JustPearlyThings - November 27, 2023


Single Mother Gets MOCKED for Thinking She Can Get Any Man


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37 minutes

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7,440

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815

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Misogyny

62

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In this episode, we talk about Black women and what it takes to be a good wife. Do you think you are good wife material? Do you want to get married but just can t seem to find the right one?

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00:00:00.000 Dusty, mediocre at best so-called men have finally come to the realization that Black women are no 1.00
00:00:05.720 longer willing to settle for the bare minimum and are choosing to stay single and maintain their
00:00:11.360 peace. If divesting to desperate and disenfranchised women is so great, why do you all have to make an 0.92
00:00:19.260 announcement, a grand announcement? Oh, I know why. Because you actually think that this will hurt
00:00:26.180 Black women. So, sayonara. 0.99
00:00:30.980 Adios.
00:00:31.560 Great production.
00:00:32.920 Thank you.
00:00:34.080 Thank you.
00:00:35.180 That's enough.
00:00:36.960 You see that girl, she was so pretty. I'm like, I understand why they're going.
00:00:40.820 Listen, I'm going to say this. And that woman made it specific to race. We already saw that 1.00
00:00:47.700 from the previous video, men from Europe are also doing the same thing, right? From the
00:00:53.920 peers' video, like, you know, European men are doing the same thing. So, right, because,
00:01:05.420 you know, because I already know people are going to be like, oh my God, we're talking
00:01:08.620 about Black issues. This is not a Black issue, folks, okay? It's not a Black issue because 1.00
00:01:12.920 if you read, if you read that or if you saw the other video, it's not a Black issue. I'm
00:01:16.920 going to ask this to the women. Do you want to get married? And if you do, do you think 0.96
00:01:26.640 that your wife material? 1.00
00:01:27.700 I don't think I'm wifey material now. Like, I'm not wifey material at all. Like, with cooking
00:01:44.020 and stuff, like, because I live with my parents, like, someone, my mother is like the person
00:01:51.460 who's in charge of the whole household. You, they, she cooks and everything. So, I don't
00:01:56.400 think I'd be a materialistic wife now. Maybe in the future, yeah. 0.99
00:02:00.640 Are you, are you trying to learn to be aware?
00:02:02.440 I think in the future, I would definitely try to learn. But for now, I'm just like, YOLO.
00:02:09.520 I don't really care about, like, I don't, no. I can't cook. I cannot cook. I can't even
00:02:16.900 crack an egg. How old are you? I don't care. At least I can clean. Did you say you were
00:02:25.100 27? No. I'm just an 18. So, now I'm just like, YOLO, because I'm not going to get married.
00:02:31.740 She's got a lot of years to catch up. But yeah, I've got a lot of years to, yeah. Ladies, okay, 1.00
00:02:36.680 you're 18. Do you think you're wife material? Do you think you're wife material? Do I think 1.00
00:02:40.580 I'm wife material? Yeah, yeah. Uh, I do think I'm wife material, but I also think that that's
00:02:45.020 going to, that's quite subjective. So, I think men might find wife materials to different men
00:02:51.420 is going to be different things. They might look for different things in a wife. Do you 1.00
00:02:54.540 know what I mean? But if you, you're asking me if I'm wife material, I'd say, yeah, I think
00:02:58.500 I'm wife material. What do you think makes you wife material? Um, so I think a lot of those, 0.98
00:03:03.600 like, feminine attributes that we spoke about earlier. So being nurturing, um, being caring,
00:03:09.600 um, allowing yourself to be led by the right man. Um, yeah. And I, you know, I want to take
00:03:18.540 care of my man. I want to take care of my home. I want to take care of my family. Those
00:03:22.060 are all things that I want to do. And I think those are all things that, you know, you can
00:03:25.320 fall under being good wife material. So the lady on the video, the Filipina P, shout out to the 1.00
00:03:30.600 Filipina P. Um, it's like, that's going to be my wife. I'm not into Filipino women, but 1.00
00:03:36.600 it's just, you know, whatever. Um, she understands what it is or the women generally in those countries,
00:03:42.600 it seems like they generally understand what it is that men want in a wife. Okay. Um, do you
00:03:51.600 think you can compete with women like that? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Uh, yes. You don't know 1.00
00:04:00.600 me though. So how can you say that? No, I wasn't talking. I was talking to you. Fair, fair, fair.
00:04:05.600 You haven't seen me in my home. Well, how many, you have kids, don't you? Yeah. Yeah. How many?
00:04:10.600 Just two. How would you compete with a single childless woman? Is she single and childless? 1.00
00:04:14.600 Filipino. Yeah. Okay. Well, I guess, um, Tanisha said subjectively. I didn't say wife material.
00:04:23.600 You said you, you, I thought you were talking in terms of like wife material in the aspects 1.00
00:04:28.600 of being in your feminine. And you're talking about just purity. If that is the only standard 0.62
00:04:34.600 that we're talking about, then obviously not because I've got two children. So I can't compete
00:04:38.600 with purity. No, you know, you know how, uh, women like the top 20% over six foot X amount 1.00
00:04:45.600 of money. Do you know the top 20% for men? If they had the choice and the option to do,
00:04:51.600 do you know what those, that, that category of women would be? No children. It'll be a 1.00
00:04:55.600 single virgin woman. That's pretty much the top one or 2% for men. But I'm not struggling.
00:05:01.600 But what I mean is, no, no, no, no, no. I'm sure you, you'd be fine. There's the simps everywhere.
00:05:06.600 Wow. Shots fired! Shots fired! Man down!
00:05:13.600 There is, there is above average still, unlike somebody else.
00:05:19.600 Yeah, of course, of course. But what I mean is that that is the top 20% for men is that single,
00:05:25.600 attractive, thin woman. That's what we're all aiming for. Now, some of us fall, uh, 0.86
00:05:30.600 you know, basically we settle, uh, for simping or whatever else. But I promise you that as
00:05:36.600 much as if you go with a five foot six or five foot eight man who's earning 40,000 pounds a year
00:05:42.600 and you're settling for, if a man is going with a woman who's had two children, he is settling.
00:05:48.600 Yeah. That's okay.
00:05:50.600 I agree with that.
00:05:52.600 I mean, I think it's really difficult to find, like, I think it would be difficult to find someone when you've got two kids and you're a single mother.
00:06:00.600 I mean, I think it's really difficult.
00:06:02.600 You can think of it from the guy's perspective.
00:06:04.600 Like, I wouldn't want my brother to date someone with kids.
00:06:06.600 My ex. My ex.
