The Internet DESTROYS Billie Eilish After Saying This
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Summary
Billie Eilish says she is physically attracted to women, but also intimidated by them. Plus, we talk about how we used to be tomboys, and how we didn t have the same body image standards.
Transcript
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So our next story is Billie Eilish says that she is physically attracted to women but also
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I thought we were going to be talking about it.
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She came out on something the other day and said that men don't have it as hard as women
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She got destroyed pretty quickly, so maybe that's why we're hearing about this one.
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She says, Billie Eilish, the Grammy award-winning singer, revealed in a recent interview that
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despite writing Grammys, what could be considered a female anthem, she never truly felt like
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She has expressed difficulty in relating to other girls, although she has a deep affection for
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them as people and is physically attracted to them.
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But the, like, never relating to other chicks and not really being into the beauty stuff,
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So she shared her discomfort with public scrutiny about her appearance and romantic life during
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her teenage years, describing it as both weird and upsetting.
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She felt unprepared to handle such a tension and wasn't confident enough to display her
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Well, yeah, and I'm like, what's wrong with that?
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I always actually admired her for, um, because she was underage, wasn't she?
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Because, you know, there are creepy people in the world.
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You know, not to say everyone's like that, but there are creepy people in the world.
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And she's, at least it seems, she took that precaution to protect herself from that.
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Now it seems she's twisting it into something different.
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I think things like that are really impressive.
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And I'm not even a big, like, I don't really listen to her music.
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Um, but I, even me, like, not even really knowing her music too much.
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I saw this, I saw this video of her doing all of the vocals and they were showing that
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Why, why is, you know, I think true confidence is not having to display your body publicly.
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Why is it that, okay, okay, despite identifying as she, her, Eilish admitted that she has never
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felt feminine, desirable, or like a traditional girl.
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Also, it's that issue of, okay, you've never felt feminine.
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And, like, I don't think I've really felt feminine until I was probably maybe 19, 20.
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I was always, you know, I went to the Boy Scouts as a kid instead of brownies.
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Because I was like, it was me and one other friend.
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But it's because we didn't want to sell cookies.
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Yeah, and I've noticed, because she had a brother.
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But a brother, she was really close with her brother.
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Yeah, and I've noticed that, like, a lot of chicks that are either close with their dad
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or a brother, like, because that's how it was for me.
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I was between two boys, so I just kind of liked doing the boy stuff.
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Like, I had a brother that was two years older and two years younger.
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Yeah, I was obviously close with my dad growing up, and I just, I always wanted to be involved
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Let me read the IKEA instructions so we can put it up together.
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Yeah, it's not the end of the world to just be a tomboy.
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She elaborated on the complexity of her feelings surrounding girlhood, which she explored
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poignantly in her music, notably in her Grammy-nominated song, What Was I Made For, from the Barbie
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The emotional depth of her lyrics has resonated with audiences worldwide.
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Reflecting on her career, Eilish feels like she's just starting to embrace her true self
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She sees this phase as a moment of awakening and self-discovery, even after more than seven
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Will she probably come out as transgender or non-binary?
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You've been in the public eye for so long, you know, had so much attention, probably too
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much money for your own good, don't know what to do with yourself or all that money,
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She was 16 when I think it was, what was that song?
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She just casually, didn't she do like the Grammys or something, something big and she
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just casually goes to high school the next day.
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So, another comment that you were talking about earlier that she went viral for, let's
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Billie says, nobody ever says a thing about men's bodies, says Billie.
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Then where is the fireman calendars for dad bods?
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Like, there's never, you know, they have like the firemen?
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And in every TV show, there's never a dad bod that's the main lead.
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There's actually studies that are coming out that say men are judged more harshly on their
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Notice how she doesn't mention, if you're short, cool.
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They don't give a F because we see people for who they are.
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If you aren't over six foot, then this is a lie.
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When you're a woman and you feel bad about your body, there's support groups to comfort
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you and an entire movement devoted to appeasing you.
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But when you're a guy and you feel bad about your body, people tell you that you look like
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crap and you either put in the work or get mocked.
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When's the last time you saw a plus size male model?
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I want to do a Weight Watchers or Whale Watchers where we bring in the men.
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I'm not trying to be mean, but like she was so big.
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It's like my charity work is paying for fat people's personal trainers.
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I've seen girls mock guys' bodies and obese people all the time.
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Just the blanket statement of girls don't do that because they are nice is the most ridiculous
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Girls can be just as mean as men, especially to one another.
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I have a sister who is teased by other girls because of her body.
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That's kind of the entire reason a film called Mean Girls exists because sometimes, often
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in high school, when we're going through puberty, girls can be just as mean, if not worse than
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The things a guy can say like, yeah, sure, it might hurt, but like, they're pretty simple
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A girl, I bet your parents hate you for being so disgusting.
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The manipulation is next level with girls' insults.
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No, it's so funny because I have gotten the worst bullying from women.
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It's always these girls that are like, pearl, pearl.
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Because all of these chicks will be like, pearl.
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The only haters I have on Twitter so far are women.
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But I'm like, bitches, none of you bitches had brothers to bully you growing up.
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None of you can say anything that my brothers have not said to me.
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Like, okay, because my brothers would have roasted the hell out of me if I ever said I
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Like, no, seriously, because I remember crying when I was like 15 or 16.
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And because my brother was like, oh, you have, I don't even remember.
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I often say, like, half of these people would not last 10 minutes in my household if they
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heard the way that, like, me and my dad talk to each other.
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Like, you just, when you're raised by men, like, you just, you know how to take it.
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But a lot of people, they can't take it these days.
