JustPearlyThings - Society GETS Blamed For Doing This

00:00:00.000 that wouldn't be not a good father we also have the choice to get an abortion we also have the 1.00

00:00:04.860 choice to put a man on child support we also have the choice to get married and leave and then take

00:00:09.720 half and we also get more child support if we take away the kids from the dad so we're financially

00:00:16.000 incentivized to take away the children so they have all of the we have all of this choice and

00:00:22.240 the men have condom or no condom so it's like if we have 10 choices that's a pre-pregnancy choice 0.75

00:00:27.440 that the man has post-pregnancy choice it would depend a lot a lot of the things yeah of course

00:00:31.820 we have that choice but divorce doesn't just get you don't just automatically get half based on

00:00:36.780 absolutely nothing like if you're a woman that's like worked and earned certain amount of money 1.00

00:00:40.240 it does come down to yeah and there's there's a small percentage of women but women don't typically 1.00

00:00:45.920 make more than men that we we make less and we spend more and there's also um i just learned about this

00:00:51.380 the other day there's um lawsuits going on in the u.s where they overestimate how much it costs

00:00:57.160 to raise a child basically just so they can get more child support in court so they'll say like

00:01:03.500 it costs this much to raise a child even though like for example let's do kanye west and kim

00:01:07.940 kardashian like why does that girl and and she out earns him and he's a billionaire and he still

00:01:13.380 has to pay how much in child support 200 000 yeah 200k a month and that's a billionaire woman so what 1.00

00:01:18.780 happens to the average man if if a multi-millionaire that married a billionaire can't escape child

00:01:24.720 support so you believe that a man shouldn't have any say in an abortion or should based on the fact

00:01:30.400 that you acknowledge that women have all the responsibility no i'm saying like we're more

00:01:34.820 responsible for an unplanned pregnancy like it's more of our fault and we actually avoid the responsibility

00:01:41.120 after because we can we make the men pay for our poor choices so you think that they should have 0.98

00:01:46.320 more say in abortions or not um i think that abortion if it was up to me it would be illegal

00:01:51.240 yeah so um i don't think anyone should have a say but if it was to be that what would be your

00:01:57.060 like if if that if abortions were not illegal and you were on the side of uh pro-choice pro-choice you

00:02:04.740 would think that it would have to be a signature from the man and the woman for unable to enable the 0.53

00:02:09.920 actual like surgical or procedure to continue based on the facts um but see that's hard because i

00:02:19.280 wouldn't even i wouldn't be pro-choice to begin with so why is the question like relevant why because

00:02:26.020 you're pro-choice that's what i was asking yeah um but if if you're pro-life like you don't believe

00:02:31.180 in abortion to begin with so you wouldn't even get there so it's not about the masculine and femininist

00:02:35.840 purely based on it's just like like feminists fought for equality here it is well guys guys

00:02:41.800 that are pro-life right so when i got pregnant twice i was actually on um anti-contraception

00:02:47.660 um how would you how would you react to that like obviously what i i was um i was on pills okay yeah

00:02:54.940 and i was taking them regularly and both of the times i even changed my pills just to make sure you

00:03:00.200 know it's a different one and and both of the times i actually got pregnant so it's it's kind

00:03:06.700 of difficult like when you actually don't watch after the first time um what do you mean after

00:03:11.140 the first like pregnancy you didn't switch birth control i did i did that's why i said i tried

00:03:14.800 different ones yeah and then the the other one yeah it's a different one and it still didn't work

00:03:19.880 and i looked specifically just to check like i made sure that i took one i even had an alarm set you

00:03:25.460 know and it is what would you say to them i'm curious why didn't you get an iud that's like

00:03:30.180 that's the most effective one what's that um what the coil i don't know oh is that what you guys call

00:03:36.380 it here the coil i had a coil um but it went um it got stuck um under i couldn't breathe i had to

00:03:43.540 they didn't even know that it um it was that it was stuck under it was attached to one of the womb

00:03:50.720 tissues or something it was so painful and i kept saying like something's wrong and they were like

00:03:55.460 no nothing's wrong you ain't had children so it's it's not that you know and i had to actually go

00:04:00.320 privately pay for x-rays and then they told me no it's that and they had to get it out i mean i just

00:04:05.100 think um you also only ovulate three days a month so i think you can track your ovulation um i think

00:04:10.860 you can wear condoms and i think you can not have sex yeah that's another thing but yeah and i just 0.87

