JustPearlyThings - August 12, 2023


The Number 1 RED FLAG In Modern Women


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

208.71559

Word Count

2,275

Sentence Count

277

Misogynist Sentences

16

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I find it weird that a lot of girls, speaking again, this is a very general statement, but
00:00:05.000 a lot of girls in that kind of respect will look at idols and mimic what they look like,
00:00:09.500 but a lot of guys will look at their idols and mimic what they act like and do.
00:00:13.500 That's facts.
00:00:14.500 Right.
00:00:15.500 But we focus more on respect and I think with women sometimes it can be more of an attention.
00:00:18.500 Visual.
00:00:19.500 Because how many people have Cardi B as their role model?
00:00:21.500 Just be like J-Lo.
00:00:22.500 Yeah.
00:00:23.500 You see how J-Lo's rolling?
00:00:24.500 Exactly.
00:00:25.500 Hot.
00:00:26.500 Don't bring it around me.
00:00:28.500 But then if you ask a guy who their role model is, it's like Samuel L. Jackson or something.
00:00:33.500 You know what?
00:00:34.500 I was trying to think of one good feminine role model in the media.
00:00:38.000 Today?
00:00:39.000 Yeah, like that's in mainstream.
00:00:40.000 I'm like, I can't think.
00:00:41.000 Kayla Pearson.
00:00:42.000 Who's that?
00:00:43.000 J-Lo.
00:00:44.000 She's a role model for me.
00:00:47.000 She does like YouTube videos and that.
00:00:50.000 Okay.
00:00:51.000 But she's not like anywhere near as big as someone like Beyonce or Cardi B.
00:00:54.000 Just pearly things.
00:00:55.000 Real?
00:00:56.000 Real?
00:00:57.000 If I'm putting YouTubers on here.
00:00:59.000 Do you want to pull up the Instagram?
00:01:02.000 You thought you escaped?
00:01:04.000 Yeah.
00:01:05.000 Oh, no.
00:01:06.000 Oh, no.
00:01:07.000 No, no, no, no.
00:01:09.000 Okay.
00:01:10.000 What are we thinking?
00:01:11.000 That's the Pearl podcast.
00:01:12.000 Number one pic.
00:01:13.000 I love that.
00:01:14.000 So therefore she gets a point because she was on my podcast.
00:01:17.000 Oh.
00:01:18.000 Look at that.
00:01:19.000 This picture here.
00:01:20.000 Do you know what?
00:01:21.000 This is interesting, Granz.
00:01:22.000 You know what's really important?
00:01:24.000 The captions.
00:01:25.000 Yeah, we're not really looking at those.
00:01:26.000 The captions are vital.
00:01:27.000 Can we pull up that caption again?
00:01:29.000 The captions are vital.
00:01:30.000 I need to see you on the train.
00:01:31.000 You see that picture?
00:01:32.000 Another adventure.
00:01:33.000 Another adventure.
00:01:34.000 Another adventure.
00:01:35.000 Another adventure.
00:01:36.000 That picture would make a bisexual straight again.
00:01:39.000 Is that a politic coming in on your stuff?
00:01:41.000 You're sick, you know.
00:01:43.000 Yeah, let's see.
00:01:44.000 Yeah, let's see.
00:01:45.000 All right, all right.
00:01:46.000 Whoa.
00:01:47.000 Yeah, she's cool.
00:01:48.000 Let me see what she say.
00:01:49.000 Get a smile.
00:01:50.000 What type of message would you guys send as an opener to her?
00:01:54.000 It would be, you know, with me, I'm not trying to give too much away, but it would
00:02:00.000 usually be story related.
00:02:01.000 Yeah.
00:02:02.000 Something related to whatever you're posting that right now.
00:02:04.000 What adventure do you want to go on next?
00:02:06.000 Because, I mean, if you posted like back in July last year, like you went somewhere
00:02:12.000 and then you don't really want to talk about that right now.
00:02:14.000 But if you're in Dubai right now or you're somewhere, you can talk about that maybe,
00:02:18.000 you know.
00:02:19.000 But going through her page, I normally, the pictures are a given, but I like to look at
00:02:25.000 their statuses as well, what they're captioning the things, you know what I mean?
00:02:28.000 Yeah, the single eyes do light up.
00:02:30.000 Because it's one of those pages where you're like, okay, you see enough.
00:02:33.000 In the pictures to be like, okay, if I was to message this person, like I said before,
