JustPearlyThings - The Only Thing That Pearl And Destiny Agree On

00:00:00.000 men love women under far less conditions than women love men that sounds like the opposite of

00:00:04.040 love to me well if you love under far less conditions that sounds like desperation i don't

00:00:08.180 want somebody that loves me for like one or two reasons or whatever right i want them to be a lot

00:00:12.460 of reasons why they love me but what i'm saying see that's that's what i was saying earlier that's

00:00:16.700 what i was saying earlier i feel like men it's like i'm gonna butcher this i know i know but

00:00:25.120 it's like i feel like when men love women it's like it's more common for them to be the fiancee

00:00:30.800 in the situation where it's like women have more conditions for them to be like really in love so 1.00

00:00:35.120 when they're really in love they're like super in love but the average girl like isn't yeah but then 0.95

00:00:41.220 it comes down to semantic of like what does it mean to be more in love right like if somebody tells me

00:00:45.320 like i love you and it's like well why um because i think you're funny and i'm like okay what else

00:00:50.180 i don't know i just think you're really funny and that's it it's like okay but it's not like oh i

00:00:54.060 love you because you're you know tall good at volleyball red hair if they've got like runs a 0.98

00:01:00.340 good studio they have like 20 reasons like oh wow this person really loves me you know that's what

00:01:03.920 would be my feeling but then it's like well what does it mean to love more there well in that case

00:01:07.520 men love more i've never had a guy care about my studio i don't know i don't know you well enough

00:01:12.260 okay i'm just drawing into whatever i see here it's more like a love at first sight that's more of a

00:01:16.660 simple love yeah the more immediate they're more likely to fall in love faster quicker type of thing

00:01:22.000 but then it's a question of like who loves more than if you fall into love with every person you

00:01:25.640 meet because you think they look good is that loving more than somebody that's like well i love

00:01:29.140 a very specific person but i love them a lot you know i almost i feel like people fall in love based

00:01:33.060 on how the other makes them feel at least from a woman's point of view do you think that's true for

00:01:37.780 men and that just hormones and chemistry well i mean no control yeah i mean that's probably true for

00:01:41.740 everybody right like how you feel about somebody is how they make you feel about them

00:01:44.800 yeah is that for a man to love a woman she does not have to jump us through as many hoops and meet

00:01:50.720 as many requirements as for a woman needs to love a man so in other words the guy's got to reach a 0.55

00:01:55.580 certain level to even be acknowledged by the woman however that woman she could be mediocre and still 1.00

00:02:00.700 get the garner the love from a man who's superior to in every way which you know from a biological

00:02:04.600 standpoint that makes sense because men date down and women date up so we make this question

00:02:07.860 criticizing women for having standards yeah i'm not sure it's always what it is yeah i don't think

00:02:12.340 it's criticizing i think it's describing he's literally i think it's i think it's true you

00:02:16.720 don't think that's true he's literally writing a book called women deserve less i think i think

00:02:21.820 he's saying the standards are too high oh come on that's funny that's funny you know that's you're

00:02:26.320 laughing that's funny it's like you can't jesus it's funny but i mean i'm saying it's like yesterday

00:02:33.320 wait there's semantics do you remember that you asked a question yesterday at the end of that

00:02:37.040 tate interview where you were like do you think that um jokes are just jokes or something and it's

00:02:41.100 like yeah they're jokes but they always like hint at something true so yeah i think people in the

00:02:45.400 red pill communities the generally i thought is that women's standards are too high who would read 0.99

00:02:49.660 a book like that presumably not women and then men just get the idea that we need less how is that

00:02:54.320 going to help them i'm confused i'm gonna i'm gonna buy the book i'm sure i'm gonna buy it yeah okay

00:02:59.080 well you can let us know i guess i'll give you guys my summary that's great you'll have it in your

00:03:03.860 bookshelf right next to your own self-published like pearl's guide to whale hunting or whatever

00:03:07.600 right i never even thought about writing a book but you know what maybe i will gotcha it won't be

