JustPearlyThings - July 20, 2023


The One TRUTH About Women They Never ADMIT

Topics
all of the programming and messaging benevolent dictatorship vs. democracy
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Chad Caring
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Length

8 minutes

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Word count

1,622

Sentence count

197

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Misogyny

14

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8

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10

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the are joined by their good friend Chad to talk about all things mental health, sex, and dating. They also talk about their top 5 traits they look for in a potential partner.

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00:00:00.000 I have a theory. I think a lot of women have secretly, unknowingly, a bipolar disorder 0.92
00:00:08.100 where they have someone else that commits crimes on their behalf.
00:00:12.540 And then...
00:00:13.100 I think a lot of women have a representative that commits crimes on their behalf 1.00
00:00:19.420 and then they can claim to not know what happened.
00:00:21.880 I'm with you, brother.
00:00:22.740 Exactly.
00:00:24.500 Allergies to accountability and responsibility.
00:00:27.420 You know what's funny?
00:00:28.060 You know what's funny?
00:00:28.980 I saw there's a guy from the 1900s talking about...
00:00:32.560 I was reading about the court system in the 1900s
00:00:34.820 and he was talking about how female versus male victims,
00:00:37.840 even in the early 1900s before social media,
00:00:40.780 women would never admit they were guilty. 1.00
00:00:44.260 Like, if a man committed a crime, he might be like,
00:00:46.580 all right, I did it.
00:00:48.860 Like, I was wrong. I did it.
00:00:50.260 But the woman would always have someone to blame. 0.98
00:00:53.000 And he was literally talking about this in the 1900s.
00:00:55.480 It's always someone else's fault.
00:00:57.020 Always someone else's fault.
00:00:58.420 Even if the action came down to the person.
00:01:01.420 Yeah.
00:01:02.380 No accountability.
00:01:03.600 But it's interesting.
00:01:04.580 If you say, like, there was another case where a guy killed his family.
00:01:09.020 And the reason he killed his family was because the wife basically threatened to, like, 1.00
00:01:12.840 take all his shit. 1.00
00:01:13.760 She threatened to leave him with the kids, like, just financially ruin him. 1.00
00:01:18.260 And it's like, if we bring that up, there's no sympathy for the man.
00:01:23.180 But it's, like, interesting because the other way around, if you say,
00:01:26.600 oh, well, she killed her baby, but she was depressed, but she was this, but she was that. 0.98
00:01:32.220 There's, like, always sympathy for the woman.
00:01:33.860 There's never for the man.
00:01:35.720 And then the blame would go on mental illness.
00:01:38.620 Yeah.
00:01:39.300 It's not even up to her.
00:01:41.020 Yeah, she was just mentally.
00:01:42.240 Yeah.
00:01:46.240 Yeah, so, you still, you don't want kids, though.
00:01:53.220 With the right person, possibly, but not as my, not right this very second, no.
00:01:59.700 I'm never going to say never because I don't know what's going to happen tomorrow.
00:02:01.760 I don't know what's going to happen next week.
00:02:02.940 Did you want kids before?
00:02:04.860 No.
00:02:05.220 Like, when you were younger?
00:02:05.920 You never have wanted kids.
00:02:07.040 No, like, even when I was young, like, I've always been a little bit of a girly girl,
00:02:10.220 but my mom and dad used to buy me dollies.
00:02:12.280 They used to buy me prams.
00:02:13.980 I wouldn't touch it.
00:02:14.620 When did you get on social media?
00:02:18.400 Oh, God.
00:02:19.080 I started with Tumblr.
00:02:20.520 Okay.
00:02:20.960 Tumblr.
00:02:21.340 How old were you?
00:02:22.780 Oh, God.
00:02:24.820 About 13, maybe?
00:02:27.380 I think that programs women to not want children. 0.88
00:02:30.740 About 12, 13.
00:02:31.920 Think about it.
00:02:32.560 Like, if you're at 11 hours now, you've probably been similar for a long time.
