JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


Single Mom Claims That Men Are Dogs


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

180.26834

Word Count

1,357

Sentence Count

184

Misogynist Sentences

7

Hate Speech Sentences

5


Summary

In this episode, we have special guest Blessing come on the show to talk about cheating in relationships and how to deal with it. We also talk about how cheating is a problem when it comes to relationships and what we should do about it.


Transcript

00:00:00.580 Also, guys, I think we're going to do a meetup sometime this month.
00:00:03.860 I know I've been gaslighting you guys for a minute.
00:00:06.360 I swear, we are going to do one soon, so make sure you sign up for our Google Form
00:00:09.980 so you are notified when we do.
00:00:13.900 Also, guys, make sure you go subscribe to our talents, Auntie Jenny, King Riches, and Amiri.
00:00:20.000 And the most important announcement today is that Blessing is coming on camera.
00:00:26.640 So drumroll, please, everybody, a blessing reveal, all right?
00:00:30.720 Damn.
00:00:32.880 Introducing Blessing!
00:00:38.420 Blessing, what made you come out of hiding today?
00:00:41.640 We don't have people today.
00:00:42.900 That's why I'm at.
00:00:44.200 No, we could have done three.
00:00:45.600 We've done three before.
00:00:46.820 Don't act like you were forced, all right?
00:00:49.580 Yeah, you know, it's about time, you know.
00:00:51.680 It's about time you came out of hiding?
00:00:54.320 Yeah.
00:00:54.920 What have you noticed from the show so far from watching these shows?
00:00:59.540 There's a lot of delusional women out there.
00:01:02.200 Yeah.
00:01:04.460 Wow.
00:01:04.820 Know you guys.
00:01:05.280 Know you guys.
00:01:05.940 Wow.
00:01:06.220 Hopefully know you guys.
00:01:07.600 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:08.600 Well, we're going to talk about that today.
00:01:10.920 All right, guys.
00:01:11.580 To start, we're going to start with your name, your age, your relationship status, and a fun fact.
00:01:16.640 So, starting here, and then go around.
00:01:20.000 A fun fact, I don't have one.
00:01:21.500 I mean, it could just be about you.
00:01:22.660 You got a hobby.
00:01:23.560 What's your hobby?
00:01:24.160 You got any hobbies?
00:01:25.780 I like shopping.
00:01:27.120 My name's Sharon, 27.
00:01:29.960 And yeah, I love shopping.
00:01:31.560 Relationship status, single.
00:01:33.020 Oh, and you can plug any Instagrams, too, if you want to do that.
00:01:39.220 You're welcome, too.
00:01:40.740 Where's my Instagram?
00:01:43.500 Sharon called XOXO.
00:01:47.020 That's it.
00:01:48.020 All right.
00:01:48.480 Is it?
00:01:49.140 Yeah.
00:01:49.780 Go ahead.
00:01:50.720 Hi, guys.
00:01:51.600 My name is Taffy Jean.
00:01:53.120 I'm an upcoming rock star.
00:01:54.820 Perrin.
00:01:56.580 Today, I'm going to be doing some crazy stuff.
00:01:58.440 But I'm 26 years old.
00:02:00.580 I'm a mother, and I'm currently in a complicated relationship, situationship.
00:02:06.800 I don't know what it is.
00:02:07.900 You're going to find out.
00:02:08.380 Is this with the father of your...
00:02:10.400 He's a father.
00:02:11.000 How many kids?
00:02:11.820 I've got two kids.
00:02:12.660 Two sons.
00:02:12.980 Two kids.
00:02:13.600 Yeah.
00:02:13.720 And you're in a situationship?
00:02:15.320 Situationship with him.
00:02:16.860 Why?
00:02:17.260 We're just going through a rough patch at the moment, but I'm just praying things get
00:02:20.220 better.
00:02:20.880 That's a whole different ballgame, that is.
00:02:23.600 Situationship.
