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00:00:01.040 Women in the 1950s deserve to be courted because they were virgins.

00:00:04.280 Why on earth would a man court a girl that's not a virgin nowadays?

00:00:07.160 When you've given it to other men for free, why?

00:00:09.100 Like I said at the beginning, if the point of it is to have good sex,

00:00:14.120 someone who's already had sex is probably going to give you better sex than a virgin.

00:00:18.840 From men's point of view, why on earth would they court you if you're not a virgin?

00:00:22.720 Why would they wait for sex when it's not even guaranteed at the end?

00:00:26.780 Spend money when nothing is guaranteed to them.

00:00:29.400 Exactly, because you're saying that pussy has the most value.

00:00:33.240 The fact that the matter is, a man is spending his time, energy and resources that he has to attain to get the pussy.

00:00:39.780 Why is the pussy any more valuable?

00:00:41.740 If a man spends his resources, his time and energy on you over time, you owe him sex at the end of that.

00:00:47.400 You absolutely owe him sex.

00:00:49.080 You owe him sex.

00:00:49.980 You're putting a value on sex and it does not exist.

00:00:52.580 You're the one who just said it was the most valuable thing.

00:00:55.200 It is, there's no value for it.

00:00:56.700 It's priceless.

00:00:57.860 You're contradicting yourself.

00:00:59.160 No, no, no, it's priceless.

00:01:00.280 If it's priceless, you can't put a value on it.

00:01:03.400 So, before the show, Alex was here and he came up with a presentation on how he dates modern women.

00:01:11.520 Oh, no.

00:01:12.520 I know.

00:01:12.900 So, do you believe that every single woman should be courted?

00:01:18.700 I do.

00:01:19.280 Why?

00:01:19.580 You think they're entitled to that?

00:01:20.800 Yeah.

00:01:21.140 So, then do you believe, because we were talking about equal exchange, right?

00:01:24.520 So, if you believe all women deserve to be courted, why do men not, why are men not entitled to sex at the end of it?

00:01:31.400 At the end of being courted?

00:01:33.400 Well, yeah.

00:01:34.400 Because the value of sex is a person's life.

00:01:39.520 Sex, the point of sex is actually to bring life into the world, but it's been reduced.

00:01:44.520 The value of sex is far more than courting.

00:01:50.640 But that's the point.

00:01:51.740 It's women in the 19th.

00:01:52.920 Women, women, women, women, women, stop over-talking me.

00:01:56.220 You've done it so many times the show.

00:01:57.640 You need to stop doing it.

00:01:59.020 Women in the 1950s deserve to be courted because they were virgins.

00:02:02.240 Why on earth would a man court a girl that's not a virgin nowadays?

00:02:05.060 When you've given it to other men for free, why?

00:02:07.040 Like I said at the beginning, if the point of it is to have good sex, someone who's already had sex is probably going to give you better sex than a virgin.

00:02:17.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:02:18.220 That makes sense.

00:02:20.100 Let me ask you a question, yeah?

00:02:21.560 You see what you said there, like...

00:02:23.720 Wait, wait.

00:02:24.540 But then wouldn't he want it now?

00:02:26.360 No, no.

00:02:26.680 Hence the date.

00:02:28.300 So then why would he court her?

00:02:29.740 Wouldn't he date her?

00:02:30.680 Thank you very much.

00:02:31.520 That's what I thought about you.

00:02:32.780 That's what I thought about you.

00:02:34.300 So then why would he wait for that?

00:02:37.260 Okay, and then I would say...

00:02:38.480 When he could go down the street and talk to Rebecca, who's down now.

00:02:43.900 And then I would say...

00:02:44.800 Who's also 25 years old without 12 kids.

00:02:46.700 Yeah, go down the street and talk to Rebecca and have sex with her straight away and whatnot.

00:02:52.340 And then decide what it is that you're looking for.

00:02:55.200 Are you actually looking for someone who's going to raise your home and raise your children and

00:03:00.160 look after your home properly?

00:03:02.940 And if you are, then you should take time to look at that person, look at their values,

00:03:09.020 understand them properly, and spend time and money on them without sex.

00:03:14.560 How does eliminating sex get you to that end?

00:03:21.060 How does eliminating sex get you there?

00:03:22.580 I think, I think one, sex does like, it fogs judgment.

00:03:29.120 For women, not men.

00:03:30.440 I'll be honest.

00:03:31.440 So me as a woman, so I'm talking from a woman's perspective because...

00:03:35.780 But I'm asking you, I'm asking you from their point of view.

00:03:38.340 I don't know men's point of view.

00:03:39.840 We're telling you our point of view.

00:03:41.420 But you're saying you don't care though.

00:03:43.580 From men's point of view, why on earth would they court you if you're not a virgin?

00:03:47.620 Why would they wait for sex when it's not even guaranteed at the end?

00:03:51.460 Spend money when it's not, nothing is guaranteed to them.

00:03:54.100 Exactly, because you're saying that pussy has the most value.

00:03:57.940 The fact that the matter is, a man is spending his time, energy and resources that he has to attain to get the pussy.

00:04:04.480 Why is the pussy any more valuable?

00:04:06.440 Let me make a point based on what I said earlier.

00:04:09.240 You said, for example, that all women should be called great.

00:04:12.300 I said to you earlier, if a woman is devaluing herself and disrespecting herself,

00:04:16.340 and I'm sure you know girls, I know girls that just are out there.

00:04:19.560 And they're married.

00:04:20.120 Yes, that are out there.

00:04:22.280 Wait, wait.

00:04:23.460 Anyway, so again, let me finish my point.

00:04:26.120 Your world is interesting.

00:04:26.820 So let me finish my point.

00:04:28.340 So as I was saying, so those women that are disrespectful to themselves and just throwing themselves out there,

00:04:33.780 like I said, a man can tell a wife material.

00:04:36.180 You can tell.

00:04:36.820 You can take her on one first day.

00:04:37.940 It doesn't mean you have to court her and take her out, take her out, take her out.

00:04:40.640 What are you doing with her?

00:04:42.320 You should know.

00:04:43.060 From that first initial reaction, I should know, all right, cool.

00:04:46.400 What's this person about?

00:04:47.740 Do I actually like this person?

00:04:49.040 Spend your time asking the right questions, if that's what your goal is.

00:04:52.780 Only men that actually want a woman, they'll ask the right questions.

00:04:55.880 If they just want to have sex with you, they'll just kind of take you out and have sex with you.

00:04:58.120 If a man is-

00:04:58.720 But you're not going to stay.

00:04:59.480 If you allow them.

00:05:00.220 Right.

00:05:00.560 Yeah, but most women do that nowadays.

00:05:02.240 You're saying you don't, but we all know women out there that just give it out.

00:05:05.140 And that's the point.

00:05:06.020 So most women don't deserve court and simple as.

00:05:08.560 Unless you put your value up.

00:05:09.620 If a man spends his resources, his time and energy on you over time, you owe him sex at

00:05:15.260 the end of that.

00:05:15.740 No, they don't.

00:05:16.000 You absolutely owe him sex.

00:05:17.440 You owe him sex.

00:05:18.400 You're putting a value on sex and it does not exist.

00:05:20.720 You're the one who just said it was the most valuable thing.

00:05:23.560 It is.

00:05:23.920 There's no value for it.

00:05:25.000 It's priceless.

00:05:26.200 That's the point.

00:05:26.720 You're contradicting yourself.

00:05:27.520 No, no, no.

00:05:27.920 It's priceless.

00:05:28.620 If it's priceless.

00:05:29.920 You can't put a value on sex.

00:05:31.380 I truly believe you don't know where the fuck you are right now.

00:05:33.980 What do you mean?

00:05:34.500 I believe you don't know where you are.

00:05:36.400 I believe you dug a hole so deep you can't get out.

00:05:38.460 You're trying to fight.

00:05:39.420 You're trying to scratch yourself to go deeper and deeper.

00:05:41.400 I don't think you know where you are.

00:05:42.560 You would like to think that.

00:05:43.040 Okay, wait.

00:05:43.500 Super chat really quick.

00:05:45.160 I read that.

00:05:45.680 It's making no sense.

00:05:46.600 I read that.

00:05:47.240 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:05:49.020 Stop, stop, stop.

00:05:50.440 Okay.

00:05:51.080 James Ryan, do you only keep these people on the show for content?

00:05:53.920 All her tics show that she is not going to listen and will never listen because she already

00:05:57.340 has an established position.

00:05:58.480 It's a social media trap and you have to be what your audience wants.

00:06:02.660 Okay, that's it.

00:06:03.480 Can I ask a question?

00:06:04.840 Is there any older women who have the same mindset as you?

00:06:07.940 None.

00:06:08.060 That you know?

00:06:09.100 No.

00:06:09.960 There isn't?

00:06:10.840 No.

00:06:11.180 So, you know, you said a lot of your whole friends are married, right?

00:06:15.480 Are there any women who are maybe more like you?

00:06:18.100 Are they married as well?

00:06:19.060 Or what results are they getting?

00:06:21.240 Yeah, actually, I have some friends like me that are married.

00:06:23.460 That are married as well?

00:06:24.500 Okay.

00:06:25.080 Like you?

00:06:25.600 I was just a bridesmaid at one wedding.

00:06:27.540 Okay.

00:06:27.760 So, Alex has a presentation for us.

00:06:33.900 Well, I mean, go on, Alex.

00:06:36.360 I think this should work really well on you, actually.

00:06:39.480 Oh, is this a magic trick?

00:06:41.480 No, no, no.

00:06:42.920 Go grab it.

00:06:43.760 Go grab the whiteboard.

00:06:44.580 So, Alex made up.

00:06:47.620 Oh, Jesus.

00:06:48.120 Oh, here we go.

00:06:48.860 Yeah.

00:06:50.220 So, before the show, Alex was here.

00:06:53.140 And he came up with a presentation on how he dates modern women.

00:06:58.320 Oh, my God.

00:06:59.280 Oh, my God.

00:07:01.200 Is this working?

00:07:02.460 Oh, here we go.

00:07:04.840 Yeah.

00:07:05.260 Yeah.

00:07:05.280 Yeah.

00:07:05.500 So, we got a whiteboard, God.

00:07:07.380 Thank you for the donations to get us a whiteboard.

00:07:10.800 Also, we also bought Blessing a chair.

00:07:13.060 Woo.

00:07:13.180 It hasn't come in yet, though.

00:07:16.420 So, let's not get here.

00:07:17.240 All right.

00:07:17.940 So, if you could.

00:07:18.640 Is this clear?

00:07:18.820 Yeah, yeah.

00:07:19.320 So, if you could zoom in, you know, give them, give them, okay.

00:07:23.640 Okay.

00:07:26.680 I've got a couple of things I'd add to that, though, Alex.

00:07:28.720 Yeah, I know.

00:07:29.200 Okay, yeah.

00:07:29.680 It's not truly fleshed out, but this is just the basics.

00:07:34.040 Okay.

00:07:34.600 Yeah, so.

00:07:36.020 I'm sorry.

00:07:36.660 Sorry.

00:07:36.980 What'd you say?

00:07:38.720 If she could move.

00:07:40.860 Wait.

00:07:41.160 Oh, okay.

00:07:41.660 Would you move to that mic really quick?

00:07:43.520 Just while he does the presentation.

00:07:45.480 Okay.

00:07:45.820 So, yeah.

00:07:46.380 I was asked what my general approach to modern dating is.

00:07:50.800 And I came up with this kind of, this general infrastructure.

00:07:54.240 It's generally how it goes, all right?

00:07:56.080 So, obviously, the modern woman is generally a narcissist, generally.

00:08:01.200 Like, they're generally addicted to energy attention.

00:08:03.340 And so, the first step is to ignore and gaslight this woman, right?