00:02:37.360 So think about how much influence that has over you every single day.
00:02:40.900 And all of the programming and the messaging is, like, don't have kids.
00:02:44.360 Don't have kids.
00:02:45.000 Kids are a burden.
00:02:47.660 You say that.
00:02:48.540 A lot of my, like, I watch a lot of stuff to do with kids.
00:02:50.900 My algorithm is full of kids.
00:02:51.940 Go on TikTok, go on Instagram.
00:02:53.080 I've got all kids doing this and that and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:02:55.680 But I don't know.
00:02:57.280 It's just modern society today.
00:02:59.300 And I think it's absolutely shambolic.
00:03:00.760 And the dating pool that, like you said earlier, like, if we were to go on Tinder or Hinge or anything
00:03:04.820 like that, the dating pool is the same sort of men.
00:03:07.980 What do you mean?
00:03:08.260 What sort of men?
00:03:09.580 Like, the men that women would always go for. 1.00
00:03:13.420 Like, not per se you would be attracted to them on a sort of mental level, like a mental
00:03:19.480 capacity sort of level.
00:03:20.740 It'd be more of a physical attraction.
00:03:22.400 And that's, I've lost my train of thought.
00:03:28.260 What was the question?
00:03:28.960 What characters do you think, what character traits do you look for in a boyfriend?
00:03:35.280 What, like, surface level or just actual, just character traits?
00:03:39.040 Top five.
00:03:39.500 Top five things you look for.
00:03:41.720 Caring.
00:03:42.880 Okay.
00:03:43.280 Has a good relationship with their parents or, like, any adult figure in their life has
00:03:51.180 got respect for their adult figures in their life because that plays a big part in it.
00:03:57.020 Ambition.
00:03:57.800 Definitely.
00:03:58.620 Caring is a C, has good relationships in H.
00:04:01.060 Ambition is an A.
00:04:02.180 We've got child.
00:04:02.880 So the last one has to start with a D.
00:04:05.200 Chad.
00:04:05.820 Yeah.
00:04:08.860 Despise is modern.
00:04:09.800 There it is.
00:04:10.160 We got to spell Chad.
00:04:10.940 We're almost there.
00:04:11.500 My number one is doesn't think women should vote. 1.00
00:04:14.600 Oh, yeah.
00:04:16.800 Wait, really?
00:04:17.520 No, not number one, but I agree with you on that.
00:04:19.540 Like, every, women. 0.99
00:04:20.440 Did we just spell Chad?
00:04:21.800 No.
00:04:23.120 Caring.
00:04:23.760 Chad.
00:04:24.160 Has a good relationship.
00:04:25.240 Ambitious.
00:04:25.780 Doesn't Chad.
00:04:27.960 You think women shouldn't vote too? 1.00
00:04:29.660 No, women should vote. 1.00
00:04:30.620 Women have. 1.00
00:04:31.900 I'm always alone.
00:04:32.940 Women should vote. 1.00
00:04:34.420 Everyone should be able to vote.
00:04:35.640 Anyone that is of a legal aid should be able to vote. 1.00
00:04:38.240 What about, what about, like, what about, like, idiots? 1.00
00:04:41.500 You can have male idiots as well. 1.00
00:04:45.520 Yeah, I mean, what about the male idiots? 1.00
00:04:47.720 Can they not vote? 1.00
00:04:49.040 Anyone, everyone should have their right to vote, I believe.
00:04:52.960 But, whether it counts or not.
00:04:55.780 What about criminals?
00:04:56.540 Should the criminals get to vote?
00:04:58.020 Absolutely, yes.
00:04:59.160 The criminals?
00:05:00.000 Absolutely, yes.
00:05:00.860 Yes, they should.
00:05:01.720 And it's very simple.
00:05:02.920 It's just, this is, like, more of a philosophical and, like, governmental argument.
00:05:06.020 But it's because it prevents, because if criminals couldn't vote, you would have a surplus of government power concentrated where people would be appointed as criminals so that they would not have the ability to vote, right?
00:05:15.380 So, if you look at, like, most constitutional monarchies today, criminals can vote.
00:05:18.600 Judges cannot.
00:05:19.560 Because then you don't want judges to be able to be bought for their votes, right?
00:05:22.920 Because then they can take political decisions in court.
00:05:25.040 And what you want to avoid is political decisions in court.
00:05:27.120 You don't want to say, he's a criminal, if you have the authority to say that, to take away their vote.
00:05:30.880 I thought in the U.S., criminals can't vote.
