JustPearlyThings - Sneako DESRTOYES This DERAILED Feminists

00:00:00.000 i think racism and all of these issues do exist but i feel like i agree with you guys and thank

00:00:07.100 you guys because you actually gave me a new way of thinking that we don't have to use this as a

00:00:11.280 barrier because at the end of the day what we think is what will manifest they do they do exist

00:00:14.780 they absolutely 100 do exist but regardless of that you know you still have to go out and you

00:00:19.440 still have to go out into the world and make it work for you because that's the only that's the

00:00:23.220 only thing that we've got and think about it this way like if racism was such this big barrier that

00:00:27.440 you guys are exaggerating it to be why would we have black billionaires like jay-z and kanye west

00:00:31.500 well absolutely i mean if you think about it if you think about any any ethnicity any background

00:00:36.180 any social class you there are examples of people who've gone on to become hugely hugely successful

00:00:42.000 so that's what you're going to look at at an incredibly disproportional rate but not the guy

00:00:46.820 who yes but no that's really important point so in america blacks are 13 of the population

00:00:51.400 of course most of the white people are making the money it's a small population it's just the

00:00:56.020 amount of people but at the same time there's more poor white people than there are going to be

00:01:00.920 poor black people just by statistical numbers you know i'm saying like of course but the population

00:01:06.460 of incarcerations although it's only 13 percent of the black population so how much of it is crime 0.88

00:01:11.300 though no but i'm saying how much of it is crime though regardless still but it's higher than the

00:01:15.020 white people right more black people in the in prison by percentage so would you say that's

00:01:19.660 would you say that's suppression or black people's culture and and this is the thing i'm asking 0.83

00:01:24.080 wait wait wait you hit the best point and this is it is very much so did you say wait wait what

00:01:29.780 does that mean wait i'll tell you can i say it sure right it is cultural because this is the thing

00:01:35.860 now with racism because of culture and how things happen back in the day people have just been stuck

00:01:41.360 in kind of like that limbo of like okay what do we do now black people are still trying to catch up 0.99

00:01:45.760 with a lot of things so that's why right now yeah it is still a cultural thing and what we can do is

00:01:51.480 say the things that you were saying is empower yourself regardless of what you look like

00:01:55.020 because you are letting the cultural context ruin your prospects because you're letting that make

00:02:01.580 you be less when you're not and why are you acting so surprised when he said cultural aren't you

00:02:05.540 i'm surprised i'm surprised i'm surprised wait wait wait what do you mean why am i acting surprised

00:02:09.980 aren't you a rapper so what does that mean what genre of music advocates for murder all the time

00:02:16.580 hip-hop hip-hop yeah so you're a rapper you know the genre is is black dominated they advocate for 1.00

00:02:23.260 violence all the time and you're gonna be like cultural you know my problem with it is actually 0.88

00:02:26.840 that i hate is when a young black man goes and gets successful and obviously because of the numbers 1.00

00:02:31.280 and the businessmen in the world he ends up working white people and they call him an uncle tom 0.99

00:02:34.880 and i think that's bullshit truly i think no it is bullshit i think they only call you an uncle tom 0.97

00:02:41.120 if you're acting a certain way as in like speaking correctly no no i'm not trying to be disrespectful 0.98

00:02:47.780 i would never no i agree with you but when i've seen people call someone an uncle tom is in a sense

00:02:52.480 where you're just from what i've seen is they will like when i watch nwa is they um they made all the

00:02:58.760 black guys just get on the floor for no reason just because they were black and the black policeman is 1.00

00:03:02.040 just standing for it i would call that an uncle tom because that's a movie which happened in real 0.96

00:03:06.300 life by the way it's a documentary so it's not fake it's real it happened in real life though that's

00:03:11.540 what i'm telling you i'm gonna ask you a question you know a good like 40 to 50 percent of people

00:03:16.500 that have been incarcerated is because of something that they didn't do how is that culture for the

00:03:21.000 do you think it's 40 or 50 percent i think it's a high percentage for black people can i say something

00:03:26.060 very quickly how is that culture can i say something very quickly pearl my sister listen let me just

00:03:31.040 can i just help you run this conversation because i know it can be awkward especially with what

00:03:34.520 happened guys she is not racist she's a g uh racism is not a hindrance it is a challenge but you can

00:03:41.060 overcome it and i'm so sorry that i brought that into the conversation because we're talking about

00:03:45.040 feminism feminism is destructive okay so i'm so sorry pearl i didn't mean you don't have to be 1.00

00:03:50.360 sorry in your opinion a lot of you guys who have this opinion about feminism being destructive

00:03:55.500 feminism is the reason you're here you're here you know it's not it kind of is though because 1.00

00:04:00.820 if we're being honest did the equal pay act women even getting into work because my mom is a hustler 1.00