00:06:08.600 It's difficult to find men that I want you.
00:06:12.600 Think about this. You've got a son, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:14.600 And your son, uh, let's say in his early twenties, comes with, Mum, I found a girl.
00:06:19.600 But I'm 35, not much.
00:06:20.600 No, but just say, he says, Mum, I found a girl.
00:06:23.600 Oh, really, son? You found a girl? Yeah. Who is she? This girl, she's got two kids.
00:06:28.600 At 20?
00:06:30.600 But she couldn't act in these days and times.
00:06:32.600 Even one. Even one.
00:06:34.600 All right, let's say one.
00:06:35.600 Even if your son's, let's say your son is 40 now.
00:06:37.600 Okay, well, if he's 40 then, if he loves her, it's him.
00:06:40.600 No, but I'm saying, I'm not going to be like, no, it's not my, it's not my...
00:06:43.600 I'm saying his prime.
00:06:44.600 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:45.600 Because didn't he behind us say that there's different pools, right?
00:06:47.600 No, but I'm saying, if your son's 40, if your son's 40, you would think his first choice should be someone with kids.
00:06:54.600 Well, what if he had, by 40?
00:06:55.600 No, no, no, I didn't know.
00:06:57.600 So what's wrong with him? Why doesn't he?
00:06:59.600 Even if he does, even, even, okay, even if he had kids, why would he pick a woman with kids over a woman without kids?
00:07:06.600 Yeah.
00:07:07.600 Like, this shouldn't, like...
00:07:08.600 Well, because if she doesn't have children, if she doesn't have children, she may not have a level of understanding that he might need for him having his children over in the house.
00:07:17.600 And all of these different elements that go into having a child, even if you're a man, if you're looking after, if you're co-parenting, you're going to have them children on your own.
00:07:24.600 If you've got a woman that's going to want your undivided attention and you're not able to give it, that might give a... 0.99
00:07:29.600 I just...
00:07:30.600 You don't understand, man.
00:07:31.600 Like, when you say that, I hear it because you're speaking from a woman's perspective.
00:07:34.600 Well, I can only do that.
00:07:35.600 Yeah, of course, but you don't...
00:07:36.600 I can't.
00:07:37.600 I don't...
00:07:38.600 I don't understand as men here.
00:07:39.600 We know that if we're going to pick a woman for our long-term partner, we're not trying to find some single mom.
00:07:45.600 Yeah.
00:07:46.600 I mean, Sarah, you have a son.
00:07:47.600 I have a son.
00:07:48.600 And your girl...
00:07:49.600 And I understand that a lot of women would negate me because I have a son. 0.99
00:07:55.600 Yeah.
00:07:56.600 Because I've probably got quote-unquote baggage that I could be bringing with me, right?
00:07:59.600 So I understand that.
00:08:00.600 Baby mama drama.
00:08:01.600 Baby mama drama, whatever it is, right? 0.99
00:08:02.600 And I understand that.
00:08:03.600 And I understand that I'm not every woman's first choice.
00:08:06.600 A lot of the time, single mothers don't understand that. 1.00
00:08:09.600 But I do understand that.
00:08:10.600 They're not men's first choice.
00:08:11.600 I understand that.
00:08:12.600 Of course I understand that.
00:08:13.600 But I also think like you're kind of within your pool.
00:08:16.600 Somebody that I used to date, he literally said to me.
00:08:19.600 But you guys aren't answering...
00:08:20.600 Like even when I ask you a simple question, like I'll say, okay, if he's 40 and who should his first choice be, you guys will still not give a genuine answer.
00:08:27.600 No.
00:08:28.600 No.
00:08:29.600 Because you'll say, oh, well, what if he is...
00:08:30.600 I gave you, from my perspective, I gave you my genuine answer just because it doesn't agree with me.
00:08:35.600 I just think it's not honest.
00:08:36.600 Well, that is my honest.
00:08:37.600 I wouldn't say.
00:08:38.600 I've been honest in every other element.
00:08:40.600 If my son was 40 and he met somebody who he truly loved and was...
00:08:45.600 And had children.
00:08:46.600 And she had children.
00:08:47.600 And that should be his first choice.
00:08:49.600 Two different fathers.
00:08:50.600 Yeah.
00:08:51.600 Well, you're going to have to...
00:08:52.600 That's his shit.
00:08:53.600 As his mother, it's not my job to tell him what to do at 40 years old.
00:08:57.600 Can I...
00:08:58.600 But you care about this man because you raised this man.
00:09:00.600 Yeah, but I think...
00:09:01.600 You want the best for this man.
00:09:02.600 Yeah, and him, he should be able to make...
00:09:04.600 If I haven't done my job good enough, at 40 years old, he can't make a decision on his own.
00:09:09.600 He needs to come to mummy to ask him.
00:09:11.600 Can I...
00:09:12.600 Am I breastfeeding himself as well?
00:09:13.600 Can I just interject with a more realistic scenario, which in fact...
00:09:16.600 You want breastfeeding too? 1.00
00:09:18.600 Oh, yeah.
00:09:19.600 Every day.
00:09:20.600 What the fuck?
00:09:21.600 Sign language.
00:09:22.600 But as far as a real situation, which actually I know someone exactly in this position.
00:09:27.600 They were 27, 28 with a brilliant business.
00:09:32.600 Really successful.
00:09:33.600 Already had two houses.
00:09:35.600 Married a woman, a single mother at 37.
00:09:38.600 Oh goodness.
00:09:39.600 Would you allow your son to do that?
00:09:40.600 Wait, how old?
00:09:41.600 How old was he?
00:09:42.600 He was 27.
00:09:43.600 The person I know was 27, 28.
00:09:44.600 Crazy dude.
00:09:45.600 Had he dated?
00:09:46.600 How old?
00:09:47.600 A 37 year old.
00:09:48.600 37, single mother. 0.50
00:09:49.600 But how am I allowing?
00:09:50.600 Wait, wait.
00:09:51.600 You're saying allowing as if I have control.
00:09:53.600 No, no.
00:09:54.600 But what I mean is, would you be happy with that?
00:09:56.600 Yeah.
00:09:57.600 Would you say, yeah, I want her to come home with her kids? 0.98
00:10:00.600 Are you going to want her to...
00:10:01.600 Are you going to tell your son, yeah, bring...
00:10:03.600 Go on, bring the girl home. 0.99
00:10:04.600 Are you going to bring her with the kids?
00:10:05.600 100%.
00:10:06.600 If my son is happy and he comes home to me and is like,
00:10:08.600 Mum, this is the woman that I love, and I am going to marry her,
00:10:12.600 and these are her kids.
