JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


Single Mom Claims That Men Are Dogs


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Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

180.26834

Word count

1,357

Sentence count

184

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Hate speech

5

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Summary

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In this episode, we have special guest Blessing come on the show to talk about cheating in relationships and how to deal with it. We also talk about how cheating is a problem when it comes to relationships and what we should do about it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.580 Also, guys, I think we're going to do a meetup sometime this month.
00:00:03.860 I know I've been gaslighting you guys for a minute.
00:00:06.360 I swear, we are going to do one soon, so make sure you sign up for our Google Form
00:00:09.980 so you are notified when we do.
00:00:13.900 Also, guys, make sure you go subscribe to our talents, Auntie Jenny, King Riches, and Amiri.
00:00:20.000 And the most important announcement today is that Blessing is coming on camera.
00:00:26.640 So drumroll, please, everybody, a blessing reveal, all right?
00:00:30.720 Damn.
00:00:32.880 Introducing Blessing!
00:00:38.420 Blessing, what made you come out of hiding today?
00:00:41.640 We don't have people today.
00:00:42.900 That's why I'm at.
00:00:44.200 No, we could have done three.
00:00:45.600 We've done three before.
00:00:46.820 Don't act like you were forced, all right?
00:00:49.580 Yeah, you know, it's about time, you know.
00:00:51.680 It's about time you came out of hiding?
00:00:54.320 Yeah.
00:00:54.920 What have you noticed from the show so far from watching these shows?
00:00:59.540 There's a lot of delusional women out there. 1.00
00:01:02.200 Yeah.
00:01:04.460 Wow.
00:01:04.820 Know you guys.
00:01:05.280 Know you guys.
00:01:05.940 Wow.
00:01:06.220 Hopefully know you guys.
00:01:07.600 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:08.600 Well, we're going to talk about that today.
00:01:10.920 All right, guys.
00:01:11.580 To start, we're going to start with your name, your age, your relationship status, and a fun fact.
00:01:16.640 So, starting here, and then go around.
00:01:20.000 A fun fact, I don't have one.
00:01:21.500 I mean, it could just be about you.
00:01:22.660 You got a hobby.
00:01:23.560 What's your hobby?
00:01:24.160 You got any hobbies?
00:01:25.780 I like shopping.
00:01:27.120 My name's Sharon, 27.
00:01:29.960 And yeah, I love shopping.
00:01:31.560 Relationship status, single.
00:01:33.020 Oh, and you can plug any Instagrams, too, if you want to do that.
00:01:39.220 You're welcome, too.
00:01:40.740 Where's my Instagram?
00:01:43.500 Sharon called XOXO.
00:01:47.020 That's it.
00:01:48.020 All right.
00:01:48.480 Is it?
00:01:49.140 Yeah.
00:01:49.780 Go ahead.
00:01:50.720 Hi, guys.
00:01:51.600 My name is Taffy Jean.
00:01:53.120 I'm an upcoming rock star.
00:01:54.820 Perrin.
00:01:56.580 Today, I'm going to be doing some crazy stuff.
00:01:58.440 But I'm 26 years old.
00:02:00.580 I'm a mother, and I'm currently in a complicated relationship, situationship.
00:02:06.800 I don't know what it is.
00:02:07.900 You're going to find out.
00:02:08.380 Is this with the father of your...
00:02:10.400 He's a father.
00:02:11.000 How many kids?
00:02:11.820 I've got two kids.
00:02:12.660 Two sons.
00:02:12.980 Two kids.
00:02:13.600 Yeah.
00:02:13.720 And you're in a situationship?
00:02:15.320 Situationship with him.
00:02:16.860 Why?
00:02:17.260 We're just going through a rough patch at the moment, but I'm just praying things get
