JustPearlyThings - December 27, 2022


The MAIN PROBLEM With Modern Women


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In this episode I am joined by my good friend Lizzo and we discuss the biggest problem facing men today and the one problem facing women today. We also discuss the difference between being a woman and a man and how to deal with it.

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00:00:00.000 what is the number one problem facing men today and what is the number one problem facing women
00:00:05.360 today say something come on ladies come on the number one problem with men is that they don't 0.98
00:00:14.580 tell women the truth and the number one problem with women they can't they can't handle the truth 1.00
00:00:17.900 simple that's a good that's a good paradigm to start from because it's actually very interesting
00:00:22.720 you say that a lot of women say i just want a man who's honest and then the second you're honest
00:00:26.140 she's like what you did what it's like well then don't ask me for honesty of course i fucking lie 0.95
00:00:30.740 thank you so that's a good that's a good point i agree with that one that i don't think it's the
00:00:34.960 biggest problem but it certainly is a problem in relationships today that is a problem the biggest
00:00:38.620 problem with men today is that i think the world is becoming hyper competitive most men are not aware
00:00:44.580 and understanding of how quickly there's going to be a genuine shift in between those who have things
00:00:49.700 and those who do not have things not just finances but also female status everything else and it's a 1.00
00:00:54.880 status game right and it's becoming harder and harder for men to play and that's all women's 1.00
00:00:59.520 fault of course because no it is because women choose the winners right women choose who the high 1.00
00:01:04.640 status males are so women pretend to give a shit about men of course they don't they give a shit 1.00
00:01:09.860 about themselves and and and a woman and a woman and a woman a woman if you ask her what she wants
00:01:16.160 from a man she's like i don't want much i just want to find a nice man who's a millionaire and six 0.66
00:01:20.320 foot tall and funny and charismatic and interesting and spontaneous and looks after me and doesn't cheat
00:01:24.400 and and it's funny and good looking and strong i don't want much like they name all this shit 0.84
00:01:29.220 that most dudes are never going to have and it's becoming harder and harder and you end up with
00:01:32.560 people top g's who own everything on the planet they could ever possibly wish for and then you've 0.99
00:01:37.160 got other guys who have nothing and you're there's this large divide there's no longer any middle
00:01:40.500 ground you have dudes who can't get any pussy and then you've got dudes who are just blocking 1.00
00:01:43.960 girls are frightened center and that's what the problem with being a man is today what about the 0.99
00:01:48.220 women what about i would say i would say well everybody's got a chance to talk i'm gonna shut
00:01:54.940 up and have my clementine no i want to know i want to know i want to learn from you sir you want to
00:01:58.620 learn from well i wanted to answer i feel like it goes for both it's not just one of the other i feel
00:02:03.200 like it's self-accountability definitely women are not accountable for themselves i agree with you 0.99
00:02:08.060 there why just women though it's both it's yeah it is definitely both it is both you're right but
00:02:14.400 society punishes men for not being self-accountable society does not punish women for not being
00:02:18.900 self-accountable i'll give you an example if you're a man and you're arrogant and you think
00:02:21.540 you're something when you're not trust me society will teach you very quickly that you don't matter
00:02:25.320 when you don't get laid and you stay a fucking brokey if you're a chick and think you're something 0.99
00:02:29.020 when you're not you can run around with your ego still get dates still get laid still have a
00:02:32.400 fairly sensible social life society as a whole doesn't come along and slap you in the face with
00:02:38.060 realizations if you're a man and you think you're something you're not it is a ticking time bomb
00:02:42.360 until society teaches you a lesson that's the difference this is why men in general are more 0.99
00:02:46.940 self-accountable because the men who are not self-accountable get fucked up so those who are 0.96
00:02:51.420 successful are very self-accountable people they look at themselves and go okay the only way i'm going
00:02:55.680 to get and progress further the reason she left me the only way i'm going to do better make more money
00:02:58.900 etc etc is i have to change most women don't want to do that they don't sit and think 1.00
00:03:02.380 i have to change they think oh he left me because it's him and i lost my job because my boss and
00:03:07.480 this is this because of this they've no you women don't look in the mirror and change a fucking thing 1.00
00:03:11.520 no because don't forget what you're forgetting right nowadays they can't change it because it's
00:03:15.560 all about body positivity like i look sexy at a size 28 are you saying lizzo's not a 10
00:03:22.880 are you guys trying to get me cancelled see i'm not gonna i don't agree with what you just said
00:03:29.280 because 90 of cosmetic surgery is by women women are trying to change as much as possible 0.79
00:03:37.040 men don't want to change they're not accountable for themselves they think that because because
00:03:41.980 they're a man you're going to be attracted to them no like you can you can't be fat you stay at home
00:03:47.600 you're just playing video games and you expect a woman to want to fuck you no she's not going to want 1.00
00:03:51.160 fuck you yeah but then she won't this is the point and and and and then she won't and society will 0.80
00:03:55.760 teach them a lesson they might be able to pull off a little blag with a girl for a year or so but in
00:03:59.540 general they're going to end up lonely in general they're going to struggle to find partners i agree