00:10:13.600 100%.
00:10:14.600 Who am I to tell him what to do?
00:10:15.600 No, yeah.
00:10:16.600 I do agree with that.
00:10:17.600 And I'm very nurturing, so I love babies.
00:10:19.600 But as his mother, your opinion matters.
00:10:25.600 100%.
00:10:26.600 I can have my feelings.
00:10:27.600 Okay, let me finish.
00:10:28.600 Femininity isn't cutting me off. 1.00
00:10:30.600 So it's like, as his mother, your opinion matters, right?
00:10:35.600 And so it's like, you could say, oh, son, I don't think that's maybe a good idea.
00:10:39.600 Or you would say it's a good idea.
00:10:41.600 Why would he come home and ask for my opinion though?
00:10:44.600 Because he values you as his mum.
00:10:46.600 I mean, do you go home every time you get in a relationship?
00:10:49.600 Do you go home and ask your mum's opinion?
00:10:51.600 I'll say this.
00:10:52.600 When I got with, I was in a previous relationship for 10 years, right?
00:10:55.600 And I got with a single mother.
00:10:57.600 And when I never had any children, right?
00:10:59.600 And I specifically remember my mum saying, I don't know, son.
00:11:05.600 This might not be the one, but I know you say you love her, but I don't know.
00:11:08.600 And the thing is, my mum turned out to be right.
00:11:11.600 Right?
00:11:12.600 Because my mum, as a woman of age, who's already had her children, she could foresee the future that I couldn't see.
00:11:21.600 Ah, I'm in love, mum.
00:11:22.600 I love this woman.
00:11:23.600 Yay, I'm great.
00:11:24.600 She's thinking, ah, down the road, son.
00:11:26.600 There was no red pill.
00:11:27.600 There was no manosphere to help me out when I was in that situation.
00:11:32.600 I just had my mum and I didn't listen to her.
00:11:35.600 Do I wish that I would have?
00:11:36.600 Hell fucking yeah.
00:11:37.600 Because my mum had an insight and a wisdom that I didn't have.
00:11:42.600 So as a mother, you have an insight and a wisdom that your son doesn't have.
00:11:46.600 So when your son comes to you in his 20s or whatever and says,
00:11:53.600 Mum, I found a woman and, you know, she's got children.
00:11:56.600 And are you literally going to be like, yeah, son, that's the one.
00:12:00.600 No, you're going to be like children.
00:12:01.600 Yeah.
00:12:02.600 Come on.
00:12:03.600 Come on.
00:12:04.600 I think there's a difference between having sitting your son down and being like,
00:12:12.600 son, you haven't got kids yet.
00:12:13.600 She's got kids. 1.00
00:12:14.600 Are you sure about this?
00:12:15.600 Yeah.
00:12:16.600 Are you ready for this?
00:12:19.600 I think there's a difference between having that conversation and being like,
00:12:23.600 Oh my God, no, no, no.
00:12:24.600 This is wrong.
00:12:25.600 You should go.
00:12:26.600 You said you're what, 37, two children?
00:12:28.600 Yeah.
00:12:29.600 Would you let, because you know yourself.
00:12:33.600 Yeah.
00:12:34.600 Would you let your son choose you?
00:12:37.600 A woman just like you. 0.77
00:12:39.600 Two children, 37, and he's in his 20s.
00:12:41.600 Would you let your son choose a woman just like you? 1.00
00:12:43.600 I would probably say no, because I just wouldn't want to put that pressure on someone that's 27.
00:12:49.600 Right.
00:12:50.600 Right.
00:12:51.600 For me, I just wouldn't feel comfortable being with someone at 27.
00:12:53.600 So young.
00:12:54.600 And I'm just saying like, I've got, this comes with a lot of responsibility.
00:12:56.600 We're probably different life stages.
00:12:58.600 You know what I'm saying?
00:12:59.600 So for me, it's probably going to be a no.
00:13:01.600 And that's what I'm saying.
00:13:02.600 I would have that conversation with my son.
00:13:04.600 But ultimately, it's his decision.
00:13:07.600 Of course.
00:13:08.600 Yeah.
00:13:09.600 So I would have that conversation.
00:13:10.600 But you've given some advice.
00:13:11.600 Yeah, I've given some advice.
00:13:12.600 And like you said, there's that foresight, that insight.
00:13:14.600 Yeah, because you've got it, right?
00:13:15.600 Exactly.
00:13:16.600 But I just think if he doesn't have kids, like, it doesn't matter how nice she is.
00:13:20.600 Like, I would tell him to not deal with her because she's got kids.
00:13:25.600 I would say just like, yeah.
00:13:27.600 And it's just, it's not personal.
00:13:29.600 It's just like, that's a lot of, that's a lot of responsibility.
00:13:32.600 Yeah, exactly.
00:13:33.600 And you didn't make that decision.
00:13:34.600 And you're going to be the one responsible for it.
00:13:36.600 I'm going to be a little bit crude.
00:13:38.600 But yeah, I mean, the person that I, that I'm talking about, they eventually got divorced.
00:13:43.600 And they did, he does have a daughter from, from that marriage.
00:13:47.600 But generally, I saw it coming and my advice was straight up, pump and dump, mate.
00:13:52.600 Pump and dump.
00:13:53.600 Pump and dump.
00:13:54.600 Do you know what I've got to say?
00:13:55.600 I thought, I don't think women in the West, one, I think one of the reasons why men are 1.00
00:14:00.600 opting to go abroad to find wives, women in the West don't value marriage. 0.99
00:14:05.600 And a lot of them say that they like marriage and they want to get married, but they don't value them.
00:14:09.600 And the reason why I say that is because this, in the West, marriage is a TV show.
00:14:14.600 90 day fiance, love at first sight, divorce court.
00:14:19.600 Right.
00:14:20.600 That's what marriage has become in the West. 0.97
00:14:22.600 Right.
00:14:23.600 So a lot of the time women say they want to be married. 1.00
00:14:26.600 And then there's divorce parties too.
00:14:27.600 Sorry.
00:14:28.600 That too.
00:14:29.600 Whatever it is, you can add whatever.
00:14:31.600 Cause there's too many things when it comes to marriage, that marriage is actually a TV show.
00:14:36.600 It's not, it's not real life.
00:14:38.600 Like it's not, there's no sanctity in it anymore.
00:14:40.600 It's entertainment.
00:14:41.600 And so it's entertainment.
00:14:42.600 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:14:43.600 And so women that are outside of the West don't see marriage as entertainment. 1.00
00:14:47.600 They see it as something very like sanctimonious.
