JustPearlyThings - November 19, 2023


The Internet DESTROYS Billie Eilish After Saying This

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Billie Eilish Grammy Billy Whale Watchers Demi Lovato Barbie Marvin
Kim Kardashian Becomes GQ's Man Of The Year She Gets ROASTED for Uttering This Trash About Promiscuous Women

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Billie Eilish says she is physically attracted to women, but also intimidated by them. Plus, we talk about how we used to be tomboys, and how we didn t have the same body image standards.

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00:00:00.000 So our next story is Billie Eilish says that she is physically attracted to women but also
00:00:05.600 intimidated by them.
00:00:07.020 Oh, I don't even know this story.
00:00:09.220 I thought we were going to be talking about it.
00:00:10.500 She came out on something the other day and said that men don't have it as hard as women
00:00:15.480 when it comes to beauty standards.
00:00:17.560 She got destroyed pretty quickly, so maybe that's why we're hearing about this one.
00:00:19.700 Yeah, I think that's the second part of this.
00:00:22.000 I don't know.
00:00:22.780 She says, Billie Eilish, the Grammy award-winning singer, revealed in a recent interview that
00:00:28.080 despite writing Grammys, what could be considered a female anthem, she never truly felt like
00:00:32.880 a woman.
00:00:33.420 She has expressed difficulty in relating to other girls, although she has a deep affection for
00:00:37.940 them as people and is physically attracted to them.
00:00:40.520 Okay, do you know what I don't understand?
00:00:41.940 I was a tomboy growing up.
00:00:43.580 We used to just be tomboys.
00:00:45.640 Yep.
00:00:47.020 I totally relate to what she's talking.
00:00:49.860 Not the liking girl.
00:00:51.840 That's not my thing.
00:00:52.920 But the, like, never relating to other chicks and not really being into the beauty stuff, 0.87
00:00:59.860 like, I totally get that, but you weren't gay.
00:01:03.600 You weren't not a woman. 1.00
00:01:04.520 You were just a tomboy.
00:01:06.700 And that was okay.
00:01:08.120 Like, it wasn't the end of the world.
00:01:11.580 You didn't need to do this whole thing.
00:01:13.640 So she shared her discomfort with public scrutiny about her appearance and romantic life during
00:01:18.880 her teenage years, describing it as both weird and upsetting.
00:01:21.920 She felt unprepared to handle such a tension and wasn't confident enough to display her
00:01:26.760 body publicly.
00:01:28.580 Fine.
00:01:29.520 Well, yeah, and I'm like, what's wrong with that?
00:01:31.300 I think that's a good thing.
00:01:32.160 I always actually admired her for, um, because she was underage, wasn't she?
00:01:35.580 And she kept her body hidden until she was 18.
00:01:38.840 And I always thought, I always admired that.
00:01:40.700 I thought, well, like, well done.
00:01:41.860 Because, you know, there are creepy people in the world.
00:01:44.220 You know, not to say everyone's like that, but there are creepy people in the world.
00:01:47.360 And she's, at least it seems, she took that precaution to protect herself from that.
00:01:51.640 So I always admired that.
00:01:52.800 Now it seems she's twisting it into something different.
00:01:55.760 Well, because she led with her talent. 0.98
00:01:57.580 Like, I'm not even, I'm not even.
00:01:59.260 Like, Sia, she hides her face. 1.00
00:02:00.700 Yeah.
00:02:00.960 And she leads with her voice.
00:02:02.360 I think things like that are really impressive.
00:02:04.380 Yeah.
00:02:04.460 And I'm not even a big, like, I don't really listen to her music.
00:02:07.520 Um, but I, even me, like, not even really knowing her music too much.
00:02:11.980 I know how talented she is. 0.85
00:02:13.360 I saw this, I saw this video of her doing all of the vocals and they were showing that
00:02:17.600 she does, like, no auto-tune.
00:02:19.560 Yeah.
00:02:19.920 Absolutely crazy.
00:02:20.820 Yeah.
00:02:20.980 Which is really awesome.
00:02:23.040 Why, why is, you know, I think true confidence is not having to display your body publicly.
00:02:27.500 Absolutely.
00:02:28.140 Absolutely.
00:02:28.460 Why is it that, okay, okay, despite identifying as she, her, Eilish admitted that she has never
00:02:35.360 felt feminine, desirable, or like a traditional girl.
00:02:38.960 I mean, yeah, you're not.