00:04:17.320 think like i'm just a big fan of like you kind of made your bed lie in it and at some point like

00:04:23.480 something went wrong yeah um but you you can't see it i can i go in i don't see it from the same

00:04:30.260 perspective as you know i know a lot of people that's like you know just trying to justify you

00:04:35.920 know i was on the pill and all this um simple biology sex creates children can't not always but

00:04:46.020 it's it's cause and effect and i just think with and i get it i say this as a as someone who who got

00:04:53.300 pregnant and had a child at 22 that typical age um and um yeah it's like it's it's we've lost

00:05:01.860 we've lost that in society it's like it's my right to have sex with who i want and um not have any

00:05:08.940 consequences and and i and i find it hard to say that word consequent because i i was i was silly

00:05:16.400 i made a mistake but i've been blessed with a child and i've got a beautiful daughter so i i don't see

00:05:22.080 it as oh that was my punishment or that was my you know for for for being careless um but it's just i

00:05:29.940 think we just need to get back to the place of society as just looking at what sex is and you know

00:05:35.920 if you don't want to have a child then maybe sex should be like you know if if you're not ready 0.83

00:05:42.960 to have a child then you know sex is also pleasure and having recreation recreation so it's both it's

00:05:49.880 two things yeah it's not just one yeah and but what's well if you can have a child then surely you

00:05:54.920 want to ensure that the person you're having sex with is someone that you would be happy to have and

00:05:59.840 raise a child with because because the opposite to that is what we're left with today right i think

00:06:04.560 that's more of a we need to be able to kill that that's definitely a female perspective because 1.00

00:06:08.620 a guy is not going to just have sex with a woman who he's hoping to have a baby with he's just going

00:06:13.120 to have sex with a woman because yeah yeah as i got like i i just think like you can wear condoms 0.67

00:06:18.980 like if you're on okay if i'll give it to you if you have condoms and birth control and you tracked

00:06:27.060 your cycle i will give you that l oh but it's like if you didn't do all three things like you're

00:06:32.260 responsible at some point

00:06:34.560 oh no i think she was trying to say um

00:06:37.200 because you said it was for you said it was for pleasure and i'm saying if you want to have sex 0.95

00:06:43.240 for pleasure fine um you can do that but like be careful and and i just think like if you didn't

00:06:50.660 do all three of those things like at some point you were irresponsible

00:06:53.700 yeah sexual energy as well guys that's a big one like you don't know about this okay

00:07:00.120 no because like yeah okay you can wear a condom and it'll protect you and and one way from stds or

00:07:06.240 creating life and whatever but no condom is going to protect you from transferring energy it's an

00:07:10.800 actual energy exchange ritual if it makes sense ah what were two people become one yeah yeah um i have

00:07:19.480 i have a question for you and you don't you don't have to answer this um the the two abortions was it

00:07:24.280 the same dad no there's they're two different people yeah um and what made you think you couldn't

00:07:30.180 have a kid with those guys um but like what she said it made me realize ruf said it just made me

00:07:36.540 realize um this was when i was younger by the way so i've grown up a lot from how old with each one so i was

00:07:44.300 17 on the first one and then i was um 23 on the next one um but yeah it just made me realize like

00:07:54.940 the the the second the first time like i actually like i was actually having fun right so that made

00:08:00.820 me calm down i was like i'm doing that so oh when you say having fun it was like a casual it was a

00:08:05.720 casual so it wasn't anyone you're serious with no so okay so then you thought i can't have a kid

00:08:10.760 right yeah but but that made me realize right the media is it's those they kind of project that

00:08:16.100 onto people that the original family is like the perfect picture right but but it's not true i've

00:08:20.420 seen fathers who are not biological and and they have the most amazing beautiful families right so

00:08:26.520 um do you think he would have like stuck around or no uh no no okay oh we've spoken about that yeah

00:08:33.140 and he he said if you have this i won't be yeah yeah yeah was he angry at you at all

00:08:39.740 um i guess yeah there was some sort of like you know pull back pull pulls and whatnot but

00:08:48.580 yeah i guess again i was quite immature uh mentally at that time and obviously the second time as well

00:08:54.880 it emotionally mentally i was quite immature as well i looked at things differently and then it made me

00:09:01.080 realize okay next time i have sex i need to be aware like do i want to have a baby with this person

00:09:06.680 do i want to marry this person do i want to you know just all these things sort of come up and i

00:09:11.260 was like i really need to think about those decisions and and yeah and what about the second