00:02:20.220 better.
00:02:20.880 That's a whole different ballgame, that is.
00:02:23.600 Situationship.
00:02:24.140 Boy.
00:02:24.400 I just imagine now that there's kids involved.
00:02:26.560 Yeah.
00:02:26.680 You've got to stay together instead of the situationship.
00:02:29.860 If only that was the case, because with me, I've got three myself.
00:02:34.980 Oh, you have three children as well.
00:02:36.240 Yeah, I've got three myself.
00:02:37.240 But sometimes, you know, as much as you would like for your relationship to work out with
00:02:42.260 your children's father, it just doesn't.
00:02:44.720 Makes it so...
00:02:45.580 What's stopping you guys?
00:02:47.720 A lot.
00:02:48.640 A lot.
00:02:49.360 Boy.
00:02:49.740 Like what?
00:02:51.440 No comment.
00:02:52.860 They'll be exposing them.
00:02:54.140 Okay.
00:02:54.540 You don't have to go into detail.
00:02:56.560 I just wonder when you have kids involved, like what stops two people from being together?
00:03:01.660 Should just behave themselves.
00:03:03.320 What do you mean?
00:03:05.800 Because I just...
00:03:06.540 You know what men are like?
00:03:07.760 No matter how much you do for them, but they just want to be dogs.
00:03:11.740 Woof, woof. 1.00
00:03:12.620 Oh, like the cheating you mean?
00:03:14.460 Yeah.
00:03:14.480 Woof, woof. 1.00
00:03:14.920 Come here, doggy.
00:03:16.180 Let go running to anyone.
00:03:17.640 Do you have an open Instagram account?
00:03:20.620 Yeah.
00:03:21.300 Okay, so how are we going to like judge men for the cheating when most of us have open
00:03:24.820 Instagrams?
00:03:25.980 I made mine open after.
00:03:31.280 Years after.
00:03:32.340 Otherwise, it was private.
00:03:34.040 And now I just do whatever.
00:03:35.400 I do me.
00:03:36.100 Okay.
00:03:36.520 What about you?
00:03:37.200 Well, mine is public because I am an artist.
00:03:40.300 Yeah.
00:03:40.620 So I have to have it public.
00:03:42.180 Yeah, but my point is more of the double standards, right?
00:03:44.880 Because it's like women actively get attention from men. 0.99
00:03:47.180 You guys are pretty girls.
00:03:48.760 You know, you're pretty girls. 1.00
00:03:49.860 So it's like anytime we have an open Instagram, we're actively getting attention from men.
00:03:53.800 And any man can message you.
00:03:55.760 And so it's like, it's like often.
00:03:57.460 Yeah, I understand that.
00:03:58.640 But it's like oftentimes we judge men for cheating in a relationship.
00:04:01.460 But we cheat every day by having open social medias, by accepting attention from men that
00:04:05.440 are not our husbands.
00:04:06.480 But the fact that they are the ones, our men are the ones messaging the girls.
00:04:10.340 Yeah.
00:04:10.520 So it's a bit, you know, so they are cheating.
00:04:13.220 They are the ones cheating.
00:04:14.260 Yeah, but if you're accepting the messages, like I think it's equally.
00:04:17.560 Yeah, I agree with that part.
00:04:19.240 I do.
00:04:19.820 Yeah, I do that part.
00:04:21.160 Is that your problem too?
00:04:22.660 The dogness?
00:04:23.620 I don't know.
00:04:24.440 No comment.
00:04:25.060 No comment.
00:04:25.660 Okay, you don't have to.
00:04:27.240 Blassing, you want to do a fun fact? 0.91
00:04:29.020 Yeah.
00:04:29.380 So, blessing, producer of the Just Fairly Things pod, I like to stay behind the scenes
00:04:37.240 in a relationship.
00:04:41.240 So, so question for you guys.
00:04:43.960 Do you guys consider yourselves traditional women?
00:04:47.040 No.
00:04:47.440 No.
00:04:48.320 No.
00:04:49.120 Okay.
00:04:49.540 Do you guys want traditional relationships or no?
00:04:52.060 No.
00:04:53.080 Okay, so you're good with the 50.
