In this episode, we talk about what a man should and shouldn t do when it comes to household chores and household chores. We also talk about the role of a woman in the home and how she should balance her role with her man's.
00:00:00.000I do have a question for the ladies. Derek said something in his first video about the realistic qualities that a man wants for a woman. And he was talking about, oh, we want our, or unrealistic, sorry, we want our woman to cook, clean, and then have sex with us and then cook us dinner.
00:00:24.500If a man was paying everything for you, and all he asked for you was to cook, clean, make sure everything's straightened at the house, take care of the kids, and then pleasure him, would you think that's an unrealistic ask of him to do?
00:00:50.600What if he wasn't paying all the bills? Do you still think that that's okay?
00:00:59.700If it's like, so obviously we're doing like half and half bills or whatever, or he's paying some, I'm paying some.
00:01:06.720I feel like, hmm, with that I think there should be more roles for the both of us then, like more equal roles.
00:01:18.340If we're both making that, if we're both paying bills, or it's like even, even 50-50, whatever, I think we should both be taking on more roles.
00:01:28.980I would try to balance it more, I guess you could say.
00:01:33.060I would say it depends on the type of, like, one, who's ever home more, but the type of job that the woman may have.
00:01:46.920Because I feel like nowadays a lot of people can work from home, but I see that more men still go into work.
00:01:56.540So if the wife is working from home, she can do the job and still do X, Y, Z, and then still be ready for her man when she come home.
00:02:08.580Don't you think that men do things like fixing stuff around the house?
00:02:13.760And like they're expected to like fix things, mow the lawn.
00:04:34.760And I think that's very undervalued by women.
00:04:38.400That's a very, bro, like being a man is a dangerous role in life.
00:04:43.040Like for instance, yeah, you can be outside with a girl who's good looking, right?
00:04:48.180You go to certain venues and everybody knows London is quite dangerous these days, yeah?
00:04:52.380Bro, like you could go to certain venues and guys could be angry at you because you've got a good looking girl and want to try you.
00:04:58.820And potentially want to delete you, bruv.
00:05:01.160So I think that girls don't really, women just don't really think about that.
00:05:06.100But you lot are cognitive of the fact that when you're on your own and when you're out there in the world, it's dangerous and stuff like that.
00:05:11.640But when you've actually got a man there that you can rely on, that is there for you, that you can, you know, he's going to be your 999.
00:05:18.860Bro, like I think women need to understand that and respect that and show more respect to their men for the fact that usually a man will be more willing to risk his life for his woman.
00:07:29.080And at the end of the day, like, with me rising to the occasion, bruh, I was putting myself in a dangerous situation because there wasn't just one guy.
00:07:37.920And I don't think women really, because you lot don't live that life, you don't think about it, bruh.
00:07:45.040Do you think that there's always a situation that a man has to protect a woman or there's some situation to where, like, it can just be not pushed aside, but you can walk away from the situation?
00:07:59.080Yeah, there's situations that you can walk away from, but really and truly, like, this world is dangerous, isn't it?
00:08:04.740So you have to be aware that that element, that risk is always there.
00:08:23.680Because if you guys get attacked, like, you're cooked.
00:08:26.700But if we get attacked, like, at least another man would probably protect us.
00:08:30.500Yeah, if I was getting beaten up, people would watch if I was getting beaten up.
00:08:34.300Yeah, but, like, if I got beat up, like, even when I was, when I had that girl, like, try to attack me in shortage, like, guys were, like, if she did anything, like, guys were the first ones to come.
00:10:12.560So if it comes down to the war and who's going to have to fight, if we have to pick out of me and you, you're going to have to be the one that's going to have to fight for us.
00:10:24.360But all I'm saying is that because the initial point we were talking about is that, oh, if you're going 50-50 monetary wise, does it make you like basically 50-50 the whole way through?