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01:40:49.600I had a friend who had a civil engineering degree.
01:40:51.920I'm sorry, guys, but biology is the female easy STEM degree and civil engineering is the easy female engineering degree.
01:41:01.260Most female engineers are civil engineers, not electrical electrical engineers, not mechanical engineers, not chemical engineers, civil engineers.
01:41:11.860And so these women are on the job site and you see all these women.
01:42:36.160And then I have another friend who works for the state and for state government.
01:42:45.840And she makes sure that – she's a civil engineer, but she makes sure that, like, road crews get the supplies they need to actually lay down the concrete.
01:42:57.380So she sits in an office, and she just makes sure that the state is purchasing the right supplies based upon the demand of fixing roads.
01:43:08.060There's no civil engineer who's out there – I mean, there may be some, but most civil engineers aren't doing hands-on work.
01:43:41.220And then another thing – I'll get up here.
01:43:43.620But once again, women want credit for everything.
01:43:47.880On TikTok, there are women who are saying that – there's a woman who has a Carhartt hat on, and she says that she deserves all the credit of the men building buildings, building bridges, building all these different things.
01:44:03.100Because she's pregnant, and she's going to have a baby.
01:58:55.780I mean, I've been watching you a little while.
01:58:57.500Yeah, so the question was, am I wrong for bringing up that our jobs are more difficult?
01:59:04.120Or, sorry, our jobs are easier than the guys.
01:59:07.480Because I just keep getting that I hate women, that, you know, I'm wrong for this.
01:59:12.760And I just wanted to know the audience's thoughts.
01:59:14.840Well, I tried to write you a little bit in just through emails about I do this cognitive therapy stuff.
01:59:23.340And it really puts this distinction, mostly on men and women, because women tend to think more about, you know, all the headaches and all the problems.
01:59:33.580Like, and you've talked about this, you know, the fears and with all the bad things that could happen.
01:59:38.220And where, you know, if you're more right-brained, you think which men are, you tend to just say, hey, what am I getting out of this?
02:00:26.920That's why I went back to driving a truck because I'm nearing retirement.
02:00:30.100So I just don't want to start something new at this point.
02:00:35.920But I think with women, with you hating women, see, that's when you're saying something critical about somebody, it kind of immediately launches this defense mechanism everybody has.
02:00:51.020And it really comes down to, are you looking at the world through, you know, the way people see you or are you looking at how you see yourself?
02:01:00.760Because if you have a strong self-worth, you're not going to care what anybody says about you.
02:01:07.020I mean, they kind of call that self-confidence, but it's not really that.
02:01:10.120It's more just having confidence enough to say, well, I know what I do.
02:01:15.820Some people would call me a loser if I'm just a truck driver, you know, like you're talking about how women have these high standards, maybe sometimes higher than men.
02:01:24.780But that's just the choices they make.
02:01:51.000I mean, just seeing the texts and everything and hearing some of the comments you've made, and it's no difference with you and a lot of other commentators, especially the people who have been banned.
02:02:00.760Like, I don't even, I've never heard anybody mention this one comedian because I think you can't even mention him.
02:03:11.460I liked it and it was pretty male dominated, but you know what I really turned me off is when people started getting into the phones.
02:03:19.180I was looking at working at a college and, uh, you just, I saw this transition right at the time where everybody just was staring at their phones constantly.
02:03:29.500And now in all this, uh, social media, I think, I really think social media is really destroying our society because it's giving an outlet to that thing.
02:03:37.940I mentioned earlier, this kind of judgmental fear that you'd look at the world in this kind of, Oh, this person hates me.
02:04:02.080You get all this kind of pain about, well, what am I doing wrong?
02:04:07.000And it's like, well, you're, maybe you're not doing anything wrong, you know?
02:04:11.260So when you say, you know, these people hate you, hate on you, they're going to, because you're, what you're doing is you're really uncovering a lie.
02:04:20.820Whenever you tell somebody the truth, either they're, if, see, if they're brief, if they're disposed to hear the truth, they're going to say, yeah, I understand.
02:04:30.840It's what's, it's quite kind of humility.
02:04:33.380And if they want to know how to change, they will make an effort to change, but they're, they're most, they usually don't want to change.
02:04:39.640Like, and I've done all this mental health work where I got a little frustrated with that because that's what it came down to was, do you want to get better?
02:05:52.140You make a list of why, why these people don't like you or why it's so hard, but none of that.
02:05:58.220And see, I hate to even get into this a little bit, but it's really the difference between Freudian thinking, which is kind of dominating our culture right now.
02:06:06.940Which is telling everybody that they're a victim.
02:06:09.920That's where this whole victim narrative comes out of.
02:06:12.720Because it's this idea that it's not your fault.
02:06:16.420Like ever, I've seen some videos where they do counseling and they just go, it's not your fault.
02:06:25.280But if you're already decided and thinking in your inner being that it is your fault or I made these bad choices or whatever, you're going to always think that way.
02:06:35.100And then you end up kind of being in this victim narrative world where, you know, well, I can't get ahead because of this.