00:04:06.360 okay but who started the whole movement for women to even come out of the kitchen can i ask you how 1.00

00:04:11.020 it's been like who did all of that like who did all of that and that's just recent generations i know

00:04:16.480 from what i know my knowledge of feminism um in terms of the destructive feminism 1.00

00:04:22.380 um came from i think i think it's always been destructive i mean even in the early days they

00:04:28.400 planned assassinations it's always been freedom at the expense of men always can i ask even even like

00:04:34.320 let's take the vote like the vote was one of the first things that we got right would you agree that

00:04:37.920 was a good thing that women got to vote yes okay but then women were not equally drafted so if there's 1.00

00:04:42.760 a war that breaks out the men are the ones that are have that have to go fight so that's why women 1.00

00:04:47.100 didn't want to vote because they had to be drafted in order to vote because if you're voting for in

00:04:51.260 the u.s it's the commander-in-chief who picks if we go to war that's who you're voting for so you have

00:04:55.660 to have some skin in the game so again women wanted the freedom they want to say oh let's vote but they 1.00

00:05:00.260 didn't get the responsibility that comes with it in the u.s um selective service is up to two hundred

00:05:04.840 thousand dollars per year but you know so so if they don't enlist basically like if if war breaks out and

00:05:09.900 they don't um sign up for the service basically they get fined two hundred thousand dollars but

00:05:14.880 you know why women should still have a say because the same way that men are the ones that go to war 0.93

00:05:18.860 that could get killed it's the same way that women are then going to be left behind without a father at 0.91

00:05:22.780 home or a husband at home so there's there's um effects of war on both sides that's why it shouldn't

00:05:28.740 just be men making decisions we're all part of this society so if democracy is about people we are all

00:05:33.680 people so that's why the vote makes sense so yeah well i just i just think i just think make it equal

00:05:38.340 feminists want equality then be equally drafted and go on the front lines but then women say oh 1.00

00:05:42.340 no i don't want to do that okay well then and it doesn't have to be about the vote all of feminism

00:05:46.800 is i want i want special treatment because you always hear the feminists talk about oh um equal pay even 1.00

00:05:53.360 though we get paid more in a lot of industries you never talk about equal pay and sex work

00:05:57.340 why are women strippers paid more oh no let's go march but nobody cares and this is why i find feminism 0.99

00:06:03.380 to be completely contradicting because women will say things like i want to have equal pay i want to be 0.99

00:06:08.120 making this amount of money as men and then the minute they find men that's making less money

00:06:12.600 than them he's a simp or he's soft yeah it's very contradicting a lot of the times you guys want 0.96

00:06:20.060 equal pay you guys want equal sexual liberation and so on so forth women that talk about equal pay are lazy 1.00

00:06:25.980 lazy it's usually they just i i cannot stand women that complain about getting paid equal because i've 1.00

00:06:33.840 worked in so many industries that are begging women to work there but their hard jobs and women 0.99

00:06:38.300 don't want to work they're used to work in sales they wanted female salesmen but then the women 1.00

00:06:42.580 we get the job and they would quit it's just like what are you my highest paid employee in all my

00:06:46.940 companies is a woman straight up and it's by a landslide just just christmas bonus alone was 30 grand

00:06:53.580 on top of her salary and all of her health benefits her gym membership her car everything and her travel

00:06:59.480 in the vacations i send her on do you know what can i say something that is really cute about

00:07:03.300 feminists i think that feminists are just little girls that manage to do something and they're so 1.00

00:07:07.740 excited and they just want people to say yay you well done no but no i think that's what she produces

00:07:14.040 the most i know i know but i'm talking about feminists because i realize that sometimes i'm looking at 1.00

00:07:18.600 these girls and say oh yeah what we call rights we want this we want that and realistically no you just 1.00

00:07:22.420 want the man to be able to say to you oh you're a g as well well done and it's actually quite annoying

00:07:26.920 because you don't need that validation you know what i mean because for me i don't that's you

00:07:31.300 no i know and that's why i'm saying i don't like feminism but my thing is most of the feminists that 1.00

00:07:36.160 i've met are actually men so i'm just a bit like yeah because it's a mating strategy and

00:07:40.280 trans women and men so of course they are those are the simps the the ones that go and placate to 1.00

00:07:45.960 women and act like they want to be a male feminist those are the simps they hate guys like us they 1.00

00:07:51.300 hate it so what's a guy like it's white knight shit a guy that lives by truth and just calls it how it is 1.00

00:07:56.600 and guess what you know what that creates that creates respect and your respect means with a 1.00

00:08:00.360 man and a woman love you can't respect a man that you know is full of shit you can't what are you 1.00

00:08:05.860 talking you said this wanting validation for men for being equal you just wanted him to validate you 1.00

