The Most Delusional Type Of Feminist YET!!!
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, we talk about feminism, the patriarchy, and why we should all be better parents. We also talk about what it means to be a feminist and why it s important to have a good relationship with your kids.
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What do you think of these like feminists that are saying that it's in your your kid's best
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interest to come to his own and basically pick his gender on his own? I think that's delusional
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if I let's give an example that's not about gender if I was to ask my son what he wants to
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eat all day every day he would just eat ice cream and candy and that's it but would that be the best
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thing for him? No because we all acknowledge that kids don't always know what's best for them that's
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why they have parents to guide them and it could go further than that like you know you could think
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he's spider-man but you're not going to be like okay let's go to the tallest building in town
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and we pretend we're spider-man all the time it's fun and I love being silly with them it's like the
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greatest thing ever but you would never do that no so why is that the one exception if your daughter
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has anorexia or anyone in your family you don't you're like yeah you're right you don't have to
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eat dinner tonight or what if I came home and I said mom I'm black they would have a field day
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you're insane we're not doing this but they they feed into like kids I mean like every kid's a
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little delusional you know what I mean because they're kids it's fun they believe in Santa
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right right but we don't well with Santa we do a bit but for the most part for the most part we don't
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feed into like their you know you don't tell them this is and in a certain age you tell them
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Santa isn't real or like yeah I'm gonna feel bad saying this in case the kids are watching
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but you know but it's like there's no criminal offense for that you know yeah but perhaps there
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should be I think there's I think it's abuse and it's really confusing and now you're having these
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kids like come out later and say oh no I was really young and impressionable right and I now I've
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chopped off my parts and my voice is different and this is this is what my parents have led me to
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I think we should hold the doctors and parents accountable they should at least be open to
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litigation at the very least if not criminal charges yeah I mean I know you can't like
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retroactively do things like criminal charges but we should establish some new laws for that sort of
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thing because I agree that that's at least something that appears to be abuse in my opinion as well
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yeah what do you think about them basically saying this is like misogyny patriarchy you men
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and that men are just abusing power them just being like the narrative that we hear all the time
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in social media yeah movies I think it's not true at all I mean the example is we've been giving like
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girls have more power in marriages and family court so that's just one aspect where that's not true but
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I don't believe there's like some cabal of guys trying to oppress women by any means and I think most
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guys care deeply for women and respect them like in their own way and I think it's not a healthy
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idea to put in people's brains yeah I think it's I think it's just women whining honestly I think it's
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women whining and just saying oh my life is so hard because I'm a girl but usually they're just kind
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of lazy and usually fat yeah that's that's my opinion on it you know but it just goes to show
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that it's like if men had all this power and patriarchy like why don't why don't you have custody
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all the time yeah why don't you have your son when that's what is more influential than the next
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generation nothing that's what matters most that's why the most important thing to me is protecting
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children correct and so like it's like what if we wanted to influence society how do you do that
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kids because that's the next generation who is influencing the kids the women mostly because
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most women lead relationships in my opinion because if you guys are in a contract right
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I mean you're in a contract and I gain everything from leaving and you lose everything right you're
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going to always be trying to make me happy right so like I I think that the way that the laws are set up
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what do you think about the phrase happy wife happy life I think I always hear that women oh my god
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because we're never happy have you ever really tried to make a woman happy I feel that I've made
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women happy but who knows but it's like okay if we go and make base everything off of our feelings
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they change every day and so it's like if you try to make like you try to make a girl happy on her
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period trying to make a girl like we're emotional that's okay like we're meant to be emotional I think
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it's a superpower that women have in all honesty like the way we can use it for good right because
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we can like be so comforting and we can really make people feel like heard and we can't like there
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are jobs that women do that like men just cannot do the same but I think we also have to look at like
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we are so emotional and our feelings change every day and if he if his goal in life is to make you
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happy you're never going to be happy because women don't like men that just bend it to the
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will of whatever they want we don't like men like that's fascinating while you're trying to bait them
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to doing that but you also don't want them to do that no I mean you're like testing them have you
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ever seen a guy that gives up everything for his girl oh totally like you hate them like it happens
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so often like especially when guys first fall in love with the first girl they fall in love with
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they lose your friend for like a year right in high school or whatever and because you'll just do
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everything for him because it's like your first time and that's what you think you have to do and
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then she always dumps him I mean I think it's incredible some people are like high school
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sweethearts but for the most part yeah yeah like and so it's like yeah like the girl will dump him
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if he tries to make her happy so it's like what it should be a healthy balance of like being yourself
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doing your own thing and as well as also making sacrifices for each other I would think
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or hope no I think it should be about his happiness just that's it yeah because I think women are
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happier when we're trying there we're like trying to make the man happy and like follow his lead like
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I don't think women want to equally lead the relationship I'm not saying that her happiness
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isn't important like it went like we want to be happy but it's like happiness shouldn't be the goal
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of a relationship that like that should not be the goal like the goal is to raise your kids
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and I think that kids are raised in the best environment when the woman respects the man's
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leadership that's just my opinion I really I really like what you said like the especially the part
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like Jordan Peterson talks about this a lot um you know like when people you ask them what they want
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to do and they'll say like oh be happy it's like life isn't just happiness there's going to be so many
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ups and downs no matter what no matter how amazing your life is tragedy is going to come
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you know so I agree that happiness being a goal isn't the best idea and relationships should be no different