00:08:06.420 So, you ignore her because it shows you're high value.

00:08:09.440 And you gaslight her by kind of alternating between the alpha she wants

00:08:13.660 and the beta feminism tells her she wants, right?

00:08:15.640 So, you've got to be a badass, but also emotional and kind of vulnerable.

00:08:18.660 I love it.

00:08:19.060 But also ignore this woman, or she will lose interest.

00:08:22.420 I would block you.

00:08:23.680 Wow.

00:08:24.280 The first 24 hours.

00:08:25.140 That's the truth.

00:08:25.420 In other words, show desperation and then complete history.

00:08:28.040 You would get blocked in 24 hours.

00:08:29.400 Yes.

00:08:29.520 It's kind of called being a coquette.

00:08:30.780 It's a bunch of things.

00:08:31.880 But generally, if you fail at stimulating the modern woman's limited attention span,

00:08:36.440 you lose.

00:08:36.840 So, you have to kind of flip between the alpha, the beta.

00:08:40.820 Because they all want the top guy, but they want that top guy to need them.

00:08:44.320 That's beta shit.

00:08:45.460 So, you know, if I was a six foot three athlete with a six foot of job, why the fuck would

00:08:51.000 I want you?

00:08:51.820 Like, are you that special?

00:08:53.480 You're not.

00:08:53.880 But I have to convince you you are, right?

00:08:57.180 Why do you have to convince us that we are?

00:08:59.520 Because pussy has infinite value, right?

00:09:02.300 You don't chase.

00:09:02.940 I chase you because you're a queen.

00:09:04.540 You know that.

00:09:05.480 Anyway, so alpha, beta, you gaslight, right?

00:09:11.540 You have to do at least these two and flip between the alpha and beta.

00:09:14.940 Step two, you get the contact details, right?

00:09:17.320 So, the female has been properly stimulated.

00:09:19.960 You're like, you know, let's get your number, Instagram.

00:09:22.720 We'll talk to you, whatever.

00:09:24.440 You have to keep this up there.

00:09:25.660 Step one never goes away constantly.

00:09:27.420 It's the foundation.

00:09:28.300 You've got to do that when you're married.

00:09:29.680 You've got to go to your freaking coffin doing that, right?

00:09:32.300 Am I going to die?

00:09:33.580 Who knows?

00:09:34.780 That's sexy.

00:09:36.240 Watch any movie.

00:09:37.460 The guy is like, I might pass away any time now.

00:09:39.420 He's leaving notes and shit.

00:09:40.380 This dude just doesn't want to die.

00:09:41.680 He's just fucking gaslighting her, right?

00:09:43.620 So, step two, you get the contacts and you emotionally babysit.

00:09:47.180 So, because of a limited attention span, she has these needs, right?

00:09:52.080 So, by emotionally babysit, I mean, you've got to kind of help her grow emotionally.

00:09:55.440 She's probably going to be hurt by some loser.

00:09:57.780 And you're going to be one of those guys.

00:09:58.980 But for now, you've got to kind of sell all the trauma, unpack all that stuff, ask all

00:10:03.000 these cheesy questions no one really cares about.

00:10:04.920 What was your last relationship like?

00:10:06.220 Do you value love?

00:10:07.500 What kind of girl are you?

00:10:08.680 What kind of...

00:10:09.600 Guys, she doesn't care what you like, innit?

00:10:11.540 So, a lot of you guys in this stage fuck up because you're telling her stuff about you.

00:10:16.400 She doesn't care.

00:10:17.220 I've never heard a woman be like, I met this guy and he's really interested in architecture.

00:10:20.700 She doesn't care, bro.

00:10:22.120 She doesn't care.

00:10:23.200 All she heard was your job title and she saw how you looked and your general physique,

00:10:27.560 your attention.

00:10:28.040 That's it, bro.

00:10:29.160 That's it.

00:10:29.840 Listen, bro.

00:10:30.560 What's the way you drive?

00:10:31.740 Exactly.

00:10:32.300 So, you mostly babysit.

00:10:33.560 This period takes one to three weeks because obviously, you know, you can't answer too frequently.

00:10:37.320 You've got to give her time.

00:10:38.280 The gaslighting and the ignoring is important.

00:10:40.540 You've got to make her feel like you might ignore the text.

00:10:43.020 Never reach too far.

00:10:44.280 You know, make statements.

00:10:45.060 Don't ask questions or too many questions.

00:10:46.760 And if you do ask a question, make sure it's something she obviously wants to talk about,

00:10:49.340 like how sexy she is, her value in a long-term relationship, all that kind of shit that actually

00:10:52.840 doesn't mean anything, but she probably tells herself that every night.

00:10:55.440 So, you do that.

00:10:57.120 One to three weeks has passed.

00:10:58.360 Now you're going for the kill, right?

00:11:00.300 Invite her on maximum three dates.

00:11:02.020 This is my rule.

00:11:02.680 You guys, you simps can do 100 if you want, but add you three dates.

00:11:06.720 Date one, cold clothes.

00:11:08.460 Because you're still gaslighting this bitch, right?

00:11:10.380 How could you let her know you kind of want to shag her?

00:11:12.220 Don't let her know that.

00:11:12.980 Don't give her that power.

00:11:13.660 She's going to get gassed.

00:11:14.320 So, you gaslight her.

00:11:15.980 You know, you're still kind of flipping between alpha, beta.

00:11:17.920 The second date, you've got to close because, you know, we all got jobs and stuff.

00:11:21.860 We've got stuff to do, right?

00:11:22.980 So, we try and close.

00:11:24.600 If that fails, you go back to step one and repeat.

00:11:28.780 If that succeeds, you've got this bitch, right?

00:11:32.080 So, now, what you do is, it lasts for about four weeks, you know, and I kind of just, you

00:11:37.640 know, texting and hooking up generally.

00:11:39.620 But you've got to tease a long-term relationship at some point because, you know, she's going

00:11:42.580 to convince herself.

00:11:43.480 If you've made it this far, she probably could see herself with you, right?

00:11:46.520 But obviously, I'm just here to shag.

00:11:47.540 So, I'm just trying to, you know, I'm trying to keep it going as long as possible.

00:11:50.600 So, it lasts about four weeks and then she's kind of, I've noticed this kind of lines,

00:11:54.720 it links up with the menstrual cycle.

00:11:56.520 The next menstrual cycle, she's going to be like, do I need this guy?

00:11:59.740 Man, I thought of everything.

00:12:00.880 Generally.

00:12:01.480 So, after about a month, things are going to get shaky.

00:12:04.680 You tease long-term relationship.

00:12:05.880 Oh, you know, what do you want?

00:12:08.220 I'm not sure yet.

00:12:09.140 I know what I fucking want.

00:12:10.040 I want a shag, dude.

00:12:10.900 I wanted a shag this whole time.

00:12:12.200 In a month, I'm going to want a shag.

00:12:14.120 It doesn't change.

00:12:15.800 But, you tease that.

00:12:17.240 Yeah?

00:12:17.940 And you don't have to do it too hard.

00:12:19.180 Don't try it too hard.

00:12:19.840 Just say, say less.

00:12:21.120 Less is more, right?

00:12:21.920 Because then she'll just, you know, she'll figure it out herself.

00:12:24.860 You know, she'll think what she wants to think.

00:12:26.700 And then you repeat.

00:12:27.480 But generally, you know, everyone has a shelf life.

00:12:28.980 She normally kind of, the smarter ones tend to kind of fade away quicker.

00:12:32.440 But some of the smart ones last long.

00:12:35.320 And those are the best.

00:12:36.460 But, step four is your ghost.

00:12:38.780 So, when you end a relationship with a modern woman, because they're narcissists, you really

00:12:42.040 don't want to give her any ammunition.

00:12:43.420 Because she will bitch about you to everyone.

00:12:45.580 So, what you've got to do is, you just go cold turkey.

00:12:48.780 You just stop.

00:12:49.700 If you explain, what she will tell people is the things you just told her to explain.

00:12:54.180 Which is going to be bullshit, because we all just want to fuck.

00:12:56.040 So, she's going to tell other people that.

00:12:57.800 And then there's going to be rumors.

00:12:58.780 And there's going to be all this energy.

00:12:59.700 I don't want to give you that ammunition.

00:13:01.620 So, I'll just ghost you.

00:13:04.020 Yeah, I'll just like, just, why explain anything?

00:13:07.320 Is she going to listen to you and nod?

00:13:08.540 Like, hmm, I get that.

00:13:09.900 I wouldn't be with me either.

00:13:10.860 She's not.

00:13:11.360 So, what's the point?

00:13:12.420 Is she going to take your critique?

00:13:14.040 Absolutely not.

00:13:14.820 She's probably a modern woman.

00:13:15.800 She's probably thinking she can do it too.

00:13:17.560 She's probably going to tell you that, like, you're some fucking, you were abusive or manipulative

00:13:20.960 or some kind of gaslighting.

00:13:23.100 I wish you kind of were gaslighting, but listen, we have to do it.

00:13:25.200 It's modern times.

00:13:26.760 So, that's generally the infrastructure.

00:13:29.140 It's a lot more complicated than this.

00:13:30.760 Class, any questions?

00:13:33.160 I have a question.

00:13:34.380 Yeah, I have one too.

00:13:35.380 I have a question.

00:13:36.260 First date, right?

00:13:37.500 First date.

00:13:38.820 Right.

00:13:39.520 Do you take a somewhere fancy or do you keep it cheap?

00:13:43.340 Listen, this is a system, right?

00:13:46.220 And every system has limitations.

00:13:48.540 In this case, it's time, which is obviously everyone's limitation.

00:13:51.460 But there's also money, B.

00:13:52.800 They're facts.

00:13:53.480 I'm doing this for four or five bitches at the same time, G.

00:13:55.720 Do you think I'm made of money?

00:13:56.880 That's what I'm saying.

00:13:57.500 Exactly.

00:13:57.580 Do you think I'm going to take you out to top restaurants?

00:13:59.500 Thank you.

00:14:00.220 With no guaranteed sex?

00:14:01.640 Are you dumb?

00:14:02.440 Are you stupid?

00:14:04.220 I see you, my guy.

00:14:05.200 You think you're that special?

00:14:06.440 Fuck no.

00:14:07.060 So, you'd agree that if you spend these resources and time and energy, that she should be giving

00:14:10.560 you six sections, right?

00:14:10.940 Do you know what?

00:14:11.500 I mean, nothing is guaranteed.

00:14:13.200 Nothing is guaranteed in life, which is why we go...

00:14:15.420 But do you believe she should?

00:14:15.900 But do you believe she should?

00:14:16.820 Listen, it doesn't matter what I believe.

00:14:18.680 I live by reality.

00:14:19.860 So, this is basically...

00:14:22.460 You're like, listen, I'm doing five, so at least one may fall through.

00:14:27.100 Yeah.

00:14:27.860 It's kind of like job applications, right?

00:14:30.240 Fire them out.

00:14:30.900 Do you make one job application and get all hyped up in your little chair?

00:14:34.240 And this is why quarantine is essential.

00:14:34.900 You make ten job applications, you get three interviews, and then maybe you get one job

00:14:38.720 offer.

00:14:39.200 That's fine.

00:14:40.060 But the key thing is the limitation, the key limitation of this is money and time.

00:14:43.600 And so, the time restriction is seen here, right?

00:14:45.900 Three days.

00:14:46.360 That's my general rule.

00:14:47.360 Because I've got a good job.

00:14:48.000 I've got all this stuff going.

00:14:48.740 Other bitches, you know.

00:14:49.300 Stuff like that.

00:14:50.360 And the other key limitation is money.

00:14:52.820 So, you know, I push it like trading, innit?

00:14:55.320 You don't want to invest more than you're willing to lose.

00:14:57.500 I'm not willing to lose more than £25 on anyone, right?

