The Only Place to Find Good Men
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the best places for women to find husbands, how to find a husband, and what to look for in a potential husband. We also discuss the importance of being a good wife material and how to present yourself in the best possible way online.
Transcript
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I'm curious to the guys, what are the best places for women to find husbands?
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A lot of people Instagram, but I think you should go put yourself in situations where
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I think the farmer's market, go grocery shopping.
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I think the church, you should go find a guy there.
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I met a lot of great couples recently in Japan.
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You know, I think that if you are in your feminine nature and you are doing things that
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I hear a lot of females say there's a whole lot of accounts on TikTok that base their content
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off of how to find a successful rich man or how to do this or how to do that.
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And they usually say, they usually target Mayfair, Knightsbridge, go to this bar, go to this club.
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The club, I wouldn't seek that out in the club.
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Immediately, you put yourself in the scenario that guys at that level are not looking for.
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Being in your feminine energy, wherever you go, you're going to more likely attract a better
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Because the problem with Mayfair and Kensington and Knightsbridge and these places is you're
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going to meet a lot of guys who just want to have one night stands.
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But equally, you're going to meet them online as well.
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So it's really about the energy that you put out in terms of what you attract.
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But I think as well, going to some more chilled out places, going to Borough Market, like he
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You know, those kind of places, more likely to meet somebody who's a bit more authentic
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Although as long as you don't start filming him and putting it on TikTok.
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It's hard because it depends on what you mean, how you define the man, right?
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So I don't think you're going to find a one percenter in there.
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But at the same time, you know, you have to find them somewhere.
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So I think Sneeko's dead on with the online thing.
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And then it comes down to filtering and asking the right questions, but being respectful inside
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You know, say, and just be hand in hand honest.
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Like, look, man, I'm looking for this kind of guy, you know, and 50, 60 grand.
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In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if you got a bunch of messages after this show, because
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And I think you could, I think, I think you could get higher.
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But, um, you know, also you have to understand that guys that are pretty well to do have pretty
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Bro, if I was a girl, I'd be playing golf like a motherfucker.
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Even if you're trash, even if you're trash, you know, so it's like those types of things,
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you know, where, where do, where do guys like that meet up?
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Because you don't want to meet somebody you're going to be with forever in a bar.
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Because the first question you're going to get asked is, you have to carry that around
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So I, I would try not to meet a person in the club, honestly.
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So when you say the best place to meet someone is online, how do you portray yourself in
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So ideally, if you want to be wife material, I would make it be known that you had curves
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You know, the woman that's like very clearly built well, but is not showing it, but she's
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And it'll drive men wild because now if you go online and you look at a girl's account
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and first of all, she's got the cleavage everywhere.
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But if you just scroll down a little bit, you can see exactly what her nipples look like.
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Because a man gets a lot of value from other men out of how classy and how beautiful
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And if she's out there promoting it to the world, number one, that's marketing.
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And then number two, everybody in that group is going to look down upon that man because
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the woman is out there marketing and they've all seen everything he's got.
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So the sacredness, which is one of the most beautiful things I believe that a woman has,
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So I think it's very important to compete because you are competing against BBLs and boob jobs
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But even if you get a boob job, there's a way to show that you have big poops and a busty
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figure and you're in good shape without actually showing it, if that makes sense.
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What do you think about women that get plastic surgery to attract men?
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If I was a woman, I would have fake boobs for sure.
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If I didn't have, you know, you understand what I'm saying?
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And I'd also be in the squat rack and I'd also be doing all the things that it took to attract men.
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The attractive things about a woman, like as far as bust and shape and all those things,
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And although it sounds shallow, it's the basis of the relationship is attraction.
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So if you can be attracted to somebody and then be, and then another thing, I would be
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at least well-read, understand politics, have a strong opinion because you're going to want
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Because I do, there is nothing more attractive for me than a woman that is based.