00:08:11.220 for being able to fix a car no listen what i you keep talking about yourself do you know why you get

00:08:17.580 no do you know why you're getting confused because you've already immediately labeled me to be a

00:08:21.060 feminist i'm standing against it's not about feminism you said that feminism is wanting to get 1.00

00:08:25.120 validation for men for being equal let me clarify you got mad at him for not being able to fix a

00:08:28.740 car and we just all gave you put money up to go fix a car students like you let me explain why

00:08:32.940 why you're actually just looking for an argument because i'm saying it's not an argument i'm just

00:08:36.760 trying to see the double standard what you're saying feminists are actually a bit confused and 1.00

00:08:40.840 they're screaming for so many things when in reality what they're actually looking for is just yay

00:08:44.920 well done that's it because women can now go and do certain things newsflash men go to work all day

00:08:49.980 every day and nobody thinks them exactly and it's a thankless world and that's what i'm saying

00:08:54.600 having a movement for it is quite pointless say well done to yourself and it's okay so i'm actually

00:08:59.680 against feminism because it actually hinders me i get called that all the time and it's so annoying 1.00

00:09:03.680 completely agree with you i'm not because i'm already so why did you why do we all put up money

00:09:08.700 to go fix a car if you're not exactly what you just described okay and let me tell you why i am not

00:09:14.280 a feminist in that essence because that's what i want i want just somebody to say to me oh by the 0.98

00:09:19.220 way i'm not if i tell you that i can fix the car oh yeah cool that's good well done to you because

00:09:23.980 i got skills validation so basically what you're seeking validation she's exactly what she's

00:09:29.880 describing right now i'm explaining to you the difference between what they say they want what

00:09:34.840 they actually really want that's it because so what do you want well i just want to be able to

00:09:39.620 be somewhere do something somebody say yeah that's really good well done so basically

00:09:42.860 i'm saying i'm belittling the fact that feminists will stand there say equal rights we want all of 0.99

00:09:54.440 this when in reality you're just a sweet little girl that just wants to be like well done but

00:09:57.980 they're and yet without all of those movements you wouldn't be here 50 years ago yeah 50 years ago

00:10:06.000 like without those women actually taking the logic upon themselves you know using that logic whether 1.00

00:10:12.780 it was to do what meant what was the example that you gave when they were terrorists men have been

00:10:18.480 known terrorists for a very long time we're talking back to the 70s but what outcomes has that given

00:10:24.880 for women has that given us good outcomes are we happier no or do we have more children no

00:10:30.340 are we on are we're on and we're on antidepressants more than ever before yes is this because we're

00:10:37.120 more sexually promiscuous than ever before we're in less relationships than ever before more of us

00:10:42.460 are childless over 30 than ever before what outcomes has happened that it's that are good we can point

00:10:47.700 to individual things and say yes we're on a podcast that's fun but in society as as a whole

00:10:53.960 what what good has it done it got me to meet you

00:10:57.860 but also the other the other issue with it is at what point you're talking about yeah 50 years ago

00:11:07.280 and that's how you've got to this point and everything like that there's a sort of but

00:11:10.100 there i believe there is an even playing field now in in certainly in the uk i think in the united

00:11:14.440 states as well canada all these anglosphere countries right i don't believe that women are now held 0.99

00:11:18.860 back in any material way okay in terms of the job market in terms of opportunities being an

00:11:23.580 entrepreneur etc etc so at what point at what point no absolutely but but absolutely but at what

00:11:30.060 point do we say okay right now the conversation is closed because now i would go even further and

00:11:36.280 say that women have more freedom than men yeah yeah yeah and that's the and that's where it becomes 0.99

00:11:42.320 destructive because it seems now that the the the power balance has shifted more into the feminine 0.89

00:11:48.920 and then guys are actually being disadvantaged now i do think that's the that's the problem of

00:11:53.040 modern day feminism i think that um everyone wants women empowerment and i'm for women empowerment 1.00

00:11:58.660 but we can't pick and choose when we want feminism to take place say for example like we want a man to 1.00

00:12:06.940 provide for us and care for us and some people might want to be a housewife but then also you want the 1.00

00:12:13.280 the other side of it and you want to take control in the relationship or vice versa yeah but she doesn't 1.00

00:12:19.600 really want that like it's not actually equal because it's like who say for example certain areas of

00:12:25.720 work like a bin man very few women want to be a bin man they will say it's a man i would say zero 0.99

00:12:31.560 yeah they would say it's a man to check the applications but then if you want to look at

00:12:35.660 feminism you guys want equality but when it comes to certain jobs you don't want to do them

00:12:39.420 when it comes to certain certain instances you don't want to be involved in them so

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JustPearlyThings - August 31, 2023

Sneako DESRTOYES This DERAILED Feminists

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