00:15:00.880 Wow.

00:15:01.960 Listen, you get the first drink.

00:15:03.620 I get the first drink.

00:15:04.640 It's like, oh, you know, I'm being a gentleman.

00:15:06.180 If you don't get this second drink, you're not getting anything else, right?

00:15:09.420 This has to alternate.

00:15:10.700 This has to alternate.

00:15:11.560 I will give it to you, though.

00:15:12.800 I won't even leave.

00:15:13.360 I'll just be like, you get in the next round.

00:15:14.860 And if she doesn't, I'll be like, this bitch, I won't even keep her for four weeks

00:15:17.980 if I shaggle, it'll probably be two weeks, right?

00:15:20.900 So, yeah, that's the main limitation.

00:15:22.460 Any other questions, class?

00:15:25.940 Can I ask a question?

00:15:26.820 What type of women do you attract with this?

00:15:30.420 What type of women do you manage to trap in this cycle?

00:15:33.660 Actually, well, I wouldn't say trap.

00:15:35.420 I think they come of there on a chord.

00:15:36.640 But generally, my main demographics are early 20s, university student, highly intelligent.

00:15:46.920 Intelligence is my key factor.

00:15:48.100 I can't do dumb girls.

00:15:48.960 So, in other words, not 40-year-old women with 12 kids?

00:15:51.020 Well, dumb women are too chaotic for me, and it just doesn't fit my lifestyle, right?

00:15:56.120 So, you don't do any dumb hoes up in here.

00:15:57.740 So, they all got to kind of know, you know, what color this guy is, that kind of thing.

00:16:00.980 So, early 20s, and their university graduates, they've gone to good unis, and they just want

00:16:06.320 to mess around, and she knows what she wants.

00:16:08.060 I don't have time to waste.

00:16:09.020 So, if you're kind of just figuring it out, you can do that on someone else's time.

00:16:11.980 I've got stuff to do.

00:16:13.060 The other demographic is mid-30s, and they've kind of been around, maybe had some shit relationships,

00:16:17.880 they almost got married, whatever, and now they're just chilling.

00:16:20.940 These, probably, they're easier to maintain as well, because, you know, they're 30, you

00:16:24.440 know how to manage themselves.

00:16:25.320 Young girls want a lot of your time and attention.

00:16:27.140 The older women are my favorite, because at this current time, they're just as attractive

00:16:31.060 as 22 years, but they're more, like, independent, they can manage themselves, less stressful.

00:16:35.820 They'll even take you out.

00:16:36.740 Did I have kids?

00:16:37.520 Vax.

00:16:38.720 No, I don't do anyone with kids.

00:16:39.900 Oh, yeah.

00:16:40.400 That's whack.

00:16:40.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:16:42.300 Suck in that, yeah.

00:16:43.760 So, yeah, generally it's those two.

00:16:45.980 Occasionally, I will trap a mid-20s girl in her peak.

00:16:49.260 I thought it wasn't trap.

00:16:49.960 Yeah, I thought it wasn't trap.

00:16:51.180 Well, also, I say trap, but obviously it's because, you know, I know it's not what's

00:16:56.380 best for her, and I avoid doing that.

00:16:58.360 I like to mess with women who, we can have fun, and it doesn't have any judgment on our

00:17:02.880 long-term relationship prospects.

00:17:04.080 You're considerate.

00:17:05.300 I am.

00:17:05.980 I limit myself a lot.

00:17:06.880 Are we not waiting them a little bit?

00:17:07.440 I'm just saying.

00:17:08.720 I could do damage out here, but I try and, I treat every woman like that's someone's potential

00:17:12.640 wife, isn't it?

00:17:13.120 So, I wouldn't do anything with them that, like, would make any other guy.

00:17:16.420 I have a good reputation, but that's because I work very hard.

00:17:18.440 Well done.

00:17:18.900 But you know this creates trauma, right?

00:17:20.480 I'm just going to say, like, the younger ones, it does create trauma, you know?

00:17:24.280 It's a cycle of psychological issues of men.

00:17:26.840 Being a modern woman creates trauma.

00:17:28.440 You already have trauma.

00:17:29.860 That's why you like this stage.

00:17:31.080 No, but relationship trauma, when it starts in the get-go, a woman gets hurt by a man.

00:17:35.900 A man gets hurt by a woman.

00:17:37.100 Next thing you know, everyone's just out here just trying to be savage mood.

00:17:40.480 Okay.

00:17:40.980 Let's think about that.

00:17:41.880 Let's think about that part, yeah?

00:17:43.100 Okay, I'll think about it, and here's my output, right?

00:17:45.260 Go on.

00:17:45.580 No one hurt you.

00:17:46.460 I ghosted you.

00:17:47.260 No one did shit, you see?

00:17:48.680 Yeah, but she might have fell in love.

00:17:50.400 That's her business, B.

00:17:51.460 That was you.

00:17:52.220 You charmed her.

00:17:53.420 Come on.

00:17:54.120 Because I'm a charming guy, isn't it?

00:17:55.080 Exactly.

00:17:55.460 We all take some credit for that, though.

00:17:56.700 Yeah, but, I mean, your feelings belong to you.

00:17:59.280 I can't affect how you feel.

00:18:00.400 Just because I'm awesome, now I have to feel bad.

00:18:01.700 Yeah, but she didn't know your agenda.

00:18:03.380 She didn't know your agenda.

00:18:04.660 Just because I'm awesome, I have to now take advantage.

00:18:06.900 I'm just a dope person.

00:18:08.260 You can fall in love.

00:18:09.100 You can do whatever you want.

00:18:10.000 Yeah, so tell her.

00:18:10.660 You've got four week cycles, right?

00:18:12.600 That's how it is.

00:18:13.460 Have you been in love?

00:18:15.540 Also, are you single?

00:18:17.200 No.

00:18:18.220 I don't think I've ever been in love.

00:18:19.820 I have, but love is a strange thing to me.

00:18:22.100 Love is kind of like placing too much emphasis and importance on someone outside of yourself

00:18:28.580 to the point where it affects your general emotional stability, right?

00:18:32.840 So you kind of hype someone up in your head.

00:18:34.700 I think it's kind of a form of narcissism for me.

00:18:37.420 Like, why would I think so highly of someone that I like, that they kind of occupy my mind

00:18:41.660 and I kind of create all this grandeur about you?

00:18:43.900 You're a human with two legs and two arms.

00:18:45.360 That's how I'm always going to see you.

00:18:47.400 Maybe you have a cool personality.

00:18:48.480 We were created to feel things, you know, and love.

00:18:50.640 Like, there's a reason why people say that feeling and have that word to describe love,

00:18:55.440 right?

00:18:55.760 So we're meant to feel that.

00:18:56.700 So if you're saying that you don't want to feel that for whatever purpose, I'm not going

00:19:01.560 to lie.

00:19:02.320 No, I didn't say I don't want to feel that.

00:19:03.980 I don't think it...

00:19:04.980 You're totally, it's not a cystic and basically that if you feel it, like, it's going to overtake

00:19:10.000 you completely when actually, if you ain't been in it, then how do you know how it actually

00:19:14.780 feels?

00:19:14.880 Nah, that's beta shit.

00:19:15.500 Do you know what I mean?

00:19:16.040 That's beta shit.

00:19:16.700 To a man like me, love is duty.

00:19:19.280 Love is duty and care.

00:19:20.960 It's time.

00:19:21.400 It's discipline.

00:19:21.960 Love is not something I throw around.

00:19:23.420 It's not something I see someone somewhere and say, oh, I like her for reasons I can't

00:19:26.640 understand.

00:19:26.960 Yeah, but that's your perspective.

00:19:27.400 I know why I like you.

00:19:28.120 You've got a nice ass.

00:19:28.780 You're cool.

00:19:29.100 You're kind of polite.

00:19:30.060 That's why I like you.

00:19:31.080 But love is different.

00:19:32.080 There's different levels to love.

00:19:32.900 There's being in love, there's loving someone, like, if you love someone, care about someone

00:19:36.680 because you know they've got your back, they're loyal, that's a different type of love.

00:19:40.260 That right there, that's just, I fancy you.

00:19:43.240 I like you.

00:19:44.200 Nah, that's more, what you're talking about for me is more respect and duty.

00:19:47.060 Yeah, but there's different definitions then.

00:19:49.240 That's what we're talking about then.

00:19:50.040 Yeah, but I think when people talk about love, you talk about a state of, like, emotional

00:19:52.740 hysteria based on some perceived, you know, perceived ideals about someone you barely know.

00:19:57.080 I have a question.

00:19:57.920 I have a question.

00:19:58.860 So.

00:20:00.480 Sorry.

00:20:00.840 So, so when you, when you're looking for wifey, are you going to use this system and

00:20:07.000 just get rid of the ghost?

00:20:08.360 We'll be the same system.

00:20:09.960 The one that's wifey wouldn't fall for this system.

00:20:13.180 No, she absolutely would.

00:20:14.320 Because I'm awesome, bro.

00:20:15.720 Yeah, yeah.

00:20:16.300 Remember, he's charming.

00:20:17.840 No, okay, wait, let me answer the question.

00:20:20.260 I mean, I'd have to see someone I think is wifey.

00:20:24.840 So I guess at the moment, it's kind of like, if you get through these stages and I think

00:20:29.540 you're cool and you show enough qualities, loyalty, you're intelligent, you know, you've

00:20:34.320 got all my long-term qualities.

00:20:35.820 Then, yeah.

00:20:36.720 And that almost happened once.

00:20:39.180 Cambridge girl, super intelligent.

00:20:42.140 But she was a feminist.

00:20:42.980 I had to dump her.

00:20:43.660 But.

00:20:45.780 Oh, my God.

00:20:46.520 It was a four-week run, you know.

00:20:48.420 Only four weeks.

00:20:48.980 She went to Spain.

00:20:49.560 She went to Spain.

00:20:50.240 She was like kind of into some dude there.

00:20:52.140 And I said, be free.

00:20:53.580 So.

00:20:53.880 Oh, so she was a teacher.

00:20:55.060 I was a guy.

00:20:55.860 I'm not going to sit here and try and like worry about who you're fucking is.

00:20:57.960 Let me ask you a question.

00:20:58.780 Why are you running the same process on a girl that you actually like?

00:21:01.560 Could you not tell that like a little bit earlier on that actually this one could be a good

00:21:05.820 girl?

00:21:06.340 I make no assumptions on these hoes.

00:21:07.780 A ho could be a church girl.

00:21:10.480 She could be a professional girl.

00:21:11.640 She could look polite.

00:21:12.600 She could do anything.

00:21:13.720 Hoes have so many strategies.

00:21:15.320 Women's strategies are way more sophisticated than this.

00:21:17.300 Yeah.

00:21:17.680 But men do as well.

00:21:18.940 That's so true.

00:21:19.660 Yeah.

00:21:19.900 I just understand you guys.

00:21:21.840 Yeah, but vice versa.

00:21:23.700 I don't think you understand.

00:21:24.960 I think you'd fall for this.

00:21:25.840 Nah.

00:21:26.360 I don't even know what I mean.

00:21:28.420 So, yeah.

00:21:29.600 I think it's generally just what it is.

00:21:31.820 Because it's based on my experiences and the reality.

00:21:34.980 If you give someone too much attention and too consistent early on,

00:21:37.460 you look bad.

00:21:38.620 It's true.

00:21:39.180 If you're too kind of easy to understand, you look bad.

00:21:43.840 They get bored.

00:21:44.540 It's not interesting.

00:21:45.720 If you cannot flip between the alpha and the beta,

00:21:48.080 if you're too dominant and you show no signs of weakness.

00:21:50.320 Actually, yeah, I've got a question about that.

00:21:52.060 What is flipping into the beta in that point in your eyes?