00:02:40.360 I don't think most women are world superstars. 1.00
00:02:44.060 Like, I mean, chick, you can hire a chef. 0.87
00:02:48.120 There's worse problems to have.
00:02:50.040 You know what I mean?
00:02:51.080 Also, it's that issue of, okay, you've never felt feminine.
00:02:53.820 And, like, I don't think I've really felt feminine until I was probably maybe 19, 20.
00:03:01.380 Like, I was quite a tomboy.
00:03:02.680 I was always, you know, I went to the Boy Scouts as a kid instead of brownies.
00:03:07.040 Did you really?
00:03:07.400 Yeah.
00:03:08.040 Because I was like, it was me and one other friend.
00:03:12.020 Me, her, and one other girl.
00:03:13.720 We were, like, the only three girls there.
00:03:15.660 But it's because we didn't want to sell cookies.
00:03:17.740 We wanted to climb mountains.
00:03:20.420 I totally went with my brothers.
00:03:22.160 They had, like, the cave exploration.
00:03:24.100 We did all that.
00:03:24.740 Yeah, that was so fun.
00:03:25.900 So fun.
00:03:27.060 So it's, like, the feeling feminine thing.
00:03:29.620 Like, okay, you don't feel feminine.
00:03:32.180 You're still a woman.
00:03:33.520 Yeah.
00:03:34.140 Yeah, and I've noticed, because she had a brother.
00:03:36.480 She had an older brother or younger.
00:03:37.840 But a brother, she was really close with her brother.
00:03:40.340 Yeah, and I've noticed that, like, a lot of chicks that are either close with their dad 0.82
00:03:43.880 or a brother, like, because that's how it was for me.
00:03:45.980 I was between two boys, so I just kind of liked doing the boy stuff.
00:03:49.020 Like, I had a brother that was two years older and two years younger.
00:03:51.740 Yeah, I was obviously close with my dad growing up, and I just, I always wanted to be involved
00:03:56.760 in whatever he was doing.
00:03:58.200 Redoing the kitchen.
00:03:59.120 Let me sand something down.
00:04:00.680 We just bought a new cupboard.
00:04:02.060 Let me read the IKEA instructions so we can put it up together.
00:04:05.240 Like, I agree.
00:04:06.120 I think it's when you're close to someone.
00:04:07.480 Yeah, it's not the end of the world to just be a tomboy.
00:04:10.800 You don't have to.
00:04:11.660 Okay.
00:04:12.060 But she, like, I'm like, Billy, get a chef. 0.99
00:04:15.540 It's not the end of the world.
00:04:16.620 You'll be all right.
00:04:18.540 Okay.
00:04:18.900 She elaborated on the complexity of her feelings surrounding girlhood, which she explored
00:04:24.860 poignantly in her music, notably in her Grammy-nominated song, What Was I Made For, from the Barbie
00:04:36.240 movie soundtrack.
00:04:37.340 The emotional depth of her lyrics has resonated with audiences worldwide.
00:04:42.040 Reflecting on her career, Eilish feels like she's just starting to embrace her true self
00:04:46.620 and is proud of the person she's becoming.
00:04:48.880 She sees this phase as a moment of awakening and self-discovery, even after more than seven
00:04:54.280 years in the music industry.
00:04:56.160 You think she, will she start an OnlyFans? 0.98
00:04:58.100 Uh, no.
00:05:00.920 Will she probably come out as transgender or non-binary?
00:05:04.640 I'm, my odds are 70-30.
00:05:07.740 Like Demi Lovato.
00:05:09.140 Yeah, and then she'll probably go back. 0.98
00:05:11.080 Demi Lovato kind of has a similar.
00:05:12.460 It's a similar thing, isn't it?
00:05:13.420 You've been in the public eye for so long, you know, had so much attention, probably too
00:05:17.300 much money for your own good, don't know what to do with yourself or all that money,
00:05:20.420 so, you know.
00:05:21.520 And from such a young age.
00:05:23.040 That's so damaging.
00:05:24.200 She was 16 when I think it was, what was that song?
00:05:28.100 She had a song come out.
00:05:29.520 She just casually, didn't she do like the Grammys or something, something big and she 0.99
00:05:33.600 just casually goes to high school the next day.
00:05:35.860 Yeah.
00:05:36.520 Like, all right, casual.
00:05:38.580 So, another comment that you were talking about earlier that she went viral for, let's
00:05:43.140 pull it up.