00:02:24.140 Boy.
00:02:24.400 I just imagine now that there's kids involved.
00:02:26.560 Yeah.
00:02:26.680 You've got to stay together instead of the situationship.
00:02:29.860 If only that was the case, because with me, I've got three myself.
00:02:34.980 Oh, you have three children as well.
00:02:36.240 Yeah, I've got three myself.
00:02:37.240 But sometimes, you know, as much as you would like for your relationship to work out with
00:02:42.260 your children's father, it just doesn't.
00:02:44.720 Makes it so...
00:02:45.580 What's stopping you guys?
00:02:47.720 A lot.
00:02:48.640 A lot.
00:02:49.360 Boy.
00:02:49.740 Like what?
00:02:51.440 No comment.
00:02:52.860 They'll be exposing them.
00:02:54.140 Okay.
00:02:54.540 You don't have to go into detail.
00:02:56.560 I just wonder when you have kids involved, like what stops two people from being together?
00:03:01.660 Should just behave themselves.
00:03:03.320 What do you mean?
00:03:05.800 Because I just...
00:03:06.540 You know what men are like?
00:03:07.760 No matter how much you do for them, but they just want to be dogs.
00:03:11.740 Woof, woof.
00:03:12.620 Oh, like the cheating you mean?
00:03:14.460 Yeah.
00:03:14.480 Woof, woof.
00:03:14.920 Come here, doggy.
00:03:16.180 Let go running to anyone.
00:03:17.640 Do you have an open Instagram account?
00:03:20.620 Yeah.
00:03:21.300 Okay, so how are we going to like judge men for the cheating when most of us have open
00:03:24.820 Instagrams?
00:03:25.980 I made mine open after.
00:03:31.280 Years after.
00:03:32.340 Otherwise, it was private.
00:03:34.040 And now I just do whatever.
00:03:35.400 I do me.
00:03:36.100 Okay.
00:03:36.520 What about you?
00:03:37.200 Well, mine is public because I am an artist.
00:03:40.300 Yeah.
00:03:40.620 So I have to have it public.
00:03:42.180 Yeah, but my point is more of the double standards, right?
00:03:44.880 Because it's like women actively get attention from men.
00:03:47.180 You guys are pretty girls.
00:03:48.760 You know, you're pretty girls.
00:03:49.860 So it's like anytime we have an open Instagram, we're actively getting attention from men.
00:03:53.800 And any man can message you.
00:03:55.760 And so it's like, it's like often.
00:03:57.460 Yeah, I understand that.
00:03:58.640 But it's like oftentimes we judge men for cheating in a relationship.
00:04:01.460 But we cheat every day by having open social medias, by accepting attention from men that
00:04:05.440 are not our husbands.
00:04:06.480 But the fact that they are the ones, our men are the ones messaging the girls.
00:04:10.340 Yeah.
00:04:10.520 So it's a bit, you know, so they are cheating.
00:04:13.220 They are the ones cheating.
00:04:14.260 Yeah, but if you're accepting the messages, like I think it's equally.
00:04:17.560 Yeah, I agree with that part.
00:04:19.240 I do.
00:04:19.820 Yeah, I do that part.
00:04:21.160 Is that your problem too?
00:04:22.660 The dogness?
00:04:23.620 I don't know.
00:04:24.440 No comment.
00:04:25.060 No comment.
00:04:25.660 Okay, you don't have to.
00:04:27.240 Blassing, you want to do a fun fact?
00:04:29.020 Yeah.
00:04:29.380 So, blessing, producer of the Just Fairly Things pod, I like to stay behind the scenes
00:04:37.240 in a relationship.
00:04:41.240 So, so question for you guys.
00:04:43.960 Do you guys consider yourselves traditional women?
00:04:47.040 No.
00:04:47.440 No.
00:04:48.320 No.
00:04:49.120 Okay.
00:04:49.540 Do you guys want traditional relationships or no?
00:04:52.060 No.
00:04:53.080 Okay, so you're good with the 50.
00:04:54.480 Do you want 50-50, the bills?