00:21:56.540 It's just pretending you need this woman.

00:21:57.880 It's just pretending that you're looking for some kind of emotional connection.

00:22:02.700 Because most women look for validation and attention constantly.

00:22:05.360 It's like they prefer it to food sometimes, right?

00:22:08.700 Correction.

00:22:09.420 All fucking women look for attention and validation.

00:22:11.620 Not necessarily.

00:22:12.040 Literally, they're lifebloods.

00:22:13.460 So, you've got to know how to manage that, right?

00:22:15.660 If I was the alpha dominant animal you know I am, right?

00:22:19.040 I don't actually need someone like that.

00:22:20.780 I've got a good job.

00:22:21.360 I've got good friends.

00:22:22.340 I don't go to clubs and think,

00:22:24.260 Oh, wow, this girl's got a nice house.

00:22:25.720 I need her.

00:22:26.240 I'm going to text her all night until she...

00:22:27.820 No, I don't think that.

00:22:28.600 That's to make her think that way.

00:22:30.080 Wouldn't you say that?

00:22:31.080 I get what you're saying.

00:22:32.000 But wouldn't you say,

00:22:32.660 if you've got a girl

00:22:33.740 and she knows other girls that have been with you

00:22:35.920 or she knows other girls with the guy, right?

00:22:40.400 So, she almost feels that the attention that he gives,

00:22:43.000 she almost might have to earn it

00:22:44.260 because he's spreading it with other people.

00:22:46.200 No, that's just a recipe for trouble

00:22:47.680 because what you're going to do

00:22:48.340 is you're going to develop a bad reputation.

00:22:50.600 Women will create drama

00:22:51.460 and I have a job that's too good for that.

00:22:53.560 I can't wake up stressing.

00:22:54.620 Is that what it is in the salsa world?

00:22:56.520 In the salsa, the dance world and everything.

00:22:58.200 But in the salsa world,

00:22:59.020 you just learn quicker

00:22:59.780 because you see everything in a much shorter time frame.

00:23:03.240 The girls come in,

00:23:04.000 they go for the same guys.

00:23:05.500 You know, he's a sexy salsa guy.

00:23:06.900 He texts everyone,

00:23:07.600 say, oh, do you want to come meet me at this bar?

00:23:08.980 And actually, he's invited you to his class

00:23:10.180 because he's a teacher.

00:23:11.500 You're going to sit there,

00:23:12.400 be impressed by the attention he's getting.

00:23:14.360 Eventually, she'll shag this guy

00:23:15.540 because I'm not going to hustle for you

00:23:17.060 because I'm probably in the class

00:23:17.960 or just chilling in the social or something.

00:23:20.300 After that, you know,

00:23:21.240 you're going to,

00:23:21.680 he's a good looking guy, right?

00:23:22.860 He's probably got a decent job.

00:23:23.860 He's a good dancer.

00:23:24.580 Everything's great.

00:23:25.480 You're going to want to kind of extend that sexual thing.

00:23:27.740 He's not going to do that

00:23:28.540 because he shags everyone.

00:23:29.700 Then you're going to come to me, right?

00:23:31.340 Now you want to sit in deeper

00:23:32.340 because anyone could fuck you.

00:23:33.720 Now you realise I was the man the whole time.

00:23:36.160 And obviously, you've kind of passed my shelf life by then.

00:23:39.860 But that's different though.

00:23:41.260 So if you met a woman,

00:23:42.740 like you're seeing her in a specific circumstance,

00:23:46.020 do you know what I mean?

00:23:46.640 Like I get why you look at her that way,

00:23:48.540 100%,

00:23:49.040 because you watch to do that.

00:23:50.420 But for example,

00:23:51.220 if you met a woman completely random

00:23:52.780 at a coffee shop,

00:23:54.160 random place,

00:23:54.840 you can't then judge her off of that one place

00:23:59.060 because you don't know her.

00:24:00.000 That was your first meeting.

00:24:01.000 She could have been very polite,

00:24:02.200 very well educated,

00:24:02.940 very well job,

00:24:03.900 very attractive.

00:24:05.400 Where do you sit then?

00:24:06.960 I would still run this exact process.

00:24:08.780 In fact,

00:24:09.120 those women are the most vulnerable to this

00:24:11.880 because universities are basically

00:24:13.540 like left-wing grooming facilities now.

00:24:15.620 But don't you think the other women

00:24:16.100 are more vulnerable

00:24:16.680 because those are the ones

00:24:17.660 that are emotionally unstable

00:24:19.180 because they just whip with a man

00:24:20.320 and realise they ain't get nothing?

00:24:21.200 I'm vulnerable.

00:24:22.220 Stop it.

00:24:24.520 Like we act like women are children.

00:24:26.620 Like you're a grown adult.

00:24:27.600 You're not vulnerable.

00:24:28.780 I love how like,

00:24:29.660 because I figured out the game,

00:24:30.880 I'm an animal.

00:24:31.640 Like, you know what?

00:24:32.440 This took years of having your time wasted

00:24:34.660 and being disrespected

00:24:35.660 and over-investing

00:24:36.680 until you figure out

00:24:38.320 why this happens.

00:24:39.940 I just refuse to believe

00:24:41.880 women are super vulnerable

00:24:43.560 and don't know what they're doing.

00:24:45.180 Like, you know what you're...

00:24:46.100 Come on.

00:24:46.780 They just hate losing.

00:24:47.920 Some women...

00:24:48.920 No, obviously people know.

00:24:50.320 People are not dumb

00:24:50.980 but I say that

00:24:51.720 there's people that live in reality

00:24:53.580 and a dream world

00:24:54.600 and people don't like facing the reality

00:24:56.200 so they act dumb and act naive.

00:24:58.020 It's only people

00:24:58.600 that actually know themselves

00:24:59.440 that are actually like,

00:25:00.300 yeah, I know what I'm doing.

00:25:01.180 But most of the time

00:25:01.840 people pretend like they don't

00:25:02.980 and they try to make themselves

00:25:03.840 believe that.

00:25:04.960 And that's my point of being vulnerable.

00:25:06.840 Like, you're vulnerable

00:25:08.260 but obviously you know what you're doing.

00:25:09.920 But that's my meaning

00:25:10.840 when I'm saying it.

00:25:11.740 Yeah, I understand.

00:25:12.820 But I think he's saying like

00:25:14.280 he'll find his wife

00:25:15.420 through the system too.

00:25:16.520 He just won't ghost her.

00:25:17.400 He'll take out stuff for her.

00:25:18.340 Yeah, he'll take her out.

00:25:19.060 Like, at this point

00:25:20.240 you have so many opportunities

00:25:21.820 to show me that

00:25:22.620 you're kind of

00:25:23.540 something better

00:25:24.800 than I would have imagined.

00:25:25.960 By date three

00:25:27.100 has she had to have given it up?

00:25:29.700 Yeah.

00:25:30.420 Yeah.

00:25:30.980 I'm not saying on that.

00:25:32.400 To be honest

00:25:32.860 to be honest

00:25:33.800 I don't do more than like

00:25:35.520 two dates.

00:25:37.520 Like if one day is my max

00:25:39.360 but if like

00:25:40.120 there's a good reason

00:25:40.780 there's a good reason right

00:25:42.480 and after the date

00:25:43.320 she's like

00:25:43.800 you know I can't today

00:25:44.860 because you know

00:25:45.500 I'm on my reds

00:25:46.240 or I just don't do it

00:25:47.740 on the first date.

00:25:48.500 All right, fine.

00:25:49.180 You get a second date.

00:25:50.100 Second date, nothing.

00:25:51.480 Then it's like

00:25:52.000 all right

00:25:52.340 now you have to take me out

00:25:53.560 or you know

00:25:54.040 there has to be something.

00:25:55.000 Because guys realize

00:25:55.760 that this is all my time

00:25:56.800 and energy.

00:25:57.420 Like I understand

00:25:58.260 that some females

00:25:59.440 watching this

00:26:00.440 may have convinced themselves

00:26:01.300 that they're actually

00:26:01.860 victims of this

00:26:02.740 but I've actually spent

00:26:03.520 my time and energy

00:26:04.260 without any real return

00:26:05.420 for the last 99%

00:26:06.900 of this process.

00:26:07.960 So actually

00:26:08.380 you're kind of winning.

00:26:10.240 The only way

00:26:10.860 you're not winning

00:26:11.360 is that you actually like me

00:26:12.400 because I'm dope.

00:26:12.880 So that's what you're losing

00:26:14.340 is that you're going to feel

00:26:15.100 you lost someone valuable

00:26:15.960 because you did lose someone valuable.

00:26:17.160 So when I asked you earlier

00:26:18.160 that by

00:26:18.580 like at the end of it

00:26:19.340 she needs to have given you sex

00:26:20.500 and you said

00:26:20.860 you're not too sure

00:26:21.560 by date three

00:26:22.960 if she hasn't given it up

00:26:23.920 so then you are saying

00:26:24.960 you should be seeing sex at the end.

00:26:26.620 No, I don't say shoulds.

00:26:27.940 These are like

00:26:28.660 kind of words

00:26:30.060 is it

00:26:30.400 are they verbs or something?

00:26:31.560 Shoulds, conditional verbs

00:26:32.640 that just don't exist

00:26:33.800 in my world, right?

00:26:34.620 Listen.

00:26:34.880 So in other words

00:26:35.500 do you expect sex

00:26:36.860 at the end of it

00:26:37.500 or you fuck off?

00:26:38.080 Of course I expect sex

00:26:38.860 at the end.

00:26:39.220 Do you see this fucking diagram?

00:26:41.220 You think I'm doing this

00:26:42.320 without expecting a win?

00:26:43.660 Right, so you should

00:26:44.720 you should

00:26:45.400 and you expect

00:26:46.300 are just synonymous with you.

00:26:47.860 No, there's no should.

00:26:49.000 Should is about

00:26:49.500 what someone else should do.

00:26:50.500 I can't tell her

00:26:51.280 what she should do.

00:26:52.980 I can only invest

00:26:54.080 my time and energy

00:26:54.760 with a certain intention

00:26:55.720 and if that doesn't work out

00:26:57.280 then I simply take back

00:26:58.480 my time and energy.

00:26:59.380 I have a question.

00:27:00.260 What if

00:27:00.560 what if she says

00:27:01.320 three months?

00:27:02.580 Oh, fuck her.

00:27:03.120 Someone did that.

00:27:03.740 Someone did that, right?

00:27:04.600 What if she says

00:27:05.180 you've just spent

00:27:05.780 a ton of money on her?

00:27:07.020 Yeah, yeah.

00:27:07.440 Someone did that.

00:27:08.400 So there was

00:27:08.760 one girl that said

00:27:09.860 like three months

00:27:10.500 so she was like

00:27:11.200 a dancer.

00:27:12.080 She was really cute.

00:27:12.980 We went on like

00:27:13.480 two dates.

00:27:14.780 So I was like

00:27:15.280 damn, I'm really doing

00:27:15.960 the most for you B

00:27:16.780 but we can make this worth it.

00:27:18.660 And basically at the end

00:27:19.760 you go in for like

00:27:20.840 I think

00:27:21.220 no, it was

00:27:23.200 third base

00:27:23.820 or home run

00:27:24.420 or whatever

00:27:24.800 and she said

00:27:25.660 she made some kind of excuse.

00:27:26.820 She was like

00:27:27.060 oh, I take my time

00:27:27.740 to get to know people.

00:27:28.980 This, that

00:27:29.320 and so I never spoke

00:27:30.260 to her again

00:27:30.720 and she turned up

00:27:31.380 like a month ago

00:27:32.060 and was like

00:27:32.560 trying to get my number

00:27:33.420 and talk to me.