00:05:44.200 Billie says, nobody ever says a thing about men's bodies, says Billie.
00:05:48.720 She watched the pregame?
00:05:51.500 Someone got her to watch the pregame. 0.95
00:05:54.040 If you're muscular, cool.
00:05:55.680 If you're not cool.
00:05:56.660 If you're real, think cool.
00:05:57.640 If you have a dad bod, cool.
00:05:59.400 Then where is the fireman calendars for dad bods?
00:06:04.660 You know what I mean?
00:06:05.300 Like, there's never, you know, they have like the firemen?
00:06:07.520 I've never seen it.
00:06:09.120 And in every TV show, there's never a dad bod that's the main lead.
00:06:14.000 Where were the dad bods in Baywatch?
00:06:16.040 Yeah, where were they?
00:06:18.040 There's actually studies that are coming out that say men are judged more harshly on their
00:06:22.140 appearance than women.
00:06:23.420 I believe it.
00:06:24.240 Yeah, obviously.
00:06:25.420 If you're in this space, you're like, duh.
00:06:28.820 If you're pudgy.
00:06:29.700 Notice how she doesn't mention, if you're short, cool.
00:06:33.520 Right.
00:06:34.420 Everybody's happy with it.
00:06:35.400 You know why?
00:06:35.900 Because girls are nice. 1.00
00:06:37.360 Yeah.
00:06:38.860 Because girls are nice. 1.00
00:06:40.200 They don't give a F because we see people for who they are.
00:06:43.620 Wow.
00:06:43.840 The comments are roasting her.
00:06:45.520 Yeah.
00:06:46.180 If you aren't over six foot, then this is a lie.
00:06:49.660 When you're a woman and you feel bad about your body, there's support groups to comfort
00:06:53.080 you and an entire movement devoted to appeasing you.
00:06:57.260 But when you're a guy and you feel bad about your body, people tell you that you look like 0.99
00:07:01.160 crap and you either put in the work or get mocked. 0.98
00:07:04.120 Correct. 1.00
00:07:04.980 When's the last time you saw a plus size male model?
00:07:07.760 When have you heard of men's empowerment?
00:07:10.120 We should start it.
00:07:11.100 Men's empowerment.
00:07:11.700 Let's do it, guys.
00:07:12.360 Hashtag men's empowerment.
00:07:13.200 Let's get some new t-shirts.
00:07:15.120 Men's empowerment.
00:07:16.120 I want to do a Weight Watchers or Whale Watchers where we bring in the men. 1.00
00:07:20.660 I tried this with a chick, actually. 1.00
00:07:22.400 I tried.
00:07:23.000 I know.
00:07:23.280 I know she quit, but I was like.
00:07:25.220 I'm shocked.
00:07:28.040 She was so big.
00:07:29.240 I really liked her.
00:07:30.140 I'm not trying to be mean, but like she was so big.
00:07:32.640 I'm like, we can do it.
00:07:33.580 We can help.
00:07:34.160 Yeah, but no.
00:07:35.160 It's like my charity work is paying for fat people's personal trainers.
00:07:40.360 That's my charity work.
00:07:42.360 Anyways, love you, Billy, but this isn't true.
00:07:45.180 I've seen girls mock guys' bodies and obese people all the time. 1.00
00:07:48.760 Come on now. 0.99
00:07:49.400 Just the blanket statement of girls don't do that because they are nice is the most ridiculous 0.97
00:07:52.960 thing I've heard. 0.98
00:07:54.100 LOL.
00:07:54.460 Girls can be just as mean as men, especially to one another. 1.00
00:07:57.200 I have a sister who is teased by other girls because of her body. 1.00
00:08:00.500 That's kind of the entire reason a film called Mean Girls exists because sometimes, often
00:08:07.000 in high school, when we're going through puberty, girls can be just as mean, if not worse than 1.00
00:08:12.100 guys.
00:08:12.760 100%.
00:08:13.080 100%.
00:08:14.180 And girls are creative with their insults. 1.00
00:08:16.360 Oh, honestly.
