The Number 1 RED FLAG In Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the importance of a woman s role model, how to be a woman in the modern world, and how to get the most out of your social media presence. We also talk about how to properly introduce yourself to potential female role models.
Transcript
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I find it weird that a lot of girls, speaking again, this is a very general statement, but
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a lot of girls in that kind of respect will look at idols and mimic what they look like,
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but a lot of guys will look at their idols and mimic what they act like and do.
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But we focus more on respect and I think with women sometimes it can be more of an attention.
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Because how many people have Cardi B as their role model?
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But then if you ask a guy who their role model is, it's like Samuel L. Jackson or something.
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I was trying to think of one good feminine role model in the media.
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But she's not like anywhere near as big as someone like Beyonce or Cardi B.
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So therefore she gets a point because she was on my podcast.
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That picture would make a bisexual straight again.
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What type of message would you guys send as an opener to her?
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It would be, you know, with me, I'm not trying to give too much away, but it would
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Something related to whatever you're posting that right now.
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Because, I mean, if you posted like back in July last year, like you went somewhere
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and then you don't really want to talk about that right now.
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But if you're in Dubai right now or you're somewhere, you can talk about that maybe,
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But going through her page, I normally, the pictures are a given, but I like to look at
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their statuses as well, what they're captioning the things, you know what I mean?
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Because it's one of those pages where you're like, okay, you see enough.
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In the pictures to be like, okay, if I was to message this person, like I said before,
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when a guy's message is like, will she respond?
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Your Instagram gives off, you have to come up with like really astute and you have to
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So without meeting her, like what type of person would you have thought she was before?
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Probably seen in the nightclubs out there and stuff.
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What are you, are you in the nightclubs or not?
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I used to a lot when I was younger, but now it's more events like bars, stuff like that.
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I don't really go out to the clubs too, too much.
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Do any of the guys want to volunteer their Instagrams?
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What is the most wild message you've ever sent to a girl?
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The ones where you have to send a message and put your phone down and look away.
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Probably like a, probably, you know, I think if she's abroad, you get a little bit more
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So you might, you might like, yo, when are you going to quit playing and just move to
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Sometimes I would do funny ones that are only funny to me.
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So if I like your pictures more than one, you know what it means.
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And if you don't, he or she, let's not go fully gay yet.
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And then we kind of, then obviously if you get a private message or something like that,
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I don't know if it's a female or a male, but a female is very different where I'm very,
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it's very different with a female because I'm kind of more romantic types.
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Like pretend social media didn't, didn't, didn't exist.
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So with a female, it'd be like, let's, let's go catch a bite.
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And I think as time go on, I'm kind of the same thing with guys.
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It's not just a thing where I just want to talk.
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Anyone can be anyone on social media or on the phone.
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I want to feel your vibe by the way you talk, the way you hold yourself as a person,
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And, and that's it because that's what wows me.
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And if you've got me here, girl or female, you've got me.
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You obviously know like when, what kind of girls or guys to, that you need to take on a date
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and you know which, which ones you can just bring back.
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Are there any like tests you guys do to see how slutty a girl is?
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If you say the word, this should be outdated now.
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But you know, if, if he, if he says our trouble and responding a certain type of weight,
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If he says our trouble and you're like, Oh, do you mean trouble?
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Nah, nah, nah, just, just ignore the whole trouble thing in it.
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It's kind of the same vibe of, um, if I hear the words come out of your mouth, that's just
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Cause anytime you hear, Oh, that's just who I am.
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And it just, that person is someone who argues for fun.
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That's someone who, who light your car on fire because you told her that you were two
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That's someone, that's someone that will have a fight with you because their cousins were
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What do you think about the, the girls that say that they just get along with guys more
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How about people's girlfriends can chill with you?
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You're giving vibes that she can't have friends.
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Um, I kind of just look at, I just, I just observe, man.
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Like people would tell on themselves eventually.
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So you just observe what kind of stuff they're posting.
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If they're posting a lot of like indirect quotes to, that means that they need to heal.
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I met a girl, like if I met someone, girl or female and they told me this come out of
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a relationship, I'm not, I'm not fussed with you.
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But if we're just talking on a sexual situation, I have needs.
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But if it's something where you want it to go like in a relationship or whatever, you
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If it's just, if you just want to have fun or whatever, then yeah, I can't take you seriously
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if you told me you just broke up with your partner.
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A month or whatever or a few weeks ago, I can't take you seriously.
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If she posts a hundred quotes, then you're right.
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She does have a hundred issues that she needs to sort out at some point.
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And what if he follows a bunch of Instagram models?
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They're all going to be attracted to like Instagram models, but it doesn't really bother
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So what do you look for when it comes to their following?
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Well, say if like a girl's like commented on their page, I'll go.
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If we've got mutuals, there's certain people that if we're mutual friends.
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I don't, I don't, whenever I'm dating with a girl or talking to a girl, I don't do any
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It's the guys that I know are just out there in the streets.
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Guys are completely different guys that are one.
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Everyone in London, like guy wise in the whole gay world be sleeping with everyone.
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I don't, I don't think I've ever had a girl play out on me.
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For example, I think any guy that's under the age of 25 or like 20 years old, if they've
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cheated, sorry, I know you're going to disagree with me.
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Um, so I think like if you're under the age of 25 and you cheat, look at you looking