JustPearlyThings - April 13, 2023


Society Has Made Women LAZY


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11 minutes

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2,226

Sentence count

183

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Misogyny

20

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9

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In this episode, we talk about what a man should and shouldn t do when it comes to household chores and household chores. We also talk about the role of a woman in the home and how she should balance her role with her man's.

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00:00:00.000 I do have a question for the ladies. Derek said something in his first video about the realistic qualities that a man wants for a woman. And he was talking about, oh, we want our, or unrealistic, sorry, we want our woman to cook, clean, and then have sex with us and then cook us dinner. 0.96
00:00:24.500 If a man was paying everything for you, and all he asked for you was to cook, clean, make sure everything's straightened at the house, take care of the kids, and then pleasure him, would you think that's an unrealistic ask of him to do?
00:00:42.680 No.
00:00:43.500 No.
00:00:43.960 No.
00:00:44.780 I don't think so either.
00:00:46.400 Okay.
00:00:46.940 That's a very healthy man-woman relationship.
00:00:50.000 That's it.
00:00:50.600 What if he wasn't paying all the bills? Do you still think that that's okay?
00:00:59.700 If it's like, so obviously we're doing like half and half bills or whatever, or he's paying some, I'm paying some.
00:01:06.720 I feel like, hmm, with that I think there should be more roles for the both of us then, like more equal roles.
00:01:18.340 If we're both making that, if we're both paying bills, or it's like even, even 50-50, whatever, I think we should both be taking on more roles.
00:01:28.980 I would try to balance it more, I guess you could say.
00:01:33.060 I would say it depends on the type of, like, one, who's ever home more, but the type of job that the woman may have. 1.00
00:01:46.920 Because I feel like nowadays a lot of people can work from home, but I see that more men still go into work.
00:01:56.540 So if the wife is working from home, she can do the job and still do X, Y, Z, and then still be ready for her man when she come home. 1.00
00:02:08.580 Don't you think that men do things like fixing stuff around the house? 1.00
00:02:13.760 And like they're expected to like fix things, mow the lawn.
00:02:16.680 Yeah.
00:02:17.360 So then even if it's 50-50, shouldn't we still be expected to do those things?
00:02:21.280 Oh yeah, I think so.
00:02:24.640 I would.
00:02:25.340 But I don't want you to be looking, I don't want to be exhausted.
00:02:28.420 It has to kind of balance.
00:02:30.000 Like if I'm meeting you a bit halfway, I'm still, I'm still, because I'm a woman and that's just in me anyway.
00:02:35.700 Like I'm not going to stop being a homemaker.
00:02:37.960 Do you understand what I mean?
00:02:39.380 But obviously I'm not, I don't want to be doing all of it and I'm completely tired.
00:02:44.420 And there you can help me.
00:02:46.600 Do you understand?
00:02:47.280 Because then I'm going to feel like I'm being taken advantage of.
00:02:50.220 Do you think men would say the same thing for like, you know, fixing stuff around the house, mowing the lawn, yard work?
00:02:57.120 Maybe not.
00:02:58.060 Maybe not.
00:02:58.920 Maybe not.
00:03:00.100 Well, I think that's still like a balance.
00:03:02.120 Because if he's like mowing the lawn and doing work around the house, right?
00:03:05.800 So then she would be doing laundry, washing dishes and doing, you know, whatever else. 0.65
00:03:10.480 There's still that balance there.
00:03:12.780 Unless...
00:03:13.260 For real, I feel like...
00:03:14.280 They don't normally ask you to mow the lawn and do their jobs, you know?
00:03:17.280 Unless you want the rules reverse, you want to switch it up?
00:03:20.080 What does that mean?
00:03:20.860 I feel like our jobs are easier nowadays.
00:03:23.040 Do you think so?
00:03:23.600 Yeah, I mean, we got shit automated.
00:03:25.540 Dishwasher?
00:03:26.140 Yeah, dishwasher, laundry machine, like...
00:03:28.840 Dryer.
00:03:29.940 Rice cooker.
00:03:30.800 I would rather do that.
00:03:32.200 I hate mowing the lawn.
00:03:33.640 Actually, I'm not going to lie.
00:03:34.540 I've never mowed the lawn.
00:03:35.900 I like mowing the lawn.
00:03:38.060 I say one thing.
00:03:39.920 Mowing the lawn is fun.
00:03:41.060 They would fix the cars.
00:03:41.880 They would do the boy stuff.
00:03:43.260 Can I say one thing, though?
00:03:44.920 Yeah.
00:03:45.140 Something that's very underrated by women, but it's very important.
00:03:50.120 Protection.
00:03:51.640 Because at the end of the day, yeah, let's say me and you, we was in the house.
00:03:57.140 We've got kids.
00:03:58.140 Who's the protector?
00:03:58.980 Me or you?
00:04:00.340 Me.
00:04:01.480 That's a dangerous job.
00:04:03.180 That's a constant job.