00:08:17.280 The things a guy can say like, yeah, sure, it might hurt, but like, they're pretty simple
00:08:21.920 with it. 0.84
00:08:22.320 You know, if you're fat, you're fat. 1.00
00:08:24.300 If you're ugly, you're ugly. 1.00
00:08:25.640 A girl, I bet your parents hate you for being so disgusting. 1.00
00:08:33.220 Do you hate yourself? 1.00
00:08:35.800 The manipulation is next level with girls' insults. 1.00
00:08:39.560 No, it's so funny because I have gotten the worst bullying from women. 1.00
00:08:44.400 It's always these girls that are like, pearl, pearl. 0.96
00:08:46.980 Because all of these chicks will be like, pearl. 0.72
00:08:48.880 The only haters I have on Twitter so far are women. 1.00
00:08:53.480 Yeah, women. 1.00
00:08:53.840 Typically older, larger women. 0.99
00:08:57.160 First, they'll psychoanalyze you. 1.00
00:08:59.040 But I'm like, bitches, none of you bitches had brothers to bully you growing up. 1.00
00:09:02.540 None of you. 1.00
00:09:03.340 None of you.
00:09:03.960 None of you can say anything that my brothers have not said to me.
00:09:07.020 Growing up, I remember.
00:09:08.760 Like, okay, because my brothers would have roasted the hell out of me if I ever said I
00:09:13.160 was a 10.
00:09:14.060 Oh, my gosh.
00:09:15.680 I'll hear these chicks be like, I am a 10. 1.00
00:09:17.840 I'm like, did you not have brothers?
00:09:19.960 Or like a dad?
00:09:21.000 Like, no, seriously, because I remember crying when I was like 15 or 16.
00:09:27.600 And don't psychoanalyze this.
00:09:29.200 It was good for me.
00:09:30.340 And because my brother was like, oh, you have, I don't even remember.
00:09:35.500 He just roasted so bad that I started crying.
00:09:39.540 And did he apologize?
00:09:41.340 No, this man doubled down.
00:09:44.700 It's true.
00:09:45.460 I often say, like, half of these people would not last 10 minutes in my household if they
00:09:49.580 heard the way that, like, me and my dad talk to each other.
00:09:52.080 Like, you just, when you're raised by men, like, you just, you know how to take it.
00:09:59.040 Like, you can just take it.
00:10:00.300 But a lot of people, they can't take it these days.
00:10:03.320 Yeah.
00:10:03.840 They can give it.
00:10:04.720 They can all give it on Twitter.
00:10:06.340 They can't take it.
00:10:08.180 They cannot take it.
00:10:10.100 Oh, this one was funny.
00:10:11.040 So, the men's rights activist speaks out on Billie Eilish's behalf that women don't 0.91
00:10:17.100 criticize men.
00:10:18.500 Women have literally called me fat. 1.00
00:10:21.520 Yeah.
00:10:21.900 So, he weighs in and he says, women have literally called me fat and laughed in my face because
00:10:27.020 I dared to say hello to them, Billie.
00:10:29.860 But girls are so nice. 1.00
00:10:32.020 We don't give a fuck about how you look. 0.99
00:10:35.120 Well, it's always like a backhanded compliment or like backhanded. 0.99
00:10:39.660 And that's what they'll do.
00:10:40.460 You know, it's so funny.
00:10:41.860 Women, their only response to me as to how quickly I blew up is all of your followers 1.00
00:10:46.680 are incels.
00:10:48.340 Really?
00:10:49.640 Two million people.
00:10:52.440 All incels.
00:10:55.340 Guys!
00:10:56.500 And so, when I thought about this, I'm like, you know, guys, maybe we should learn something
00:11:00.020 because if there were more women incels, I do think the world would be a little bit better 1.00
00:11:03.800 than the land. 0.98
00:11:04.800 I'm like, you know, but if men shamed female virgins or female sluts, like women shame men's 1.00
00:11:12.740 sexuality if they don't get laid. 0.98
00:11:14.660 Completely different.
00:11:15.120 But when women are shamed for their sexuality, when I say, guys, the non-virgin women are 1.00
00:11:22.780 not desirable. 0.98
00:11:23.880 Get yourself a virgin. 0.99
00:11:26.380 They're all mad at me. 0.99
00:11:28.440 When I'm just like, look it.
00:11:29.600 They're like at the top of, I did a whole pyramid of whoredom for them. 1.00
00:11:32.540 I know, I know.
00:11:33.220 I was so nice.
00:11:34.180 You have very concise and clear whiteboard demonstrations.
00:11:38.420 It's not hard to wrap your head around.
00:11:39.920 Yeah, yeah.
00:11:41.140 And then they'll be like, well, you shouldn't shame a woman for her sexuality.