00:27:34.140 See, these girls

00:27:34.780 just don't know

00:27:35.540 what they have

00:27:36.960 and a lot of women

00:27:38.640 their strategy is

00:27:39.420 I'm not going to filter

00:27:40.160 for men.

00:27:40.680 I'm just going to let

00:27:41.280 everyone in

00:27:41.780 and see who gives me

00:27:42.280 the most time and attention.

00:27:43.180 Yeah, see I double down

00:27:43.940 on that

00:27:44.140 and I would have

00:27:44.480 taken it a step further

00:27:45.240 and say that women

00:27:45.860 what they say they want

00:27:47.020 and what they actually

00:27:47.840 want in real life

00:27:48.680 are two completely

00:27:49.500 Do you listen to women?

00:27:50.960 Of course I don't

00:27:51.440 fucking listen to women.

00:27:52.440 That's the whole point.

00:27:54.240 Who's listening to women out here bro?

00:27:55.480 Do you think

00:27:55.820 this was developed

00:27:56.420 by women?

00:27:57.580 All women

00:27:58.080 even my most rational

00:27:59.480 female friends

00:28:00.040 will say stuff like

00:28:00.700 I want a guy

00:28:01.160 who's nice

00:28:01.560 who's honest

00:28:02.040 but she forgets

00:28:03.140 that she's also telling me

00:28:03.960 why she doesn't like

00:28:04.680 the nice honest guys

00:28:05.560 on our other conversations

00:28:06.940 see a conversation

00:28:08.960 with women

00:28:09.300 is just an exercise

00:28:10.200 in cerebral stimulation

00:28:11.280 you're just trying to like

00:28:12.220 you're trying to like

00:28:13.360 you know

00:28:13.640 touch on as many things

00:28:14.600 as possible

00:28:15.060 make her feel excited

00:28:15.780 You're trying to touch

00:28:16.260 certain buttons

00:28:16.840 Yeah but there's no point

00:28:18.260 there's not an end goal

00:28:19.260 men we talk with a point

00:28:20.680 in it

00:28:20.940 there's like an actual

00:28:21.640 subject and an end goal

00:28:22.640 women talk

00:28:23.680 in an explorative way

00:28:24.820 it's like improvisation

00:28:26.100 and jazz right

00:28:26.660 if you understand that

00:28:27.800 you understand women

00:28:28.560 like when they say

00:28:29.600 they want a guy

00:28:30.100 who's chat

00:28:30.580 and he's got this

00:28:31.260 they just want a guy

00:28:32.160 who can kind of

00:28:32.820 stimulate them in that way

00:28:33.840 without making them feel like

00:28:34.920 they need to put something

00:28:35.760 on the table

00:28:36.220 you still do

00:28:37.060 but I'm just not going

00:28:38.520 to make you feel like that

00:28:39.520 you should know that

00:28:40.340 because I expect you

00:28:40.920 to be smart

00:28:41.380 and that's what we call

00:28:42.320 getting attention

00:28:43.060 and validation

00:28:43.640 yeah

00:28:44.480 well if you're not smart

00:28:45.400 I just stop in it

00:28:46.400 and trust me

00:28:46.940 they'll notice when you

00:28:47.700 stop in it

00:28:48.160 because they're probably

00:28:49.020 getting hit on by bums

00:28:50.060 probably giving their

00:28:50.960 time and attention

00:28:51.520 to guys that are

00:28:52.240 way less than you

00:28:53.100 because those are

00:28:53.960 people who win

00:28:54.560 it's not guys like me

00:28:56.020 who get the most

00:28:57.400 it's guys who just

00:28:58.060 try the hardest

00:28:58.820 unemployed guys get the

00:29:00.240 most arse out of

00:29:01.000 anyone

00:29:01.320 I promise you that

00:29:02.360 there's no love

00:29:03.380 some of you guys

00:29:07.780 in the comments

00:29:08.220 are like oh you know

00:29:08.960 you have to be six foot

00:29:09.820 shut up you loser

00:29:10.580 listen the guys

00:29:11.780 who are getting the most

00:29:12.600 arse in London

00:29:13.220 are five foot two

00:29:14.100 Spanish guys

00:29:14.640 with pig hair

00:29:15.240 I fucking promise you

00:29:17.240 there is no like

00:29:18.720 oh you have to look

00:29:19.600 like Brad Pitt

00:29:20.280 nah nah nah

00:29:21.080 I can show you

00:29:22.600 some dudes out there

00:29:23.340 but they're texting

00:29:23.940 everyone

00:29:24.380 they're doing the most

00:29:25.220 emotional Spanish guy

00:29:27.080 I love you

00:29:27.900 see we should go

00:29:28.660 dancing together

00:29:29.180 we can be a team

00:29:29.900 he says that to everyone

00:29:31.140 and they all believe it

00:29:32.500 because they're 22

00:29:33.340 and they're narcissists

00:29:34.120 it's a numbers game

00:29:34.840 yeah it's a numbers game

00:29:36.140 to these guys

00:29:36.160 it's a numbers game

00:29:36.820 but this is like

00:29:38.300 my level stuff

00:29:39.240 so you've got to be

00:29:40.020 kind of like reclusive

00:29:40.940 you've got to pick

00:29:41.620 people you want to engage with

00:29:42.780 because I think

00:29:43.980 to me sex is like

00:29:45.060 a mutually

00:29:45.500 she's a value

00:29:46.480 I'm a value

00:29:46.960 so in my relationships

00:29:47.960 I don't know

00:29:49.120 I don't have relationships

00:29:49.680 but in my roster

00:29:50.360 there's like

00:29:51.320 there's like

00:29:52.280 this mutual respect

00:29:53.200 so you could think of me

00:29:54.400 as a pimp

00:29:54.780 but I'm not really a pimp

00:29:55.700 because I'm not really

00:29:56.280 putting anything

00:29:57.000 over anyone's eyes

00:29:57.780 they know what's up

00:29:58.460 I expect them to be clever

00:30:00.560 and respectful

00:30:01.160 and if anything

00:30:02.140 you could say

00:30:02.960 you're very considerate

00:30:03.900 because you only go

00:30:04.760 for the girls

00:30:05.300 in their early 20s

00:30:06.340 and they're mid

00:30:06.780 how nice are you

00:30:08.300 I am too kind

00:30:09.020 I could do

00:30:10.100 I could do a lot of damage

00:30:11.000 out here

00:30:11.240 I promise you that

00:30:11.920 trust me

00:30:12.760 I see some girls come in

00:30:13.900 and I'm like

00:30:14.380 fuck

00:30:15.240 I know exactly

00:30:16.600 what to say to this girl

00:30:17.480 but you know what

00:30:18.120 I'm going to get Jose

00:30:19.200 over there

00:30:19.700 I'm going to let him

00:30:20.840 do the process

00:30:21.580 because I don't want

00:30:22.500 a relationship either

00:30:23.040 so what's the point

00:30:23.680 you know

00:30:23.900 hide your wives

00:30:25.100 you gotta have ethics

00:30:28.360 guys

00:30:28.660 you gotta have ethics

00:30:29.540 that's what separates us

00:30:30.820 from animals

00:30:31.320 you are the man

00:30:32.020 of the people

00:30:32.500 thank you

00:30:33.120 thank you

00:30:33.500 so anyone

00:30:34.300 any other questions

00:30:35.500 from the class

00:30:36.240 no but you get an ace off

00:30:37.020 for that

00:30:37.220 she has a blessing

00:30:38.820 did you mute her mic

00:30:39.660 so rude

00:30:41.140 oh

00:30:43.160 okay you're not

00:30:44.160 it was just far away from me

00:30:45.120 I had a question

00:30:46.660 oh god

00:30:47.120 you gotta talk

00:30:47.740 you gotta talk

00:30:48.440 into your mic

00:30:48.980 I need to remember it now

00:30:50.100 I feel like Kat has a lot to say

00:30:51.880 Kat's not said much

00:30:53.280 was it something about

00:30:54.080 me being hurt

00:30:54.680 give us some

00:30:55.720 no

00:30:56.120 me attracting damaged women

00:30:58.120 no nothing about that

00:30:59.440 but you are like you know

00:31:00.900 exposing yourself right now

00:31:02.120 yeah

00:31:02.660 nothing about that

00:31:03.500 I'm still gonna win

00:31:04.240 it's fine

00:31:04.560 how long have you been doing this

00:31:07.600 well this is just like

00:31:09.300 it's an evolving framework

00:31:10.560 interesting

00:31:12.420 because to be honest with you

00:31:13.720 every woman is kind of different

00:31:14.820 they're like different kind of narcissists

00:31:16.440 some of them take pride in their bodies

00:31:17.780 some of them take pride in how much

00:31:19.000 they can get out of men

00:31:19.700 some of them take pride in

00:31:20.680 all sorts of things

00:31:21.900 so you gotta

00:31:22.360 there's no kind of shortcut

00:31:23.820 to like taking people as they are

00:31:25.220 trying to understand

00:31:26.220 where you fit

00:31:27.000 but this first stage

00:31:28.800 never

00:31:29.020 do you sometimes look at psychology

00:31:31.320 I

00:31:32.160 well

00:31:33.080 look at psychology

00:31:34.740 like look into it

00:31:35.740 do some research

00:31:36.480 so then you're fully equipped for this

00:31:37.580 yeah yeah

00:31:37.880 100%

00:31:38.280 do you know what

00:31:38.800 that first stage

00:31:40.200 number one

00:31:40.640 psychology backs that up

00:31:42.260 completely

00:31:42.640 that is a real tactic

00:31:44.680 he is studying

00:31:45.440 he is studying right now

00:31:46.840 it's just like

00:31:48.100 being conscious in it

00:31:49.580 and understand

00:31:49.920 what I started out with

00:31:51.820 was just talking to women

00:31:52.940 generically

00:31:53.480 hey you know

00:31:54.100 you're pretty cute

00:31:54.660 let's do this

00:31:55.180 let's do that

00:31:55.900 and I noticed that

00:31:57.560 when I was way too direct

00:31:58.620 and honest

00:31:59.020 people you know

00:32:00.340 didn't reciprocate

00:32:01.080 but when I ignored people

00:32:01.940 once in a while

00:32:02.480 they thought that meant

00:32:03.340 I had greater value

00:32:04.420 so that's what I did

00:32:05.660 right

00:32:06.360 and it happened naturally

00:32:07.360 because I have a good job

00:32:08.120 so as my time gets taken up

00:32:09.480 I don't have the time

00:32:10.700 and that

00:32:11.700 that kind of

00:32:12.500 fit in well

00:32:13.000 it worked

00:32:13.480 and every time I gave someone

00:32:14.620 too much attention

00:32:15.300 the result showed me

00:32:16.760 that actually

00:32:17.220 this stage is really

00:32:18.160 fucking important

00:32:18.840 you cannot be

00:32:19.900 constantly available

00:32:20.620 because what's she gonna think

00:32:21.820 right

00:32:22.060 you met this guy

00:32:22.780 he's attracted to me

00:32:23.580 and he's giving me

00:32:24.340 all this attention for free

00:32:25.220 why would I spend more time

00:32:26.320 engaging with this person

00:32:27.160 gaslighting right

00:32:29.020 women hate certainty

00:32:29.960 if you say to someone

00:32:30.920 I love you

00:32:31.260 you're great

00:32:31.560 we should get married

00:32:32.100 you're great

00:32:32.520 that's boring isn't it

00:32:34.180 what you say is

00:32:35.080 you're kind of cute

00:32:36.480 you can kind of see

00:32:37.940 something working out

00:32:38.760 but I see a flame in you

00:32:40.820 or some shit like that

00:32:41.580 that doesn't mean anything

00:32:42.380 right

00:32:42.960 and

00:32:43.820 eventually