00:09:16.760 guy were you with him or no um yeah the second guy yeah so what made you not want to because it seemed

00:09:23.220 like he did he love you or like he was in a relationship with you so the the so we were actually

00:09:29.300 together before and then we ended up coming back and then yeah so i wasn't actually with him but

00:09:34.680 we ended up coming back and you dated him before yeah and i was it was like my longest relationship

00:09:39.440 was he was he a good guy no oh okay no no no he wouldn't have stuck around no he was no okay yeah

00:09:48.500 um so you did the same thing yeah did the same thing twice yeah okay exactly so you kind of grow up

00:09:55.560 from it you sort of learn the lesson and like i've been celibate for so long now right because i look

00:09:59.680 at things so differently now when it comes to sex and it's not just the baby but it's the sexual

00:10:04.040 energy is everything is sex is really really sacred people think it's fun but it's how long

00:10:10.100 have you been celibate for um if you want it you don't have to answer this if you don't want to

00:10:14.120 um well it's it could have been a year but it's now five months but it could have been a year so i had

00:10:21.680 a little bleep but yeah okay okay yeah um and then oh you also had an abortion yeah can i ask you about

00:10:31.600 it is it okay um what made you think you couldn't have a kid with that guy oh there were a few

00:10:37.680 factors actually so um number one was the guy that i was with at the time was more much it was much

00:10:45.520 an older guy how old oh gosh that's 26 27 okay that's yeah you were 19 yeah that's not so bad okay

00:10:57.000 um or if yeah if my mom was yeah yeah 26 27 or close yeah maybe about close to 30 30 anyway but he was

00:11:05.200 much more older than me um and i remember when we discussed the whole i'm pregnant thing we stepped

00:11:15.720 out of the doctor's room and he said to me oh you've got your whole life ahead of you um you're too young

00:11:22.600 um um so that put me off um and then i had i had a late term abortion um so i was like 20 weeks

00:11:34.400 um i had left the country um because i was actually struggling with whether or not i'm making the right

00:11:42.740 choice um also it was um just how my peers would view me at the time and

00:11:52.440 um my family i have a very strong family unit and the way i was raised um i was raised from in a christian

00:12:01.960 home and um i just didn't want to disappoint my mom uh and i remember my my mom at the time she made a

00:12:12.760 statement and that really just was like a deal breaker for me i was just like oh if if you feel

00:12:22.200 saying it like that because she didn't know outrightly but i think just having a mother's

00:12:27.160 intuition she sort of she she knew there was something going on and once she said that i was

00:12:33.320 just like oh god i can't do this this is i've at the time i felt like i i wasn't hearing what i wanted

00:12:40.920 to hear which was who was going to support me how am i going to cope um and yeah i went ahead and

00:12:51.320 went for the abortion um did the guy like do you think he would have stayed if you kept it

00:12:59.240 i don't actually know you say actually know or you don't know no i don't i don't know i mean

00:13:05.160 i chose not to continue a relationship with him so after my experience so yeah um i'm just curious

00:13:14.440 if it was a different guy do you think he would have been more likely to keep it like to both of you

00:13:21.320 when you say a different guy i think if it was a different guy who had like a different

00:13:27.800 response i would have kept so if he had the response that like i'll be there you can keep it you

00:13:32.360 would have you would have kept it yeah i think so yeah okay and what about if it was a guy that you

00:13:36.520 were i should you could have could have seen yourself with long term maybe yeah like i shouldn't really

00:13:41.960 like it shouldn't really make a difference right but i guess yeah at the time yeah yeah yeah but like

00:13:46.920 i said i was quite immature back then even when i had the little bleep now it was actually someone

00:13:50.920 that i looked as to the future you know so it was a bit different but um yeah i probably would but

00:13:57.320 it shouldn't really come down to that as my point really no i think um that's what they say in like

00:14:03.880 red pill that abortion is um the ultimate like hypergamy where it's like women um want to be with 0.84

00:14:09.960 the like best long-term mate that they can so i'm not really surprised by that answer um can i comment i

00:14:17.080 think what it shows as well is that you know that we we call it pro-choice but that choice is never made

00:14:22.840 in a vacuum you know it was it was the pressures of those around the thoughts and the and the feelings

00:14:28.760 that are particularly the man and in laura's instance her mother as well and even i can say from

00:14:34.280 my experience and um when when i got pregnant and i told my family um yeah i mean i was very blessed that

00:14:44.440 my um dad said to me um yeah we're gonna be there for you we're gonna support you and i know that that