00:11:45.640 So don't shame men. 0.63
00:11:47.020 Exactly.
00:11:47.720 Women will always body shame you, Marvin says. 1.00
00:11:51.060 The eternal women are victims of everything and men can never be is so tired. 1.00
00:11:56.040 Yeah, facts.
00:11:56.840 I'm exhausted.
00:11:58.340 Just Rash Media says, women poke at our genetics. 1.00
00:12:01.620 Like, shit, we can't change height, dick size, and looks. 1.00
00:12:06.240 Men, hold y'all accountable for shit you can change. 1.00
00:12:09.640 Weight and mentality. 1.00
00:12:11.280 Very, very good point.
00:12:12.640 I know.
00:12:13.480 You know what's funny?
00:12:14.200 Did you see my sex and sandwiches thing on Twitter? 0.97
00:12:18.840 I said that men prefer silent sex and sandwiches as opposed to date nights. 0.97
00:12:26.600 Yeah. 0.99
00:12:28.720 All of these chicks are raging.
00:12:30.380 They're like, my husband loves our date.
00:12:33.980 So they have to speak for the husband.
00:12:35.540 The husband can't speak for himself.
00:12:36.960 Makes sense.
00:12:37.740 Yeah, well.
00:12:40.100 And then they're like, you just, these horrible relationships, da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
00:12:46.540 And I'm just like, mm-hmm.
00:12:48.200 Ah!
00:12:49.940 Mm-hmm.
00:12:50.580 I don't get it.
00:12:53.220 I think, why can't you say that?
00:12:54.800 Well, I just thought, these are like the easiest requirements.
00:12:57.740 That's a good t-shirt idea.
00:12:59.080 I know. 0.90
00:12:59.700 Silent sex and sandwiches. 0.85
00:13:01.240 I know.
00:13:01.560 I was like, maybe I should put like a heart or like, I was thinking you could put like a
00:13:05.540 sandwich.
00:13:07.060 Silence.
00:13:07.340 Like an ear.
00:13:08.220 I was trying to think of a way to like, draw it.
00:13:10.300 Maybe like, shh.
00:13:12.200 And then like a heart.
00:13:13.340 And then sandwiches.
00:13:14.960 Love it. 0.99
00:13:15.780 Silent sex and sandwiches. 0.95
00:13:17.560 I'm like, ladies, these actually are pretty easy requirements.
00:13:21.060 Also like, it's like if we can have the saying, happy wife, happy life. 0.97
00:13:25.320 Why can't men have silent sex and sandwiches? 0.95
00:13:28.200 I'm fighting for this, you guys. 0.93
00:13:30.480 But the thing is, the programming is so deep.
00:13:33.260 Like, I know Centricion.
00:13:34.200 That's what I was saying.
00:13:34.960 I was saying, people don't ever put what makes men happy as the key to relationship success.
00:13:41.180 They'll say, because there was a girl that replied to me and said, what about date nights?
00:13:45.340 Like, you need, she said something along the lines of, date nights are the key to a happy
00:13:49.040 marriage.
00:13:49.480 And I thought to myself, well then, I think now at this point in history, we've had more
00:13:54.660 date nights than ever.
00:13:56.180 Then you, everybody would be.
00:13:58.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:13:58.720 I'm like, I don't think that's the key at all, actually.
00:14:01.520 Absolutely not.
00:14:02.360 And also that's, it's reductionist.
00:14:04.740 It's reducing a relationship, which is a very complex, multi-dimensional thing, down to
00:14:10.700 if we go out and spend money and do this superficial thing, that constitutes a healthy
00:14:15.460 relationship.
00:14:16.460 And that's what I was saying.
00:14:17.820 Date nights are generally for women. 0.80
00:14:19.780 And then all the husband, the keyboard board, well, I love my date nights.
00:14:23.100 I'm like, look at guys.
00:14:24.120 We all know this is true.
00:14:25.760 So how do you explain, my parents don't do date nights at all.
00:14:28.900 I don't think they've ever gone out on a date just for the sake of going out on a date.
00:14:33.680 On an anniversary or something, they make it an occasion.
00:14:36.080 But again, that's my dad doing it for my mom as like a gift.
00:14:39.340 Yeah.
00:14:40.460 They've been married for 30 years.
00:14:42.440 So this whole idea of date nights is the key to a happy, healthy, long relationship is
00:14:46.980 a very modernized and it's very materialistic.