00:32:45.600 she will kind of

00:32:47.120 piece that step together

00:32:48.240 by herself

00:32:48.880 but I can't tell you

00:32:50.100 what to think

00:32:50.740 I can just like show you

00:32:52.160 possibilities

00:32:53.120 but make

00:32:54.760 make kind of no mistakes

00:32:55.900 I'm not kind of

00:32:56.660 manipulating anyone here

00:32:58.240 women are manipulating

00:32:59.080 themselves

00:32:59.580 listen

00:33:00.040 I'm just saying

00:33:00.900 I'm just saying

00:33:01.800 I say very little

00:33:03.040 in this stage

00:33:03.720 she doesn't know who I am

00:33:04.920 she doesn't know

00:33:05.460 where I'm from

00:33:05.980 she doesn't know

00:33:06.400 my childhood traumas

00:33:07.260 or anything like that

00:33:08.320 because I have no traumas

00:33:09.180 yeah they call it

00:33:10.120 the push-pull theory

00:33:11.100 oh yeah that's true

00:33:12.020 I've heard of that

00:33:12.340 there's no push-pulling though

00:33:14.020 because this is a framework

00:33:15.620 for a high-value person

00:33:16.720 so

00:33:17.120 the people

00:33:18.820 that are in this framework

00:33:20.040 are extremely dispensable

00:33:21.280 right but that beta to alpha

00:33:22.940 that is technically

00:33:23.700 push and pull

00:33:24.400 because

00:33:25.120 yeah because you're pushing

00:33:26.280 in the beta stage

00:33:27.480 you're giving

00:33:28.220 more validation

00:33:29.220 and attention

00:33:29.840 than required

00:33:30.380 and then you pull it away

00:33:31.820 confuse the fuck out of them

00:33:33.300 you then give them

00:33:34.100 that mystery

00:33:34.560 and that's when

00:33:35.120 they worry about you

00:33:35.900 the beta is not

00:33:36.800 is actually a pull

00:33:37.900 because modern women

00:33:38.580 are feminists

00:33:39.120 so they're narcissists

00:33:39.760 so they tend to think

00:33:40.820 that like

00:33:41.460 let's bear in mind

00:33:42.360 you're pretending beta

00:33:43.500 yeah I mean

00:33:44.860 I give them what

00:33:45.580 they clearly want

00:33:46.220 so you're dating me

00:33:48.220 you think this guy

00:33:48.940 is awesome

00:33:49.240 he's got everything

00:33:49.880 what do I have to offer

00:33:50.920 just sex really

00:33:53.140 but I have to convince you

00:33:54.460 that there's something else

00:33:55.180 that you're really interesting

00:33:56.040 and fascinating

00:33:56.540 and I can't go like

00:33:57.280 more than a day

00:33:57.760 without speaking to you

00:33:58.600 so you know

00:33:59.400 I kind of have

00:33:59.940 these conversations

00:34:00.660 and if you stimulate

00:34:03.480 someone in the right way

00:34:04.160 they will project

00:34:04.780 how they want to feel

00:34:05.580 onto you

00:34:05.920 you just got to

00:34:06.700 keep on saying

00:34:07.260 general things

00:34:08.040 yeah see I wouldn't

00:34:08.680 class that as beta

00:34:09.540 I'll just class it as

00:34:11.100 giving them the attention

00:34:12.260 and validation

00:34:12.860 letting them think

00:34:14.100 that they've got you

00:34:14.680 where they want you

00:34:15.240 and then you remove it

00:34:16.240 you pull it

00:34:16.820 and that's when you leave

00:34:18.040 them thinking

00:34:18.360 that's a beta's whole life

00:34:19.460 that's what betas do

00:34:20.280 constantly

00:34:20.760 that's hence why

00:34:21.360 I say you act beta

00:34:22.280 because you're intentionally

00:34:23.260 doing that

00:34:23.760 it's strategic

00:34:24.480 and then you pull it away

00:34:25.600 this is basic

00:34:26.440 pick up

00:34:27.220 dating coach

00:34:28.180 I'm not saying

00:34:30.040 I'm not acting

00:34:30.720 to me

00:34:31.120 this is all a professional

00:34:32.300 this is just a professional

00:34:33.420 kind of process for me

00:34:35.500 are you learning about men

00:34:37.440 I'm learning that

00:34:38.680 every single time

00:34:40.340 I've blocked a guy

00:34:41.520 I was right

00:34:42.380 that's what I'm learning

00:34:43.360 you're going to be single

00:34:44.200 anyway

00:34:44.420 what are you talking about

00:34:45.000 I don't mind

00:34:45.600 I love being single

00:34:47.460 I don't even mind

00:34:48.560 that's not rude

00:34:49.880 it's not a bad thing

00:34:50.700 she's a queen

00:34:51.240 I love it

00:34:51.980 she's got infinite value

00:34:52.880 okay good

00:34:53.400 yeah it's not

00:34:54.040 I don't think there are many men

00:34:55.440 that could match up to you

00:34:56.460 I agree

00:34:56.880 just because of how

00:34:57.480 absolutely amazing you are

00:34:58.700 generally

00:34:59.000 I agree

00:34:59.140 from what you've said

00:35:00.300 you'd be better off

00:35:01.200 marrying yourself

00:35:01.780 because that would be

00:35:02.400 an awesome power

00:35:02.980 I'm seeing this framework

00:35:03.580 in real time right now

00:35:04.520 I'm seeing it in real time

00:35:06.140 you are so insightful

00:35:07.080 in the way you value yourself

00:35:08.160 I respect I respect your boundaries

00:35:09.620 text me I might ignore you

00:35:11.320 in other words

00:35:11.860 there we go

00:35:13.180 there we go

00:35:14.260 and I might just block you boo

00:35:16.820 in other words

00:35:17.520 in other words

00:35:18.160 you better have that

00:35:18.900 top-notch fucking dildo

00:35:20.400 they deserve it

00:35:21.420 they deserve it

00:35:21.920 you know what I mean

00:35:24.960 exactly

00:35:25.260 I think Jess had a question

00:35:27.120 it's not a question

00:35:28.680 you had said something about

00:35:30.400 you can't make women

00:35:33.040 think what they want to think

00:35:34.660 and I would say that

00:35:35.980 the first stage

00:35:37.380 as interesting as it may be

00:35:39.740 where you don't say much

00:35:40.920 you say little as to

00:35:43.120 anything possible

00:35:44.060 and you just have them speak

00:35:45.440 essentially

00:35:47.680 I would think that would be

00:35:49.280 valuable for a woman to do

00:35:51.940 because if you're saying

00:35:52.860 all this stuff

00:35:53.660 women do take things

00:35:54.920 you can say

00:35:55.660 no I don't want a relationship

00:35:56.800 and women will take it

00:35:58.060 well he doesn't want a relationship

00:35:59.300 right now

00:36:00.020 but maybe in the near future

00:36:01.620 he'll want it

00:36:02.420 and it's

00:36:04.120 it's

00:36:05.440 interesting

00:36:06.680 and like crazy

00:36:07.820 but I can understand it

00:36:09.720 as well

00:36:10.460 as like the first stage

00:36:11.900 as you don't say much

00:36:12.920 to help them understand

00:36:14.660 like this is what

00:36:15.760 I actually want

00:36:16.400 this stage is all about

00:36:17.900 kind of tension

00:36:18.540 it's all about

00:36:19.800 kind of

00:36:20.200 you're creating tension

00:36:21.360 and removing tension

00:36:22.160 yeah

00:36:22.480 I'm at this level now

00:36:25.640 where me removing tension

00:36:26.840 is just like me

00:36:27.700 just not bothering

00:36:28.400 it's like

00:36:29.400 when I remove my time

00:36:30.500 and attention

00:36:30.900 that's where like

00:36:32.500 you know

00:36:33.020 because women

00:36:33.840 women know

00:36:34.700 who the high level guys are

00:36:36.340 like they spend enough time

00:36:37.360 around you

00:36:37.860 they know

00:36:38.640 because I come across

00:36:39.400 as goofy

00:36:40.320 initially

00:36:40.920 because I do that on purpose

00:36:42.060 because I don't want any

00:36:42.700 clout chasers

00:36:43.260 because they're long

00:36:43.840 they're long

00:36:44.900 you know

00:36:45.640 you guys are coming

00:36:46.580 with your shiny belt

00:36:47.320 you're attracting

00:36:47.820 the most annoying

00:36:48.500 kind of women for me

00:36:49.240 I want someone

00:36:49.720 who's intelligent

00:36:50.280 and who generally

00:36:50.900 wants to mess around

00:36:51.760 and we kind of do this

00:36:53.180 and women who can

00:36:54.880 maintain themselves

00:36:55.600 and maintain their own

00:36:56.380 emotional state

00:36:57.020 you know

00:36:57.280 the kind of sense of being

00:36:58.480 naturally do this

00:36:59.700 you ever dated a mature woman

00:37:00.820 who was texting you constantly

00:37:01.800 you ever dated a mature woman

00:37:04.200 who was like too dominant

00:37:05.120 or too submissive

00:37:06.620 then naturally do that

00:37:07.460 because they have to

00:37:07.880 function as adults

00:37:08.660 I like adults

00:37:09.460 that's what I like

00:37:10.760 you know

00:37:11.780 occasionally some young ones

00:37:13.500 but she has to be very smart

00:37:14.680 this strategy

00:37:15.560 which is a strategy

00:37:16.580 it's just who I am

00:37:17.780 bro

00:37:17.900 though you may have

00:37:19.060 come to this strategy

00:37:19.700 yourself

00:37:20.100 this strategy is actually

00:37:21.180 just a standard

00:37:21.880 pick up strategy

00:37:22.620 it's just common sense

00:37:23.920 it is common sense

00:37:24.720 if you're not doing this

00:37:25.600 you're stopping in it

00:37:26.400 and the key thing is guys

00:37:27.880 the women in this stage

00:37:29.300 are extremely dispensable

00:37:31.200 and I'll tell you why

00:37:32.340 women think you are

00:37:33.580 extremely dispensable

00:37:34.420 if you meet someone

00:37:35.340 even vaguely attractive

00:37:36.320 she's got tons of guys

00:37:38.180 talking to her

00:37:38.760 all the time

00:37:39.500 if you're the top 10% of guys

00:37:41.680 maybe you're the top 1%

00:37:43.180 or 0.1% like me

00:37:44.200 right

00:37:44.580 maybe you go to a club

00:37:45.880 and you can find

00:37:46.560 a relatively attractive girl

00:37:47.620 and get her number

00:37:48.180 and you know

00:37:49.080 that's nothing compared

00:37:50.300 to what the average woman

00:37:51.260 can get

00:37:51.700 a woman who looks like

00:37:52.800 a foot can go to a club

00:37:54.000 and get a man

00:37:54.480 easy

00:37:54.880 so let me ask you a question

00:37:56.760 yeah

00:37:57.020 so she doesn't

00:37:57.560 that's why she can drop you quickly

00:37:58.820 all women think you're dispensable

00:38:00.720 so I don't know why

00:38:01.420 some guys out here

00:38:02.100 putting their heart on the line

00:38:03.140 oh she rejected me

00:38:04.360 bro

00:38:04.600 why are you talking to one person

00:38:07.020 why would you apply

00:38:07.920 for just one job

00:38:08.700 do you know what

00:38:09.580 I know someone who gave advice

00:38:11.020 to his boy

00:38:11.680 who was going on

00:38:12.700 like

00:38:13.040 he was going out to clubs

00:38:14.660 and he was just giving his number

00:38:15.560 out to girls

00:38:16.060 and he was basically saying that

00:38:17.260 it's