00:14:52.360 like helped me um and so i think it's it is a societal issue and i think this whole pro-choice

00:14:59.240 rhetoric rhetoric rhetoric it kind of puts everything on the woman when as a society you know abortion

00:15:06.600 impacts society and it is is there's so many pressures there's just so many pressures on the

00:15:13.000 woman and the woman's left to deal with a lot herself at that end where you know what of the dad that 1.00

00:15:19.080 wasn't there to support what of the friends and the family members that weren't there to support

00:15:23.160 we often hear uh women say you know if i just had one person that say you can do this or we'll be here 1.00

00:15:28.600 for you they might have made a different choice yeah um it's interesting the girls i know that have had

00:15:35.240 abortions um not i just met you guys so like but like i don't um i don't think it was like like both

00:15:44.360 of them came from like pretty wealthy families that could have helped them i just think it was more of

00:15:48.440 like life inconvenience to be fair um just at the time but yeah i think support for those women is

00:15:57.720 helpful it's not even just money though is it it's emotional support it's just that well because people

00:16:02.360 can be rich and and could potentially support but are they you know these rich families can still say

00:16:09.480 you know it's gonna look bad on our family or you know there's all those shame elements and um that

00:16:16.200 perfect though you touched on that perfect that dream for that perfect family that this is an

00:16:22.280 interruption from that and so i just think there's a lot of elements that come into it um i'm gonna read

00:16:29.480 super chats and then we'll watch the second video um guys um thank you for this is the most calm um

00:16:37.480 ever show i've ever had on abortion i was yeah you guys are great um okay i'm gonna read the super chats

00:16:45.240 in one second like the video guys that's the most important metric that youtube uses um to to um push

00:16:53.400 out these streams okay um are these women dating with intention now um 90 frito pie please ask the

00:17:00.920 panel are you okay with women um aborting babies of a certain race um no more names available one um 0.99

00:17:07.800 ex-girlfriend got an abortion and i didn't want and i didn't want to i supported her and i saw it in the

00:17:13.400 bath and at water and was never the same she didn't care cannot see a kid today and not think about it

00:17:19.000 ryan ebwark um and women wonder why men are walking away 90 frito pie i'm pearl youtube censors hard

00:17:25.560 i can't write anything close to abortion without adding numbers and symbols is there any other way

00:17:30.520 i don't know um numbers guide zero child support and alimony is the state ensuring that the child 0.86

00:17:35.800 and woman doesn't become a finite financial burden to the state sal the investor if it was a thousand 1.00

00:17:41.640 men in the trial run 124 died um 59 developed testicular cancer oh it was a thousand men in

00:17:49.880 the trial run 120 this is about the male birth control i knew someone in the chat would tell me

00:17:55.560 um it was a thousand men in the trial run 124 died 59 developed testicular cancer and a hundred percent

00:18:03.080 sterilization programs have been cut by drug makers best contraception is abstinence no bills no

00:18:09.080 pills and i got money on both sides um the savvy ninja it's easier to control one egg versus millions

00:18:14.840 of soldiers on mo blitz pearl i'm the guy who's been a part of one or two abortions but honestly

00:18:20.360 something dies inside of you when you do it you become desensitized to be able to go through the

00:18:25.080 trauma of watching your child be diced up um vinnie falico she chose i had no say but i lost the child too

00:18:33.000 numbers guy zero i'm pro um personal sovereignty but the outcome stats for abortions are definitely worth

00:18:38.760 examining black people are 14 of the u.s population yet 40 of all abortions um at a rate of 400 aborts

00:18:46.120 per a thousand live births yeah that's um see we're in the uk so i wasn't going to go too much into that

00:18:52.360 but it's actually really messed up when you look at like the history of that stuff in the u.s um the

00:18:58.200 forest hearing the answers really proved to me that margaret singer won she has more eugenics and 1.00

00:19:04.040 empowerment issue and look where we are now the black population will be doubled in the united 1.00

00:19:08.360 states without this human scourge on the world god save our souls gary grant um there is pro-life

00:19:15.000 and pro-death this pro-choice thing is a farce um t is the only term to ease the guilt of murder

00:19:22.760 top brass 88 women in the madras shirt i wonder how you feel about ivf and the process where abortion may

00:19:30.280 be necessary to help maintain the health of the uterus if a pregnancy were to sinew um we can come as many 0.98

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JustPearlyThings - February 08, 2023

Society GETS Blamed For Doing This

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