00:14:49.860 Yeah.
00:14:50.280 Well, and it's typically the woman doesn't have genuine desire for the guy.
00:14:54.640 No.
00:14:54.960 And something else needs to pop up for it.
00:14:57.440 Exactly.
00:14:58.300 Compensation.
00:14:58.380 So it's almost like he has to spend money for her time.
00:15:01.160 Because if she has genuine desire for the guy.
00:15:03.300 She doesn't need to be taken out anywhere.
00:15:04.660 She's happy to be there.
00:15:05.740 Correct.
00:15:05.940 She is just happy to be there.
00:15:07.480 Absolutely.
00:15:08.220 And also when a woman is truly happy and as the, not astrologists, what are they called? 1.00
00:15:13.240 All the idiots that believe in astrology, all of that stuff. 0.98
00:15:15.880 As they always say, if you're in your feminine energy and all of this, right? 1.00
00:15:19.820 Actually, a woman who is happy with a guy and in the best place in herself and in the relationship,
00:15:27.800 she doesn't need to be taken out anywhere to be happy. 0.79
00:15:30.200 And also women who are genuinely happy is what we speak about before.
00:15:33.620 Spite.
00:15:34.040 There's no spite.
00:15:35.020 They're charitable.
00:15:36.160 They just do things because they want to do it.
00:15:38.320 Not because they're trying to gain something out of it.
00:15:40.280 And I think it's very telling of the current culture that we're in.
00:15:43.200 Is the fact that people presume, anytime you mention a woman just doing something,
00:15:48.180 it's straight away, well, what's he doing for her?
00:15:50.720 Everything's an exchange.
00:15:51.980 Everything's a transaction.
00:15:53.540 When really, I think we need to talk about the fact of why is that the current status quo?
00:15:58.540 Why is the go-to for women? 1.00
00:16:00.120 What am I getting in return?
00:16:01.720 That just says that you're not really happy.
00:16:03.600 Because when you really are happy, you're not even thinking about it like a transaction.
00:16:08.900 You're just doing it for the sake of making someone you love their life a bit easier.
00:16:14.600 Well, and the other thing is, I was thinking about this.
00:16:16.840 Why do they never say sex, silence, and a sandwich is the key to a happy marriage?
00:16:22.220 If they could say this.
00:16:24.260 They'll bring up this data and be like, women said they're happier when they get date nights. 1.00
00:16:28.000 I'm like, okay, what if you surveyed men on-
00:16:30.220 That's the key, isn't it?
00:16:31.180 Women said. 0.89
00:16:31.860 Yeah, I know.
00:16:32.280 I'm like, what if you surveyed men?
00:16:33.800 Are you happier when you get daily massages?
00:16:36.800 I mean, like, I'm like, why?
00:16:39.800 But it's always what the women want or what women generally like. 1.00
00:16:43.740 Yeah.
00:16:44.000 That is always the key to a happy marriage.
00:16:46.200 Communication.
00:16:47.360 Men don't want to communicate. 1.00
00:16:48.540 They fall in love with these foreign chicks that don't even speak the same language. 1.00
00:16:51.700 They don't even, they'll go to, like, Eastern Europe or Africa or Asia.
00:16:58.520 The chicks won't even know English. 1.00
00:17:01.000 Absolutely.
00:17:01.500 They won't even know English.
00:17:02.780 And they will take these Western women's men. 1.00
00:17:06.680 And so I'm like, guys, all of the things that are the key to happy relationships are always female things.
00:17:13.620 We like emotional intelligence.
00:17:17.360 We like communication.
00:17:18.740 We like that stuff.
00:17:19.900 It's never what the men want.
00:17:21.920 No, it's almost become a dictatorship in a way because instead of it being, you know, as a relationship should be, a negotiation of, you know, what you like, what they like, and meeting somewhere in the middle.
00:17:32.940 It's, you know, the women in society have completely taken over. 1.00
00:17:36.600 And it's now, you know, for lack of a better metaphor, the women have become this great dictator who have almost oppressed the men and said, well, if you want the key, if you want us to let you out, 0.99
00:17:47.900 well, then you have to have date nights, be six foot, have all of this money, like, it's all of these requirements.
00:17:55.280 Oh, my gosh.
00:17:55.820 Yeah.
00:17:56.760 Because a lot of these are Christian, like, trad women that are coming at me right now. 1.00
00:18:00.280 I'm like, wait, let me get this straight.