00:38:18.280 it's basically a poker game

00:38:19.940 what he does

00:38:20.680 is he puts

00:38:21.220 like money on each different

00:38:22.980 like

00:38:23.360 um

00:38:24.460 like card saying

00:38:26.340 okay

00:38:26.640 this card's gonna get me

00:38:27.960 x amount

00:38:28.340 this card's gonna be x amount

00:38:29.300 so he'll give out his number

00:38:30.240 to about 20 girls

00:38:31.240 he knows the odds are

00:38:32.380 10 of them

00:38:33.860 were probably ugly

00:38:35.080 because he was probably too drunk

00:38:37.500 then the other 10

00:38:38.700 two of them

00:38:39.960 hoes probably

00:38:41.360 the other two

00:38:42.660 probably have kids

00:38:44.160 and then the one after that

00:38:45.540 may be a good one

00:38:46.600 yeah that guy sounds whack

00:38:47.700 firstly

00:38:48.120 it sounds kind of feminine

00:38:49.420 giving out your number

00:38:50.180 do I want people calling me

00:38:51.500 without my say so

00:38:52.580 absolutely not

00:38:53.440 but I'm saying he gave that example

00:38:55.060 do you know what I mean

00:38:55.460 where he's saying it's a game

00:38:56.580 like what you're saying

00:38:57.440 is why you go for

00:38:58.380 yo

00:38:58.600 he's a juggalo

00:38:59.480 that guy's a

00:39:00.660 that guy's a male prostitute

00:39:01.820 but he's saying

00:39:02.780 the same thing you're saying

00:39:03.520 that you don't know

00:39:04.220 which one out of the bunch

00:39:05.320 is gonna be the good one

00:39:06.220 which is why you're playing

00:39:07.040 oh it's like you're not gonna put all your cards on mum's table

00:39:09.020 no there's a lot

00:39:09.600 there's a lot of filtering that goes

00:39:10.820 these

00:39:11.380 the women that go through this process

00:39:12.860 is maybe

00:39:13.340 one or two a month

00:39:14.780 yeah but this is just

00:39:15.500 to get the contact details

00:39:16.400 this is not going through the process

00:39:18.360 remember that

00:39:18.860 oh getting the contact details

00:39:20.000 that's what I'm saying

00:39:20.600 maybe one or two a month

00:39:22.160 at most

00:39:22.700 one or two

00:39:23.300 I'm extremely picky

00:39:24.160 you can't just have anyone hitting you up

00:39:25.720 or now I'm kind of doing this thing

00:39:27.140 where I just add cute people on Instagram

00:39:28.380 because I want more clout

00:39:29.340 but

00:39:29.540 generally

00:39:30.380 generally right

00:39:33.720 you just kind of

00:39:34.660 you know

00:39:35.000 I'm very selective

00:39:36.320 you've got to be educated

00:39:37.120 you've got to be intelligent

00:39:37.900 you've got to be respectful

00:39:38.800 like the worst thing you can do for me

00:39:40.660 is to disrespect my time

00:39:41.700 women who come on a date with me

00:39:43.040 and just expect another date

00:39:44.900 and just expect

00:39:45.760 to like

00:39:46.380 not

00:39:46.820 no sex

00:39:47.800 and just expect me

00:39:48.560 but don't you know the type of woman

00:39:49.740 you're bringing on

00:39:50.400 like dates with you though

00:39:51.680 that you should expect

00:39:52.720 that they're expecting your

00:39:53.740 they're respecting you

00:39:54.840 and you're respecting them

00:39:55.780 vice versa

00:39:56.380 I do

00:39:56.560 but

00:39:56.980 I can't

00:39:57.900 I can't read people's souls

00:39:59.040 right

00:39:59.240 someone may come across great

00:40:00.380 you could have great conversations

00:40:01.600 she could be educated

00:40:02.460 she could end up being a donkey

00:40:03.980 you know

00:40:04.680 women people flip

00:40:05.600 I know a lot of women

00:40:06.460 a lot of older feminists do this

00:40:08.240 I'm at this age now

00:40:09.060 where like

00:40:09.540 feminists will try and pretend

00:40:10.820 they're not feminists now

00:40:11.720 like when they're in that danger zone

00:40:13.900 that 28

00:40:14.340 it's like

00:40:14.800 oh

00:40:15.820 I was like

00:40:16.380 oh you know

00:40:16.700 you think about

00:40:17.860 you know

00:40:18.080 all this kind of

00:40:18.580 what do you think about

00:40:19.240 this gender stuff

00:40:19.960 you know

00:40:20.160 she's like

00:40:20.360 oh you know

00:40:20.800 feminism for everyone

00:40:23.280 no it's not

00:40:23.960 I know you're bitching about dudes

00:40:25.040 in your youth

00:40:25.880 I know exactly what kind of girl you are

00:40:27.360 but now she's kind of lowball it

00:40:28.680 oh you know

00:40:29.440 I hate misandry too

00:40:31.700 no she doesn't

00:40:32.760 this girl had a group chat on uni

00:40:34.020 I can see it

00:40:34.820 when people talk like that

00:40:36.320 it's like

00:40:36.640 it's like

00:40:37.040 that's a raven

00:40:37.640 it's like a vision

00:40:38.320 of like

00:40:38.920 yeah yeah yeah

00:40:39.460 you know what's happened fam

00:40:41.300 she tried it with everyone else

00:40:43.300 and she slowly started to understand

00:40:45.280 that that kind of filters her out

00:40:46.740 because when people say that

00:40:47.700 I filter you out

00:40:48.380 like

00:40:48.600 unless you're extremely hot

00:40:49.940 I don't think there's anyone

00:40:50.600 that's been so good looking

00:40:51.520 because that's just

00:40:52.780 feminists want to bitch about you

00:40:54.580 that is their goal

00:40:55.780 ask a feminist about their ex

00:40:57.500 and they will always say negative things

00:40:59.120 that means it's them

00:41:00.040 they suck

00:41:00.640 they look

00:41:01.400 when a feminist loses a boyfriend

00:41:03.000 she wants to look at like

00:41:04.060 you know

00:41:04.320 was he abusive

00:41:05.020 was he sexually assaulting

00:41:06.540 it's their natural thing

00:41:07.620 so why would I put myself in that

00:41:08.980 why would you hire someone

00:41:10.000 who only bitches about their past employers

00:41:11.620 no 100%

00:41:12.920 but at the end of the day

00:41:13.640 not all women are like that

00:41:14.620 we have to like

00:41:15.340 look at that side as well

00:41:16.360 there's some women

00:41:17.180 that ain't like that

00:41:18.020 that are not going to sit there

00:41:20.660 and just preach feminism

00:41:21.940 and talk shit about their ex

00:41:23.740 and just

00:41:24.280 that would degrade men

00:41:25.520 like some women

00:41:26.160 might be alright

00:41:26.980 like that's a damn a deal

00:41:27.800 I think the issue is that

00:41:29.160 like most women

00:41:29.820 have been impacted by feminism

00:41:31.320 because we're all born

00:41:32.360 after a certain era

00:41:33.340 so like

00:41:34.900 the average age of first marriage

00:41:36.560 in the UK is 31

00:41:37.720 what percent of 31 year olds

00:41:40.380 haven't been ran through

00:41:41.400 no of course

00:41:42.480 yeah

00:41:42.880 and what percent of 31 year olds

00:41:45.120 are actually wives

00:41:45.920 what percent have a cookbook

00:41:47.120 what percent

00:41:48.460 and so

00:41:49.280 like the point is

00:41:50.380 that even if

00:41:51.080 not all women are like that

00:41:52.680 yeah

00:41:53.620 they kind of are

00:41:54.380 we kind of are

00:41:55.140 yeah

00:41:55.300 they definitely are

00:41:55.840 yeah

00:41:56.100 and it's like

00:41:56.920 I think

00:41:57.360 it's kind of something we do as women

00:41:59.060 it's like

00:41:59.380 we're like

00:41:59.660 oh no

00:42:00.140 not like

00:42:00.700 not all women

00:42:01.260 we're special

00:42:01.940 are we

00:42:02.960 you guys don't understand

00:42:04.340 that like

00:42:04.740 this isn't something

00:42:05.440 there's some women

00:42:06.040 that ain't like that

00:42:06.680 obviously I know you're looking at the majority

00:42:08.060 but then

00:42:08.620 and as well

00:42:09.280 when guys are

00:42:10.360 practicing things like this

00:42:12.720 it gives us ammo

00:42:14.400 and things to

00:42:16.020 you have no ammo

00:42:16.860 you're single

00:42:17.260 what do you mean

00:42:18.520 you got no ammo

00:42:19.320 you're single

00:42:20.180 he's single

00:42:20.620 what ammo do you have

00:42:21.640 no I mean like

00:42:22.560 what you're saying

00:42:23.340 that women bitch about guys

00:42:24.820 yeah

00:42:25.720 because when men are practicing

00:42:27.780 things like this

00:42:28.780 we have things to bitch about

00:42:30.820 when men act like

00:42:32.700 ignores

00:42:33.360 gaslight

00:42:34.100 oh sorry

00:42:34.940 when men do things like

00:42:36.060 ignore

00:42:36.640 gaslight

00:42:37.580 and expect so much

00:42:39.940 after

00:42:40.520 one 25 pound drink

00:42:42.680 like

00:42:43.400 you're giving us

00:42:44.600 25 pound drink

00:42:44.980 he's the one that said it

00:42:46.000 he said that he'll pay

00:42:47.100 for a drink

00:42:47.660 for 25 pound

00:42:48.640 my budget is tight

00:42:49.360 you know

00:42:49.580 yeah

00:42:49.960 so

00:42:50.440 when

00:42:50.960 when

00:42:51.580 when

00:42:51.700 when

00:42:51.980 you're treating

00:42:52.460 women like that

00:42:53.540 like

00:42:53.840 you're giving us

00:42:54.780 things to talk about

00:42:55.640 but you're acting like

00:42:55.900 you're acting like

00:42:56.580 women are children

00:42:57.260 you make decisions

00:42:58.220 yeah we do

00:42:58.920 and it's like

00:42:59.380 and it's like

00:42:59.980 every relationship

00:43:01.900 I've been in

00:43:02.540 it's on me

00:43:03.440 because I made that choice

00:43:04.900 but you aren't

00:43:05.920 when you're

00:43:06.220 when you're telling him

00:43:07.160 oh but this is why

00:43:08.060 women have stuff

00:43:08.660 to talk about

00:43:09.300 no no let me

00:43:09.940 let me finish

00:43:10.660 that's like

00:43:11.360 when you say

00:43:11.800 that women have

00:43:12.360 stuff to talk about

00:43:13.360 it's like

00:43:14.000 you're putting it

00:43:14.500 on the men

00:43:14.980 no it's on you

00:43:15.900 it's your ability

00:43:16.820 to pick

00:43:17.420 I agree

00:43:18.180 and that's why

00:43:19.640 I know

00:43:20.040 he would

00:43:20.620 with me

00:43:21.820 he would get blocked

00:43:23.240 in like

00:43:23.860 three days

00:43:24.440 120 million percent

00:43:27.160 we can go through

00:43:28.200 my phone now

00:43:29.400 and I will show you

00:43:30.360 but you're single

00:43:30.840 you block everyone

00:43:31.500 yeah I block people

00:43:33.240 by choice

00:43:33.740 because I do

00:43:34.580 have standards

00:43:35.460 and I must be

00:43:37.300 courted

00:43:37.880 only some people

00:43:39.720 actually appreciate

00:43:41.360 that and understand

00:43:42.220 that but the people

00:43:43.620 that do

00:43:44.140 we get along

00:43:45.200 and we talk

00:43:46.000 well they're not here

00:43:46.260 because you're single