00:02:39.000 when a guy's message is like, will she respond?
00:02:41.000 She might.
00:02:42.000 She might, depending on what you say, right?
00:02:45.000 So what?
00:02:46.000 Your Instagram gives off, you have to come up with like really astute and you have to
00:02:50.000 be really on your stuff.
00:02:51.000 With yours?
00:02:52.000 Yeah, it's fun girl.
00:02:54.000 Not fun girl, but fun girl.
00:02:57.000 So without meeting her, like what type of person would you have thought she was before?
00:03:02.000 Probably seen in the nightclubs out there and stuff.
00:03:05.000 I've seen you out.
00:03:06.000 I haven't.
00:03:07.000 Yeah.
00:03:08.000 Yeah.
00:03:09.000 What are you, are you in the nightclubs or not?
00:03:11.000 Do you know what?
00:03:12.000 I used to a lot when I was younger, but now it's more events like bars, stuff like that.
00:03:16.000 I don't really go out to the clubs too, too much.
00:03:18.000 Certified nights out there.
00:03:19.000 Yeah.
00:03:20.000 Cocktail bars, two for one, before seven.
00:03:21.000 Yes.
00:03:22.000 Okay.
00:03:23.000 I know I've seen you before.
00:03:27.000 Do any of the guys want to volunteer their Instagrams?
00:03:30.000 Yeah, go on the night ranks.
00:03:31.000 Let's do it, man.
00:03:33.000 No.
00:03:34.000 What is the most wild message you've ever sent to a girl?
00:03:38.000 Ooh.
00:03:39.000 Um.
00:03:40.000 The ones where you have to send a message and put your phone down and look away.
00:03:44.000 Like a wild first message.
00:03:46.000 Oh, first message.
00:03:47.000 First message.
00:03:48.000 Oh, no.
00:03:49.000 I don't need to know.
00:03:50.000 Probably like a, probably, you know, I think if she's abroad, you get a little bit more
00:03:57.000 confidence in it.
00:03:58.000 So you might, you might like, yo, when are you going to quit playing and just move to
00:04:01.000 London?
00:04:02.000 You know what I mean?
00:04:03.000 Like one of those kind of ones.
00:04:05.000 But yeah.
00:04:06.000 What about you do?
00:04:08.000 Sometimes I would do funny ones that are only funny to me.
00:04:12.000 Like, I can see you.
00:04:13.000 That's the message I ask.
00:04:15.000 It's dumb, right?
00:04:16.000 It's a good thing you're engaged now.
00:04:17.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:04:18.000 I'm out of the game.
00:04:19.000 If you tried that on me, that would not work.
00:04:20.000 I'd be like, is this a mistake?
00:04:21.000 Like, is this an error?
00:04:22.000 I can see you.
00:04:23.000 But, but, but, look.
00:04:24.000 You responded.
00:04:25.000 That's all you wanted.
00:04:26.000 That's all you wanted.
00:04:27.000 That's all we needed.
00:04:28.000 We needed a door to be open.
00:04:29.000 And from there, you can figure out.
00:04:30.000 I'm only kidding.
00:04:31.000 Blah, blah, blah.
00:04:32.000 You can find it.
00:04:33.000 But you see that?
00:04:34.000 It worked right there.
00:04:35.000 Yeah.
00:04:36.000 That's all you wanted.
00:04:37.000 That's all you wanted.
00:04:38.000 That's all we needed.
00:04:39.000 We needed a door to be open.
00:04:40.000 Yeah, you can figure out.
00:04:41.000 I'm only kidding.
00:04:42.000 Blah, blah, blah.
00:04:43.000 You can find it.
00:04:44.000 But you see that?
00:04:45.000 It worked right there.
00:04:46.000 I can see you.
00:04:47.000 You know the GIFs?
00:04:48.000 The little GIFs.
00:04:49.000 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:50.000 They're the best way to slide, I think.
00:04:52.000 Oh.
00:04:53.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:54.000 You know what's funny?
00:04:55.000 I've never DMed anyone before they DMed me.
00:04:58.000 Sorry, big man.
00:04:59.000 I've never messaged anyone in my life.
00:05:01.000 Sorry, big man.
00:05:02.000 No, I didn't know it was a thing.
00:05:03.000 Go on.
00:05:04.000 I didn't know it was a thing.
00:05:05.000 Go on, king.
00:05:06.000 I literally waited for someone to message me.
00:05:07.000 Cold.
00:05:08.000 You kind of react and then the vibe of it.
00:05:10.000 What's your back signal?
00:05:11.000 You like a couple pictures?
00:05:12.000 You like the story?