00:04:04.840 That's a forever job.
00:04:05.940 If me and you are outside and somebody tries to violate, who's got to be the hero?
00:04:10.800 Me or you?
00:04:11.420 Me.
00:04:11.820 Who's going to risk their life in a dangerous situation?
00:04:14.540 Me.
00:04:15.180 So at the end of the day, listen, I agree with you.
00:04:18.740 If the bills are being like 50-50, then yeah, you're going to share some responsibilities.
00:04:23.400 But at the end of the day, the life or death situation is always going to boil down to the man.
00:04:29.680 Even if the man is five foot two, it's still going to boil down to the man, bruv.
00:04:34.300 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:04:34.760 And I think that's very undervalued by women. 1.00
00:04:38.400 That's a very, bro, like being a man is a dangerous role in life.
00:04:43.040 Like for instance, yeah, you can be outside with a girl who's good looking, right?
00:04:48.180 You go to certain venues and everybody knows London is quite dangerous these days, yeah?
00:04:52.380 Bro, like you could go to certain venues and guys could be angry at you because you've got a good looking girl and want to try you.
00:04:58.820 And potentially want to delete you, bruv.
00:05:01.160 So I think that girls don't really, women just don't really think about that. 1.00
00:05:06.100 But you lot are cognitive of the fact that when you're on your own and when you're out there in the world, it's dangerous and stuff like that.
00:05:11.640 But when you've actually got a man there that you can rely on, that is there for you, that you can, you know, he's going to be your 999.
00:05:18.860 Bro, like I think women need to understand that and respect that and show more respect to their men for the fact that usually a man will be more willing to risk his life for his woman.
00:05:29.980 You know what I'm saying?
00:05:30.520 Women don't, women, how many women have laid down their lives for their man? 1.00
00:05:34.280 It don't exist.
00:05:35.040 You're saying that women can't really equate to that commitment.
00:05:39.620 Women don't do it. 1.00
00:05:41.080 That's what I'm saying.
00:05:41.800 Women don't do it. 1.00
00:05:43.420 You know what I'm saying?
00:05:44.320 And I think that's very undervalued and not even represented.
00:05:48.040 All women really talk about these days is, ah, I want a man that makes sense figures every year. 1.00
00:05:52.040 That's all we hear.
00:05:53.700 But, bruv, is that what it really boils down to, bruv?
00:05:57.800 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:05:58.520 Like, bruv, when you're walking down the road with your man, you're clutching his arm.
00:06:02.260 Bro, like, who's he clutching?
00:06:05.120 Nobody, bruv.
00:06:05.760 He's got himself.
00:06:07.260 Really, truly, if you're in the house with your man, there's a bump downstairs.
00:06:10.960 Who's going downstairs?
00:06:11.880 Man.
00:06:13.060 That's it, bruv.
00:06:13.760 Who usually dies in horror films first?
00:06:15.900 It's the man, bruv.
00:06:17.220 Everybody's trying their best to save the woman, bruv.
00:06:19.940 So what, are we second-class citizens?
00:06:21.900 Like, we're second-class humans.
00:06:23.340 This is what I'm saying.
00:06:24.180 So a lot of women just don't really rape men like that. 1.00
00:06:26.960 They don't really care.
00:06:28.140 Social protection be number one.
00:06:29.980 Be like, well, you're a bum, but you can protect me. 0.71
00:06:33.140 So I'll take you in.
00:06:34.680 Yeah.
00:06:34.920 What do you think?
00:06:39.860 No, because I always think about that because, like, that's never, ever talked about.
00:06:43.780 It's never talked.
00:06:44.240 And I think, what?
00:06:46.360 Like, I've had, there was one situation I remember.
00:06:49.500 Yeah, I was with this girl and we went to the club.
00:06:52.120 It was, like, I think it was my birthday and a couple of my friends went out.
00:06:54.880 And I remember some guys just, like, started.
00:06:58.160 They was just chatting rubbish, like, saying, oh, what's that girl doing with that waste, man? 0.96
00:07:02.860 I was just like, bruh.
00:07:03.940 Like, I had to rise up.
00:07:05.340 Like, there was nothing else I could do because she can't do nothing. 0.82
00:07:08.340 And she's looking at me like, yeah, you're Batman.
00:07:12.140 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:07:12.800 Like, you're Batman.
00:07:13.640 You're Superman.
00:07:14.280 You're Spider-Man.
00:07:14.920 You've got to do the business.
00:07:16.120 Like, do you get what I'm saying?
00:07:16.860 So I had to rise up.
00:07:18.240 Even though, like, at that point I was on my own.
00:07:20.600 My friends had gone.
00:07:21.340 I was on my own.
00:07:22.280 But I had to defend the situation because if I didn't, that would make us both victims.
00:07:28.380 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:07:29.080 And at the end of the day, like, with me rising to the occasion, bruh, I was putting myself in a dangerous situation because there wasn't just one guy.