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So, the men's rights activist speaks out on Billie Eilish's behalf that women don't
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So, he weighs in and he says, women have literally called me fat and laughed in my face because
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Well, it's always like a backhanded compliment or like backhanded.
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Women, their only response to me as to how quickly I blew up is all of your followers
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And so, when I thought about this, I'm like, you know, guys, maybe we should learn something
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because if there were more women incels, I do think the world would be a little bit better
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I'm like, you know, but if men shamed female virgins or female sluts, like women shame men's
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But when women are shamed for their sexuality, when I say, guys, the non-virgin women are
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They're like at the top of, I did a whole pyramid of whoredom for them.
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You have very concise and clear whiteboard demonstrations.
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And then they'll be like, well, you shouldn't shame a woman for her sexuality.
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The eternal women are victims of everything and men can never be is so tired.
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Just Rash Media says, women poke at our genetics.
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Like, shit, we can't change height, dick size, and looks.
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Men, hold y'all accountable for shit you can change.
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Did you see my sex and sandwiches thing on Twitter?
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I said that men prefer silent sex and sandwiches as opposed to date nights.
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And then they're like, you just, these horrible relationships, da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
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Well, I just thought, these are like the easiest requirements.
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I was like, maybe I should put like a heart or like, I was thinking you could put like a
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I was trying to think of a way to like, draw it.
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I'm like, ladies, these actually are pretty easy requirements.
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Also like, it's like if we can have the saying, happy wife, happy life.
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I was saying, people don't ever put what makes men happy as the key to relationship success.
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They'll say, because there was a girl that replied to me and said, what about date nights?
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Like, you need, she said something along the lines of, date nights are the key to a happy
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And I thought to myself, well then, I think now at this point in history, we've had more
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I'm like, I don't think that's the key at all, actually.
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It's reducing a relationship, which is a very complex, multi-dimensional thing, down to
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if we go out and spend money and do this superficial thing, that constitutes a healthy
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And then all the husband, the keyboard board, well, I love my date nights.
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So how do you explain, my parents don't do date nights at all.
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I don't think they've ever gone out on a date just for the sake of going out on a date.
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On an anniversary or something, they make it an occasion.
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But again, that's my dad doing it for my mom as like a gift.
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So this whole idea of date nights is the key to a happy, healthy, long relationship is
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Well, and it's typically the woman doesn't have genuine desire for the guy.
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So it's almost like he has to spend money for her time.
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And also when a woman is truly happy and as the, not astrologists, what are they called?
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All the idiots that believe in astrology, all of that stuff.
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As they always say, if you're in your feminine energy and all of this, right?
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Actually, a woman who is happy with a guy and in the best place in herself and in the relationship,
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she doesn't need to be taken out anywhere to be happy.
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And also women who are genuinely happy is what we speak about before.
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They just do things because they want to do it.
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Not because they're trying to gain something out of it.
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And I think it's very telling of the current culture that we're in.
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Is the fact that people presume, anytime you mention a woman just doing something,
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it's straight away, well, what's he doing for her?
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When really, I think we need to talk about the fact of why is that the current status quo?
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Because when you really are happy, you're not even thinking about it like a transaction.
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You're just doing it for the sake of making someone you love their life a bit easier.
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Well, and the other thing is, I was thinking about this.
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Why do they never say sex, silence, and a sandwich is the key to a happy marriage?
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They'll bring up this data and be like, women said they're happier when they get date nights.
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But it's always what the women want or what women generally like.
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They fall in love with these foreign chicks that don't even speak the same language.
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They don't even, they'll go to, like, Eastern Europe or Africa or Asia.
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And so I'm like, guys, all of the things that are the key to happy relationships are always female things.
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No, it's almost become a dictatorship in a way because instead of it being, you know, as a relationship should be, a negotiation of, you know, what you like, what they like, and meeting somewhere in the middle.
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It's, you know, the women in society have completely taken over.
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And it's now, you know, for lack of a better metaphor, the women have become this great dictator who have almost oppressed the men and said, well, if you want the key, if you want us to let you out,
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well, then you have to have date nights, be six foot, have all of this money, like, it's all of these requirements.
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Because a lot of these are Christian, like, trad women that are coming at me right now.
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Like, you want your guy to be a traditional provider and he's got to take you on date nights all the time.
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Like, you were saying your parents would go on occasional date nights.
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But I'm like, they said you want to do one every week.
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I feel like once you are together, you're just.
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You can just go around in circles on this for ages and ages and ages.
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But the root of the problem is, is that modern relationships.
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Don't you find it funny how we're always having to talk about what makes a relationship work?
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It's like what I spoke to you about before about projection.
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The idea of someone constantly feels the need to say, I'm this, I'm this, I'm this.
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If you have to constantly say, this is what makes a relationship work.
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That's what I was pointing out because yesterday they were tweeting at me.
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And she goes, I am, I was a virgin on my wedding night.
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I waited till I was married and my husband loves date night.
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And he might not be the masculine man that most women on paper would pick.
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But like I picked him for this reason because he helps me with the dishes.
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And I thought to myself, I said, do you see the subtle narcissism?
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Because the subtle, and you won't notice this until you start noticing it to the audience
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People that have more narcissistic tendencies will bring the attention to themselves.
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So you might be saying, the key to a happy relationship is this.
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What the more narcissistic people will do is say, look at me and my husband.
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And if I indicate, well, I'm not talking about you.
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They can't compute because they operate in a narcissistic way.
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I mean, you seemed pleasant before I got the selfies.
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And it's always women in their late 20s, early 30s that just want to prove to me they're still