00:03:14.060 whale hunting it'll be it'll be well spotting it'll be like whale defending oh okay gotcha

00:03:19.880 tenderless who loves more somebody with high standards or low standards all else equal

00:03:23.600 because that's what you're essentially saying obviously the person with high standards loves

00:03:26.740 more because you're being more selective of your partner so of course you're gonna love that

00:03:29.600 partner more but that's kind of what i was saying with the jacket okay it's 100 contingent upon the

00:03:34.580 other party's ability to provide and uh and perform is my point like a woman doesn't have a 1.00

00:03:39.700 burden of performance to garner love from her man i mean if you're telling guys to like look for a

00:03:44.020 woman that's just young and can cook then of course there's no burden of performance yeah but 1.00

00:03:47.420 again like how much of love is that like i love you so much like why because i can cook and

00:03:50.680 i'm young like you can find a million girls that can cook in here if you get two reasons for it 1.00

00:03:54.160 then like yeah that is true but what i'm saying is that if you take a majority of men versus a

00:03:59.040 majority of women a majority of men would like a majority of women however a majority of women

00:04:03.740 definitely don't like a majority of men yeah i agree that's why i think women love more because

00:04:07.220 when they pick somebody they're selective about it they put more time and energy into it for sure

00:04:10.320 whereas for a guy the woman is a lot more replaceable so i think what myron is trying to

00:04:13.880 say though is that like if guys stop doing the things like if a guy's jobless for like two years

00:04:20.120 the girl's gone basically so like how do how do women love more if if the guy stops doing that 1.00

00:04:27.300 stuff i feel like this is more or less this is like differently it's more intelligently more planned

00:04:32.680 or thought of and then more simply on that and and the side of the men but i mean but i mean simply

00:04:38.800 can be charming to like fall in love with someone with that connection without really putting a lot of

00:04:43.600 thought into it it's not necessarily inherently evil or something but the fact that women feel like they 1.00

00:04:48.960 have to take more things off so like they feel safe i suppose it's also valid yeah i feel like

00:04:55.140 it's it's hard because it's so subjective i might be an outlier here but i really don't like the concept

00:05:00.680 of unconditional love like i have worked pretty hard in my life to accomplish a certain amount of

00:05:06.020 things i've worked pretty hard to present myself in a certain way i would hope that the person that

00:05:09.840 loves me loves me for those things and if i just became some type of slob that lived at home and did

00:05:15.220 nothing all day and was jobless for two years and didn't do anything that they would probably not

00:05:19.560 love me anymore because if they did then what like what if what if your wife got fat would you feel 0.99

00:05:24.000 like that's the equivalent um i like 300 pounds are you okay 300 pounds we're gonna roll that ass 0.99

00:05:30.140 down the stairs you're gone okay but if she got a conditional both ways well i feel like that's the 0.91

00:05:35.820 equivalent as a woman gaining a ton of weight well no no she's gone she said she's gone he agrees with 1.00

00:05:40.600 me leave the whales at 300 pounds leave the whales he agrees at 300 pounds yeah of course because

00:05:48.180 you're talking about that's like if i was where's the cutoff what like 200 250 like when are you

00:05:53.200 leaving i don't know i don't mind somebody that's chubby if she got like chubby that'd be fine i'm not

00:05:56.820 with her just because of the way that she looks there's a whole other set of things got like a 30 1.00

00:06:00.140 pounds but she's she's there's a lot of things about her that i like like she's into working out 0.97

00:06:05.440 she's into doing outdoorsy stuff she likes to go adventuring traveling my guess is that if she

00:06:08.980 became 300 pounds she's probably not doing any of that anymore right so there's other things that

00:06:13.180 are yeah there's other things that are changing for her to become a 300 pound person yeah but 1.00

00:06:17.380 come on 300 you know you know even if she was still doing that stuff at 300 pounds you'd be gone 1.00

00:06:23.480 i already told you 300 is way over the line leave the whales man leave the he agrees with me 0.92

00:06:28.440 no i don't think no because i don't know if we i am so glad we're on the same team must be