00:07:37.920 And I don't think women really, because you lot don't live that life, you don't think about it, bruh. 1.00
00:07:43.540 You just don't.
00:07:45.040 Do you think that there's always a situation that a man has to protect a woman or there's some situation to where, like, it can just be not pushed aside, but you can walk away from the situation?
00:07:59.080 Yeah, there's situations that you can walk away from, but really and truly, like, this world is dangerous, isn't it?
00:08:04.740 So you have to be aware that that element, that risk is always there.
00:08:09.140 Always.
00:08:10.240 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:08:11.000 And again, what I'm saying is I think that a lot of women just do not think about it because it's just not in your bubble. 0.97
00:08:16.500 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:08:16.980 But men, we are aware of it.
00:08:18.340 When we're walking down the street at 3 a.m., we are aware that, like, bruh, something could happen.
00:08:23.220 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:08:23.680 Because if you guys get attacked, like, you're cooked.
00:08:26.700 But if we get attacked, like, at least another man would probably protect us.
00:08:30.500 Yeah, if I was getting beaten up, people would watch if I was getting beaten up.
00:08:34.300 Yeah, but, like, if I got beat up, like, even when I was, when I had that girl, like, try to attack me in shortage, like, guys were, like, if she did anything, like, guys were the first ones to come.
00:08:44.900 None of them really knew me.
00:08:46.340 And that was a girl.
00:08:47.740 Yeah, and that was a girl. 0.99
00:08:48.480 Not to talk about if it was a guy.
00:08:50.000 Yeah.
00:08:50.100 You would get weighed in.
00:08:51.180 Yeah.
00:08:51.440 You'd be finished.
00:08:52.180 Yeah.
00:08:52.600 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:53.060 No one's, no one's, no one's coming to the, the, the, no, no one's really coming to the aid of guys, like.
00:08:59.200 And I'm not saying it like, oh, women need to look after guys. 0.88
00:09:02.440 I'm not saying that, but I'm just trying to make you lot understand.
00:09:05.360 I get what you're saying.
00:09:06.400 You'd be, like, men need to be protected at all costs, isn't it?
00:09:09.620 So you're supposed to provide.
00:09:11.280 Yeah, but they do.
00:09:11.920 Because if you're the protector and you need to be, that you need to be protected, is that's what you're basically saying?
00:09:16.840 No, I'm just saying that women need, I'm saying that women need to understand the role that men play and how important that is.
00:09:23.920 It's not just about the money.
00:09:24.980 Recognize and appreciate.
00:09:26.200 There you go.
00:09:26.620 He's saying that women don't seem to want to submit to a man unless he makes a certain amount of money.
00:09:31.440 But we don't appreciate the protection that he provides.
00:09:34.400 Because if there was, if there was a blackout tomorrow, I think every girl would be running to their friend zone and saying, please.
00:09:41.700 I agree.
00:09:42.340 Yeah.
00:09:43.180 But I'm not one of those women.
00:09:44.500 I'm not one of those women that think that women don't need a man. 0.56
00:09:48.080 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:49.660 I'm old school.
00:09:50.820 And I just feel like there's parts that we provide to them and they provide for us.
00:09:56.800 I agree.
00:09:57.520 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:58.080 Yeah.
00:09:58.600 I feel like women are just more delicate. 1.00
00:10:01.360 There's things that we need to be protected more.
00:10:04.000 It's even in wildlife.
00:10:05.220 Do you understand?
00:10:05.800 You protect the women and the kids.
00:10:07.600 Do you get me?
00:10:08.160 I'm more delicate.
00:10:09.840 I'm more softer than you.
00:10:11.020 I'm not as strong as you.
00:10:12.560 So if it comes down to the war and who's going to have to fight, if we have to pick out of me and you, you're going to have to be the one that's going to have to fight for us.
00:10:19.000 Isn't it?
00:10:19.320 That's how it goes.
00:10:20.520 Do you understand?
00:10:21.080 And then I protect the children.
00:10:22.980 After you, then it comes to me.
00:10:24.360 But all I'm saying is that because the initial point we were talking about is that, oh, if you're going 50-50 monetary wise, does it make you like basically 50-50 the whole way through?
00:10:38.000 It's not 50-50 the whole way through.
00:10:39.580 It's not.
00:10:40.160 It's not.
00:10:40.600 Because just as you said, if you go to war, who's going?
00:10:42.940 Me or you?
00:10:43.460 Me.
00:10:43.620 Do you think modern women are lazy? 1.00
00:10:48.420 Lazy in terms of what?
00:10:50.500 To do housework and stuff?
00:10:52.240 They don't want to do it.
00:10:53.760 Yeah, because that's the thing.
00:10:54.460 We have more automation than we've ever had.
00:10:56.440 But I hear more complaints about doing it than we ever have when they used to have to hand wash clothes.
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