00:18:01.520 Like, you want your guy to be a traditional provider and he's got to take you on date nights all the time.
00:18:09.320 Ladies.
00:18:09.980 It does not compute.
00:18:11.060 It does not compute.
00:18:12.240 It makes no sense.
00:18:13.200 I'm not saying never, right?
00:18:14.560 Like, you were saying your parents would go on occasional date nights.
00:18:17.220 But I'm like, they said you want to do one every week.
00:18:20.720 I've heard that.
00:18:21.380 Every week?
00:18:22.100 I even think of me.
00:18:23.660 I'm like, that just seems like a lot of.
00:18:25.000 Excessive.
00:18:25.520 It does.
00:18:26.560 Like, dating is for courting.
00:18:28.500 I feel like once you are together, you're just.
00:18:31.540 You're together.
00:18:33.040 Why?
00:18:33.920 Why?
00:18:35.200 It doesn't even make.
00:18:36.320 I can't.
00:18:36.680 You can just go around in circles on this for ages and ages and ages.
00:18:39.680 But the root of the problem is, is that modern relationships.
00:18:44.660 Don't you find it funny how we're always having to talk about what makes a relationship work?
00:18:48.660 It's like what I spoke to you about before about projection.
00:18:51.520 The idea of someone constantly feels the need to say, I'm this, I'm this, I'm this.
00:18:55.420 Probably indicates they're not.
00:18:57.020 It's the same thing.
00:18:57.800 If you have to constantly say, this is what makes a relationship work.
00:19:00.680 Chances are relationships aren't working.
00:19:02.300 That's what I was pointing out because yesterday they were tweeting at me.
00:19:05.480 Okay, of course, obviously.
00:19:06.440 And this mother tweets at me her selfie.
00:19:10.280 Right.
00:19:10.640 Obviously.
00:19:11.480 I'm like, amazing.
00:19:13.000 Another selfie.
00:19:14.100 This is exactly what I wanted today.
00:19:15.860 And she goes, I am, I was a virgin on my wedding night.
00:19:21.620 I waited till I, yeah, I know.
00:19:23.620 I waited till I was married and my husband loves date night.
00:19:29.040 And he might not be the masculine man that most women on paper would pick.
00:19:34.080 But like I picked him for this reason because he helps me with the dishes.
00:19:38.960 It was something along those lines.
00:19:40.500 That's so tragic.
00:19:40.540 And I thought to myself, I said, do you see the subtle narcissism?
00:19:44.320 Yeah.
00:19:44.800 Because the subtle, and you won't notice this until you start noticing it to the audience
00:19:49.120 watching.
00:19:50.200 But you'll see it.
00:19:51.260 People that have more narcissistic tendencies will bring the attention to themselves.
00:19:55.420 Correct.
00:19:55.880 So you might be saying, the key to a happy relationship is this.
00:20:00.040 This is the evidence.
00:20:01.100 This is why I think that.
00:20:02.260 Maybe anecdotally.
00:20:04.000 What the more narcissistic people will do is say, look at me and my husband.
00:20:07.520 Here's my selfie.
00:20:08.720 We are amazing and awesome.
00:20:10.840 And if I indicate, well, I'm not talking about you.
00:20:15.640 They can't compute because they operate in a narcissistic way.
00:20:18.980 Because everything's about them.
00:20:20.560 And I keep having to tweet this. 1.00
00:20:21.940 Like, I'm not talking about you, bitch. 1.00
00:20:23.680 Yeah. 1.00
00:20:24.680 Respectfully.
00:20:25.200 Like, you seem more pleasant.
00:20:27.260 A little self-involved.
00:20:28.300 I mean, you seemed pleasant before I got the selfies.
00:20:32.280 Stop! 1.00
00:20:33.620 I know what you guys look like.
00:20:36.100 I see your profile picture.
00:20:38.460 Leave me alone.
00:20:39.660 Oh, my gosh.
00:20:41.360 I'm so tired.
00:20:42.380 And it's always women in their late 20s, early 30s that just want to prove to me they're still 1.00
00:20:47.320 hot.
00:20:47.820 I get it.
00:20:49.160 They just want the validation.
00:20:50.420 I get it.
00:20:51.200 Like, my lord. 1.00
00:20:52.240 You guys are crazy. 0.99
00:20:54.080 Anyways. 1.00