00:14:50.600 Yeah.
00:14:51.600 There's sanctity in it, but in the West, yeah.
00:14:53.600 They usually brought, no, but I think in the West, they usually brought up like to be, oh, like you're going to grow up your daughter to be, oh, you're going to be a stay home wife.
00:15:03.600 I want you to find this doctor man and I want you to get married to him.
00:15:08.600 And usually, I think usually, you know, like in Afghanistan.
00:15:13.600 Yeah.
00:15:14.600 Is that where you're from?
00:15:15.600 No, no, I'm Lithuanian and Somalian.
00:15:19.600 Okay.
00:15:20.600 Yeah.
00:15:21.600 But in that, for example, I've got in a Muslim country.
00:15:24.600 I think girls are brought up to- 1.00
00:15:25.600 Yeah, but in Somali, in Somali it's different.
00:15:27.600 Yeah.
00:15:28.600 Yeah.
00:15:29.600 But in Somali is like, is how people think from back home is, oh, I want you to be a housewife.
00:15:35.600 You're going to like learn how to cook.
00:15:36.600 You're going to learn how to clean every day.
00:15:38.600 And that's what usually I think men tend to look for.
00:15:42.600 Oh, like stay at home wife, clean all the time. 1.00
00:15:45.600 Just, you know, like that.
00:15:47.600 Yeah.
00:15:48.600 No, they want a boss babe. 1.00
00:15:50.600 Yeah.
00:15:51.600 They want to go out the business.
00:15:53.600 Yeah.
00:15:54.600 Yeah.
00:15:55.600 But that's not what I want to do.
00:15:56.600 They really don't.
00:15:57.600 No, like I'm going to be a fucking boss.
00:16:00.600 No, stay home wife. 1.00
00:16:01.600 But that's-
00:16:02.600 So would you say that you embody the more Lithuanian side to you or the more Somali side?
00:16:07.600 No, I would, I'm Muslim.
00:16:08.600 Okay.
00:16:09.600 So I would want to be with a Muslim man.
00:16:13.600 Okay.
00:16:14.600 Somali man? 0.97
00:16:15.600 No.
00:16:16.600 Okay.
00:16:17.600 That was a hard no.
00:16:18.600 That was a hard no.
00:16:19.600 Because I'm more Lithuanian.
00:16:20.600 I'm more Lithuanian.
00:16:21.600 I've always grew up with my Lithuanian like side of family.
00:16:24.600 Right.
00:16:25.600 Yeah.
00:16:26.600 But Lithuanian aren't Muslim, right? 0.99
00:16:27.600 They're not Muslims, but I converted to Muslims years ago.
00:16:29.600 Oh, okay.
00:16:30.600 Yeah.
00:16:31.600 I have another video that I want to show.
00:16:32.600 Oh yeah?
00:16:33.600 Let's do it.
00:16:34.600 Let's do it.
00:16:35.600 Okay.
00:16:36.600 This is shout out to Austin Holloman.
00:16:37.600 Do you know who that is?
00:16:38.600 No.
00:16:39.600 This man.
00:16:40.600 So I met him when I was in Texas.
00:16:41.600 Mm-hmm.
00:16:42.600 And he moved to Brazil.
00:16:43.600 Ah.
00:16:44.600 Because he said, American women in his words are that bad. 1.00
00:16:50.600 Really?
00:16:51.600 Yeah.
00:16:52.600 Yeah.
00:16:53.600 So he literally moved his life.
00:16:54.600 Blessing is he started from the beginning.
00:16:56.600 Yeah.
00:16:57.600 I don't think I mentioned it.
00:16:58.600 Oh, let's watch this.
00:16:59.600 I haven't mentioned this before.
00:17:00.600 I'm sure I've heard you.
00:17:01.600 Oh, his name?
00:17:02.600 Oh, the Brazil?
00:17:03.600 Yeah.
00:17:04.600 Yeah.
00:17:05.600 Yeah.
00:17:06.600 I've seen some of his stuff.
00:17:07.600 I haven't.
00:17:08.600 I don't know him.
00:17:09.600 I've seen some of his vlogs with the women there.
00:17:10.600 And I'm like, oh, he never coming back.
00:17:12.600 Let's see this.
00:17:15.600 So this is before he moved.
00:17:17.600 Hello.
00:17:18.600 I'm back again.
00:17:19.600 And this time we're not going to be talking about Brazil.
00:17:21.600 We're going to be talking about what made me leave to go to Brazil.
00:17:25.600 In other words, what made me stop dating in the United States.
00:17:29.600 I've touched.
00:17:30.600 If you've watched my TikToks or some of my YouTube videos, you can kind of get a perspective
00:17:33.600 out.
00:17:34.600 But I'm going to break it down today.
00:17:36.600 So, and these are in order, I believe, from severity of why I stopped dating in the United
00:17:46.600 States.
00:17:47.600 Mm-mm.
00:17:48.600 The number one thing, and we're going to say this is, this is actually a bunch.
00:17:56.600 I'm bringing them down.
00:17:57.600 The number one thing that stopped me from dating in the United States was the texting
00:18:01.600 games and the phone call games.
00:18:03.600 The game.
00:18:05.600 So, we're not going to act brand new.
00:18:07.600 We know this is a thing here.
00:18:10.600 You have to have some sort of game.
00:18:13.600 And people get game confused with charisma.
00:18:16.600 Those aren't the same thing.
00:18:17.600 Okay.
00:18:18.600 Charisma is the sweet talking and the emotional aspect of her getting to like you with your
00:18:23.600 words.
00:18:24.600 Whoop to whoop.
00:18:25.600 But when I say game, I'm talking about, I get your phone number.
00:18:30.600 Now let me wait two or three days to call you back.
00:18:32.600 Like if you know alpha male strategy, he says he waits 10 days to call a woman back.
00:18:36.600 Why the fuck would I want to do that?
00:18:38.600 Okay.
00:18:39.600 Okay.
00:18:40.600 I get it.
00:18:42.600 But then that's another thing.
00:18:44.600 They say, oh, you got to pretend like you have options.
00:18:47.600 You have to have, you have to show you have options.
00:18:49.600 Don't blow her up all the time.
00:18:50.600 Text her in between five minutes.
00:18:52.600 You know, don't, I've said before, don't have a routine.
00:18:56.600 Uh, all that shit.
00:18:59.600 You know, all this, you have to have this super strategy just to get to know somebody.
00:19:05.600 Or even if you just want to smash somebody, it's usually not just, it's like, it's like
00:19:10.600 all these tactics.