00:04:02.400 with you this with the cosmetic surgery thing women are happy to change how their appearance and change 1.00
00:04:06.440 how they look but they're not happy to change how they act most of them they're not happy to change
00:04:10.740 the women are changing what the men don't care about the men don't care about the men don't care about 0.99
00:04:14.880 the big old lips yes they do and no they do it the women are doing that for themselves 1.00
00:04:19.000 yeah because the men don't care about it the men would rather a woman change her stinking attitude 1.00
00:04:23.700 then put on all that makeup and hair and everything that's what the men want but the women will go 1.00
00:04:28.540 out there like oh i'm going to change this i'm going to change that if you look at a man and the
00:04:31.740 man said yeah he's fat the man will most well if he's feeling bad about himself he wants to make
00:04:35.460 say he'll go and hit the gym what's the one gonna do go and do get a bbl get her lips done put on her 1.00
00:04:40.320 makeup put on their hair and say the big old fat person that she is and say oh it's body positivity 0.57
00:04:44.960 the men don't even want that and the women are not getting all this cosmetic surgery for the men 0.97
00:04:49.700 they're getting it for themselves you can't turn around what man wants a woman that's gonna turn 1.00
00:04:54.000 around go and have an operation they can't sit on a plane because her ass has been injected or been 1.00
00:04:57.520 interfered with she's got to lie there on her stomach you think the men want that or wake up in 1.00
00:05:01.160 the morning before you gotta hit the house she's gotta put on i'm sure i worried about some of the men
00:05:05.260 because they must go out with a woman and then when they wake up in the morning they think who the hell is
00:05:10.060 she the scars by the time you take everything off women need to change their attitudes before 1.00
00:05:14.600 they change their makeup i'm sure that even more than that change your attitude because women have 1.00
00:05:20.120 got there and they want to change this they want to change that all the things that don't count
00:05:23.560 if you learn to the same way how women can go out there and learn to put makeup on learn to cook 1.00
00:05:26.980 learn to wash by hand learn to please a man that's what you need to do that's outdated girl 1.00
00:05:31.480 she's that girl that's outdated she's right for who i'm saying it's like you're we had literally just
00:05:37.100 talked about this off camera when we when you guys came here from the airport when we were
00:05:39.820 talking about oh what's the value system or the point system for a woman who cooks versus a woman 1.00
00:05:45.200 who can suck good dick and fuck well but you can cook and suck dick as well but what i'm saying is 0.99
00:05:50.060 is that pearl if you can correct me if i'm wrong but um quoting her was that when she interviewed
00:05:55.000 people on the street that there was more points given to something for like a sexual return as
00:05:59.900 opposed to oh wash dishes by hand there's a dishwasher why cook we can eat out there's a chef
00:06:04.200 people don't give a fuck about that that's what they think but we literally just talked about
00:06:08.440 this yesterday no it was okay i did a street interview and i asked the guys would you rather
00:06:12.160 have a girl that gave good head or a good cook and most guys they want this but i think that's
00:06:18.260 for the quick satisfaction but i think that's more for like a one night stand but what i'm trying
00:06:22.120 to say is that if you all the women out there and they're talking about well some of the women 0.60
00:06:26.160 want to be settled down they want a man right and you gotta think what the man wants the money 0.87
00:06:30.620 they're interested in that look at when you're when you're doing street interviews you're in
00:06:34.300 doing single people look at the people there that are happily married and ask them what they do
00:06:40.300 because all the things that the women out there are doing you can be a housewife you can be going 1.00
00:06:44.300 out you can suck just as good as any old tramp on the street and keep your man and have a man 1.00
00:06:49.500 and i can say that because i'm 32 years in canton auntie you can't say you can't say attraction is not
00:06:56.700 important it is initially initially exactly you a man is not not gonna find you attractive and then
00:07:03.740 think oh because you you can cook well he's got a chef a man's gonna find you attractive and he's
00:07:09.420 okay let's let's ask andrew would you be with a girl that's five out of ten because she can cook 1.00
00:07:17.980 oh firstly that's not what she said to be fair and secondly i'd be with the 10 out of 10 who can cook
00:07:22.380 because i'm top jeep but to make the point i think what you have to understand is what men are looking
00:07:28.060 for in a relationship so you did the the street interview and you're asking single people probably
00:07:32.940 young people probably idiots who know they're on camera talking about good head all this garbage 1.00
00:07:36.380 is what men are interested in in life not just in their relationship but in their life as a whole
00:07:41.260 is status i don't think most people understand especially women how competitive the male world is
00:07:44.940 and how competitive it is for status this is why men do everything they do men buy the faster car
00:07:50.380 not to drive any faster because of status it's why we want a bigger house we don't give a where
00:07:53.660 we live it's because status so i want to go to the gym and get big and strong because of status
00:07:57.180 everything we do is about status it's why i want the better jobs i want more money so i want to be
00:08:00.540 respected so what's the number one thing we want our female to give us status that's what we want so 1.00
00:08:04.860 she can give us status by being beautiful that's one thing she can do but another thing she could do 1.00
00:08:08.540 is if i turn up home and i come home with my boys and she says i'll cook you all a steak that's status