00:05:13.000 So if I like your pictures more than one, you know what it means.
00:05:16.000 Then he knows what time it is.
00:05:17.000 And if you don't, he or she, let's not go fully gay yet.
00:05:20.000 Okay, okay.
00:05:21.000 Hey, man.
00:05:23.000 And then we kind of, then obviously if you get a private message or something like that,
00:05:27.000 then I kind of react to that.
00:05:29.000 I don't know if it's a female or a male, but a female is very different where I'm very,
00:05:34.000 it's very different with a female because I'm kind of more romantic types.
00:05:37.000 I'm, I'm a face to face person anyway.
00:05:39.000 I'm old school.
00:05:40.000 Like pretend social media didn't, didn't, didn't exist.
00:05:44.000 So with a female, it'd be like, let's, let's go catch a bite.
00:05:47.000 Let's go to a cocktail bar.
00:05:49.000 And I think as time go on, I'm kind of the same thing with guys.
00:05:53.000 It's not just a thing where I just want to talk.
00:05:55.000 Anyone can be anyone on social media or on the phone.
00:05:58.000 I want to feel your vibe by the way you talk, the way you hold yourself as a person,
00:06:02.000 your body language.
00:06:03.000 And, and that's it because that's what wows me.
00:06:05.000 And that's what gets here.
00:06:06.000 And if you've got me here, girl or female, you've got me.
00:06:10.000 You obviously know like when, what kind of girls or guys to, that you need to take on a date
00:06:15.000 and you know which, which ones you can just bring back.
00:06:18.000 Like what guys are different though.
00:06:21.000 Guys are more brazen.
00:06:23.000 Are there any like tests you guys do to see how slutty a girl is?
00:06:28.000 Yeah.
00:06:29.000 Yeah.
00:06:30.000 Yeah.
00:06:31.000 If you say the word, this should be outdated now.
00:06:32.000 So I'm a foolish out there.
00:06:33.000 But you know, if, if he, if he says our trouble and responding a certain type of weight,
00:06:38.000 it's game over for you.
00:06:39.000 If he says our trouble and you're like, Oh, do you mean trouble?
00:06:44.000 Nah, nah, nah, just, just ignore the whole trouble thing in it.
00:06:47.000 I think trouble, you guys be using trouble.
00:06:49.000 Yeah.
00:06:50.000 It's kind of the same vibe of, um, if I hear the words come out of your mouth, that's just
00:06:53.000 who I am.
00:06:54.000 You know, that girl is tapped.
00:06:56.000 That's just who I am.
00:06:57.000 What do you mean?
00:06:58.000 Cause anytime you hear, Oh, that's just who I am.
00:06:59.000 People just don't understand who I am.
00:07:00.000 And it just, that person is someone who argues for fun.
00:07:05.000 That's someone who, who light your car on fire because you told her that you were two
00:07:10.000 pence off.
00:07:11.000 That's someone, that's someone that will have a fight with you because their cousins were
00:07:15.000 upset.
00:07:16.000 What do you think about the, the girls that say that they just get along with guys more
00:07:21.000 than girls?
00:07:22.000 Hmm.
00:07:23.000 She ain't for me.
00:07:24.000 She ain't for me.
00:07:25.000 That's interesting coming from you, sir.
00:07:27.000 I need you just with me.
00:07:34.000 Okay.
00:07:35.000 Just with me.
00:07:36.000 How about people's girlfriends can chill with you?
00:07:37.000 No, that's cool.
00:07:38.000 I'm cool though.
00:07:39.000 I'm a good guy.
00:07:40.000 You're giving vibes that she can't have friends.
00:07:42.000 What are other tests you guys do?
00:07:44.000 Um, I kind of just look at, I just, I just observe, man.
00:07:47.000 You gotta observe.
00:07:48.000 Like people would tell on themselves eventually.
00:07:50.000 So you just observe what kind of stuff they're posting.
00:07:52.000 If they're posting a lot of like indirect quotes to, that means that they need to heal.
00:07:56.000 Mm-hmm.
00:07:57.000 You know what I mean?
00:07:59.000 If they, yeah.
00:08:00.000 It just depends on what you post.
00:08:01.000 Nothing.
00:08:02.000 It's true.
00:08:03.000 I met a girl, like if I met someone, girl or female and they told me this come out of
00:08:07.000 a relationship, I'm not, I'm not fussed with you.
