that's what we had actually we
00:04:58.700 had the same thing they just most people don't know that word so yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah all pairs
00:05:03.740 are different they're cheap but they live and they're cheap and they live in yeah yeah so they
00:05:08.540 all eat the same rice you know oh my gosh there's so many stories of like not not what we never had
00:05:14.320 this issue with our au pairs but au pairs in the area where they would like sleep with the husband
00:05:20.500 yeah it's a perk of the job i mean because you're basically putting a wife in your home
00:05:25.460 no i mean she's raising your kids she's cooking the risk is there we never had that but we did
00:05:30.820 have one au pair that stole my grandmother's jewelry oh yeah we had we had one that married
00:05:36.580 my cousin yeah and one that married my uncle and one that did cam work i mean we had like 20 years of
00:05:41.780 i have nine siblings so it was like wow yeah that's ten of you yeah total anyways you're the only girl
00:05:53.140 no no i get why you're vocal though because in a big family you have to be heard yeah actually i'd say
00:05:58.580 everyone in my family is entertaining and funny because it's like either entertaining or funny
00:06:02.500 because otherwise you didn't get any attention yeah it was a competition and everyone's like good at like
00:06:09.060 like very good at something because it was like how else are you gonna get your you you know you
00:06:13.860 got yeah oh my gosh everyone's performing every day yeah um okay thank you um okay tell me about being
00:06:22.260 a wife your day yeah tell me what your day is like so i wake up between 6 and 6 30 to do bible study
00:06:32.180 um and see my husband off to work and yeah you feed him before he goes to work
00:06:38.900 yeah oh no he doesn't like eating okay yeah he's not fast i mean he might like grab cereal or
00:06:44.260 something but he's not really fast to be honest and i don't make him pack lunch he just he's not
00:06:48.660 fast so i used to but yeah but um he yes i see my husband off and as of six weeks ago my daughter
00:06:57.540 decided she wanted to go secondary school so now i see her off to secondary school and my husband takes her
00:07:03.540 and then after i do my bible study a child will catch me go upstairs brush their teeth
00:07:11.540 um get them fed and then um we'll listen to some music and then after some music um and performance
00:07:19.380 time mommy watch me then we'll get into homeschooling so i homeschool three of the kids and then my eldest
00:07:25.860 one goes to how long does that take you every day for the homeschooling i'm just curious oh it varies
00:07:31.220 roughly on on average about four hours four hours a day on average yeah but then it just depends on
00:07:37.780 the kids sometimes they they're not with it so um yeah and then it comes to lunch time which is around
00:07:45.220 the time where i make lunch i make dinner and then i get the kids to tidy up and then we go out get their
00:07:53.460 sister from school then we come back sister does the homework her homework then she tells me her stories
00:08:00.740 and like we have a little bit of mom and daughter time kids are playing and then we um tidy up again
00:08:08.260 before dad comes home as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a
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