00:08:13.500 that's all my boys going ross you've just been out all night and she's here and she's going to cook
00:08:17.100 for all of us and she'll clean up and tidy up boom that's the kind of girl a man's not going to want 1.00
00:08:21.100 to lose because it makes him look good with that that's what i want status suck a dick blah blah blah 0.96
00:08:26.140 listen they can only be sucked in so many ways i mean and no let's be serious about this because
00:08:33.580 this is actually a serious point right this is a very serious point because the western world has
00:08:36.940 collapsed in real time and it's a failed society and one of the reasons it's a failed society is because
00:08:40.620 of the over sexualization especially of females as a whole if a woman comes up to me and goes i'll be the 1.00
00:08:44.620 best sex you ever had i am revolted i don't want the best sex i've ever had i want you to be pure 0.97
00:08:50.300 and a virgin you shouldn't know what sex is cook my dinner shut up don't come and talk to me about 1.00
00:08:54.700 fucking sucking dick it's vile it's disgusting i don't want to hear that shit can i say i don't 1.00
00:08:58.940 want to hear that what i want is a woman who makes me look good no woman who's running around talking 1.00
00:09:03.180 about sucking dick can make me look good so i lose interest completely and utterly and that's the truth so 0.91
00:09:08.060 what she's saying is completely correct these are old school things but it's not about the act yes you can
00:09:12.860 order food of course it's about the status that comes with it that's what it's about uh sagittarius
00:09:18.300 spoken like a true one that is true my man's a sagittarius so basically it's a straight shooting
00:09:26.940 sort of conversation but i think that sometimes we get distracted and we talk about the bicker bicker
00:09:31.500 of between men and women i think that the problem that men and women have is the consequences of the
00:09:38.860 bad decisions that the one percent of powerful men make on our behalf because our problems are on a
00:09:44.220 societal level less than between woman and man that is why there's a lot of competition between men 0.97
00:09:50.860 this chase for status that they will never get men why is that the fault of the one percent of men
00:09:55.420 because they're the ones that drive the machine that runs this the west it's always been that way
00:09:59.180 yeah and but then think about the men that are the top now the corruption and everything that's going
00:10:03.420 on and this is why it feels very good to sit next to somebody like you and just say do you know what
00:10:08.300 i appreciate that you say things that are really true you expose a very toxic truth and a very true
00:10:13.100 truth as well that is out there but the reality is on the trenches when you go to the grassroots people
00:10:18.780 don't feel the way that you feel it's not as simple as what you say they are victims of this system so
00:10:23.980 my job here is really not to try and make it about men and women is to make you understand that actually
00:10:28.700 we need to start changing the narrative they're both messed up on either side because then women look bad 1.00
00:10:34.700 no because it's about everybody together women have their traumas men have their traumas i'm not
00:10:38.780 here to fight against men and women that's small i understand what you're saying i understand what
00:10:42.300 you're saying but the idea the idea the idea that this is one percent of men have created this terrible
00:10:47.100 society yeah i talk about that i talk about the matrix i talk about these things but it's always been
00:10:50.700 this way it's always been a small elite group of men who are in charge of the world and unfortunately now
00:10:56.620 we're fighting battles in different ways the the the days of old a man proved his worth by going to war
00:11:02.060 basically every man at any point in his life was going to end up going to war and he came back
00:11:05.420 victorious he came back with honor he got himself a wife that's that's how it worked right now men
00:11:09.420 don't have to go to war as much depending on where you live in the world and it's slightly different
00:11:13.100 and we fight our wars in other ways and one of the true expressions of testosterone and trying to
00:11:17.340 really express your ability and your combative ability now in the in the modern world is power and
00:11:21.580 influence so in the olden days you'd go to war you come back with a ribbon nowadays you got x amount of
00:11:26.540 followers you can move the world with money i can bend reality with money please understand if i walk into jimmy
00:11:31.740 chew they locked the door no broke he's allowed in tapes here and i bought whatever the i want
00:11:35.260 there's lines outside because i'm there i bend the world with money that's how i that's how the wars
00:11:39.740 are now won so you're talking about high status males and that it's always been that way now you
00:11:45.420 have a whole contingent of men who aren't dead okay they didn't die in a ditch but they're lonely as
00:11:49.740 fuck jerking off and that's the reality of it and and women don't give a fuck about them and why should 1.00
00:11:54.060 you i'm not sitting here actually shitting on women in any way i think women have a biological instinct 0.98
00:11:58.780 to a degree to try and find the best mate they can because it gives them the highest chance of
00:12:01.740 survival and the harsh realities of the world and if they look at a man who's not capable they just
00:12:05.740 don't feel an attraction to him and that's the bottom line of it and and that's why i actually
00:12:09.820 most i'm largely misunderstood i don't blame women for a lot of the problems women are guilty of
00:12:14.620 certain things but i have a massive amount of blame to place on men because there's so many men
00:12:18.620 who are genuinely incompetent i was a chick i wouldn't these losers either like they're losers so 0.90
00:12:24.140 it's hard as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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