00:08:09.000 But if we're just talking on a sexual situation, I have needs.
00:08:14.000 Okay.
00:08:15.000 But if it's something where you want it to go like in a relationship or whatever, you
00:08:19.000 need, you need time to heal.
00:08:20.000 If it's just, if you just want to have fun or whatever, then yeah, I can't take you seriously
00:08:24.000 if you told me you just broke up with your partner.
00:08:27.000 Yeah.
00:08:28.000 To your point.
00:08:29.000 A month or whatever or a few weeks ago, I can't take you seriously.
00:08:31.000 Okay.
00:08:32.000 If she posts a hundred quotes, then you're right.
00:08:34.000 She does have a hundred issues that she needs to sort out at some point.
00:08:38.000 There's a specific page.
00:08:40.000 Yeah.
00:08:41.000 I don't know what these pages are.
00:08:43.000 I'm not going to give them clout right now.
00:08:44.000 Do you guys?
00:08:45.000 The one that begins with a J and ends in a Y.
00:08:47.000 Like that one, if they post that, red flag.
00:08:50.000 Trinidad.
00:08:51.000 Do you guys look at who girls follow?
00:08:53.000 Sometimes, yeah.
00:08:54.000 You have to sometimes.
00:08:55.000 No, no, no, no, no.
00:08:56.000 Because you know.
00:08:57.000 I don't do that.
00:08:58.000 They follow Sam Smith.
00:08:59.000 I'm joking.
00:09:00.000 Do you guys look at who guys follow?
00:09:03.000 No.
00:09:04.000 No.
00:09:05.000 If I'm interested.
00:09:06.000 Yeah.
00:09:07.000 I'll go through who they follow.
00:09:09.000 And what if he follows a bunch of Instagram models?
00:09:12.000 Does that bother you?
00:09:14.000 Not really.
00:09:15.000 Cause guys are going to be guys, aren't they?
00:09:17.000 They're all going to be attracted to like Instagram models, but it doesn't really bother
00:09:20.000 me too, too much to be fair.
00:09:21.000 So what do you look for when it comes to their following?
00:09:24.000 Well, say if like a girl's like commented on their page, I'll go.
00:09:29.000 I'll go.
00:09:30.000 I'll go through that Pacific girl.
00:09:31.000 If that makes sense.
00:09:32.000 Oh, okay.
00:09:33.000 Yeah.
00:09:34.000 Oh, interesting.
00:09:35.000 I care about the mutuals.
00:09:37.000 I care about the mutuals.
00:09:38.000 Oh, damn.
00:09:39.000 Yeah.
00:09:40.000 I care about the mutuals.
00:09:41.000 I need to know which one of my friends.
00:09:42.000 If we've got mutuals, there's certain people that if we're mutual friends.
00:09:45.000 Yeah.
00:09:46.000 I know why he knows me.
00:09:47.000 I'm black.
00:09:48.000 It's crazy.
00:09:49.000 Cause I trust women.
00:09:50.000 I don't, I don't, whenever I'm dating with a girl or talking to a girl, I don't do any
00:09:54.000 research on you whatsoever.
00:09:55.000 It's the guys that I know are just out there in the streets.
00:09:58.000 Guys are completely different guys that are one.
00:10:00.000 I'm just like, I watch your mutuals.
00:10:02.000 That's interesting.
00:10:03.000 Everyone in London, like guy wise in the whole gay world be sleeping with everyone.
00:10:08.000 The women.
00:10:09.000 Yeah.
00:10:10.000 I don't know, man.
00:10:11.000 With women, I kind of just trust you.
00:10:12.000 I don't, I don't think I've ever had a girl play out on me.
00:10:15.000 The, the younger version of me, like, okay.
00:10:18.000 For example, I think any guy that's under the age of 25 or like 20 years old, if they've
00:10:25.000 cheated, sorry, I know you're going to disagree with me.
00:10:28.000 Like, it's not really a cheat.
00:10:29.000 We're not a man.
00:10:30.000 We don't really know what we're doing.
00:10:32.000 Um, so I think like if you're under the age of 25 and you cheat, look at you looking
00:10:37.000 at me.
00:10:38.000 I'm so excited.
00:10:39.000 We're under 25 and I've done it.
00:10:42.000 And I think a lot of us here have done it.
00:10:44.000 Um, I don't think.
00:10:45.000 Speak for yourself.
00:10:46.000 Speak for yourself.
00:10:47.000 Speak for yourself.
00:10:48.000 I'm not trying to drag the whole other people.
00:10:51.000 I'm going to have a team.
00:10:52.000 I'm going to have a team.
00:10:53.000 I'm going to have a team.