00:05:32.580 I was raised in a Canadian constitutional monarchy.
00:05:35.360 And I very much agree that, even though, like, I don't support criminals and nobody likes criminals, whatever.
00:05:39.800 But we can't give, beginning on the Soviet Union, which is where I spent the first nine years of my life, a lot of people were deemed thought criminals.
00:05:46.340 And immediately, you know, they're removed from sort of the...
00:05:48.920 Oh, I see.
00:05:49.480 Because the government over-abuses the power by putting them...
00:05:53.340 Exactly.
00:05:54.060 So you can't take away a person's...
00:05:56.420 You can't second-class a citizen.
00:05:57.700 Another example would be the...
00:05:58.760 I can't say that word.
00:05:59.940 Well, in the U.S., you should just be property owners.
00:06:02.740 Remember when you had to be vaxxed to get a job or to get on a bus or to go to a restaurant, et cetera, et cetera?
00:06:08.380 Those people, that's a second-class thing because they said, well, you're a criminal against society because you're creating an excess risk of society,
00:06:13.500 which turned out to be untrue and completely manipulative.
00:06:15.920 But that's where we run into that sort of issue.
00:06:17.780 Right.
00:06:18.160 Well, in the U.S., you should just be landowners.
00:06:20.420 Most people couldn't vote until, like, the early 1900s, late 1800s.
00:06:25.680 Like, it was literally just landowners.
00:06:27.640 Yep.
00:06:28.240 Wait, we had it set up.
00:06:29.060 But that's...
00:06:29.280 But democracy is the worst, like, the best of the worst.
00:06:31.840 Like, there's no good thing, right?
00:06:33.360 Like, it just...
00:06:34.460 It is what it is.
00:06:35.260 What do you mean?
00:06:36.220 Well, I mean, like, constitutional monarchies like the UAE are amazing and wonderful.
00:06:39.920 But there's also, like, a lot of...
00:06:41.720 Not constitutional monarchies.
00:06:42.580 I'm talking about, like, actual...
00:06:43.540 Like, let's say benevolent dictatorships.
00:06:45.700 There's a constitutional monarchies like Canada.
00:06:47.140 But, like, benevolent dictatorships like the UAE are amazing because they have amazing leadership that invests in infrastructure and people.
00:06:53.720 Like, it's one of the greatest places on earth, right?
00:06:55.640 But benevolent dictatorships always have that risk of flipping to not being so benevolent.
00:06:59.100 And then you turn into a Venezuela situation, right?
00:07:01.440 So in one...
00:07:02.540 But on the other end, democracy, you kind of get a mix of everything.
00:07:06.820 So there's no, like, good outcome that you can guarantee under any system, right?
00:07:09.880 Yeah.
00:07:10.040 Well, but the thing is, like, usually you have to have some skin in the game.
00:07:13.720 That's, like, the way the U.S. was for most of history.
00:07:16.140 Right.
00:07:16.280 Like, it was you had to be a landowner.
00:07:17.700 Right.
00:07:18.000 And that way you could vote.
00:07:19.060 So most men and women couldn't vote. 0.95
00:07:20.640 No, listen.
00:07:20.960 I lean towards benevolent dictatorship myself.
00:07:22.780 Like, I just do.
00:07:23.720 It's just because I prefer...
00:07:25.800 Like, if I'm in a company, like, and I am a CEO of a company, just so it turns out.
00:07:29.420 Like, I believe that, like, I am better at making decisions than most of the people that
00:07:33.960 are lower in that, let's say, hierarchy chain.
00:07:37.200 And the reason is because, you know, companies are built by the market voting for you with
00:07:42.460 their dollars, meaning that you make enough good decisions, you can build something substantive,
00:07:45.420 right?
00:07:46.100 And, like, for example, we have somebody that comes and helps us clean our office, like,
00:07:49.200 very nice lady that does it. 1.00
00:07:50.600 But her decisions would not be wise in the course of, like, choosing direction, right?
00:07:54.660 Whereas, like, in democracy, you know, what you have is usually a very unqualified person
00:07:58.380 being flipped for the next very unqualified person.
00:08:01.580 And so it's not a good system, but it's the best system that we have, right?