JustPearlyThings - The Most Controversial Take On Grape

00:00:00.000 i have a controversial take on this whole grape thing i think so a lot of feminists like to argue 1.00

00:00:07.540 from both sides of their mouth so they would say um yeah um consent and all this and that and then

00:00:16.260 they would try to make it like okay everything is the man's fault but then they also remove you

00:00:24.320 and remove the possibility of asking what the woman was doing why was she in that situation so 0.99

00:00:30.540 now you are not allowed to ask all of that right because then it seems like victim blaming but the

00:00:35.600 reality is knowing why she was in that situation paints a fuller picture of why she was gripped

00:00:42.440 but then they take out that whole part essentially making it that there is no way on earth it can be

00:00:48.600 a woman's fault it has to be the man's but then it wasn't that there was a case recently where a 1.00

00:00:53.280 woman's um underwear was shown in court for example to prove that like oh you know maybe she was

00:00:58.660 asking for it so i feel like that stuff still does get brought up in the courtroom yeah but they do

00:01:04.860 still take that into consideration they even go as far as to shame the victim but that's that's for

00:01:09.800 that's when lawyers are trying to get their job done but the reality doesn't go like that but when

00:01:15.040 you're trying to get to the truth you have to ask questions yeah you do have to ask the difficult

00:01:19.080 questions of course like i understand that i think there is a difference though between like holding

00:01:22.940 someone's underwear up in court and shaming them for it as well though i don't know what what were

00:01:29.680 they doing so they um so there was a woman that had been great and they held up her underwear that 0.96

00:01:35.300 she was wearing like a thong and it was red and they tried to use that to say that she was 1.00

00:01:38.740 consenting basically do you think women ever wear red thongs to have sex um yes but also i wouldn't say

00:01:47.280 that that's that equates to consent i i don't think it could equates to it but could it be evidence

00:01:51.980 no i don't think it could i i could see where the you know yes you could see where they're going if

00:01:57.500 she was in lingerie you wouldn't think she might have been planning on having sex but then you can 0.99

00:02:01.820 you know withdraw consent at any time so you could turn up in the laundry you can even be fully naked

00:02:05.840 and ready to go and then you can change your mind i think this is very confusing to men

00:02:09.640 you can you certainly can but i could see where a guy would be confused so he's like okay wait

00:02:16.540 you're butt naked in my bed yeah you and women also play say no which we which we said earlier 1.00

00:02:23.380 women do that so now we're so i can't make this up i can't make this up it's fun it's fun to say no 0.99

00:02:32.440 they want to be able to play their games and still play victim afterwards

00:02:37.640 that's the reality of feminine nature you want to put yourself in a dangerous situation 1.00

00:02:43.300 and then have someone save you and if someone doesn't save you then you should you should still

00:02:48.320 also be able to play just to clarify no in that situation i'm fully consenting and i feel like

00:02:52.080 it's about body language though and it's about judging the situation right but do you see how it

00:02:56.620 can be very confusing to a guy yes i understand if the guy just doesn't understand women i guess

00:03:02.820 i feel like a guy that understands women and understands like body language they so she gets 1.00

00:03:07.480 into she gets naked in bed yeah she play tells him no yeah and she can withdraw consent 0.99

00:03:16.160 and now he's supposed to know she doesn't want him yeah i understand how that could be confusing

00:03:22.780 yeah actually i don't think majority of the cases is a man that doesn't understand women i actually

00:03:27.820 think majority of the cases is a man that understands the game very well but what happens

00:03:31.980 is they have their phone how many let me ask you a question what percentage of women do you think 1.00

00:03:37.140 regret having sex later oh a lot exactly a lot yeah so if she's giving consent now and then later

00:03:43.020 she regrets it and then she she goes to the court and says well she never gave consent how is the man

00:03:47.320 meant to prove that he saw the body language but i just think surely if they regretted it they

00:03:51.120 wouldn't want to make a massive case out of it they would probably just never want to speak about

00:03:54.680 it again or pretend that it didn't happen i i think i like i have friends right maybe let me think of a

00:04:00.140 specific friend that's regretted sleeping with with a guy she would just want to pretend that that

00:04:04.460 didn't happen she would never want to go and make a big deal out of it what usually happens she has a

00:04:08.320 lot of people talking in her ears right that can convince her that she was gripped that's what

00:04:14.120 usually happens she she really doesn't want to come out with the story but then she tells this

00:04:17.960 friend and the friend's like oh my god that he he gripped you and then she tells the next

00:04:21.820 oh my god but it's such a traumatic experience to go through all of the exam you know they have

00:04:25.600 to do like an internal exam all of this stuff to go through all of that and women love their trauma 0.99

00:04:30.280 but to to have to go through all of that though i don't think anyone would choose to do that

00:04:36.840 unless they like you know we're really sure they've been proven that there have been tons of women that 0.97