02:09:22.340So that's a good kind of a good philosophy is like just if you can focus on just being true to yourself and what you believe and try not to hurt other people, then you're doing 90 percent more than the rest of the world.
02:09:34.580Because you're you're making an effort to make things better instead of just what's that line up?
02:09:40.360See the light instead of cursing the darkness.
02:09:47.840No, I think what you're actually doing is loving women because you're speaking truth to them.
02:09:52.440It's sort of with anybody, with your friends or your family.
02:09:55.220Say, look, you know, if you can get a moment and say, hey, you know, when you do this or the other that, you know, you really piss people off.
02:10:02.020I mean, if that's your goal, then you're succeeding.
02:10:04.600I mean, as long as you're not doing it for that reason, you're fine.
02:10:46.840I saw I first time I saw you was doing the stuff in Britain and then I caught some of the replays of the street stuff because you did that first.
02:11:09.280And that's what you see a perfect demonstration there between these people who think with their left brain, the women, which is the average women tend to be more left brain and him saying, oh, wait, what are you saying?
02:11:21.240That, you know, you can have the standard, but the men can't.
02:11:24.220And they're trying to just show them truth.
02:11:28.620When you can observe stuff like that, it really helps you to understand that dynamic.
02:11:32.640It's not that you're going to change it.
02:11:34.340But what you are going to do is understand it better and you'll you'll have less pain and you'll be a little more understanding about the way other people think.
02:13:02.480I'll send you a bill for this counseling session.
02:13:04.900I mean, you don't let anybody discourage you, you know, be selective about who you take advice from, because there's going to be people that want to discourage you and people that are going to encourage you.
02:13:20.900Most people just be neutral, you know, I don't care.
02:13:26.340The people you trust in your life and it give you good feedback.
02:13:28.940And those are the ones that want to lift you up versus the people that just want to kind of, oh, you know, you're, you're screwing up, you know.
02:34:27.700Okay, as the elder of the church, I would tell you as the wife of the husband, hey, in Corinthians, Paul says women are to dress modestly.
02:34:41.760Now spandex, I understand that there is a time to wear spandex, but wear that in the confines of your home.
02:34:49.140Do not go outside wearing spandexes if it is causing other men to sin or causing other people to look at you as not a Christian because you are a representation of him, your husband.
02:35:02.280And if your husband tells you not to wear this, you need to respect his authority as a wife.
02:35:08.600And as his authority comes from God, you should respect it.
02:35:25.280But I really believe that women that are truly saved, truly walking with Christ, if they are corrected on that, I believe that they will change.
02:35:34.860I don't know if her husband even corrected her on that.
02:35:36.920Her husband might not think anything is wrong with it.
02:39:48.200Pearl, women have more power over shaping society because of their huge influence on men.
02:39:53.300We rise to whatever level they settle for and us sad, but true.
02:39:56.920Women can help make men heroes or scumbags.
02:40:00.040Pearl, modern Christianity has emasculated God and created a patriarchal society because men and women have different duties in his design for human existence.
02:46:16.220The reason, yeah, the reason I don't believe them is because the thing is family court has made it so easy for women to throw accusations of abuse because they've changed the definition.
02:46:28.220The definition used to be, you hit me, I didn't hit you back.
02:46:32.580I didn't start it, I didn't hit you first, you hit me, didn't hit you back.
02:46:36.180Now they've included things like financial abuse, and I've seen court documents where the man doesn't give her as much money as she wants to spend.
02:46:48.960Emotional abuse gets, I've had women tell me that they were physically abused, and it turns out he was pushing her out of his house because she was trespassing, because he didn't want her there.
02:47:48.900So what about not like, not in a place where people would raise it up in court, but more, you know, just being treated differently, treat women more positively in some ways.
02:48:01.040But a lot of ways don't men also abuse women on a different level.
02:48:05.560It was like, I saw a video, I think it was today or the other day, of a woman, of a man going undercover as a woman going down the streets of New York on the city in the night.
02:48:14.820And it was, it was horrendous in terms of how much abuse and how much weird comments he was getting, he was getting from other men.
02:48:24.060Well, men are more likely to be victims of a violent crime.
02:48:29.000But are women more likely to be victims of rape or of other abuse?
02:48:32.920Well, one, men couldn't even file rape charges until a couple of years ago.
02:48:49.960And the other thing is, it depends on if it was sexual assault or rape, because sexual assault, again, they changed the definition of the word.
02:48:58.600So they expand it to include a lot of things.
02:49:02.920So, so when I'm talking about do people, do people face this on a daily basis, I'm talking about sexual assault, not rape.
02:50:33.540No, I'm not anti-work because, you know, if a man could retire 20 years earlier from his wife working part-time, why would she not, like, work part, you know, if she's a, you know, I talk, like, someone, one of the most common jobs is an assistant.
02:51:49.540I mean, I would generally say, I can see why I'm saying surgeon's very high, president's very high.
02:51:55.040I would say educational, social service is one of the highest in terms of actually making sure, you know, we've got a good generation and we've got, you know, really clever, important people, teaching people about business to help grow the economy in the future.