Steve Harvey Single Handedly Lied To Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and how they need to be held accountable for the problems that men create in their relationships with their partners. We also discuss the importance of single motherhood and the role that women play in raising their children.
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women definitely need to be held accountable definitely because i do think like tate said
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we are the ones creating the problems for each other because if you're opening your legs to any
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man now then they don't even feel the need to get married anymore because they're like
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well i can just get sex like it's so easy however that what i'm just trying to say is
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don't we can't just put it on the women because these men are the ones sleeping with them
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but i'm saying for 50 for 50 years we have put it on the men okay there's there's a lot of little
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things in society you guys probably don't even notice and i didn't either before i started like
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really listening to what men say like if you say she got knocked up it sounds like something that
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happened to her not a choice she made who knocked her up he did we always put the blame on the men
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it's it's very new this is a new type of content where you put any accountability on women watch
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watch some early 2000s like steve harvey dating no watch watch some early 2000s steve harvey dating
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advice where these women come up to him and like he just says oh like even even the idea of oh you
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intimidate guys no there's probably something about you that guys don't like and and that's just being
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honest um sweet feminine girls don't intimidate anybody there's probably something about you guys
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don't like um and then on top of that it's like i just think men are never allowed to have standards
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like even every time a man has a standard he's shamed for it so if they say oh i like thin women
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i like pure women they say he's slut shaming body shaming it's not the same for for for women
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can i just go back to your other point about the fact that um we always put it on men so i don't agree
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with that because again i did a lot of research into this so 90 of single motherhood it's a woman
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so in a single parent home it's a woman that is the single parent how can you say that we're always
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putting it on men when women are the ones stepping up for their kid so i'll tell you you're right you're
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right 90 90 of women are awarded custody like i've actually talked to divorce like lawyers about this
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they say they love representing women in court it's much easier for women than it is for men i'm not
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saying it's easy either way like court is tough but i'm saying but i'm saying fight for it and i'm
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saying i'm saying i've actually i know someone that went through this where he was trying to get like
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custody of his children and it's very hard because once if he leaves the home then she can not let him
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see like not let him see his kids for say six months so with this guy it was like she kicked him like
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like they were fighting whatever he left so because because she wanted him out of the house
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i'm gonna clarify he wanted to be a part of his kids lives what happened was because of covid his
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court date kept moving like they kept moving it back and what happened was she went to court and
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said he hasn't been around for eight months he hasn't been around for a year and he'd been trying
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the whole time and so it's like there's a lot of situations where men want custody of their
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children and they can't get it and there's even men that kill themselves because she leaves she
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takes half of their his assets and he takes the kids and he doesn't have access to their kids
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like there's a whole it's like men's rights activists you probably never heard of them they
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talk about these issues where like men there's a guy in ohio in the u.s he his um his girlfriend or
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whatever had a baby and she gave the kid up for adoption he wanted the kid he had no rights to his
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kid stuff like that happens all the time but nobody and i don't and and so when you say when you say
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ninety percent like my thing is like we don't think about why don't they have access to their
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children and also what would you rather let me ask you because you got a son would you rather leave
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your child with a babysitter that is a woman or babysitter that is a man a babysitter yeah a
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babysitter nanny whatever a woman or a man i mean i would probably prefer a woman exactly exactly
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because at the end of the day this although i understand what you're trying to get at we can't
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just put it on women and everything like that but we also have to understand we as women we've got
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different talents and gifts okay and i think that's kind of like what a lot of men are trying
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to get at is like you have a certain talent which is the power to attract which means you can get
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basically any guy that you want if you're easy enough okay so i do understand the rhetoric of saying
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be more selective because you as a woman got way more power in your hands to create that interaction
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than a man would fine self-control take your power with responsibility as a woman yes naturally you
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will stay with your child because you're more nurturing that's your natural gift that still
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doesn't mean that a woman is to be excused by it for everything again for the sake of argument right
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here and also because you've put me in this position where i actually want to stand against
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you i will say men and women both are equally entitled to complain about what is going on
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because both are messing up a lot of women they are not fit to take care of their children but
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because of the bitterness and anger they have towards the relationship that didn't work out
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they make their child suffer they take advantage of the fact that they're a woman and they mark their
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man that is not okay there's a there's and like women let's just be honest like women are spiteful
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when they hate a man they hate and i'm not saying all women i'm not saying every person does this
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but it's like women will use the kids as a pawn and what what happens is a lot of times even kanye
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that happened in front of us he he his his um another thing they'll do is they can move states
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and the father has no say if they gave the woman's like primary custody um and i'm not saying like i
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know all the ins and outs of the laws this is just like from talking to divorce attorneys
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and it's like um it's just like men their issues are not brought to the forefront and it's really
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sad that like you know a lot of times a big issue is men committing suicide after divorce there is a
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guy um i just learned this the other day so i'm probably going to butcher it but our whole job most
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of the domestic violence laws are based off of a system that automatically assumes that the woman's the
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victim and in the u.s and so it's like a lot of men like most when you talk to people that have
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actually worked in domestic violence most domestic violence situations are mutually abusive where the
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man and the woman are hitting each other and and the men still get put away and the woman don't
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a woman can just call the cops and like uh a cop can come will come in and automatically based on
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their training assume that the woman's the victim okay wait uh again advocate for women that go through
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these situations i don't know what the stats tell you i don't know what the stats are not telling
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you because these things you cannot actually regulate because a lot of things go and it's
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from um can i just just just to give you perspective it's from people that work with these couples and
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that work at women's shelters will tell you this well so much so much so much so that they're like
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there is um the three feminists that came up with the the system that the justice and i'm butchering
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this but it's like the system that the justice system is built on that automatically assumes the
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woman's the victim they were saying that even in their practice it wasn't what they saw that they
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were saying you know what it's actually mutually abusive sorry go ahead go ahead well i was just
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going to say that when it comes to domestic abuse i believe that women are inherently more vulnerable
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to be in that situation because when a woman does commit and this is why men get upset that women
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cheat because when a woman commits to a man she gives herself emotionally when you attach to
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yourself to somebody emotionally now you are a victim to all of these things whereas men as
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andrew tate very quite rightly said he's got the decision whether he wants to make you 10 out of
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10 happy or 5 out of 10 happy and keep you crying here and there because it is true that once men get
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a woman to fall in love with them they've got the power that's also what men don't understand
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and that's how they mess about and that's why domestic violence i believe is so prevalent
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amongst women being the victims the victims instead of being the perpetrators although there are cases