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Well, have a strong opinion about the right things.
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Most, most successful men are based in pretty much conservative if you're talking politics,
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And then if you get a lefty that's successful, he's probably going to be kind of simply.
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You're probably going to sacrifice some masculinity there, you know?
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So for me, the right hobbies, I like the, I like the whole foods thing, but online and
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then make sure you're the kind of class that a man says, okay, I can take her and like turn
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her and build her and keep developing her because she's already on the right path.
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Men often pick the wrong cloth, as do women, but having, being the right cloth from the
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jump, you're giving that man a canvas to turn you into a queen.
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Like, I understand what femininity looks like from a woman's perspective, but from a man's
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eyes, like, what does femininity look like to you guys?
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Because I might have a, we might have different opinions.
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So what do you, what do you think the woman's perspective on femininity is?
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I think femininity is someone who's calm, someone who's able to submit, someone who's
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able to compromise, someone who takes care of herself and you guys just have the same
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I think you want to be looking at watchwords like classy, demure, modesty, you know?
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And when you're constructing, say like an online profile, it's those kinds of things you
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Like, like Justin has just said, I mean, you can look sexy, but nice dress, you know, not, not
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going to sort of the Instagram hoe kind of route, you know, less is more, you know, in
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Do any of you guys have any other dating questions for the guys?
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If you'd want to know from like a man's point of view.
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What do you think is the main problem with men nowadays and the women that they choose?
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I think that ethics happen a long time before you need them.
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So men choose not to be in abundance in every area of their life.
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They're not taking care of their career, their style.
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They're not doing all the things that they're supposed to be able to do to tell a woman that
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Hey, listen, I can't put up with this kind of behavior.
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You can't have your titties all over the internet.
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You have to be in abundance to tell a woman, no, the woman, and this is not to disrespect
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women, but a woman needs to know that you can replace her.
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You need to be that kind of man to earn that kind of respect from a woman.
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And when you can get in a position with a woman where she knows you can replace her with
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somebody else that wants to be classy, who wants to take that role, who wants to be submissive
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inside a frame that you've earned, then you're in the right place.
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And men, by and largely, are not doing that now.
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They're playing the video games and doing the weed or whatever they're not supposed to
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And for that reason, they make sacrifices when it comes down to relationship negotiations
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that they shouldn't make and they don't even want to make, but that's the only girl they
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And so if they would have been working on themselves the last few years, when it comes to
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the point of something coming to a head, they can't look a woman in the eyes with conviction
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I'm going to be the leader in this relationship.
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And what happens with that is she sees him buckle because he's not in abundance and then
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What about the mistake that a lot of athletes make?
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Because they also seem to end up sometimes with like...
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You can be the richest guy in the world and be a fucking dork.
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You can also be completely jacked, ripped, you know, alpha, have game, all those other
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So if you were looking at like a schedule of values of things in life, you have to be
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You have to be worldly, well-spoken and be able to be articulate in a conversation to
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communicate because a woman is really going to need communication because it's going to
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So you have to be stern and direct, but at the same time, a good communicator without
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I will never raise my voice at a woman, like a woman I'm seeing, I'll never raise my
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voice because it tells her that I'll go down to a child level.
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There has to be that dissonance because if she doesn't respect me, she's like, man, I
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So for me, a man has to handle all these different areas of his life and some of these buckets
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And that's what you'll see sometimes you'll see a guy get ran over the coals because he's
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So he had, let's say maybe fitness and money, but he didn't have all those other things
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like frame and things like that to make him a leader.
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And the next thing, you know, he's getting, he's getting divorced like that soccer player
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Well, but let's take any athlete that gets wrecked.
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They get wrecked because they, they look at that one bucket, particularly a money bucket.
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A lot of times you see a lot of fat, rich guys, they get comfortable.
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They think they're the big boss, but there's dudes out there competing in every category.
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And you have to, and you have to have the frame, right?
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