00:04:54.480 Do you want 50-50, the bills?
00:04:56.420 I want 100-100.
00:04:57.760 I don't want 50-50. 0.98
00:04:58.760 I'm saying.
00:04:59.820 What do you mean?
00:05:00.440 You're both paying 100.
00:05:01.420 Do you want to live in separate houses?
00:05:03.680 Oh.
00:05:06.340 How is that?
00:05:07.840 I just want to know how this is going to, how is this going to work?
00:05:11.460 Well, how is this going to work?
00:05:15.680 How do I put this?
00:05:17.300 I don't know.
00:05:17.940 Okay, you know what?
00:05:21.360 It should be 50-50, right? 0.95
00:05:23.620 It should be.
00:05:25.860 Actually, wait, no.
00:05:27.300 For me.
00:05:27.680 No comment.
00:05:28.460 For me, it should be 100-100 because, you know, they expect the woman to be at home looking 1.00
00:05:32.760 after the kids and also work.
00:05:36.100 Also work, from my point of view, you have to work as well.
00:05:38.920 You know, they put that pressure on you for you to go to work because the bills are not
00:05:42.080 making sense.
00:05:43.040 Some be housewives, right? 1.00
00:05:45.080 Yeah, some be housewives. 1.00
00:05:46.080 But I'm talking, like, from my point of view, you know what I mean?
00:05:48.600 Like, in my situation, I'm working.
00:05:51.620 I'm also looking after the kids.
00:05:52.860 I'm doing everything.
00:05:53.880 Do you get what I mean?
00:05:54.620 But he just goes to work, comes back.
00:05:56.900 Oh, so you both work?
00:05:58.920 Basically.
00:05:59.600 Okay.
00:06:00.060 But it's like, when it comes to the children.
00:06:01.840 So who watches the kids when you're at work?
00:06:03.740 They have to go to nursery.
00:06:05.080 Oh, they go to daycare.
00:06:06.540 Yeah, they're grown now.
00:06:06.700 They're grown now.
00:06:07.220 But before that, I was doing swirly.
00:06:08.740 You're 20.
00:06:09.240 So how old are your kids?
00:06:10.740 I'm not grown.
00:06:12.280 I've got a two-year-old and a six-year-old.
00:06:14.220 Oh, they're not grown.
00:06:15.400 They are grown.
00:06:16.440 They are.
00:06:16.920 I thought they were going to be, like, 10, like, 15.
00:06:21.060 Oh, no.
00:06:21.780 That's grown to me.
00:06:22.700 A two-year-old?
00:06:23.240 That's mine.
00:06:24.160 Yeah, my little baby.
00:06:25.240 Yeah.
00:06:25.460 My daughter is 10.
00:06:27.600 So I've got three, like I said.
00:06:29.240 My oldest is 10.
00:06:30.500 She'll be 11 this year.
00:06:33.040 Not looking forward to it at all.
00:06:35.380 And then I've got an eight-year-old and an almost two-year-old.
00:06:39.440 Yeah, crazy.
00:06:40.840 The youngest.
00:06:42.380 Rebel.
00:06:43.280 Rebel.
00:06:44.240 So I have a question for you.
00:06:47.000 How, because I always wonder this, like, with, like, people that send their kids to nursery.
00:06:51.120 Do you worry about them having more influence on your children than you will?
00:06:55.460 I do.
00:06:56.420 Yeah.
00:06:57.040 But at the same time, it's like, if I have to sacrifice something to gain something, you
00:07:02.560 know, if they're at home with me, I can't put food on the table as well, you know.
00:07:09.120 I don't want to have to deal with the extra garbage and the stress.
00:07:13.040 So I'd rather work, you know, baby, go to nursery.
00:07:16.120 I'll spend time with you when you come back home.
00:07:17.740 If you're tired, it's okay.
00:07:19.060 Weekend, I'll try and make some time for you.
00:07:20.780 And you guys couldn't survive off of one income is what you're saying?
00:07:23.820 No.
00:07:23.860 So, especially, you know, like, the whole COVID and everything, it was just ridiculous.
00:07:28.500 And having to move to Birmingham, it's, oh.
00:07:30.820 Mm-hmm.
00:07:31.240 Okay.