00:04:56.420 I want 100-100.
00:04:57.760 I don't want 50-50.
00:04:58.760 I'm saying.
00:04:59.820 What do you mean?
00:05:00.440 You're both paying 100.
00:05:01.420 Do you want to live in separate houses?
00:05:03.680 Oh.
00:05:06.340 How is that?
00:05:07.840 I just want to know how this is going to, how is this going to work?
00:05:11.460 Well, how is this going to work?
00:05:15.680 How do I put this?
00:05:17.300 I don't know.
00:05:17.940 Okay, you know what?
00:05:21.360 It should be 50-50, right?
00:05:23.620 It should be.
00:05:25.860 Actually, wait, no.
00:05:27.300 For me.
00:05:27.680 No comment.
00:05:28.460 For me, it should be 100-100 because, you know, they expect the woman to be at home looking
00:05:32.760 after the kids and also work.
00:05:36.100 Also work, from my point of view, you have to work as well.
00:05:38.920 You know, they put that pressure on you for you to go to work because the bills are not
00:05:42.080 making sense.
00:05:43.040 Some be housewives, right?
00:05:45.080 Yeah, some be housewives.
00:05:46.080 But I'm talking, like, from my point of view, you know what I mean?
00:05:48.600 Like, in my situation, I'm working.
00:05:51.620 I'm also looking after the kids.
00:05:52.860 I'm doing everything.
00:05:53.880 Do you get what I mean?
00:05:54.620 But he just goes to work, comes back.
00:05:56.900 Oh, so you both work?
00:05:58.920 Basically.
00:05:59.600 Okay.
00:06:00.060 But it's like, when it comes to the children.
00:06:01.840 So who watches the kids when you're at work?
00:06:03.740 They have to go to nursery.
00:06:05.080 Oh, they go to daycare.
00:06:06.540 Yeah, they're grown now.
00:06:06.700 They're grown now.
00:06:07.220 But before that, I was doing swirly.
00:06:08.740 You're 20.
00:06:09.240 So how old are your kids?
00:06:10.740 I'm not grown.
00:06:12.280 I've got a two-year-old and a six-year-old.
00:06:14.220 Oh, they're not grown.
00:06:15.400 They are grown.
00:06:16.440 They are.
00:06:16.920 I thought they were going to be, like, 10, like, 15.
00:06:21.060 Oh, no.
00:06:21.780 That's grown to me.
00:06:22.700 A two-year-old?
00:06:23.240 That's mine.
00:06:24.160 Yeah, my little baby.
00:06:25.240 Yeah.
00:06:25.460 My daughter is 10.
00:06:27.600 So I've got three, like I said.
00:06:29.240 My oldest is 10.
00:06:30.500 She'll be 11 this year.
00:06:33.040 Not looking forward to it at all.
00:06:35.380 And then I've got an eight-year-old and an almost two-year-old.
00:06:39.440 Yeah, crazy.
00:06:40.840 The youngest.
00:06:42.380 Rebel.
00:06:43.280 Rebel.
00:06:44.240 So I have a question for you.
00:06:47.000 How, because I always wonder this, like, with, like, people that send their kids to nursery.
00:06:51.120 Do you worry about them having more influence on your children than you will?
00:06:55.460 I do.
00:06:56.420 Yeah.
00:06:57.040 But at the same time, it's like, if I have to sacrifice something to gain something, you
00:07:02.560 know, if they're at home with me, I can't put food on the table as well, you know.
00:07:09.120 I don't want to have to deal with the extra garbage and the stress.
00:07:13.040 So I'd rather work, you know, baby, go to nursery.
00:07:16.120 I'll spend time with you when you come back home.
00:07:17.740 If you're tired, it's okay.
00:07:19.060 Weekend, I'll try and make some time for you.
00:07:20.780 And you guys couldn't survive off of one income is what you're saying?
00:07:23.820 No.
00:07:23.860 So, especially, you know, like, the whole COVID and everything, it was just ridiculous.
00:07:28.500 And having to move to Birmingham, it's, oh.
00:07:30.820 Mm-hmm.
00:07:31.240 Okay.