00:19:11.600 That's why there's so many YouTubers and dating coaches coming out that are just blowing
00:19:16.600 up because nobody can truly figure this shit out. 0.67
00:19:19.600 Right.
00:19:20.600 And if you're somebody like me, that's on their purpose, I'm trying to get my money right
00:19:23.600 so I can live overseas and get the hell out of here.
00:19:26.600 I don't have time for the game.
00:19:28.600 Look, baby, either you want to fuck with me or you don't.
00:19:31.600 Right.
00:19:32.600 And that's how my world works.
00:19:34.600 It's black and white.
00:19:35.600 Facts.
00:19:36.600 There is no in between.
00:19:38.600 Either you want to fuck with me or you don't. 0.57
00:19:42.600 And that's when you go to Brazil, and I'm gonna compare each number to when I went to
00:19:48.600 Brazil.
00:19:49.600 When I saw those Texan games disappear and the, the, you know, either she wouldn't give
00:19:56.600 you her number or she would give you her number.
00:19:58.600 90% of the time, if she gives you her number, it's going somewhere.
00:20:02.600 In the United States, 90% of the time you give a chick your number, it's not going anywhere. 1.00
00:20:07.600 Then it makes you wonder why did you give me your number?
00:20:12.600 Uh, I've mentioned in a TikTok video, a chick left a note on my car, two chicks left a note on my car. 1.00
00:20:18.600 And then I call or text.
00:20:21.600 And then I can't even hook up a date with you or hook up a time to see you.
00:20:25.600 Why the fuck did you leave a note on my car?
00:20:28.600 That's illogical.
00:20:29.600 I don't have time for that, y'all.
00:20:31.600 That's a bunch of, that's like a bunch of fuckery.
00:20:35.600 Nobody has time for the Texan games, the communication games.
00:20:39.600 And number two, flaking.
00:20:42.600 Okay.
00:20:43.600 Uh, there is a high, I don't get, unless if you were some sort of super rich man or some celebrity,
00:20:50.600 there is a high flake rate in the United States.
00:20:55.600 So we were teenagers, we knew this, right?
00:20:57.600 Now, but I had time for that when I was a teenager.
00:20:59.600 Like I didn't have a job or anything.
00:21:01.600 I wouldn't do it.
00:21:02.600 She would go into school and going home.
00:21:04.600 I knew when I went to the mall, I had to get 10 numbers.
00:21:09.600 Or if I went to Six Flakes, I had to get 10 numbers.
00:21:11.600 Why?
00:21:12.600 Because out of 10 numbers, only three of them motherfuckers are going to text back.
00:21:15.600 I don't give a fuck what nobody says.
00:21:17.600 Only three of those are going to text you back.
00:21:19.600 And out of those three, two or maybe one or maybe two, you're going to see again.
00:21:26.600 It's, it's just that.
00:21:29.600 It's, I don't care.
00:21:30.600 Anybody tells you otherwise is full of shit.
00:21:32.600 Unless there's some sort of celebrity, but they're not living the regular lifestyle like
00:21:36.600 this.
00:21:37.600 So as an adult, I knew that going to say, okay, probably still the same thing.
00:21:41.600 I still got to approach a lot of women. 1.00
00:21:44.600 But then it was just coming back like, damn, the flake rate, it seemed like the flake rate
00:21:48.600 has gotten worse.
00:21:49.600 And I know some dumbass watching this video right now is going to be like, look in the
00:21:52.600 mirror, look in the mirror.
00:21:53.600 That's not the fucking problem.
00:21:55.600 Because there's an abundance of men saying the same thing.
00:21:58.600 And then you hear about these women wanting to, uh, just have validation and social media 0.97
00:22:03.600 and cell phones have created this where they have access to so many men.
00:22:07.600 They'll flake on you in a minute.
00:22:09.600 Yeah.
00:22:10.600 He's really funny though.
00:22:13.600 He always is like modern women. 1.00
00:22:15.600 They're that bad.
00:22:17.600 I, I, um, I hear him with the games.
00:22:22.600 Yeah.
00:22:23.600 Those games, like the tedious.
00:22:26.600 Oh, bro.
00:22:27.600 Like.
00:22:28.600 The thing is, um, with the flake rates, actually, I would love, uh, Pearl, your, your, uh, opinion
00:22:35.600 on this when it comes to the sexist men or women, which one of them flake on you more when
00:22:40.600 it comes to guests coming onto the show?
00:22:42.600 Oh God.
00:22:43.600 I, oh, I have strong feelings.
00:22:46.600 I have, I have strong feelings.
00:22:49.600 I feel like a dude.
00:22:51.600 I don't do the recruiting anymore.
00:22:52.600 Thank you, Jesus.
00:22:53.600 Oh my God.
00:22:54.600 I'm Catholic.
00:22:55.600 But when I did the recruiting, it was like, you get the flake rate for women. 0.99
00:23:02.600 If they said, yes, I will be at the show 50% and half of them won't even tell you.
00:23:07.600 They're not coming.
00:23:08.600 They just don't show up the men.
00:23:10.600 Um, I would say like 20% will flake on you.
00:23:14.600 I'll be honest.
00:23:15.600 Unless, unless they're athletes, the flake rate goes up.
00:23:17.600 I don't know what it is about that.
00:23:18.600 I'll be honest.
00:23:19.600 I had a woman who said that she was going to come today.
00:23:21.600 Is she flake? 1.00
00:23:22.600 They always do.
00:23:23.600 Yeah.
00:23:24.600 Yeah.
00:23:25.600 Yeah.
00:23:26.600 Yeah.
00:23:27.600 Except you guys.
00:23:28.600 Good job.
00:23:29.600 I was tempted.
00:23:31.600 I was tempted.
00:23:32.600 Yeah.
00:23:33.600 But those, those texting, those texting games are real.
00:23:36.600 Like when he said, you either fuck me or you don't.
00:23:40.600 I felt that.
00:23:41.600 Yeah.
00:23:42.600 Do you know what I mean?
00:23:43.600 Even as a woman, I felt that.
00:23:44.600 I felt that.
00:23:45.600 No, but the thing is, as women, you already know that, I ain't got time to hear that. 1.00
00:23:48.600 Because you as women, you already know that there are guys that have got your number and you ain't going to text them back. 1.00
00:23:53.600 Hundred percent.
00:23:54.600 I was having a conversation with one of my female friends and she was, um, it was, it was an intrigue for me because I'm like, why do women give out their numbers to guys who are not interested in?
00:24:02.600 Yeah.
00:24:03.600 It's crazy.
00:24:04.600 And he made a good point when it comes to validation.