00:04:42.360 have absolutely chosen to go through that and been lying i mean yeah i guess with like the false

00:04:48.640 accusations but i feel like surely the majority of women wouldn't i think i think i think if that 1.00

00:04:53.880 was true false accusations wouldn't be so common but because if i ask if i ask okay okay so these

00:05:00.140 are two random men yeah do you know anybody that's been falsely accused razor both of them yeah easy

00:05:06.300 do you know more than one guy three guys

00:05:09.600 three you three yeah no even i know one like even you know even i know one yeah okay so but i feel

00:05:17.900 like the amount of women i know that have been essayed is like way way more okay but then someone's

00:05:23.640 lying right because if we're hearing all the men that have been falsely accused and all the women

00:05:28.180 saying they've been graped someone's lying but i feel like it's a heart a far higher number of people

00:05:32.760 that have been than it is people that i think i think if that was true they would go to the police

00:05:38.680 because i don't believe women i just i think if women if women really cared about women yeah and

00:05:44.960 they would make sure that great biscuits get locked up yeah i just so either they don't so either i don't

00:05:50.100 think it's complicated at all but you know if only one percent get prosecuted they might be like

00:05:55.480 well what's the point what's the point in going through all of this it's like traumatic to have to go

00:05:59.560 through police interviews and all of the exams and have to relive that trauma this points back to

00:06:05.040 what we're trying to preach to women you say what's the point the point is not the point yeah is to get 1.00

00:06:11.880 the person arrested but even if that doesn't happen the point is that you've logged it with the

00:06:15.960 authorities and you've built that is the point right yeah so once you don't do that you're literally

00:06:20.680 letting a grapist go scot-free to be able to do to other people because if you if one guy is doing

00:06:26.580 it to all these girls eventually they can build a case if 10 girls have the same story that don't 0.98

00:06:32.760 know each other but the problem so feminists will say they're they're fighting for women yet they 1.00

00:06:37.980 don't go to the police to put a grapist in jail i mean obviously some people do but i think i think 1.00

00:06:44.460 it is really hard it is really hard for somebody that has been in that situation to actually speak

00:06:50.140 out about it and maybe i i think for a lot of cases that i've seen it can be that sort of thing

00:06:55.800 where it's like one person comes out and then it empowers someone else to come out and then

00:06:58.820 before you know it it's like 10 other people do as well i don't really believe those girls either

00:07:04.020 oh really no how come how come they always tend to come out when there's something to gain though

00:07:09.620 if they are so traumatized they only ever come out when there is something to gain yeah like i do i do

00:07:15.440 understand from that perspective but i also think maybe as an individual it could be really difficult

00:07:20.180 to go up against someone that's say more powerful has more status more money whatever but then when

00:07:24.900 kind of women come together i think maybe they do feel more empowered to be able to take that step of 1.00

00:07:30.980 doing the police interviews going through all of that because it is traumatic to have to do that

00:07:34.800 i can imagine it must be traumatic to have to go through that process i just think genuinely if that

00:07:40.780 happened to you you would go to the police yeah i i just have a hard time because the truth is on

00:07:45.500 your side yeah go tell the truth and the thing is i i i really think police are i i don't think i'm

00:07:55.300 i question the number that it's only one or two percent because my my guys do like my my gut my gut

00:08:02.420 feeling is the way they got that number was by just surveying people and saying were you graped and

00:08:07.040 then and then putting that against the number of yeah i i don't know i could be wrong i just i've

00:08:12.500 done this long enough so i know how the feminists manipulate everything like because the one you 1.00

00:08:17.660 know the one in three like women or one in four women have been graped yeah that's wrong right 1.00

00:08:22.260 because they included like great getting your butt grabbed at a bar right oh right like that's not

00:08:27.560 the same thing like that's happened to me before yeah that's happened to me yeah it's just like 0.79

00:08:32.820 okay i still think that that's messed up because i've seen it happen to a guy before

00:08:36.500 yeah like a hendry but to even compare that to essay or grape i think is insulting to real

00:08:43.060 great victims it's like all right that's it's not on the same level no but it's still wrong

00:08:47.260 of correct but you see how they're manipulating that stat yeah by including things like that yeah

00:08:52.640 or even taking off a condom we're gonna put taking off a condom at the same level of a woman that's 1.00

00:08:58.580 been graped or assaulted i think that's insulting to real assault victims

00:09:02.500 i mean i would say that that is pretty high up there that is pretty high up there i want every

00:09:07.760 woman that's lied about birth control to have the same energy i think that's still wrong yeah i still 0.68

00:09:13.320 think that that's up there as well wrong but i think they're all do we think that's great i don't

00:09:17.580 think most feminine maybe you might but i don't think most feminists would say you grab that man i 1.00

00:09:22.440 think if they're trying to like baby trap a guy then a hundred percent that's like so so what about

00:09:26.980 jail should she go to jail yes thank you we agree

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JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023

The Most Controversial Take On Grape

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