JustPearlyThings - December 28, 2022


Social Media Amplifies EVERYTHING!!!

Topics
agreeableness as a game
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Lambo Andrew Roman
Andrew Tate Educates This Feminists Brittany Renner's Ideal Man

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

243.0

Word count

1,947

Sentence count

156

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

sentences flagged

Toxicity

9

sentences flagged

Hate speech

3

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with a good friend of mine and discuss the importance of being a man in today's society. We talk about how important it is to be a man, how to deal with online haters, and how to balance being a woman and a man.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And it is interesting. And it's also back to the masculine and feminine, right? Because I'm all over the Internet and supposedly I'm misogynist and I'm evil and all this crap, right? But if I meet a girl, even if she disagrees with me, in fact, I'll say this. I've never, ever met a single female who's ever come up to me and disagreed with me. Every woman comes up to me and loves what I says. But let's imagine I met this imaginary girl. She was sitting with me. And if I were to have a 10 minute conversation with her, by the time I explained the level to which they tried to destroy me, how they tried to freeze all my bank accounts, raise illegal charges against me, put me in jail for things I didn't do, put a travel ban, take my
00:00:29.940 passport, all this garbage. By the time I explain how hard they tried to hurt me and failed, she'll want me because she'll be like, you can't kill this guy. And that's going to be it. You say a bunch of shit I don't like, but you know what? You're the man. So it is about experience and it is different. And that's a really good point about social media. Social media amplifies all of this shit. It amplifies all these problems. Everything we're discussing, everything we've discussed back to the beginning from status to promiscuity to your past, it's all social media. Without social media,
00:00:59.720 a lot of it goes away.
00:01:00.940 And I think that's why me and my man last so long is that he doesn't do social media and there's nothing on there about me.
00:01:06.980 I feel like to answer your question too, because I have had people say that as a solution and it's like, you can run, but you cannot hide from the truth. And I have shared why my voice has been so impactful and will continue to be impactful is because I have put myself out there and I have been punished for being honest.
00:01:25.660 So it's like, I have been given a platform, given a platform and a voice for a reason, even sitting down in this conversation thinking there's not one person I'm probably going to agree with and probably going to want to leave.
00:01:35.960 I have been called here for a reason. So it's like, I can't go against what is in my heart and what I am coded to be. And that's why I feel like it's important for me to sit here and represent people who feel like me, because it's like, I didn't, I don't want to say I didn't, I don't even want to say that.
00:01:52.960 Um, I just feel like I don't see a lot of women under my umbrella who feel the way that I feel. I don't see opinions shared that I, that would be worded the way that I feel nothing.
00:02:02.560 I feel like a lot of my thoughts are very unique and it's, it's kind of scary because I have been through different things. I see the world in a different place. And when I even speak online, people think I'm fucking speaking Swahili.
00:02:13.560 Yeah. So it's like, and I know, I know, and I know exactly what you're saying and you're making good points. And it's just, I think that regardless of whether like we're talking about different positions, I compare everything to chess. 0.96
00:02:23.860 I know it's annoying. We're looking at different positions on the chessboard, but the rules are still the same, right? No matter how bad your position is or how good your position is, you're still trying to achieve the same objectives.
00:02:31.660 And, and you want, you want the man to get high status and you want the man to feel secure in himself. And I think it's, it's very difficult. I can only talk from the male perspective because I am a man. It is very difficult.
00:02:41.380 If I were to meet a woman who I liked very much, but she had X, whatever, pass, whatever, whatever, my concerns would be, how do I know that I'm still the number one? How do I know I'm most important in her life? Especially if I don't measure up in certain key metrics.
00:02:52.920 And two, the second thing that's most scary for men is we understand that men are constantly after what we have. Like your inboxes are all full. Like they may not be with guys you want to reply to, but guys are still trying to get it. That's the male life. The male life is people are trying to take everything from me.
00:03:09.180 And, and that's very scary. And you have to make your man really believe like that's impossible. If a man truly believes that nobody can take you from him, he's going to love you in a different way.
00:03:18.180 It, it, you can give me, you can give me two carbon copies of the same chick, but one, I think might cheat in the right circumstances. And one, I know no matter what would never leave me.
00:03:28.460 The love I'll feel for this one is a different planet to the love I feel for this one, even though the same person, right?
00:03:35.060 Because that's every man's biggest fear is a woman cheating or leaving because there's something visceral and something different about it.