00:24:05.600 And she was like, sometimes we might be bored, we might not be interested in, but we might want to see where it's going.
00:24:09.600 And I'm like, you would never catch a guy giving a number to a woman he is not interested in.
00:24:14.600 For what?
00:24:15.600 Because any holds a goal, that's why.
00:24:16.600 They just want to smash.
00:24:17.600 So of course they're going to give it out.
00:24:18.600 If you don't want to smash, don't get your number, actually.
00:24:20.600 I don't.
00:24:21.600 I ain't got time for that.
00:24:22.600 I have two kids at home.
00:24:23.600 But then don't get your number.
00:24:24.600 Two kids at home.
00:24:25.600 Just don't give the number up.
00:24:26.600 Don't give the number.
00:24:27.600 Like there's been times where I've been on the phone and I'm hearing it happening and she's sighing like, oh, I've got to give my number.
00:24:31.600 I'm like, no you don't.
00:24:32.600 But some guys don't take number either.
00:24:33.600 Which is a fair point.
00:24:34.600 Yeah.
00:24:35.600 They're like harass you down the street.
00:24:36.600 Yeah.
00:24:37.600 It's also that.
00:24:38.600 Running away.
00:24:39.600 Sometimes it's actually easier to give your number.
00:24:40.600 Or to give the wrong number.
00:24:41.600 Yeah.
00:24:42.600 Yeah.
00:24:43.600 The wrong number.
00:24:44.600 But a lot of them are texting back still.
00:24:45.600 A lot of them are still communicating.
00:24:46.600 And a lot of them are saying, well, I'm being boring with my reply.
00:24:49.600 So he should take the hint.
00:24:50.600 But I'm like, if a guy knows you're going to reply, whether it's a boring reply or not, you're still replying.
00:24:54.600 And to him, he's going to keep texting.
00:24:56.600 Yeah.
00:24:57.600 The thing is this whole.
00:24:58.600 Women don't do honesty very well. 1.00
00:25:00.600 That's what.
00:25:01.600 The thing is not.
00:25:02.600 I mean, I've seen it.
00:25:03.600 There's an entire strategy behind the online game or texting game.
00:25:07.600 I've got this entire thing mapped out.
00:25:10.600 But as far as though, it's a whole thing about plenty of fish.
00:25:15.600 But as far as women flaking on you, first of all, I think some of that is to do with like a woman gives you a number, but she wants to still be chased. 0.92
00:25:23.600 So chase me, chase me.
00:25:24.600 So I feel some of that is probably in that scenario where women want to be chased.
00:25:29.600 I think still women want to get a man. 1.00
00:25:32.600 I think they're running away from me.
00:25:34.600 I feel like, okay, I feel like for me, and you guys can tell me if this is true.
00:25:39.600 I feel like, guys, there's three boxes.
00:25:42.600 Immediate yes.
00:25:43.600 Immediate no.
00:25:44.600 And the no, there's no coming out of that.
00:25:46.600 You like never.
00:25:47.600 And then there's like maybes.
00:25:48.600 Yeah.
00:25:49.600 And then so it's like maybe, like I like something about him or I don't, maybe.
00:25:53.600 Yeah.
00:25:54.600 And so if a guy's like a maybe, I feel like, like, if I'm not responding, like, I feel like I'm just not that into him.
00:26:01.600 I would hate to be a maybe.
00:26:03.600 I prefer to be a no than a maybe.
00:26:04.600 I know.
00:26:05.600 That's why guys hate that.
00:26:06.600 Yeah.
00:26:07.600 I'd hate, I'd prefer to be a no than a maybe. 1.00
00:26:09.600 I don't fucking waste my time.
00:26:10.600 I think sometimes it's like, you know, I've met something that you meet somebody and you're like, you know what?
00:26:13.600 They're, like you said, there's so many attributes about them.
00:26:16.600 You're like, why don't, like what, what is there missing?
00:26:18.600 So you think, cause some relationships can grow over time.
00:26:21.600 So it's like, maybe.
00:26:22.600 You see, and it's that mentality that puts girls in positions where they're giving out their numbers. 1.00
00:26:28.600 Cause it's based on the presumption or hope that it can grow into something.
00:26:32.600 Even though you're not interested at the time.
00:26:34.600 And to piggyback off that, the hope is that he does something awesome that makes you change your mind.
00:26:39.600 Not you.
00:26:40.600 When you walk into a relationship situation where you're waiting for someone else to make it good, then you're not going to put your best foot forward and it's probably not going to work.
00:26:48.600 Yeah.
00:26:49.600 Let me ask a woman a question actually. 0.99
00:26:50.600 Do you, it's random.
00:26:51.600 Do you think that you have to work for the guy or the guy has to work for you?
00:26:55.600 I think it's both.
00:26:56.600 I think.
00:26:57.600 Yeah.
00:26:58.600 I think it's a two way thing.
00:26:59.600 Definitely.
00:27:00.600 What do you think most women think? 1.00
00:27:01.600 Yeah.
00:27:02.600 For the one.
00:27:03.600 I mean, you asked me.
00:27:04.600 I'm telling you my response.
00:27:05.600 That's fair.
00:27:06.600 You asked me.
00:27:07.600 I'm telling you my response.
00:27:08.600 That's fair.
00:27:09.600 You asked me.
00:27:10.600 I'm telling you my response.
00:27:11.600 Do you think most women have some guys where they're going to go that extra mile for. 1.00
00:27:17.600 And then there's like everyone else.
00:27:20.600 I think everyone else.
00:27:21.600 Yeah.
00:27:22.600 If I see potential in somebody, I 100% go that extra mile for them.
00:27:25.600 Because the flakiness, I haven't really noticed much flakiness in women, but he's acting like, you know, it happens all the time. 0.96
00:27:30.600 Which makes me think maybe there's some guys that don't get flaked on.
00:27:33.600 But it's bound to happen if you're taking 10 to 20 numbers tonight.
00:27:36.600 Yeah.
00:27:37.600 That's a lot.
00:27:38.600 They're not working at the same response rate.
00:27:39.600 So if you're putting yourself out there, you're bound to come across women who are flaky. 1.00
00:27:43.600 I mean, the thing is, I think a guy who looks like you probably doesn't get as much flakes as a guy that looks like me.
00:27:49.600 We come from different worlds.
00:27:51.600 But that guy was hard.
00:27:52.600 That guy was good looking.
00:27:53.600 Yeah.
00:27:54.600 You had a good hairline.
00:27:55.600 But the thing is, for a lot of the guys that I've gone out with and we got numbers, one of my, I mean, we always go out and one of my friends on regular basis, like continuously gets five to 10 numbers a night.