00:43:46.820 okay

00:43:47.540 you're saying it

00:43:48.680 like it's

00:43:50.240 go on

00:43:50.660 sorry go finish

00:43:51.760 but my point is that

00:43:53.320 women can say

00:43:55.320 bad things about men

00:43:56.320 and they do say

00:43:57.320 bad things about men

00:43:58.280 I personally

00:43:59.300 if I'm in all sincerity

00:44:01.100 I don't necessarily

00:44:02.300 subscribe to

00:44:03.620 men are trash

00:44:04.280 because I don't

00:44:05.400 believe in

00:44:06.460 negative

00:44:07.220 reinforcement

00:44:08.020 but

00:44:09.240 when guys

00:44:10.960 are doing

00:44:11.960 things like this

00:44:13.080 how can you

00:44:14.400 say oh yeah

00:44:15.660 men are amazing

00:44:16.440 but he's

00:44:17.120 he's only doing

00:44:17.880 what women respond to

00:44:19.360 he wouldn't

00:44:19.760 some women

00:44:20.320 no no

00:44:20.840 that's why

00:44:21.140 I wouldn't ask

00:44:21.900 what type of women

00:44:22.780 this is like a shaming

00:44:24.280 this is like a shaming

00:44:25.240 tactic that women do

00:44:26.420 it's like

00:44:26.840 when guys make a general

00:44:28.120 observation about women

00:44:29.580 which they've spent

00:44:30.660 way more time studying

00:44:31.960 on how to get laid

00:44:33.500 than you ever have

00:44:34.840 and they say

00:44:35.540 women are generally

00:44:36.300 like this

00:44:36.800 they're like well

00:44:37.400 it's the women

00:44:37.880 you hang around

00:44:38.480 not all women

00:44:39.100 and it's like

00:44:39.900 okay how narcissistic

00:44:40.940 are you

00:44:41.440 to think that

00:44:42.040 I didn't say

00:44:42.500 it was the women

00:44:43.000 you hang around

00:44:43.600 I'm saying

00:44:44.380 this is in general

00:44:45.360 what women say

00:44:46.220 I didn't say

00:44:46.780 you specifically

00:44:47.540 said that

00:44:48.160 and I said

00:44:48.960 like that

00:44:49.500 right there

00:44:49.920 it's a shaming

00:44:50.460 tactic

00:44:50.960 because you're

00:44:51.600 saying oh

00:44:51.900 it's only the

00:44:52.400 women you pick

00:44:53.100 but it's like

00:44:54.140 no

00:44:54.800 there's whole

00:44:55.440 channels based

00:44:56.160 on this

00:44:56.600 this is what

00:44:57.020 pick up

00:44:57.380 the whole

00:44:57.660 pick up

00:44:58.000 community

00:44:58.440 is based on

00:44:59.140 this is literally

00:44:59.260 just common sense

00:45:00.020 I just

00:45:00.440 I wanted to ask

00:45:01.340 like

00:45:01.640 so you would

00:45:03.220 use that

00:45:03.800 to get your wife

00:45:04.600 I'm not using that

00:45:05.640 this is like

00:45:06.700 I am this

00:45:07.900 like there's no

00:45:08.500 using

00:45:08.880 this is what

00:45:09.800 he's used to

00:45:10.540 based on

00:45:11.080 that's what he

00:45:12.840 said

00:45:13.080 no

00:45:13.760 he said

00:45:14.320 he'd get rid

00:45:14.820 of step

00:45:15.280 step number

00:45:15.840 four

00:45:16.600 and that wife

00:45:19.940 you'd be happy

00:45:20.660 to like

00:45:21.160 have children

00:45:21.780 with and raise

00:45:22.260 your kids

00:45:22.600 this is how

00:45:23.080 modern relationships

00:45:24.000 are nowadays

00:45:24.820 people sleep

00:45:25.440 their way

00:45:25.820 into relationships

00:45:26.680 when was the

00:45:28.780 last time a guy

00:45:29.360 asked any girl

00:45:30.040 to be like

00:45:31.200 be my girlfriend

00:45:31.960 like nowadays

00:45:33.100 guys just assume

00:45:34.120 or girls just assume

00:45:35.160 no one actually

00:45:36.060 I've I'm there's

00:45:38.000 very few women I

00:45:38.900 know that actually

00:45:39.760 put that in place

00:45:40.660 I am one

00:45:41.660 100% I'm not

00:45:42.840 your girl until

00:45:43.300 you ask me one

00:45:43.960 but there's a lot

00:45:44.740 of women I know

00:45:45.620 of or situations

00:45:46.580 that women just

00:45:47.920 get into it

00:45:48.320 so 100%

00:45:49.620 that's why I said

00:45:50.340 society men

00:45:51.940 will know a wife

00:45:53.240 when they see one

00:45:53.960 and they'll see

00:45:54.820 like if a woman

00:45:55.420 deserves to be

00:45:55.960 courted because

00:45:56.680 she's not out

00:45:57.680 there and well

00:45:58.900 and the thing

00:45:59.640 is you can say

00:46:00.260 like raise your

00:46:00.880 standards or

00:46:01.440 whatever but if

00:46:02.140 you're a used

00:46:02.640 car you can't

00:46:03.360 demand bmw prices

00:46:04.840 or you can but

00:46:05.740 when no there's

00:46:06.260 no buyers you

00:46:07.080 can't be shocked

00:46:08.040 yeah but women

00:46:09.000 aren't cars and

00:46:10.540 there's that's not

00:46:11.100 the point the

00:46:11.620 point it's an

00:46:12.420 analogy it's an

00:46:14.740 analogy but I

00:46:15.600 can't relate it's

00:46:16.980 are you are you a

00:46:18.040 virgin no okay

00:46:19.160 so if you're not

00:46:19.800 a virgin you're a

00:46:20.480 used car you

00:46:21.520 know in life no

00:46:22.420 one does anything

00:46:25.020 for free yeah

00:46:25.680 there's only a

00:46:26.680 certain amount of

00:46:27.340 time that someone

00:46:27.880 will do something

00:46:28.400 at the kindness

00:46:28.900 of their heart

00:46:29.300 now in a

00:46:30.360 relationship both

00:46:31.540 partners have to

00:46:32.480 come with something

00:46:33.360 have to that

00:46:34.840 whatever that is

00:46:35.600 for you specifically

00:46:36.740 as a person of

00:46:37.980 value 100% but

00:46:39.360 you have to both

00:46:40.140 come with something

00:46:41.080 and at the end of

00:46:42.120 the day whatever

00:46:42.600 that is for you

00:46:43.360 as a person that's

00:46:44.160 fine but society

00:46:46.020 nowadays sex is

00:46:47.300 something that is

00:46:47.920 giving up way too

00:46:49.060 easy facts

00:46:49.640 how many girls are

00:46:52.040 losing the virginity

00:46:52.800 at such a young

00:46:53.540 age like

00:46:53.880 but that's always

00:46:55.360 happened that's

00:46:56.380 always happened

00:46:56.860 people act like

00:46:57.440 people stop people

00:46:58.300 were having sex at

00:46:59.040 16 yeah but the

00:46:59.960 difference is people

00:47:00.760 were getting married

00:47:01.500 yeah but back in

00:47:02.420 the day people were

00:47:03.100 getting married to

00:47:03.900 those 16 year old

00:47:05.080 well yeah they'll

00:47:05.920 have kids a lot

00:47:06.560 quicker yeah it was

00:47:07.640 different now

00:47:08.060 Alex you can take

00:47:09.180 that thank you

00:47:09.820 thank you everyone

00:47:10.640 like round up

00:47:11.300 hold on quick round

00:47:11.920 of applause round of

00:47:12.840 applause that was

00:47:13.640 that was a great

00:47:14.140 presentation

00:47:14.680 that was actually

00:47:16.180 good

00:47:16.460 that's a different

00:47:24.160 day that's a

00:47:24.680 different show

00:47:25.100 my guy needs to

00:47:25.620 do stand up

00:47:26.320 immediately

00:47:27.080 no the back was

00:47:30.900 me

00:47:31.360 there's just one

00:47:37.480 thing though because

00:47:38.340 you know how you

00:47:39.060 said men spend a

00:47:40.020 lot of time studying

00:47:41.180 women yeah and

00:47:42.320 learning how to get

00:47:43.640 laid yeah and then

00:47:44.720 you stated that women

00:47:45.700 have sex at a very

00:47:47.480 young age now it's

00:47:49.160 really crazy because

00:47:50.260 men and women are

00:47:51.400 completely different

00:47:52.360 and women aren't

00:47:54.040 necessarily looking

00:47:55.340 for sex the way men

00:47:56.660 are looking for sex

00:47:57.580 but men are from

00:48:01.240 early men are

00:48:04.500 pursuing women and

00:48:06.440 in pursuit of sex

00:48:08.020 before women even

00:48:09.300 know the value of

00:48:11.060 sex before they even

00:48:12.940 understand that it's

00:48:15.040 it's something that

00:48:16.360 they shouldn't

00:48:17.160 necessarily just give

00:48:18.560 away so in other

00:48:19.320 words men are already

00:48:20.240 on it in other words

00:48:20.940 what you're saying is

00:48:21.480 from young men are

00:48:22.540 driven for sex yeah

00:48:24.360 well that's what we're

00:48:25.180 hardwired for yeah i

00:48:26.060 know i'm not

00:48:26.940 criticizing right but

00:48:27.920 so so what i'm so

00:48:30.340 i just don't care what's

00:48:30.940 your point women are

00:48:31.460 unfair advantage in that

00:48:32.780 sense an unfair and

00:48:33.880 why advantage because

00:48:35.040 we're younger and

00:48:35.940 we're not focused on

00:48:36.980 those things that men

00:48:38.240 are focused on so we

00:48:39.840 can't defend ourselves

00:48:41.040 what do you mean defend

00:48:42.020 yourself like if you

00:48:43.060 make a choice i mean

00:48:44.340 even even if you're

00:48:45.340 underage you know

00:48:46.040 what you're doing

00:48:46.600 no but if your

00:48:47.240 choice is ill-informed

00:48:48.600 how is it ill-informed

00:48:50.040 because you don't

00:48:50.780 understand no no

00:48:51.880 you understand you

00:48:52.880 understand you

00:48:52.900 understand you

00:48:53.800 you under i've been

00:48:55.400 16 going on to a

00:48:56.620 different topic i bet

00:48:57.740 i bet you okay okay

00:48:59.120 okay i wasn't stop

00:49:00.920 over talking me sorry

00:49:02.960 honey i i've been 16

00:49:05.380 and you know what

00:49:06.180 you're doing and so

00:49:07.800 it's like it's you just

00:49:09.120 want an excuse to get

00:49:10.220 bailed out oh i was

00:49:11.340 too young i didn't

00:49:12.060 know bad decision

00:49:13.260 okay then then the

00:49:16.280 women you're talking

00:49:17.140 about so if you make

00:49:18.340 a bad decision there's

00:49:19.260 a consequence you

00:49:20.020 can't go to men and

00:49:20.720 say oh but i was

00:49:21.740 young like it's always

00:49:22.900 just an excuse from

00:49:24.080 women what there

00:49:24.900 needs to be actually

00:49:26.300 the only thing i'm

00:49:27.280 talking about is one

00:49:28.860 people should never

00:49:30.280 ever think that

00:49:31.300 anybody's value is

00:49:33.080 altered because of

00:49:34.940 anything because

00:49:36.400 okay can we just

00:49:37.360 start the therapy

00:49:37.980 session though like

00:49:38.700 okay there's a

00:49:42.420 difference between

00:49:42.980 personal value and

00:49:44.280 your sexual market

00:49:45.200 value so it's your

00:49:46.640 value in the

00:49:47.320 marketplace and it

00:49:48.940 goes down if you've

00:49:49.860 slept with the whole

00:49:50.460 football team i'm

00:49:51.160 sorry

JustPearlyThings - July 21, 2023

The ONE THING that TRIGGERES all FEMINIST!

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