Simp Keeps Contradicting Himself
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Summary
Is sex a duty in marriage? How long should a woman wait to have sex with her husband? Should a man cheat if his wife won t have sex for a long period of time? Is sex a part of a healthy relationship? What does sex mean to a man and a woman? How much time should a wife and husband spend together before they have sex?
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Can a guy cheat if his wife won't sleep with him?
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I don't think anybody should cheat, male or female, wife or husband, if they can't sleep
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with each other, whether it's from physical deformity or whatever it is.
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How long can a woman not sleep with her husband until she's a bad wife?
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So she's a good wife still if she doesn't sleep with him for a year?
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She's a bad wife if she doesn't sleep with him for a year.
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Even if you tell me, okay, I don't feel it, it's a reason.
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But if you tell me, I don't know, that's literally not a reason.
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It's a duty amongst animal instinct, but it's not an obligation.
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It's two people coming together and saying, okay, we agree to respect each other and come to the same vows and say, okay, if we agree to be together, then it's just going to be us.
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And we have to be openly honest, whether it's through positive, through negative.
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And if we don't see alike, we can figure out a way around it or away from it.
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Because not everything always goes together, blends together.
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Unfortunately not, because there are many life-like situations where individuals don't feel the same way they did when they were first married.
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I think if that was true, then India wouldn't have like the lowest divorce rate where it's arranged.
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But then there's also have to be some feeling and consideration backed behind it.
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Because if there's a duty, okay, your duty is to go hunt and kill.
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Should a guy protect and provide when he feels like it?
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Should a guy protect and provide when he feels like it?
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Even if he feels that he knows that it's negative.
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If there's an intruder and he's scared, should he run away?
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If there's an intruder and the man runs away and there's a household full of women and children,
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male or female, under the age that cannot protect themselves and the male alpha runs away.
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No, no, I'm saying he shouldn't rely on his feelings when he's scared.
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I just wanted to ask, for the ladies, is a woman's emotional need important in a marriage?
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For a woman, is her emotional need important in a marriage?
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Is it important for a man to consider his woman's emotional need in a relationship and in a marriage, for that marriage to be successful?
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So for a man, is sex important in a relationship?
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So is it important for a woman to consider a man's need in a relationship, for that relationship to be successful?
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So do you realize how you guys have all argued against that point?
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I didn't answer that question, but I specifically.
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But we said, what is the reason that she's not giving sex, right?
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The question was, if he was allowed to cheat, there's something different.
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So do you think there can be a reason why a man would not consider a woman's emotional need in a relationship?
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The woman always asks, what is the reason why he's not considering my, before they start making problems?
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Do they try to find out the reason why the man is not fulfilling his end of the bargain, or do they just start causing trouble?
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This is why, because they don't, they don't maybe communicate, and they don't really consider each other's.
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Does communicating typically lead to the problem being solved?
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Men, they are scared to communicate sometimes, because they know the woman will do a big fuss.
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Maybe they will end with a big fighting and argument, and they don't want that.
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In general, in general, who communicates, even in relationships, who do you think communicates better, men or women?
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No, because women are more open to talk at all.
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Do women typically communicate and get to the point?
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Do women typically communicate and get to the point?
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So why do we think they communicate better when we don't get to the point?
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Trying is better than nothing, because some men, they don't even want to talk.
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If I try to lose weight and I don't, does it matter?
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I think women have brainwashed society into thinking we communicate better, but we communicate worse.
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Do men not communicate in relationships or do women not like the way men communicate?
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I mean, I think generally, if you're going to be a generalization again, once again, we're doing the generally.
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This is the facts that they think rather than maybe feelings coming into it.
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But what I've learned from my marriage was from my ex-husband.
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And he was saying to me, you all the times you go around the subject.
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He was saying to me that I'm going around the subject like this and he is coming.
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And we, and we as a woman, we are making the fuss and we are going around the problem.
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I think that's a generalization because I think.
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So the cheating, should a man cheat if his wife will not sleep with him?
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I mean, I'm not married, never been married, but I've lived with different partners and
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sometimes it's painful because you get that look and it's like, almost like a, first it's
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I'm like, fuck, we've been together for like, together for like years.
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How long can a woman not sleep with a man until she's a bad wife?
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They're going to be like, okay, we'll, we'll overlook the cheating.
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If, I don't know, depends on the man's libido, if he wants it a lot and then all of a sudden
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I don't think it will make it a bad wife if she doesn't sleep with you.
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I strongly believe that as a practical man, I should try to find why is that happening?
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But if, let's say, I'm doing everything right, yeah, I wouldn't like way too wrong.
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So then why would you look to see if you're doing everything right?
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I mean, like, maybe something like is major that makes her stay away.
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Not for small things because no one is perfect, right?
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So if she keeps not sleeping with you, how long?
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But I would address the issue immediately, probably the first few times of attempt.