00:03:41.240 I know I talk things and I say men can do things and women can't and all this stuff, but they're like, if a woman cheats on a man, that hurts the man at a level that it doesn't hurt the woman.
00:03:50.420 I don't know if the man cheats on her. It's different. It's, it's different biologically. It's different. It's different evolutionarily. Like that's what men used to fight and die over. You talk to my chick, you look at my chick.
00:04:00.420 It's like you cut his dick off. 1.00
00:04:01.420 Yeah. It's like you did masculinize him on every level. Like, and this is why you see these tick tocks, right? You see these tick tocks. Me and my man went on a break, got back together. He fucked 20 girls. And now he's crying. Cause I went on a date. Yes. Completely. Yes. Because the damage level is different. It's just a different thing. So you have to understand the paradigms. You have to understand to play the game. And that's how you make men happy. And I know very well how I like to believe that. I know I would know very well how to make a woman happy. 1.00
00:04:29.420 And, and I know, and whether I do that or not, it's a conscious decision. And that's where you get to a certain level of grand mastery where I, if I get a woman, I will literally decide out of 10, how happy do I want her? Do I want, does she deserve to be happy 10? Or should I keep her like crying half the time that it's very conscious and women don't think that way. But I'm saying, if you're a smart, if you're a cutting woman, you can be like that. You could be a bit more like, you know what? I want him infatuated with me. This guy ain't worth the time that guy I want. And then when you're going to do that, just like the game of chess, if you play chess, it's not just like the game of chess. 0.89
00:04:59.400 It's not big moves that make you lose. It's small positional plays. It's that time you argued about your favorite car. It's the time you disagreed with him about the favorite band. It's the dumb shit that adds up. Whereas really truthfully, if you're truly smart about the game, you can get him to a point after a few months where he's like, she's my soulmate.
00:05:17.180 She loves everything I love. We think the same. Our hearts are connected. Boom. And then you're safe. Just don't fuck it up from there.
00:05:24.400 But I just feel like it's so contradicting to feel like what your overall message is, which is about truth.
00:05:30.060 So it's like if if my truth, like if it can be destroyed by the truth, it should be destroyed by the truth.
00:05:34.840 So that's what I'm trying to figure out. Like what it's it's really mind boggling to me because I feel like how could you even be mentally, emotionally, sexually stimulated by a woman who is just agreeable? 0.98
00:05:46.140 And, you know, it just doesn't have her. Oh, my. I just don't see that is exactly that is exactly that is exactly what every man wants.
00:05:56.760 We don't want you to be complete robots. We're not saying we can't have a joke with you. We can't say we can't have a laugh with you.
00:06:02.400 We're not saying you can't have a personality. But when it comes to things like agreement, there is not a single man in the world who's going to say she's too agreeable.
00:06:09.440 She just agrees with me on it. She agrees with me on all the important things in my life. She's too agreeable.
00:06:13.640 I want someone else. Fuck no. You're completely and utterly wrong on that point. It's a huge point. 1.00
00:06:18.880 This idea that I understand if you're a complete doormat and you set no standards, men might walk all over you.
00:06:23.720 I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about agreeability and agreeableness as a whole.
00:06:27.620 Men love the idea of an agreeable woman because it gives status and it makes the man feel like he's a teacher and makes the man feel in charge and it satisfies his ego.
00:06:35.480 And to you, they may be small, little, tiny points, but to him, they're a big deal.
00:06:38.600 If I were to sit, I'm telling you right now, if I were to sit with one of my chicks or whatever or my chick and I'd just sit in the Lambo and say, 0.78
00:06:46.200 Lambo is the best car of all of them. I prefer the Lambo.
00:06:47.960 She goes, I don't like that one. I'm like, listen, I bought them all and I fucking said this is the best one. 0.97
00:06:51.440 Shut up. It would annoy me because that's my reality. 0.99
00:06:55.100 I want her to become part of my reality. It's the thing.
00:06:58.040 And you talk about truth. It's interesting because the truth of your heart and the truth of your soul is to be happy.
00:07:03.520 That's truth. Truth is for you to end up happy. Now, if you have to sit there and agree on a, on a, especially on a subject you don't give a fuck about, right?
00:07:11.860 If it's something you care about and you are very knowledgeable about, if it's ancient Roman history and you have a degree in ancient Rome, then fine. 0.97
00:07:18.080 Argue the point. But if it's cars or something you don't even give a shit about, what, yeah, you're missing the chance to get points on the scoreboard, easy free throw. 0.94
00:07:29.100 And you're just fucking it up going, oh, no, no, no. Why? What? The truth is just, just play the game and win. 0.99
00:07:35.900 That's the truth.
00:07:36.580 Andrew could be the best female dating coach. 0.99
00:07:38.240 I'll just, I'll just learn a couple of words. Like how many talks, horsepower, just throw some words in.
00:07:43.180 How much horsepower has it got?
00:07:44.580 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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