00:28:10.600 So if he's getting five to 10 numbers a night, he knows that out of that 10, he's looking at possibly meeting two of them by the end of the chain of takes.
00:28:19.600 And because he knows at least out of 10 numbers, he'll get two of them that he'll eventually get to the point of actually going on a date.
00:28:28.600 Okay.
00:28:29.600 And out of those two, potentially one of them is probably a sexual partner and the other one might flake on that.
00:28:34.600 So really, we're winding down to that.
00:28:37.600 I mean, that's the strategy that I said with POF is I start on a Sunday and by Wednesday, I'm on a telephone call by Thursday, Friday, I'm arranging a date for either a Friday or the Saturday.
00:28:47.600 And then out of those Friday or Saturday dates, potentially one of them will flip to a sexual relationship.
00:28:53.600 That's exhausting.
00:28:54.600 That is so much work.
00:28:56.600 That's exhausting.
00:28:57.600 For a modicum of vagina. 1.00
00:29:00.600 That's so much work.
00:29:02.600 I have a question.
00:29:03.600 You said you modeled, right?
00:29:05.600 No, I've done some modeling.
00:29:07.600 Okay, you've done some modeling.
00:29:08.600 How tall are you?
00:29:09.600 6'4".
00:29:10.600 Okay.
00:29:11.600 Do you think your experience would be different if you maybe didn't have modeling opportunities and you were 5'6"?
00:29:16.600 We come from very different worlds, my friend.
00:29:18.600 I mean, do you know what?
00:29:19.600 I can never say because I haven't been that.
00:29:21.600 But I could imagine, yeah.
00:29:23.600 I could imagine it might be a little bit different.
00:29:25.600 But there's still other things you can do.
00:29:27.600 I do think guys should maximize their social skills.
00:29:31.600 Fish in their hole.
00:29:33.600 I think guys should learn charisma.
00:29:35.600 I think guys should maximize their looks, especially in the face.
00:29:39.600 And I think that guys should go to the gym.
00:29:41.600 When you say maximize their looks in the face, how would that work?
00:29:44.600 Working out frequently.
00:29:46.600 No, in their face.
00:29:47.600 Oh, in their face.
00:29:48.600 Yeah.
00:29:49.600 You know, get a little shape up.
00:29:50.600 You know, get the beard done.
00:29:51.600 A shape up can make a whole lot of different.
00:29:52.600 Get a nice haircut.
00:29:53.600 Yeah.
00:29:54.600 I've seen some sorcery.
00:29:55.600 Yeah.
00:29:56.600 When they come out fresh from the barbersh.
00:29:58.600 Because at the end of the day, a woman has to sleep with these guys at the end of the day. 1.00
00:30:01.600 She has to like what she sees a bit.
00:30:03.600 In the pick up artistry sort of communities, number one thing is the number one thing that puts women off is badly groomed. 1.00
00:30:11.600 Yeah.
00:30:12.600 I've worked.
00:30:13.600 I used to coach a little bit of that to be honest.
00:30:15.600 You have to be well groomed.
00:30:16.600 And being well groomed, smelling good, wearing nice clothes, not expensive, just things that are tailored to you.
00:30:22.600 Shower.
00:30:23.600 Yeah.
00:30:24.600 Have style that attracts the sorts of women that you like.
00:30:28.600 I swear, there's a Kevin Samuels video of he's teaching men how to use lufus.
00:30:34.600 Actually, I'm curious.
00:30:35.600 You said you've done dating coaching.
00:30:36.600 Yeah.
00:30:37.600 I still do it, but yeah.
00:30:38.600 You do it.
00:30:39.600 I've just studied it.
00:30:40.600 Oh, you don't actually teach it?
00:30:42.600 I haven't teach it.
00:30:43.600 Okay.
00:30:44.600 How many clients have you had enough that you could get a general picture?
00:30:48.600 Yeah.
00:30:49.600 Okay.
00:30:50.600 Because like the one thing I'm curious, a lot of the guys that do it, are they from single mother homes?
00:30:55.600 Because I'm thinking like, it's just a hypothesis.
00:30:57.600 No.
00:30:58.600 I'm wondering if maybe they're not like groomed.
00:30:59.600 Okay, no.
00:31:00.600 No, actually.
00:31:01.600 Because they weren't taught from their dad.
00:31:02.600 No.
00:31:03.600 That's a good question, but no.
00:31:04.600 It's actually really random.
00:31:06.600 Okay.
00:31:07.600 It's really random.
00:31:08.600 I could actually, I'll be better off breaking it down by race, but I'm not going to do that here.
00:31:13.600 But I'll be better off breaking it down by race.
00:31:15.600 Actually, I know where you would.
00:31:17.600 I want to say, can I?
00:31:19.600 Yeah, you can.
00:31:20.600 You can.
00:31:21.600 Like Asian guys go through a lot.
00:31:22.600 Yeah.
00:31:23.600 Do you feel that?
00:31:24.600 Asian guys go through what?
00:31:25.600 They go for, they, they, they come to me a lot.
00:31:27.600 Asian guys.
00:31:28.600 Yeah.
00:31:29.600 Because there's an American audience here.
00:31:31.600 When we say Asian over here. 0.98
00:31:32.600 Oh, I'm talking about, um, South Asian, like Indian?
00:31:36.600 Indian.
00:31:37.600 That's South Asian, right? 0.96
00:31:38.600 Subcontinent.
00:31:39.600 Indian subcontinent.
00:31:40.600 Yeah.
00:31:41.600 That's what we mean over here when we say Asian.
00:31:42.600 Yeah.
00:31:43.600 And East Asian, but on a smaller degree.
00:31:46.600 Um, and then you get, uh, I'd say European, like Caucasian. 0.98
00:31:51.600 And I'd say black's kind of the smallest. 1.00
00:31:54.600 Yeah.
00:31:55.600 Do you feel that?
00:31:56.600 Even though, I think a lot of them, there's a lot of, um, I think a lot of black men walk 1.00
00:31:59.600 around with a lot of ego and they wouldn't really want to come.
00:32:01.600 Yeah.
00:32:02.600 Fair enough.
00:32:03.600 It's not that.
00:32:04.600 Most of my, uh, my friends that are from Afro-Caribbean sort of backgrounds and, and they
00:32:08.600 just, they just have game.
00:32:09.600 No.
00:32:10.600 They have good game.
00:32:11.600 I swear.
00:32:12.600 We don't all just naturally have game.
00:32:13.600 Let me, let me, let me, let me, let me say something about that.
