The EFFECT Of Media on Modern Women
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Summary
What would you give up to be with the right person? What would you be willing to give up for the right guy? What are the things you would give up in exchange for a girl you're in a relationship with?
Transcript
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I want to ask the guys, because I feel like you've got a chance.
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Starting here, Alex, I don't think I've even heard you speak once.
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What would you expect the right girl to give up for you, to be with you?
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So your big things are social media and nightlife?
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Okay, what would you expect your girl to give up for you?
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Unless I see that it's coming between us in some way, do what you want.
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Just don't be out here making either of us look crazy, because you're a reflection of me.
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So if you're going to go to the club with your girls, all right, cool.
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But then if it comes back to me that you was dancing on 50 men, and your tongue was down 50 throats, then obviously it's not going to run, can it?
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And if I'm not there, obviously it's not always that I can be there.
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But I understand what you mean by she's dancing on another one.
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So, but then, to be fair, with my wife, because the story with my wife is a long time in the
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making, like I met my wife when I was seven years old.
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But then I've said to her before, like, if I met you in the club and then I found
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that you went to the club and you was in other things in the club, it's like,
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nah, because you're just any girl from the club, so you can go.
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Now when she's like, oh, she's meeting her friends, I'm like, yeah, go, because she's
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a wife, she's a mother, she's in education, stuff like that, she very rarely goes out,
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she looks after me, food, clothes, all that kind of stuff.
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So, and yeah, so that's why I would question it.
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But obviously my situation is very unique as opposed to some other people out there.
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But in general terms, then I would mostly say, yeah.
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My daughter and football is like those two things.
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I mean, why would a man want me to give up football?
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But I don't, I mean, I don't even keep social media on my main phone.
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Don't they recruit you through Instagram or no?
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But yeah, I mean, yeah, and going out is just over.
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But then what if your husband was like, nah, yeah, so.
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Yeah, if he's the right man, like, sure, I'm bored of coaching anyway.
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You just won't do it because you don't want to do it anymore, right?
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So this one, I actually don't even, I don't even think I would do this one.
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So, would you get plastic surgery for the right guy?
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That doesn't really make sense to me because if the guy wants you to get plastic surgery,
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why don't you just find the woman who looks like, yeah, you want.
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I've heard, I've heard guys like paying for their girl's boob jobs.
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I wouldn't want to do it either, but I think that's my one.
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But then couldn't he just get the girl to eat more?
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Yeah, I mean, if you put on weight, wouldn't your breast grow?
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Yeah, I don't think they want, I think it's usually because they want the hourglass, you know.
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There are ways that you can, but not for it to look like plastic.
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It's not going to be up here like this, but like.
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But there are things, like I said, it is, you can work on yourself.
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And yeah, that, I would do that for him, like to like work on myself, to be in shape, to look good.
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But not plastic surgery or fillers and all that.
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Yeah. Okay, what would you expect the right girl to do for you or to give up for you?
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I think, you know, sort of to begin with, just looking at my current circumstances, obviously if she'd work, the start of the other is fine.
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But if it came down to where I was in a position where she wouldn't need to work, and especially I think, I think by nature, like, I want to be the woman that's more nurturing.
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So, you know, that early stages before the kids start to go to school, I'll take it on for the team.
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You know, you've got to stay at home, especially if I can provide that life for us, you know?
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If she wants to go back to work, get a little problem, man.
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But in that period, you've got to play ball, man, you know?
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Did you answer what you would give up for the right guy?
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Because I was thinking about it and I was kind of like, I don't know, I probably wouldn't give up anything.
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I don't think any relationships require sacrifice.
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No, I have a fiancé, obviously, and I love him.
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But I think the only reason probably is coming from that, that is he's very, he wants me the way I am.
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I mean, I think I love dancing, so he doesn't, me going to the, because I do a bit of a TV personality in Persian channels.
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And so because, because I do whatever I always wanted to do right now.
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And he's very happy with the way I am, even though I'm most of the time just, you know, I'm very like outgoing and stuff and spending a lot of time out because of the camera and videos and my friends.
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And he's always involved and he's loving the fact that I'm very outgoing and social.
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So probably if he tells me don't dance, I wouldn't give up because I'm, I'm so.
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What if he told you, what if he told you delete social media?
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Social media, because I have a big platform on Instagram and I really worked hard for it.
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It's like, you know, you're having, when you build up your Instagram and then your real family.
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You can call your family, FaceTime your family.
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I, I, I called Instagram my family as well because I, I kind of like.
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Hold on, better than your real family, like your fiance.
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No, I just don't understand why anybody wants me to delete my Instagram.
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So we had, we had, um, a guy, um, come, come in, um, uh, two days ago, uh, Justin Waller.
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He's like a YouTuber and this guy has married women, um, constantly trying to sleep with him
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Like literally, like he, he's shown me like videos, pictures of girls, like saying, come
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over and like, he'll show me pictures of their families.
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And he, he doesn't do it cause he's, he's not that type of guy, you know?
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Yeah, but, but it's like, if a guy just wants to avoid that headache of you, you know, potentially
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doing something like you wouldn't understand that.
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If a lot, a lot of, um, divorces like come from social media.
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Cause my sister had, uh, you know, lots of argue with his, with her husband because of
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social media, but now thinking about it, if obviously he wants me to delete Instagram,
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otherwise he's not going to be with me because I, I, I really love him and he's, he's amazing.
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So probably I would, but I think I'm going to be depressed for a few months.
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When you have that, when you don't have that sort of things in your life, you don't really
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But now because we're discussing it, it's actually good for me because when you discuss it, I get
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into myself and thinking if one, the doll want me to delete my Instagram because we never had
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that conversation and I never thought about it, but now you're asking me and I'm thinking
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Well, can I ask you, would you like, would you give up just pearly things for the right
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I mean, to be honest, I would, I would really want to get my, you can just do it at home
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I mean, to be honest, I don't think the show is conducive.
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Like what am I going to do this when I have kids?
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I'm going to have this crazy, you know, this crazy lady of mine.
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I mean, if it was genuinely causing a problem in my marriage, like I would, I mean, it's
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I was going to say, I don't know why social media has such a grip on people nowadays.
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Imagine saying that 10 year old controls your life and it isn't your child.
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When you actually really think about what is it that you're doing?
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Unless like you're a full-time content creator now, or like some form of celebrity where
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you need to have that level of engagement to my mind.
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Now, if you're just on there going like this on with your thing, with your thumb scrolling
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No, I wouldn't, if I was like that, like just scrolling and, you know, wasting my time,
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I wouldn't even care if I wanted to delete my Instagram to be honest.
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If you're meant to ask for it, you're going to delete it, isn't it?
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