00:06:33.440 very good 300 is a lot wouldn't you agree i like how earlier she was like why do you have to make

00:06:39.000 it an abuse analogy and then now she's like well what if she weighs 300 pounds well that's conditional 1.00

00:06:43.760 just like what you said before no no i just said i just said what about 200 250 i said how much

00:06:50.320 lee weight it's not my fault you wouldn't answer the question i did i said that i don't mind somebody

00:06:54.000 that's like chubby so i said okay so 30 pounds i don't know what she would look like 1.00

00:06:58.020 with 30 pounds more it's fine 30 pounds more okay he has just convinced me instead of leave

00:07:02.600 the whales leave the orcas too oh my god leave the hippos i think at first i was just i was just

00:07:10.040 gonna say whales and whales is like 250 270 plus roughly but now i'm gonna add to it just because

00:07:16.560 of you gotcha thank you would you leave your guy if he gained 200 pounds

00:07:20.440 um you would i actually don't come oh my god the biggest cap no i i dated a guy that was

00:07:26.460 significantly bigger than me yeah would you now i didn't ask in your past i'm saying right now

00:07:30.360 would you date a guy and then he gained weight and he weighed 300 350 pounds

00:07:32.960 um three that's a no i wouldn't say you can leave the men whale too okay so male and female whales

00:07:39.620 are getting ditched i think it would depend on at what point in the relationship you are because if

00:07:43.900 i'm like 70 and my partner gets really large for some medical reason i probably wouldn't leave them

00:07:49.140 because i've built a whole life with them sure but really as much of a problem but obviously at this

00:07:52.940 point in my life i would because you want that attraction i feel like i do feel like once you have

00:07:57.500 kids it's not about you anymore so i will say the kids if i had children i'd probably you know

00:08:04.220 i'd be like go to the gym let's go running you know let's go 300 pounds i'll just i'll just start

00:08:10.440 to feed them less you know what i mean i'll just like it would depend on how they got to that weight

00:08:15.360 right like what things caused that to happen and are there personality changes can i have a second

00:08:21.920 plate i'll be like oh we're out of food yeah that's you go to the mcdonald's for you and your

00:08:26.520 two kids you get three happy meals right i don't put a log on the fridge like they do with the

00:08:32.700 biggest losing weight people that's why even sneaker here was like oh you know you might step out of

00:08:37.080 another or whatever it's like okay well how much do you actually love your woman you're willing to do

00:08:40.380 something like that like that has nothing to do with how what about you like how much do you

00:08:44.140 actually couldn't i say that to you don't you actually love your women if you're willing to step

00:08:47.540 out on her well but we have the same rules yeah but isn't that the it's the same question see it's

00:08:52.920 like he doesn't answer the question no i think it's if you have the same set of rules on both

00:08:57.020 sides and it shows that you engage with the topic in a different way i don't associate the people

00:09:00.320 that i have sex with i don't associate that with like hardcore love that's just for me that just

00:09:04.660 doesn't work that way right that's i was gonna make your mom joke um no but the um he's gonna bully 1.00

00:09:10.420 me yeah i was he's always bullying i am but but if you but if you believe that like love and sex go 0.89

00:09:15.420 together and that's why your girl's not allowed to sleep around but you are that type of discrepancy 1.00

00:09:20.260 it doesn't work for me you don't think women are like tie more emotion to sex than men do i think

00:09:25.980 on like average probably okay so that's you wouldn't see why it's different then if you would

00:09:30.820 agree that like by and large women tie emotion more to sex on average but the difference i don't think

00:09:36.460 let me oh let me answer your question before you railroad me down the well if they engage with

00:09:40.900 sex differently when in an open relationship okay i don't appreciate the mocking okay but that's

00:09:44.860 what you're trying to railroad me to let me respond to your question did i mock you okay if you want

00:09:49.240 to lay out your whole kingdom before i tear it down go ahead yeah go ahead as many of you know i was

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JustPearlyThings - April 30, 2023

The Only Thing That Pearl And Destiny Agree On

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