00:32:17.600 A lot of them don't have game.
00:32:18.600 Yeah.
00:32:19.600 But what it is, is that I've been a black man in, in the UK all of my life.
00:32:25.600 And I know that I can, when I used to go out to the clubs, I don't go out to the clubs
00:32:30.600 anymore, but when I, I could walk into a club with mostly European women and just get 1.00
00:32:37.600 attention.
00:32:38.600 I don't have game, but there's something in their heads that when they see me.
00:32:43.600 Yeah.
00:32:44.600 Objective.
00:32:45.600 Yeah.
00:32:46.600 When they're like, oh, oh, that guy.
00:32:47.600 Right.
00:32:48.600 So it's not necessarily game.
00:32:49.600 Like I, I think a lot of black men are just desired by other people, other races. 1.00
00:32:55.600 That's what I personally, and that's me growing up all of my life.
00:32:58.600 I'm 41 years old.
00:32:59.600 That's me growing up in the UK saying, okay, cool.
00:33:02.600 Like I've been to all types of situations.
00:33:05.600 Do you think it's, I'm sorry.
00:33:07.600 And, and women that, women that aren't, cause you can go to, if we talk about, there's
00:33:13.600 a guy that was actually in Thailand as a matter of fact, who's getting a lot of black men to
00:33:18.600 go to Thailand.
00:33:19.600 And there's a guy that was walking around Thailand as a black man and seeing the attention
00:33:23.600 that he gets.
00:33:24.600 Listen, I'm not saying it's a good thing, bad thing.
00:33:26.600 I'm just saying in certain scenarios and you know, as a black man, they're just desired. 1.00
00:33:31.600 You know.
00:33:32.600 Do you think it's because, um, like, you know, like if you're not allowed to have something,
00:33:37.600 you then want it more.
00:33:38.600 Could be a taboo thing.
00:33:39.600 So like, it's like there may be culturally, their families may be like, no, you should.
00:33:44.600 Could be.
00:33:45.600 And so it's more desirable because it's like, you're not allowed to have that.
00:33:47.600 So I want it.
00:33:48.600 This is just a question.
00:33:49.600 But a lot of the time it's for sexual pleasure.
00:33:51.600 It's not necessarily for a long term thing.
00:33:53.600 You do have to be a certain type of black guy as well.
00:33:56.600 I like, no Steve Urkels getting all that action.
00:33:58.600 Do you know what I mean?
00:33:59.600 Might be either.
00:34:00.600 I don't know who that is.
00:34:01.600 Oh, it's like some, a nerdy, like a nerdy kind of black guy. 1.00
00:34:05.600 Even, even women don't tend to like nerdy black guys to be honest. 0.99
00:34:08.600 Like, they don't really get any play.
00:34:10.600 This is, this is the strangest thing because a lot of the guys I know, uh, Afro-Caribbeans, 1.00
00:34:14.600 are IT guys, the programmers, hardcore, like .NET, ASP.
00:34:18.600 And they still get, they still get action.
00:34:20.600 But they've got game.
00:34:21.600 They, they walk into a bar.
00:34:22.600 Maybe they do have game.
00:34:23.600 Maybe the ones you know have game.
00:34:24.600 What is game to you though about that?
00:34:25.600 What is game?
00:34:26.600 That's what I want to know.
00:34:27.600 What is game?
00:34:28.600 You walk into a bar and you can talk to everyone and anyone.
00:34:30.600 If I point those friends of mine, I was, I mean, when I was young,
00:34:33.600 I was scared to death of talking to women. 1.00
00:34:34.600 Women were like alien creatures. 1.00
00:34:36.600 And a friend of mine who was from Ghana, I point to any woman.
00:34:41.600 He would straight up walk up to her, start talking to her as a woman that rejected three 0.99
00:34:46.600 or four other guys before, before, before him.
00:34:49.600 And I said, okay, that one.
00:34:50.600 He went up to her.
00:34:51.600 He was sitting down talking to her for 50 minutes.
00:34:54.600 I'm like, how, what did you even say for 50 minutes?
00:34:57.600 It's called social skills.
00:34:58.600 You have to have social skills.
00:35:00.600 It's social skills.
00:35:01.600 I see so many guys complain about women, but I know they haven't maximized their social skills.
00:35:05.600 That may be a cultural thing because in other cultures, whether they be South Asian,
00:35:12.600 whether they be African, socialization is part of our culture.
00:35:18.600 Do you know what I mean?
00:35:19.600 Like learning just how to speak to auntie so-and-so or even like, it's just part of our culture.
00:35:26.600 It may be that.
00:35:27.600 And also, you know, being a black person trying to, you know, get jobs and stuff.
00:35:32.600 You kind of have to be funny.
00:35:34.600 You kind of have to like make people think you're less threatened.
00:35:37.600 Yeah.
00:35:38.600 So you have to learn all these skills.
00:35:40.600 Yeah.
00:35:41.600 You learn all these skills along the way that make you just happen to be great with women sometimes, you know?
00:35:46.600 And so that's what it is.
00:35:47.600 It's not necessarily game.
00:35:48.600 It's just social skills.
00:35:50.600 I'm going to ask another question on topic.
00:35:55.600 Do you think the reason for the men, or sorry, do you think the reason for women over here being less desirable is the F word?
00:36:07.600 The what?
00:36:08.600 The F word? Feminism. 1.00
00:36:09.600 Oh, I was like, what, saying it or doing it?
00:36:12.600 Do you think the reason why men are finding women over in the West less desirable is feminism? 0.95
00:36:19.600 Yeah.
00:36:20.600 I think it alienates men.
00:36:21.600 100%.
00:36:22.600 I think it gives, I think it gives women a false kind of sense of entitlement. 1.00
00:36:29.600 And I think that it makes them feel like victims, even though they probably weren't even alive when times were a lot harder.
00:36:38.600 When the suffragettes were around. 0.99
00:36:39.600 Exactly.
00:36:40.600 So they don't really know what really happened.
00:36:41.600 I think that it makes them feel like the victim.
00:36:44.600 So it gives them the right to act a certain way and treat men a certain way.
00:36:48.600 And it's, it's quite sad, really, because I think we both lose.
00:36:51.600 Well, it's because, it's because we're, feminism allowed women to be bailed out of every single bad decision that we make ever. 1.00
00:36:57.600 Yeah.
00:36:58.600 Like if we want to, if we want to sleep around, there's birth control.
00:37:00.600 Yeah.
00:37:01.600 It doesn't work.
00:37:02.600 We have abortion. 1.00
00:37:03.600 If that doesn't work, you can get.
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